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  1. Cleveland When you have long stints between visits with affair, what do you do? Long stints = 6+ months. 26 min ago (2 replies)
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    • If he cared, he'd figure out a way to make it not that long. 26 min ago
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      • nsr: I am a he, and I do care. 22 min ago
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  2. Cleveland Apple needs to make an app that takes your blood alcohol level and then disables your keyboard based on the results. 3 hr 42 min ago (4 replies)
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    • I think it's called the "Maturity app". 3 hr 42 min ago
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      • Thanks, Mom. You're the best. 3 hr 31 min ago
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    • what happened? 3 hr 39 min ago
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    • oh no, what did you do? 2 hr 52 min ago
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  3. Cleveland Lots of anger over there in toddler. 12 hr 2 min ago (5 replies)
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    • Over what? 12 hr 2 min ago
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    • link 11 hr 58 min ago
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    • ^^^affairs 11 hr 56 min ago
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    • Lol. Kind of funny. I posted about coming home from being with affair for a few hours. 11 hr 41 min ago
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    • Why bait them? Just incites them to come here and troll us. Let everyone have their corner of the schoolyard. 2 hr 54 min ago
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  4. Cleveland Good evening. 14 hr 16 min ago (10 replies)
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    • Creepy. 14 hr 15 min ago
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      • It wasn't followed by Claricemor a reference to lava beans. 14 hr 11 min ago
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        • who ARE you people? 14 hr 9 min ago
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          • Are you always so judgmental and hypersensitive? Good evening really threw you off that much? 14 hr 7 min ago
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            • oh no, I'm np. I was responding to the thread as a whole. That someone would say good evening and someone would say creepy and someone would say the rest... just funny. 14 hr 6 min ago
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              • not shocking. get all types here. some to watch some to criticize. some to engage and some to instigate. 14 hr 3 min ago
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    • NP: I don't see the creepy in it. 13 hr 52 min ago
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      • Nnp: I hear it as Good Eeeeeeeevening 13 hr 45 min ago
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        • I'm playing thriller on youtube to set the atmosphere. 13 hr 43 min ago
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    • Glad it was good for someone else! 5 hr 21 min ago
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  5. Cleveland Anyone having a no sex aff? 20 hr 41 min ago (7 replies)
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    • long distance here so it fits 20 hr 39 min ago
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    • I could never handle that. To me sex is the main point 19 hr 2 min ago
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    • like...friendship shit? 17 hr 27 min ago
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    • I was. It ended. 15 hr 35 min ago
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      • because of no sex or other reasons? 14 hr 26 min ago
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        • Bc after 2 yrs, no sex. I realize now he talked a good game but when I was finally ready to, he'd avoid me 5 hr 34 min ago
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    • i was. but then... 11 hr 39 min ago
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  6. Cleveland What happened to pitts board again? 20 hr 54 min ago (10 replies)
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    • People were just shooting the shit around and having a little fun. A guy in denim and a white shirt became way too invested in it. He started to stalk his ex (she had to fil for a...(more) 19 hr 46 min ago
      cease and desist). He ended up hacking people's emails. When he was called out he went running to this board's owner and it was taken down. Clear?
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      • Can't you use your imagination for something more productive? 18 hr 31 min ago
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        • Hi snotty! How have you been?! You've been missed. 18 hr 18 min ago
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          • i heard about that! trojan horse right? 18 hr 3 min ago
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            • Lol. Yes. And he'd take any info here and run with it. WEIRDO. 17 hr 56 min ago
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              • ^I only chatted with him few weeks. 17 hr 55 min ago
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      • OMG, I totally forgot about Claire. 14 hr 5 min ago
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      • np: LOL shit I wish I knew I could get a whole board shut down over that kind of stuff! My ex-affair hacked my email, I sent him a C & D, and he stalked me on here! And all I...(more) 11 hr 8 min ago
        needed to do was ask the Purple Goddess for this favor? Wish I'd known!
