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  1. Cleveland He is moving 1500 miles away and wants me to move with him. 4 hr 11 min ago (7 replies)
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    • not unless he puts a ring on it. 4 hr 9 min ago
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      • Yes, that would be the plan. 4 hr 8 min ago
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        • don't go until you have a ring and a date set and invitations sent out though, seriously 4 hr 8 min ago
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          • That would be a long time. He would have to divorce first... 4 hr 7 min ago
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            • that's exactly right. do not relocate based on a man's promises, esp. if you started seeing him when he was already married. he's shown himself to be dishonest. 4 hr 6 min ago
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            • is he moving with his family? 4 hr ago
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              • No. Kids will be in college and he is going to divorce with the move. 3 hr 57 min ago
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  2. Cleveland I am divorced from asshole exh and happily remarried to a great man. Had a get together with friends other day and one of the husbands was talking about this hotel that had...(more) 10 hr 26 min ago (16 replies)
    dancing and live music. "You guys have to know which one I'm talking about." And he named it. I said "never heard of it" then turned to df, whispered in her ear and said "of course I know. That's where "john and I used to fuck." She burst out in a fit of giggles and said "you are good man."
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    • She used to fuck your ex there? 10 hr 25 min ago
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      • No, she is fucking her current husband there I think. 10 hr 24 min ago
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        • Her friend ips? 10 hr 24 min ago
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      • No. I fucked ex affair there but completely pretended to not know what hotel he was talking about. 10 hr 24 min ago
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        • oh wow. I would NOT have got that. 10 hr 23 min ago
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          • Dammit. My posting skills are that horrible. 10 hr 22 min ago
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    • wait - what??? She used to fuck your husband? She fucks her current husband there? 10 hr 24 min ago
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    • what? this makes no sense 10 hr 24 min ago
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      • OP turned to df and whispered in her ear whilst df praised her for being rad 10 hr 21 min ago
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      • the only thing that doesn't make sense is the "you are good, man" comment. 6 hr 28 min ago
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    • You cheated on you ex or you are cheating on your current husband? 10 hr 22 min ago
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      • On ex but not even really. It was done. He invited me to get a boyfriend. 10 hr 21 min ago
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        • is John your current DH? 8 hr 35 min ago
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          • this is what i want to know. 6 hr 28 min ago
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            • Tritto 6 hr 13 min ago
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            • OP: No. John was left in the dust. John called me constantly when I got divorced and i had the pleasure of telling him "I don't date married men." John called me when I got...(more) 5 hr 35 min ago
              remarried and I had the pleasure of telling him "I have to block you now."
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  3. Cleveland Do you think men miss their ex affairs the way some women miss theirs? I'd love to hear from a man's perspective. I think I men as simple creatures who are very out of sight, out...(more) 12 hr 52 min ago (89 replies)
    of mind. Just wondering if men ever miss women from their past
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    • he doesn't miss you. 12 hr 52 min ago
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    • do you really think EVERY man feels the same way? jeez 12 hr 52 min ago
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      • Men do seem much more capable of moving on quickly 12 hr 50 min ago
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        • please stop gerealizing 12 hr 50 min ago
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          • pardon the spelling error 12 hr 50 min ago
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          • there are basic differences in the behavior of men and women in general 12 hr 46 min ago
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            • op: ty. I think so too and am just trying to understand 12 hr 46 min ago
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          • np - generalizing for the sake of generalizing is OK - I mean.. if you are asking.. do men OVERALL, seem to feel guilt working long hours every day, you can answer that. As long...(more) 8 hr 32 min ago
            as you know that some do and some don't and you aren't defining a particular man because he is a man.. it is fine.
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    • And ex bf (neither of us was cheating) says he still misses me 12 hr 50 min ago
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      • Ty for a real answer 12 hr 50 min ago
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    • Sure. If he had fun he'll look back fondly on that fun. 12 hr 50 min ago
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      • That's interesting. I talked to him recently and that was what he wanted to talk about. I'm much more caught up in what went wrong 12 hr 49 min ago
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        • I think that, in general, sex and affairs are more about fun for men, and more about relationships for women. 12 hr 46 min ago
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    • They seem to come back around, so in a way, yes I think they do. An ex-affair came back about a year after I cut contact and said he always loved me and was insanely jealous of...(more) 12 hr 49 min ago
      dh. But he also bragged to me about fucking a 22yo. So...I think a man's perception of love is quite different than a woman's.
