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  1. Cleveland A man who preforms oral perfectly is a man with experience? 8 hr 38 min ago (19 replies)
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    • More a man who has had a long term girlfriend. 8 hr 37 min ago
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      • I can't stop thinking about it. It was so fucking good. Wonder if this is what a man feels. 8 hr 34 min ago
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        • Why would you wonder what a man feels? You'll never know what a man's orgasm feels like, and you'll never know what another woman's orgasm feels like. 8 hr 33 min ago
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          • no, i am wodering if men think about how amazing a woman is at giving oral. 8 hr 23 min ago
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            • Of course. Haven't you ever made a guy breathless with a bj? I've had more than one thank me because it was so awesome. 8 hr 20 min ago
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              • Thing is this guy takes foooorever to climax & sometimes/most times doesnt at all. 8 hr 18 min ago
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                • I hate guys who enjoy a bj for too long. 8 hr 17 min ago
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                  • i have never delt with this issue & the way he enjoys it is a bit of a turn off. mostly because it takes so long. i love giving bjs. love it. annoying! 8 hr 14 min ago
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                    • Sounds like a waste of time, honestly. 8 hr 13 min ago
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                      • agree...but he does a fantastic job when going down on me. I respond quickly & it has a lasting effect. 8 hr 12 min ago
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                        • So don't let him finish. blow him until you've had enough and then fuck him. Or let him fuck you in the ass. 8 hr 9 min ago
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                          • wish he did fuck me in my ass. he won't. even when we are fucking he wont climax. 7 hr 36 min ago
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                            • he needs hours or he has a problem with climaxing. 7 hr 34 min ago
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                          • you women and your old coke heads. 2 hr 23 min ago
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                • dh: For me, if it takes a long time to climax it is because I am really not into it. 5 hr ago
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                  • even if rock hard? why keep coming back? 3 hr 46 min ago
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                    • hard, maybe not rock hard. If rock hard and taking a long time maybe viagra is involved. For me, sex always sounds like a good idea, and then sometimes turns out not to be, for...(more) 1 hr 49 min ago
                      whatever reason.
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                      • You are a total pussy. 1 hr 48 min ago
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      • This. 2 hr 24 min ago
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  2. Cleveland Psycho made me lunch for work & it was delicious. damn. 9 hr ago (0 replies)
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  3. Cleveland What kind of tops do you wear under suits? FOrmer SAHM back at working in an office 20 hr 48 min ago (1 reply)
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    • clevies wear nothing under 8 hr 52 min ago
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  4. Cleveland Why would my friends be moving to a smaller house 20 hr 52 min ago (3 replies)
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    • dh and i discussing even though we moved here for the space and dd's still young. its a lot of upkeep. 20 hr 50 min ago
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      • ^^but today they ran in w 5 neighbor kids, all sopping from playing in the snow and i was able to send the whole soggy mess to playroom. so i think abt that aspect 20 hr 49 min ago
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    • Because he had an affair with you. 6 hr 58 min ago
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  5. Cleveland Can't believe he is moving to my neighborhood 21 hr 19 min ago (4 replies)
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    • Awkward 21 hr 14 min ago
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      • Very. He lives near me now, but moving to my actual street 21 hr 10 min ago
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        • still seeing him romantically? 5 hr 10 min ago
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    • that is nucking futs 8 hr 53 min ago
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  6. Cleveland I'm seeing him tomorrow night, been together 2 months and talk daily, often. 5th time in hotel. I am so...(more) 2-26-2015 5:30pm (0 replies)
    Excited I can barely contain myself.
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  7. Cleveland Here's something you guys will love....(more) 2-26-2015 9:50am (7 replies)
    • I listened last night. It was pretty fascinating 2-26-2015 9:51am
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    • DO I know you? 2-26-2015 1:23pm
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    • It is interesting how the woman who gave the longest interview went to such great lengths to rationalize her affair with so much psychobabble and even feminist bullshit when all...(more) 2-26-2015 4:30pm
      almost she really understood that she was a selfish person trying to have her cake and eat it too and was not above emotionally blackmailing her obviously weak husband.