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    • I don't know but it was fun... 18 hr 11 min ago
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    • i think someone was outed or something like that...PG was probably sick of the crap. Cleveland has always been affair but what was pitts? Hookups? 14 hr 6 min ago
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  7. Cleveland What is a "Classic Affair"? 4-23-2014 10:52am (5 replies)
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    • Hotels. 4-23-2014 10:53am
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    • for a younger woman 4-23-2014 10:53am
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    • Hotel rooms, stockings, martinis. 4-23-2014 11:39am
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    • Fucking to Mozart 4-23-2014 11:39am
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    • A pretentious woman's idea of how you convince yourself you are in a MadMen episode rather than just the tawdry un-photogenic sneaking around that it really is... 4-23-2014 12:04pm
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  8. Cleveland What do you look for most in an affair? Attraction? Sexual compatibility? Sanity? Power? Just wondering what makes for an ideal secondary relationship. 4-23-2014 9:08am (15 replies)
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    • Penis size 4-23-2014 9:09am
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      • Seriously? That wouldn't make my top ten. Interested to hear why (not a troll) 4-23-2014 9:10am
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        • I'm just looking for sex - I already have a relationship 4-23-2014 9:11am
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          • I'm just looking for sex, too. But I didn't think a huge penis equated to excellent sex. 4-23-2014 9:12am
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    • His ability to hide the affair 4-23-2014 9:09am
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    • Children the same age as mine 4-23-2014 9:09am
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    • What it will do for my career 4-23-2014 9:11am
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      • How will an affair help your career? 4-23-2014 9:14am
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        • With a manager 4-23-2014 9:15am
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          • And what if it ends? Doesn't seem like a sound advancement strategy. 4-23-2014 9:28am
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    • someone I used to be involved with so a connection and affection 4-23-2014 9:11am
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    • affection. 4-23-2014 9:21am
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    • connection. We are so alone in this world sometimes one person isn't enough. 4-23-2014 9:23am
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      • You sound depressive. 20 hr 58 min ago
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        • Not depressive, maybe painfully aware? 20 hr 30 min ago
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  9. Cleveland My life is so fucked up. God has forsaken me. This I truly believe. 4-23-2014 8:39am (22 replies)
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    • God doesn't care either way. Never has. 4-23-2014 8:40am
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      • yes. i would think op's situation would make her come around to this way of thinking. he doesn't care one way or another about anyone or anything. [in fact, he doesn't exist...(more) 4-23-2014 8:44am
        but even if he did, it's pretty clear he doesn't give a shit about anyone's particular situation]
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        • I am fearful to believe this...because what if he did? 4-23-2014 8:51am
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    • There is no God and you can change your life 4-23-2014 8:40am
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      • I want to cry. In fact I did, all the way home yesterday. Unemployed dh treats me like shit, affair is neglectful. My job is major stressful & I suck at it. I also try to avoid...(more) 4-23-2014 8:50am
        This guy who's been stalking me. I twist and turn every which way home to avoid him. I've been successful at it. Yesterday he popped out of no where. There is no peace in my life. No refuge. I allow everyone to take from me. In hopes that I can have some one love me right.
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        • np: You sound a lot like me! Here's the thing: therapy. I know it's a YBM cliche at this point, but really, it is very helpful. You DO deserve a refuge, you DO deserve someone who...(more) 4-23-2014 8:55am
          loves you right. And I'm sure you do not "suck" at your job, you are just at a really low point right now and you are not seeing clearly. Please be good to yourself.
