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  1. Cleveland Why am I such an attention whore? 31 min ago (12 replies)
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    • because you are unfulfilled in life and don't know how to process that appropriately. so you act out. 30 min ago
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      • but why do i see attention from so many men? is it bc i used to be fat and invisible? 27 min ago
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        • No, it's because you have unresolved problems, and you deal with them in this immature way instead of confronting the actual issues. This just distracts you. 21 min ago
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          • what issues could those be? bc i've thought about it and don't know 17 min ago
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            • I can't say. Possibilities are: your marriage is bad and you seek attention because of that, you're insecure and need validation... 15 min ago
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              • i think i feel completely indifferent about my dh and marriage as a result of affair 14 min ago
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                • People who have solid relationships don't enter into affairs. 13 min ago
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                  • oh i know. it's the attention and hero worship for me 9 min ago
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                    • You know. I fooled around on my exdh (I wouldn't call them affairs). In hindsight, I very much regret that I didn't confront issues head-on. 5 min ago
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                      • i tried to before i actually commenced looking for an affair. i spent 6 months trying to fix things and got nowhere. so here i am. having an affair, fooling around with another...(more) 3 min ago
                        and texting and chatting with one more
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            • probably daddy issues 7 min ago
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              • op: i don't think so. my dad was a good dad 6 min ago
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  2. Cleveland Suppose to meet up with later. feeling so disconnected from him. Thinking of canceling.m 6 hr 37 min ago (38 replies)
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    • zzzzzzz 6 hr 36 min ago
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    • Why do you feel disconnected? 5 hr 44 min ago
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      • I am getting tired of just sex. He gives nothing back. Maybe I am just getting bored. I go to him. set up times. 5 hr 4 min ago
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        • So basically, he's become inattentive like dh. Which is the reason you started doing this in the first place right? 5 hr 4 min ago
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          • op:yes!!! still wants it but puts nothing into it. 4 hr 50 min ago
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            • You don't need that. I think you should break up with him. 4 hr 44 min ago
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              • how do I address this? I've settled for crumbs here. 4 hr 34 min ago
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                • Confront him. Dont be afraid of losing him. Move on back to DH or to another man. 4 hr 32 min ago
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                  • This. You have to realize he's expendable. Why would you sell your shitty car to buy another shitty car. You have loads of options for an upgrade. 4 hr 31 min ago
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                    • We have a sage amongst us. I agree completely. 4 hr 26 min ago
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                      • I what complicates these things, and what makes them different from cars, is that you're thinking about this in an emotionally charged place vs. being pragmatic. 4 hr 21 min ago
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                        • Yes. Understood. However, if this man is not providing you with the emotional stability and support you want then your connection is irrational. Step back. Back to DH or a man who...(more) 4 hr 13 min ago
                          can offer you this.
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                        • op:are you a man. interesting way of thinking. 3 hr 57 min ago
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                          • Ha.. Yes I am, but it was a woman who had explained this to me about something completely different. It just seemed to apply here. 3 hr 56 min ago
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                            • op:funny how I picked up on it. ty! 3 hr 10 min ago
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                              • It's because you have your man radar on. You're on the prowl for a new car so to speak. 3 hr ago
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                                • op: This made me laugh. thank you. 34 min ago
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                    • op: lol! true. 3 hr 58 min ago
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                  • op: love this advice. thank you. 3 hr 59 min ago
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              • how do I address this? I've settled for crumbs here & have been with guy for a long time. 4 hr ago
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                • ^^^^soory yb from phone. wacky. ignore. 4 hr ago
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        • You are looking for a connection beyond sex. 5 hr 3 min ago
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          • op:can I still have this? 4 hr 49 min ago
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            • With the right man, yes. 4 hr 43 min ago
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        • Go on CL and look for a strictly platonic friend. 5 hr 2 min ago
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          • op: ? 4 hr 43 min ago
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            • Find someone you connect with first, then try hooking up with them 4 hr 42 min ago
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        • Find a man who has both traits - Good in bed and good in adressing your needs 5 hr ago
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          • A hard man is good to find, but a hard man with out a hard head is hard to find. 4 hr 58 min ago
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            • Where did you find the first? 4 hr 54 min ago
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              • Are you looking for one? 4 hr 52 min ago
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                • No. Are you looking for a new one? I am just curious. 4 hr 50 min ago
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                  • no 4 hr 49 min ago
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                    • ^^got cut off.. No. I'm not either. 4 hr 47 min ago
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          • Op:what do I do? I am very unhappy. 4 hr 42 min ago
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            • Post an email? 4 hr 40 min ago
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    • Get a fucking divorce and find a real relationship 3 hr 23 min ago
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  3. Cleveland I need someone to fuck me 16 hr 55 min ago (40 replies)
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    • like an animal? 16 hr 54 min ago
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      • Thanks, Trent. That was a classic. 16 hr 53 min ago
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    • where are you? 16 hr 51 min ago
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      • Nyc. 16 hr 46 min ago
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        • DH? DW? Age? 16 hr 32 min ago
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          • Dw. 37yo 16 hr 28 min ago
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            • how many affairs have you had or flings? 16 hr 26 min ago
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              • Two. Each a few months. Both decent guys - just not the right situation. 16 hr 16 min ago
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                • night right because? 16 hr 15 min ago
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                  • One was too close to me at work. We mutually decided not the best situation. Other too close to home. Both ended amicably - no drama or anything. 16 hr 13 min ago
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                    • were they single or married? work relationships are difficult and dangerous. 16 hr 11 min ago
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                      • Both married. I would never date a single guy. Too risky. 15 hr 41 min ago
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            • Is DH not attentive? Did you recently end an affair? 16 hr 22 min ago
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              • Just ended one, yes. DH is lovely but has trouble in the bedroom. 16 hr 14 min ago
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                • Don't many of them? :( 16 hr 9 min ago
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            • NYC Dh. Care to talk? 16 hr 20 min ago
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              • Sure. Tell me about yourself. 16 hr 13 min ago
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                • 38. Keep myself in good shape. A reasonable and good person. In a marriage lacking sex. That's not my resume or cover letter, but its a place to start. 16 hr 11 min ago
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                  • Sounds like me. What are you looking for in an affair?...(more) 15 hr 39 min ago
                    For me it would be good sex plus open communication, line a good friend. Nothing too heavy or romantic, but the ability to talk about interests, work, hobbies, etc. Someone with something to add to my already busy and interesting life. :)
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                    • All of that sounds reasonable. Nothing too heavy is fine as long as its peppered with some conversation. 15 hr 24 min ago
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                      • Exactly. I want to hear about someone's life. Just no trashing of spouses or that kind of thing. Good friends, common interests and great sex. That's what I like! 15 hr 21 min ago
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                        • ^What else can I tell you about me? 15 hr 20 min ago
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                          • I wouldn't expect you to tell me much here. You can ask and Ill ask more things in a more private setting. I assume you don't have a lazy eye, a mean streak or an extra digit on...(more) 15 hr 19 min ago
                            your left hand.
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                            • No. Just a few large, hairy moles and a penchant for elastic waistbands. I'm totally hot. 15 hr 17 min ago
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                        • That sounds good to me. Exchange emails? 15 hr 20 min ago
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                          • Sure. Where can I reach you? 15 hr 18 min ago
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                            • Give me a moment. 15 hr 17 min ago
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                              • OK...(more) 15 hr 14 min ago
                                blueletter friend at gmai l. I know its not the most original, but it is the color scheme here.