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      • It's not that simple when you are in it. At all. 6 hr 58 min ago
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        • np - while i agree with you about the complexity of it all, Sheri was a jerk whw was way to ready to excuse herself. 6 hr 26 min ago
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        • Maybe. But sometimes it is simple and people obfuscate things to avoid coming face to face with who they really strand what they are really doing. Finding moral clarity is a very...(more) 1 hr 18 min ago
          I'mportant part of life lived in a healthy manner
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          • Who they really "are" .sorry... A strange autocorrect 1 hr 16 min ago
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  8. Cleveland Haven't cheated in a while, things are good with dh. Friday night work drinks I got drunk and my colleague kissed me and I didn't stop it. Nobody else from work say. We haven't...(more) 2-26-2015 9:04am (40 replies)
    mentioned since. I don't know what will happen this friday night. 37. 3 dc. married 11 years.
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    • Do your kids like him? 2-26-2015 9:05am
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      • do they like dh? of course 2-26-2015 9:07am
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    • if not happily married just get a divorc. the women who cheat is what disgusts me, 2-26-2015 9:06am
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      • Why are you on Cleveland? 2-26-2015 9:07am
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    • You'll be fucking him by next month 2-26-2015 9:06am
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      • i don't want to but i'm weak when it comes to temptation 2-26-2015 9:08am
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        • Obviously. You still have the cheaters mindset. You haven't made any real changes 2-26-2015 9:09am
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        • So stay home on friay 2-26-2015 9:15am
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          • this is a great response i ageee with 2-26-2015 9:33am
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      • a month ? Try next week 2-26-2015 9:10am
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      • this 2-26-2015 9:12am
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    • ask your dh. see what he says. 2-26-2015 9:11am
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      • such a stupid old response. 2-26-2015 9:13am
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        • then why not ask him? 2-26-2015 9:13am
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          • are you really asking this question? take a guess genius. you're answer will be the right one. 2-26-2015 9:16am
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    • you know what will happen and are excited by it. You are lying to yourself, your dh AND your kids. my mom had an affair and it ruined our relationship and i hope your kids find...(more) 2-26-2015 9:11am
      out about you soon
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    • when the kids find out. yikes. your marriage is a sham. just divorce 2-26-2015 9:12am
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      • and they will find out, op is a whore 2-26-2015 9:13am
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    • you truly disgust me, you are pathetic and weak and i feel so sorry for your dh and kids 2-26-2015 9:12am
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    • why go out on friday night ? I am sure your colleague just knows you are an easy fuck and has no feelings for your tramp ass 2-26-2015 9:13am
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      • THIS is our annual vacation, not willing to sit in some butthole for a week 2-26-2015 9:14am
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        • OOPS, JUST THIS ! 2-26-2015 9:14am
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    • looks like boed toddler moms are trolling. 2-26-2015 9:15am
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      • ^^^bored 2-26-2015 9:15am
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      • yup, wish i ould offer support to a life ruining selfish bitch 2-26-2015 9:15am
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      • and we may be bored, which is better than trying to spice things up by a bit on the side 2-26-2015 9:16am
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        • but you are here. kind of lame. 2-26-2015 9:17am
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          • what are you doing here ? lol 2-26-2015 9:18am
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            • picking up tips on how to lie to everyone in your life ? 2-26-2015 9:18am
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            • having an affair. im am on the right board. 2-26-2015 9:28am
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    • who are you people that think it's ok to ruin lives? what's your damage? how do you think this is ok? you have no idea the repercussion of what you are doing. they are long and...(more) 2-26-2015 9:16am
      far reaching. You are literally destroying souls. I hope your dh never finds out. Get your Karma Bus ticket ready for when it rolls around.
