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  1. Cleveland This thing with affair will work for now I guess...(more) 11-26-2014 11:01am (4 replies)
    But I want to have a man that loves me the most. More than alcohol, more than another woman (or attention from other women). If I don't find that then I'll be alone. That will be ok too.
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    • Don't even waste your time.. Leave dh and get on with it. 11-26-2014 1:50pm
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    • That is who dh is supposed to be. 11-26-2014 3:03pm
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      • he's the one who loves alcohol more than me. 11-26-2014 3:35pm
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    • I get it. 11-27-2014 7:14am
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  2. Cleveland Ok so "squirting" was always curious about it, been with 2 women who do and I am over it. Check that box and move on. 11-24-2014 7:42pm (19 replies)
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    • I have 3 guys who can make me squirt. It's a totally different type of orgasm. I'm not gonna stop and they all love it 11-24-2014 7:43pm
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    • its not about you 11-24-2014 7:46pm
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      • But in this scenario, it actually is 11-24-2014 7:47pm
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    • squirting just means you have a week blabber. Soon you will be wearing depends. 11-24-2014 10:35pm
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    • and dump the next woman that does? 11-25-2014 9:24am
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    • I am totally clueless about this and I'm a woman. But where...(more) 11-25-2014 4:25pm
      does this fluid come out? Vagina or urethra?
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      • uretha, it is urine. 11-25-2014 4:54pm
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        • I don't squirt but do you also not believe vaginal fluids and discharge exists? 11-25-2014 6:57pm
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          • The vagina lubricates its inner wall in antipication of intercourse and there can be a white discharge after intercourse. 11-25-2014 7:17pm
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            • So maybe some have more than others. 11-25-2014 8:02pm
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              • Yes, but not enough to squirt. 11-25-2014 8:08pm
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                • You are so hell bent on this. I've seen you on Toddler. Maybe some women just fucking squirt. Just because you don't doesn't mean not possible. I don't buy the porn squirt but a...(more) 11-25-2014 8:20pm
                  big squirt gush after an orgasm. Why not?
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                  • I am not a women and I have never posted on Toddler. There can be a almost clear whiting liquid that can be released from the urethra, but may flow but not gush or squirt. If you...(more) 11-25-2014 8:42pm
                    squirt, you are putting pressure of your bladder during intercourse and in is urine.
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                    • ok that is gross and why is it looked at as a cool sexual thing to be envied? 11-26-2014 10:57am
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                    • If you aren't a woman then you don't know that regular vaginal discharge feels like a gush. Squirting feels that way too. 11-27-2014 8:50am
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                      • lol. You don't have to be a woman to understand human physiology - how the body works. 22 hr 12 min ago
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                        • A small amount of liquid feels like a gush (ie discharge). 1 hr 35 min ago
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                      • You are right. I don't know how it feels to you. People get sexual pleasure from all sorts of things. There are all sorts of perversions. People into BDSM get sexual pleasure from...(more) 21 hr 31 min ago
                        pain, among other things.
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  3. Cleveland Fuck buddy and I are seriously perfect for each other. He is single. Doesn't want a relationship, never wants a monogamous relationship. I'm married and feel the exact same...(more) 11-24-2014 5:09pm (26 replies)
    way. We both see other people and neither of us cares. He's filling my needs and I'm filling his. We are also great friends and have a blast together. He talks to me about other girls and I talk to him about dh and other people I'm dealing with. It's a win win. 3 years now.
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    • klassie 11-24-2014 5:10pm
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      • Op- we are the definition of lassie 11-24-2014 5:10pm
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    • You kind of suck for cheating on DH but I would love this kind of fuck buddy (and dh wouldn't care before you all flame) 11-24-2014 5:10pm
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      • I've had ones where we get all emo and shit. It sucks. I don't wanna be with one person for the rest of my life 11-24-2014 5:11pm
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        • where do you find these people? I have a friend who is single and I think there is some sexual tension between us but I cn'at figure out how to get it to the next level 11-24-2014 5:12pm
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          • My recommendation is go for drinks and hint at it. If he declines you can blame it on the alcohol. Btw I work with most of mine 11-24-2014 5:14pm
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    • I just broke off my 2 year situation. DH and me are back on the mend. I haven't felt better. I'm not saying the monogamy is the answer. But for me now it is. Ignore the haters...(more) 11-24-2014 5:11pm
      btw.
