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• b/c guys aren't needy and annoying like us 2-6-2009 7:53am
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  • My DH is way more needy than I am. I am the least needy person alive. 2-6-2009 7:54am
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    • women think they are, but your post says otherwise 2-6-2009 7:54am
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      • I'm needy because I want my DH to see our DC and work less than 16 hours a day? 2-6-2009 7:55am
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        • honey he has ajob in the middle of the worst economy possibly EVER. be grateful 2-6-2009 8:03am
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          • That will never come into my line of thinking. It's not relevant to our life. 2-6-2009 8:03am
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            • that's crazy. what does he do? 2-6-2009 8:04am
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              • He works for the government 2-6-2009 8:04am
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                • ah, are you Obama Transition Team mom? 2-6-2009 8:04am
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                  • I don't think I've ever been called such. 2-6-2009 8:05am
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                    • lol. no, but i think i remember you posting before and i've just named you. 2-6-2009 8:06am
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                      • Excellent, thanks. Now I'm tied to my DH's identity! (that's a joke, btw) 2-6-2009 8:07am
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• Don't threaten divorce unless you mean it. Otherwise, it's just provocation. 2-6-2009 7:54am
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  • ITTTTA, that is not something you threaten casually 2-6-2009 7:54am
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  • op: I couldn't agree more, I completely mean it. 2-6-2009 7:55am
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    • Have you guys tried marriage counseling? 2-6-2009 7:56am
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      • No, I've suggested it many times to no avail. 2-6-2009 7:56am
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    • honestly, I don't think you've thought it through. Divorce is hell. 2-6-2009 8:02am
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      • I've said 2 things, how do you know what I've been thinking about? Discussing with my lawyer? Discussing with my therapist? 2-6-2009 8:03am
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        • ok, ok. I just know a lot of women who have divorce remorse, so I worry when people throw that word around. 2-6-2009 8:03am
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          • It's not that I want to get divorce, but if our lives are not going to change then I am more than willing to do it. 2-6-2009 8:06am
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            • is it solely a time issue? is he a good dh/parent in the minimum time he is with you guys? 2-6-2009 8:07am
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              • He's not a bad father by any means, but he's just never here. It's difficult to be a good parent when you haven't seen your DC in weeks. 2-6-2009 8:08am
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                • I agree with you. and it's never going to change in the next 4-8 years? 2-6-2009 8:10am
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                  • I would doubt it. I'd like to hope, but hope isn't a solution. 2-6-2009 8:10am
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• Frankly, reading the way you jump down people's throat in this post, I think you might be kinda hard to deal with for your DH. 2-6-2009 8:04am
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  • If you think I'm jumping down anyone's throat you are way too sensitive. 2-6-2009 8:05am
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    • He's more into his job and responsibilities than he is the kids. This is not unusual. You should have been more explicit about your expectations in the run-up to having children. You're...(more) 2-6-2009 8:08am
      switching gears on him, probably,, if you look at it from his point of view.

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      • No, not at all. I've always been EXPLICIT in what I want from him as a husband and father. He's the one that's changed gears. But thanks for assuming. 2-6-2009 8:09am
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        • So you're saying he's suddenly working more? 2-6-2009 8:09am
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          • God, yes. And it's been building up for a while. 2-6-2009 8:10am
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            • I'm confused. His workload has been building? So it's not all of a sudden? 2-6-2009 8:11am
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              • It built up for a while and then it kind of exploded a year ago or so. 2-6-2009 8:12am
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              • ^^^ and if you've always been explicit, how could he be surprised at how angry you were. Something's not adding up. 2-6-2009 8:12am
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                • I don't think he's surprised at my anger, I think he's surprised that I'd actually get divorced. 2-6-2009 8:12am
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                  • NP so what is going to happen next? did this fix the problem - will he work less or will you divorce? 2-6-2009 8:15am
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                    • I told him to think about it and we'll talk in a few days. I don't want him to cut back to 8 hour days, I know that's not realistic. But he has to make at least a few changes. 2-6-2009 8:16am
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