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                                • All one word? I'll send a test email. 15 hr 13 min ago
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            • I am also 37 dw... 14 hr 9 min ago
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              • Im a 39 yo DW. What does that mean for us? 13 hr 55 min ago
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                • if you are interested in extra fun...but I guess not your cup o tea. 6 hr 40 min ago
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    • Given that the probability of finding some one normal on an open channel like match is pretty tight, I'm going to guess that finding someone when you're already married is even...(more) 5 hr 42 min ago
      tighter. That said if the first guy doesn't work out, let me know. Thanks.
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      • Seems like there are multiple dws here looking. What's your situation? 4 hr 14 min ago
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        • PRobably similar to yours and everyone else's situation. Garbage time at home. Limited sex. Roomates. 4 hr 10 min ago
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          • ^ I am not this or, BTW. There are apparently many of us on here. 4 hr 9 min ago
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            • or: What she said. 4 hr 3 min ago
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          • what is garbage time? 2 hr 38 min ago
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  4. Cleveland Here's what's sick: after all that bullshit, I still check once in a while to see if he's online. It's not like I'm going to contact him. Why do I even care at ALL? And yes I&...(more) 16 hr 59 min ago (41 replies)
    therapy. I have so much other shit going on that I haven't even discussed the affair yet. Why do I bother checking for him?
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    • june mom? 16 hr 52 min ago
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    • I am so very done with mine but I still stalk his fb. A lot. 16 hr 47 min ago
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      • op: I had to unfriend on FB. How can you stand looking at that shit? 16 hr 45 min ago
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        • Oh we are not fb friends. I just check stuff he's liked recently. 16 hr 31 min ago
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          • block 5 hr 28 min ago
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            • Considering it but he'd notice and I don't want to give him that satisfaction. 4 hr 20 min ago
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    • Just habit, probably. Or as a kind of tic, a behavior to cope with anxiety. 15 hr 37 min ago
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    • He was an outlet. Like alcohol is for an alcoholic 5 hr 41 min ago
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      • np I'm an alcoholic who had an affair and ittta 5 hr 28 min ago
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        • How long have you been sober? 5 hr 24 min ago
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          • about to get 60 day chip. zero desire to have that life again. 5 hr 19 min ago
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            • congrats.. That's huge. How long sober from the affair? 5 hr 18 min ago
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              • almost a year. zero desire for that life as well. 5 hr 17 min ago
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                • good for you. You have to do what makes you happy. That other stuff was probably a band-aid on a bigger problem 5 hr 4 min ago
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                  • i think it was both a symptom of my alcoholism and another addiction itself. i've learned a lot in aa and it turns out that alcoholics share a lot of the same qualities - self...(more) 4 hr 56 min ago
                    centeredness, insecurity are the biggest. active alcoholics are the most selfish people on the planet and have no feelings because they are smothered by alcohol. I cry more in a day than I did in a year now that I'm sober. feeling true empathy for the first time in probably 20 years. the people I've met in recovery who've been sober awhile are truly the most compassionate, peaceful people I've ever met. so much grace and zero judgment there. I still read these boards and wonder if the crazies are also alcoholics/addicts.
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                    • I wouldn't be surprised, look at the statistics of people who are medicated. 4 hr 54 min ago
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                      • oh im medicated too. i'm hoping to wean off now that i'm sober. the depression and other issues were probably just symptoms of the alcoholism 4 hr 51 min ago
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                        • Well it sounds like you're well on your way to a healthy recovery. What are you fearing most? 4 hr 45 min ago
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                          • relapse. i go to meetings every day terrified that i'll drink again. i'm not tempted now because the misery is still so fresh, but i understand people forget after time and...(more) 4 hr 42 min ago
                            think they can drink like a normal person. why all the questions? are you in affair or alcoholic or both?
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                            • I'm not an alcoholic, but I've had an affair. I find you interesting that's all. 4 hr 42 min ago
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                              • do you think your affair was an addiction? 4 hr 41 min ago
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                                • For me it wasn't. I liked the extra companionship 4 hr 39 min ago
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                                  • sex wasn't important to you? why aren't you with him anymore? 4 hr 36 min ago
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                                    • It was, I just couldn't commit the time. 4 hr 32 min ago
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                                      • you ended it just because you didn't have time? was it easy? 4 hr 29 min ago
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                                        • No, it wasn't easy. Still heartbroken but it was just bad timing. 4 hr 24 min ago
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                                          • does he try to contact you? 4 hr 21 min ago
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                                            • We're still friends, we talk on occasion. 4 hr 18 min ago
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                                              • he doesn't try anything? when did you end it? 4 hr 6 min ago
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                                                • This was 2 years ago. 4 hr 1 min ago
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                                                  • amazed that you can be friends for two years without anything happening. do you see each other or just talk? 3 hr 52 min ago
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                                                    • We just talk. We have a great respect for boundries. 3 hr 51 min ago
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                                                      • must have a lot of self control too! are you both married? 3 hr 44 min ago
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                                                        • yes. Our relationship evolved over time. it's not so bad 3 hr 39 min ago
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                                                          • but you are still heartbroken? Has he found anyone else? 3 hr 37 min ago
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                                                            • Heartbroken might be a strong word, but I do miss the whole thing from time to time. 3 hr 30 min ago
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                                                              • it's hard to get over. do you think you'd do it again? 3 hr 25 min ago
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                                                                • Like alcohol, I can see relapsing 3 hr 13 min ago
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                                                                  • you must have had a good experience and never got caught. 8 min ago
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                                                                    • It was a good experience. 1 min ago
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  5. Cleveland I need more girlfriends in my life that I can really talk too. Affair is NOT the person to do this with. I am so fucking stupid. 17 hr 37 min ago (6 replies)
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    • Do not burden friends with your bad behavior 17 hr 35 min ago
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      • op: No thats my point. I need to just talk normal bullshit with friends. not affair. 17 hr 30 min ago
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        • you can talk to me 17 hr 10 min ago
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          • very sweet. thank you. 17 hr 4 min ago
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            • I'm nice and won't flame (not a dude either) 16 hr 56 min ago
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              • so many demands. i have so many bad vices. 16 hr 49 min ago
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  6. Cleveland Affair says he sometimes walks on eggshells when talking ro me. Afraid to upset me. Comes off like he just doesnt give a shit. 17 hr 50 min ago (1 reply)
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    • That's bullshit.. He's taking the dysfunction in his marriage to your relationship.. Now you know why his marriage sucks. 5 hr 45 min ago
