Expecting

  1. Expecting Feel awful for those poor people on that ferry. The kids were told to stay put which is...(more) 4-18-2014 9:37am (4 replies)
    Why so many got trapped on board
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    • awful 4-18-2014 9:39am
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    • People listen to stupid advice in tragic incidences. Just like 9/11 4-18-2014 9:40am
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      • however....in the high rise apartments that are new, you're supposed to stay in your apartment. the guy on the west side who didnt, died. 4-18-2014 9:42am
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    • Happned on 9/11 as well 4-18-2014 9:40am
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  2. Expecting Weight lifting kicks my ass more than any other exercise. Am I just a wimp? 4-2-2014 7:05pm (1 reply)
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  3. Expecting Wwyt of a man with two ex-wives who cheated on him? Well, this is a distant cousin. 1st wife is married to her affair, not sure what 2nd one...(more) 4-2-2014 6:57pm (5 replies)
    one will do. Am I cynical to assume he was cheating too? It just seems like far too big of a coincidence that both his exwives were cheaters. Bored. Just humor me.
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    • He prob cheated too 4-2-2014 6:59pm
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      • I know it's none of my business but the whole situation is so crazy. 4-2-2014 7:00pm
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        • Does he look like a player? 4-2-2014 7:02pm
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          • He is very out-going and well off, i can see how women might be drawn to him but i am making assumptions. 4-2-2014 7:03pm
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            • Well-off is pretty much all the evidence I need :) 4-2-2014 7:13pm
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  4. Expecting K aged Ds keeps asking for a play date with popular boy. I woh and pick up 2 days a week when this kid seems to always booked. Help...(more) 3-25-2014 10:41am (12 replies)
    Help with how to make this work? I fear rejection for ds because I'm insecure myself but want to make it successful for ds. Social anxiety.
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    • move on to someone else 3-25-2014 10:41am
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      • Really? Ok. 3-25-2014 10:42am
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      • But he keeps asking for this kid 3-25-2014 10:43am
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        • you can just be honest, sorry ds but your friend can't come for a playdate because he is busy the days we are free. have fun together at school 3-25-2014 10:44am
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    • i am being honest here: don't call it a playdate in your head, that inbues it with all kind of meaning, basically your ds wants to invite a kid over to play after school. just say...(more) 3-25-2014 10:43am
      to the mom, hey my ds wants johnny to come over to play. I can do tues, thurs or sat. do you have one open in the next two months? do you have her phone number, text is easier if you are nervous
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      • ^^^and if it doesn't work out, honestly, it is probably them, not you. everyone has busy schedules. 3-25-2014 10:43am
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        • Yeah, another outgoing boy is always asking the mom directly if h...(more) 3-25-2014 10:46am
          The is can do a play date so we are always too late.
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          • you need to have it set up in advance. ask the mom, hey can i get your number and we can work out a couple dates we are both free 3-25-2014 10:47am
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    • At this age I still don't do drop off playdates, especially if I don't know the people. maybe suggest meeting at the park, we do that a lot at our school 3-25-2014 10:46am
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      • We are neighbors and the boy has come over before. It's just hard breaking in with the other more connected kids and parents 3-25-2014 10:49am
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        • Just send an email to the parents and see about setting it up. You are over analyzing this. 3-25-2014 11:04am
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    • Just ask. If he's not available, move on. You can't get personally invested in this stuff. 3-25-2014 10:56am
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  5. Expecting An old school friend recently had major surgery and I sent her a gift. Now she called me desperate and looking for $20k loan. It's sad. I could easily write the check but I'm...(more) 3-24-2014 6:45pm (52 replies)
    afraid she will never stop asking if I do.