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      • that wasn't love 12 hr 48 min ago
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        • define love. I don't think it really exists, except parent-child. 12 hr 47 min ago
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        • Np: how do you know? I think men equate sex with love 12 hr 46 min ago
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          • eh idk about that. They can separate the two pretty easily. 12 hr 44 min ago
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      • Op: yes. I'm trying to understand that perception. Btw mine liked to brag too. As if that would make me think more highly of him! Men can be stupid 12 hr 48 min ago
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      • Why did he tell you about a 22 yo? 12 hr 13 min ago
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    • dh: YES. 100% 12 hr 45 min ago
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      • ^^^unless you were crazy, then the only reason they think about you is when they think back and think how crazy you were. 12 hr 44 min ago
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        • affairs are crazy-making 12 hr 44 min ago
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          • They don't have to be, but they are emotional sometimes. It's bound to happen if you're fucking someone you really like. 12 hr 43 min ago
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            • Op: Ty, dh! It's kind of comforting to know men do have emotional feelings about this too 12 hr 40 min ago
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              • Sure, but be warned, I think a lot of guys don't give a shit. Most guys, not all, have an agenda and that's to get laid. 12 hr 35 min ago
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                • what is the big drive to get laid? what is the purpose? 12 hr 34 min ago
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                  • Because it feels good and we're animals. 12 hr 33 min ago
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                    • I think it's about ego. Feeling studly. 12 hr 32 min ago
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                      • npdh: nope. It's about having fun and having sex 12 hr 32 min ago
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                        • but you do both of that w/dw 12 hr 31 min ago
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                          • Yes, but it's different. Can't live on eating steak all the time, sometimes you want McDonalds even though you know it's bad for you. 12 hr 30 min ago
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                            • dude. i'm the steak, not the mcdonalds. 6 hr 25 min ago
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                          • No I don't that's why I'm having affairs 12 hr 27 min ago
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                        • Mine wouldn't have sex with me! Sexting only. What do you dh's make of that? 12 hr 30 min ago
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                          • That's just commitment issues.. The leap from sexting to actually hooking up is a pretty big line to cross. It's not easy. 12 hr 28 min ago
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                            • Thanks. Shit. Now I feel bad. 12 hr 28 min ago
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                              • Don't feel bad. He went as far as he could and it was probably for the best. Imagine if he did cross that line and he felt 100x worse. 12 hr 24 min ago
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                                • THIS 12 hr 24 min ago
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                                • Some men seem to have no problem crossing it. That fair to say? 12 hr 18 min ago
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                                  • Yes.. Completely. It's like trying to carry a 5 gallon jug of water that's been lathered up in grease. You can probably pick it up and make it a few feet before it gets away from...(more) 12 hr 16 min ago
                                    you all at once and in spectacular fashion.
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                        • Did you affair partner feel that way too? Did you say i love you? 12 hr 30 min ago
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                          • We did. 12 hr 27 min ago
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                            • ^^^ to be clear, I wouldn't be interested in a long-term affair with someone I didn't like. 12 hr 26 min ago
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                              • How many have you had? 12 hr 25 min ago
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                                • two. you? 12 hr 23 min ago
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                                  • Just one 12 hr 22 min ago
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                                  • Did you say I love you to both of them? 12 hr 21 min ago
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                                    • Sure. I did. I cared about them. I went out of my way to make them happy. I liked having animal sex with them, but I also liked sending little gifts and being thoughtful for one...(more) 12 hr 20 min ago
                                      another.
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                                      • Were they at the same time and did you care for one more than the other? 12 hr 17 min ago
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                                        • They were at different times. I cared for them equally. They were very different. 12 hr 16 min ago
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                                          • What were they like? are you the poster with the crazy affair? 12 hr 12 min ago
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                                            • No. Neither of mine were/are crazy. They were fun. Beautiful. One was very aggressive, the other required a bit more of a seduction. They both liked receiving oral. 12 hr 10 min ago
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                                              • are you npr? 12 hr 9 min ago
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                                                • All things considered, no. But I can talk about cars. 12 hr 8 min ago
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                                                  • Ha. I meant that dude that posts here all the time. Maybe it's nrp. 12 hr 6 min ago
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                                                    • are you thinking nsr? 11 hr 57 min ago
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                                              • How did you seduce her? Did you feel guilty about manipulating her emotions to get sex? 12 hr 8 min ago
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                                                • By making it clear to her that she is a beautiful, smart, funny, sexy woman who deserves to be treated as such and by making her feel good. I don't think I manipulated her. 12 hr 6 min ago
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                                                  • "required a bit more of a seduction" smacks of "i had to tell this woman all kinds of bullshit to get in her pants" kwim? 12 hr 3 min ago
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                                                  • Did you break off both affairs or did they? 12 hr ago
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                                                    • One was by mutual consent. The second is ongoing. 11 hr 59 min ago
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                                                      • ^^ and accept my apologies, but I have a 1 pm meeting. 11 hr 58 min ago
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                                                      • sounds like you are looking for your next 11 hr 56 min ago
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            • How many affairs have you had? What were the crazy ones like? 12 hr 26 min ago
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          • this 12 hr 40 min ago
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        • Ha ha. I know mine has a crazy ex 12 hr 36 min ago
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          • Your affair has a crazy ex affair? 12 hr 35 min ago
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      • Can you tell us what you miss about one of yours? 12 hr 37 min ago
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        • I miss talking to her, seeing her, touching her. 12 hr 34 min ago
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          • why did it end? 12 hr 33 min ago
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            • She moved. 12 hr 33 min ago
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              • that's what they all say 12 hr 32 min ago
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                • Her dh got a new job and that was it. It was hard enough to meet once a week, that was the final blow. 12 hr 31 min ago
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                  • Np: sorry 12 hr 30 min ago
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                    • It had to end at some point right? 12 hr 28 min ago
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          • Are you dh above? How many affairs have you had? 12 hr 18 min ago
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            • 2, 5 years apart. 12 hr 15 min ago