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      • and her poor kids. Affiars ruined my life and even to this day i have intimacy issues, even though i have the most trustworthy dh on the planet. my mom destroyed any trust i had...(more) 2-26-2015 9:18am
        in her
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        • didnt even read your response. stop wasting your time. 2-26-2015 9:29am
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          • liar 2-26-2015 9:29am
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            • no, really. i didnt read it. 2-26-2015 9:32am
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              • liar, but what more would i expect from someone who lies so easily everyday 2-26-2015 9:33am
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              • truth hurts, but you should try it sometimes 2-26-2015 9:35am
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        • np a person doesnt have the power to ruin your life. the sooner you realize this, the happier you will be. Good luck. signed, daughter of cheating addicts 2-26-2015 2:21pm
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  9. Cleveland Ex affair (hellish ending, haven't talked in over a month) added me on Google +. First of all, I haven't been on Google + in over a year. Secondly, why would he do that?...(more) 2-25-2015 6:28pm (4 replies)
    To see if it stirs me up? It just pissed me off.
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    • i bet he was searching you and added you by accident 2-25-2015 6:29pm
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      • Searching for me there? Or just like Google or something? Lol 2-25-2015 6:31pm
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        • there. or maybe it suggested you if you are a contact in his email account. 2-25-2015 6:33pm
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    • probably sync'd all his contacts & u were still in there. dont waste anytime worrying. forget it. 2-25-2015 9:15pm
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  10. Cleveland Why do you stay married to someone you are willing to cheat on? 2-25-2015 4:28pm (34 replies)
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    • I don't cheat but I feel like some people are more tolerant of this, not everyone is obsessed with monogamy, you know? 2-25-2015 4:29pm
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      • let's assume the person being cheated on isn't. 2-25-2015 4:29pm
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        • well i think marriage and sex are two different things for some people. so someone might love theor spouse, comfort, family, etc. but crave sex with new people, variety, or...(more) 2-25-2015 4:31pm
          whatever. even though it is not fo rme, i can easily see how someone would want to be married to one person while also wanting sex with others.
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          • That doesn't answer what I'm asking. Why would you stay married to someone you are willing to cheat on.. thus.. why are you staying married to someone you are willing to hurt...(more) 2-25-2015 4:32pm
            like that?
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            • np - I don't think you're really looking to be informed or enlightened. 2-25-2015 4:33pm
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              • why? 2-25-2015 4:33pm
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                • or: it seems sort of obvious that there are people who cheat and want to stay married, but you seem to want to hear that anyone willing to cheat has a more rational plan to hurt...(more) 2-25-2015 4:35pm
                  the spouse. i am not interested in cheating or being cheated on but think i can understand this aspect of human behavior. i'm sorry f it is you who has been hurt.
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                  • OP here. I wasn't cheated on. I'm friends with someone (male) who is single and seeing a married woman. He vents to me about the situation. I just don't understand her...(more) 2-25-2015 4:55pm
                    motivation. She is young, no kids, fairly new marriage (4 years now, but she's been with this other guy for 2 of them). Her husband has threatened to leave her twice now and told her under no circumstance can she talk to this guy but she keeps doing it. whenever he threatens to leave, she cuts off all contact with the other guy for a week or so. She says the whole thing is killing her and it is clearly causing both men a lot of pain. I don't understand why she does it.
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                    • Is her husband wealthy? 2-25-2015 4:56pm
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                      • No, they are living in a tiny apartment, share 1 car. 2-25-2015 4:57pm
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            • i would guess because the cheater feels compelled to have sex with others and hopes they will to be caught, no? i am sure there's a lot of rationalization, but the cheater may be...(more) 2-25-2015 4:33pm
              very desperate to stay married and just cannot controll him or herself -- eg david duchovny.
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              • ^will NOT be caught, sorry, typo 2-25-2015 4:34pm
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      • Then why get married 2-25-2015 4:34pm
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        • oh good Lord you are not thinking in a very complex manner. if you are reeling from being hurt, sorry. but this is age-old human behavior -- a person might fall in love and want...(more) 2-25-2015 4:37pm
          to marry and still or at some later date fine him or herself compelled and willing to have sex with others, can you not see that this will nto necessarily be a premeditated act AGAINST the spouse but more of a selfish act FOR the person who both loves the spouse and wants outside sex? it is not an either/or situation in many cases.