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          • Just reading this brought tears to my eyes. I would love therapy..but $$ is a huge issue. I can't see clearly. I am making all kinds of poor decisions. 4-23-2014 9:08am
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            • I am pretty much broke but found someone who will work with me. My problem is that I have never been treated well by ANYONE close to me. 2 narcissistic parents, nasty siblings,...(more) 4-23-2014 9:12am
              one abusive dh, one neglectful dh (yes this is marriage #2). Had my first affair and it really fucked me up, he was just as toxic as everyone else. I know I accept shitty behavior from people, and I have resolved to be done with that. I know I deserve better, and I know you do, too. Be kind to yourself. Don't put up with bullshit. You are worth so much more than that. OK I'm done. :)
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              • op:you are fantastic. 4-23-2014 9:20am
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                • ^^^again, thank you. 4-23-2014 9:20am
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        • Those the affair. That's the first step. You will feel so much better a month from now 4-23-2014 9:29am
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    • You're in good company. 4-23-2014 8:40am
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      • I really don't have anywhere else to go. 4-23-2014 8:53am
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    • Eh, your life isn't any more fucked up than anyone else's, at least on this board. 4-23-2014 8:46am
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      • I am sure you are right. I am just having a hard time now, i guess. can't seem to fix anything. 4-23-2014 8:52am
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        • or (I just wrote to you above, too): today, please make it a point to do something good for yourself. One little thing. You will dig yourself out of this hole, you really will. 4-23-2014 8:56am
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          • I will try. Did therapy help you? Meds? 4-23-2014 9:09am
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            • or: Yes. No meds. 4-23-2014 9:12am
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              • glad you are in a good place. 4-23-2014 9:18am
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            • ^^^I wish dh could be this person for me. He is so demanding & just keeps pulling from me. 4-23-2014 9:17am
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              • or: I hear you. Sort out one thing at a time. First, make yourself a priority. I get the feeling you are there for everyone else but they are not there for you. Take one small...(more) 4-23-2014 9:25am
                step today to change that. Post back here and let me know how you're doing OK? GL.
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                • op:will do & Thank You!! 4-23-2014 9:34am
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  10. Cleveland If you're both married, where do you get together? 4-22-2014 10:52pm (5 replies)
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    • if you're creative enough to have an affair, I'm sure you can figure this one out. 4-22-2014 10:52pm
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      • any advice? 4-22-2014 11:01pm
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    • We do it in carparks a lot of the time. Hotels are bad because that leaves paper trails. When we can we do it in his house or mine. 4-23-2014 12:11am
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    • Hotels, of course. In cash. 4-23-2014 7:44am
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    • Mine isn't local. So he always has a hotel room. Works well. 4-23-2014 7:51am
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  11. Cleveland Extremely jealous and possessive affair asked me if his friend could watch us fuck sometime. His friend would wind up fucking me, right? I can't even imagine this but I'm kinda...(more) 4-22-2014 8:21pm (23 replies)
    turned on at the thought. So wrong though
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    • ew 4-22-2014 8:21pm
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    • Get a life 4-22-2014 8:22pm
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    • What every floats you boat. But i'm gonna guess you're a perve lurking around here. 4-22-2014 8:22pm
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      • I'm a perv but a woman who loves to fuck 4-22-2014 8:24pm
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    • eek!!! 4-22-2014 8:22pm
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    • I'm going to go out on a limb and say his friend isn't just going to watch. What's strabge is that he's so jealous but is going to share you with his bud 4-22-2014 8:24pm
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      • Op- I know. I think he wants to "own" me but share me when he is watching. It's disturbing I know but I'm seriously so horny thinking about it. After he used the word threesome...(more) 4-22-2014 8:28pm
        So yeah, he would want me to fuck him. I've known him for a long time and would trust him to make the right decision about who. Just so nervous
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        • It sounds hot. Why not, you're bad anyway ;-) 4-22-2014 8:29pm
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        • np, I am trying to be nice here. You are a fuck doll to him. You have three orifices. He doesn't give a shit about you, he just found someone willing to play out his disgusting...(more) 4-22-2014 8:30pm
          porn fantasies on.