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      • Dh and I rarely have sex. When we do it's awkward and just not good for either of us. Never really was good 11-24-2014 5:13pm
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        • Trust me, I'm a sexpot but it's so much more. I prefer my casual talk with my dh over my former buddy....(more) 11-24-2014 5:15pm
          Do you like your dh? Get along? Does he know, agree, understand?
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          • np do you know what sexpot means? 11-24-2014 5:19pm
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            • horny, promiscuous, and men probably think they will have a chance with me 11-24-2014 5:21pm
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              • no, a sexpot is a sexy woman. Hottie. 11-24-2014 5:21pm
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                • ^which perhaps you are, but it isn't how you used the word. 11-24-2014 5:22pm
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                  • http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=sexpot 11-24-2014 5:26pm
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                    • urban dictionary. 11-24-2014 5:28pm
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              • that's a nympho 11-24-2014 5:22pm
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      • did you tell dh about your 2 year situation? 11-25-2014 9:43am
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    • Thanks for the update 11-24-2014 8:24pm
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    • You post about it a lot which makes me think y 11-24-2014 8:25pm
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      • ^ you are a lot more invested than you claim 11-24-2014 8:25pm
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      • np: that she's talking herself into it?? 11-24-2014 8:25pm
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    • You sound so pathetic trying to convince us all. 11-24-2014 11:08pm
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    • what happes when you get caught? 11-25-2014 9:24am
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    • broke it off with my single guy. 3yrs. i got bored. its too easy. whats difficult is fixing my marriage. its real. 11-25-2014 10:17pm
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      • ^^^but you are right. mine forgot his place. 11-25-2014 10:23pm
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  4. Cleveland Explain me please. I don't want to marry his cheating ass and yet I feel hurt and sad he doesn't want to leave dw for me. 11-24-2014 1:51pm (17 replies)
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    • you're an idiot? 11-24-2014 1:52pm
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    • Do you think he'd want a wife who thought it was alright to sleep with a married man? 11-24-2014 1:52pm
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    • Because you have an ego. 11-24-2014 1:52pm
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    • you are me. its very painful 11-24-2014 1:54pm
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      • thank you for saying this. I'm driving myself crazy. 11-24-2014 1:55pm
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        • why do we do this to ourselves? I can't let go. this is the first time in 26 years of marriage. if I could GEF out if this, I'd never do it again 11-24-2014 2:13pm
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    • I think most married women in affairs feel this way. You just want to feel like he would pick you. But would it really be a great prize to have a man pick you over his marriage...(more) 11-24-2014 3:00pm
      and family?
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      • poster above- it feels tremendously ego boostin 11-24-2014 3:05pm
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        • sorry. ego boosting for a woman like me who grew up as the ugly one. 11-24-2014 3:08pm
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      • To me that is preferable to living a lie. 11-24-2014 3:16pm
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        • To you, sure, but not to a man who gets to have sex with two women. 11-24-2014 3:28pm
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          • my affair never misses a chance to tell me that he loves his wife and that i am just for sex and will always be last on the list. and yet i go back. it's my damage. 11-24-2014 3:38pm
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          • I was responding to the notion that you wouldn't want a man who would leave his marriage and family. My response is that I would have more respect for a guy who would leave rather...(more) 11-24-2014 3:43pm
            than live the lie he's living. Also, he'd be leaving his wife, who he is betraying, not his family.
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            • i think the standard wisdom is that you should leave your marriage, even if you aren't leaving to be with affair. because the fact that you are capable of an affair means your...(more) 11-24-2014 3:45pm
              marriage is bad.
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              • most of the time, but some are just cake eaters. leaving does break up the family and dcs will see each parent 50% of the time, so in a way, it is leaving dcs. if it were me,...(more) 11-24-2014 3:56pm
                i'd want dh to just leave. it's really just a choice between shitty and shitter. i'll state the obvious here and suggest a person should get out of the affair and focus on the marriage.
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                • ^fwiw, i chose to get out and repair my marriage. 11-24-2014 3:57pm
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  5. Cleveland Where are my former Pitts people?...(more) 11-24-2014 1:27pm (36 replies)
    signed, longtime DH poster.