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          • Do you realize you're responding to more than one person ? I've never been hurt and I'm not op or the other responder 2-25-2015 4:39pm
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    • I didn't stay married, but I didn't konw that was going to be the outcome. I was surprised to find myself in an affair, surprised I would do it. It confused me and I had to ask...(more) 2-25-2015 4:38pm
      myself that question and confront the fact that I didn't love my spouse or respect him. But I also wasn't willing to make an impulsive decision.
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      • What did your affair do to seduce you? 2-25-2015 4:39pm
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        • lol. life isn't a movie. he didn't seduce me. we connected. 2-25-2015 4:41pm
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          • what made you feel connected? 2-25-2015 4:42pm
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            • he's just a much better fit for me in many ways that have nothing to do with marital status. just as people. and yes, we are still together. 2-25-2015 4:43pm
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      • op back - well, then you are the antithesis of who I'm asking, I think. Unless you are commenting on any significant period between when you cheated and decided to divorce. 2-25-2015 4:51pm
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        • it wasn't that significant.. I wasn't going to cheat over a long period of time. It was torture. but I also wasn't going to "just divorce" like people on here say. I spent abo...(more) 2-25-2015 4:53pm
          months before deciding.
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          • Yeah. I don't understand the long term cheating.. planing and wanting to stay cheating and married forever. Even if I stopped cheating I would think the guilt every time I...(more) 2-25-2015 4:57pm
            looked at the spouse would rip me apart.
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      • Ditto 2-25-2015 9:42pm
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    • children, house, friends, family, finances, etc. Same reasons someone stays with a cheater, actually. 2-25-2015 4:57pm
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      • It sort of seems like marriage is such a trap to those people. I would feel pretty awful knowing my husband was only still married to me because it was too much of a pain to...(more) 2-25-2015 4:59pm
        change.
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        • I think you are right that many people who cheat feel trapped. 2-25-2015 4:59pm
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        • its also avoidance. Avoiding confrontation, hurting your spouse, dealing with the outrage, upheaval in your daily life. 2-25-2015 5:01pm
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    • Married my affair. I'll never cheat on him. 2-25-2015 6:35pm
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      • never say never. 2-25-2015 7:24pm
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        • Very true. I take that back. 2-26-2015 6:46am
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    • There are a number of reason that you would cheat on your spouse even though you love him/her and want to stay married - more sex, more variety, to fill some emotional need ......(more) 2-25-2015 7:15pm
      The reason you do it is because you don't think you will get caught. If you have an open marriage, then it isn't cheating.
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      • I don't believe this. I believe that if you think you love someone you are willing to cheat on, you are so damaged that you have no idea what love is. 2-26-2015 12:42am
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    • I didn't. I'm divorcing dh. My affair (huge mistake about which I will be ashamed forever) made me realize that I was in deep denial about my marriage. No happily married person...(more) 2-25-2015 9:30pm
      falls in "love" with someone else.
