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  1. Cleveland Spent the day with affair today. We haven't seen each other in a while and it was so nice. We watched a movie and had lunch. I wasn't feeling great and I texted him and said I was...(more) 6 hr 36 min ago (5 replies)
    Sorry for not being myself and he came back with a don't even worry about it and said he had a fm great time as well
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    • did you not have sex? 6 hr 36 min ago
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      • Of course we did. 6 hr 36 min ago
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        • then i'm sure he didn't really care about how you were acting. he got what he was after. 6 hr 32 min ago
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          • True. But I got what I was after as well. 5 hr 31 min ago
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    • Hotel? 13 min ago
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  2. Cleveland Aff is upset with me. We are always ending up in these arguments on email that get nowhere. Sometimes we end it only to miss each other so deeply. 11 hr 38 min ago (12 replies)
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    • ^^ can't be apart and end up together again. 11 hr 37 min ago
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    • what happened this time? 9 hr 24 min ago
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      • He begs for me to stay in his life, promises things and then breaks promise. Argues with me if I get annoyed, ends it, then comes back making promises again. It's a vicious cycle. 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • mine is as well. thinking of ending it. 9 hr 23 min ago
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      • ^^^I really go all out & when I don't jump or it seems like I am not putting him first he gets mean & bitch like. then disappears.. 9 hr 21 min ago
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        • if mine disappeared that would be the end for me. we have limited contact so disappearing and me not having another way to contact him would be a dealbreaker. 9 hr 5 min ago
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          • or:he's really annoyed with me. I am not even going to try to fix it. 9 hr 2 min ago
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            • what's he annoyed about? 9 hr 1 min ago
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          • Ditto. He's never been Mia for more than 12 hrs in the 1.5 years since I've known him. 6 hr 43 min ago
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            • or: oh shush. ive been with mine 5yrs. 5 hr 24 min ago
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          • Op: mine did disappear without a warning whatsoever and came back 3 months later. 1 hr 38 min ago
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  3. Cleveland These relationships are going nowhere. you all know this. 4-17-2015 12:36am (10 replies)
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    • i don't want it to go anywhere but just continue as is. 4-17-2015 12:45am
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      • why? really. because it feels good? worth the risk? 16 hr 1 min ago
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        • Nr: for me it's an emotional attachment that's filling an emptiness in my marriage. 15 hr 55 min ago
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          • worth the risk? 12 hr 48 min ago
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            • My rational side says no. 11 hr 42 min ago
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    • Some do but they are like unicorns. 15 hr 53 min ago
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      • op:lol. unicorns don't exist. i get what you're saying. 14 hr 14 min ago
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    • I'll let you know on that. 10 hr 25 min ago
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    • Thank goodness! The only place I want it to take me is the sheets! 10 hr 20 min ago
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  4. Cleveland It has been one year since EA ended, and I am having such a tough time forgetting it. I am busy, I work, friends, hang out with DH, kids, but I can't shake it. Will therapy really...(more) 4-16-2015 10:53pm (14 replies)
    help? I am at the end of my rope, just tired of him taking up head space, sick of it actually. So frustrated with myself and lack of self control on this.
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    • Ea? 4-16-2015 10:54pm
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      • emotional affair 4-16-2015 11:36pm
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    • therapy can help as can time. Do you love your DH? Maybe this is just a down day? 4-16-2015 10:56pm
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      • I do love DH but there are issues, would not have gone down this shitty road otherwise, yes a bad day but I have them more than I would like and wonder wtf is wrong with me? 4-16-2015 10:58pm
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        • maybe lower your expectation of what you think you should feel? 4-16-2015 10:59pm
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    • have you seen the movie "her"? 4-16-2015 11:33pm
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    • I understand how you feel. I am in EA but also PA situation that has consumed so much of my mental energy and I just want him out of my mind 4-17-2015 12:05am
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      • => and same, I love my DH but we have been through so many problems. this other person was not an escape but someone I could talk to 4-17-2015 12:07am
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        • Nr. Same with my husband. My attachment to EA is filling some void and is a distraction from reality of the problems at home. 15 hr 22 min ago
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    • DH: my affair usually gives me a heads up these feminine issues, "I am on the last day of my period/it just ended", "i had a yeast infection that I treated and it should be fine...(more) 4-17-2015 12:35am
      but wanted you to know in case you go down etc". Whats the big deal, just communicate, it's normal if you are long term
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      • Thanks for that. The way you explain it, doesn't seem so awkward after all. Nr. 15 hr 20 min ago
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    • i had a bout like that regarding my 1st recently. then thought 'wtf am I thinking?" There is a reason he was out of my life more importantly your mind has built him into...(more) 4-17-2015 12:40am
      something he isnt.