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    • around. what's up? 11-24-2014 1:27pm
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      • Wondering if anyone I knew from Pitts still roamed the boards. 11-24-2014 1:29pm
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        • surely. who are you? 11-24-2014 1:29pm
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          • Former DH who used to enjoy all the Pitts banter and fun...(more) 11-24-2014 1:37pm
            Until it turned really sour near the end.
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            • it got a little weird, yes. 11-24-2014 1:39pm
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              • Ya. Too bad too. It was fun. Definitely kept my attention and met some cool people. 11-24-2014 1:48pm
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                • the toxic insanity was admittedly entertaining. 11-24-2014 1:50pm
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    • Me. I didn't even realize I had Cleveland marked. Cleveland is no Pitts. 11-24-2014 1:29pm
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      • I can see that. 11-24-2014 1:29pm
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    • present 11-24-2014 1:29pm
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    • waaassssuuuuup? 11-24-2014 1:56pm
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    • I'm here - former DH poster as well 11-24-2014 2:08pm
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      • you're a woman now? 11-24-2014 2:14pm
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    • still around, infrequent though. 11-24-2014 2:13pm
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      • dh or dw 11-24-2014 2:20pm
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        • dw 11-24-2014 2:22pm
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          • moniker? 11-24-2014 2:23pm
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            • rather not say ;) 11-24-2014 2:25pm
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              • ok, hint? 11-24-2014 2:25pm
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                • ok. who are you? 11-24-2014 2:29pm
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                  • - no subject -...(more) 11-24-2014 2:31pm
                    FYDH
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                    • we should start it up again on Cleveland. contacting each other IRL! 11-24-2014 3:46pm
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                      • who are YOU?!? 11-24-2014 9:31pm
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                        • i never knew about the pittsburgh board when it was in existence. 11-25-2014 8:55am
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    • Greetings and salutations to my conquests, friends and just plain old fans! 11-24-2014 2:24pm
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    • Get a life KC 11-24-2014 2:27pm
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      • this 11-24-2014 8:24pm
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      • Wasn't me this time :) 11-25-2014 8:46am
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        • I didn't think it was you. 11-25-2014 9:22am
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    • how many former pittsers are currently having affairs? 11-24-2014 11:14pm
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      • Me 11-25-2014 1:00pm
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      • happy to raise MY hand! 11-25-2014 8:57pm
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    • I check out the gossip here every couple of days. Don't keep in touch with anyone anymore. 11-25-2014 12:40pm
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      • Me too. Only 1 really I email with every few months. 11-25-2014 1:00pm
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        • Is this OP? 11-25-2014 4:27pm
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  6. Cleveland Ugh. Help. Started seeing this single guy. Thought it would be a fun FWB thing. But damn if we are not getting super attached. I know someone is going to get hurt. But I don't...(more) 11-24-2014 12:51pm (5 replies)
    want to stop. It's meeting so many of my needs right now. Which is the problem I guess. But I can't imagine walking away from it now, and it's only going to get harder.
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    • Good thing he doesn't have a wife and kids. Would be awful if he were to cheat on his family. 11-24-2014 12:52pm
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      • Op yes but it means he is totally available, emotionally and otherwise. Which presents problems of its own. No boundaries. 11-24-2014 1:01pm
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    • Poor guy, you are using him. 11-24-2014 2:28pm
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    • I don't understand single giid being exclusive to married affairs. My single guy is free to see others. I couldn't ask him to be sitting around on weekends while I'm at home...(more) 11-24-2014 5:25pm
      with my family. Just seems so weird unless you can see him all the time
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    • damn. i miss my single guy. 11-25-2014 10:23pm
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  7. Cleveland I think I'll never have a relationship again. Divorcing. Had affair (didn't get caught, but ended affair because he turned out to be a shitty person, there was no future in it,...(more) 11-23-2014 10:16pm (3 replies)
    etc). I have a guy now who is SO into me, so kind, really the kind of guy I've always wanted. And suddenly I just don't feel anything for him at all. Am I *only* attracted to narcissistic losers?? Why can't I feel anything for this super sweet, smart, wonderful guy?
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    • Maybe. Was your dad not present? If you grew up thinking that dysfunction is normal, normal will not feel right to you. So either you learn to rewire yourself to love normal and...(more) 11-23-2014 10:17pm
      kind, or don't get with men ever again. Those are your options.
