Cleveland

  1. Cleveland Captain, oh my captain 2 hr 40 min ago (3 replies)
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    • we are over Robin. Joan is the topic now 2 hr 40 min ago
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      • wasn't looking for robin 2 hr 39 min ago
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        • Hook-up call? 2 hr 32 min ago
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  2. Cleveland I go through these spells where I end it. actually stay away for a bit then realize why? Life was fun with him. Dangerous but fun. He has caught on to his so he waits for me to...(more) 3 hr 23 min ago (0 replies)
    come back. I am at this point and miss him. I will not contact!!!!!!
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  3. Cleveland The greatest thing about my affair is... 3 hr 24 min ago (9 replies)
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    • He left his wife for me 3 hr 24 min ago
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      • nice :) mine would if his kids weren't in the picture or if they were older...(I am single with one dc) but he doesn't want to give them unnecessary stress and sadness he says....(more) 3 hr 21 min ago
        sad. I hope I meet someone single one day
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    • that its over. 3 hr 22 min ago
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      • Ditto. How did yours end? 3 hr 16 min ago
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        • Wished him well & bounced. You? 3 hr 15 min ago
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          • same. Why did you end and when? Are you sure he won't come back? Mine always does, but this time seems to has stuck 3 hr 13 min ago
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            • He did & I ignored. 3 hr 7 min ago
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    • He makes me feel loved. He's the only one in my life besides dcs who do that. 3 hr 15 min ago
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    • He worships the ground I walk on for many reasons. 1 hr 38 min ago
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  4. Cleveland I told him not to contact me again until his marriage was over or I'd tell his wife he reached out. Is this crazy? It was the only way to really break things off in a permanent...(more) 7 hr 8 min ago (13 replies)
    way. It was a mess for both of us but neither had the willpower to break up and make it stick.
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    • yes, it's crazy. don't involve to threaten to involve others. period. 7 hr 7 min ago
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      • What does this mean? 7 hr 4 min ago
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        • NP: It means you keep innocent parties OUT of it. Why not just say you'll pick his kid up from school and take her on a roller coaster ride? 6 hr 55 min ago
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          • Because I know it means he won't contact me. Also we have been caught once before. She knows but thinks it's over. That is why just telling her he reached out is enough. I...(more) 6 hr 51 min ago
            disagree it's the same as your (psycho) example. It was the best way I could get my point across after trying to many times and then being weak when he kept coming back.
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            • I mean I guess I can see it's a little crazy but I wanted it to be effective too. And I have told him before I'd thought about doing this. 6 hr 46 min ago
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            • Np: you did ask for the opinion of others. 3 hr 41 min ago
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              • I did, that is correct. 3 hr 26 min ago
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    • just don't respond. not nice to hurt others so don't go to the wife 5 hr 5 min ago
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      • so much easier said than done. and I was sort of upset with him for not respecting my boundaries. oh well. I am not worried about actually having to tell her. 4 hr 49 min ago
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    • You told him this a few weeks ago right? Has he contacted you since? 4 hr 30 min ago
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      • no and I do not expect him too. He's told me before that it would guarantee he didn't contact me when I told him I'd thought about doing this. 4 hr 26 min ago
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        • How long has it been since no contact? How are you doing? 4 hr 25 min ago
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          • a few weeks. doing well in that I am not worrying about being sucke back in. not doing well in that I just want to get over him/it and get him out of my head. It's still hard...(more) 4 hr 15 min ago
            because it was open-ended in that he was taking the first steps to leave when I ended it, but things were just too stressful for me to "wait." I need to move on as though he doesn't exist even though part of me still knows I have a chance. (Think Dumb and Dumber.) This has been 3 years of craziness. I do feel like this was a good line to draw in the sand, even if a little crazy.
