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  1. Cleveland This time it's different. We always managed back together after an argument. It becomes countless emails asking for forgiveness and apologizing. The heartfelt emotional messages...(more) 10 hr 45 min ago (4 replies)
    The deep feelings of knowing how we could never be without each other. This time is it. This time I think we've just had enough. There are no goodbye emails professing his love and how he will miss me. Those used to be the messages that once reignited all those deep feelings again bringing us back. Now it feels done. There's nothing left but broken hearts.
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    • Sweet relief IMHO. Embrace it. 10 hr 44 min ago
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    • eh, one of you will get weak and lonely and it will start all over. 10 hr 42 min ago
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      • I truly think we hit a wall. The relationship wasn't going to go further than email contact and rare meetings. I think we both realized we weren't going to take it to the next...(more) 10 hr 35 min ago
        level.
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        • Affairs are a dime a dozen. Find a new one. 8 hr 40 min ago
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  2. Cleveland Oh shit. Affair just told me dw filed for divorce. I did not sign up for this. 21 hr 29 min ago (6 replies)
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    • I divorced. 21 hr 26 min ago
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      • Ok. Well I don't want him to for a couple of reasons. 21 hr 23 min ago
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    • Yes you did 21 hr 11 min ago
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      • actually i didn't. I do not want him divorced for a number of reasons. I don't want to be with him full time 12 hr 7 min ago
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        • then don't be 7 hr 26 min ago
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          • I'm not going to be - it's just a crappy situation. 5 hr ago
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  3. Cleveland Can I wear this to work with a jacket? Finacial firm...(more) 22 hr 31 min ago (4 replies)
    • sure. i really like this dress. 22 hr 30 min ago
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    • Why are you asking us cheaters? 21 hr 11 min ago
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    • will your lover be there? 4 hr 37 min ago
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  4. Cleveland Going to Provence at the end of June. No idea what to pack 22 hr 53 min ago (5 replies)
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    • butt plug, condoms, throw away phone? 22 hr 50 min ago
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      • You forgot the lube, handcuffs and pantiliners. 22 hr 35 min ago
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    • You're a dumb cunt and I don't know how you fucking survive. 22 hr 49 min ago
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    • With DH or affair? 22 hr 38 min ago
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    • OMG 22 hr 35 min ago
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  5. Cleveland Today was the worst. Total missed connections. :( 23 hr 1 min ago (2 replies)
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    • Where were you flying? 23 hr 1 min ago
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      • CLeveland, of course 23 hr ago
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  6. Cleveland I've got 6 hours with him tomorrow...I am dying just thinking about it. I'm falling for him so hard, and he's feeling the same. This is torture :(...(more) 5-21-2015 7:41pm (21 replies)
    And like my 10th affair/fling so I know how stupid this is. Spare the flames about how clueless I am.
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    • enjoy! 5-21-2015 7:42pm
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    • how do you know he is feeling the same? 5-21-2015 7:43pm
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      • He has told 5-21-2015 7:44pm
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        • ^^me. We are crazy about each other. I know the difference. And he's told me he's fallen hard 5-21-2015 7:45pm
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          • Any chance of you leaving your spouses? 5-21-2015 7:47pm
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            • Not anytime soon. 5-21-2015 7:48pm
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              • why not? 5-21-2015 7:50pm
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                • Neither of us want to do that to our kids 5-21-2015 7:50pm
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                  • ^^and we both get along with our spouses 5-21-2015 7:51pm
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                    • Are you in love with your dh? Do you have sex with him too? 5-21-2015 7:52pm
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                  • I get it. How are things with your dh? 5-21-2015 7:51pm
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                    • They're ok, just happily livin together 5-21-2015 7:52pm
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                      • Are you having sex with him? 5-21-2015 7:54pm
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    • How old are you? 5-21-2015 7:47pm
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    • Do you have kids? 5-21-2015 7:48pm
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    • How did you meet? 5-21-2015 7:51pm
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  7. Cleveland Let's have sex. Good sex. Fun sex. Any sex? 5-21-2015 1:47am (6 replies)
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    • okay. let's do it. 5-21-2015 11:31am
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    • I am meeting affair in 2 hours and I plan on ruining her 5-21-2015 2:06pm
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      • ugh. That sounds so misogynistic 5-21-2015 2:09pm
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        • ok Precious 5-21-2015 2:10pm
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          • Your kids and wife must be so happy with you. 5-21-2015 4:22pm
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        • that sounds amazing. i just talked to mine on the phone and i told him to take me somewhere and rip me to shreds. 5-21-2015 3:02pm