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  7. Cleveland What the hell is wrong with me? missing my exaffair. meanwhile have this affair that Ive been fucking for over 2 yrs. 17 hr 52 min ago (4 replies)
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    • if you're skanky and you know it clap your hands 17 hr 51 min ago
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      • I need to get my shit together. 17 hr 49 min ago
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    • you're fucked up 17 hr 45 min ago
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      • how do I fix this fuckednupness? 17 hr 36 min ago
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  8. Cleveland At what age do you think is too old for a dw to be desirable anymore as a new affair? 18 hr 19 min ago (30 replies)
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    • mid 40s? I think it's highly individualized 18 hr 19 min ago
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      • NP: That's me. Oh well 18 hr 17 min ago
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        • why "oh well"? 18 hr 17 min ago
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          • I'm too old! 18 hr 16 min ago
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            • probably not. What's your story? 18 hr 15 min ago
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              • No story. Just hanging out. 18 hr 15 min ago
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                • If you're serious about an affair, you have to find someone. 18 hr 14 min ago
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                  • I'm not really! 18 hr 13 min ago
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                    • you're not serious about having an affair? 18 hr 13 min ago
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                      • Not particularly. I don't think I could handle it 18 hr 11 min ago
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                        • ^^I just felt a little gobsmacked when I read that, I am in my mid-forties 18 hr 10 min ago
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                        • that tells me that your marriage is more-or-less intact. Good for you. You deserve it. 18 hr 9 min ago
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                          • My DH is a wonderful person, but there is really no sex and he doesn't seem to care. 18 hr 9 min ago
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                            • I'm sorry. That's hard. 18 hr 8 min ago
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                              • I was mostly fine with it, until an incident (which I have mentioned here before). 18 hr 7 min ago
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                                • You had affair? 3 hr 26 min ago
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                                • Do you even want to have sex? 12 min ago
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                            • This is my dh 3 hr 26 min ago
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      • This is why I am fucking like crazy at 44 18 hr 5 min ago
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    • I want to know this too 18 hr 18 min ago
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    • so many things here are impost rant. attractiveness, affair 18 hr 18 min ago
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    • This is depressing. I am 45 and about to fall of the cliff. 18 hr 17 min ago
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      • It doesn't have to be depressing. 18 hr 16 min ago
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    • My mother's bf started an affair when she was 68 yo. 18 hr 6 min ago
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      • NP-i don't think there is an age limit. Frriend told me she went home to visit parents and opened her 85yo dad's computer and found sex emails. She told him to get a grip. 18 hr 4 min ago
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    • Im 41 yr old dh and feel more desirable now than I did in my 20s and 30s. But, maybe Im wrong since nobody is knocking down my door. 16 hr 29 min ago
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      • ^^^Age can be insignificant assuming we are not talking sixties (in my opinion). 16 hr 29 min ago
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    • There's a lid for every pot 5 hr 41 min ago
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    • Do you want to test the premise? 3 hr 25 min ago
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  9. Cleveland We haven't seen each other in about a year and a half...we fucked for 3 hours straight today with very few breaks...it was fabulous 20 hr ago (6 replies)
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    • Wtf, did you use a whole tube of lube? 19 hr 59 min ago
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      • I have no problems getting wet and staying wet.. 19 hr 57 min ago
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        • And he seriously kept fingering me and making me cum and squirt repeatedly. So I was quite wet... 19 hr 56 min ago
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    • How many 19 hr 59 min ago
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      • Breaks? Maybe 3...only about 5 min each 19 hr 57 min ago
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    • how many times did he climax? 17 hr 47 min ago
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  10. Cleveland Sometimes I wonder if we will end up together. Neither of us are able or ready to leave now but he's said he wants to be with me one day. Take him at his word? Or bs? He's...(more) 21 hr 14 min ago (28 replies)
    incredibly honest with me all the tjme.
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    • You will not be together 21 hr 14 min ago
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      • Why do you think that? 21 hr 13 min ago
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        • Or, because the ones that leave do so early on. 21 hr 13 min ago
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          • It's been 10 mo. I refuse to do that to my kids and he says the same. 21 hr 12 min ago
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            • Then you aren't going to end up together 21 hr 10 min ago
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              • I don't think so either. But like I said below... I can dream and its a nice one. 21 hr 7 min ago
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            • you would leave your dh and divorce over someone you've known for 10 months? 20 hr 8 min ago
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              • No! Just saying I wonder if one day we will be together. 20 hr 6 min ago
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          • I have seen many instances when that is not true. 20 hr 3 min ago
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          • This is dumb. And not true. 17 hr 47 min ago
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      • It's possible. I am with mine but I admit his saying "one day" might be leading. Mine said right away, "Can't do this. Want to be with you and filing for divorce". It is ...(more) 21 hr 11 min ago
        actions speak louder than words.
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        • Op: this is true. I've come right out and said I never would bc of dh and the kids. But I do think about one day being together with him. Maybe when the kids are older. 21 hr 10 min ago
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          • Do you love your husband? It's all fun and games until you are facing real life together. Now don't get me wrong. I adore my husband who was my affair but reality does set in. My...(more) 21 hr 7 min ago
            exhusband was an abusive shit and just awful so I'm in a position to appreciate my now husband immensely. Just telling you that if you love your husband work on it. Don't fuck it up.
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            • I do love dh. And this will sound cliche and trite but more as a friend. 21 hr 5 min ago
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              • But that is something major though. I don't judge you at all but there is so much hope for your relationship. I for one grew to hate my husband. He was cruel and it was awful! In...(more) 21 hr 1 min ago
                spite of that I still fantasize about my little family and house together. I would NEVER change my now dh for the world. He is a wonderful loving man and a spectacular step father but sometimes, just sometimes I wonder and miss what would have been all of us together. Give him a shot if he's a good guy. I swear to God not judging you but I never would have stepped out if I even loved him as a friend.
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                • I don't hate him I just feel nothing for him. Which is horrible I know. 20 hr 27 min ago
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          • Grow and let your dh go. Divorce will not kill your kids. 20 hr 2 min ago
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            • ^ but I know you won't because you know your affair won't do the same. 20 hr 1 min ago
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              • You're absolutely right. And even if affsir did leave dw I'm still not sure I could go through with it. 19 hr 31 min ago
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    • how did you meet? 20 hr 34 min ago
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      • Online. AM. 20 hr 27 min ago
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        • wonder if i know him 20 hr 25 min ago
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          • Doubtful. He's not in nyc and neither am I. 20 hr 11 min ago
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    • you wont. it's not real. 20 hr 25 min ago
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    • This is exactly how my affair is. I used to hope. Ok sometimes I still do. Here's a silly little thing I do:...(more) 17 hr 45 min ago
      You know those donation cards a cashier gives you to write your name on for a dollar and they stick it on the wall with the others? I always write my first name with his last name. Like we are married. How high school can you get? But deep down I know we'll never really be together.