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  11. Cleveland So my attempt to end it resulted in him saying, "you are mine for life". ummmm, I managed to get him to simmer down a bit. Its going to be a slow shake off. 2-25-2015 9:00am (10 replies)
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    • Nce. I want a man to own me. 2-25-2015 9:03am
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      • op:i use to love when my previous affair said these things. This guy has an intensity that makes me think he believes it. 2-25-2015 9:42am
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    • Just. Stop. Talking. To. Him. 2-25-2015 9:07am
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      • op:This man will confront me. Has already showed up at my job during his lunch break, because he hasnt seen me for a fee days. 2-25-2015 9:41am
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        • then let him. If you really wanted to end it you would 2-25-2015 5:02pm
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        • You need to be firm and tell him to stop. Tell he's now stalking and you'll begin to file police reports if he doesn't stop. 2-26-2015 8:22am
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          • you are right. it has gotten out of control. he knows i have more to lose. he has heavy needs that i can not fill. 2-26-2015 9:08am
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    • well he's a fucking liar so dont believe his shit 2-25-2015 9:08am
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      • op:its just crazy. This is my 3rd affair & never have had this much trouble. He called me out on it too. Says Ive didnt know what I was getting into with him. He is crazy. 2-25-2015 9:35am
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        • we told you not to go there. you didn't listen 2-25-2015 5:04pm
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  12. Cleveland If you ever ended an affair. How did you do it? 2-24-2015 9:51am (16 replies)
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    • He ended it. I tried a few times and never stuck to it. It took him ending it to finally do it 2-24-2015 9:54am
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      • np - were you devastated? mine ended it and i feel so lost and like i'll never get right again. 2-24-2015 9:59am
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        • how did he do it? 2-24-2015 10:06am
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          • just told me that he wasn't my answer. told me that he loves his wife. told me it was never a real relationship to him (maybe it wasn't, but it is unfair for him to act like i...(more) 2-24-2015 11:26am
            am crazy to think it was since he often told me we'd wind up together one day and that he loves me.)
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            • why do they do this? fucking assholes 2-24-2015 11:43am
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              • mine doesn't want a relationship. just wants the kinky sex his wife won't give him. i want to have a relationship with him. 2-24-2015 12:49pm
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                • dumped by text? 2-24-2015 4:46pm
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            • ^. Not or. My affair was single. He wanted a real relationship and I couldn't give that to him. 2-24-2015 12:50pm
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      • how did he do it? 2-24-2015 10:04am
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    • Wasn't easy. Tried to end it several times and he would come back and I would cave. Then he ended it and I cut off all communication. He's back wanting to be "friends". 2-24-2015 2:17pm
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      • Don't do it. 2-25-2015 8:43am
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    • Told him to never contact me again, and kept ignoring him every time he tried. It took awhile but he finally got the message. 2-25-2015 8:42am
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      • did he ever confront you in person? 2-25-2015 9:03am
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        • He tried but I walked away. 2-25-2015 10:13pm
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    • After much drama and bullshit, I had to go 100% no contact. I hope to never, ever see or hear from him again. 2-25-2015 9:34pm
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  13. Cleveland I think I am done with this affair busniess. Have to focus on myself. I try to please everyone. Take on way too much while important shit is slipping through the cracks. 2-24-2015 9:47am (0 replies)
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  14. Cleveland While i was taking a shower dh was calling my phone that was in our bedroom charging while he was in our living room. Says my phone is always on vibrate. He tried to reset my...(more) 2-24-2015 8:47am (18 replies)
    phone. While I was the shower. He could not get into my phone because of my password which I had to later explain why I change it. He wants me to have my phone on ring all thetime. I hate his controling behavior. Don't like that he did this. I am telling affair to back off today. Have to either have it out with dh or work it out. Either way I am not in a good place.
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    • Maybe you shouldn't be cheating then 2-24-2015 8:52am
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      • oh, I know this. I am going to end affair. Way too much work. Not worth the risk. Affair is also very demanding. Can't keep up. 2-24-2015 9:00am
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    • controlling dh isn't good 2-24-2015 8:53am
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      • I know. Even if I didnt have something to hide this would still bother me. 2-24-2015 9:04am
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    • Dh knows something is up 2-24-2015 9:05am
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      • because my affair is so demanding and i am such a fucking pushover there have been little snippets too close together where my actions are questionable. 2-24-2015 9:12am
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        • Sounds like it's all about to come crashing down. 2-24-2015 9:13am
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          • i dont believe so. i am ending it affair. if i continue yes. it will be like setting off a bomb. 2-24-2015 9:27am
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    • i would not want to be married to you. controlling dh? really? 2-24-2015 9:05am
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      • Nor I to you. dh is controling. goes beyond this. 2-24-2015 9:09am
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        • ^^^i am just not happy 2-24-2015 9:13am
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          • ^^^(sorry) what I want is peace. dh to treat me like a woman instead of always barking & making demands. Treating me like some...(more) 2-24-2015 9:17am
            He treats me as if i am to serve him. I work f/t too. Get tired.