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          • OR you are completely right but it's a turn on. She seems to be in it for the sex not the romance 4-22-2014 8:31pm
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            • Op- thank you and yes, I love watching porn, love fucking in every position and am kind of turned on by 2 guys at once. God the more I think about it the more hot I get 4-22-2014 8:33pm
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              • You go girl. 4-22-2014 8:34pm
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              • what if he is some fat blob.....or a dog. 4-23-2014 8:43am
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                • ^^^ like a real dog. 4-23-2014 8:43am
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          • I've been with him a long time. We both are living out fantasies, obviously that's what we do. He does what I want and I do what he wants. You think I think I'm special to him?...(more) 4-22-2014 8:32pm
            I may be a slut and maybe a nympho but I'm not naive and this isn't my first affair, but is definitely the most adventurous one
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          • this. This is how mine feels about me as well. I am in mist of letting him go. 4-23-2014 8:42am
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    • A possessive affair is ALL WRONG. 4-22-2014 8:25pm
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      • Ita. That's the only part of this I object to. I'm fine with the friend watching and participating 4-22-2014 10:11pm
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      • I wish mine had some possessive quality. 4-23-2014 8:44am
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    • OK I don't belong on this board anymore. WTF with this, who are you people. 4-22-2014 11:29pm
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    • They will end up fucking eachother. You can eat ass. 4-23-2014 8:40am
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      • Not a chance. Affair is a total homophobe 19 hr 29 min ago
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  12. Cleveland I've made a decision to limit myself to guys at least 10 years younger than me. 20 somethings don't ask you to leave your husband. 20 somethings are less complicated and...(more) 4-22-2014 8:13pm (4 replies)
    want exactly what I want, no more and no less.
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    • You must be hot. I can't imagine a 20 something being into me 4-22-2014 8:15pm
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    • i am so gonna try this cuz the 50yo aren't cutting it. 4-22-2014 8:27pm
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      • np: hahahaha! Yes, there are definitely issues with 50yos. 4-22-2014 11:17pm
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        • np:curious, what types of issues? 4-23-2014 8:55am
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  13. Cleveland I've found a fullproof way to not get caught. When I get off the phone with my affair and dh asks who it was, I say the truth. I answer "my bit on the side" or "my boytoy" etc...(more) 4-22-2014 7:56pm (6 replies)
    When I go out I tell him I'm going on a date. He thinks I'm kidding and laughs. It has become our running joke. I always tell the truth but it sounds so ridiculous he doesn't take it seriously. And would a woman in an affair ever even consider a running joke like this? So if anything it's made him more trusting of me.
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    • Your husband sounds like an idiot. 4-22-2014 8:05pm
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    • No 4-22-2014 8:09pm
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    • Fullproof, huh 4-22-2014 8:29pm
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    • It's a great plan right up until the day you get caught. Then dh feels like even more of a fool and is less inclined to forgive you. Be careful. 4-22-2014 11:29pm
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    • Thats because he is doing the same, silly. It is a funny post. 4-23-2014 8:56am
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      • op: my husband would never cheat on me 15 hr 2 min ago
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  14. Cleveland Ended it two weeks ago, have cried every day since. Tell me the truth. Do you ever really get over it? 4-22-2014 7:49pm (5 replies)
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    • never. 4-22-2014 7:53pm
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    • No. 4-22-2014 8:05pm
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    • I think you will. Hang in there. 4-22-2014 8:35pm
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    • I swear to fucking God you WILL get over it. I cried for weeks and weeks. Now I'm at the 3 month mark and I am remarkably OK! Advice: 1) Focus as much as you can on the negative...(more) 4-22-2014 11:33pm
      aspects of this experience. There are plenty. When your mind drifts to "omg I miss him/love him/blah blah blah" just direct it immediately back to all the shit you hate about him. 2) After a few weeks of that, put your attention on all the positive things you can now do with all of this free time you suddenly have. See your friends again. Do your creative stuff again, or whatever it is you gave up in order to make time for him in your crazy schedule. I PROMISE you that you will really, truly get over this.
