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  1. Cleveland Meeting my 10th affair/fling tonight for the first time. Just drinks. Wonder how it's gonna go? Online thing 13 hr 12 min ago (4 replies)
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    • you have some serious issues. 12 hr 56 min ago
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    • holy moses 12 hr 48 min ago
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    • Garage dw? 12 hr 47 min ago
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      • Not me. Im pretty much just a lurker now 12 hr 24 min ago
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  2. Cleveland Somedays I just can't stand the thought of him and others am totally in love and can't wait to see him, normal? 13 hr 25 min ago (13 replies)
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    • I don't think so, no 13 hr 24 min ago
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    • Well. For dingalings having affairs, yes. Apparently. 13 hr 24 min ago
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    • I'm the same way 13 hr 21 min ago
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      • op: this is new for me. we've been together just over a year and I'm just like meh now 13 hr 20 min ago
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        • I've been married to dh 4 years, I have better days when he's not home...but other days I'm so anxious for him to be home..,its not normal but I don't want to divorce him or be...(more) 13 hr 17 min ago
          witout him, confuses me
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    • I have only been with this one for 2 months and it's been more loving every day. 13 hr 11 min ago
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      • Op: you are me a year ago. 13 hr 8 min ago
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        • I've had other long term affairs that were exactly like yours. This man I can't imagine hating, can't imagine anyone disliking him. 13 hr 4 min ago
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          • np - where do you find these men? 13 hr 4 min ago
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            • This one I shockingly met online... 13 hr ago
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              • I presume you had to do A LOT of weeding out 12 hr 59 min ago
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            • Op: also met mine online. 12 hr 54 min ago
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          • Op: this is my first long term affair. Other ones were one nighters or over quickly. 12 hr 53 min ago
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  3. Cleveland How can I just let him walk away? Just let him leave without a trace? When I stand here taking every breath with him, he's the only one who really knew me at all 15 hr 34 min ago (4 replies)
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    • So take a look at me now 15 hr 33 min ago
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    • against all odds, great song. sad tho. 15 hr 33 min ago
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    • corny 15 hr 13 min ago
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    • Vomit 10 hr 29 min ago
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  4. Cleveland Affair noticed I was wearing miss matched socks when we were together. So he had a new pack of socks for me all in my favorite color the next time we met. sweet. 19 hr 37 min ago (2 replies)
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    • He bought you socks. 19 hr 34 min ago
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      • op:yes. not flowers, or choclates...socks. 15 hr 40 min ago
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  5. Cleveland Went to single affairs apartment before work today, climbed in bed and fucked in the dark for the first time. It was the best sex we have ever had, in 3 years....(more) 3-3-2015 5:16pm (4 replies)
    Damn.
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    • why did it take you so long? odd. 3-3-2015 6:35pm
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      • So long to do what? Morning sex? It's always been day or early evening. Just never did first thing in morning sex 3-3-2015 6:38pm
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    • SHUT UP 3-3-2015 6:40pm
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  6. Cleveland Honestly, i would wreck his marriage without a second thought if i could. she doesn't deserve him. the problem is he loves her, not me. watch and learn, cheaters. 3-3-2015 12:05pm (8 replies)
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    • no thanks. You are toxic 3-3-2015 1:55pm
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      • no more toxic than any of you fucking another woman's husband and whispering into your pillows about how he loves you as you spend every holiday and birthday alone. 3-3-2015 3:00pm
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        • Np - you're cray cray. 3-3-2015 3:55pm
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        • Why doesn't she deserve him? Seems he doesn't deserve her. 3-3-2015 6:36pm
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        • not all of us are fucking someone else's husband. You certainly are, and its making you absolutely miserable and a touch psycho. You know its true. 3-3-2015 7:47pm
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          • This is a completely crazy post. I wish that affair of hers, you know the dreamy one, could see this. he might bail before sundown. 3-3-2015 8:17pm
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    • fake 3-3-2015 7:35pm
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      • Of course it's fake. 3-3-2015 9:14pm
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  7. Cleveland Had a huge ugly fight with dh. Stood up my affair. & #2 affair has been trying to contact me constantly after pissing me off yesterday. I need to clean up this shit. 3-1-2015 4:49pm (27 replies)
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    • Holy CRAP. You are a hot mess. 3-1-2015 4:50pm
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      • op: I know. fuck. 3-1-2015 4:52pm
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        • What's with the double affair. That seems very risky and self-destructive. 3-1-2015 4:54pm
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          • #1 affair came back. By that time #2 was in the mix. #1 is laid back. His neglect made it easy for me to slip away. I should have stood away. I have to end it with him. Looking...(more) 3-1-2015 5:00pm
            The right words without any drama.
