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  1. Cleveland If you were caught in an affair, would you apologise to the husband/wife of the person you cheated with? 5 hr 10 min ago (12 replies)
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    • No. I would only want to have an affair with someone whose spouse I didn't respect in the first place. 5 hr 9 min ago
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    • do you know him/her? If you do apologize, make it sincere, and not all about you. My dh's affair apoligized to me and the apology consisted of her explaining to me how unhappy...(more) 5 hr 9 min ago
      and miserable she was.
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    • exh's affair/new dw did not. but i can tell there are times she feels bad. also, as nice as i am to her, there is part of her that will just never like me because it means i'm...(more) 5 hr 8 min ago
      actually a nice person
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      • This is silly. Maybe she does like you. 3 hr 52 min ago
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    • The gf of my ex apologized to me. 5 hr 4 min ago
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    • I would not approach her. But if she approached me I would. 4 hr 17 min ago
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    • yes & I did. 4 hr 2 min ago
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      • how did that go? 2 hr 44 min ago
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        • horrible. she kept calling me. until i answered the phone. this woman could have destroyed me. she said i was the reason her dh was so mean to her, how he must have really felt...(more) 1 hr 33 min ago
          something for me. She painted him to be a true asshole. She really cleared my head up. I felt bad she was married to him. It sounded like a phone call she was used to making.
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          • She sounds like she's in denial, blaming you for her shitty dh 35 min ago
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    • I did. She ignored as I figured. 3 hr 53 min ago
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      • Why did you apologize if you knew she would ignore anyway? 1 hr 22 min ago
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  2. Cleveland Psycho affair is so insecure. always commenting on how I will be done with him & toss him. How easy I will have him replaced when I am tired of him. I have never been with a man...(more) 7 hr 27 min ago (1 reply)
    who wanted to turn me inside out to make sure I wasnt fucking around on him. Told him perhaps he was projecting. Wants to know who I am with, her name. My previous affair was so laid back. Total opposite. Anyone btdt with this type?
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    • Your type being a narcissist? Yes, but I avoid at all costs now. 25 min ago
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  3. Cleveland Do you thnk avoidance of common core and parcc testing is a valid reason on its own to opt out of public school? 23 hr 23 min ago (2 replies)
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    • ^^^oops wrong board 23 hr 23 min ago
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    • no. not at all 23 hr 22 min ago
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  4. Cleveland Just curious, based on something a df is going through. Do most cheaters involved in long term affairs who get caught wind up getting divorced? Or is it more typical to save...(more) 23 hr 24 min ago (5 replies)
    your marriage after something like that?
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    • I have insider information on this. In my case, the couple managed to stay married, but it was never the same, and they were divorced five years later. 23 hr 18 min ago
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      • Thanks. A family member is going through this. I am wondering what will happen 23 hr 17 min ago
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        • It's just an example. I think it depends on the couple. 23 hr 15 min ago
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          • Yeah, but this was pretty bad. She was using money in their joint accounts to finance trips to see the affair and gifts for him. It was nuts 23 hr 14 min ago
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            • they may try to reconcile for the kids or something but their marriage will never be the same even if they manage to stay together long term. 22 hr 46 min ago
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  5. Cleveland My new affair apparentely gets off on cuckolding her poor husband...(more) 1-26-2015 5:45pm (22 replies)
    she just wrote this in an email: "I can save ur cum inside me for a few days and continue being a super mom while hubby sucks on my nipples....ur cum will still be sitting inside me....all sticky around my cervix". i hate that this turns me on. it feels so wrong.
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    • vomit 1-26-2015 5:45pm
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      • question: have you ever cheated? 1-26-2015 5:47pm
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    • she's completely classless. 1-26-2015 5:46pm
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      • you'd never know by looking at her. she's the shy cute type. 1-26-2015 5:48pm
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        • I've told my affair that I like feeling him come out of me the next day. But I say zero about my dh. That ruins it 1-26-2015 5:48pm
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        • she uses ur. she's not that great. 22 hr 45 min ago
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          • ur, hubby, and cervix. not hot. 22 hr 18 min ago
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            • pssst, this guy is kinda dumb 22 hr 16 min ago
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              • pssst. i'm not dumb. Its possible this broad I'm fucking is, but I can assure you, I am not. 19 hr 37 min ago
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            • yeah okay. hubby is lame. the cervix part was hot though. sorry....(more) 19 hr 36 min ago
              she likes that i can hit it because her tiny husband can't
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              • you get off on cuckolding her dh. that's what it is 19 hr 33 min ago
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                • and she doesn't? 19 hr 32 min ago
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                  • not my point. you posted about her, but the post is actually more about you. 19 hr 31 min ago
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                    • so a post where i quoted her is not about her. mmm okay. sure. 19 hr 27 min ago
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              • are you married? 19 hr 31 min ago
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                • yes. would i have posted this to cleveland if i wasn't? 19 hr 26 min ago
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    • you found a winner. you must be a real prize yourself. 22 hr 44 min ago
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    • are you a dude? 19 hr 34 min ago
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    • this is not sexy @ all. she needs to work on her wording. any mention of being a mom is a turn off. & who says cervix? "love to feel your cum drip from my pussy...I love the...(more) 8 hr 48 min ago
      smell of your cock. I love to dip my fingers into my wet pussy to get a taste of you."