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  8. Cleveland Do some of you have sex only affairs? (No judgment) How do you not get emotionally involved? 5-20-2015 9:39pm (12 replies)
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    • I have in the past. It was largely his doing. Now I'm in a very emotional affair and it's so hard. 5-20-2015 10:40pm
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    • I have a good friend/coworker who I have sex with 1-2x a week, has been going for 3 years now. Does that count? 5-21-2015 7:47am
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      • How does that work? 5-21-2015 10:08am
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        • What do you mean? We're great friends, go out sometimes (he's single), and have great sex 5-21-2015 12:34pm
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          • How do you manage it? 5-21-2015 1:39pm
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            • It's easy, before work, after work, at lunch 5-21-2015 5:47pm
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              • and if he told you tomorrow he was done? 5-21-2015 5:47pm
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                • He's not my only affair, and I'd have no problem finding another 5-21-2015 5:50pm
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                  • You'd flip your shit and you know it 12 hr 10 min ago
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              • But where?? 23 hr 36 min ago
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    • It's hard to start sex only and not go a little emo about it. 5-21-2015 11:32am
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  9. Cleveland So disgusted with myself 5-20-2015 8:50am (3 replies)
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    • what did you do, boo? 5-20-2015 8:51am
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      • Since coming back to work Ive lost all of my friends. Picked up some really bad habits. 5-20-2015 9:08am
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  10. Cleveland I've been with single affair for 3 years. The past 6 months or so we get together 2-3x a week but only talk at work, don't really talk otherwise, never have, but the frequency of...(more) 5-19-2015 7:51pm (3 replies)
    Hookups is increasing so much. And I've stayed at his place a few times. He has had girlfriends off and on and we still hook up. Crazy
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    • are either of you married? 5-19-2015 7:52pm
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    • Let me guess. The reason you are fucking around is because your husband doesn't give two shits about you. 5-19-2015 9:08pm
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    • Where does your dh and your dc think you are when you stay overnight? 5-19-2015 9:11pm
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  11. Cleveland Yes yes yes. all right you all are. But Jesus Christ this thing has been so hard to shake. We did not even have sex. Just stupid shit, lunch, drinks, emails. I wish I could just...(more) 5-18-2015 12:09am (5 replies)
    erase not because I feel guilty, but because I want this out of my head. forever. total mind FUCK
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    • I never think about my non-sex affair. Ever. Never. Find some real happiness. 5-18-2015 12:11am
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    • If you really crossed that line, you'd be so fucked 5-19-2015 2:33pm
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      • I know. I don't know how people deal with it. It felt like a loss to me. In retrospect I feel like I dodged a bullet. 5-20-2015 11:37am
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        • I think different people deal with it differently. That's the only way. Some people can date and break up several times in a year, and others get crippled for years with one break...(more) 5-20-2015 11:40am
          up
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  12. Cleveland I'm am a bad person 5-17-2015 8:40pm (11 replies)
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    • Me too 5-17-2015 8:40pm
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    • Yes, me too. How bad are you? 5-17-2015 9:32pm
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      • bad 5-17-2015 10:43pm
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        • that have you done? 5-17-2015 10:48pm
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          • sigh...slept with a colleague 5-17-2015 10:55pm
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            • Np- I've slept with 4 colleagues, only 2 know about each other 5-18-2015 7:53pm
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              • a married colleague?? 5-18-2015 8:10pm
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    • no you are not 5-17-2015 11:43pm
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    • You really have to stop bashing yourself. 5-18-2015 9:50am
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  13. Cleveland Don't do it Clevelanders. The breakup - and you will have to break up - is so painful. Rue the day I ever got involved outside my marriage. 5-17-2015 1:16pm (11 replies)
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    • 4 year mom> 5-17-2015 3:21pm
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    • I didn't. I divorced 5-17-2015 3:50pm
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      • Same. In the process 5-17-2015 5:28pm
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        • NP-I divorced and broke off with affair. Thrill was gone. 5-21-2015 2:58pm
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          • how long was your affair 5-21-2015 4:30pm
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    • I divorced. And broke up. And broke up again. And again. And again. How many more times? 5-17-2015 11:43pm
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      • Only you can control that. 5-18-2015 7:25am
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        • believe me i know 5-18-2015 10:30pm
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    • You have to go expecting that 5-18-2015 9:48am
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    • I've broken up with a few affairs, you just have to get with another 5-18-2015 7:54pm
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  14. Cleveland Got a call from a restricted # so I picked it up. It was...(more) 5-16-2015 11:32pm (8 replies)
    PSYCHO!!!
