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  1. Cleveland Is single man & married woman ever work? what usualy happens with this dynamic? 12 min ago (2 replies)
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    • ^^^meant does 11 min ago
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    • I think married with married works best. 9 min ago
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  2. Cleveland I cheat on a great husband. 31 min ago (7 replies)
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    • what makes him so great? 28 min ago
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      • works hard, treats me well, sense of humor, the sex is good, he's a good father, 27 min ago
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    • Stop. You'll regret it. Not worth it. 27 min ago
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      • i might but i'm confident i can get away with it. i love the adrenaline rush and the extra sex 26 min ago
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        • Enjoy that until you get caught. 20 min ago
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    • I hope he cheats on you too 27 min ago
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    • On behalf of those who have "cheated" on shitty, horrible husbands, YOU SUCK. 14 min ago
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  3. Cleveland I fuck college boys because I can 56 min ago (0 replies)
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  4. Cleveland I'm addicted to the thrill of cheating. I love the risk. I love each time I get away with it and go home and cuddle with dh and nobody knows. 1 hr 13 min ago (1 reply)
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    • You may not be weighting the downside sufficiently. 1 hr 11 min ago
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  5. Cleveland Sorry bout that. Use prior post as u see fit. What I was trying to say was he knows I need to line up sitter for next week. He said he will likely travel next week but we shod...(more) 5 hr 16 min ago (2 replies)
    plan on Tuesday, wed or Thursday but I won't know that until late this week." it's Thursday and I sent him another email today saying need to line up sitter. No response. Annoyed. I know it's only Thursday.
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    • where do you tell your kids and dh you are when you have a sitter to see your affair? 3 hr 42 min ago
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    • June mom ? 2 hr 52 min ago
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  6. Cleveland He knows I need to 5 hr 20 min ago (1 reply)
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    • ...get laid by him on a weekly basis..... 5 hr 15 min ago
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  7. Cleveland I'm always saying I want to stop but I never follow through. I am damaged. 7 hr 13 min ago (7 replies)
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    • well yes, but this is an easy fix. End it. Go to therapy. Fix yourself. 7 hr 8 min ago
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    • You're addicted to something he/she is giving you. 7 hr 8 min ago
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      • Attention. Excitement. 7 hr 2 min ago
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        • It's hard to get that in other ways, you have a desire and he fulfills it. 6 hr 52 min ago
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    • I am pretty sure almost every woman in an affair is like this. I wake up every single day determined to end it for good, always fail. Doesn't help that affair is agressive,...(more) 6 hr 46 min ago
      persuasive, manipulative and has no desire to stop. It's like an alcoholic being locked in a liquor store. Fucking mess.
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      • Exactly. Ugh. 6 hr 37 min ago
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    • You are having the same brain chemical reaction as a "crack head" or heroin user. Each time you crave more because the "high" comes up a little short. you have no feeling or...(more) 3 hr 55 min ago
      concerns for anyone around you.
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  8. Cleveland Anyone? 20 hr 49 min ago (0 replies)
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  9. Cleveland :( 21 hr 35 min ago (1 reply)
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    • what is wrong 21 hr 12 min ago
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  10. Cleveland Affair is a seemingly nice normal guy. Rather accomplished in life but treats me very respectfully and is kind and loves me. But wow he's got issues. Very very insecure. About a...(more) 22 hr 31 min ago (9 replies)
    lot which is surprising given how well he's done in his career.
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    • he managed to get a free prostitute. that's pretty good for someone so insecure. 22 hr 29 min ago
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      • I'm just a slut. I don't get paid for my time. 22 hr 28 min ago
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        • free prostitute = slut. why don't you get a man who can sleep at your house and wake up with you and be seen in publuc with you? let's talk about your issues. 22 hr 27 min ago
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          • I'm married to him. And obv have issues. Duh. 22 hr 26 min ago
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            • you're married to your affair? 22 hr 25 min ago
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              • Oh boy. I'm married to the man who sleeps in my bed and I can be seen in public with. 22 hr 24 min ago
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                • but he's not the man you love 22 hr 23 min ago
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    • Meh, I thought this about my affair. Normal, good career, etc. Turns out he is not in the least bit normal, and he is insecure because he is a narcissistic, controlling asshole....(more) 21 hr 27 min ago
      Also he is not respected in his field, and it turns out he's not very good at his job. He keeps his job because he plays the political game really well, not because he accomplished. You may be seeing him through the rose-colored glasses of limerance. It probably isn't even real.