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  5. Cleveland There was a time Playboy horrified society, now compared to a lot of what is on the internet and other places Playboy is relatively classy 7 hr 24 min ago (1 reply)
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    • whoops this was meant for toddler 7 hr 24 min ago
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  6. Cleveland I'm fucking my boss. both married 7 hr 26 min ago (2 replies)
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    • I'm sure it will end well. 6 hr 27 min ago
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    • me too…not really an upside fyi 5 hr 4 min ago
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  7. Cleveland I do miss the attention, but not the running around. deceit. I feel like I am cleansing my soul. 9 hr 50 min ago (3 replies)
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    • i've always been turned on by the sneaking around. and then the contrast with coming home and being the good wife 9 hr 27 min ago
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      • nah, I prefer to be able to leave my phone around & not be in a panic of who spotted me. 7 hr 42 min ago
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        • np. I see that, although someone from your past can always pop up. 6 hr 16 min ago
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  8. Cleveland I want to end it. Tomorrow I will not accept his invitation for lunch. I will not get in his car. I will not. 21 hr 13 min ago (8 replies)
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    • ha, I said this to myself SO many times. 21 hr 12 min ago
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      • Op - me too. I know for me, the trick is not to get in the car. I need to stand strong. 21 hr 11 min ago
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    • But you probably will 21 hr 11 min ago
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      • Yeah, I probably will. But I don't when want to. I'm not even that into him. Not sure wtf I'm doing. 21 hr 11 min ago
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        • ^^^even, not when. 21 hr 10 min ago
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    • oh the drama 21 hr 11 min ago
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    • this is sad. you should have him pay you $ at least. 19 hr 44 min ago
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    • explain the circumstances to me. where is his car parked that you have sex in his car at lunchtime with no one seeing you get in or seeing you do it. 18 hr 39 min ago
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  9. Cleveland My affair doesn't want to fuck. Just wants to go to dinner, email, hang out. WTF. I can't do anything right. 21 hr 30 min ago (9 replies)
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    • I think that's a friend, not an affair 21 hr 29 min ago
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    • Is your affair a man or a woman? 21 hr 27 min ago
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    • Have you tried? Maybe be a bit more forward/explicit? 21 hr 14 min ago
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    • OP. He fucks occasionally. But mostly just "wants to spend time with me." 21 hr 12 min ago
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      • He's married? 21 hr 11 min ago
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        • Yes. I dont understand it. Why go through all the risk if there's no payoff?? 20 hr 15 min ago
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          • he must need the companionship?? 19 hr 6 min ago
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            • I'm decent company, but seriously. I can't figure it out. I think he is super paranoid about being caught. Or too cheap for hotel. Or just lame. 19 hr 1 min ago
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              • maybe all of the above 5 hr 4 min ago
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  10. Cleveland People mock the idea of having a younger man but they never nag and they never want you to leave your husband. 21 hr 50 min ago (1 reply)
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    • ^ and also going 5 times in one night is good too 21 hr 50 min ago
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  11. Cleveland I would never, ever date my affair IRL. 9-1-2014 3:12pm (9 replies)
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    • Mine left his wife for me and we dated a bit and I realized it wasn't going to work. 9-1-2014 3:15pm
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    • Same. Although the thought sometimes crosses my mind that I would like to be with him. Then it goes away bc I just know it wouldn't work well. 9-1-2014 3:17pm
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    • I would for sure 9-1-2014 3:24pm
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    • OP: It's kind of sad how hard up I must be. 9-1-2014 3:26pm
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    • Oh I would. I love dating him 9-1-2014 5:14pm
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      • I'm the second or. We do date. We eat out. And have been to concerts and travelled together. But if we were to be together irl - would not work. 23 hr 59 min ago
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        • Same here. Curious to hear about your arrangement. We too travel together when we can, and go out to restaurants together. How do you manage it? 23 hr 27 min ago
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          • It's only been 8 mo. But have spent two nights together. We do go out occasionally for food when together. I just cross my fingers and tell him to not touch me that much in public...(more) 22 hr 59 min ago
            We went to a concert on Friday and that was. So so much fun.
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    • i wouldn't go near most of these men for long term relationships if I was single. They're only attractive because I love the thrill of doing it. Take away the thrill and that's...(more) 21 hr 52 min ago
      the fun out of it.
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  12. Cleveland Df's affair is leaving his wife. It happens. 9-1-2014 2:56pm (10 replies)
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    • My friends did too. It took 4 years but it happened. 9-1-2014 2:57pm
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      • Op. Yep, 4 years for them too. 9-1-2014 2:58pm
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    • Let us know when it actually happens. 9-1-2014 2:58pm
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      • I was skeptical but it looks like it's really going down. Fast. 9-1-2014 3:00pm
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    • So my affair and I both left our spouses and he THEN decided he didn't want to be with me. No good comes of these things 9-1-2014 3:02pm
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      • Plenty stick. Sorry yours didn't. 9-1-2014 3:03pm
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      • Op. I agree. I'm not convinced the two of them will live happily ever after, but I think they should each get out of their marriages at this point. R u glad u did? 9-1-2014 3:04pm
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        • Or: I may have plodded along forever in my marriage if it weren't for him, but it should have ended. Still a very sad situation. I miss ex even though we were never a romantic...(more) 9-1-2014 3:07pm
          match, kids are great but I'm sure would be happier if we were together, and devestated years later things didn't work out with affair. Basically I'm an idiot
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          • Have you had any luck dating? I'm in similar type marriage. Not great, not horrible. I constantly think about whether to leave and try for a better life. Or count my blessings and...(more) 9-1-2014 3:09pm
            And hunker down.