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              • how long did they last for? did you think you would have another after the first ended? 12 hr 9 min ago
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    • Why the need for a man to gloat about others he's with? 12 hr 35 min ago
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      • np:i want to know this too? mine gloats about his past. why? 10 hr 41 min ago
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        • I wish i knew. It completely makes me feel repulsed by him and i think he thinks that i am either impressed or jealous. 10 hr 35 min ago
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          • omg yes!!! I almost canceled plans with him because of some stupid tibbit he shared about his past. 10 hr 25 min ago
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            • Should have gone through with canceling 10 hr 22 min ago
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              • yes! I should have. 8 hr 49 min ago
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          • This 10 hr 23 min ago
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    • EVERY relationship is different: marriage, dating, affair whatever. there are no absolute rules. 8 hr 30 min ago
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  4. Cleveland Affs dc goes to same activity as my dc. Will see him or his wife every week. Waiting for dc's, I was in earshot of dw's conversation. So strange. 13 hr 31 min ago (79 replies)
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    • btdt. be prepared to be ignored! 13 hr 30 min ago
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      • I definitely don't mind being ignored. I just overheard dw talking about him. Couldn't believe I was in this situation. 13 hr 27 min ago
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        • what did she say?? 13 hr 19 min ago
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          • Don't want to give too much detail but something about his plans the day before and plans that day. Some info didn't quite match with what he told me lol 13 hr 17 min ago
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            • you are a nasty whore. 13 hr 10 min ago
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            • And how did you feel when you heard her? Not one ounce of guilt or shame or pity? 13 hr 9 min ago
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              • she felt superior 13 hr 8 min ago
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                • Right, miss perfect 13 hr 8 min ago
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                  • didn't say that. i was relating. btdt 13 hr 6 min ago
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              • Yes all of those. 13 hr 8 min ago
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                • then stop what you are doing. 13 hr 8 min ago
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      • why should she be ignored? 13 hr 12 min ago
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    • this cant end well 13 hr 13 min ago
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      • Why? What could happen? Seriously. 13 hr 11 min ago
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        • You clearly have not though tthis through. 13 hr 10 min ago
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          • you are a whore AND stupid 13 hr 10 min ago
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          • This never happened to me before and why I'm posting here for feedback. 13 hr 9 min ago
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            • you are not posting for feedback since you don't ask any questions. you just stated your experience. that's all 13 hr 8 min ago
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              • Whatever you say 13 hr 6 min ago
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                • so smug. 13 hr 5 min ago
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                  • So judgey and perfect 13 hr 4 min ago
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                    • not at all. you are just making a massive mistake 13 hr 3 min ago
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                      • People make mistakes. Doesn't make me smug, a whore or nasty. I came to an affair board for non-judgement. If you don't like what you read here, move on. 13 hr 1 min ago
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                        • no, you came for validation. 13 hr ago
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                          • Don't tell me why I posted here. You have no idea. 12 hr 59 min ago
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                            • re-read your responses. 12 hr 59 min ago
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                              • I know what I feel. All that matters. 12 hr 56 min ago
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                                • considering that this is anonymous, why are you so defensive 12 hr 56 min ago
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                                  • Tried of the judges snarky replies here. 12 hr 55 min ago
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                                    • Jesus, you are having an affair and you're upset that people may not say nice things about it? 12 hr 53 min ago
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                                    • ^judgey 12 hr 53 min ago
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                                      • I never claimed it wasn't. point is you are having an affair. most people don't think too kindly of that. 12 hr 52 min ago
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                                        • So you say. But this is an anonymous board in which Cleve can be un clicked. 12 hr 49 min ago
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                                          • your point? 12 hr 48 min ago
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                                            • If you don't like reading about affairs, then move on. 12 hr 47 min ago
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                                              • if you don't like reading the responses, then move on. 12 hr 46 min ago
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                                                • Ok. 12 hr 44 min ago
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                                                  • ^and helpful! meaningful responses would be preferred. Not childish name-calling. 12 hr 43 min ago
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                                • and what is that? 12 hr 56 min ago
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                            • then please tell me why you posted. what are you looking for? 12 hr 59 min ago
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                              • What is anyone looking for when posting to an anonymous board? 12 hr 46 min ago
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                        • you don't sound like you are regretting anything or are wanting to change. 13 hr ago
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                        • If you felt like you are making a mistake your responses would be different 12 hr 59 min ago
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                          • Are you kidding me? So YOU say. You don't know me. You're just making assumptions based on one anonymous post. So intelligent. 12 hr 58 min ago
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                            • you put LOL after writing that your affair told you something different. you tell us, honey. 12 hr 57 min ago
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                              • I did because I had a feeling the reply was from June mom. She has a similar situation previously. 12 hr 55 min ago
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                                • and look at her. shes a MESS 12 hr 51 min ago
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                                  • For different reasons. We're all different 12 hr 48 min ago
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                            • so please tell me how you feel about this. i am asking in the most unsnarky way. 12 hr 57 min ago
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                              • Which or are you? 12 hr 54 min ago
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                                • i didn't call you any names 12 hr 53 min ago
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            • he's not your first? 13 hr 6 min ago
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    • Talk about shitting and eating in the same space. 13 hr 8 min ago
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    • the conversation at pick up will be much more exciting once you are caught 13 hr 5 min ago
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    • Why not introduce yourself? 13 hr 2 min ago
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    • How long together? 12 hr 55 min ago
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    • What was your reaction when you realized that this would happen- that you would see his dw or him weekly? 12 hr 55 min ago
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      • My initial reaction wasn't a good one. Think about ended it because of this (if not other obvious reasons) everyday. 12 hr 51 min ago
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    • I don't know why everyone is snarking on you OP. I would be fascinated and probably found out bc I'd stare at her constantly, analyze everything about her and if they were there...(more) 12 hr 54 min ago
      together I'd analyze how they interact with each other.