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    • How long were you involved with EA and why/how did it end? 15 hr 24 min ago
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  5. Cleveland Would you cancel a rare meet up with your affair if you were treating a yeast infection? Not a bad one if it matters lol 4-16-2015 5:10pm (12 replies)
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    • ^^^been planned for over a week, alibis in place, hotel booked :/ 4-16-2015 5:11pm
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      • if you see him weekly then ffs, no. 4-16-2015 7:29pm
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        • No, it's quite a production to figure it out 4-16-2015 7:30pm
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          • Are you planning on telling him? 4-16-2015 7:40pm
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          • How often do you see him? 4-16-2015 8:27pm
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    • will he go down? 4-16-2015 5:12pm
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      • Yeah, but I will make sure no cream or anything is there lol 4-16-2015 5:14pm
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    • What's it matter, raging whore? 4-16-2015 5:14pm
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    • my vag would be burning if i had sex with a yeast infection. 4-16-2015 7:30pm
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      • It's almost completely healed 4-16-2015 7:30pm
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    • DH: my affair usually gives me a heads up these feminine issues, "I am on the last day of my period/it just ended", "i had a yeast infection that I treated and it should be fine 4-17-2015 12:36am
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    • do you want to pass the infection back and forth? 4-17-2015 12:43am
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  6. Cleveland Honestly, i think mine is bipolar; i KNOW he's a narcissist. he will treat me very cavalierly - which i understand, we both have 'real" lives - every so often, he'll be very...(more) 4-16-2015 2:11pm (15 replies)
    emotional and tender with me and tell me he is unhappy because we are not together, i love you, we'll end up together, etc. then, almost as if he came to his senses and regretted what he said, he'll freeze me out for days at a time or be very cold. i don't know why i cant give him up.
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    • That is not what bipolar means. What you have there is a shithead. 4-16-2015 2:13pm
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      • agree. Its not a mental illness, he's just a jerk 4-16-2015 3:41pm
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    • because you're too lazy to do the therapeutic work necessary to get your shit straight. 4-16-2015 2:13pm
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      • well you are too lazy to express yourself cogently. what "shit" do i need to get together? why are you on cleveland anyway? to bash the type of women that your husband prefers...(more) 4-16-2015 2:16pm
        over you?
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        • I'm not a cheater, and I'm not with one. Though I was in the past. You're in two unfulfilling relationships. Why? Because you choose that. Why would you choose that? I don't know....(more) 4-16-2015 2:20pm
          You can figure it out and actually be happy.
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    • sounds like an awful way to live your life. 4-16-2015 2:15pm
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    • men are simple creatures, feed them, sex them. If he is 'cold' most likely things are heating up with the dw. 4-16-2015 2:16pm
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      • she is incapacitated - no sex. 4-16-2015 2:17pm
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        • he's probably got another chick on the side 4-16-2015 2:20pm
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        • oh, this is the guy with the arthritic wife? that's a ridiculous excuse. 4-16-2015 2:21pm
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        • then maybe he's busy with his kids 4-16-2015 3:41pm
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        • That is either bullshit or is is true. If it is bullshit, he sucks. If it is true and he is cheating on an injured/sick person, he's a piece of shit and you should completely cut...(more) 4-16-2015 11:45pm
          him out of your life this very instant. This is how he treats his wife. He will never treat you any better. Please gather what shards are left of your self-respect and get the hell away from this asshole as quickly as possible. You deserve a lot better. For real.