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    • This is happening to my friend. He's left his wife. She's leaving dh. 9-1-2014 3:18pm
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  13. Cleveland If they never leave how come there are ybmers with husbands who left? 9-1-2014 2:43pm (6 replies)
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    • sure they leave. but then they leave again. do you want to be the woman he used to get out of his marriage? 9-1-2014 2:44pm
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    • because they do leave. 9-1-2014 2:45pm
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    • they leave. for other women. they don't just leave b/c of general malaise 9-1-2014 2:45pm
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      • That was my point 9-1-2014 2:48pm
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    • Of course they leave. Just not to be with you. Us. Whatever. 23 hr 25 min ago
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  14. Cleveland I ended it last week & he contacted me over the weekend to hook up. I denclined. Not easy. 9-1-2014 9:05am (2 replies)
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    • They always come back, and I fell for it every time. Way to go! 9-1-2014 12:02pm
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      • op:Thank you. I am hoping to stay away. Really, it was so much added work. 9-1-2014 2:36pm
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  15. Cleveland Does anything have something they do sexually that is only for your dh. As a way to sort of maintain a line between marriage and affair. 9-1-2014 5:19am (6 replies)
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    • anyone, not anything 9-1-2014 5:20am
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    • why bother? you've already crossed the line. 9-1-2014 6:46am
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    • I never gave affair anything like the kind of sex I gave dh, but then affair & I primarily did things in a car (sometimes in the office). I did have a lot more sex with dh during...(more) 9-1-2014 8:04am
      the affair than I had before, probably out of guilt. We explored a ton of new stuff while I was off giving bjs in a car.
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      • np, this describes my situation so well. quick rushed things with affair which actually led to more sex with dh. And very different sex with. Slower and more loving 9-1-2014 9:34am
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    • I need an affair and then ill let you know. 9-1-2014 8:30am
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    • No, quite the reverse. I have done things with affair that I never did with DH. 23 hr 24 min ago
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  16. Cleveland <3 9-1-2014 12:25am (0 replies)
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  17. Cleveland I think saying "ILY" is a major boundary in an affair. I can't imagine it. Have you said it? What were the circumstances? 9-1-2014 12:02am (7 replies)
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    • Affair & I said it all the time. Problem was that I meant it, and he did not. The good news: I'll never be tempted to have an affair again. I can't just fuck someone, and I can't...(more) 9-1-2014 12:09am
      handle this level of emotional strain. Oops.
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    • Yes. We say it all the time. I think he loves me more though. I have a love for him as it can exist with what we have. 9-1-2014 1:12am
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    • we say it all the time. I divorced before he and I were really ever together and he was supposed to as well but didn't end up doing so. 9-1-2014 3:34am
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    • i would never say it 9-1-2014 5:18am
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    • yes, but it's pointless. 9-1-2014 9:07am
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    • Yes b/c he said it first. It was all bs- he said it to take emo affair to the next level, what he was going for the whole time. I was naive and didn't realize it was currency. 9-1-2014 12:04pm
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  18. Cleveland I went out last night met a guy at a club and we did it in his car. He was handsome. 8-31-2014 12:18pm (1 reply)
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    • You go to a club at least three times a week. Go you! 8-31-2014 12:19pm
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  19. Cleveland When you're a married woman and the tall handsome man knows it and he STILL chases you. I'm only human. 8-31-2014 1:53am (1 reply)
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    • you are pathetic 8-31-2014 1:56am
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  20. Cleveland I really do think that I was the only one. I reached out to him first. He told me pretty immedialty about a few indiscretions he'd had while engaged and earlier in his marriage....(more) 8-30-2014 6:43pm (27 replies)
    But while we were together I am pretty sure it was just me, even when things went downhill towards the end. Am I being naive? I mean he cried to me at times and had trouble sleeping and serious emotions about me and our situation. Of course, I guess his wife could say the same. Part of me wished I could know and find out so I'd know it was all a sham move on easier.
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    • Why do you think it would be better for you if it was a sham? Why and how did it end? 8-30-2014 6:47pm
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      • ^^^mine also told me many times, he was crying and having trouble sleeping. 8-30-2014 6:48pm
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        • I mean it bothers me more to walk away from something real than a sham, does that make sense? 8-30-2014 6:51pm
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          • Yes it makes sense, but mine was a sham (I'm the one who posted about finding out mine was trying to hook up with other)...(more) 8-30-2014 6:53pm
            but it hurts like hell.