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      • whoa...thats straight up crazy! 17 hr 36 min ago
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        • really? shit. 3 hr 56 min ago
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      • Op: it's not that I even really hope. Ok. Maybe a bit. If it wouldn't hurt anyone. But it would. And I just can't. 16 hr 57 min ago
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  11. Cleveland Which one of these is your affair?...(more) 23 hr 28 min ago (7 replies)
    • I'm the one that never had the right timing. 23 hr 19 min ago
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    • 6,7 22 hr 43 min ago
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    • 3 and 19 22 hr 40 min ago
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    • 16 and 19. 22 hr 38 min ago
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    • 14 is my wife. I missed out on the other 18, but I can't say that I am sorry. 22 hr 29 min ago
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    • 3,5,11,16 (all the same person) 22 hr 20 min ago
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      • Hang in there. Maybe the time will eventually the timing will be right. 19 hr 55 min ago
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  12. Cleveland Cannot WAIT to see him tomorrow! 23 hr 41 min ago (21 replies)
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    • this makes me want to cry. mine doesn't want me anymore. 23 hr 38 min ago
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      • aw I'm sorry. 23 hr 34 min ago
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        • i don't know what to do. i don't want to find another man. i want him. i can never have him. he just wants kinky sex. no relationship with me. 23 hr 31 min ago
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          • why is that attractive to you? 23 hr 18 min ago
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            • i don't know. i just love him. he can be so sweet and sexy. he just doesn't want a real relationship with me, even though he has said he loves me. in the past. 23 hr 13 min ago
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              • what exactly do you want from him? 17 hr 45 min ago
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    • Who? BF? I am seeing mine on Friday. Can't wait either. 23 hr 35 min ago
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      • I got some cute new panties, just the kind he likes. Haven't seen him for quite awhile, it's going to be sooooo good. 23 hr 34 min ago
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        • Great idea. I haven't had time to pick up anything. How long are you dating? We are just 5 months. So happy. 23 hr 32 min ago
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          • 5 years for us. 23 hr 31 min ago
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            • Wow. That is great. How often do you get to see each other? 23 hr 31 min ago
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              • about every 4-6 weeks. I think the last time I was with him was the end of August. 23 hr 29 min ago
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                • That stinks. Sorry you can't see each other more often. We see each other every weekend, and sometimes 1x during the week. 23 hr 26 min ago
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                  • it's really ok. It makes it very exciting when we actually do get together. The anticipation is fun. 23 hr 23 min ago
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                    • How long do u get w a hotter when u do see him? 21 hr 19 min ago
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                      • I don't get the question with autocorrect. We get an afternoon together, about 3 hrs in a hotel rm. 17 hr 41 min ago
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    • Saw mine last night. Was amazing. 22 hr 40 min ago
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    • June mom here: reading this makes me sad too.... I miss that exhilarating feeling of anticipation of being with him.... :(( 22 hr 3 min ago
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      • me too. I have panic attacks when I think about it. That amazing thrill is gone from my life 20 hr 39 min ago
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        • Jmom: yup. Same here. Panic attacks. And seeing sexy lingerie, sexy movies, sexy anything... I can't. Not yet. And music. Car station set on classic rock for now... 20 hr 13 min ago
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          • ugh. I had to toss a few of my bra/underwear sets. I can't look at them knowing that I wore them for him. And he loved them 17 hr 41 min ago
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  13. Cleveland He is cheating because he can't face the people at church and tell them he wants to divorce. He talks to his therapist about how a good christian can divorce and says that unless...(more) 10-22-2014 3:10pm (16 replies)
    she cheats on him, or abuses him, he can't divorce. The desire to say.. "But... the bible says you can go out and sleep around if she isn't cheating or abusing you?" makes me go insane.
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    • That's what he tells you. sorry! 23 hr 33 min ago
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      • The whole 'every thing a guy who is cheating ever says is a lie' thing gets old. FWIW, he hasn't said exactly this to me, I can tell this is something that is hanging him up - it...(more) 22 hr 1 min ago
        is a topic he is talking about with the therapist. It makes him look like a moron anyway so it isn't like he would make this up to look good. If he thinks it makes him look good, that makes him really stupid and not just a hypocrite.
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        • Are you sitting in on his therapy sessions? 20 hr 31 min ago
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          • Yes, I go to one a month with him. 20 hr 30 min ago
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            • You go to therapy with your affair? I've never heard of such. wow. 20 hr 27 min ago
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              • Yeah, he asked me if I would meet her and talk once, it morphed into going back sometimes. 20 hr 25 min ago
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          • ^I agree it's hypocritical, but I'm just saying that's probably not his only hang up. It probably more about dw and kids. 20 hr 28 min ago
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            • It isn't the only one, no, but it is a big one. And it blends into wanting his kids to respect him and his wife telling him she'd make him look bad to his kids and everyone they...(more) 20 hr 26 min ago
              know (IE the people in the church) if he left her.
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              • does she know about you? He's tried to leave? 20 hr 7 min ago
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                • She probably does. Yes, he tried and is still trying to get up the nerve. 18 hr 4 min ago
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                  • This is all really weird. is she the one that threatened suicide? 3 hr 23 min ago
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    • this is what he wnts you to think anywy 20 hr 25 min ago
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      • Seriously - why would he make this up? What possible benefit could he get from me thinking this? 20 hr 24 min ago
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        • he wants you to believe that you are all he really wants and that he would leave if he could, but of course he could if he really wanted to 20 hr 16 min ago
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          • You aren't even making sense. How would "I'm worried about what the people in my church would think" translate into me being all he really wants? It sounds to me like his image...(more) 18 hr 8 min ago
            is pretty important to him, and the respect of people who all also view divorce as awful. Unless you are trying to say that he is lying about wanting to be with me over his wife - which doesn't have anything to do with what I posted but regardless I don't think he is lying about that.
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    • this is so weird. Why are you fucking someone who is so completely fucked up? 20 hr 18 min ago
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  14. Cleveland Is affair with single guy a really bad idea? I mean a worse idea than affair with another married? 10-22-2014 2:55pm (13 replies)
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    • I had one of those. Was fine. 10-22-2014 2:56pm
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    • not if it's just booty calling 10-22-2014 2:56pm
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    • so if you're with a single guy, you don't deal with the guilt of hurting his SO but he has no incentive to keep it secret, really. 10-22-2014 2:56pm
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      • Op. That is one concern. No pact of "mutually assured destruction" 10-22-2014 2:58pm
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    • I'm single. Started seeing him when we were both married and separated. I divorced, he did not. He is holding onto me by telling me he just needs more time to divorce. It is a...(more) 10-22-2014 2:58pm
      great deal of pain for me and him. We've split up a number of times. So.. there's that. Also, honestly, the only downside to me telling someone about him is him being mad at me. Think about that a little.
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      • He's never leaving her. Wake up. 10-22-2014 3:00pm
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        • eh, he will at some point but probably not soon. Np. 10-22-2014 3:01pm
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        • He might or might not. He won't ever be happy with her either way. He has a job offer in another state and is going to go - by himself. He is hoping divorce will be easier...(more) 10-22-2014 3:06pm
          after that.
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      • np - almost my exact situation but mine is over now. 10-22-2014 3:00pm
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      • We don't have any common contacts, so I'm not too worried. But nothing to stop him from showing up at my door some day. Still, seems remote. 10-22-2014 3:00pm
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    • I married my single affair the month my divorce became final. 10-22-2014 3:01pm
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      • And no one thought that seemed a little fishy? 10-22-2014 3:11pm
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      • My affair an I got married days after our divorces finalized and that was days apart. 23 hr 35 min ago
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  15. Cleveland She caught him cheating and changed her FB profile picture to be one of her hovering above him with her arms holding around him possessively. 10-22-2014 2:50pm (12 replies)
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    • NFW!!?! 10-22-2014 2:52pm
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    • you mean she didn't change it to a sexy cleavage selfie while kicking his ass out of the house? 10-22-2014 2:55pm
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      • Yes, that is what I mean. 10-22-2014 2:58pm
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    • mature 10-22-2014 2:56pm
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    • well that will work. Not. 23 hr 18 min ago
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    • The way some women act like their husbands are property... 21 hr 58 min ago
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    • how did she catch him? 20 hr 33 min ago
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      • He was being really obvious about it. Not wearing his ring, going on mini-trips by himself, sitting in his closed office all night on the computer and coming home with clothes...(more) 20 hr 21 min ago
        and things we got together while out.