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    • what did you do? 5-16-2015 11:34pm
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      • op:after the shock? I spoke to him. It was a breezy conversation. Then 30minutes later he called again asking if I called because something was up with his phone. Typical psycho. 5-16-2015 11:39pm
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        • was it a new number or did he always call you from a restricted #? 5-16-2015 11:39pm
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    • I get calls from restricted numbers all of the time 5-16-2015 11:38pm
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      • op:It's probably him. 5-16-2015 11:39pm
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        • who? 5-16-2015 11:40pm
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          • op:...(more) 5-16-2015 11:52pm
            PSYCHO!
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    • Lol psycho mom. 5-18-2015 9:36am
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  15. Cleveland He's starting to fade out. I have strong pride so I know I won't chase him. But I'm feeling really hurt. 5-16-2015 2:53am (9 replies)
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    • get rid of him 5-16-2015 2:54am
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      • How do I get rid of him? He's fading out. I was planning to just let it die. 5-16-2015 3:14am
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        • you will feel much better if you end it first, you will feel in control and more powerful. imagine just waiting around for him to tire of you> how humiliated and soul draining!...(more) 5-16-2015 3:23am
          just leave.
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          • Ok, but how do I word it so as not to sound dramatic or hurt? I feel like lots of times when women send the break-up email it's construed as "fight for me pls!" 5-16-2015 3:24am
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            • First of all you don't do it in an email but if you must make it very distant and matter of fact. "I don't know how to say this but I just don't feel connected to you any longer,...(more) 5-16-2015 3:31am
              I don't feel its going anywhere, you are a great person but we are not matched"
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              • of course it's not going anywhere 5-17-2015 3:22pm
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    • Go away, superslut twatwaffle. 5-16-2015 7:02am
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    • Send him an e-mail that says: I'm sorry, but we're done. Then never speak to him again. 5-16-2015 7:26am
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    • was loved involved? 5-16-2015 11:37pm
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  16. Cleveland I wish dh was in love with me more. feel like marraige is a business. 5-15-2015 5:14pm (4 replies)
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    • Stop fucking other people, that might help 5-15-2015 5:15pm
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      • well that escalated quickly 5-15-2015 5:17pm
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    • It is. An expensive daycare. 5-15-2015 7:42pm
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    • did you tell him this? Do you love him? 5-15-2015 9:38pm
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  17. Cleveland I think without realizing it, I just ended affair. Odd. 5-15-2015 3:27pm (13 replies)
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    • How do you feel about this? 5-15-2015 3:27pm
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      • Not really sure. I want more from him & Im not getting it I know if I am not getting what I want I should not be involved, right? So, I guess I am leaning on being ok with being...(more) 5-15-2015 3:33pm
        without him.
