You will probably flame me- but I've never give a BJ - the mere thought even makes me feel sick
posted March 20th, 2012 at 2:39pm in Toddler
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- why do we care 3-20-2012 2:39pm
- you can say that by every posting 3-20-2012 2:40pm
- are you a dh? 3-20-2012 2:39pm +4 likes
- wow. 3-20-2012 2:40pm
- who gives your dh blowjobs, then? 3-20-2012 2:40pm
- he enjoys plenty of other stuff- but doesn't really care that I don't 3-20-2012 2:40pm
- you didn't answer the question. 3-20-2012 2:41pm
- no one- we are monogomous 3-20-2012 2:43pm
- has he ever gotten one from anyone? and does he eat your pussy? 3-20-2012 2:44pm
- never - we were both virgins when we married and are strictly monogomous- he'll do everything to me- and we both enjoy that- I guess I am lucky 3-20-2012 2:46pm
- You're lucky because he doesn't know what he's missing. Ignorance is bliss 3-20-2012 2:48pm
- I like him ignorant then 3-20-2012 2:49pm
- i shudder at the thought of your vanilla sex 3-20-2012 2:53pm
- sex is amazing for my dh and myself. I hope the same is for you- bjs and all 3-20-2012 2:58pm
- you have NOTHING to compare it to. lol. 3-20-2012 2:59pm
- that's the way I like it- monogomous sex is amazing 3-20-2012 3:02pm
- you have NOTHING to compare it to. lol. 3-20-2012 2:59pm
- sex is amazing for my dh and myself. I hope the same is for you- bjs and all 3-20-2012 2:58pm
- You're lucky because he doesn't know what he's missing. Ignorance is bliss 3-20-2012 2:48pm
- never - we were both virgins when we married and are strictly monogomous- he'll do everything to me- and we both enjoy that- I guess I am lucky 3-20-2012 2:46pm
- has he ever gotten one from anyone? and does he eat your pussy? 3-20-2012 2:44pm
- lol 3-20-2012 2:48pm
- no one- we are monogomous 3-20-2012 2:43pm
- if you believe that then I have some great beach front property in Iowa to sell you 3-20-2012 2:42pm
- you didn't answer the question. 3-20-2012 2:41pm
- he enjoys plenty of other stuff- but doesn't really care that I don't 3-20-2012 2:40pm
- don't worry I give your dh plenty of them 3-20-2012 2:40pm +2 likes
- lol 3-20-2012 2:41pm
- you don't have to if you don't want to. but haven't you ever wanted to at least try it? it's kind of awesome to make a guy feel that awesome 3-20-2012 2:40pm
- he feels awesome in so many other ways 3-20-2012 2:41pm
- i'm not saying he doesn't and if that's what works for you guys, then cool. just saying it's one more trick in the bag. :) 3-20-2012 2:41pm
- np: this is completely off topic, but these were really nice replies. I seldom see that here. I hope you have a fantastic day. 3-20-2012 2:43pm
- hey, thanks. i've been trying to be nice here lately. i've been mean in the past and i don't like it. enjoy your afternoon. :) 3-20-2012 2:44pm +1 like
- he feels awesome in so many other ways 3-20-2012 2:41pm
- Are you married? I would flame your dh more 3-20-2012 2:40pm
- im jealous... How did you manage getting away with never doing that? 3-20-2012 2:40pm -1 dislike
- my dh is very good about it- he enjoys going down on me a lot and loves everything else (esp. likes when I'm on top and more assertive) but is completely ok with no bjs 3-20-2012 2:42pm
- so beta 3-20-2012 2:43pm
- oh for the love of god. either he is gay or fucking around on you. NO man would be okay with this. 3-20-2012 2:45pm
- Np: maybe he gets laid well and often. I'm sure my dh would give up bjs if he got 4+ days a week of sex 3-20-2012 2:47pm
- lol- definitely not gay- I can vouch for him- he enjoys when we have sex very very much-- his body says it as much as he does himself 3-20-2012 2:47pm
- my dh is very good about it- he enjoys going down on me a lot and loves everything else (esp. likes when I'm on top and more assertive) but is completely ok with no bjs 3-20-2012 2:42pm
- That is INSANE to me! I hate doing it, but to NEVER ever have given one!?! 3-20-2012 2:40pm
- never 3-20-2012 2:43pm
- Man I have a very elaborate fantasy about giving dh a bj, but he probably wouldn't do it....(more) 3-20-2012 2:41pm +1 like
- np i bet he'd do this in a second. esp. blindfolded. bf and i do this and it's as hot as you're imagining it is. :) 3-20-2012 2:43pm
- In my fantasy it gets pretty rough...(more) 3-20-2012 2:45pm
- i do it wrong 3-20-2012 2:45pm
- :) get him drunk and ask him for it. actually...beg him for it. and have the gear available. long silk scarf to tie your hands, blindfold, sexy panties, heels, nothing else 3-20-2012 2:46pm
- ^^ then again one reason i'm divorced is because my dh refused to dominate me even a little bit and it wrecked our sex life. bf is very dominant and it's fantastic. 3-20-2012 2:47pm