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      • would you lol? 12 hr 54 min ago
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        • oh hell yes. Who wouldn't?? 12 hr 53 min ago
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          • anyone who is human and has the capacity to be empathetic and/or sympathetic to another person 12 hr 50 min ago
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            • are you implying I don't have those feelings? Humans are complicated and can feel many things and do many things. A simplistic view of human nature will never be accurate. 12 hr 48 min ago
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              • your LOL really seemed telling to me that you lacked any sympathy for your actions. I know the response was for a specific person but it was a mean spirited comment that you made 12 hr 39 min ago
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                • Above or is no OP. I'm OP. What you seem to gather from my lol is not accurate to who I really am. You have no basis for judgement other than I'm having an affair which you don't...(more) 12 hr 35 min ago
                  agree with.
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                  • and your assumption is incorrect. what you do is your business but your lack of feeling towards the dw is upsetting 12 hr 34 min ago
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                    • If that was the case, I'd feel the same way. But that is not me to be that way. OP. 12 hr 32 min ago
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                      • can you translate what you just wrote? i dont understand 12 hr 31 min ago
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                        • I'm saying if it was clearly obvious that or didn't care about or sympathize with a dw in an affair situation, I too would think it upsetting. OP. 12 hr 29 min ago
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                          • does that make you feel differently about what you are doing? 12 hr 28 min ago
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                            • Does what make me feel different? 12 hr 27 min ago
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                              • seeing the dw and hearing her 12 hr 23 min ago
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                              • Sorry working and trying to multi-task responding to this topic is distracting. Actually before posting about this and even after reading all the replies it's actually helping me...(more) 12 hr 22 min ago
                                think clearer about my situation.
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                                • Op^ 12 hr 22 min ago
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                                • ^not the negative replies but just putting my situation "out there" even anonymously, and getting other feedback. 12 hr 19 min ago
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                • I wasn't the LOL responder so I won't take offense 12 hr 35 min ago
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              • what does that have to do with anything? 12 hr 33 min ago
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    • June mom? 6 hr 45 min ago
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  5. Cleveland If you live near your ex-aff, do you drive past his office or home? I should stop this, right? 14 hr 5 min ago (22 replies)
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    • Just text him when you are drinking. 14 hr 3 min ago
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      • And send him a picture of your cooch 14 hr 2 min ago
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    • i hope you are kidding? 13 hr 12 min ago
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      • i meant !!! not ? 13 hr 12 min ago
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      • I am not kidding - I cannot seem to stop. 13 hr 11 min ago
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        • what will be gained from driving past his home and office other than scaring him 13 hr 10 min ago
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          • i don't want to scare him. just see him. see if he looks at me. i know it's fucked up. 13 hr 9 min ago
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            • then stop if you know that it's messed up 13 hr 9 min ago
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              • easier said than done. we have tried to stop before. but he always comes back. 13 hr 8 min ago
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                • why do you put the blame on him and not on you? 13 hr 7 min ago
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                  • well obv i let him come back... 13 hr 4 min ago
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                • np: they always come back. one day you'll wise up and tell him to go away. 12 hr 38 min ago
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    • No. Keep it up. Committ to stalking at least an hour a day. 13 hr 11 min ago
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    • Jodi Arias 12 hr 38 min ago
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    • my ex affair has driven by my house 12 hr 36 min ago
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      • scary 12 hr 35 min ago
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        • eh, it wasn't scary but it did make me angry 12 hr 32 min ago
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    • I've told current affair I'd stalk him. 12 hr 33 min ago
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      • please get some help 12 hr 8 min ago
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        • it was a joke 11 hr 27 min ago
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    • if i did it, would be in hopes of seeing a for sale sign in the yard 12 hr 10 min ago
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  6. Cleveland Pretty shitty for a kid to rub it in a classmates face by purposely not handing her a party invite, while handing out one to most. 15 hr 2 min ago (3 replies)
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    • that should not be allowed at school. let the teacher know 14 hr 59 min ago
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    • Are you having an affair with classmate's DH? 14 hr 55 min ago
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  7. Cleveland Besides a hotel or car, where do you spend time with aff? 15 hr 18 min ago (2 replies)
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    • His office. 15 hr 16 min ago
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      • np. This. Blew him in his office. 13 hr 18 min ago
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  8. Cleveland For the first time in 4yrs it did not feel right with him. Anyone go through this? Did you end it? 15 hr 45 min ago (2 replies)
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    • what felt different? 13 hr 12 min ago
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      • I left feeling empty. 10 hr 24 min ago
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  9. Cleveland What would be your reasons for ending it? 16 hr 3 min ago (7 replies)