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      • op: I am in therapy. Maybe I will inquire about this re-wiring thing. My dad was alternately completely neglectful and abusive, yes. 11-23-2014 10:18pm
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        • Definitely. Or just know intellectually that a regular relationship will feel boring to you. 11-23-2014 10:20pm
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  8. Cleveland My affair told me yesterday that he's worried about me. He says he thinks I drink too much and that he cares for me, how important I am, how I need to be healthy for my kids and...(more) 11-23-2014 1:25pm (17 replies)
    myself, how amazing I am and how he will do anything I need to help me. He said I'm special to him and he doesn't want anything to ever happen to me. Dh knows I have a problem. He just tells me to cut back, has never told me how special and important I am. I cried. We have been together off and on 3 years and we both know we'll never leave spouses. We just truly care about each other. It's really nice.
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    • you're a fucking mess 11-23-2014 1:27pm
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      • Believe me, I know 11-23-2014 1:28pm
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    • Speechless 11-23-2014 1:28pm
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    • How can he help you? Being in this affair when neither of you will leave puts you in an awful situation. No wonder you're drinking. 11-23-2014 1:30pm
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      • We don't want to be together. 11-23-2014 1:30pm
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        • Is the current situation best for you? 11-23-2014 1:31pm
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          • It's actually pretty good 11-23-2014 1:32pm
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            • Ok. Carry on then 11-23-2014 1:33pm
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              • Have my first therapy appt this week. 11-23-2014 1:34pm
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    • oh so you're cheating on your dh and fucking up your family 11-23-2014 1:33pm
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    • Hm. Do you two work together by any chance? I think I might know who this man is 11-23-2014 2:01pm
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      • No, he lives in a different state 11-24-2014 4:54pm
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    • what does off and on mean? 11-23-2014 3:06pm
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    • affair is invested in your pussy. that is all & that is what is "special". 11-23-2014 4:39pm
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      • He has that, he definitely doesn't need to worry about me to get it 11-24-2014 4:54pm
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        • or:of course he does. you get hurt...pussy breaks. you go crazy...no more pussy. 11-25-2014 10:25pm
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    • If this is real, which I doubt, you are buying a load of bs. He doesn't care for you. You should also know that there is a connection between your drinking and your affair. I...(more) 11-24-2014 7:42am
      bet you'd see things a lot differently if you sobered up.
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  9. Cleveland I feel like I can pick out cheating men so easily after this experience. I am most suspicious of men whom people would least expect, but I notice things others may not. Or maybe I...(more) 11-23-2014 8:26am (8 replies)
    am paranoid and totally jaded.
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    • See, I think my radar for that sort of thing is really quite bad. I wish it were better 11-23-2014 8:27am
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    • What do you typically see in cheating men? 11-23-2014 11:07am
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    • Any man under the right circumstances will cheat. 11-23-2014 1:18pm
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    • Like what?? 11-23-2014 1:48pm
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      • I don't know. A vibe. Especially if they stare too long. 11-23-2014 3:11pm
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          • lol, see maybe I am paranoid. 11-23-2014 7:20pm
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    • Interesting but very vague. Explain? 11-23-2014 2:12pm
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  10. Cleveland I'd like him to know how mcuh he hurt me, but there is no way so I have to move on 11-22-2014 10:01pm (84 replies)
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    • Still together? 11-22-2014 10:07pm
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      • No 11-22-2014 10:17pm
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        • what happened? 11-22-2014 10:20pm
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          • He totally used me 11-22-2014 10:26pm
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            • sexually? 11-22-2014 10:26pm
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              • yes 11-22-2014 10:27pm
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                • How long did it last? 11-22-2014 10:28pm
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                  • Oh not long at all, not sure why I am even posting on Cleveland. 11-22-2014 10:29pm
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                    • ^^I don't know how to say this, or even if it is true...but I think he took advantage. I'm pretty embarrassed to even talk about it 11-22-2014 10:31pm
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                      • Im more than willing to listen 11-22-2014 10:31pm
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                        • We did NOT have sex, but totally heavy touching and I really just feel gross 11-22-2014 10:32pm
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                          • ^^all this Bill Cosby talk makes me feel pretty foolish in the scheme of things, but I jsut feel "off" 11-22-2014 10:33pm