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      • tell me how you really feel 4 hr 24 min ago
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  6. Cleveland Super sweet affair, married, met online then in person twice (hotels). He is gorgeous, fit, sweet, generous in bed... We talk off and onall day via text...(more) 1-26-2015 1:51pm (10 replies)
    Phone etc. I have the opportunity to hook up with another guy who is also super hot and for some reason I want to. How stupid am I?
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    • Pretty fucking stupid. Obviously. 1-26-2015 1:52pm
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    • why is this stupid? do it. 1-26-2015 2:19pm
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      • I know I should... I mean by nature it's a non-exclusive relationship 1-26-2015 2:21pm
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        • exactly. No reason not to. Just use protection and don't tell first guy. 1-26-2015 2:22pm
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    • posts like these make me wonder - if he is gorgeous, sweet, awesome on bed - why the hell doesn't his wife want him? and if she does, then is he just a huge asshole? 1-26-2015 2:22pm
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      • Same reason many people do, being with the same person for so long is hard, spark goes away. New and exciting is fun and hot. Also the spouse has spouse "issues" that you...(more) 1-26-2015 2:44pm
        automatically think of. Affairs are no drama, no kids around, just pure sex with a newish person. It's like dating all over again, first kisses and all
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        • lol at affairs are no drama. That's all they are 1-26-2015 4:55pm
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          • None of mine have been 23 hr 5 min ago
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        • Anything good takes work. Often the person that puts the least into a marriage has the affair. I have been married 35 years and the spark is still there because my dw and I work...(more) 18 hr 36 min ago
          at our marriage. You are taking the easy way out. I hope it doesn't come back and bite you in the ass.
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          • np - could you please give specific examples of how you work at your marriage? i love my dh and think he is the best person i will ever know, but i'm so attracted to someone else...(more) 7 hr 23 min ago
            right now.
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  7. Cleveland When my affair and I were caught, I told him that I was going to save my family and he should do the same. I wished him no ill will until just a few hours later I heard that he'd...(more) 1-25-2015 6:42pm (33 replies)
    thrown me under the bus. I still see him occasionally and it takes everything I have not to give him the finger and tell him to fuck off and die. Dh and I have spent thousands on therapy and marriage counseling and are trying to move on. The problem is that we continue to hear that former affair is telling bold face lies about me and our marriage. Dh is at his wits end and I'm afraid he's going to do something terrible if we hear one more peep from them. It's a big fucking mess, I tell you. Get out while you can.
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    • Are you looking for someone new to fuck? 1-25-2015 6:46pm
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    • Throw you under the bus how? 1-25-2015 7:30pm
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      • Basically blaming me for everything, painting me in the worst light possible- the whole bummer boiler bit. Shocking, I know. 1-25-2015 9:02pm
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        • to whom? 1-25-2015 9:54pm
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          • Sarcasm. 1-26-2015 1:54am
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            • No, to whom is he throwing you under the bus? His wife? Well duh. Or everyone else? Is he talking about this publicly? 1-26-2015 7:10am
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              • His dw of course, which is fine if that's what he needs to do. The problem is that we keep hearing about it. Dh is ready to ruin him. Hopefully they will both shut their mouths...(more) 1-26-2015 9:07am
                and move on. I don't have the energy to go to war with someone who is totally irrelevant to me now.
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                • Hearing about it from whom? I think this is fake. 1-26-2015 12:29pm
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                  • It's all coming from his dw who is pissed off that I didn't lose my family. Believe me, I get it, but they need to understand that you live by the sword, you die by the sword....(more) 1-26-2015 12:43pm
                    My dh and anyone that matters to me knows everything so she's not hurting me, she's just taunting my dh and making him increasingly angry. Believe me, he's been incredibly forgiving and irrational thus far.
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                    • ^rational 1-26-2015 12:44pm
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                    • np - are you worried that he's just going to get fed up and blame you? 1-26-2015 1:00pm
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                      • My dh does blame me but he's not fed up because I've worked my ass off to earn his forgiveness. I take 100% of the responsibility, I do not lie, and I certainly do not try to...(more) 1-26-2015 1:09pm
                        distract him by pointing the finger about someone who doesn't matter.