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    • Caught 13 hr 22 min ago
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    • Guilt 13 hr 21 min ago
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    • Someone new 13 hr 21 min ago
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    • scheduling 12 hr 54 min ago
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    • Guilt and tired of lying all the time 12 hr 42 min ago
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      • this is what I feel. 10 hr 29 min ago
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    • He stopped trying to see me, said he was still into me but didn't act like it. Done. 2 hr 5 min ago
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  10. Cleveland Bored with him. sike myself up, but Im bored. 18 hr ago (2 replies)
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    • Psych. Idiot whore. 17 hr 56 min ago
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    • someone new? 17 hr 37 min ago
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  11. Cleveland I always get so stupid after spending time with him. I want more. He is the opposite. Starts to dwindle after time with me until he starts to get going again. Are we off or is...(more) 10-20-2014 11:16pm (8 replies)
    the norm?
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    • He's a man and he just wants to cum. 10-20-2014 11:17pm
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    • You mean he contacts you less after spending time together? How long does it take for him to pick up again? 10-20-2014 11:20pm
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      • Eh, I am being hard & a pita. He is fine. 10-20-2014 11:41pm
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        • You're not alone though. I think the same after being together 15 hr 32 min ago
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    • Sounds to me like you are married. 23 hr 55 min ago
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      • ? 18 hr 1 min ago
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        • The OPs description sounded more like a marriage than an affair. She already has one bad marriage, why double up? 13 hr 7 min ago
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      • We have a genius on board 16 hr 2 min ago
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  12. Cleveland Garage dw, are you still with the guy who got caught or a newer guy? 10-20-2014 8:49pm (1 reply)
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    • No. Have been with the same guy (new) guy since January. 10-20-2014 10:43pm
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  13. Cleveland I once had a lover, & 4 other guys texting/emailing me. It was so thrilling. I felt alive. Now I just have one lover. Its thrilling when he's around & but starting to feel like...(more) 10-20-2014 8:30pm (1 reply)
    I need to up my game here. Not to sleep around.
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    • Btdt and found it exhausting to keep up. Happier with just the one. 10-20-2014 10:47pm
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  14. Cleveland I get 40min 2x a week. emails daily. Would this be enough for you? 10-20-2014 8:15pm (5 replies)
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    • no 10-20-2014 8:18pm
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      • what more would you need? 10-20-2014 8:20pm
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    • You see each other for 40 mins twice a week for sex? 10-20-2014 10:24pm
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    • No. 40 min no where near enough time 10-20-2014 11:54pm
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    • once a week for an hour would be perfect 12 hr 53 min ago
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  15. Cleveland I started an affair with my son's friends brother. 24yo. I am 37. 10-20-2014 5:02pm (10 replies)
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    • you again 10-20-2014 5:06pm
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    • Don't you ever leave? 10-20-2014 5:06pm
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      • i am new 10-20-2014 5:08pm
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      • right? always a variation but always a much younger man. Its tiresome 10-20-2014 7:27pm
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    • There are PLENTY of 37year olds you could hook up with and you choose a risky 24 year old situation? You're playing with fire. 10-20-2014 5:09pm
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      • guys my age are more likely to want relationships, younger guys are more likely to just want sex 10-20-2014 5:11pm
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        • That's not true.. 10-20-2014 5:13pm
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      • NP-in my experience the guy was playing with fire more than the woman. Be careful. Young guys are fragile. 10-20-2014 5:47pm
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    • i swear...just stop. 10-20-2014 5:47pm
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    • like that new jlo movie? boy next door? 10-20-2014 8:36pm
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  16. Cleveland Cant believe i ever felt anything 10-20-2014 12:45pm (10 replies)
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    • Ditto. I wonder what I was thinking. I really do. Wish I knew then what I know now and kept it cool. 10-20-2014 12:47pm
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      • what do you know now? 10-20-2014 1:56pm
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    • What happened? 10-20-2014 12:47pm
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    • I can believe it. For the sphere of time that it did happen, magical things were happening. Then at some point the magic starts to fade, time changes things, circumstances choke...(more) 10-20-2014 12:49pm
      opportunity. Then poof. It's over and you're left with the ashes. Unless you have the foresight to prepare for that you'll always fall into that trap
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      • i feel nothing. nothing bad and nothing good. totally fine 10-20-2014 12:52pm
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        • Then I would consider that a success. How's your relationship with your spouse? 10-20-2014 12:57pm
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          • nothing great 10-20-2014 1:04pm
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            • not looking to anyone other than me for happiness 10-20-2014 1:04pm
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              • Good.. You shouldn't have to. 10-20-2014 1:51pm
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    • Ditto. He is such an obnoxious douchebag. 10-20-2014 5:48pm
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  17. Cleveland I think I have a good singleton. He has been burned in love so all he wants is a good time. 10-20-2014 8:53am (7 replies)
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    • singleton means an infant that is not a twin 10-20-2014 8:56am
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      • sorry, stuck on mommy mode still. obv meant single affair. 10-20-2014 8:57am