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                    • ITs never easy to move on but at least it wasn't prolonged. 11-22-2014 10:31pm
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                      • No, it was not. Only one evening. I really cringe even thinking about it 11-22-2014 10:32pm
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                        • Quick bj mom? 11-22-2014 10:33pm
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                          • No, no. I didn't touch him, kissed, but he had his hands in my underwear. ugh. 11-22-2014 10:34pm
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                            • IS this a freak thing for you or have you had issues at home? 11-22-2014 10:37pm
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                              • Total freak thing. No issues at home. DH and I are solid 11-22-2014 10:38pm
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                                • I mean, we have no major issues to speak fo 11-22-2014 10:38pm
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                        • Was there sexual tension before? Was it solely a one night thing? 11-22-2014 10:34pm
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                          • Never before, but there is now, it was a one night drunken thing 11-22-2014 10:35pm
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                            • and texted me recently, are we cool? friend again? ugh 11-22-2014 10:37pm
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                              • What a jerk off. 11-22-2014 10:39pm
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                                • And I stupidly thought he actually cared about my feelings, but I realize now, he only did it to make himself feel better. And I don;t even know how he got my cell number 11-22-2014 10:40pm
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                                  • he doesn't care about your feelings. He's a horny creep who saw an opportunity to mess around with a drunk woman. I hate him for you. 11-22-2014 11:12pm
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                            • How did he hurt you? 11-22-2014 10:38pm
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                              • Emotionally, not physically. I am probably making a mountain out out of a molehill 11-22-2014 10:39pm
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                                • What are your expectations? Did he make you promises? 11-22-2014 10:42pm
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                                  • No, no promise. I'm not sure WHAT I expect...I guess that;s the problem,. I just feel dirty and used. I suppose that's MY issue 11-22-2014 10:44pm
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                                    • I dont understand. If things are solid with DH why did you go down this road? 11-22-2014 10:45pm
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                                      • It happened at a weekend thing, I was away with friends. Me, him and another friend were up late. I went to the bathroom, came out to find my friend had gone to bed. I was going...(more) 11-22-2014 10:47pm
                                        to bed too but wanted to get my phone that was charging in the kitchen. I went to grab it and he grabbed me.
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                                        • and I want to clairfy, there was no sex, just some kissing and touching before I realized what was going on and just ran away 11-22-2014 10:48pm
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                                        • Sounds a bit predatory if there was no connection before. 11-22-2014 10:48pm
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                                          • OP: I have to say, this was THE last guy I would have expected. 11-22-2014 10:49pm
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                                            • they often are. btdt. 11-22-2014 10:55pm
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                                              • Ironic, isn't it??? 11-22-2014 10:57pm
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                                    • Sounds like you both were into it. I don't know why you feel used? 11-22-2014 10:58pm
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                                      • I wasn't. It took me a second or two to realize what was going on 11-22-2014 11:01pm
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                                        • But it lasted 15 minutes? Were you fighting him off? 11-22-2014 11:19pm
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                                          • Oh I said 15 minutes, but I really don;t know..that's probably an exaggeration. 11-22-2014 11:21pm
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    • He will never get it. Don't waste your breath. 11-22-2014 10:11pm
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      • I know, I know. I know this so much, but still... 11-22-2014 10:27pm
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        • Stay far far away and get therapy. Np 11-22-2014 10:48pm
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          • I was wondering if I should. I mean the whole thing was less than 15 minutes, but I just keep feeling awful. I can't explain it. I feel like I should move on, but I have this...(more) 11-22-2014 10:50pm
            feelings like I am a horrible person
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            • You are not. It was a mistake. 11-22-2014 10:51pm
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              • I know, it was a drunken mistake. I want to forget it, but I keep replaying it my head? What did I do? Why me? Do I look like a victim? Is there something about me that looks...(more) 11-22-2014 10:52pm
                weak?