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      • Ty. Glad for you that you're doing okay now. Are you in a new aff or done with affairs? 15 hr 36 min ago
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  15. Cleveland Posted below about him emailing me a blow off email. I didn't reply and now he's emailing me asking where I am and why I didnt reply, no joke 4-22-2014 7:23pm (2 replies)
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    • ok. 4-22-2014 7:27pm
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    • Enough with the neediness. Goodness! 4-22-2014 8:05pm
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  16. Cleveland 95% over it. Maybe this is as good as it gets. I cannot get over the fact that I let this horrid, low-rung psychopath into my life. I naively believed his "I love you" bullshit. I...(more) 4-22-2014 6:34pm (4 replies)
    know I was only a hole to him, I know he thought I was a whore (I am not, despite the dimwitted trolls here who assume that all women who stray are whores). I might never understand why I lowered my standards so much. I am only so, so thankful to be out of that crazy situation. If any fellow "slummers" have any insight for me, please share? Thank you.
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    • You are a human being and you were vulnerable and someone got to you. You made a mistake but the mistake does not define you. 4-22-2014 6:36pm
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    • I stayed with mine for fAr too long and I can't even believe how miserable I was and what I put myself through for someone who is a complete loser 4-22-2014 6:37pm
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    • Maybe I can help. Having been with the wrong man. And having finally found the right affair I totally know how you feel. 4-22-2014 6:50pm
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      • op: does it matter that I figure out why I ended up in this ridiculous situation? That's the part that bothers me. I feel like if I don't figure that part out, I will eventually...(more) 4-22-2014 11:26pm
        get into a mess like that again and I really don't want that.
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  17. Cleveland How would you feel if after a few days you email saying how you hope things are well and you miss him and he replies...(more) 4-22-2014 5:53pm (24 replies)
    "Hey baby! Hope you had a great day. It's nice to be thought of by you." Am I right to be a bit annoyed? Not even gonna bother replying.
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    • You are nothing but a sperm receptacle 4-22-2014 5:54pm
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      • Yeah I know, I've had plenty. This guy is generally more attentive and I've known him for years 4-22-2014 5:55pm
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        • tough life being a whore 4-22-2014 5:55pm
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        • You pride yourself on "just fucking". So just fuck and accept what comes with it. Or stop pretending that you really don't care 4-22-2014 6:25pm
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    • You mean nothing to him. You're just his sideline ho. 4-22-2014 5:55pm
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      • lol see above, btdt. I have plenty of guys I can fuck and have fucked. He's not like the rest but yes, I'm just a fuck but he is normally better than other guys 4-22-2014 5:57pm
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        • You sound needy - why not focus on making your own happiness for a while 4-22-2014 5:59pm
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        • Why do you have such a low opinion of yourself? 4-22-2014 6:00pm
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          • np: wouldn't you say the majority of women here are pretty callous about things? 4-22-2014 6:01pm
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            • nnp: I was never callous. But, then, I only ever had one affair and I honestly believed I was in love. I don't understand people who can just fuck. 4-22-2014 6:37pm
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        • he has someone else. 4-23-2014 10:40am
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    • Wtf more do u want 4-22-2014 5:55pm
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    • You slut. Focus on finding your own man. 4-22-2014 5:56pm
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    • There is no reply to that - he's blowing you off 4-22-2014 5:57pm
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      • Oh I know, that's why I'm done. He will probably text later wanting to talk when I don't reply. It gets old. 4-22-2014 5:59pm
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    • Tammy? 4-22-2014 5:57pm
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    • I don't want to flame you, but you don't understand your position in his life. I'm sorry. It sucks. You deserve and need more than being a hole to him. He keeps up the minimum...(more) 4-22-2014 5:57pm
      with you just to get what he wants from you.
