we have friends that have a dc whose birthday is around the same time as my dd. we have not had a birthday party before but are having one for her this year since she is 3. For the... (more)
past 2 yrs they have booked their dc's party on the weekend of her birthday, once on the actual day and then call us to say we hope you weren't planning on having a party on that day. This year they knew that we were going to have a 3rd birthday party, so they booked their party space back in July for a Nov party and called us and told us they booked it and not to book ours on that day. It happened to be the day I wanted but didn't book anyhting b/c it was July. We have all the same friends, now I had to book my dc's party 2 weeks after her actual party
posted October 3rd, 2008 at 5:25pm in Toddler
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- oh my f'n zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz 10-3-2008 5:26pm
- this is life. get used to it 10-3-2008 5:26pm
- SO WHAT??? she is 3 --will have no freakin idea 10-3-2008 5:26pm
- it's the idea that they do this every year 10-3-2008 5:27pm
- BOOK IT NOW FOR NEXT YEAR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 10-3-2008 5:28pm
- Why are you entitled to this weekend? I think it is nice that they even let you know. 10-3-2008 5:28pm
- ita 10-3-2008 5:28pm
- So call her next week and say that you have next year's party booked for that day. Get a jump on her. 10-3-2008 5:28pm
- it's the idea that they do this every year 10-3-2008 5:27pm
- Is she turning 3? Or are YOU turning 3? 10-3-2008 5:26pm
- lol 10-3-2008 5:28pm
- You could have booked it someplace else or booked it sooner. You do not own the weekend! 10-3-2008 5:26pm
- they booked back in July b/c they knew we had that day in mind and they wanted it 10-3-2008 5:27pm
- I think you are overdoing this. BIG SHIT--have it another weekend 10-3-2008 5:28pm
- Well then you should have booked it first. Better remember this for next year and call in May. 10-3-2008 5:28pm
- no. most people book early to make sure they have the time and date available 10-3-2008 5:28pm
- Seriously, my dd's b-day is in July and we have her party in the beginning of June when all of her friends are around. She loves that she gets two celebrations. Your dc's party would...(more) 10-3-2008 5:30pm
- they booked back in July b/c they knew we had that day in mind and they wanted it 10-3-2008 5:27pm
- There's two things here. First of all it's not their fault your kids have the same birhtday. Second, it was nice of them to tell you what day they booked. Third, it's your own fault...(more) 10-3-2008 5:28pm for not calling sooner and getting the party closer to your DD's birthday and ended up getting two weeks away. If you wanted it closer you could just have it at your house.
- Oops...that's three things. 10-3-2008 5:30pm
- the kid won't care. next year tell her you booked it, you don't have to actually do it 10-3-2008 5:28pm
- So not a big deal. My dc is having his party 3 weeks after his actual b-day this year. Nobody cares. 10-3-2008 5:28pm
- you can do it anyways, you don't need her approval 10-3-2008 5:28pm
- this would be a VERY bitchy thing to do and put all of their friends in a very uncomfortable situation 10-3-2008 5:30pm
- they sound very considering just to check with you 10-3-2008 5:29pm
- and? 10-3-2008 5:29pm
- Do yourself a favor - find something to do. 10-3-2008 5:30pm
- lol.. right..op you need to volunteer at a wellness center for women that have survived cancer..be with people that have real problems 10-3-2008 5:31pm
- ITA but at least start w/ scrapbooking or something... 10-3-2008 5:33pm
- no..start big..do for others 10-3-2008 5:34pm
- ITA but at least start w/ scrapbooking or something... 10-3-2008 5:33pm
- lol.. right..op you need to volunteer at a wellness center for women that have survived cancer..be with people that have real problems 10-3-2008 5:31pm
- Whatever. Just, really, whatever. 10-3-2008 5:30pm
- this whole post cracks me up. 10-3-2008 5:31pm
- the dead cat one is wierder 10-3-2008 5:33pm
- **blink** and the sound of crickets 10-3-2008 5:36pm