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    • bizarre, who does this? 3-24-2014 6:46pm
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    • Well, if you can EASILY write a 20k check no surprise she went to you! 3-24-2014 6:46pm
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      • I know but should I???? 3-24-2014 6:46pm
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        • what is it for? 3-24-2014 6:47pm
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        • np: No. 3-24-2014 6:47pm
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        • Depends what she need it for and how well you know her. If you consider her a friend then do what you could afford, if not, tell her you not is a position to help right now. 3-24-2014 6:48pm
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    • is this money for the surgery? 3-24-2014 6:46pm
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      • She is divorced with a 2yo. She is 48yo w loser bf. declared bankruptcy and needs rent, car pmnt, etc 3-24-2014 6:47pm
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        • sad :( does she work? Does he work? 3-24-2014 6:49pm
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          • She can't work for about two weeks due to surgery. Disability requires 6mo of non work. 3-24-2014 6:58pm
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            • so give her 2 weeks pay or if your feeling generous, a months rent. 3-24-2014 6:59pm
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        • does she work? 3-24-2014 6:49pm
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        • what if you gave her 6 months of payments until she can get back on her feet? 3-24-2014 6:49pm
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        • yeah, without a spreadsheet showing how this is just a short-term cash flow crisis, and that she'll be able to pay you back in instalments starting on X date, I wouldn't do it....(more) 3-24-2014 6:50pm
          She'll run through that $20K instantly and be back for more and then what will you say? You'll be out $20K and a friend.
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          • np-If I were that rich and a friend needed 20k just to survive, I think I'd giv it without a thought, as a gift. 3-24-2014 6:51pm
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            • np: but is she really helping by doing this? Are we sure there isn't more backstory to this? Is loser bf a druggie? 3-24-2014 6:52pm
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              • np-if what she needs is rent money then yes, she is solving the issue until her friend can get back on her feet. 3-24-2014 6:53pm
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                • or just delaying the inevitable. 3-24-2014 6:55pm
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                  • op knows her friend, sounds like a woman down on her luck to me. 3-24-2014 6:56pm
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                    • Op knows her friend and is questioning what she should do. 3-24-2014 6:57pm
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              • np, if i thought the if were drug money, than no. but if a few months of rent could help her why not? 3-24-2014 6:54pm
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              • if you would give to an anonymous charity than why not a friend? 3-24-2014 6:55pm
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            • or - but just because it doesn't mean anything to OP, doesn't mean it means nothing to her friend. Sometimes giving people money just delays the inevitable, they need to hit rock...(more) 3-24-2014 6:54pm
              bottom before really realizing that they need to change their lifestyle and dig themselves out of debt.
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              • that woman has a toddler, had major surgery and is poor...she doesn't need a lesson, she needs help. 3-24-2014 6:55pm
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                • this 100x, what is wrong with people? 3-24-2014 7:02pm
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                  • idk, it's so condescending. 3-24-2014 7:03pm
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                    • I can understand if she were a drug addict, but major surgery, time off no pay and 2 yr old? I cant imagine saying no to a friend if a could 'easily' write a check. 3-24-2014 7:07pm
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                  • np: I think I'm having a hard time with the idea of just handing someone cash. If I had control over what it went to, I might feel better about it... like if I was certain it was...(more) 3-24-2014 7:05pm
                    going to rent. Or if I could just buy groceries for them directly, that would be better imo.
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                    • ^but I know I can't just hand someone money and tell them where to put it. 3-24-2014 7:06pm
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                      • nope, you cant 3-24-2014 7:08pm
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                        • and that's where my dilemma would lie. I vote for buying the family groceries for awhile. 3-24-2014 7:08pm
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                          • Do you need to pick the food as well? Make sure its nothing 'too good' for her and her poor family. I hate people like this. 3-24-2014 7:10pm
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                            • beggars can't be choosers. Op herself is questioning what would be most helpful. Handing someone money is great, but not if they make poor choices with it. Like someone said, you...(more) 3-24-2014 7:13pm
                              could just be prolonging the inevitable.