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      • He goes through phases where he needs to hear from me constantly, he is generally way more needy than me. 4-22-2014 5:58pm
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        • it sounds unbalanced 4-22-2014 5:59pm
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        • Its a game of manipulation 4-22-2014 6:00pm
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          • THIS THIS THIS. Please, op, know that you are worth so much more than this. 4-22-2014 6:30pm
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        • mine is the saaaaame. so fucking over it. 4-23-2014 10:43am
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    • yes, this would bother me. don't reply. 4-23-2014 10:38am
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  18. Cleveland Now i really want an update from rdm. :) are you here? how are things? 4-22-2014 1:52pm (0 replies)
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  19. Cleveland I am the DH who is experimenting with AM. I think there are a few things that women may not know about the AM experience for men. 4-22-2014 12:06pm (27 replies)
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    • like? 4-22-2014 12:08pm
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      • op: like the fact that it can be really confusing to understand who is for real, there are "ashley's angels" all over the site. Which are essentially market research,...(more) 4-22-2014 12:12pm
        "entertainment" and revenue drivers for them. You have to opt-out of being contacted by these angels. they send you chat messages, key requests, collect messages etc. It probably makes some of the guys especially aggressive and indiscriminate about messages.
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    • what is that? 4-22-2014 12:08pm
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      • They hack your phone for your nudes. 4-22-2014 12:10pm
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        • who hacks the phones? 4-22-2014 12:12pm
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    • What's AM? 4-22-2014 12:11pm
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      • Anal manipulation 4-22-2014 12:11pm
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        • Are you getting pegged? 4-22-2014 12:13pm
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        • With other guys or strap-on? 4-22-2014 12:14pm
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    • such as... 4-22-2014 12:11pm
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    • Are you browsing AM using just one hand? 4-22-2014 12:14pm
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      • op: I wish there was that much eye candy.... some profiles are horribly written and the many of the "stats" are middling at best. 4-22-2014 12:16pm
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        • perhaps you should lower your expectations. 4-22-2014 12:21pm
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          • Op: has that ever really worked for people? 4-22-2014 12:21pm
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            • npdh: I stopped after two or three weeks. The Angels v. Real people thing was part of it. The skew toward guys is another problem. 4-22-2014 12:23pm
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        • good to know i might do well on there if it comes to that. 4-22-2014 12:24pm
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    • How annoying 4-22-2014 2:39pm
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    • The men I've talked to says its awful. Most women are looking for a sugar daddy or a man to join a threesome. 4-22-2014 4:58pm
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      • OP: I have had met several woman and had a no holds/holes barred session with one who wants to meet again, hit and miss for sure. 4-22-2014 5:22pm
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        • Depends what you're looking for. I think it's hard to find a classic affair on there. It's mostly just for kicks. 4-22-2014 5:41pm
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    • OP: I will say for certain that women (and men) need to safeguard their privacy better, I actually can't believe how easy it is to find out exactly who people are so easily... 4-22-2014 5:23pm
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      • Please elaborate 4-22-2014 10:12pm
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        • OP: I will just give the following tips below...(more) 4-23-2014 12:05pm
          - never use an email address that you have used to register on ANY other site
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          • sorry more...(more) 23 hr 58 min ago
            - never use a photo that you have used or may appear anywhere else on the web. - unless you are in a BIG city don't give your actual hometown or work location, along with your first name you would be surprised how specific you can search with this information. - search for your own email address in google to be sure, and your pics through tineye/google images to be certain they aren't searchable before sharing. - probably safest not to put any photos on AM (but nearly impossible for most). - when you remove your profile should you decide to do so, pay the extra fee to ensure they remove all traces.
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            • thank you. this is helpful. the image searches scare me. 11 hr 34 min ago
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              • ^this might be a dumb question, if i upload a pic to check to see if it's searchable, is that image added to their database? 11 hr 28 min ago
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    • Totally different experience for women. I have good "stats" and was deluged with responses 4-22-2014 9:32pm
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  20. Cleveland I told him I thought he was happily married. He said "I am, but there's enough of me to go around." Why are some men so gross. I mean I'm also a cheater but I would never talk...(more) 4-22-2014 1:39am (2 replies)
    about it so casually and carelessly...
