So you know those days when you just don't feel like anything you do is good enough? and you're not giving enough to anybody (dh, ds, work). nobody is fucking satisfied ever. it's...
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never ever good enough. yeah. today is one of those days. as was yesterday. and the day before. and the day before that...
posted January 31st, 2013 at 9:50pm in
Toddler
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- welcome to my life 1-31-2013 9:52pm
- That's precisely why I became a SAH 1-31-2013 9:52pm
- So now you are perfect wife/mom? 1-31-2013 9:52pm
- No. But life doesn't seem as impossible. And we're all one thousand times happier 1-31-2013 9:54pm
- DITTO 1-31-2013 9:57pm
- That's a real issue- have you takked to a therapist? 1-31-2013 9:52pm
- yup. today was dh's birthday. He worked a long day but I did my best - one of the gifts didn't fit right and he bascially said "my birthday sucked". :( 1-31-2013 9:53pm
- whoa 1-31-2013 9:53pm
- he was cranky and tired and hangry but....he rallied later and said thank you for the big gift that was fine. 1-31-2013 9:54pm
- I do not care for adults whinging about birthdays. 1-31-2013 9:55pm
- OR: me either, esp when someone makes an effort. 1-31-2013 9:57pm
- You sound spread too thin. Can you cut back or hire some extra help? 1-31-2013 9:53pm
- well, i already work so i can pay my nanny so i can work. but i don't make enough $ and contribute financially to the household, as dh says (forgetting that i buy groceries 8 out...(more) 1-31-2013 9:56pm
of 10 times, do all the cooking, cleaning, etc.). he resents my job b/c he says it takes time away from him (b/c i check email on my phone or handle our company's social media), and if i sahm, i'm sure he'll resent it still b/c he'll realize that i do, in fact contribute, then i wouldn't be anymore. so i'm damned if i do, damned if i don't
- He needs a kick in the arse 1-31-2013 9:58pm
- I'm so sorry. You know, I feel this too. So I've decided there are some things that I'm just ok not being good enough at. It's impossible to do it all. So I have tried just to...(more) 1-31-2013 9:53pm
be ok with that and to be more focused in my efforts.
- ME TOO!! 1-31-2013 9:54pm
- It's OK, Tina. Sssshh. We still love you. 1-31-2013 9:56pm
- btdt. in fact, on the verge of been there, doing it. 1-31-2013 9:58pm
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