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                              • what is the inevitable? 3-24-2014 7:16pm
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                                • who knows. I need to know more about these people. 3-24-2014 7:18pm
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                          • Why cant people just give unconditionally if money is no objct and its a friend? 3-24-2014 7:11pm
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                            • because depending on the situation, you might not actually be helping. I don't know op's friend. I don't know what kinds of choices she makes. Based solely on what op has told us,...(more) 3-24-2014 7:14pm
                              this is what I'd be most comfortable offering.
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                          • Yet you'll give 20k to strangers or an already rich organization for the tax write off correct? 3-24-2014 7:13pm
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                            • That's an awful lot of money for me, so no. 3-24-2014 7:14pm
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                              • I thought you said you could easily wwrite the check? In that case, give what you could afford to lose, im sure even 1k would be appreciated 3-24-2014 7:17pm
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                                • no, I'm not op. 3-24-2014 7:18pm
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                      • makes sense if you truly think they'll use it poorly, like my mil who would just go clothes shopping. But think about when you donate to charity: how much goes through person who...(more) 3-24-2014 7:09pm
                        needs help and how much to CEO with a $$$$ salary? It's a general gift, used for either very good purpose directly or rather good.
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                        • ^^^and personally I'd feel bad not helping the 2yo who needs help, when you know what goes on in shelters. 3-24-2014 7:10pm
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                      • generousity is not about contro 3-24-2014 7:09pm
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          • If she is really a friend, I'd just give what I am willing to lose and call it day, deosnt have to be 20k. 3-24-2014 6:52pm
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    • 20k loan. wow. 3-24-2014 6:46pm
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    • Can you write me a check? I'll never ask again. 3-24-2014 6:46pm
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    • so bizarre. Who does this? 3-24-2014 6:47pm
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    • Did she say what she needed the money for? 3-24-2014 6:47pm
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  6. Expecting Fucking worst day ever to go to the car wash 3-8-2014 11:01am (8 replies)
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    • Yes and they'll do a rushed job too 3-8-2014 11:01am
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      • the tragedy 3-8-2014 11:02am
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        • np: the sorrow and the pity 3-8-2014 11:03am
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      • Dh wanted his done so here I sit in line 3-8-2014 11:03am
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        • really. are you asking to be flamed. where the f is dh? 3-8-2014 11:03am
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          • Running errands with my car and dc 3-8-2014 11:04am
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            • Im in the sedan. He in the suv 3-8-2014 11:05am
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        • Owner is grinning ear to ear though 3-8-2014 11:03am
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  7. Expecting Selling brand new kelty kids TC 3.0 backpack. retails $275. selling $125 black & gray color (uws location) 2-26-2014 8:34am (0 replies)
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  8. Expecting Feeling super constipated... Any advice? I'm a little worried about taking colace while preg but not sure what else can help... can hardly sit on a chair.. please help 2-24-2014 12:45pm (8 replies)
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    • i feel for you, but i am confused - why does sitting on a chair bother you? 2-24-2014 12:46pm
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      • it's kind of gross... but it's just stuck there very low so it hurts to sit. for some reason it is not coming out no matter how much time I spend in the bathroom :) 2-24-2014 12:52pm
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    • stewed fruit, dried fruit TONS of water, lentils, veggies, apples, mango 2-24-2014 12:46pm
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    • 1. Suppository. 2. Take 2-4 colace daily. It's the only thing that is safe in pergnancy....(more) 2-24-2014 12:47pm
      Believe me, you do NOT want hemorrhoids.