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            • "This isn't working for me. You're a terrific guy, so I know you'll understand. I'll remember you always." 3-1-2015 5:04pm
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              • op:this is perfect. ty! 3-1-2015 5:08pm
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    • What was the fight about? 3-1-2015 4:51pm
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    • What are you running from? I'm serious. All this mess must be serving some avoidant function in your life. 3-1-2015 4:52pm
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      • I dont know. But, I do want to run away. 3-1-2015 4:56pm
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        • You need psychotherapy. When you're not sure what you want or what you're avoiding, it's time to figure shit out 3-1-2015 5:08pm
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          • can therapy really help me figure this out? Or will I be told obvious shit that I know I should be doing? 3-1-2015 5:20pm
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            • of course it will. a therapist isn't there to tell you what to do 3-1-2015 5:24pm
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              • This would be another thing I'd have to hide from dh... 3-1-2015 5:25pm
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                • why would you have to hide it? you are making excuses 3-1-2015 5:26pm
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                  • dh doesnt believe in thrapey. i wanted to go for us before affairs. he said we didnt need it. 3-1-2015 5:32pm
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                    • he doesn't believe in you having an affair either but you do it. Lose the affair, find a therapist and dh will have to deal. How can he stop you? Excuses 3-1-2015 5:36pm
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                      • ^I'm talking about a therapist for YOU. Not you and dh together btw 3-1-2015 5:36pm
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                      • op: I understand. I guess i always thought I could fix it. Pre affair I even tried throwing myself into church. I would embrace the help. I need to find one. At low or no cost. 3-1-2015 5:40pm
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                        • its okay to seek out help. Do you have insurance? 3-1-2015 5:42pm
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                          • No. 3-1-2015 6:10pm
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                            • how can you not have insurance? do you have jobs? I think you're making excuses. IMO you can't afford not to get into therapy 3-1-2015 8:29pm
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                              • We both have jobs. Insurance is $$$ we dont have the means. I will work something out. usually go to a clinic. maybe i can speak to someone there. ty for your help & being kind. 3-2-2015 12:14am
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                                • If the money was there for you to go together like you previously wanted, then it's there for you. Good luck 3-2-2015 4:02pm
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    • when are you going to seek help? 3-1-2015 4:53pm
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    • I have one very close emotional/sex affair, one friend with benefits (single), one guy I see once a month or so, another trying to start things up and gettin close to doing it....(more) 3-1-2015 8:27pm
      Feel better? On and a former that I start and stop with a few times a year that I work with lol
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      • dude, enter a facility. Stat 3-1-2015 8:32pm
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      • op:do any know about each other? ever think about ditching one? thanks for your reply. 3-2-2015 12:15am
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  8. Cleveland 11:11 2-28-2015 11:12pm (5 replies)
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    • Make a wish! 2-28-2015 11:12pm
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      • I wish for you! 2-28-2015 11:16pm
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        • Awwe~thank you! :o) 2-28-2015 11:18pm
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          • what can i say?! 2-28-2015 11:21pm
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    • 11:13 2-28-2015 11:13pm
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  9. Cleveland What does tour affair do best in bed? Is he better in bed than dh? 2-28-2015 10:47pm (2 replies)
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    • anal 2-28-2015 10:49pm
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    • he's much better in bed then DH- better equipment and moves 2-28-2015 10:59pm
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  10. Cleveland Have a friend of a friend who's eight year old only eats pizza. That's it. They moved from NYC where he would only eat pizza from one specific store, and moved to the burbs. I...(more) 2-28-2015 8:05pm (9 replies)
    always wondered how long it took him to eat the local pizza. Apparently he still eats just pizza a year later.