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                        • This sounds like harassment/stalking.Any time there is unwanted contact from your ex-affair or his dw, go to the police and file a report. Make a paper trail. Hire a lawyer and...(more) 1-26-2015 2:13pm
                          send a cease-and-desist letter making it clear that you have spoken to the authorities and will pursue legal action if it continues. A df went through this (not the same circumstances, but a stalking/harassment case). It worked.
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                          • Thank you. I've spoken to an attorney and we are documenting. Next time we will send cease and desist letter. 1-26-2015 2:35pm
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                            • Good plan. I assume you have also blocked email and phone numbers. 1-26-2015 2:37pm
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                              • We have 1-26-2015 2:38pm
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                                • and gone to cops? 1-26-2015 2:39pm
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                                  • Not really worth going to cops. Yet. 1-26-2015 2:40pm
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                    • taunting him how? is the other couple still married? Im confused. Did you post here when you got caught? 1-26-2015 2:15pm
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                    • Are they contacting you? Or talking to mutual friends? 1-26-2015 2:15pm
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                      • Both 1-26-2015 2:31pm
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                        • So send a cease and desist and go to the cops. 1-26-2015 2:35pm
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                    • Well did your affair lose his family? Did your affair's dw leave him? If not, she's being a total hypocrite, since she made the choice to stay just like your dh did. 1-26-2015 2:32pm
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                      • Exactly. She feels I haven't suffered enough, haven't gotten what I deserve. Well, if that's how the world works, her dh will get it too and I doubt they want that. 1-26-2015 2:37pm
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                        • She's lucky your dh is not as psycho as she sounds. 1-26-2015 2:40pm
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                          • She's not psycho, she's deeply hurt and I understand. But my dh is also deeply hurt and deserves peace. 1-26-2015 2:43pm
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                            • I get it. No one ever thinks of the betrayed husbands in these scenarios. I just meant she's lucky that your dh is not taunting her and that he respects her need for peace. 4 hr 18 min ago
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                              • They both hate my dh as much as they hate me. 3 hr 42 min ago
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                                • why on earth would they hate your dh? he's innocent in all of this 34 min ago
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    • nice try with the threats. reverse the story and it's more accurate. 5 hr 51 min ago
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      • How would you know what's "accurate"? 4 hr 49 min ago
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      • It is just a response to YOUR threat the day before, which was a nice try. Just stop. I'm tired. 4 hr 29 min ago
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        • It is so easy to get you guys to get your panties in a wad. There is no one more paranoid than a bunch of ladies having affairs. 2 hr 50 min ago
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  8. Cleveland Do you get jealous of her?...(more) 1-25-2015 6:18pm (9 replies)
    When my AP talks about his DW, I get jealous, but never let on. He claims that we have much better sexual chemistry for whatever that is worth. I wish he would stop talking about her. It causes so much pain. Anybody else in the same boat?
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    • What's AP mean? 1-25-2015 6:19pm
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      • Affair Partner. 1-25-2015 6:20pm
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    • He doesn't really care for you if he talks about her. 1-25-2015 6:22pm
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      • he cares about both of us...(more) 1-25-2015 6:24pm
        i am sure of that. he's very good to me and shows genuine care. i think he's just ignorant that it hurts so much. I never let him know how I feel. It would only make me weak in his eyes.
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        • Yeah, I'm sure he is going to leave her 1-25-2015 6:29pm
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    • Sounds like he thinks you are a therapist and an easy lay 1-25-2015 6:22pm
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      • i am an easy lay for him. 1-25-2015 6:25pm
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    • so tell him to stop - it's not really that complicated 1-25-2015 6:27pm
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    • what does he say about her? My affair always talked about his dw til I finally let him know how jealous I am and he's cut way waaay back. 1-26-2015 10:05am
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  9. Cleveland Multiple affair mom...can anyone talk? I feel like when I post I get flamed as a whore. I need to spill it to someone 1-25-2015 6:12pm (5 replies)
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    • Hi 1-25-2015 6:13pm
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      • Ok. Here's my current situation. I have a fwb who I fuck weekly, no emo, no drama, one of my best friends, also...(more) 1-25-2015 6:21pm
        Work with him, gojng on 3 years. Another former affair at work starting up again (fwb knows, doesn't care), am affair who is the only married one, so hot, texts often, serious connection, getting very close,...22yo who keeps being demanding then when I remind him he's just a fuck he backs off and wants to be just that. And another guy I've beem talking to for months and meeting him friday for the first time. All hot, it's crazy.
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        • Sounds pretty good 1-25-2015 6:30pm
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        • i can't believe people think you're a whore 1-26-2015 9:17am
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    • What's up, honey. 1-25-2015 6:16pm
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  10. Cleveland Affair is fucking psycho. just fucking hung up on me. son of a bitch. he is obessed with being in control. doesnt trust me. muther fucker. he is clueless on how these things work....(more) 1-24-2015 7:31pm (13 replies)
    Says im fucking with his head.