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                • I even feel silly feeling this way, there are so many "real" victims. I guess, I knew him, and thougt I'd be safe...so dumb all around. 11-22-2014 10:53pm
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                • It was a mistake. IT doesn't make you bad. It means you made a mistake. Your life and marriage is not summed up in those few minutes. 11-22-2014 10:54pm
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                  • I try to keep telling myself that, I try to push it away. It's just so so stupid. But his text "Are we cool, friend again?" just made me feel like a tool, I don;t even know if...(more) 11-22-2014 10:58pm
                    that is the right word
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                    • He is an asshole. You've encountered many and will encounter more. You've learned a lesson. We are never too old for that. 11-22-2014 10:59pm
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                    • douche. don't let him have this power over your emotions. 11-22-2014 11:00pm
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                    • hhe texted you to test the waters. He made a move because you were giving a vibe. He thought you would be game and he was right 11-22-2014 11:00pm
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                      • That's what makes me question myself...and makes me think I am a bad person 11-22-2014 11:02pm
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                        • ^^and I never gave him my number, he must have gotten it from a group text or soemthing 11-22-2014 11:03pm
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                        • Sounds like you are weak and have boundary issues. You were drunk? Are you a heavy drinker? Sounds like he was taking advantage of you in a vulnerable state honestly. Just...(more) 11-22-2014 11:07pm
                          stay away. You won't though
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                          • I'm sure she will and you sound like a jaded and angry ass 11-22-2014 11:07pm
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                            • are you reading her posts? She's obsessed and has been for months. 11-22-2014 11:09pm
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                              • doesn't man shell go back. obsessed and damaged, but not into him. 11-22-2014 11:10pm
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                                • She's into the attention and drama. For her sake, I hope she stays strong. It could get very messy. 11-22-2014 11:14pm
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                                • I think I am perhaps a little obessed with what led me to this place. I have a wonderful DH, seriously the best, and I never even noticed this guy AT ALL, he came on to ME. I am...(more) 11-22-2014 11:20pm
                                  not claiming to be a victin, because he must have seen soemthing n me that made me seem like I was approachable or something, It kills me I have this secret from my DH, it's almost worse than the 5 minute groping
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                          • I was drunk, but not a heavy drinker. I've been avoiding this person like the plauge (sp?) but see him often. I do not engage at all 11-22-2014 11:18pm
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                            • you said above it lasted 15 minutes and you've been very emotional about this for months. You must have liked something about it. Be honest- do you secretly like bumping into him?...(more) 11-22-2014 11:21pm
                              Do you dress better when you know it's a possibility?
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                              • I think 15 minutes was an exaggeratin, I feel foolish. It probably was like 2 mintues or less! But I guess i feel pretty foolish for feeling bad about a short amt of time. IDK....(more) 11-22-2014 11:23pm
                                Nothing like this has happened to me.
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                                • I mean, should I get therapy for something that was a blip in the scheme of things? I just feel like a freak 11-22-2014 11:24pm
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                                  • enough. get your shit together. 11-22-2014 11:25pm
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                                    • Yes, yes. I need to, I know this on every rational level! ANd I can be a rational person, that's what makes me think there is something wrong with me 11-22-2014 11:27pm
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                                  • yoube 11-22-2014 11:27pm
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                                  • youve been posting about this for months. If its not a big deal then stop thinking about it 11-22-2014 11:28pm
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                                    • QUick BJ mom? 11-22-2014 11:29pm
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                                    • First I've heard of this and I'm awlays here! 11-22-2014 11:30pm
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                                      • I've seen it here and on toddler. In the first version I saw they were on the beach when it happened 11-22-2014 11:38pm
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                                        • no beach involved here 11-22-2014 11:42pm
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                                • I would tell your Dh. You are keeping a secret. Not good. 11-22-2014 11:26pm
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                                  • To be honest, I think that is what is eating at me more than anything, but would I be telling him to make myself feel better? How would that make him feel? 11-22-2014 11:28pm
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                                    • It will be a lot easier on him than a full blown affair. This is exactly how they start. 11-22-2014 11:34pm
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                                      • I've been avoiding him. no chance for affair 11-22-2014 11:41pm
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                                        • do you think a therapist will think im a freak? 11-22-2014 11:43pm
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                                          • Does what a paid professional thinks of you really matter? I think I've gotten to the root of this. You are horribly insecure and need lots of validation. That will be $150 and...(more) 11-22-2014 11:54pm
                                            I don't take insurance.