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    • so annoying. 2-28-2015 8:06pm
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    • that kid is living the dream 2-28-2015 8:06pm
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    • no child has ever starved to death because the correct pizza wasn't served 2-28-2015 8:06pm
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    • Wow, that kid has pulled one over on his parents. 2-28-2015 8:07pm
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      • That's what I always said. That is literally all he eats. Every single freaking day. I don't get how parents can be that stupid, it's astounding. 2-28-2015 8:09pm
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    • pizza is pretty well blaned as suh things go 2-28-2015 8:07pm
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      • It can be, true, especially if he'll tolerate veggies on it. 2-28-2015 8:08pm
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        • You're kidding right? Plain cheese, every day. 2-28-2015 8:09pm
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    • omg; starving dcs eat cat vomit. stfu. 2-28-2015 8:10pm
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  11. Cleveland Had an affair with my supervisor. Started out casual, got very serious way too fast, and we fell in love. His wife found a text, I realised I was in way too deep, and told my dh....(more) 2-28-2015 7:35pm (15 replies)
    Now it is hell seeing him every day. We ignore each other, then I see him watching my longingly. Stupid stupid stupid! I am furious with myself.
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    • yep 2-28-2015 7:35pm
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    • Don't shit where you eat 2-28-2015 7:36pm
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      • Exactly. I'm an idiot. 2-28-2015 7:36pm
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    • Fake 2-28-2015 7:42pm
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      • Not in the slightest unfortunately. 2-28-2015 7:42pm
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    • why did you tell dh? 2-28-2015 7:42pm
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      • Because I knew it was the only way to end it completely. And I was not willing to break up my family for him, but was beginning to have fantasies of doing so. Too much to lose. 2-28-2015 7:43pm
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        • that was just cruel 2-28-2015 7:45pm
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          • To my husband? I know we had issues, I felt I had to tell him to start fixing things between us. I wouldn't have cheated if I had been perfectly happy. 2-28-2015 7:47pm
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            • what does your therapist say? 2-28-2015 7:48pm
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              • I don't have one. 2-28-2015 7:50pm
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                • This is fake or you're an idiot 2-28-2015 7:55pm
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                  • Thanks, I already know I'm an idiot. Why all the fake responses? I don't get it. 2-28-2015 7:56pm
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                    • And I know I made lots of dumb mistakes. I've always second guessed why I told him, and regretted it because it hurt him. But, things are getting better between us because we are...(more) 2-28-2015 7:58pm
                      finally communicating and he is finally LISTENING.
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                      • He's ok with you continuing to work for your affair? 3-1-2015 9:28am
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  12. Cleveland He came back. I am don't contact me until you are done with your marriage affair mom. I am divorced. He is not - yet. He is trying to end it with her in a way that minimizes pain...(more) 2-28-2015 3:45pm (9 replies)
    for everyone. I am WELL aware that anything could happen here. But can someone help me understand her thinking? She hasn't touched him in 3 years. That is when we were caught. She won't go to therapy. She is nice and pleasant and they are not fighting. But she won't respond to his attempts to talk about their intimacy issues or that he is ready to go if things don't change. I believe he is largely telling me the truth about all of this. He had no desire to leave his marriage for years until recently. We haven't seen each other in almost a year. I know he is sincere. I just don't understand what she is thinking and neither does he, actually. He expected her to fight harder for him, I think, but she doesn't think he will really leave.