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        • So she accused him. 20 hr 20 min ago
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    • and is he leaving her? 20 hr 19 min ago
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      • Probably eventually, not as we speak. 18 hr 4 min ago
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    • Oh, I did that too. I made only family pics public. I was devastated and trying hard to hang on to my family. 18 hr 1 min ago
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  16. Cleveland We agreed that it would be casual, just sex. So why does he text me all the time? Is that just part of it or does that mean he has feelings for me? 10-22-2014 1:08pm (44 replies)
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    • He's trying to keep you happy 10-22-2014 1:08pm
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    • He is ready for more sex. 10-22-2014 1:09pm
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      • For example, I was out of town for two weeks. No chance of getting together. But he texted every day multiple times. I don't even always respond....(more) 10-22-2014 1:14pm
        I just can't figure out what exactly the relationship is, in his mind. I'm ok with just sex.
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        • just tell him what you want. Guessing games are a waste of energy 10-22-2014 1:16pm
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          • I guess I don't know. I can't tell if it's turning into something bigger. And it's too new to ask. I'm just trying to get a read from the board, to see if I'm reading too...(more) 10-22-2014 1:20pm
            into it.
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            • You probably are. Women usually do. 10-22-2014 1:22pm
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        • Maybe he's just trying to be respectful. 10-22-2014 1:17pm
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        • He likes you. 10-22-2014 2:30pm
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        • My guess is he's horny. He wants to sext and see if he can get you to send nude pics. 23 hr 37 min ago
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    • This is how most of them are toward the beginning. It peters out. 10-22-2014 2:13pm
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    • Sometimes actions don't match words. 10-22-2014 2:30pm
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    • It depends on the guy, but I find it hard to imagine not to feel attached after having sex. 10-22-2014 2:34pm
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      • Are you a DH? I thought most guys were pretty good at separating the two? 10-22-2014 2:50pm
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        • I am. Every guy is different though. 10-22-2014 2:55pm
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          • So how do you handle that? In the context of affair-world. 10-22-2014 2:57pm
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            • I'm not sure. I'm still trying to figure it out. 10-22-2014 3:02pm
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              • Do you love dw and your affair(s)? 23 hr 39 min ago
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                • I love a lot of people in different ways, it's really fucked up. 23 hr 35 min ago
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                  • Multiple women? I don't think that's love. 23 hr 34 min ago
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                    • No. That's not what I meant. It's more like you love your kids and you love your wife, but you love them differently than you would love your brother or your parents. You can love...(more) 23 hr 32 min ago
                      your affair, but it's different. It's limited by a number of constraints.
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                      • None of that is really fucked up except the affair person. The affair is lust that feels like love when you are in the midst of it. But I'm curious what you mean by love for...(more) 23 hr 25 min ago
                        affair is limited by a number of constraints? I don't get that part.
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                        • Well you can't go out on dates with them whenever you want. You can't stay overnight if they are sick and just need someone to be with. You can't take calls from them in the...(more) 23 hr 19 min ago
                          middle of the night because they just need someone to talk to. See what I'm getting at? There are constraints.
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                          • Yes that makes sense 23 hr 17 min ago
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                        • You can't love an affair? Ever? 23 hr ago
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                          • I do not believe men love their affairs, no. It can feel that way, I speak from experience, but in retrospect I was a willing warm body. From what I read here they are all the...(more) 22 hr 54 min ago
                            same.
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                            • I don't think that's true at all. 22 hr 52 min ago
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                              • We like to tell ourselves that, but chances are he just wants to fuck someone. 22 hr 48 min ago
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                            • I don't believe in absolutes. 22 hr 51 min ago
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                            • My affair is single. Is he the same? 22 hr 50 min ago
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                              • I don't know about that. 22 hr 49 min ago
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                      • sounds like you've had a lot of experience with affairs. are you currently having one? 23 hr 24 min ago
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                        • No. I'm not. I've just thought about it a lot. 23 hr 21 min ago
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                          • You've never had an affair? What are you doing here - looking for one? 23 hr 18 min ago
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                            • No, I'm not currently in one. Not really ready for another. 23 hr 16 min ago
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                              • Does that mean you are planning to have another? have you had multiple affairs? 23 hr 13 min ago
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                                • I'm not, but you never know what might happen in the future. I'd be lying if I said it was impossible. 23 hr 10 min ago
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                                  • ^^I'm not super experienced with this. Only 1 real one. 23 hr 10 min ago
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                                    • What does "real one" mean and who ended it? Do you still think about her/them? Aren't you afraid of being caught? 23 hr 6 min ago
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                                      • I had met some women, but only had an affair with one. Of course I think about her. She is a major chapter in my life now. 23 hr 3 min ago
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                                        • Why is it over? You know these things have a way of starting back up again, even years later. 22 hr 57 min ago
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                                          • We'll see what happens. 22 hr 55 min ago
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                                            • Don't you worry about getting caught? 22 hr 48 min ago
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                                        • what stops you from calling her? 22 hr 30 min ago
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  17. Cleveland Can women fake orgasms?...(more) 10-22-2014 12:32pm (18 replies)
    A female friend claimed that women fake orgasms all the time. My contention is that a woman canít fake an orgasm when a manís penis is in her vagina because during orgasm there are a series of rhythmic contractions that cannot be faked by kegel maneuvers that a man can feel with his penis. What say you?
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    • No way. I'm going to lunch at Katz's Deli now. 10-22-2014 12:34pm
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    • we can and we do. 10-22-2014 12:34pm
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    • I am sure many can and do. I have no desire to. I mean--I already often have a dozen in a row. 10-22-2014 12:34pm
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      • VBA AND fake. Unless you mean a dozen contractions, ha ha 10-22-2014 12:36pm
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        • Maybe exaggerating. I don't count them. 10-22-2014 12:36pm
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          • what position? Or oral? 10-22-2014 12:38pm
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            • we mix it up :) 10-22-2014 12:55pm
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    • Men are stupid and don't know what it should feel like when a woman orgasms 10-22-2014 12:38pm
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    • I can and do. 10-22-2014 12:42pm
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      • Because you are not enjoying the sex and just want to get it over with? 10-22-2014 1:07pm
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      • why? 10-22-2014 1:13pm
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    • I don't think some of you read the rest of my OP. I said it can't be faked when a males penis is in the vagina. I promise you I know what it feels like. Maybe you can fake one if...(more) 10-22-2014 12:49pm
      a man has never felt a real one. There are nerves for light tough in the foreskin. Maybe a man that has been circumcised cannot feel them. Maybe the contractions for some women are stronger than others and make them easier to feel.