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            • If you get caught it will get 10000 times worse. 2-24-2015 9:19am
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              • u are absolutley right. i will have to leave or kill myself. i could not take anymore. 2-24-2015 9:22am
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                • Do you have a therapist? 2-24-2015 10:08pm
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    • what was your excuse for changing the password? 2-24-2015 6:01pm
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    • What I want to know is why is your DH calling you while you're both in the house... 2-26-2015 5:35pm
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      • he's looking for her phone 20 hr 24 min ago
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  15. Cleveland Remember when C was all "oooohhh" and Wiper was all "aaaaaah" 2-23-2015 7:38pm (2 replies)
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    • No. 2-23-2015 7:38pm
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    • C was the tall skinny one or Claire? 2-24-2015 9:01am
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  16. Cleveland Redirect my energy back to dh, redirect my energy back to dh....have to remember this. 2-23-2015 12:12pm (6 replies)
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    • dunno. maybe with a little decency? 2-23-2015 12:13pm
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    • TOO LATE 2-23-2015 5:42pm
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      • no its not. Things are better than ever w/dh, I just need to remember that when I get sad about affair 2-24-2015 9:28am
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        • np - i'm working so hard on this too. my dh is worth ten of x affair, but i still miss the good parts. not healthy. 2-24-2015 9:59am
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          • it got easier for me when affair said he won't leave dw. Why pine away for someone who clearly doesn't feel that way about me? Fuck him. 2-24-2015 10:17am
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            • i am in awe of people who can just change their feelings the way you say. i want to say fuck him and move on, but the loving feelings are hard to get rid of. 2-24-2015 11:27am
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  17. Cleveland DH has recently shared that he'd be turned on if I had a one night stand, he'd even like to watch. The crazy part is that I've cheated a while back. Don't plan to tell him but...(more) 2-22-2015 11:06pm (6 replies)
    curious to see how this develops
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    • It's not going to end well 2-22-2015 11:07pm
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    • it wont end well. this never does. 2-22-2015 11:07pm
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      • which part? 2-22-2015 11:13pm
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    • hes cheating on you or considering it 2-22-2015 11:07pm
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    • get a life 2-22-2015 11:08pm
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    • with DH, keep it as a fun fantasy 2-23-2015 12:22am
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  18. Cleveland I think I'm falling in love with him. This really sucks. Not my first or only affair. This is not good. 2-22-2015 8:52am (12 replies)
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    • Ya big dummy 2-22-2015 8:53am
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    • DH here who feels the same way about his affair. I know how addictive it can be. 2-22-2015 8:55am
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      • if you know, what are you doing to NOT indulge? 2-22-2015 8:57am
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      • He texts me in the morning to say good morning, checks in throughout the day, wants to call me, goes out of his way to see me (not just for sex, sometimes just to talk), says good...(more) 2-22-2015 9:28am
        Night every night, going on 2 months and it's just so intense.
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        • this is how it is with my affair. he is such a huge sloppy risk for me tho. 2-24-2015 8:51am
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    • It certainly complicates matters. That being said - I love mine as well but realize that it's in the context of an affair and would likely not be successful in the real world. 2-22-2015 10:26am
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    • Clearly you've been looking for this if you've have multiple affairs. So you did it to yourself. Do yourself a favor and shit or get off the pot and deal with your marriage. 2-22-2015 11:12am
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    • psycho affair mom? 2-22-2015 10:34pm
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    • listen to me:...(more) 2-23-2015 12:05pm
      GET OUT NOW. You'll end up so miserable you'll want to die. He will not leave dw, no matter what he says. You'll hate yourself and him.