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    • He also might be lying to you 2-28-2015 3:45pm
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      • well, I get that. which is why I have my eyes wide open here. But I really do not think he is. At least not about the big things. 2-28-2015 3:47pm
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    • I can't believe you are still hanging around waiting. When did you divorce? You should start dating available men and let someone else have this loser. 2-28-2015 4:34pm
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      • I've been dating a lot. But I guess I am still waiting. 2-28-2015 5:43pm
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    • Wait. He's in lobe with you but wants to go to therapy to fix his marriage and be intimate with his wife? Do you realize how ridiculous this sounds? 2-28-2015 6:57pm
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      • ^ love 2-28-2015 6:57pm
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      • He doesn't really want to fix it now. He's checked out. But even before she never wanted it. 2-28-2015 7:17pm
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        • ^shes never wanted therapy. And he's giving things one last shot, sort of, for peace of mind. I don't really blame him. It's just the process he has to go through. I actually...(more) 2-28-2015 7:18pm
          never thought hed get to this point.
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          • Listen. If he's done everything he can for a long time and she's refused help there is no reason for him to stay. But to date he has. He's bullshitting you. 3-1-2015 9:29am
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  13. Cleveland My fairly new affair has gotten more passionate, stares into my eyes during sex, tells me how beautiful and amazing I am, says he can't believe how lucky he is. It's been a few...(more) 2-28-2015 11:32am (9 replies)
    months and it keeps getting better. And the sex is so good I can barely wait between times seeing him. It's gonna be hell when this ends. It's the closest I've ever gotten to a man other than dh. And not my first affair.
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    • Great! Keep up the good work!! 2-28-2015 11:36am
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      • I'm just saying it's getting very intense and he's getting more intimate and I'm falling hard. 2-28-2015 11:38am
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        • You are married. Divorce and then have a relationship with this man. 2-28-2015 11:39am
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          • We both have kids and just aren't at that stage yet. We are enjoying each other as is for now 2-28-2015 11:41am
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            • All the focus you are placing on each other is taking away from your family, your kids. This is not good pranging.g 2-28-2015 11:43am
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              • We don't talk constantly, maybe a few times a day, and only get together once every one or two weeks 2-28-2015 11:44am
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    • Please seek out a therapist. 2-28-2015 6:59pm
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    • I'm in the same situation. We love each other, kids too young to break up our respective marriages. I don't know what to do. 3-2-2015 1:11pm
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      • People with young dc divorce every day. It's actually better to do it when they are younger 3-2-2015 4:01pm
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  14. Cleveland How long have you been with current affair? 2-28-2015 8:56am (4 replies)
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    • Who am I, Maury Povitch? 2-28-2015 9:00am
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    • 3 years 2-28-2015 10:51am
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    • One of them 3 years (fwb), the other 2 months and very serious already. 2-28-2015 11:03am
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    • Just over a year. 2-28-2015 6:47pm
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  15. Cleveland A man who preforms oral perfectly is a man with experience? 2-27-2015 10:51am (21 replies)
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    • More a man who has had a long term girlfriend. 2-27-2015 10:52am
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      • I can't stop thinking about it. It was so fucking good. Wonder if this is what a man feels. 2-27-2015 10:55am
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        • Why would you wonder what a man feels? You'll never know what a man's orgasm feels like, and you'll never know what another woman's orgasm feels like. 2-27-2015 10:56am
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          • no, i am wodering if men think about how amazing a woman is at giving oral. 2-27-2015 11:06am
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            • Of course. Haven't you ever made a guy breathless with a bj? I've had more than one thank me because it was so awesome. 2-27-2015 11:08am
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              • Thing is this guy takes foooorever to climax & sometimes/most times doesnt at all. 2-27-2015 11:11am
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                • I hate guys who enjoy a bj for too long. 2-27-2015 11:11am
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                  • i have never delt with this issue & the way he enjoys it is a bit of a turn off. mostly because it takes so long. i love giving bjs. love it. annoying! 2-27-2015 11:14am
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                    • Sounds like a waste of time, honestly. 2-27-2015 11:15am
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                      • agree...but he does a fantastic job when going down on me. I respond quickly & it has a lasting effect. 2-27-2015 11:17am
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                        • So don't let him finish. blow him until you've had enough and then fuck him. Or let him fuck you in the ass. 2-27-2015 11:20am
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                          • wish he did fuck me in my ass. he won't. even when we are fucking he wont climax. 2-27-2015 11:53am
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                            • he needs hours or he has a problem with climaxing. 2-27-2015 11:55am
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                          • you women and your old coke heads. 2-27-2015 5:06pm
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                • dh: For me, if it takes a long time to climax it is because I am really not into it. 2-27-2015 2:29pm
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                  • even if rock hard? why keep coming back? 2-27-2015 3:42pm
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                    • hard, maybe not rock hard. If rock hard and taking a long time maybe viagra is involved. For me, sex always sounds like a good idea, and then sometimes turns out not to be, for...(more) 2-27-2015 5:40pm
                      whatever reason.