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    • nyc? 1-24-2015 7:35pm
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    • i have not seen my boyfriend in two days and i miss him so much. 1-25-2015 1:40am
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      • boyfriend? 1-25-2015 5:24am
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        • Yes. When I read posts like this I am so happy I am single and have a real boyfriend. It made me miss him. 1-25-2015 10:52am
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          • Is your boyfriend like this? 1-26-2015 8:58am
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    • He should trust you? 1-25-2015 8:26am
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      • of course not, but not be so obvious about it. or allow it to interfere with what this relationship is about. why be with me if he thinks i am fucking another guy, or will toos...(more) 1-25-2015 1:43pm
        him when Im done. I dont understand it.
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        • Why would you fuck a psycho? 1-25-2015 4:55pm
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          • i didnt realize how much of a psycho he is. He gets so mad. Had lunch with a gf & he wanted to meet me. wtf? Got maf when I declined &...(more) 1-26-2015 12:05am
            said he never call me again. I told him, "Good. Don't."
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            • Np: ugh, I need to be more like you.....!! 1-26-2015 1:01pm
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  11. Cleveland 3 guys active right now, one in the works, pushing to schedule a hook up, a 22 year old who is obsessed and trying to make me his exclusive girlfriend (I'm ending it). Life is...(more) 1-24-2015 6:13pm (6 replies)
    crazy as hell. I know I'll get flamed, there has to be someone here who gets it and can relate.
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    • troll 1-24-2015 6:15pm
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      • I'm an active regular here. 1-24-2015 6:52pm
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    • i get it, but you need to ditch that boy (22yr old) could be dangerous. 1-24-2015 7:35pm
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    • You're off your rocker 1-25-2015 8:26am
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    • Op- I think I got rid of the 22yo. Thank god. He said goodbye after I told him I couldn't drop everything to see him and that it won't eork. I'm afraid he'll be back though. I...(more) 1-25-2015 10:09am
      wll not cave, he is a bit obsessive. Jesus at one point he told me he wanted to marry me and have kids together
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      • Of course he's begging again. Good god 1-25-2015 5:44pm
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  12. Cleveland I just finished the goldfinch and loved it except for the last 20 pages. And the fact that she left a lot of relationships unresolved. 1-23-2015 11:16pm (0 replies)
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  13. Cleveland Seeing affair on Sunday for the first time since mid December. I Can hardly wait!!! 1-23-2015 11:08pm (3 replies)
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    • why so long? I go crazy after a few days 1-23-2015 11:09pm
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      • He's west coast. Normally here 2-3x a month but with the holidays and everything it's been almost 6 weeks. 1-23-2015 11:12pm
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    • It's a pretty good show, I agree. 1-23-2015 11:11pm
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  14. Cleveland Do you talk much dirtier during sex with affair then DH? Wow, the things that affair says to me and I him;) 1-23-2015 10:34pm (6 replies)
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    • what do you think? 1-23-2015 10:35pm
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    • I do, affair brings his friends 1-23-2015 10:46pm
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      • what do you mean brings his friends? 1-23-2015 10:47pm
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    • No, I talk dirtier to dh. So much so, that I climax from the shit I say. 1-23-2015 10:50pm
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      • what do you say? 1-23-2015 10:50pm
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        • filthy things. lots of cocks involved. 1-23-2015 11:32pm
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  15. Cleveland Had a brief fling with a coworker over the summer. I have no idea why. He's kind of a loser. I broke it off after a few months but he can't let go. He looks at me like a puppy dog...(more) 1-23-2015 10:16pm (20 replies)
    and is always asking me why I won't do lunch with him. The other night he saw I was leaving and followed me out and wanted to know if we could meet up. I high tailed it out. Such a mistake with this guy. Ugh.
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    • does he know that you fuck other coworkers? 1-23-2015 10:16pm
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      • I don't. It was a one time thing. I'd never done this before. I'm not really sure why I started with this guy. I guess insecurity and unhappiness in my marriage. I'm not...(more) 1-23-2015 10:18pm
        interested in carrying on anymore affairs again.