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            • If he was such a liar to you I don't get why you'd protect him to his wife. 8-30-2014 6:58pm
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              • Because I didn't get involved with him to be vindictive if it didn't turn out my way. I knew he'd never be mine going into it. Plus contacting his wife could blow up in my face...(more) 8-30-2014 7:08pm
                and jeopardize my marriage.
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                • I see. I'm divorced. I guess in my situation we just got so far down the path (almost 3 years plus friends before that) that I'd have to do something so as not to let him get away...(more) 8-30-2014 7:17pm
                  With it. I mean it's one thing to break up because it's wrong or didn't work but it's another to find out there were others after the emotional show he put on. I'd feel I owe him nothing.
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                  • I see why you would. But what would you gain, really? If your gut tells you he was only with you, then let it be. Why did it end though? 8-30-2014 7:28pm
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                    • Oh my gut tells me and I'll let it be but if I find out otherwise he's toast. He kept me on the hook for 2 years. I ended it because we were both super stressed and frustrated....(more) 8-30-2014 7:36pm
                      Pain finally outweighed the happy.
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                      • ^because he's a conflict-avoidant pussy. 8-30-2014 7:39pm
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                      • This is what was going on with is. It was getting frustrating and stressful being apart so much. I really felt that but for him it was a picture he was painting...(more) 8-30-2014 7:42pm
                        . If he had a chance he would tell me now, that the stress caused him to hook up with others.
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                        • Lol what a fuckhead 8-30-2014 7:44pm
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                        • Sometimes when work got crazy (and I know it was, it wasn't bs) he'd get really distant and tell me it's because once we start talking he gets too distracted. That when he's...(more) 8-30-2014 7:46pm
                          stressed he gets super focused. I believe that but it also wasn't ok with me.
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                          • Fuckhead is right. Frequently had an excuse, sob story. It was subtle at times so I believed in him. Did you ever ask your affair if he was with others? 8-30-2014 7:54pm
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                            • No. Just never occurred to me really. 8-30-2014 7:56pm
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                              • That's good. Then he probably was honest and just with you. Sorry it didn't work out for ya. 8-30-2014 7:58pm
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    • You're an idiot 8-30-2014 6:47pm
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    • he TOLD you that he was crying and having trouble sleeping. he was manipulating you. 8-30-2014 6:47pm
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      • She said, he cried to her. 8-30-2014 6:49pm
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        • I can cry to anyone, that doesn't make it true 8-30-2014 6:52pm
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        • No, I was there and on the phone. And he'd write me emails in the middle of the night. 8-30-2014 6:52pm
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    • Guess what? It's a sham 8-30-2014 6:50pm
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      • His marriage is an even bigger sham then. Like a big joke. Sad. 8-30-2014 6:53pm
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        • This. Think you'd feel dumb to find out there were others? Think about how his wife would feel. 8-30-2014 8:03pm
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    • It's highly unlikely that you were the only one. I found out after the fact he was pursuing someone else while he claimed to love me so much. If he's going to lie to his wife,...(more) 8-30-2014 8:09pm
      do you really think you are getting the truth? Not flaming, I also wonder what else he was doing, but ultimately it doesn't matter. Assume the worst about him and move on
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    • my ex was like this. Full of shit. It was until I was confronted by his dw that I realized what an asshole he was. I ended up feeling bad for HER & happy I was not married to...(more) 8-31-2014 2:00am
      him.
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    • It almost certainly was a sham, regardless of whether he was dating others or not. But none of my three knows there is anyone else. 9-1-2014 12:01am
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  21. Cleveland This will sound all emo and dumb. But for the first time I'm hopeful there is an afterlife and I can be with affair there. I'm so pathetic. 8-30-2014 5:24pm (6 replies)
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    • You may be too stupid to live. 8-30-2014 5:25pm
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      • I'm not a stupid person. Just stupid into this person. 8-30-2014 5:26pm
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        • I see no difference 8-30-2014 5:27pm
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          • Fair enough. Stupid when it comes to him then. 8-30-2014 5:28pm
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    • Awwww. 8-30-2014 5:25pm
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    • There is, and you can. It'll just be very, very hot. :) 23 hr 23 min ago
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  22. Cleveland He was my first affair (emo). We didn't see each other much, but for over a year we were in touch constantly. I believed it when he always told me that all he needed and wanted was me....(more) 8-30-2014 12:39pm (24 replies)
    We loved each other (or at least I really did). I believed it when he said his life was too busy each time he couldn't be there for me. I was always there for him, but when I needed him he had an excuse. Then I found out he was trying to hook up with others and probably already seeing others (probably for sex). He denied it and he never contacted me again. Yes this is typical and I deserve it but it still hurts. For those who want to reply harshly I'm not interested in your input.