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                      • You are a total pussy. 2-27-2015 5:41pm
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                        • lol. Not my fault that women are not as sexy as they first seem. 2-27-2015 8:34pm
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                          • no, I am pretty sexy. Its him. Not me. 2-28-2015 9:13am
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      • This. 2-27-2015 5:04pm
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  16. Cleveland Psycho made me lunch for work & it was delicious. damn. 2-27-2015 10:28am (0 replies)
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  17. Cleveland What kind of tops do you wear under suits? FOrmer SAHM back at working in an office 2-26-2015 10:40pm (1 reply)
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    • clevies wear nothing under 2-27-2015 10:37am
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  18. Cleveland Why would my friends be moving to a smaller house 2-26-2015 10:37pm (3 replies)
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    • dh and i discussing even though we moved here for the space and dd's still young. its a lot of upkeep. 2-26-2015 10:38pm
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      • ^^but today they ran in w 5 neighbor kids, all sopping from playing in the snow and i was able to send the whole soggy mess to playroom. so i think abt that aspect 2-26-2015 10:40pm
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    • Because he had an affair with you. 2-27-2015 12:31pm
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  19. Cleveland Can't believe he is moving to my neighborhood 2-26-2015 10:10pm (4 replies)
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    • Awkward 2-26-2015 10:14pm
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      • Very. He lives near me now, but moving to my actual street 2-26-2015 10:19pm
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        • still seeing him romantically? 2-27-2015 2:18pm
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    • that is nucking futs 2-27-2015 10:36am
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  20. Cleveland I'm seeing him tomorrow night, been together 2 months and talk daily, often. 5th time in hotel. I am so...(more) 2-26-2015 5:30pm (0 replies)
    Excited I can barely contain myself.
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  21. Cleveland Here's something you guys will love....(more) 2-26-2015 9:50am (9 replies)
    • I listened last night. It was pretty fascinating 2-26-2015 9:51am
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    • DO I know you? 2-26-2015 1:23pm
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    • It is interesting how the woman who gave the longest interview went to such great lengths to rationalize her affair with so much psychobabble and even feminist bullshit when all...(more) 2-26-2015 4:30pm
      almost she really understood that she was a selfish person trying to have her cake and eat it too and was not above emotionally blackmailing her obviously weak husband.
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      • It's not that simple when you are in it. At all. 2-27-2015 12:30pm
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        • np - while i agree with you about the complexity of it all, Sheri was a jerk whw was way to ready to excuse herself. 2-27-2015 1:02pm
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        • Maybe. But sometimes it is simple and people obfuscate things to avoid coming face to face with who they really strand what they are really doing. Finding moral clarity is a very...(more) 2-27-2015 6:11pm
          I'mportant part of life lived in a healthy manner
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          • Who they really "are" .sorry... A strange autocorrect 2-27-2015 6:12pm
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    • Thank you. Listening now. Did the interviewer choose her subject based on who had the most annoying voice? They are all insufferable. 3-1-2015 2:02am
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      • OMG. Just STFU and listen. You sound like the insufferable one here... 3-1-2015 8:11am
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  22. Cleveland Haven't cheated in a while, things are good with dh. Friday night work drinks I got drunk and my colleague kissed me and I didn't stop it. Nobody else from work say. We haven't...(more) 2-26-2015 9:04am (40 replies)
    mentioned since. I don't know what will happen this friday night. 37. 3 dc. married 11 years.