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      • ^ just asking. All I know for sure is that I can feel my wife's orgasms and she couldn't fake one without me knowing it. 10-22-2014 12:50pm
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      • does it make you cum? 10-22-2014 12:56pm
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        • I hold out as long as I can, but Yes, and hard. 10-22-2014 12:59pm
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          • Now I just want to be home and in bed. 10-22-2014 1:00pm
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          • ^ She can also telll when I am about to cum because the girth of my penis grows. Maybe just the tip, not sure. 10-22-2014 1:03pm
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            • feels girthier. I love that. I almost always cum w/him because of that. 10-22-2014 1:04pm
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  18. Cleveland He is moving 1500 miles away and wants me to move with him. 10-21-2014 8:33pm (9 replies)
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    • not unless he puts a ring on it. 10-21-2014 8:35pm
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      • Yes, that would be the plan. 10-21-2014 8:36pm
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        • don't go until you have a ring and a date set and invitations sent out though, seriously 10-21-2014 8:37pm
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          • That would be a long time. He would have to divorce first... 10-21-2014 8:37pm
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            • that's exactly right. do not relocate based on a man's promises, esp. if you started seeing him when he was already married. he's shown himself to be dishonest. 10-21-2014 8:38pm
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            • is he moving with his family? 10-21-2014 8:45pm
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              • No. Kids will be in college and he is going to divorce with the move. 10-21-2014 8:47pm
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                • don't make a move until his divorce is final and he has given you a ring and you have set a date. 10-22-2014 12:22pm
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                • Divorce can take a while 10-22-2014 12:41pm
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  19. Cleveland I am divorced from asshole exh and happily remarried to a great man. Had a get together with friends other day and one of the husbands was talking about this hotel that had...(more) 10-21-2014 2:18pm (16 replies)
    dancing and live music. "You guys have to know which one I'm talking about." And he named it. I said "never heard of it" then turned to df, whispered in her ear and said "of course I know. That's where "john and I used to fuck." She burst out in a fit of giggles and said "you are good man."
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    • She used to fuck your ex there? 10-21-2014 2:19pm
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      • No, she is fucking her current husband there I think. 10-21-2014 2:20pm
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        • Her friend ips? 10-21-2014 2:20pm
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      • No. I fucked ex affair there but completely pretended to not know what hotel he was talking about. 10-21-2014 2:20pm
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        • oh wow. I would NOT have got that. 10-21-2014 2:21pm
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          • Dammit. My posting skills are that horrible. 10-21-2014 2:22pm
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    • wait - what??? She used to fuck your husband? She fucks her current husband there? 10-21-2014 2:20pm
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    • what? this makes no sense 10-21-2014 2:20pm
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      • OP turned to df and whispered in her ear whilst df praised her for being rad 10-21-2014 2:23pm
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      • the only thing that doesn't make sense is the "you are good, man" comment. 10-21-2014 6:16pm
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    • You cheated on you ex or you are cheating on your current husband? 10-21-2014 2:22pm
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      • On ex but not even really. It was done. He invited me to get a boyfriend. 10-21-2014 2:23pm
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        • is John your current DH? 10-21-2014 4:09pm
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          • this is what i want to know. 10-21-2014 6:16pm
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            • Tritto 10-21-2014 6:31pm
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            • OP: No. John was left in the dust. John called me constantly when I got divorced and i had the pleasure of telling him "I don't date married men." John called me when I got...(more) 10-21-2014 7:09pm
              remarried and I had the pleasure of telling him "I have to block you now."
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  20. Cleveland Do you think men miss their ex affairs the way some women miss theirs? I'd love to hear from a man's perspective. I think I men as simple creatures who are very out of sight, out...(more) 10-21-2014 11:52am (93 replies)
    of mind. Just wondering if men ever miss women from their past
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    • he doesn't miss you. 10-21-2014 11:52am
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    • do you really think EVERY man feels the same way? jeez 10-21-2014 11:52am
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      • Men do seem much more capable of moving on quickly 10-21-2014 11:54am
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        • please stop gerealizing 10-21-2014 11:54am
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          • pardon the spelling error 10-21-2014 11:54am
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          • there are basic differences in the behavior of men and women in general 10-21-2014 11:58am
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            • op: ty. I think so too and am just trying to understand 10-21-2014 11:59am
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          • np - generalizing for the sake of generalizing is OK - I mean.. if you are asking.. do men OVERALL, seem to feel guilt working long hours every day, you can answer that. As long...(more) 10-21-2014 4:12pm
            as you know that some do and some don't and you aren't defining a particular man because he is a man.. it is fine.
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    • And ex bf (neither of us was cheating) says he still misses me 10-21-2014 11:54am
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      • Ty for a real answer 10-21-2014 11:54am
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    • Sure. If he had fun he'll look back fondly on that fun. 10-21-2014 11:54am
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      • That's interesting. I talked to him recently and that was what he wanted to talk about. I'm much more caught up in what went wrong 10-21-2014 11:55am
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        • I think that, in general, sex and affairs are more about fun for men, and more about relationships for women. 10-21-2014 11:58am
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    • They seem to come back around, so in a way, yes I think they do. An ex-affair came back about a year after I cut contact and said he always loved me and was insanely jealous of...(more) 10-21-2014 11:55am
      dh. But he also bragged to me about fucking a 22yo. So...I think a man's perception of love is quite different than a woman's.
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      • that wasn't love 10-21-2014 11:56am
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        • define love. I don't think it really exists, except parent-child. 10-21-2014 11:57am
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        • Np: how do you know? I think men equate sex with love 10-21-2014 11:58am
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          • eh idk about that. They can separate the two pretty easily. 10-21-2014 12:00pm
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      • Op: yes. I'm trying to understand that perception. Btw mine liked to brag too. As if that would make me think more highly of him! Men can be stupid 10-21-2014 11:57am
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      • Why did he tell you about a 22 yo? 10-21-2014 12:31pm
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    • dh: YES. 100% 10-21-2014 11:59am
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      • ^^^unless you were crazy, then the only reason they think about you is when they think back and think how crazy you were. 10-21-2014 12:00pm
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        • affairs are crazy-making 10-21-2014 12:00pm
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          • They don't have to be, but they are emotional sometimes. It's bound to happen if you're fucking someone you really like. 10-21-2014 12:01pm
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            • Op: Ty, dh! It's kind of comforting to know men do have emotional feelings about this too 10-21-2014 12:04pm
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              • Sure, but be warned, I think a lot of guys don't give a shit. Most guys, not all, have an agenda and that's to get laid. 10-21-2014 12:09pm
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                • what is the big drive to get laid? what is the purpose? 10-21-2014 12:10pm
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                  • Because it feels good and we're animals. 10-21-2014 12:11pm
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                    • I think it's about ego. Feeling studly. 10-21-2014 12:12pm
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                      • npdh: nope. It's about having fun and having sex 10-21-2014 12:12pm
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                        • but you do both of that w/dw 10-21-2014 12:13pm
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                          • Yes, but it's different. Can't live on eating steak all the time, sometimes you want McDonalds even though you know it's bad for you. 10-21-2014 12:15pm
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                            • dude. i'm the steak, not the mcdonalds. 10-21-2014 6:19pm
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                              • no, you're missing the point 10-22-2014 12:32pm
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                                • np- so it's just the variety? are you the one with ongoing affair? 10-22-2014 12:42pm
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                          • No I don't that's why I'm having affairs 10-21-2014 12:17pm
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                            • Why don't you just divorce? do you think dw has a clue? 10-22-2014 12:41pm
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                        • Mine wouldn't have sex with me! Sexting only. What do you dh's make of that? 10-21-2014 12:14pm
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                          • That's just commitment issues.. The leap from sexting to actually hooking up is a pretty big line to cross. It's not easy. 10-21-2014 12:16pm
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                            • Thanks. Shit. Now I feel bad. 10-21-2014 12:16pm
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                              • Don't feel bad. He went as far as he could and it was probably for the best. Imagine if he did cross that line and he felt 100x worse. 10-21-2014 12:20pm
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                                • THIS 10-21-2014 12:20pm
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                                • Some men seem to have no problem crossing it. That fair to say? 10-21-2014 12:26pm
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                                  • Yes.. Completely. It's like trying to carry a 5 gallon jug of water that's been lathered up in grease. You can probably pick it up and make it a few feet before it gets away from...(more) 10-21-2014 12:28pm
                                    you all at once and in spectacular fashion.