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                                            • Yes, I realize this. How do I stop replaying this in my head? 11-23-2014 12:25pm
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                                              • np: i don't know. why do you think you replay it if you aren't even into the guy? 11-24-2014 12:18pm
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    • You feel like shut bc he went from kissing to his hand on your pussy in 2 min. He's a pig. Stop wallowing in this 11-23-2014 7:15pm
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      • Thank you. ANd I bought his line of BS, "Are we cool, friends again" Pfft. With friends like that, I don't need enemies, as they say. 11-23-2014 8:49pm
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      • How did his hand get on your pussy? 11-23-2014 9:43pm
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  11. Cleveland There are few worse feelings than loving someone who you can't have. 11-22-2014 9:49pm (30 replies)
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    • Great a lot of whining about how tough it is to be a whore. 11-22-2014 9:52pm
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      • And yet you read Cleveland. 11-22-2014 9:55pm
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    • I thought that was bad, but worse is realizing he doesn't love you as much as you thought, as much as he continues to claim he does. Giving me chest pains. Just getting thru the...(more) 11-22-2014 9:54pm
      hours one at a time.
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      • I think about her all the time. Chest pains are real. I understand. 11-22-2014 9:57pm
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        • So what do we do? 11-22-2014 9:58pm
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          • move on? accept reality? find someone who cares for you as much as you them? stay miserable? learn how to cope with the pain? 11-22-2014 9:59pm
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            • Someday I hope to have a man who puts our relationship first. Before alcohol, before another woman, before drugs. If I can't have that I'll be alone. Fuck this shit. 11-22-2014 10:05pm
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              • Are you both married? 11-22-2014 10:06pm
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                • Yes. He doesn't have the drug/alcohol problems, that's dh. 11-22-2014 10:07pm
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                  • Is there another man in your life? I am confused. 11-22-2014 10:08pm
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                    • I love affair, who is married to a perfect dw. I am married to do who is an alcoholic. 11-22-2014 10:10pm
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                      • How does affair feel about you? 11-22-2014 10:11pm
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                        • Says he loves me, thinks about me all the time. Bullshit. He's very comfortable with perfect dw. When I kind of whined about how hard it was he said we are both married and have...(more) 11-22-2014 10:15pm
                          our own lives and doing this for our own reasons. It wasn't as cold as it sounds I guess but it let me know I am just a little thrill in his perfect life, not the love he keeps claiming I am. "My Love" fucking bullshit.
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                          • ^i just want him to flat out admit I am just his fuck toy. But he's be all hurt and offended I'd even think that. It is what it is. 11-22-2014 10:16pm
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                            • What is it you are looking for? If you want more than sex, talk to him. If he can't give you support, then move on. If DH is that bad and the other guy won't provide the support,...(more) 11-22-2014 10:20pm
                              then the options are clear. Don't mistake sex for compassion. Deal with DH, divorce DH, confront affair or find someone who wants to be your friend.
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                              • The other guy does give a lot of support. I just love him a lot more than he loves me and that is humiliating. But you are right, I need to deal with dh and figure things out. 11-22-2014 10:23pm
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                                • I understand. I love mine, but its far more emo. Unfortunately, I think I have been cut off. Its all humiliating. 11-22-2014 10:25pm
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        • are you a dh? 11-22-2014 10:45pm
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          • Yes 11-22-2014 10:46pm
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            • why are you not with her if you care so much? 11-22-2014 10:55pm
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              • Because nothing is that easy. I want to. I really do. 11-22-2014 10:58pm
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                • are you both married? 11-23-2014 9:32am
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                  • I am. She not for not much longer. I can see the writing on the wall for me and she is already moving on. I can't begrudge her for that. It makes me sad but I'll be her friend...(more) 11-23-2014 11:26am
                    until she moves on. As painful as that is for me I'll deal.
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                    • this is so silly. if you love her so much then leave your wife and be with her. 11-23-2014 3:07pm
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                      • I do love her that much 11-23-2014 5:14pm
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                        • np: Sorry but my guy was like you. All talk. Made it very clear that he'll never divorce. It was horrible. Glad to be out of that situation but it was a living hell having to move...(more) 11-23-2014 10:06pm
                          on.
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                          • I am the question asker or. And ditto to you. It's such bullshit. Either man up and leave or STFU. 11-23-2014 10:20pm
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    • oh i remember that but trust me there are worse, way worse. have you grieved a lost loved onea? though i suppose death makes them someone you cannot have. but death of a beloved...(more) 11-22-2014 9:58pm
      person is so much worse than anything i coul dhave understood.