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    • is colace harmful? 2-24-2014 12:47pm
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      • I'm not sure... just try to stay away from meds while preg unless completely necessary.... 2-24-2014 12:53pm
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    • taco bell!! 2-24-2014 12:53pm
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      • hehe.. does it work? 2-24-2014 1:55pm
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  9. Expecting Would like db to come soon. 41 weeks and 1 day. Dilated to at least 4cm. Tips? 2-23-2014 5:31pm (12 replies)
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    • sex, walk. You may be only a day or two away, good luck! 2-23-2014 5:32pm
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    • this was me. i ended up with a c 2-23-2014 5:32pm
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    • get a foot massage right now. worked for me and 3 girl friends. are you in boston area? If so, i can give you the name of the place we all went to! 2-23-2014 5:34pm
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      • I used to be! Wish I still was. Good to hear. Do you mean you went to a pedicure place or a massage place? 2-23-2014 5:35pm
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    • op - also get pretty paranoid when I don't feel db move. Anyway to deal with that? 2-23-2014 5:40pm
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      • np - there is no room in there now. Get a home doppler if you're really paranoid. 2-23-2014 5:41pm
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        • Lots of movement earlier today. I will just be patient. Thanks. 2-23-2014 5:44pm
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    • What psychotic person disliked this? 2-23-2014 5:43pm
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    • That was me at 41 weeks, I was induced 2-23-2014 5:46pm
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  10. Expecting Create good life with cell phone jammer...(more) 2-21-2014 2:14am (0 replies)
    With the improvement of technology,there are more and more electronic products appear in people's daily life.We have to admit that the mobile phone make our modern life better and more convenient.However the cell phone sometimes cause new problems and breaks up people's peaceful life.To create a quiet condition, the frequency jammer which can be got from http://www.jammerfromchina.com can help a lot.
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  11. Expecting Could you recommend a good endocrinologist in NYC who specializes in GD? 2-13-2014 7:45pm (4 replies)
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    • pediatric? 2-13-2014 7:46pm
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    • gestational diabetes? 2-13-2014 7:47pm
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    • I have seen all of the top endo in Manhattan and they all SUCK. Find someone young who takes your insurance 2-13-2014 7:50pm
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  12. Expecting Did anyone take glyburide for GD? Any side effects? Can't decide between insulin and glyburide, but the dr is pushing for glyburide. Thanks. 2-12-2014 2:00pm (2 replies)
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    • I'd start with oral medications if possible. I've been a type 1 diabetic for 20+ years, have had 3 pregnancies, and it can be hard to accurately predict insulin action during...(more) 2-12-2014 2:02pm
      pregnancy. You could eat the exact same thing, have the exact same level of physical activity, and depending on the gestational age, you could easily take too much or too little insulin. If oral meds are effective for you, start with that. Much lower learning curve.
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      • any possible side effects for the baby though? that's what I am worried about. 2-12-2014 7:34pm
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  13. Expecting I'm 24 weeks pregnant and the baby measures 97%. What can this mean? Totally freaking out here... 2-11-2014 9:20pm (23 replies)
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    • lol what are you freaking out about? 2-11-2014 9:21pm
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      • Probably that he's going to rip a whole through her to get out 2-11-2014 9:22pm
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        • i had 2 9-pounders and i'm tiny. i was fine. so is my vagina 2-11-2014 9:23pm
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      • what if there is something wrong with it? Like that huge baby they had article about on CNN... some horrible health issue that I am not aware of and that is why it is so big.... 2-11-2014 9:36pm
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    • Giant 2-11-2014 9:21pm
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    • That his thermometer will pop in 3% 2-11-2014 9:21pm
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    • It's probably going to be big. Although my ds was measuring 2 weeks ahead the whole time, delivered the day before due date and he was "only" 8lbs 9oz. I was 100% certain of my...(more) 2-11-2014 9:22pm
      ovulation date. But he was a big baby and now at 4yo, is still 95% for height and 75% for weight.