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        • can you elaborate on wanting more? 5-15-2015 3:36pm
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          • compassion. 5-15-2015 3:38pm
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            • Yes. Having an affair with someone who you feel really cares about you would be better. 5-15-2015 3:40pm
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              • not sure if you are being sarcastic, but I really thought he did. Together a long time. 5-15-2015 3:50pm
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                • Not at all sarcastic. I'm sorry he failed you. 5-15-2015 3:53pm
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                • ^^^It was just weird conversation. I am debating weather to officailly end it. or just not contact for a while. 5-15-2015 4:01pm
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                  • ^^^whether 5-15-2015 4:01pm
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                    • Does he make you happy? 5-15-2015 4:05pm
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                      • yes, he does. 5-15-2015 4:08pm
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                        • Then you can work through this 5-15-2015 4:09pm
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                          • thats the thing. I am the one who always has to work on it. 5-15-2015 4:20pm
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  18. Cleveland 4 year poster from the winter - how are you? please answer. you were so kind to me, i think of you often. 5-15-2015 2:00pm (14 replies)
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    • which poster are you? 5-15-2015 2:22pm
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      • dumped by text/icloud. 5-15-2015 2:27pm
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        • how are you doing? 5-15-2015 2:27pm
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          • really wonderful. I stopped drinking and all of a sudden, everything else became easier. if this is you, i hope you are doing well, too. 5-15-2015 2:29pm
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            • it's not me but i remember you and happy to hear you are doing well. have you been in touch w aff at all? how rae things at home? 5-15-2015 2:30pm
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              • things are better at home. i have not had face to face contact with ex aff, but he is moving back here over the summer, so i'm sure i'll have to face him at some point (it's a...(more) 5-15-2015 2:32pm
                small town). working with my therapist on strategies for when that happens.
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                • have you discussed things at all with dh 5-15-2015 2:33pm
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                  • no. i know that is not a popular view on here, but i will take this to my grave. 5-15-2015 2:34pm
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                    • what does your therapist think about that? 5-15-2015 2:34pm
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                      • she agrees with me. it's over and to tell him would ease my pain and cause him pain. i have spoken with him regarding the things within our marriage that make me (us) unhappy. 5-15-2015 2:36pm
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                        • I think it would not ease your pain- it would complicate things greatly. Is there any way he could find out? 5-15-2015 2:40pm
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                          • i really think not. when my pix showed up on the daughter's ipad, i thought i was dead, but i guess he explained it away and deleted. that was on nye and nothing has happened. 5-15-2015 2:42pm
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                    • not flaming. just asking 5-15-2015 2:35pm
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                      • :-) just feeling defensive i guess. 5-15-2015 2:36pm
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  19. Cleveland Pub crawl dw- how are you??? 5-15-2015 1:52pm (0 replies)
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  20. Cleveland Off and on 2 years. Off for 4 months. He hurt me badly. Closest I've been to anyone other than dh. Now he's contacting saying he wants things back where they were and that he...(more) 5-14-2015 7:06pm (6 replies)
    regrets ever ending things. Not sure what to do, I got completely over him and moved on, now I'm having all those feelings again. Ugh
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    • Run 5-14-2015 7:07pm
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    • what did he do to hurt you? 5-14-2015 9:12pm
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    • He's full of it and not worth it. Haven't you learned aything from all of this time away. 5-14-2015 9:18pm
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    • backstory- how did you meet? how often together? etc 5-14-2015 9:22pm
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      • He was my boss, heavy off and on for 2 years, lots of off and fighting then crazy make ups. Ridiculous. I can't go back 5-14-2015 9:45pm
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        • you really cant 5-15-2015 1:54pm
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  21. Cleveland I think I need therapy 5-14-2015 3:55pm (14 replies)
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    • what's the issue? 5-14-2015 3:56pm
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      • I drink too much and do things I regret 5-14-2015 4:05pm
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        • those are two separate issues. Beyond doing "things you regret," does your personality change in other ways when you drink? 5-14-2015 4:06pm
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          • Hmmm....I much more outgoing 5-14-2015 4:10pm
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            • See if you can keep it to just two drinks a night. 5-14-2015 4:11pm
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              • I was out with colleagues, big drinkers, and... 5-14-2015 4:12pm
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                • so this isn't a daily occurrence? How often are we talking about? 5-14-2015 4:13pm
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                  • No no, not at all 5-14-2015 4:17pm
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                    • Oh. Then no biggie. Carry on 5-14-2015 4:19pm