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    • Poor infant. He got burned early in life -- those playgroup girls can be brutal. 10-20-2014 9:30am
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    • Seriously -- fooling around with a guy who says he's been "burned in love" and now only "wants a good time" is a disaster waiting to happen. Watch him fall for you... 10-20-2014 9:31am
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      • no, she'll try to make him fall for her, he won't, she'll end up madly in love with him 10-20-2014 11:46am
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        • op:been together 2 yrs. He says hes crazy about me. If I were single we would be together. 10-20-2014 7:33pm
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    • Haven't most adults been burned at one point or another? 10-20-2014 10:46am
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  18. Cleveland How many affairs have you had? 10-20-2014 12:43am (16 replies)
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    • 120 10-20-2014 12:43am
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      • You'll catch ebola if you keep it up. 10-20-2014 12:44am
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    • I've been with 1 married guy and will only ever be with 1. 10-20-2014 12:43am
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    • 2. 10-20-2014 8:46am
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    • Oy. I don't want to count. I have had three affairs that actually counted as relationships. Two one-night stands. 10-20-2014 9:32am
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      • why don't you divorce? 10-20-2014 11:28am
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      • 2 LT affairs, 5 one night stands here. 10-20-2014 11:48am
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    • None. But I've turned the corner, right or wrong, and recognize its not changing at home so Ill pursue it elsewhere. Now I am looking. 10-20-2014 11:38am
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      • Why don't you divorce? 10-20-2014 1:42pm
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    • 1 and we are married now 10-20-2014 11:38am
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    • 2. 5 one nighters. 10-20-2014 12:01pm
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    • 3 10-20-2014 12:08pm
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    • 6 10-20-2014 5:01pm
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    • One. Never again. 10-20-2014 9:42pm
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      • Same here. 10-20-2014 9:42pm
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        • what happened? 10-20-2014 9:44pm
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  19. Cleveland If someone posts that her DH was cheating on her on toddler, they get "he's an asshole!" If someone posts on toddler that her DH told her he wants a divorce and isn't happy...(more) 10-20-2014 12:43am (34 replies)
    anymore she gets, "he's an asshole!" So basically, a guy better just be happy in his marriage and stick it out and shut up to not be an asshole?
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    • Thats what Ive been doing, but I can't live like this anymore! 10-20-2014 12:44am
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      • divorce is better than affair. 10-20-2014 12:44am
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        • Not so sure. If it can be discrete. Limited in duration. 10-20-2014 12:45am
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          • No, double and triple no. I repeat, divorce is WAY better than affair. 10-20-2014 12:46am
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            • we can agree to disagree. 10-20-2014 12:46am
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              • sigh 10-20-2014 12:46am
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              • Fine, but when you are faced with ripping out the heart of someone no matter which way you choose, remember this. And shame on you for deciding to inherently set up a situation...(more) 10-20-2014 12:48am
                where you will level and break someone's heart.
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                • you'll break it either way. at least one way you get to keep your kids and not every other weekend. 10-20-2014 12:50am
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                  • But that way you are adding another person to the mix to break that heart too. 10-20-2014 12:51am
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                    • you're assuming everyone falls in love and doesn't accept the relationship for what it is. Nothing is so easy. 10-20-2014 12:51am
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                      • I know that doesn't always happen - I'm not assuming it will - but the fact is that you can't assure or assume it won't happen and you are taking that risk for someone else. 10-20-2014 12:52am
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                        • ^^And you will break your spouses heart WAY less to just divorce vs cheat. And your kids can still respect you if you divorce. 10-20-2014 12:52am
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                          • you're assuming again. who is to say we will be caught? 10-20-2014 12:53am
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                            • That is stupid and shows an inherent lack of respect for other human beings to think being caught is the only thing that makes that matter. 10-20-2014 12:54am
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                              • ^^Sign of a psychopath to seriously think not being caught makes your hurting someone else not matter. 10-20-2014 12:54am
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                                • yes. all folks who have affairs are psychopaths. a little extreme, no? 10-20-2014 12:55am
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                                  • I didn't say that. Not all folks who have affairs think it is OK as long as they aren't caught 10-20-2014 12:56am
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                    • ^^and using a whole person just to band aide your marriage. 10-20-2014 12:51am
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                      • again. assumptions. you are assuming its one sided and not mutual. 10-20-2014 12:52am
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                        • I'm not, but I'm also not assuming it is the opposite like you are. And you don't KNOW so you are taking a huge risk with someone else. 10-20-2014 12:53am
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    • yes, cheating and leaving s marriage bc you're just not into it anymore ARE bad things that make you an asshole. Live with it. 10-20-2014 12:48am
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      • no one said anything about 'just not into it'. A person is allowed to not be happy in a marriage. of course a marriage deserves working at it and doing what you can to keep it...(more) 10-20-2014 12:50am
        together but that doesn't always work and it is inhumane to force a person to never be able to leave.