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      • 8 pounds, 9 ounces isn't really a "big" baby-pretty average size. A big baby is 9 1/2 pounds plus. 2-11-2014 9:29pm
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    • 97% of what? Normal? 2-11-2014 9:22pm
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    • my ds measured 99 percentile and in the end he was 6.10 with a 99 percentile head 2-11-2014 9:22pm
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    • freak out if they say it's 5% or 110%. don't look for trouble 2-11-2014 9:22pm
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      • I'd up that to 120% (ultrasounds are about 10% off on size), but yes. Don't freak 2-11-2014 9:24pm
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        • that's still concerning. my ds was measuring 102% in the belly and i was monitored and would up being induced 2-11-2014 9:25pm
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          • So how big was baby after induction? 2-11-2014 9:26pm
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            • 9 pounds. i was also induced b/c i had group B strep, inlfammed gallbladder and w/ds#1, my fluid dropped at the end 2-11-2014 9:27pm
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              • So not just the big ultrasound then, big belly measurements can mean an emergency situation, in some cases. Overall size? Not so much. 2-11-2014 9:28pm
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                • oh, he was measuring big the whole time, the belly was just at the end and it was b/c of the GD 2-11-2014 9:30pm
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                  • ^^forgot to mention i had GD! 2-11-2014 9:30pm
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    • they are not accurate in those measurements 2-11-2014 9:23pm
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      • It's already the 3rd scan and it is consistently measuring at 97%. And I have GD. 2-11-2014 9:39pm
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    • What exactly are you fraking out about? I dont get it. 2-11-2014 9:23pm
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      • what if there is something wrong with it? Like that huge baby they had article about on CNN... some horrible health issue that I am not aware of and that is why it is so big.... 2-11-2014 9:36pm
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  14. Expecting Which dating site for newly separated? 1-24-2014 11:18pm (3 replies)
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    • What, like newlyseparated.com? 1-24-2014 11:19pm
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      • I think you are on to something 1-24-2014 11:29pm
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    • How about a regular dating site? 1-24-2014 11:20pm
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  15. Expecting Separated: what dating site to use? 1-24-2014 11:16pm (2 replies)
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    • i really hope you aren't preg 1-24-2014 11:17pm
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    • Def not!! Don't know how I posted on "expecting"! 1-24-2014 11:20pm
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  16. Expecting Vent here. Something that isn't huge but is currently bothering me. I signed up to take part in a business dev group. I pay a monthly fee. The woman who runs it decided in...(more) 1-23-2014 9:55pm (5 replies)
    December to completely change the nature of the group. She had the terms very specifically laid out when I joined and just changed them. I hate that her attitude is basically, if you don't like it, go fuck yourself. Bc of it, I'm leaving the group, bc it doesn't serve my needs anymore, but bc of her fast chance and lack of notice, it's left me scrambling to figure out new plans. I also decided in december not to join another group bc i was alread in one. and now it's too late to join the other one.
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    • Whoa 1-23-2014 9:57pm
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      • huh? 1-23-2014 9:58pm
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      • sorry. meant to post to toddler. 1-23-2014 10:00pm
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        • It won't make any sense on toddler either 1-23-2014 10:04pm
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          • This. Wowza 1-23-2014 10:06pm
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  17. Expecting 23 months pregnant and my major craving has been peaches. Not bad at all, I know. But i am amazed at how many I could eat when left to my own devices. 1-23-2014 7:23pm (8 replies)
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    • 23 months? that stinks 1-23-2014 7:23pm
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      • lol... yeah. that really would suck. esp since i'd be giving birth to an elephant 1-23-2014 7:24pm
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    • Lol 23 months. Feels like it huh? 1-23-2014 7:24pm
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      • 2nd pregnancy and while it has gone pretty fast, yeah, it does feel that long. 1-23-2014 7:25pm
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    • holy shit that baby must weigh a fucking TON 1-23-2014 7:24pm
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    • Are you a hippo? 1-23-2014 7:24pm
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    • Lol my pregnancy was 18 months but I adopted. 1-23-2014 7:29pm
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    • Same here but honey crisp apples. I'm addicted 1-23-2014 7:30pm
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  18. Expecting Ds had small bout of D. But seems fine. Am I going to be up all night with vomiting etc? 1-22-2014 9:47pm (1 reply)
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    • could just be intestinal upset 1-22-2014 9:47pm
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  19. Expecting How quickly does food poisoning set in? Ate Chinese food and 20 min later have massive stomach cramping and dia...(more) 1-19-2014 8:11pm (6 replies)
    Is it the food or coincidence?