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  11. Cleveland NYC DH looking to meet someone new...(more) 23 hr 12 min ago (32 replies)
    I'm tall (6'), dark hair, toned body, good looking, finance type. Things with DW have been stale for a while and I'm interested in meeting someone new, for a drink and seeing if there is chemistry for something more. Email me if you're interested in chatting rryan5161@yahoo.com
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    • Try Ashley Madison 23 hr 12 min ago
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      • have you ever used it? 23 hr 10 min ago
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    • hahahah! 23 hr 12 min ago
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    • Dont bother ladies. He is transgendered. 23 hr 10 min ago
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      • Lmao. Cock block 23 hr 9 min ago
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    • Meaning you want to bone. 23 hr 9 min ago
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      • op: I'd suggest starting for a drink first ;) 23 hr 9 min ago
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        • You'd have a long way to go. I'm not in NYC. 22 hr 30 min ago
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    • Why not try therapy w DW? 23 hr 9 min ago
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      • op: DW has an exceptionally low sex drive, there's just a disconnect. We're great friends but there's no longer a spark 23 hr 4 min ago
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        • Marriage isn't really about constantly having a spark, right? 22 hr 59 min ago
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          • op: how are things with you and DH? 22 hr 58 min ago
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            • Wonderful. We've been married for 6 months. 22 hr 55 min ago
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              • op: first or second marriage? why are you on Cleveland? 22 hr 54 min ago
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                • First. I didn't know I was "on" here. I think I just have every single board checked. 22 hr 52 min ago
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                  • op: How old are you two? 22 hr 51 min ago
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                    • 26, 35. 22 hr 50 min ago
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                      • op: pretty big age difference. how did you two meet? 22 hr 48 min ago
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                        • He went to school with my BIL. 22 hr 47 min ago
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                          • op: do you have kids? why are you in youbemom? 22 hr 41 min ago
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                            • Nope. Talk about food, travel, books, TV, news, fashion, drama, sex, DH. Most posts aren't about DC. 22 hr 39 min ago
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                              • op: how is sex with DH? 22 hr 35 min ago
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                                • Pretty great. We're very sexually compatible. He's dominant and I'm submissive so it works well. 22 hr 34 min ago
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                                  • op: how is he dominate? 22 hr 33 min ago
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    • Are your initials DM? 23 hr 8 min ago
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    • How old are you? 21 hr 31 min ago
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      • op: 36. you? 14 hr 15 min ago
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    • Get any emails? 5 hr 58 min ago
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      • Op: Why haven't you emailed yet? 5 hr 33 min ago
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  12. Cleveland I don't understand how he thinks fucking me in my marital while my kids are in the next room is ok. Do people do this? I just can't. 7-30-2014 8:36pm (32 replies)
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    • He thinks you are a whore and treats you like one 7-30-2014 8:37pm
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      • Yeah, but this is crossing the line, no? 7-30-2014 8:38pm
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        • So is cheating... 7-30-2014 8:39pm
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        • he doesn't care. w you there is no line to cross. as far as he is concerned (made evident by his wanting to do this) the line he is at w you is the lowest he can go 7-30-2014 8:43pm
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          • op: interesting. Do you think he has confused this with love? 7-30-2014 8:45pm
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            • no. love comes w respect. he would respect the dc more, rec that there are boundaries and not want to blow things up. this shows he literally doesn't care 7-30-2014 8:45pm
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              • op: when he suggested this, I almost ended it. Wish I did. We haven't spoken since. I am turned off. 7-30-2014 8:48pm
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                • you made a boundary clear. he doesn't care. leave, don't he wants what he wants, doesn't care what upsets you. if you dump him he will find someone who does do these things. 7-30-2014 8:48pm
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                  • ^that is the sad realty about a lot of these situations (not all, ofr sure) but in many cases you are literally irrelevant. beyond fucking him when, where, and how he wants, your...(more) 7-30-2014 8:50pm
                    needs are literally white noise. so much so that you can say "I don't like x" and he will ask for x
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                    • op:yes!! Its true. There as another thing he mentioned & I told him I was against it. He started planning! 7-30-2014 8:53pm
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                      • yep. move on. you're irrelevent to him. (Sorry) 7-30-2014 8:54pm
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                        • Ita and don't feel too sorry for yourself- 23 hr 20 min ago
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                          • Feel sorry for his dw who is stuck with him. 23 hr 18 min ago
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                      • what else does he want you to do? 9 hr 51 min ago
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                  • op:you are right. Thank you! 7-30-2014 8:51pm
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    • ??? 7-30-2014 8:37pm
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    • It sounds both kinky and fun! 7-30-2014 8:37pm
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      • op: you're kidding. You would do this? 7-30-2014 8:40pm