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    • Do your kids like him? 2-26-2015 9:05am
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      • do they like dh? of course 2-26-2015 9:07am
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    • if not happily married just get a divorc. the women who cheat is what disgusts me, 2-26-2015 9:06am
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      • Why are you on Cleveland? 2-26-2015 9:07am
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    • You'll be fucking him by next month 2-26-2015 9:06am
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      • i don't want to but i'm weak when it comes to temptation 2-26-2015 9:08am
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        • Obviously. You still have the cheaters mindset. You haven't made any real changes 2-26-2015 9:09am
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        • So stay home on friay 2-26-2015 9:15am
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          • this is a great response i ageee with 2-26-2015 9:33am
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      • a month ? Try next week 2-26-2015 9:10am
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      • this 2-26-2015 9:12am
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    • ask your dh. see what he says. 2-26-2015 9:11am
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      • such a stupid old response. 2-26-2015 9:13am
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        • then why not ask him? 2-26-2015 9:13am
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          • are you really asking this question? take a guess genius. you're answer will be the right one. 2-26-2015 9:16am
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    • you know what will happen and are excited by it. You are lying to yourself, your dh AND your kids. my mom had an affair and it ruined our relationship and i hope your kids find...(more) 2-26-2015 9:11am
      out about you soon
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    • when the kids find out. yikes. your marriage is a sham. just divorce 2-26-2015 9:12am
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      • and they will find out, op is a whore 2-26-2015 9:13am
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    • you truly disgust me, you are pathetic and weak and i feel so sorry for your dh and kids 2-26-2015 9:12am
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    • why go out on friday night ? I am sure your colleague just knows you are an easy fuck and has no feelings for your tramp ass 2-26-2015 9:13am
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      • THIS is our annual vacation, not willing to sit in some butthole for a week 2-26-2015 9:14am
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        • OOPS, JUST THIS ! 2-26-2015 9:14am
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    • looks like boed toddler moms are trolling. 2-26-2015 9:15am
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      • ^^^bored 2-26-2015 9:15am
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      • yup, wish i ould offer support to a life ruining selfish bitch 2-26-2015 9:15am
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      • and we may be bored, which is better than trying to spice things up by a bit on the side 2-26-2015 9:16am
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        • but you are here. kind of lame. 2-26-2015 9:17am
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          • what are you doing here ? lol 2-26-2015 9:18am
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            • picking up tips on how to lie to everyone in your life ? 2-26-2015 9:18am
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            • having an affair. im am on the right board. 2-26-2015 9:28am
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    • who are you people that think it's ok to ruin lives? what's your damage? how do you think this is ok? you have no idea the repercussion of what you are doing. they are long and...(more) 2-26-2015 9:16am
      far reaching. You are literally destroying souls. I hope your dh never finds out. Get your Karma Bus ticket ready for when it rolls around.
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      • and her poor kids. Affiars ruined my life and even to this day i have intimacy issues, even though i have the most trustworthy dh on the planet. my mom destroyed any trust i had...(more) 2-26-2015 9:18am
        in her
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        • didnt even read your response. stop wasting your time. 2-26-2015 9:29am
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          • liar 2-26-2015 9:29am
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            • no, really. i didnt read it. 2-26-2015 9:32am
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              • liar, but what more would i expect from someone who lies so easily everyday 2-26-2015 9:33am
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              • truth hurts, but you should try it sometimes 2-26-2015 9:35am
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        • np a person doesnt have the power to ruin your life. the sooner you realize this, the happier you will be. Good luck. signed, daughter of cheating addicts 2-26-2015 2:21pm
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  23. Cleveland Ex affair (hellish ending, haven't talked in over a month) added me on Google +. First of all, I haven't been on Google + in over a year. Secondly, why would he do that?...(more) 2-25-2015 6:28pm (4 replies)
    To see if it stirs me up? It just pissed me off.