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        • a one time thing but you broke it off after a few months? 1-23-2015 10:19pm
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          • Yeah - like a one affair type thing. Not looking for more of them. It lasted about 2 months. 1-23-2015 10:20pm
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            • you let it carry on for a few months so no wonder he is confused 1-23-2015 10:23pm
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              • What's confusing? I'm married, he's married. It was a fling and it's over. I've made it clear. He won't move on. 1-23-2015 10:24pm
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                • if you are married and you think you made a big mistake you dont do it again but you let it continue on for awhile so he probably thought you wanted something long term 1-23-2015 10:25pm
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                • flings are not 2months 1-23-2015 10:27pm
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                  • Ok...whatever you want to call it. It's over. 1-23-2015 10:28pm
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                    • i have a guy @ work like this who is fucking obsessed with me. i could never, would never fuck him. i would rather stab myself in the face. 1-23-2015 10:35pm
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                      • Ugh. This guy is definitely obsessed. I'm such a loser for going near him. Let alone carrying on for months. We didn't have sex. 1-23-2015 10:37pm
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                        • so what did you do with him? is he lonely? my jerk face is single. lonely & pathetic. he doesnt understand boundries . just because i share conversation is not an open invitation...(more) 1-23-2015 10:48pm
                          to fuck. He would by coffee, bring lunch, decorate my desk, text me over the weekend, was all over my fucking facebook account,gifts, all over my work, included me in all his conversations. Fucking madening then would get pissed off at me when i would decline shit. Making work difficult. We are currently not speaking. Thank God.
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                          • Oh god. Mine is not like this. Thank god. Just lots of work iMs all day, invitations to lunch or meetup after work, stopping by my desk, emailing me over the weekend. 1-23-2015 10:51pm
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                            • ^^^ he's not lonely. Just miserable in his marriage and bored. 1-23-2015 10:52pm
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                        • what did you do? what does one time thing mean? 1-23-2015 10:53pm
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                          • I meant I'll never do it again with another man. A one time affair. Not looking for more. Wasn't even looking for this one....(more) 1-23-2015 10:54pm
                            We kissed and touched. He mostly touched me.
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                            • is that supposed to be not as bad as you touching him? 1-23-2015 10:55pm
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                              • No. I never said that at all. I'm telling you facts. 1-23-2015 10:57pm
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    • Is he short and bald and annoying? 1-23-2015 10:31pm
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      • No. He's tall with a full head of hair. But definitely annoying. 1-23-2015 10:32pm
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  16. Cleveland So after 2 months I sent a text to reconnect. He texted for about an hour about nothing really. It was nice, but I hope I opened the door for him to contact me. 1-23-2015 10:11pm (2 replies)
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    • Your vagina has reopened. I'm sure he will use it. 1-23-2015 10:13pm
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    • mine did this after I chased him for a bit & got tired. Fucked him the other day and he wants to meet up over the weekend. I am not interested. Declined his offer. I built him up...(more) 1-23-2015 10:30pm
      In my head.
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  17. Cleveland See eachother everyday. calls multi times a day. everyday. Told him to slow down. Said I didnt want comprimise emotions. I dont think this is possible though. 1-23-2015 8:58am (0 replies)
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  18. Cleveland Not that I would want this to ever happen but if Dh found out about my affair he would think wtf based on affairs looks. 1-22-2015 11:18pm (7 replies)
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    • HAHAHAHAA that was my situation when I was having an affair. No one would have believed it. 1-22-2015 11:19pm
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      • Op: he's "ok". But totally balding which I think would be what makes Dh go wtf. 1-22-2015 11:19pm
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    • My dh would not care about looks, he only cares about accomplishments, education and career. He would be impressed. 1-23-2015 12:21am
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    • OMG same here. They couldn't possibly look any more different. Affair is 6'4", balding with white hair and only 3 years older than DH. 1-23-2015 10:16am
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    • my dh would say "I always knew you liked that type of guy." 1-23-2015 3:46pm
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    • dw got "Jungle fever" 1-23-2015 4:24pm
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    • my dh would get it. My affair is great looking 1-23-2015 9:17pm
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  19. Cleveland Started re-reading some emails from ex-affair. It's been about a year since we split. He's an even bigger lunatic than I thought, and there I was, bowing and scraping and...(more) 1-22-2015 10:56pm (0 replies)
    groveling and always trying to get him to love me. Thank goodness that's all over. I hope I am finished with guys like this. Ex-dh is one of them, too. There must be decent male human beings out there somewhere.