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    • This is my situation also. 4-16-2015 7:42pm
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      • op - how do you cope? why do you stay? i rationalize his behavior and i stay because i love him 4-16-2015 8:48pm
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        • Or: mine is selfish. We don't see each other often so we communicate all day everyday. It feels like a true long distance relationship. He becomes distant for a day or two, which...(more) 4-16-2015 11:14pm
          is when I believe he must be busy with a side chick. Then he comes back to me a few days later expressing so much love for me, can't live without me, misses me, asking to see me...till next time he's "busy".
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  7. Cleveland Do you believe a mans words when he is fucking you or drunk? 4-16-2015 12:10pm (8 replies)
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    • sometimes 4-16-2015 12:10pm
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    • Yes, they don't lie. 4-16-2015 12:11pm
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      • we all lie. i just saying..when are they most vulnerable to speak truth? 4-16-2015 12:22pm
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    • Joe lies 4-16-2015 12:12pm
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    • depends. 4-16-2015 12:12pm
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    • never believe anything a man says in bed. Drunk, depends if he is trying to get you into bed or not 4-16-2015 12:15pm
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      • but what about WHEN having sex? 4-16-2015 12:21pm
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  8. Cleveland Affair is going through some shit & I am feeling neglected. Moments like this I start to act irrational. 4-16-2015 9:43am (5 replies)
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    • his "real" life will always take precedence. 4-16-2015 9:44am
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      • op: you're right. I contribute nothing but sex, as does he. I'm not getting what I need here, wait till dust settles in life. 4-16-2015 9:55am
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    • you could cheat on your affair 4-16-2015 9:44am
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      • i would understand if mine would just tell me, "can't talk now, wife is all over my phone and giving me the stink eye." but he just doesn't call or doesn't take my calls. 4-16-2015 2:09pm
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    • What ways do you start acting irrational? 4-16-2015 8:38pm
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  9. Cleveland Yay! Posted about trying to get in touch with previous affair and he contacted me yesterday. 4-15-2015 1:13pm (25 replies)
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    • Nice. 4-15-2015 1:13pm
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    • How do you know him? 4-15-2015 1:15pm
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      • AM 4-15-2015 1:16pm
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        • You must have had to filter through a million responders 4-15-2015 1:17pm
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          • Originally, yes. 4-15-2015 1:17pm
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    • How do you deal with the feelings of knowing what you're doing and say a show that you and dh are watching together shows some infidelity? How do you deal and what do you say to...(more) 4-15-2015 1:19pm
      yourself?
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      • In that specific situation I don't comment at all. 4-15-2015 1:20pm
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        • right, i know not to comment but your own feelings? Do you get a twinge or feel guilt or satisfaction? What do you say to yourself? 4-15-2015 1:21pm
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          • Ah. Got it. I feel a bit of a twinge and slight guilt. Not satisfaction. 4-15-2015 1:22pm
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            • I'm so curious bc i have a new PA and although i have lingering resentment/dissatisfaction with dh, I somehow try to justify it during those times but still feel kinda shitty....(more) 4-15-2015 1:24pm
              does it get easier or harder?
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              • PA? 4-15-2015 1:25pm
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              • Op: I've found it's gotten easier for me. Bc the longer I do this the more I don't really like dh. Which is a shitty and horrid thing to say. 4-15-2015 1:29pm
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                • do you think that the affair causes you to not like dh or you just wouldn't like him increasingly even if no affair? i wonder if a casual relationship can fool you into thinking...(more) 4-15-2015 1:32pm
                  that you wouldn't be bored with affair if you were married to him too.