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    • i bet he was searching you and added you by accident 2-25-2015 6:29pm
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      • Searching for me there? Or just like Google or something? Lol 2-25-2015 6:31pm
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        • there. or maybe it suggested you if you are a contact in his email account. 2-25-2015 6:33pm
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    • probably sync'd all his contacts & u were still in there. dont waste anytime worrying. forget it. 2-25-2015 9:15pm
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  24. Cleveland Why do you stay married to someone you are willing to cheat on? 2-25-2015 4:28pm (34 replies)
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    • I don't cheat but I feel like some people are more tolerant of this, not everyone is obsessed with monogamy, you know? 2-25-2015 4:29pm
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      • let's assume the person being cheated on isn't. 2-25-2015 4:29pm
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        • well i think marriage and sex are two different things for some people. so someone might love theor spouse, comfort, family, etc. but crave sex with new people, variety, or...(more) 2-25-2015 4:31pm
          whatever. even though it is not fo rme, i can easily see how someone would want to be married to one person while also wanting sex with others.
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          • That doesn't answer what I'm asking. Why would you stay married to someone you are willing to cheat on.. thus.. why are you staying married to someone you are willing to hurt...(more) 2-25-2015 4:32pm
            like that?
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            • np - I don't think you're really looking to be informed or enlightened. 2-25-2015 4:33pm
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              • why? 2-25-2015 4:33pm
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                • or: it seems sort of obvious that there are people who cheat and want to stay married, but you seem to want to hear that anyone willing to cheat has a more rational plan to hurt...(more) 2-25-2015 4:35pm
                  the spouse. i am not interested in cheating or being cheated on but think i can understand this aspect of human behavior. i'm sorry f it is you who has been hurt.
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                  • OP here. I wasn't cheated on. I'm friends with someone (male) who is single and seeing a married woman. He vents to me about the situation. I just don't understand her...(more) 2-25-2015 4:55pm
                    motivation. She is young, no kids, fairly new marriage (4 years now, but she's been with this other guy for 2 of them). Her husband has threatened to leave her twice now and told her under no circumstance can she talk to this guy but she keeps doing it. whenever he threatens to leave, she cuts off all contact with the other guy for a week or so. She says the whole thing is killing her and it is clearly causing both men a lot of pain. I don't understand why she does it.
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                    • Is her husband wealthy? 2-25-2015 4:56pm
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                      • No, they are living in a tiny apartment, share 1 car. 2-25-2015 4:57pm
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            • i would guess because the cheater feels compelled to have sex with others and hopes they will to be caught, no? i am sure there's a lot of rationalization, but the cheater may be...(more) 2-25-2015 4:33pm
              very desperate to stay married and just cannot controll him or herself -- eg david duchovny.
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              • ^will NOT be caught, sorry, typo 2-25-2015 4:34pm
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      • Then why get married 2-25-2015 4:34pm
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        • oh good Lord you are not thinking in a very complex manner. if you are reeling from being hurt, sorry. but this is age-old human behavior -- a person might fall in love and want...(more) 2-25-2015 4:37pm
          to marry and still or at some later date fine him or herself compelled and willing to have sex with others, can you not see that this will nto necessarily be a premeditated act AGAINST the spouse but more of a selfish act FOR the person who both loves the spouse and wants outside sex? it is not an either/or situation in many cases.
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          • Do you realize you're responding to more than one person ? I've never been hurt and I'm not op or the other responder 2-25-2015 4:39pm
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    • I didn't stay married, but I didn't konw that was going to be the outcome. I was surprised to find myself in an affair, surprised I would do it. It confused me and I had to ask...(more) 2-25-2015 4:38pm
      myself that question and confront the fact that I didn't love my spouse or respect him. But I also wasn't willing to make an impulsive decision.