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    • He wants you to understand it is for his convenience only. You are just a hole. 4-22-2014 4:50am
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    • yuck. 4-22-2014 8:44am
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  21. Cleveland I have always said "they don't ALWAYS come back". Ex-affair from three years ago just friended me on FB. What is is intention???? He looks happily married. 4-22-2014 12:14am (1 reply)
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    • They ALWAYS come back. 4-22-2014 7:55pm
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  22. Cleveland Why do woman get attached after sex while men are content & are ok until the next time? 4-21-2014 10:31pm (8 replies)
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    • oxytocin 4-21-2014 10:34pm
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      • I read that men release some sort of this as well. 4-21-2014 10:36pm
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        • makes sense if you think about it. i also read that gangbang fantasies are common for women because if a woman has more than one man's sperm inside her, the sperm actually compete...(more) 4-21-2014 10:38pm
          with each other to fertilize the egg. so in theory she's helping to ensure that the best man wins, so to speak
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          • that is interesting! 4-21-2014 10:39pm
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      • I also read that the best way to get over this is with fucking another dick. But this I read was here on yb. 4-21-2014 10:37pm
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    • it's hardwired into our dna to try and secure a father figure for our potential baby and to protect us while we're vulnerable (pregnant). But it's hardwired into their dna that...(more) 4-21-2014 10:38pm
      they need to be alert and undistracted for when they are next hunting large wild animals.
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      • That is very cool. when does the male machoness come into play? 4-21-2014 10:40pm
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    • Good question. Also: why are women often shamed for this very natural tendency and called "clingy" or "needy," when all they want is some affection? I hate men who belittle women...(more) 4-21-2014 11:35pm
      like this.
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  23. Cleveland After meeting up to fuck If all you got was a 'Love You' text would it bother you, Even after you text 2 afterwards? You know how it goes...damn. 4-21-2014 10:29pm (12 replies)
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    • My ex-affair NEVER took care of my feelings after an encounter (in fact, was usually more of an asshole for a couple of days). I hated that. So glad to be rid of him. 4-21-2014 11:42pm
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      • Do you have a new one? 4-22-2014 6:48am
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        • or: hell no. Not going through that shit again, ever. 4-22-2014 11:35pm
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    • Yes, this would bother me. 4-22-2014 3:21am
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      • How to handle? 4-22-2014 6:47am
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        • Mention it but you have to be prepared to let him go if he can't give you more. 4-22-2014 9:59am
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    • You're fucking. That's all. Why do you expect more? 4-22-2014 8:02am
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      • because it use to be different. I want more, I guess. Time for me to move on. 4-22-2014 8:44am
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    • I need to post process.. Recall the hot things that happened. I brief text would not do it for me 4-22-2014 10:07am
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      • Yeah, feel so shitty about it. Don't know how to proceed. 4-22-2014 10:45am
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        • tell him, be open about it. If that doesn't work for him tell him he could find some other pussy somewhere else.. Sorry to be so crass, but it's true. 4-22-2014 4:27pm
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  24. Cleveland I started an affair just so I wouldn't waste a $1000 a night suite at the Ritz Carlton in NYC after dh had a work emergency. I literally seduced a guy just so I'd have something...(more) 4-21-2014 7:38pm (9 replies)
    to do in there. Also, it was my 20th anniversary. I'm going to burn in hell.
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    • yes. yes you are. But I'd sleep with someone other than my dh if it meant a night in a luxury hotel. I guess I'll join you in hell 4-21-2014 7:41pm
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    • Fake 4-21-2014 7:41pm
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      • np: the people who spam this are worse imo than any of the people who share their stories 4-21-2014 8:08pm
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    • Awesome. 4-21-2014 10:28pm
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    • what was it like? 4-21-2014 10:32pm
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      • op: just like any other room but with a awesome view and amazing sheets. And so much guilt. But nice chocolate. 4-21-2014 10:36pm
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        • guilt because of the anniversary thing? eh, whats done is done. 4-21-2014 10:38pm
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        • LOLOL 4-21-2014 10:58pm
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    • You are my hero. 4-23-2014 11:41am
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  25. Cleveland Sound like you?...(more) 4-21-2014 6:05pm (0 replies)
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