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                  • I know i don't want to be with affair. But having an affair has made me realize that I'm not happy with dh (duh). 4-15-2015 1:38pm
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          • np - are you trying to moralize or pick on her? Because if you are doing so after having the affairs board selected as viewable for you, you are ignoring the fact that it was set...(more) 4-15-2015 1:23pm
            up as a courtesy to people who didn't want to read about affairs on YBM
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            • or, NO! i'm curious for my own perspective. im in that situation. 4-15-2015 1:24pm
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              • oh. Sorry. I would assume that if your marriage is so broken that you're having an affair, there would be no place for guilt 4-15-2015 1:28pm
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    • oh wow, I replied to your origanal post. thats crazy. 4-15-2015 3:10pm
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      • ^^^soi what happened? 4-15-2015 3:14pm
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        • I know. I was surprised. We're texting now. He's out of town for two weeks and he said we should get together when he gets back. 4-15-2015 4:32pm
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          • or:I am sure you are very excited. 4-16-2015 12:30am
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    • why did you originally end things and how long were you together? 4-15-2015 6:40pm
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      • Bc we couldn't make our schedules match up and I met current affair. We weren't together long but we had great chemistry. 4-15-2015 10:06pm
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        • how did you reconect? 13 hr 1 min ago
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  10. Cleveland Soooo psycho apparentley was "practicing self control" thats why he hasnt contacted me for a week. I thought (& hoped) we were done. I am actually going to have to go through the...(more) 4-15-2015 10:01am (11 replies)
    Grueling task of ending it. Hate this shit. If he wasnt so nuts..damn.
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    • you sound like you LOVE it, actually. 4-15-2015 10:02am
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      • I don't I havent bothered to contact him all week. he popped back up. thought he was gone & was ok with it 4-15-2015 10:10am
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    • what needs to end..just stop communication. sounds like you are loving the drama. 4-15-2015 10:02am
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      • op:agree on the no communicating. He has no boundaries approaching me if im alone in the street. I just posted an updat 4-15-2015 10:22am
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        • ^^^& a update. Dont love this drama. 4-15-2015 10:23am
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    • I love you pyscho mom. 4-15-2015 10:03am
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      • op: This would make a great t-shirt. 4-15-2015 10:24am
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    • just fucking cut off contact. This isn't difficult, you are making it so. Drama 4-15-2015 7:07pm
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      • im trrrying. yesterday i saw him from across the street. i was entering building. saw someone I knew so I entered with them. psycho appears, presses elevator button & gets...(more) 4-16-2015 9:52am
        in with me & coworker. Says nothing. My eyes looked over & he was staring dead at me. Creepy. We got off & he stood on.
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        • stayed on. you sound like a boy-crazy moron. you could get him to leave you alone if you wanted to. you don't 4-16-2015 2:08pm
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          • if it makes you to feel better to call me names thats fine. instead why dont you be more useful in telling me how? this whole stop communication thing didnt work. he came up to me...(more) 4-17-2015 12:34am
            In the street.
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  11. Cleveland Why does it not bother me when affair watches porn but when dh watches I get upset? 4-15-2015 9:49am (4 replies)
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    • Because you expect anything related to affair to be dirty, and you're not disappointed? 4-15-2015 9:54am
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      • op: interesting. good point. disappointed? why would I be? 4-15-2015 10:04am
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        • When DH watches porn it feels like he is cheating on you or that you are not enough for him. 4-15-2015 6:31pm
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          • dh says he doesnt watch (or so he says), i watch with affair. 4-16-2015 12:31am