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      • What did your affair do to seduce you? 2-25-2015 4:39pm
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        • lol. life isn't a movie. he didn't seduce me. we connected. 2-25-2015 4:41pm
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          • what made you feel connected? 2-25-2015 4:42pm
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            • he's just a much better fit for me in many ways that have nothing to do with marital status. just as people. and yes, we are still together. 2-25-2015 4:43pm
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      • op back - well, then you are the antithesis of who I'm asking, I think. Unless you are commenting on any significant period between when you cheated and decided to divorce. 2-25-2015 4:51pm
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        • it wasn't that significant.. I wasn't going to cheat over a long period of time. It was torture. but I also wasn't going to "just divorce" like people on here say. I spent abo...(more) 2-25-2015 4:53pm
          months before deciding.
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          • Yeah. I don't understand the long term cheating.. planing and wanting to stay cheating and married forever. Even if I stopped cheating I would think the guilt every time I...(more) 2-25-2015 4:57pm
            looked at the spouse would rip me apart.
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      • Ditto 2-25-2015 9:42pm
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    • children, house, friends, family, finances, etc. Same reasons someone stays with a cheater, actually. 2-25-2015 4:57pm
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      • It sort of seems like marriage is such a trap to those people. I would feel pretty awful knowing my husband was only still married to me because it was too much of a pain to...(more) 2-25-2015 4:59pm
        change.
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        • I think you are right that many people who cheat feel trapped. 2-25-2015 4:59pm
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        • its also avoidance. Avoiding confrontation, hurting your spouse, dealing with the outrage, upheaval in your daily life. 2-25-2015 5:01pm
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    • Married my affair. I'll never cheat on him. 2-25-2015 6:35pm
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      • never say never. 2-25-2015 7:24pm
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        • Very true. I take that back. 2-26-2015 6:46am
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    • There are a number of reason that you would cheat on your spouse even though you love him/her and want to stay married - more sex, more variety, to fill some emotional need ......(more) 2-25-2015 7:15pm
      The reason you do it is because you don't think you will get caught. If you have an open marriage, then it isn't cheating.
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      • I don't believe this. I believe that if you think you love someone you are willing to cheat on, you are so damaged that you have no idea what love is. 2-26-2015 12:42am
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    • I didn't. I'm divorcing dh. My affair (huge mistake about which I will be ashamed forever) made me realize that I was in deep denial about my marriage. No happily married person...(more) 2-25-2015 9:30pm
      falls in "love" with someone else.
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  25. Cleveland So my attempt to end it resulted in him saying, "you are mine for life". ummmm, I managed to get him to simmer down a bit. Its going to be a slow shake off. 2-25-2015 9:00am (10 replies)
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    • Nce. I want a man to own me. 2-25-2015 9:03am
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      • op:i use to love when my previous affair said these things. This guy has an intensity that makes me think he believes it. 2-25-2015 9:42am
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    • Just. Stop. Talking. To. Him. 2-25-2015 9:07am
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      • op:This man will confront me. Has already showed up at my job during his lunch break, because he hasnt seen me for a fee days. 2-25-2015 9:41am
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        • then let him. If you really wanted to end it you would 2-25-2015 5:02pm
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        • You need to be firm and tell him to stop. Tell he's now stalking and you'll begin to file police reports if he doesn't stop. 2-26-2015 8:22am
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          • you are right. it has gotten out of control. he knows i have more to lose. he has heavy needs that i can not fill. 2-26-2015 9:08am
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    • well he's a fucking liar so dont believe his shit 2-25-2015 9:08am
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      • op:its just crazy. This is my 3rd affair & never have had this much trouble. He called me out on it too. Says Ive didnt know what I was getting into with him. He is crazy. 2-25-2015 9:35am
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        • we told you not to go there. you didn't listen 2-25-2015 5:04pm
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