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      • she's right. i have to talk myself out of jumping off a bridge every day. last year at this time, everyone here was telling me to get out and i didn't. 2-23-2015 1:56pm
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      • np except I can name a half dozen men who did leave their wives and are remarried . 2-24-2015 8:56am
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        • that's nice - those women are now married to men who cheat on their wives. bully for them. 2-24-2015 10:00am
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  19. Cleveland Went to single affairs appt today, only had a couple hours. We had a drink, hung out, I helped him fold laundry....(more) 2-20-2015 7:33pm (5 replies)
    So we start making out and one of his friends shows up, then another. It's not uncomfortable but seriously first of all I have never met his friends, he's introducing me and all cool, rubbing my back, affectionate in front of them. I finally say I have to go, nice to meet you guys and he tells me hes sure I'll see em again sometime. He whispers in my ear to call him tomorrow when I can see him and finish what we started. I've been with him 4 years now. I'm kinda pissed and I know he knows it. I'm so damn confused and annoyed. Not even sure I wanna see him tomorrow, even though I easily can. Ugh
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    • Fwiw, I go to his place and we fuck, it's what we do, never haven't when I went over lol 2-20-2015 8:31pm
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    • first of all, laundry?! 2nd, do they know you're married? just got riskier. i'd be pissed he let them in without asking me. 2-20-2015 11:18pm
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    • You are such a disaster 2-20-2015 11:57pm
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    • He's gotten pretty lax about you. 2-21-2015 8:18am
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      • I just told him I can't stop by today. No reason. I'm too annoyed to even see him 2-21-2015 2:21pm
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  20. Cleveland Philip Levine 2-20-2015 12:00am (1 reply)
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    • is this your affair? 2-20-2015 12:03am
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  21. Cleveland Heard he's going through a rough time. Feel bad and want to reach out, but then I remember, he's an ass 2-19-2015 11:37pm (9 replies)
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    • as are you 2-19-2015 11:37pm
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    • Fuck him. Seriously. If you reach out he'll just think you want to fuck him. 2-19-2015 11:45pm
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      • Well, that's no good, considering I never did to begin with 2-19-2015 11:46pm
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        • haha ok. But really, don't reach out. You'll get sucked back in. 2-19-2015 11:49pm
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          • You're right of course, it's my "wanting to fix things" instinct 2-19-2015 11:52pm
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            • I hear you. That's how many of us get into these messes in the first place. Stay strong. You are a good person even if you don't fix everyone. 2-19-2015 11:54pm
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              • Ahhh...ok...thank you!!! 2-19-2015 11:56pm
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    • that happened to me, found out he had some bad news but i didn't reach out, maybe should have 2-19-2015 11:58pm
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  22. Cleveland Please comment on this from affair....(more) 2-19-2015 4:32pm (21 replies)
    We have been together for around 5 years or so, getting closer every year I would say. I Love having you in my life. I Love You Very Much. I Love talking to you every day, I love the thought of kissing you and making love to you. I have a much different relationship with you than I do with DW. In looking at the big picture, of our lives we have both built, it would be so hard to try and break everything down and start over again. I think that is a huge risk and may ultimately tear us apart. I know what we have is delicate and complicated and hard to deal with. But I don't know what else to do. I DON'T want to lose you babe. I just keep avoiding even the thought of that. I LOVE YOU. I NEED YOU.
    I guess the impossible question is: What do you want to do?
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    • he is asking if it is OK just to go on as you are 2-19-2015 4:33pm
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    • he wants to stay married and keep fucking you. 2-19-2015 4:34pm
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      • i know. i don't know if i can do this. 2-19-2015 4:34pm
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    • I hope you don't plan to have a future or leave your spouses, because he is telling you that will never happen. Fun on the side is all you should expect to be. 2-19-2015 4:34pm
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    • Tell him you will risk it all but he has to leave his dw 2-19-2015 4:35pm
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      • right! and that she'll kill her if he stays. 2-19-2015 4:35pm
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    • Do you want him to leave his wife and marry you? He doesn't think your relationship would survive marriage. 2-19-2015 4:36pm
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      • yeah. So why do this? he doens't think i'm worth marriage 2-19-2015 4:39pm
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        • Not at this point. Not at this stage. Perhaps if you had met when you were single. But he doesn't want to marry you after 5 years of fucking you (and loving you, if he can be...(more) 2-19-2015 4:41pm
          believed) on the side.