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    • What is he even doing in your house?! 7-30-2014 8:38pm
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      • op: No, he hasn't been. I don't bring my mess home. 7-30-2014 8:40pm
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    • He has no morals and thinks you don't either 7-30-2014 8:39pm
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      • This guy doesn't even know morals exist. 7-30-2014 8:40pm
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        • Pot/kettle 7-30-2014 8:41pm
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          • op: I just can't. I still have some moral & dignity. 7-30-2014 8:43pm
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            • np- well he doesn't know that about you. he thinks you have none, or he wouldn't even think this is a possibility, let alone suggest it 7-30-2014 8:44pm
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              • op:He has to know this suggestion makes me uneasy. I have told him so. 7-30-2014 8:46pm
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                • he doesn't care 7-30-2014 8:46pm
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                  • ^the fact that you have told him makes it def. that he does not care. doen't care if it makes you uncomfortable or not, uspet or not. does.not.care. 7-30-2014 8:48pm
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    • He loves the thrill of getting you to do things you don't want to do. Ex Aff got a lot of satisfaction from slowly coaxing me into doing things I initially refused to do. It's...(more) 23 hr 29 min ago
      like a game. You are an object and a conquest- nothing more. Sorry. Btdt and pissed off I let some loser sociopath have so much control over me.
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    • Has he ever been in your house? 23 hr 28 min ago
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  13. Cleveland What's the latest from my old friends here? 7-30-2014 6:20pm (4 replies)
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    • still here! are we friends? :) 7-30-2014 6:21pm
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      • of course we are (or were) 7-30-2014 6:22pm
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        • well then hello 7-30-2014 6:23pm
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    • Gittin' dye-VORCED. Yippee! 7-30-2014 9:39pm
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  14. Cleveland Love meeting affair for a quick car hook up. Love when he touches me. Omg I'm so hot right now. 7-30-2014 1:00pm (6 replies)
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    • I'm turned off by car hookups 7-30-2014 3:20pm
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      • DITTO. Never again. So low-rung and gross (like the guys who want them). 7-30-2014 9:38pm
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    • i miss mine so much. he moved for work. we used to have quickies every day at lunch in his office. now i only see him every 2 months, if that. when he is here, his family...(more) 7-30-2014 3:33pm
      takes precedence.
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      • How often are you in contact? 23 hr 31 min ago
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        • we talk on phone/text every day. i am just a fuck doll for him now. 7 hr 16 min ago
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          • I don't get it. How are you just a fuck doll if you're talking every day? You're actually fucking less. Did he imply he was leaving his dw before and now that has changed? 5 hr 55 min ago
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  15. Cleveland Northern rock or southern rock? or for hat matter, country western? 7-30-2014 12:01am (4 replies)
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    • always southern 7-30-2014 12:45am
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      • northern rock for me. 22 hr 47 min ago
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        • what is northern rock 22 hr 3 min ago
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    • Baby. Only Southern. 21 hr 22 min ago
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  16. Cleveland Does your affair know personal even silly things like your favorite color? Or is it just fucking? 7-29-2014 11:31pm (13 replies)
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    • Green. Its green. Army green. 7-29-2014 11:31pm
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      • op:wtf? thats my favorite color! 7-29-2014 11:34pm
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        • you've told me 7-29-2014 11:38pm
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          • op: this made me smile. 7-29-2014 11:42pm
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            • because I guess right or you told me? 7-29-2014 11:42pm
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              • op:now this made me laugh. you guessed right, silly. & yes. it was told once long ago. 7-29-2014 11:46pm
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                • good guess on my part, i guess. 7-29-2014 11:47pm
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                  • op:you are a gem. I hope you are well loved. 7-29-2014 11:48pm
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    • He knows a ton. He knows all about my work, family, personal life, history etc. We've discussed it all. 7-30-2014 1:03am
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    • He knows a lot about me. Probably too much. 7-30-2014 8:27am
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    • We have shared a lot of personal information. 7-30-2014 9:18am
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    • He knows a lot. More than dh would. He listens and remembers things 7-30-2014 3:21pm
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  17. Cleveland I had sex with affair and DH today. wild times! ;) 7-29-2014 11:13pm (5 replies)
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    • How would you feel knowing your DH had his dick in someone else before he was in you later that day? That is really gross. 7-29-2014 11:14pm
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    • Who got sloppy seconds? 7-29-2014 11:19pm
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    • @ the same time? Now THAT is wild times!! 7-29-2014 11:31pm
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    • Ha, I did that once. Affair got sloppy seconds. Good thing I'd had an orgasm already, he certainly didn't give me one. 7-30-2014 12:03am
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  18. Cleveland This post has been disliked 6 times. showGreat - he has a work trip that I get to go on with him and now his wife has said she has travel plans so she'll be stopping by. I'm going to have to take all my stuff and hang...(more) 7-29-2014 10:02pm (9 replies)
    out in the lobby or something while she's there. Annoying.