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        • sure but it still means you're kind of an asshole 10-20-2014 12:53am
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          • So everyone everywhere who ever divorces is an asshole? 10-20-2014 12:53am
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            • no, but divorce sucks. Anyone this whole post is "you bitches say this" and then "that means this" so it's just a crap, whiney post 10-20-2014 12:56am
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              • I'm just wondering what people expect. You say 'no' to everyone everywhere who divorces is an asshole, so some people can divorce and not be assholes. How, in your opinion, is...(more) 10-20-2014 12:57am
                that done?
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                • if someone posts here that their dh is cheating on them or divorcing them, they might get sympathy - that shouldn't be hard to understand. And my point is, you can choose to...(more) 10-20-2014 12:59am
                  divorce but if it's not a mutual thing, then one person is giving up or refusing to stay. Perhaps they have valid reasons & a "right" to be happy, but their actions have consequences. They might be an asshole to someone else. Then they go off and start a new life. You don't get a medal.
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                  • ^ I'm on my phone with sore fingers. So I can't give this my best argument. 10-20-2014 1:00am
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                  • that last bit about not getting a medal is so odd. But OK. I divorced because my DH was drinking and refused to stop. He was yelling at everyone and would belittle me in front...(more) 10-20-2014 1:01am
                    of the kids, other family, friends, etc. He didn't want a divorce, he wanted to keep working on it and I was done. I guess I'm an asshole though.
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                    • ok then 10-20-2014 1:03am
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                    • I guess it just seems like cheating is in big part an act by someone who is afraid of being judged by divorcing. It seems to me divorcing and NOT cheating should be valued. 10-20-2014 1:04am
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                  • You don't really start a new life. 10-20-2014 8:46am
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    • They'd say the same about a woman 10-20-2014 10:47am
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      • I know. It is stupid. You can't put forth the idea that divorcing is universally awful and then judge people for avoiding divorce at all costs. 10-20-2014 11:27am
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  20. Cleveland Is it wrong to tell affair that dh is a phenomenal lover? 10-19-2014 10:08pm (7 replies)
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    • For what purpose? 10-19-2014 10:10pm
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    • wrong? no. smart? also no. 10-19-2014 10:10pm
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      • why not smart? 10-19-2014 10:18pm
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    • Ridiculous. 10-19-2014 10:34pm
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    • Just break up. 10-19-2014 10:45pm
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    • weird and stupid more than 'wrong'. But once you get to 'affair' - why do you care about 'wrong'? 10-20-2014 12:41am
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    • Why go there? What's the point? 10-20-2014 10:49am
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  21. Cleveland My wife moved out of state for an HR job with a big multimedia corporation for seven years. She shares a place with two guy. One worked in the same place as my wife. She told me...(more) 10-18-2014 11:48pm (7 replies)
    they were gay. All I know about them was that one was a handsome, well dressed Hispanic. I was clinically depressed at the time and didn't think anything about it. Now I am wondering. Should I have been worried? i am thinking maybe I was too trusting. All the stuff that goes on here hasn't eased my mind. Guess there is nothing to do about it now anyway.
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    • Too late now. 10-18-2014 11:48pm
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      • Exactly. But now that it is in my minnd , I can't get it out. 10-19-2014 12:03am
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        • ^^ We love each other. WHat ever is done is done. I just have to figure out a way to deal with it. I Don't think I should talk to her about it. I don't see anything positive...(more) 10-19-2014 12:08am
          coming out of it.
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    • Wait, you're living apart for 7 years? No DC I hope? 10-18-2014 11:49pm
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      • DCs were is college and they didn't think any more about it than I did. One was out of state and the other lived with me and went to the University of Texas at Austin. We all got...(more) 10-19-2014 12:05am
        together for the holidays.