- dh will do a bit, but not as much as I'd like. Probably a good thing 3-20-2012 2:48pm
- it's not a good thing if it's not enough for you to feel satisfied 3-20-2012 2:49pm
- Well, but I'm worried if both of us were really into it, where would it stop you know? 3-20-2012 2:50pm
- suddenly i'm hanging from the ceiling in a gimp suit ;) 3-20-2012 2:51pm
- lol 3-20-2012 2:55pm
- bf has free reign to dominate me in virtually any way he wants but we have ground rules, you know? you could talk about those in advance. 3-20-2012 2:55pm
- suddenly i'm hanging from the ceiling in a gimp suit ;) 3-20-2012 2:51pm
- Well, but I'm worried if both of us were really into it, where would it stop you know? 3-20-2012 2:50pm
- it's not a good thing if it's not enough for you to feel satisfied 3-20-2012 2:49pm
- dh will do a bit, but not as much as I'd like. Probably a good thing 3-20-2012 2:48pm
- ^^ then again one reason i'm divorced is because my dh refused to dominate me even a little bit and it wrecked our sex life. bf is very dominant and it's fantastic. 3-20-2012 2:47pm
- np: i need to get more imaginative 3-20-2012 3:31pm
- In my fantasy it gets pretty rough...(more) 3-20-2012 2:45pm
- Why do you think he wouldn't do this? Sounds hot 3-20-2012 2:44pm
- np i bet he'd do this in a second. esp. blindfolded. bf and i do this and it's as hot as you're imagining it is. :) 3-20-2012 2:43pm
- you don't even suck it a little before intercourse? 3-20-2012 2:41pm
- the idea makes me feel sick 3-20-2012 2:43pm
- wow. have you ever explored this issue? What grosses you out so much? 3-20-2012 2:44pm
- don't know- was never a psychological issue for me 3-20-2012 2:50pm
- you don't know? there has to be something 3-20-2012 2:51pm
- don't know and don't care. 3-20-2012 2:53pm
- okay. I think you do if you posted it but whatevs 3-20-2012 2:55pm
- I think what surprised me on ybm was in how many dw do bjs. I wonder if the numbers were as many in our parents generation or if porn made it more popular? 3-20-2012 2:57pm
- okay. I think you do if you posted it but whatevs 3-20-2012 2:55pm
- don't know and don't care. 3-20-2012 2:53pm
- you don't know? there has to be something 3-20-2012 2:51pm
- don't know- was never a psychological issue for me 3-20-2012 2:50pm
- that is not normal. were you sexually abused as a child? forced to give a blow job to someone? 3-20-2012 2:47pm
- no and no 3-20-2012 2:49pm
- wow. have you ever explored this issue? What grosses you out so much? 3-20-2012 2:44pm
- the idea makes me feel sick 3-20-2012 2:43pm
- maybe you are a lesbian 3-20-2012 2:42pm
- lesbians have issues with bj's. I have no interest of ever going down on a woman either. I'm strictly heterosexual and love sex otherwise. 3-20-2012 2:45pm
- dh's ex wife was like that too. 3-20-2012 2:43pm +2 likes
- watch some porn. It can be very hot 3-20-2012 2:44pm
- I never do them to completion, they are more a part of foreplay. Dh came in my mouth very early on and I told him honestly it was not for me. He was fine with it 3-20-2012 2:44pm
- I broke up with a guy because he said that going down on a girl grossed him out. That was a deal breaker for me. The idea that any part of my body is gross is a deal breaker. Does...(more) 3-20-2012 2:46pm
- he was gay! 3-20-2012 2:50pm
- I don't find his penis gross at all. I find putting his penis in my mouth gross. in my vagina (where it belongs) is fantastic 3-20-2012 2:51pm
- Why would I care? I'm not your loser DH. 3-20-2012 2:50pm
- it's so funny to me that the end all of sex for all of you is bjs. There's so much more in the bonding and even horny sex parts than that. 3-20-2012 2:52pm
- It's still a major part of a healthy sex life. 3-20-2012 2:53pm
- I guess for some but not all of us. 3-20-2012 2:54pm
- Clearly. 3-20-2012 3:30pm
- I guess for some but not all of us. 3-20-2012 2:54pm
- It's still a major part of a healthy sex life. 3-20-2012 2:53pm
- it's so funny to me that the end all of sex for all of you is bjs. There's so much more in the bonding and even horny sex parts than that. 3-20-2012 2:52pm
- You might want to rethink this. I can't tell you how many things I can get dh to do with even the suggestion that I might give him one later. 3-20-2012 2:52pm +2 likes
- you're after the power then 3-20-2012 2:54pm
- ^^ is that what this is all about? 3-20-2012 2:54pm
- no not at all but it can be a useful tool to have when needed. 3-20-2012 3:08pm
- I hear you 3-20-2012 3:15pm
- I can lessen the severity of any argument or lighten his mood he is in when I bring it up. It is my go to for any sticky situation. It is kind of an inside joke at this point...(more) 3-20-2012 3:24pm
- it's good to have in your pocket then 3-20-2012 3:29pm
- you're after the power then 3-20-2012 2:54pm