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      • he doesn't think their relationship would survive divorcing their spouses. 2-19-2015 10:43pm
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    • You and he can never have a communication that doesn't involve 1)his wife or 2)fucking. That's not a relationship I'd want long term. 2-19-2015 4:40pm
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    • Is this June mom? 2-19-2015 4:58pm
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      • she's been with the guy about a year 2-19-2015 10:42pm
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        • Where is she? She's been quiet so she must be back with him. 2-20-2015 2:27pm
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    • Mine talks ALLLLLLL the time about "one day" and "what if". I just told him this week to stfu about it bc it raised expectations even if he clearly saw it as fantasy 2-19-2015 5:08pm
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    • Do you want to make a life with him? If you do, leave him. 2-19-2015 6:35pm
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      • I don't understand this response 2-19-2015 7:03pm
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        • He can see how great his life is without her. Or not. 2-19-2015 7:42pm
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    • Does he always capitalize random shit like that? 2-19-2015 10:59pm
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      • ha, yes, he does it for emphasis 2-20-2015 9:09am
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  23. Cleveland Saw affair tonight and for maybe the second time in over a year the sex was meh. Actually it was totally meh. Are my blinders starting to come off?? 2-18-2015 10:34pm (3 replies)
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    • Maybe his are. 2-18-2015 10:38pm
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      • Maybe. I was there and I'm like wtf am I doing!? Idk. Maybe it's a turning point for me. 2-18-2015 10:47pm
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    • this happened to me. not worth the risk. ditch. 2-19-2015 8:25pm
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  24. Cleveland My single affair of 3 years suddenly has been so sweet and passionate, and he wants to go without condoms, has made comments the last few times. I know him very well, we are...(more) 2-18-2015 7:59pm (7 replies)
    great friends, work together. Just trying to figure out what is changing and how to deal. Just kinda threw me for a loop
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    • get tested, both of you 2-18-2015 8:01pm
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    • He wants to fuck you bareback. he assumes you'll take care of bc. selfish and dangerous, but it's kind of normal in a long term relationship. 2-18-2015 8:02pm
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      • He is generally crazy obsessed with protection, I think it's because we've been together so long, it's just a natural progression. I'm kind of like his girlfriend now lol 2-18-2015 8:34pm
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        • ive been with my single for 5 yrs now. weve never used a condom. i am his woman. 2-18-2015 9:31pm
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          • So he never goes out with his buddies? 2-18-2015 9:42pm
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    • So now your DHs health is dependent on the honesty of a man who is screwing his wife. This is why affairs cannot be justified on basic moral or ethical grounds 2-19-2015 12:16pm
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    • Doesn't he fuck other people? And you fuck other people. Why would you go without protection? 2-19-2015 5:00pm
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  25. Cleveland 3 guys. 2 of them know I am fucking someone else. 1 of them says he would love to see me fucking by someone else. 0 chance I can get them at the same time....(more) 2-18-2015 4:58pm (6 replies)
    Why do some men enjoy the thought of another man fucking their woman yet when its time play nothing.
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    • I suddenly feel like a prude. 2-18-2015 4:58pm
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    • how does your husband fee? 2-18-2015 4:59pm
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      • he loves to hear me talk dirty during sex about having sex with other men. How much I love it., yada, yada. 2-18-2015 5:04pm
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        • My DH loves to hear me talk about fucking other guys. I always add how big their cocks are and he often comes 2-22-2015 11:01pm
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    • I'm fuckin 4 right now (5 if you count dh). I don't talk much kht 2-18-2015 8:00pm
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      • ^^^to the about others but 4 know I'm fucking around. None want to do it with me and another 2-18-2015 8:01pm
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