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    • is this in the past? if so, let it lie 10-19-2014 12:49am
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      • Three years ago. Easy for you to say. 10-19-2014 1:32am
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  22. Cleveland How would you feel if affair was constantly tagging his dw? I feel like he is a liar and cheat...am I wrong???? 10-18-2014 9:18pm (17 replies)
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    • ^^on FB. 10-18-2014 9:18pm
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    • Tagging meaning fucking, or tagging as in Facebook photos? 10-18-2014 9:18pm
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    • Pretty funny coming from a whore 10-18-2014 9:18pm
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      • meaning is that he is still having a great thing with her and lies about their deal. I am a whore but so is he...right? 10-18-2014 9:19pm
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        • np: I see what you are saying. He probably feels guilty and is doing that whole stupid FB lovey-dovey thing to keep up appearances. Men are vile. 10-18-2014 9:20pm
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        • of course he's a whore, and a liar, and a bad fucking person. everyone will point at you and say nothing about him. he's a scumbag. 10-18-2014 9:21pm
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    • Has he told you he hates dw and wants to divorce her and be with you? Then I'd say yes he's a fucking lying liar. 10-18-2014 9:19pm
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    • Well, uh.... 10-18-2014 9:19pm
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    • Isn't he, by definition, a liar and a cheat if he's having an affair? Am I missing something? 10-18-2014 9:19pm
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    • hebis lying & cheating on you.yes. 10-18-2014 9:23pm
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    • I would feel like I might be better off spending less time on Facebook. 10-18-2014 9:35pm
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    • First, FB is dumb. He is going to put forth on FB whatever he has to for the public image. If he were willing to be disrespectful to her on FB, he'd be willing to divorce....(more) 10-18-2014 10:12pm
      Next, only you can really answer that and unfortunately, in this situation, even you can't know for certain. Do you want him to leave her?
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    • op-thanks for ALL the responses. 10-18-2014 10:21pm
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    • Let's see if I got this right. You are all cheating on your dhs and you think that men are vile. Is that about right? 10-18-2014 11:28pm
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    • Well he is a liar and a cheat, obviously. But I know how you feel. When I read my affair's birthday post to his dw...(more) 10-18-2014 11:29pm
      It was terrible. I saw his pet name for her. I saw he signed his emails to me the same way.
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      • I would end it right away. What a douche. 10-18-2014 11:35pm
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  23. Cleveland I came off as such a needy asshole yesterday. 10-18-2014 9:19am (1 reply)
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    • Tell us what happened 10-18-2014 12:20pm
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  24. Cleveland I wonder if there is something going on here that is related to the Madonna-whore complex, where the husband doesn't want his wife te ba a lady in public and a whore in bed....(more) 10-18-2014 12:17am (6 replies)
    Instead,he wants her to be a lady in both places. He does not want her to be sexually aggressive, or whorish (in his view). For him, love does not equal sex nor does sex equal love. He loves her but he doesn’t want to be sexually intimate with her. She loves him but she is increasingly bitter because he won’t give her the sexual intimacy she desperately craves.
    Infidelity may be a cornerstone of their marriage, as he seeks sex with acceptable “whores.” For him, there is no difference between paying for sex or having sex with a co-worker; to him all women he’s able to talk into having sex are whores.
    Meanwhile his wife, being starved for sex, goes out and has an affair with a man looking for a whore. In her own way she also has her version of the Madonna-whore complex because she would not think of doing the sexual things with her husband that she does with affair.
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    • Are you trying to sell a self-help book or something? Tl;dr 10-18-2014 12:21am
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      • ^ just making an observation based upon what many are saying about their husbands and their affairs. 10-18-2014 12:25am
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        • ^^ I don't have the slightest idea what the remedy is. Maybe having an affair is the answer. 10-18-2014 12:38am
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    • This is ridiculous 10-18-2014 12:20pm
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    • There is no "one formula" for affairs 10-18-2014 6:12pm
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      • I know, but there are a lot of dws here that are having affairs and claim part of the reason is that they want sex and their dhs aren't giving it to them. Most of the...(more) 10-19-2014 12:01am
        women are in the 35 - 45 age range. Men that age still want sex. I am 60 and I want all the sex I can get. Something isn't adding up.
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  25. Cleveland Eh I think it's over. Time to find someone new to fuck. 10-18-2014 12:10am (15 replies)
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    • how long did you last? 10-18-2014 12:11am
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      • 5 months. Mostly FWB, very low drama. But I need a bit more in the sex department. 10-18-2014 12:13am
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        • was she just bad in bed? 10-18-2014 12:15am
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          • He was fine. (I'm a dw.) Just not a great match for me. 10-18-2014 12:16am
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            • your first? 10-18-2014 12:17am
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              • No. I had one before him. Not sure why I feel compelled to admit that, but there you have it :) 10-18-2014 12:20am
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                • ^you? 10-18-2014 12:20am
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                  • No. I haven't. How do you deal with jumping to the next? do yo ever get attached emotionally? 10-18-2014 12:24am
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    • Go talk to your spouse. Figure out what you both want and if you can find it together or leave. 10-18-2014 12:13am
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      • I talk to my spouse a lot. We live together. 10-18-2014 12:14am
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        • Do you tell your spouse how unhappy you are and that your needs aren't being met? 10-18-2014 12:28am
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        • Do you have sex with him? 10-18-2014 12:21pm
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      • np: you are never going to stop people from cheating, because they like it. 10-18-2014 12:15am
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        • I guess - I just can't believe people get into this on purpose - I figure it has to be chicken shit people who are just too scared to divorce. 10-18-2014 12:27am
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        • Let me guess. You are too much of a woman for one man to handle. 10-18-2014 12:28am
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