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  20. Cleveland I think today was the last time. I'm happier without him. 1-22-2015 10:00pm (1 reply)
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    • give it a few days 1-23-2015 6:25am
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  21. Cleveland I had sex with Ashley Madison affair today and I can honestly say it's the best sex I have ever had....(more) 1-22-2015 6:35pm (18 replies)
    He is so selfless, he made me cum through oral at least 10 times and he has the biggest dick and knows how to use it so well, I came during sex so many times too. I mean like body shaking orgasms. And we lay and talk and have so much fun together. It's fucking crazy. He tells me how beautiful I am, can't keep his hands off me and he is soooo gorgeous. I mean body and face. I am losing it here. He texts me constantly, very attentive. Just so damn nice for once
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    • that's nice, dear 1-22-2015 6:36pm
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      • This is Cleveland, sugartits 1-22-2015 6:37pm
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    • He sounds like such the catch. You should marry this man. 1-22-2015 6:41pm
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    • I've had some great finds on that site. Currently with the same one for over a year. 1-22-2015 6:50pm
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      • I am so impressed. He is incredible in, like, every way 1-22-2015 6:56pm
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        • Mine is as well. Completely fantastic in bed. Great communicator. Not bad looking. I could go on. 1-22-2015 7:09pm
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          • Op- he tells me he can't believe dh doesn't appreciate what he has, I say the same. He is a serious catch 1-22-2015 7:28pm
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    • Is he a hooker? 1-22-2015 6:56pm
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      • No, he's married! If he was a hooker I'd have to pay lol 1-22-2015 6:57pm
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    • No offense but you seem quite nuts. 1-22-2015 7:44pm
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    • wow, lucky you!!! 1-22-2015 9:58pm
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    • So now they are using fake blog posts to push-advertise this cheater AM site. I would have thought the posts would have been a bit more subtle and sophisticated though. I wonder...(more) 1-23-2015 11:21am
      if they use an agency for a full ad campaign or this is in house?
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      • ITA. She would have just said affair. 1-23-2015 11:23am
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        • I'm the or who said she has had good finds. Do you think the op is working for am!? 1-23-2015 12:12pm
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          • Doesn't it sound like it? How many men would be all that even if the op was in an affair fog? Why wouldn't you expect that from such a scummy outfit? And as for your post, are...(more) 1-23-2015 1:13pm
            these men really that "great"? They are trolling for affairs...says something about them as men... Even worse than someone who just stumbles into it
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            • I suppose. I met a lot of duds before I found this one. Most guys are just looking to have fun with some weird fetish. But this guy I've been with for the last year is a decent...(more) 1-23-2015 1:39pm
              person (affair notwithstanding)
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              • But as you can see, this post by you certainly doesn't drive traffic to the site like the breathless post that started this thread. It's an easy tactic for a web site to use. 1-23-2015 1:56pm
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                • Good point. Never thought of that re: op. 1-23-2015 2:38pm
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  22. Cleveland Would tell an exaffair that you fpund someone new after he attempts to come back? Or just ignore? 1-22-2015 12:49pm (9 replies)
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    • I've told several that I moved on. 1-22-2015 12:52pm
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      • why do you think so little of yourself? 1-22-2015 12:53pm
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        • I don't understand how you came to that conclusion from my response. 1-22-2015 1:05pm
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    • i would stop kidding myself 1-22-2015 12:53pm
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      • kidding myself ???? 1-22-2015 1:53pm
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    • No I would just lead him on, and string it along because I am attention whore 1-22-2015 2:53pm
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      • you mean you'd fuck them both? 1-22-2015 4:13pm
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    • oh he did tell me in detail about the 22yo he fucked but only after she chased him and offered herself multiple times and how could he resist? he's 44 btw. and how her body was so...(more) 1-23-2015 9:27am
      tight. And still got pissed at ME when I said I had someone new but no more details than that. and was furious I wouldn't go back to him (ex-affair)
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      • sorry. he sounds like an asshole & im glad you're not dealing with that anymore. how was he furious? 1-23-2015 10:34pm
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  23. Cleveland He is going to burn us out quick. He wants to hook up everyday. Craves affection. Will call me 6xs a day. I enjoy the attention but know it will not last. Says he thinks about me...(more) 1-22-2015 12:12pm (2 replies)
    all day. I have tried to distance myself to enjoy at a slower pace but he is relentless.
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    • this is a sexual attraction. Normal. Yes, it will go away. 1-22-2015 12:13pm
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      • you would think he would know this. to slow down a bit.i guess he just wants instant gratification. 1-22-2015 12:20pm
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  24. Cleveland June mom: I try to sympathize with dh and the really difficult/depressing life he has been faced w the past 2yrs: lost lucrative job, sudden death of only sibling, $issues, wife's...(more) 1-22-2015 11:33am (46 replies)
    Affair,... When I think of the detailed emails he read in September, I cringe. But, I think (and so does my therapist) that his angry outbursts lately are starting to border on emotional abuse. We just started marriage counseling but he refuses to pursue IC. He spends his days at home, all day, doesn't socialize/talk to anyone; working on his projects (consulting), job searching and playing video games. One of the worse examples: a bickering that escalated to full on fight. And he said "Monday morning you better find yourself a divorce lawyer. And I will fight you for the kids. I have records." Whatever that means. I replied "that's perfect. I will." And I started singing "happy days are coming,..." Dd comes in smiling bc she hears me singing and says "what? Why is mommy so happy?" I just kept humming. Dh says "I don't know why she's so happy! I'm going to take everything away from her. Her car. Her house...."