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    • Usually 18-22 minutes 1-19-2014 8:11pm
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    • 4-6 hours 1-19-2014 8:11pm
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    • that seems quick, but who knows? 1-19-2014 8:12pm
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    • a while from what i recall. i remember getting food poisoning and waking in the middle of the night. no sign until then 1-19-2014 8:12pm
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    • it can be that fast. 1-23-2014 7:24pm
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    • For me, 20-30 mins 1-23-2014 7:25pm
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  20. Expecting I'm not old but I'm so over everyone trying to memorialize every aspect of their fucking lives on social media. Taking pathetic selfies of themselves, uploading pics of th...(more) 1-17-2014 5:27pm (8 replies)
    Their every meal, documenting every move their baby makes, etc... How can you focus on your db, dinner, whatever if you are to busy trying to get the perfect shot for FB or Instagram? Ugh
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    • That's why I totally stopped using FB 1-17-2014 5:28pm
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    • i am with you. I know your life isnt perfect and I am embarrassed for you acting like it is on fb! 1-17-2014 5:31pm
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      • Thissss 1-17-2014 5:31pm
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      • are you under the impression that FB is supposed to represent all of your experiences as a human? 1-17-2014 5:38pm
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      • huh? i think you're confused about how facebook works 1-17-2014 5:39pm
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        • np i think it depends how personally you take thing and who you have as friends. i don't see this much on my feed. 1-23-2014 9:59pm
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      • i interact with a lot of people on social media bc i use it for work. i don't find many people use it like that. unless they're teens or people who aren't really using it for work...(more) 1-23-2014 9:58pm
        and are just fucking around.
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    • Depends how you use social media. i use it for work, to make contacts, find places to publish, find other authors and new clients. It works for me. Part of the process is letting...(more) 1-23-2014 9:57pm
      people get to know who you are.
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  21. Expecting Need a gift for my (lily white) 21yo brother who is obsessed with rap music and all things gangsta. Would love to hear your suggestions on this! 12-18-2013 9:26am (4 replies)
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    • a mirror so he can look and see he's not black 12-18-2013 9:27am
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    • some northern soul records. motown. he should be ready to hear the roots of rap. 12-18-2013 9:29am
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      • That's an interesting idea--ty 12-18-2013 9:33am
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        • yw. i also really like the Pharcyde and De La Soul. they're not grangsta rap, but they are great. 12-18-2013 9:36am
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  22. Expecting Can I give my child to a British family?...(more) 12-13-2013 7:57pm (1 reply)
    I'm an English girl living in the US and I am facing an unplanned pregnancy because my drink was spiked and someone took advantage of me. I'm 5 months pregnant and my family is moving back to the UK later next year so I will be giving birth here. I'm 14 and not ready or capable of raising a baby so I have no choice but to give him to another family, but I want to do an open adoption and if I have to give him to a family in the States that wouldn't be possible unless it was a long distance thing. I already love my little boy and I don't want to give him up and NEVER see him again, that would crush me :(
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    • What the what? 12-13-2013 8:03pm
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  23. Expecting What day of cycle to start ttc sex every other day? Day 6 day 9? 28 day cycle btw 12-9-2013 11:57pm (3 replies)
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    • ^^remind me please. It has been almost 5 years since 1st db 12-9-2013 11:59pm
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    • You have to chart. I o'd on day 22 12-9-2013 11:59pm
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      • np: yup, or use ovulation tests. For me it was day 10! 12-10-2013 12:06am
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  24. Expecting Some people really cannot see themselves for what they are. I know someone who thinks they look like Angelina Jolie... WTF! NOOOO 12-9-2013 3:15pm (1 reply)
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    • Case in motherfucking point. 12-9-2013 3:15pm
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  25. Expecting Favorite brand for winter tights? Brr it's cold! 12-9-2013 2:52pm (2 replies)
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    • i wear hue leggings in the winter 12-9-2013 2:53pm
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    • uniqlo heattech 12-9-2013 2:57pm
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