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  12. Cleveland New affair has a live in girlfriend. He is falling for me hard. Wants to send me flowers, wants to go on dates, getting emotional fast. Says he has never felt like this before...(more) 4-14-2015 7:10pm (5 replies)
    Sex is beyond phenomenal, and he is very unselfish in bed, and everywhere else. Run for the hills or enjoy while it lasts? I'm in an open marriage and he knows it, and knows I'm not leaving and that I have other affairs (though he seems to want me to limit to him, but won't say it
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    • He sounds crazy. 4-14-2015 7:11pm
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    • why would you run? This is what you want right? Someone new to keep this limerence feeling going for each new person. Ride it until it fizzles. 4-14-2015 7:16pm
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    • You are fucking insane 4-14-2015 10:12pm
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    • an open marriage has its own set of problems i see 4-15-2015 9:28am
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    • how can you tell he just wants him to be your only? 4-15-2015 9:50am
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  13. Cleveland Affair never buys me anything but food. bummed. 4-14-2015 12:46am (6 replies)
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    • Oh- he's an affair??? You're an ass 4-14-2015 12:52am
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    • well he has to spend it on his wife and kids, why would he spend it on you? 4-14-2015 1:25am
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      • he's single! 4-14-2015 7:16am
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    • Why buy the cow when you get te milk for free 4-14-2015 1:52am
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      • yeah, i guess. 4-14-2015 7:17am
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    • you are immensely needy. Get therapy. 4-14-2015 7:09pm
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  14. Cleveland Bf and I are in a wedding party and the groomsmen are wearing converse. I want to wear converse too!! So does she. Should we ask the bride or she will for sure say no?? 4-13-2015 11:55pm (5 replies)
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    • Shit. Wrong board. 4-13-2015 11:55pm
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      • That's funny because this is really identifying. 4-14-2015 12:59am
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    • are you sleeping with the groom or what? 4-13-2015 11:56pm
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      • No. He's blonde so not my type ;) 4-14-2015 12:02am
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    • wear regular shoes for the ceremony and then switch to converse for the rest of the night. 4-14-2015 12:03am
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  15. Cleveland If you are emotionally attached with affair and the feeling is mutual - when you're...(more) 4-13-2015 11:50pm (1 reply)
    Together how much time is spent discussing life?
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    • great ?. i never.trust what he says even after 5 yrs. what is there to talk about? 4-14-2015 12:40am
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  16. Cleveland I'm done. I've spent the last month talking about training for a marathon that was last weekend. Today I get a text asking me about my weekend, then a paragraph of text about what...(more) 4-13-2015 6:46pm (9 replies)
    He did, including cell phone photos of birds. Never once did he ask about my race. It's beyond over.
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    • You're just a hole. 4-13-2015 6:47pm
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    • I think youre confusing an affair with a relationship. 4-13-2015 6:47pm
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      • I think he is. I don' 4-13-2015 6:48pm
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        • I think he has, sorry. 4-13-2015 6:48pm
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          • Re-read your post sweetie. 4-13-2015 6:49pm
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    • lol 4-13-2015 6:51pm
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    • How long did it take you to realize what affairs are all about? 4-13-2015 7:50pm
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    • He doesn't care. & Im sorry. 4-14-2015 12:41am
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    • I hear you. Mine forgot my bday until he saw posts on my FB then SWORE he didn't forget bc he had it in his calendar. Um..that's not remembering, that's putting an appt in your...(more) 4-14-2015 9:05am
      calendar that pops up to REMIND YOU BC YOU WILL FORGET. They are all out for themselves. Congratulations on the marathon btw. That is an unbelievable accomplishment and you just proved you can do some amazing shit. Dump his ass and run on.