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    • and this tale is supposed to make DH look bad? It makes you look worse 1-22-2015 11:36am
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      • right? humming about happy days after she brought on such grief, no wonder he is pissed. 1-22-2015 3:45pm
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    • wow, that is just horrendous. i'm not saying he shouldn't be angry, but to speak like that to your child and instill fear in her that way. that will definitely go in your favor...(more) 1-22-2015 11:38am
      for custody.
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    • ^^^ and I fully realize that it may very well be that he senses that I am contuing (albeit via email only)...(more) 1-22-2015 11:38am
      affair and he has a lot of anger... But, it also makes me realize that perhaps too much damage has already been done. Our MC thinks we can work thru this bc a 20 yr marriage means a strong foundation. I don't see it. Yet, I still can't get over the fact that I truly believe that as dysfunctional as this marriage is, a divorce would be way more damaging to Dcs. They adore him. And I think he will play mean and use them as pawns.
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      • honestly, it doesn't sound like you can work through this, especially if you are still carrying on with your affair partner. that doesn't change the fact that what he said in...(more) 1-22-2015 11:40am
        front of your daughter is unforgivable. how is she?
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        • Op: :( I walked out of the room bc I was so stunned that tears just welled up and she noticed "mommy, are you crying?"...(more) 1-22-2015 11:54am
          And I never brought it back up bc I didn't want to make it more of an issue. Hoping she'll forget. But perhaps I should bring it up and see what she took from that. Dh also said to me: "why don't we ask the girls who they want to be with?? Let's call them in. I already know who the older one will pick. She doesn't even like you. Let's ask the younger one!" Really menacing. :(
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          • you are no prize, but your husband is a monster. 1-22-2015 12:05pm
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            • Fwiw, I know this is all anger. He is so emotionally blocked that he can't process his anger so it spews out like this, like...(more) 1-22-2015 12:11pm
              a teenager or a toddler, thinking: I'm so angry at her that I'm going to do whatever it takes to hurt her."
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              • do you blame him?? 1-22-2015 1:32pm
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                • Op: not at all re being angry. But, I do begrudge him the fact that he's not addressing...(more) 1-22-2015 2:37pm
                  it or at least not exposing kids to it.
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                  • Go slit your wrists already and make this a better world. 1-22-2015 3:48pm
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                  • unfortunately you can't control the reaction he is having to all of this. You can control yours and you acted inappropriately with the singing etc. You are baiting him and he is...(more) 1-23-2015 3:43pm
                    responding in front of your kids.
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                    • itttttttttttttta 1-23-2015 4:31pm
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              • How in the hell do make this damage ALL about him? How you no conscience at all. I hope he gets her and the house. 1-22-2015 3:48pm
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      • just end it..seems like you arent invested in him at all. 1-22-2015 11:40am
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    • ive been in his shoes....its devastating to a persons self esteem and sometimes better to just end the relationship. 1-22-2015 11:39am
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      • Op: exactly. Just when he was at his lowest in life/career, he reads emails from his wife to another man...(more) 1-22-2015 11:43am
        that show a huge emotional/physical connection. And he is not dealing with it. Doesn't talk to anyone. And in MC (only been 4 sessions) all he keeps saying is "I never ever thought she would do this. I always thought loyalty was her strongest trait." And "I don't think she really wants to continue is marriage. And if so I don't want to waste my time in these sessions anymore."
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        • i have been following your story and was always sympathetic towards you, but your dh sounds tortured by you. honestly, get out of the marriage so that he can stop suffering and...(more) 1-22-2015 11:45am
          you both can stop using your child as a whipping post.
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          • cheers. 1-22-2015 1:28pm
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          • June mom is a terrible person. 1-22-2015 3:46pm
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          • np: THIS. 1-22-2015 5:11pm
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    • you both sound unstable...your poor child is being very damaged by both your actions. 1-22-2015 11:40am
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    • Op: I wish I had never had an affair. He's turning out to be an asshole, but it already severed the connection I had...(more) 1-22-2015 11:58am
      With dh....
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      • get away from both of them and work on yourself, signed btdt 1-22-2015 12:05pm
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        • agreed- op you are ruining your dh and your dd life by staying. MAN UP and leave 1-22-2015 1:29pm
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    • do you not see what a fucking HORRIBLE person you are?? 1-22-2015 1:42pm
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      • She is a total loon. 1-22-2015 3:45pm
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        • Ita. I'm not saying this to be mean but wtf tries to shift blame onto their Dh? Grow a pair and get better therapy. Leave him and give him the chance to find someone who isn't a...(more) 1-22-2015 4:03pm
          complete fuck up. Oh wait - you won't Bc he pays the way for you. Poor guy.