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    • She knows and she's fucking with you both 7-29-2014 10:07pm
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      • Unless she's blind, she absolutely does know. She is welcome to do what she wants. He told her he wanted a divorce as soon as the kids are out of the house. 7-29-2014 10:09pm
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        • so he says he told her. please once you speak to her you really dont know. Mine pulled the same shit only to find out he threatened to kill himself if she divorced him. Good...(more) 7-29-2014 11:38pm
          ridence.
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    • you are degrading yourself 7-29-2014 10:08pm
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    • Why would you do this to yourself, and more importantly, why would he do this to you, particularly if he has been as open with her as you seem to believe? 7-29-2014 10:11pm
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      • He's not open about cheating. 7-29-2014 10:12pm
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      • this. he hasn't been honest with her and ypu are still a secret fling 7-29-2014 10:13pm
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        • I never said he isn't lying to her about cheating. 7-29-2014 10:14pm
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    • like a homeless person? Even paid whores don't wait around. 7-29-2014 11:33pm
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  19. Cleveland How do you get a hotel if you don't want the evidence on the bill? 7-29-2014 9:49pm (3 replies)
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    • Cash 7-29-2014 9:49pm
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    • Buy a visa gift card somewhere 7-29-2014 10:28pm
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    • All of the above. 7-29-2014 10:33pm
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  20. Cleveland I want to fuck so bad & my affair makes no effort in meeting up with me. Time to move on! 7-29-2014 8:27pm (7 replies)
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    • Where do you live? Easy to meet guys? 7-29-2014 8:28pm
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    • That was me. I got a new one. 7-29-2014 8:33pm
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    • OMG - hi, me? Or when he does meet up with me...it's in his car. Wtf?! Find us a decent place. 7-29-2014 8:48pm
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      • np: omg the car thing was the final deal-breaker for me. It was fun the first 10 times. Then it was just stupid. All this "I love you" crap from him. Really? Letting me blow you...(more) 7-30-2014 12:05am
        in a car is "love?" I was so naive. Love, shmove.
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        • NP think about his dw who rides in the car you blew him in. He doesn't love her either. Cheaters are assholes 7-30-2014 12:21am
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          • or: oh absolutely. And I am a giant asshole for having done this. Never again. Lesson learned. 7-30-2014 12:29am
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            • ^oops not or, but the one who responded to or. 7-30-2014 12:29am
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  21. Cleveland He has no respect for me. I know I am a low life for even having an affair but when the affair cares so little. It stings. Best to dump him & gain some self esteem back. 7-29-2014 8:16pm (2 replies)
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    • You're a hole. Big surprise 7-29-2014 8:17pm
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      • op: & he's a dick. 7-29-2014 8:18pm
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  22. Cleveland Bingo, new affair is a squirter. 7-29-2014 7:38pm (6 replies)
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    • Are you a DH? Are you sure she isn't just peeing on you? 7-29-2014 7:41pm
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      • yup and yup 7-29-2014 8:28pm
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        • What are you doing to make it happen, and do you think it's cool or gross? 7-29-2014 8:29pm
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          • Hitting the right spot apparently - it was accidental and a little surprising at first and now I am learning how to make it happen. It's very cool. 7-29-2014 8:55pm
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      • I think she is peeing, sorry. BTDT 7-29-2014 9:27pm
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        • OP: nope this is textbook "female ejaculation", sorry that you pee during sex :( 7-30-2014 12:58pm
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  23. Cleveland There's a guy at work who flirts with me all the time. How do I take this to the next level? 7-29-2014 4:18pm (36 replies)
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    • go out for a drink 7-29-2014 4:18pm
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    • you don't want to. 7-29-2014 4:19pm
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    • btdt dont do it 7-29-2014 4:20pm
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      • why not? 7-29-2014 4:24pm
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        • ^^^ what did you do? 7-29-2014 4:24pm
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    • The pain and hell that comes from this will always make me wonder why anyone would knowingly get into it. If you are stupid enough to actually attempt this be certain that you...(more) 7-29-2014 4:20pm
      are upfront with him that you intend to use him.