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            • np: Did you listen to the Don Barthelme Short story I posted last week? 5-14-2015 4:13pm
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              • No, what was it about it? 5-14-2015 4:34pm
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    • I went today for the first time in a long time and confessed to all my extramarital affairs. 5-14-2015 9:26pm
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      • what did the therapist say? 5-15-2015 1:50pm
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        • It was my first session. So I told her that I had acted out a few summers ago with abusing alcohol and sex with lots of men. I then said that I was still having an affair. I...(more) 5-15-2015 3:01pm
          made it clear that I didn't want to be with him irl, i knew it wouldn't work. she was supportive and said we would be discussing that in the months to come. I am there to decide whether I want to remain in my marriage or not
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  22. Cleveland Ugh 5-14-2015 3:42pm (2 replies)
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    • it's not that big a deal, is it? 5-14-2015 6:08pm
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    • just deal 5-15-2015 2:23pm
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  23. Cleveland My affair is my dom. When I have sex I think of my affair and the sex is better which makes dh happy. 5-14-2015 9:43am (8 replies)
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    • great justification [clap clap] 5-14-2015 9:44am
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      • np - you aren't allowed to flame the Cleaveland board! 5-14-2015 9:46am
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        • of course I am. 5-14-2015 9:47am
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        • says who? LOL 5-14-2015 9:49am
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    • that works for a time. Then it doesn't. 5-14-2015 10:24am
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    • what does aff do? beat you? call you names? spank and clamp you? 5-14-2015 11:54am
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    • lame 5-14-2015 9:13pm
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    • seems so trite to me 5-15-2015 2:23pm
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  24. Cleveland Haven't talked to him in 4 months. On and off for 2 years. He's begging for things to be like they once were. They always come back. Always. 5-13-2015 4:51pm (11 replies)
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    • It's the nice weather. 5-13-2015 4:52pm
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    • Because you are an easy lay 5-13-2015 4:53pm
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    • dickstalgia...(more) 5-13-2015 4:53pm
      I so wish I'd come up with that myself
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    • An exbf once said to me (not affair) that I was the last best sex he had had. It's not a compliment that people want to fuck you again. Your vagina is a vagina 5-13-2015 4:54pm
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    • ^^^hes telling me he loves me, that he can't get over me lol 5-13-2015 5:50pm
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      • ^^^and I've had a few affairs...they always come back. Another texted yesterday after like 6 months lol 5-13-2015 5:54pm
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      • he doesn't love you. do yourself a favor and don't fall for that. you are an easy lay. signed, btdt. 5-14-2015 11:54am
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        • sounds like she's gets it 5-14-2015 2:27pm
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        • Op- please, I've been there too and I know better, that's why I was laughing. So stupid 5-14-2015 3:35pm
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          • relax, i wasn't trying to insult you; i'm doing the same thing you're doing. It just sounds like you think you have some kind of hold over them. you don't; you are easy and...(more) 5-15-2015 8:25am
            effortless and they don't have to put any effort into getting you to get on your back.
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    • Mine had better not come back. I think he knows better than to even try. 5-14-2015 10:42pm
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  25. Cleveland I found out some things about affair's wife that make me feel like shit for ever starting up with him, which i suppose i should have felt from the get go. i ended it. 5-13-2015 9:59am (13 replies)
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    • like what. 5-13-2015 10:10am
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      • she is depressed and anxious. now taking meds 5-13-2015 10:12am
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        • why would that make you feel bad? 5-14-2015 4:40pm
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          • i am ashamed to say that i never even gave her a second thought until i found this info out about her. i assumed that she had no idea. 5-15-2015 8:19am
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            • so you feel bad because you think she knows? I don't get why her knowing or not changes what you are doing. 5-15-2015 11:07am
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              • i always thought she either didn't know or didn't care. the fact that she is anxious and depressed changes things for me. i know cheating is wrong in and of itself, but . . . i...(more) 5-15-2015 11:45am
                don't know, it seems worse now.
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        • Of course she is. Her dh is fucking around 5-14-2015 4:41pm
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          • this 5-15-2015 1:51pm
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            • but she doesn't know (at least not about me, of that i am sure) 5-15-2015 2:14pm
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              • how do you know what she does or does not know? she likely suspents something or perhaps he makes her feel insecure or treats her poorly in other ways as well 5-15-2015 2:27pm
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                • that may be so, but she does not now particularly of me. i know her irl; if she knew about her dh and me, i'd know about it. 5-15-2015 2:28pm
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                  • never meant he know about YOU. 5-17-2015 3:24pm
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                    • what do you mean? 5-18-2015 8:51am
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