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                        • Did you affair partner feel that way too? Did you say i love you? 10-21-2014 12:14pm
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                          • We did. 10-21-2014 12:17pm
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                            • ^^^ to be clear, I wouldn't be interested in a long-term affair with someone I didn't like. 10-21-2014 12:18pm
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                              • How many have you had? 10-21-2014 12:20pm
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                                • two. you? 10-21-2014 12:21pm
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                                  • Just one 10-21-2014 12:22pm
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                                  • Did you say I love you to both of them? 10-21-2014 12:23pm
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                                    • Sure. I did. I cared about them. I went out of my way to make them happy. I liked having animal sex with them, but I also liked sending little gifts and being thoughtful for one...(more) 10-21-2014 12:24pm
                                      another.
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                                      • Were they at the same time and did you care for one more than the other? 10-21-2014 12:27pm
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                                        • They were at different times. I cared for them equally. They were very different. 10-21-2014 12:28pm
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                                          • What were they like? are you the poster with the crazy affair? 10-21-2014 12:32pm
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                                            • No. Neither of mine were/are crazy. They were fun. Beautiful. One was very aggressive, the other required a bit more of a seduction. They both liked receiving oral. 10-21-2014 12:34pm
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                                              • are you npr? 10-21-2014 12:35pm
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                                                • All things considered, no. But I can talk about cars. 10-21-2014 12:37pm
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                                                  • Ha. I meant that dude that posts here all the time. Maybe it's nrp. 10-21-2014 12:39pm
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                                                    • are you thinking nsr? 10-21-2014 12:47pm
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                                              • How did you seduce her? Did you feel guilty about manipulating her emotions to get sex? 10-21-2014 12:36pm
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                                                • By making it clear to her that she is a beautiful, smart, funny, sexy woman who deserves to be treated as such and by making her feel good. I don't think I manipulated her. 10-21-2014 12:38pm
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                                                  • "required a bit more of a seduction" smacks of "i had to tell this woman all kinds of bullshit to get in her pants" kwim? 10-21-2014 12:41pm
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                                                  • Did you break off both affairs or did they? 10-21-2014 12:44pm
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                                                    • One was by mutual consent. The second is ongoing. 10-21-2014 12:45pm
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                                                      • ^^ and accept my apologies, but I have a 1 pm meeting. 10-21-2014 12:46pm
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                                                      • sounds like you are looking for your next 10-21-2014 12:48pm
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                                                      • np- do you plan to keep affairs going forever? why do you do this and not divorce? 10-22-2014 12:40pm
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            • How many affairs have you had? What were the crazy ones like? 10-21-2014 12:18pm
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          • this 10-21-2014 12:04pm
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        • Ha ha. I know mine has a crazy ex 10-21-2014 12:08pm
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          • Your affair has a crazy ex affair? 10-21-2014 12:09pm
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      • Can you tell us what you miss about one of yours? 10-21-2014 12:07pm
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        • I miss talking to her, seeing her, touching her. 10-21-2014 12:10pm
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          • why did it end? 10-21-2014 12:11pm
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            • She moved. 10-21-2014 12:11pm
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              • that's what they all say 10-21-2014 12:12pm
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                • Her dh got a new job and that was it. It was hard enough to meet once a week, that was the final blow. 10-21-2014 12:13pm
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                  • Np: sorry 10-21-2014 12:14pm
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                    • It had to end at some point right? 10-21-2014 12:16pm
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          • Are you dh above? How many affairs have you had? 10-21-2014 12:26pm
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            • 2, 5 years apart. 10-21-2014 12:29pm
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              • how long did they last for? did you think you would have another after the first ended? 10-21-2014 12:35pm
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    • Why the need for a man to gloat about others he's with? 10-21-2014 12:09pm
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      • np:i want to know this too? mine gloats about his past. why? 10-21-2014 2:03pm
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        • I wish i knew. It completely makes me feel repulsed by him and i think he thinks that i am either impressed or jealous. 10-21-2014 2:09pm
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          • omg yes!!! I almost canceled plans with him because of some stupid tibbit he shared about his past. 10-21-2014 2:19pm
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            • Should have gone through with canceling 10-21-2014 2:22pm
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              • yes! I should have. 10-21-2014 3:56pm
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          • This 10-21-2014 2:21pm
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    • EVERY relationship is different: marriage, dating, affair whatever. there are no absolute rules. 10-21-2014 4:15pm
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  21. Cleveland Affs dc goes to same activity as my dc. Will see him or his wife every week. Waiting for dc's, I was in earshot of dw's conversation. So strange. 10-21-2014 11:13am (79 replies)
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    • btdt. be prepared to be ignored! 10-21-2014 11:14am
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      • I definitely don't mind being ignored. I just overheard dw talking about him. Couldn't believe I was in this situation. 10-21-2014 11:18am
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        • what did she say?? 10-21-2014 11:25am
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          • Don't want to give too much detail but something about his plans the day before and plans that day. Some info didn't quite match with what he told me lol 10-21-2014 11:28am
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            • you are a nasty whore. 10-21-2014 11:34am
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            • And how did you feel when you heard her? Not one ounce of guilt or shame or pity? 10-21-2014 11:35am
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              • she felt superior 10-21-2014 11:36am
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                • Right, miss perfect 10-21-2014 11:36am
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                  • didn't say that. i was relating. btdt 10-21-2014 11:38am
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              • Yes all of those. 10-21-2014 11:36am
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                • then stop what you are doing. 10-21-2014 11:37am
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      • why should she be ignored? 10-21-2014 11:32am
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    • this cant end well 10-21-2014 11:31am
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      • Why? What could happen? Seriously. 10-21-2014 11:33am
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        • You clearly have not though tthis through. 10-21-2014 11:34am
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          • you are a whore AND stupid 10-21-2014 11:34am
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          • This never happened to me before and why I'm posting here for feedback. 10-21-2014 11:35am
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            • you are not posting for feedback since you don't ask any questions. you just stated your experience. that's all 10-21-2014 11:36am
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              • Whatever you say 10-21-2014 11:38am
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                • so smug. 10-21-2014 11:39am
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                  • So judgey and perfect 10-21-2014 11:40am
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                    • not at all. you are just making a massive mistake 10-21-2014 11:41am
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                      • People make mistakes. Doesn't make me smug, a whore or nasty. I came to an affair board for non-judgement. If you don't like what you read here, move on. 10-21-2014 11:43am
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                        • no, you came for validation. 10-21-2014 11:44am
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                          • Don't tell me why I posted here. You have no idea. 10-21-2014 11:45am
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                            • re-read your responses. 10-21-2014 11:46am
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                              • I know what I feel. All that matters. 10-21-2014 11:48am
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                                • considering that this is anonymous, why are you so defensive 10-21-2014 11:49am
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                                  • Tried of the judges snarky replies here. 10-21-2014 11:49am
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                                    • Jesus, you are having an affair and you're upset that people may not say nice things about it? 10-21-2014 11:51am
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                                    • ^judgey 10-21-2014 11:51am