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          • np: this is just cruel. No reason to say shit like this to a human being who is so confused and hurting. You don't really know the entire story. Shut up and stop being a bitch. 1-22-2015 8:27pm
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            • HUrting? How do you feel about people that cause the hurt? June mom is a piece of shit. 1-22-2015 8:58pm
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              • same np: I am not saying that she did not cause pain. When did I say that? Who designated you Royal Punisher Of People Who Make Mistakes? 1-22-2015 10:50pm
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    • You guys need to get away from each other ASAP. 1-22-2015 2:33pm
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    • You therapist really sucks. She enables you and your bad behavior. Get a new therapist. 1-22-2015 3:44pm
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    • OK, June Mom, listen here:...(more) 1-22-2015 8:24pm
      You had an affair. All the proof in the world of an affair does not matter in a custody case. They only care what kind of mother you are. My guess is that your dh has always been an emotional abuser. You acted out, you had an affair (not the best thing, we know this). You made yourself the "bad guy." Dh now feels 100% entitled to treat you however he wants, but he's probably always been like this. All the affair did was make YOU feel guilty and shitty. The affair was wrong, it's over. Please make sure you photocopy every single bit of financial information, the deed to the house, the titles to the car, EVERYTHING you two own. Everything he owns in his name. Take your time. From this moment on you are not to act out in any way. Don't show him anger, don't be snarky, just put your big girl pants on and realize this marriage sucks. And it is NOT all your fault. Be the very best mother you can be right now (and always, of course). Stay strong.
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      • Oh lord, another complete loon. Too much therapy and zero self awareness. 1-22-2015 8:56pm
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        • au contraire. I have seen this scenario played out a lot. Not everyone in the scenario ends up cheating, but good lord, does anyone on Cleveland ever stop to think about WHY a...(more) 1-22-2015 10:52pm
          person would cheat? Is it just because he/she is a total piece of shit? Is that the answer 100% of the time? Maybe some of the time, sure. But June Mom does not strike me as one of these shitty types of people.
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          • um read her original post...she sucks 1-23-2015 6:40am
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            • np - i think she is really damaged and sick and that is what makes her incapable of seeing anyone else's POV. she is like a baby in a woman's body. 1-23-2015 12:04pm
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              • Ita. It's like she has no conscience and is somehow not to blame. Childish and disturbing. 1-23-2015 12:14pm
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      • Op: I wouldn't even know where to begin. He handles all finances. 1-23-2015 12:23pm
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        • See? Childlike and helpless. Grow a pair as poster said above. 1-23-2015 12:40pm
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        • I thought you were getting a job 1-23-2015 3:46pm
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    • This is why cheating in a difficult marriage is a bad idea. It only makes it worse and one more hurdle to overcome 1-23-2015 11:24am
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      • np - no kidding. i started up with this man to make up for my husband's indifference. now this man is keeping me at arms length. i am heartbroken and now have 2 men who are...(more) 1-23-2015 12:05pm
        indifferent to me.
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        • This is why it is so important to find validation from within (or from kids)rather than from a third party 1-23-2015 2:59pm
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    • You suck. just get out. Save your family the BS. each time i read this you are more disturbing. Your therapist must have gone out and bought a new car when she heard your first...(more) 1-23-2015 5:01pm
      confession for "free".
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  25. Cleveland Funny how guys are so different with timing. Knew a 46yr old who would climax in 15-20min. Know a 53 yr old who takes at least an hour. I am ready to dump. He says he wants to...(more) 1-22-2015 9:26am (17 replies)
    enjoy me for hours. I don't have time for that.
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    • he sounds selfish 1-22-2015 9:27am
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    • and your husband? 1-22-2015 9:30am
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      • op:my husband is perfect in the bedroom. 1-22-2015 9:55am
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    • lol! 1-22-2015 9:44am
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    • You want to dump him because of his unreliability. hours for one day and coke dick the next 1-22-2015 10:30am
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      • op: I dont understand this reply at all. 1-22-2015 10:53am
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        • somebody on here is fucking a 53yo man that gets coke dick. thought it was you. 1-22-2015 3:42pm
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          • lol, no. Not me. my guy is just old : / 1-22-2015 4:57pm
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    • my 53 year old boyfriend takes a long time. cialis does that. 1-22-2015 3:44pm
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      • why would anyone want to fuck this? i must prefer my quick and often guy. 1-22-2015 3:50pm
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        • well, he's sexy and has a beautiful cock. for starters. 1-22-2015 3:52pm
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          • ugh. sounds like torture to go for hours with cialis to an affair. i like my young sexy guy, i guess you get what you can get. 1-22-2015 3:53pm
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      • he seems to be enjoying himself but I feel bad when i have to go & just leave him there. 1-22-2015 4:58pm
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        • like leave him with a hard on? 1-22-2015 5:49pm
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          • yes!! but wtf? after working him for 40m i am ready to moce. 1-22-2015 9:59pm
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            • ^^^move 1-22-2015 9:59pm
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            • Yeah - that's not fun. I wouldn't be into that. 1-23-2015 1:56pm
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