Cousin just had her third, looking at pic makes me want a third. However two are kinda killing me and my dh says he's done with 2. Should I push for a third or be happy with what I... (more)
have?
posted December 23rd, 2010 at 8:42pm in Toddler
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- discuss it at least 12-23-2010 8:43pm
- I am you... probably staying with2 12-23-2010 8:43pm
- ditto, but i know i will be staying with 2...just don't have the energy for another 12-23-2010 8:45pm
- if two are killing you three will do you in. why add to the stress? 12-23-2010 8:43pm
- Op - I know. It's just hard to imagine never having a newborn again... 12-23-2010 8:45pm
- What about a 3 year old? 12-23-2010 8:46pm
- Op - I know. It's just hard to imagine never having a newborn again... 12-23-2010 8:45pm
- happy with 2 12-23-2010 8:44pm
- How much money and help do you have, because it sure sounds like you're done. 12-23-2010 8:44pm
- think of yourself at 50. Are you going to regret that you didnt go for it? 12-23-2010 8:44pm
- Not a good perspective fro which to analyze. Think of yourself 2 years from now. Will you have lost your mind? 12-23-2010 8:46pm
- they are only little for a short while. you will know them as adults much longer. 12-23-2010 8:46pm
- Bit those years can break you and can fuck up your marriage 12-23-2010 8:47pm
- they are only little for a short while. you will know them as adults much longer. 12-23-2010 8:46pm
- Not a good perspective fro which to analyze. Think of yourself 2 years from now. Will you have lost your mind? 12-23-2010 8:46pm
- I've decided to be happy with my 2. I know intellectually that dh is right. 12-23-2010 8:44pm
- i want a third. we are just about ready to take the plunge and start trying. found dh looking back through old baby pictures of our 2 kids the other day, so that's a good sign. 12-23-2010 8:45pm
- How old are you? 12-23-2010 8:45pm
- 32. 12-23-2010 8:46pm
- ^but dh is 43. 12-23-2010 8:46pm
- you have lots of time to have a third---just space it well 12-23-2010 8:46pm
- 32. 12-23-2010 8:46pm
- if you can afford lots of help, and are willing to accept it, go for it. 12-23-2010 8:45pm
- How old are dcs? how old are you? 12-23-2010 8:46pm
- dont do it unless you are both totally enthused. super hard. btdt. 12-23-2010 8:46pm
- This 12-23-2010 8:47pm
- Op - if I could only guarantee it would be an easy baby....older 2 were so high maintenance! 12-23-2010 8:48pm
- OR: Doesnt matter if its the easiest third. Just having three creates major chaos and imbalance. 12-23-2010 8:49pm