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                                      • I never claimed it wasn't. point is you are having an affair. most people don't think too kindly of that. 10-21-2014 11:52am
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                                        • So you say. But this is an anonymous board in which Cleve can be un clicked. 10-21-2014 11:55am
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                                          • your point? 10-21-2014 11:56am
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                                            • If you don't like reading about affairs, then move on. 10-21-2014 11:57am
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                                              • if you don't like reading the responses, then move on. 10-21-2014 11:58am
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                                                • Ok. 10-21-2014 12:00pm
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                                                  • ^and helpful! meaningful responses would be preferred. Not childish name-calling. 10-21-2014 12:01pm
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                                • and what is that? 10-21-2014 11:49am
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                            • then please tell me why you posted. what are you looking for? 10-21-2014 11:46am
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                              • What is anyone looking for when posting to an anonymous board? 10-21-2014 11:58am
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                        • you don't sound like you are regretting anything or are wanting to change. 10-21-2014 11:44am
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                        • If you felt like you are making a mistake your responses would be different 10-21-2014 11:45am
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                          • Are you kidding me? So YOU say. You don't know me. You're just making assumptions based on one anonymous post. So intelligent. 10-21-2014 11:46am
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                            • you put LOL after writing that your affair told you something different. you tell us, honey. 10-21-2014 11:47am
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                              • I did because I had a feeling the reply was from June mom. She has a similar situation previously. 10-21-2014 11:49am
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                                • and look at her. shes a MESS 10-21-2014 11:53am
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                                  • For different reasons. We're all different 10-21-2014 11:56am
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                            • so please tell me how you feel about this. i am asking in the most unsnarky way. 10-21-2014 11:48am
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                              • Which or are you? 10-21-2014 11:50am
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                                • i didn't call you any names 10-21-2014 11:51am
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            • he's not your first? 10-21-2014 11:38am
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    • Talk about shitting and eating in the same space. 10-21-2014 11:36am
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    • the conversation at pick up will be much more exciting once you are caught 10-21-2014 11:40am
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    • Why not introduce yourself? 10-21-2014 11:42am
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    • How long together? 10-21-2014 11:49am
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    • What was your reaction when you realized that this would happen- that you would see his dw or him weekly? 10-21-2014 11:49am
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      • My initial reaction wasn't a good one. Think about ended it because of this (if not other obvious reasons) everyday. 10-21-2014 11:54am
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    • I don't know why everyone is snarking on you OP. I would be fascinated and probably found out bc I'd stare at her constantly, analyze everything about her and if they were there...(more) 10-21-2014 11:50am
      together I'd analyze how they interact with each other.
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      • would you lol? 10-21-2014 11:50am
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        • oh hell yes. Who wouldn't?? 10-21-2014 11:51am
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          • anyone who is human and has the capacity to be empathetic and/or sympathetic to another person 10-21-2014 11:54am
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            • are you implying I don't have those feelings? Humans are complicated and can feel many things and do many things. A simplistic view of human nature will never be accurate. 10-21-2014 11:56am
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              • your LOL really seemed telling to me that you lacked any sympathy for your actions. I know the response was for a specific person but it was a mean spirited comment that you made 10-21-2014 12:05pm
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                • Above or is no OP. I'm OP. What you seem to gather from my lol is not accurate to who I really am. You have no basis for judgement other than I'm having an affair which you don't...(more) 10-21-2014 12:09pm
                  agree with.
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                  • and your assumption is incorrect. what you do is your business but your lack of feeling towards the dw is upsetting 10-21-2014 12:10pm
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                    • If that was the case, I'd feel the same way. But that is not me to be that way. OP. 10-21-2014 12:12pm
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                      • can you translate what you just wrote? i dont understand 10-21-2014 12:13pm
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                        • I'm saying if it was clearly obvious that or didn't care about or sympathize with a dw in an affair situation, I too would think it upsetting. OP. 10-21-2014 12:15pm
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                          • does that make you feel differently about what you are doing? 10-21-2014 12:16pm
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                            • Does what make me feel different? 10-21-2014 12:17pm
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                              • seeing the dw and hearing her 10-21-2014 12:21pm
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                              • Sorry working and trying to multi-task responding to this topic is distracting. Actually before posting about this and even after reading all the replies it's actually helping me...(more) 10-21-2014 12:22pm
                                think clearer about my situation.
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                                • Op^ 10-21-2014 12:23pm
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                                • ^not the negative replies but just putting my situation "out there" even anonymously, and getting other feedback. 10-21-2014 12:25pm
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                • I wasn't the LOL responder so I won't take offense 10-21-2014 12:10pm
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              • what does that have to do with anything? 10-21-2014 12:11pm
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    • June mom? 10-21-2014 5:59pm
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  22. Cleveland If you live near your ex-aff, do you drive past his office or home? I should stop this, right? 10-21-2014 10:40am (22 replies)
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    • Just text him when you are drinking. 10-21-2014 10:41am
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      • And send him a picture of your cooch 10-21-2014 10:42am
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    • i hope you are kidding? 10-21-2014 11:32am
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      • i meant !!! not ? 10-21-2014 11:32am
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      • I am not kidding - I cannot seem to stop. 10-21-2014 11:33am
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        • what will be gained from driving past his home and office other than scaring him 10-21-2014 11:34am
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          • i don't want to scare him. just see him. see if he looks at me. i know it's fucked up. 10-21-2014 11:35am
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            • then stop if you know that it's messed up 10-21-2014 11:36am
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              • easier said than done. we have tried to stop before. but he always comes back. 10-21-2014 11:36am
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                • why do you put the blame on him and not on you? 10-21-2014 11:37am
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                  • well obv i let him come back... 10-21-2014 11:40am
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                • np: they always come back. one day you'll wise up and tell him to go away. 10-21-2014 12:06pm
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    • No. Keep it up. Committ to stalking at least an hour a day. 10-21-2014 11:33am
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    • Jodi Arias 10-21-2014 12:06pm
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    • my ex affair has driven by my house 10-21-2014 12:08pm
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      • scary 10-21-2014 12:09pm
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        • eh, it wasn't scary but it did make me angry 10-21-2014 12:12pm
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    • I've told current affair I'd stalk him. 10-21-2014 12:11pm
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      • please get some help 10-21-2014 12:36pm
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        • it was a joke 10-21-2014 1:17pm
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    • if i did it, would be in hopes of seeing a for sale sign in the yard 10-21-2014 12:35pm
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  23. Cleveland Pretty shitty for a kid to rub it in a classmates face by purposely not handing her a party invite, while handing out one to most. 10-21-2014 9:42am (3 replies)
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    • that should not be allowed at school. let the teacher know 10-21-2014 9:45am
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    • Are you having an affair with classmate's DH? 10-21-2014 9:49am
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  24. Cleveland Besides a hotel or car, where do you spend time with aff? 10-21-2014 9:26am (2 replies)
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    • His office. 10-21-2014 9:28am
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      • np. This. Blew him in his office. 10-21-2014 11:26am
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  25. Cleveland For the first time in 4yrs it did not feel right with him. Anyone go through this? Did you end it? 10-21-2014 8:59am (2 replies)
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    • what felt different? 10-21-2014 11:33am
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      • I left feeling empty. 10-21-2014 2:20pm
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