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    • What does he say? How do you know he's flirting and how do you react? I think you have to be REALLY sure he's really flirtig before making that assumption 7-29-2014 4:26pm
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      • He seeks me out constantly. Plays it off but I know he's looking for reasons to talk to me. He very flirty but never crosses the line. 7-29-2014 4:28pm
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        • hmm. Are you both married? 7-29-2014 4:29pm
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        • np He wants to cross the line. Don't do it. 7-29-2014 4:29pm
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          • or: You don't know that.. You know that he might WANT to, but that's very different from actually crossing the line. 7-29-2014 4:30pm
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            • op: so how should I play this? 7-29-2014 4:33pm
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              • np - depends. Do you want to hurt everyone you care about? 7-29-2014 4:37pm
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                • They won't find out. 7-29-2014 4:38pm
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                  • You and this guy will 'find out' and it will make you feel bad. Also, the other people will feel neglected and sad even if they don't find out. 7-29-2014 4:39pm
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                  • famous last words 7-29-2014 4:54pm
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              • or: I think you don't do anything about it. Honestly, it's way too close for it to work long term. I think it's a bad idea. 7-29-2014 4:41pm
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                • If you still want to go through with it, I think you go out in a group, then leave when he leaves. Let it play out like that, let him take the lead. If he doesn't do anything then...(more) 7-29-2014 4:44pm
                  , walk.. Don't think twice about it.
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                  • np - you are making this WAY more complicated than it needs to be. 7-29-2014 4:45pm
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                    • I'm not.. I'm setting her up for long term success. Think of it as a safety mechanisms. 7-29-2014 4:46pm
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                      • safety from what? 7-29-2014 4:48pm
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                        • From getting caught, the blowback if he's not serious about doing something with her, etc. 7-29-2014 4:50pm
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                          • On the not getting caught thing, it's not complicated. On the "blowback" thing, if she thinks he's into her he is. Make good eye contact. "You should ask me out for a drink...(more) 7-29-2014 4:51pm
                            sometime." Walk away. Done.
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                            • idk, that's really forward. I mean you could do that too, but then that's how things like.."oh did you hear? Sally asked James on a date.." 7-29-2014 4:54pm
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                              • Well, you don't do it during the Thursday status meeting, no. 7-29-2014 4:55pm
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                                • Well no.. but you don't want to be so forward either! idk. 7-29-2014 5:03pm
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                                  • why not? Men like that. 7-29-2014 5:07pm
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                                    • I don't think that's always the case, and so unless she knows this guy would like that, i'd take the round about approach. 7-30-2014 8:51am
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            • He probably thinks about crossing it, but says he won't. He's looking for reasons to talk to her, getting a thrill out of it. Obviously the op is into him so he will pick up on...(more) 7-29-2014 4:38pm
              that and eventually inch toward the line and cross it. That's how this shit unravels. I find it interesting that op is so ready to jump on the chance to take it to the next level. Seems fake to me.
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              • ^Book called Not Just Friends explains these work relationships very well. Women don't typically say "oh this guy is flirting with me, how can I start fucking around with him?"...(more) 7-29-2014 4:40pm
                That's just not how women in affairs operate.
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              • op: I've cheated before. I haven't wanted to or given any indication about jumping on the chance. 7-29-2014 4:51pm
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                • ^^^ just curious what it would take with someone like this. 7-29-2014 4:52pm
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    • great idea to shit where you eat. 7-29-2014 6:50pm
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    • what type of business? 7-29-2014 8:16pm
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  24. Cleveland I need his wife to go back to work so we can go to their house and have sex. I'm sick of the car. 7-29-2014 2:36pm (10 replies)
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    • How do you know him? 7-29-2014 2:37pm
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    • He should come to your bed 7-29-2014 2:38pm
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    • Oh, I know this one! It's "Things people said right before they got bludgeoned to death," right? 7-29-2014 2:39pm
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    • go to your house. Get a hotel room. Or maybe just stop? 7-29-2014 2:56pm
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    • maybe you can fuck in their dc's bed 7-29-2014 2:56pm
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    • Why is she home? Does he work? 7-29-2014 4:37pm
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    • complete lower level doing it in their home 7-29-2014 6:51pm
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    • That's gross. He's too cheap to pay for a hotel? 7-29-2014 7:29pm
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    • That is so fucked up he's too broke to pay for the Ritz. 7-29-2014 9:44pm
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  25. Cleveland I am going to habe to shake this mutha up. seriously, wasting my time. 7-29-2014 7:36am (0 replies)
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