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  17. Cleveland Multiple affairs here. It feels like they are either all busy or all needy at the same time. Why can't they balance it out? 4-13-2015 5:53pm (4 replies)
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    • I'm free now. Where are you? 4-13-2015 6:02pm
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      • I think I have enough, right now they all want to hook up 4-13-2015 6:14pm
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      • where are you? 4-13-2015 11:32pm
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    • same. ditched one. now at one. so much easier. 4-14-2015 12:42am
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  18. Cleveland New affair is ADHD. is this bad news? anyone btdt? 4-13-2015 4:56pm (8 replies)
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    • lololol 4-13-2015 4:57pm
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    • Oh yeah. Run. 4-13-2015 4:59pm
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    • Weird question. Why would it be a bad or good thing??? 4-13-2015 5:03pm
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      • if it affects his behavior and if he can't stay on topic 4-13-2015 8:31pm
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    • I wonder if a large majority of people having affairs have add. Hmmm 4-13-2015 8:33pm
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    • He will make some careless mistake that will out you. 4-14-2015 11:48am
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  19. Cleveland The happier I get w/my life the more affair gets depressed. So much for saying he wants the best for me and to be happy. 4-13-2015 2:22pm (0 replies)
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  20. Cleveland Psycho called. left my favorite dessert on my door knob. 4-12-2015 10:05pm (10 replies)
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    • Is this kind of like leaving the bunny on the stove? 4-13-2015 11:59am
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      • No. It was just to get my attention. He texted that he left it. Haven't heard from him since. 4-13-2015 1:29pm
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    • at your apartment? 4-13-2015 1:26pm
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    • So he jerked off on your doorknob and left you man-goo. Great. 4-13-2015 2:57pm
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      • op:hahhaha, thats funny. 4-13-2015 4:56pm
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    • you really need to disengage. 4-13-2015 9:42pm
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      • Its so weird because he was in my life on Saturday & thats it Perhaps he caught ob to my lack of responding? 4-14-2015 12:44am
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    • Wonder if it's the same guy we were involved with. Mine liked to meet so he could give me my favorites desserts. 4-13-2015 11:05pm
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    • You are being giving signs and signals, if you ignore them then its on you and only you to blame. Stop blaming your dh. 4-14-2015 7:01pm
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  21. Cleveland Affair doesnt even realize he fucked up. In trying to be cute he ended us. 4-12-2015 9:19pm (3 replies)
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    • yeah, i am sure that is why you are posting here about him. You affair gals don't realize that when you are really done, you don't care enough to post here about him. 4-12-2015 9:22pm
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      • opiNtErEsTiNg 4-12-2015 10:00pm
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      • Nah, that's not true. We just need some support in sticking to our guns. So easy to get sucked back in. I'm over a year out, and posted all the time in the aftermath of that mess. 4-13-2015 9:43pm
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  22. Cleveland Joined a ladies book club. real deal. wanted something for me . he gets pissed off that i joined without telling him. wtf? told dh I have to be productive or i'll become self...(more) 4-12-2015 8:22pm (7 replies)
    destuctive. I drink to much. Have affairs. Done with it. Trying to engage in clean good things. Dh was not supportive. Knows nothing of my affairs does know I am a mess with work & overall stressed.
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    • wowsa 4-12-2015 8:23pm
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      • op: "he" is dh. 4-12-2015 8:25pm
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      • i am so pissed. i don't know why i try. really. 4-12-2015 8:26pm
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    • Maybe he feels like you do things behind his back, which it seems hes not wrong about 4-12-2015 8:25pm
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      • i didnt tho. i told him i was looking to do it with a gf. he bitched about that. went on to say i am doing it because she mentioned it. so i found one on my own. joined he...(more) 4-12-2015 8:29pm
        flipped out.
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        • what is his objection? 4-12-2015 9:41pm
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          • op:all excuses that narrow down to control. 4-12-2015 9:58pm
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  23. Cleveland Third time with fling Thursday and the first two times he was so vanilla......(more) 4-11-2015 8:49pm (5 replies)
    Thursday he started talkin about my pussy being so tight, asking if I liked getting his hard black cock, how hard do I want it, etc. he's normally so laid back it was so hot to hear him dirty talking, just a lot of different things, and texting me later askinf to make sure I had a good time. Was kinda awesome
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    • vanilla, black. You sound like a pill. 4-11-2015 9:10pm
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      • I have no idea why people share details like this. It's not a locker room and I know this is pot calling kettle black I find it tasteless. 4-11-2015 10:03pm
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      • Vanilla means boring and simple 4-11-2015 10:09pm
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    • I love you fake poster 4-12-2015 1:34pm
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    • OMG OMG OMG 4-13-2015 2:58pm
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  24. Cleveland Affairs have been either very laxed or extreme aggressive. anyone have same expirence 4-11-2015 1:49pm (2 replies)
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    • ^^^experience this? 4-11-2015 1:49pm
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    • Both in one person. 4-13-2015 4:16pm
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  25. Cleveland Affair is currently playing games with me. its happening right now & i see it happening. its starting to piss me off. not sure how to handle. 4-11-2015 1:25pm (2 replies)
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    • Opt out. Don't engage 4-12-2015 1:36pm
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