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    • You smell like poo. 8-30-2014 12:39pm
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      • I think when you become a perfect person, then you can judge. Have a nice day. 8-30-2014 12:42pm
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    • it is amazing how you can turn your heart over to someone and the blindfolds go on. it is so painful. sorry 8-30-2014 12:39pm
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      • you smell like a fart 8-30-2014 12:40pm
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        • it's amazing how people think they can just control their emotions. ice cold people 8-30-2014 12:40pm
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          • you smell like poo 8-30-2014 12:41pm
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      • Op: TY. So you've been there? 8-30-2014 12:46pm
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    • sad but yes, this is how it goes. 8-30-2014 2:22pm
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    • Stories like this freak me out. I really believe mine was sincere but dang. 8-30-2014 5:53pm
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      • I large part of me didn't believe he had the time for someone else. He planted the seeds of enticement pretty good for a long time and then he wouldn't step up to giving me what i...(more) 8-30-2014 6:17pm
        needed. We would argue, he would beg for forgiveness and beg me not leave him. The cycle continued. I should've known but it's too late now. I'm heartbroken. Have to remind myself that he wasn't even man enough to admit it and say goodbye - end it over better circumstance.
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        • Op ^^^ and that's, A large, not I large. 8-30-2014 6:18pm
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        • how did you find out? 8-30-2014 6:24pm
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          • Through acquaintances. 8-30-2014 6:25pm
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            • does his wife have any idea? 8-30-2014 6:27pm
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              • Not sure. Don't think so. 8-30-2014 6:28pm
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                • You should tell her. I would in this situation. Did he talk about leaving for you and things like that? 8-30-2014 6:28pm
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                  • No we never wanted to end our marriages. It was understood that we were there for each...(more) 8-30-2014 6:30pm
                    other when we needed. I'm no looking to ruin his life.
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                    • what do you mean "needed" and "there for each other"? You mean just in general for emotional support or something? 8-30-2014 6:31pm
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                      • Yes. To make each other happy with the time we had communicating or spending time together. Support, caring, affection... 8-30-2014 6:32pm
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    • Something about this story doesn't seem right. Something's off. What are you leaving out? 8-30-2014 10:37pm
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      • What could be off? 8-30-2014 10:50pm
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    • My ex affair just stopped making any effort to see me at all. I feel your pain. When he finally did try to step up and make time for me, it was too late, I was too hurt. He...(more) 8-30-2014 10:44pm
      basically bailed on me after I finally slept with him. Ouch.
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    • how often did you see each other? honestly I think you loved the high and the attention, but not the man. You didn't really know him - you knew the man he presented to you 8-30-2014 11:01pm
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      • I loved the man he presented to me - as much as you can love an affair. Turns out he was selfish. 8-30-2014 11:41pm
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  23. Cleveland I am hurting and I hate it. 8-30-2014 1:05am (2 replies)
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    • Me too : ( Hang in there. 8-30-2014 11:01am
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    • I ended it.Know I did the right thing because I was not getting what I wanted. Still I do get a little excited when I receive a text hoping its him & when I see that its not I do...(more) 8-30-2014 2:25pm
      Get a little crushed. Then quickly remind myself its a good thing it isnt. It'll get better.
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  24. Cleveland Dh's ex-wife never put out. for years. 8-29-2014 5:08pm (9 replies)
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    • maybe he was a douche to her 8-29-2014 5:10pm
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    • I would take that with a grain of salt.. It is probably only partly true at best. And it happens. I got to the point before the divorce that I couldn't stand thinking about...(more) 8-29-2014 5:14pm
      touching my ex. I resented him so much he was revolting to me. We both got ourselves there so it wasn't like it was all his fault but it still was true. Now that I'm not with him, I love sex.
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    • lies. 8-29-2014 10:39pm
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    • so he said 8-29-2014 10:40pm
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    • Oh please. They'll say anything to make you feel sorry for them. It's all crap. 8-29-2014 11:10pm
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      • This. 8-29-2014 11:21pm
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      • well since she called him DH - I would think he has less motive to make that up. I still don't think it is 100% true but not all false either. 9-1-2014 3:36am
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    • It def could be true. Lots of sexless marriages on ybm 8-30-2014 8:46am
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    • when i was in college a neighbor said that about his wife, turns out they were having sex almost every day and he just wanted to make me feel sorry for him 8-30-2014 11:33am
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  25. Cleveland If he don't leave his wife and you want him to then forget it. 8-29-2014 4:59pm (1 reply)
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