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      • Of course. Death of a loved one trumps most things. 11-22-2014 10:01pm
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    • You know love will make you crazy. Listen to the link I put inside....(more) 11-24-2014 11:21am
  12. Cleveland How do you respond when aff vents about spouse? 11-22-2014 9:33pm (2 replies)
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    • He doesn't do it much but I'm pretty much silent. 11-22-2014 9:56pm
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    • I just listen. She has issues (as do we all) and from what I can understand they're marriage sucks. 11-22-2014 10:35pm
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  13. Cleveland Have a crush on someone I hate 11-22-2014 8:13pm (5 replies)
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    • Makes the sex hotter 11-22-2014 8:14pm
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      • We don't have sex 11-22-2014 8:15pm
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    • How is it possible to have crush on someone you hate? 11-22-2014 8:25pm
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    • me too. I don't hate him always but when his politics, worldview or douchebaggery come out I do 11-22-2014 9:34pm
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      • I don't hate him. I just wish I never met him 11-22-2014 9:35pm
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  14. Cleveland So, period still not here. Haven't tested yet, because its on its way... 11-22-2014 6:23pm (0 replies)
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  15. Cleveland If he's not unhappy at home he won't leave no matter he feels about you or his wife. 11-22-2014 6:07pm (11 replies)
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    • He's never going to leave her, you whore. 11-22-2014 6:09pm
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      • except they do sometimes. 11-22-2014 6:14pm
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    • If he is unhappy with his wife, he'd be unhappy at home. 11-22-2014 6:17pm
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    • not leaving.sorry. he is coasting. content. 11-22-2014 6:20pm
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      • Exactly - op 11-22-2014 6:22pm
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      • Sounds like an awesome husband to keep. 11-22-2014 6:23pm
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        • Well I think that's most marriages 11-22-2014 6:25pm
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          • no, it really doesn't. 11-22-2014 6:27pm
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        • most men are like this. why disrupt a good thing? 11-22-2014 6:26pm
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          • no, most men don't cheat and just keep doing it happily. 11-22-2014 6:27pm
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            • most men that DO cheat 11-22-2014 6:42pm
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  16. Cleveland Suggestions how to stay occupied so I don't think about him and check my phone for msgs? 11-22-2014 1:19pm (3 replies)
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    • Go to yoga 11-22-2014 1:20pm
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    • detox mom here. what do you enjoy not affair related? 11-22-2014 4:38pm
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      • Not a lot. That's my problem. 11-22-2014 9:57pm
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  17. Cleveland "But I love you so much as a friend." Is there anything worse to hear from a man who strung you along for two yrs of emo and sexting? My emo resurfaced in a heavy way and...(more) 11-22-2014 7:22am (18 replies)
    Something in me just snapped, told him not to contact me any more. Will still have to see him now and then. I will never understand what this man ever wanted. Qbj mom for those who remember.
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    • ^that was supposed to be qbj 11-22-2014 7:24am
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    • I know it's hard, but it's probably best for you to try to just move on 11-22-2014 7:24am
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      • Op: Ty. Know you're right. I was doing better then he began contacting me again, then tons every day. Needed to put it to a stop 11-22-2014 7:26am
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        • That's really very inconsiderate and thoughtless of him. I think you should remember that he's being quite selfish by doing that to you when you feel yourself getting sad abou...(more) 11-22-2014 7:29am
          t him
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          • Ty. It is selfish and humiliating to have been good enough to be phone porn but obviously not good enough for anything real. 11-22-2014 7:45am
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            • You can't let yourself think about it that way. The failing was his. He was not honest with himself or with you about what he wants. There are plenty of fish in the sea and you...(more) 11-22-2014 7:48am
              are a sexy, desirable, lovable woman who will find someone lucky enough to want to make you happy
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              • Ty. That's kind. Still can't help feeling if I had a better body or was prettier that he would have went for it kwim? I mean if I looked like any say hot actress or model, would...(more) 11-22-2014 7:56am
                he have had such restraint? Doubt it. That's what I keep coming back to. I was not desirable enough. I'm not fishing for a compliment from a stranger here. I just think that's the bottom line truth.
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                • No. No. No. It's far more complicated than that. While I understand -- believe me -- the slide into self-criticism, you have to look at it more broadly. There are all sorts of...(more) 11-22-2014 8:02am
                  perfectly understandable practical and emotional reasons for him to back out that have not one thing to do with your desirability. The selfish thing is that he isn't leaving you alone even though he isn't willing to go through with this. He's only coming back to have is own ego massaged. That's cruel and selfish. Find someone new. You deserve it and he will be good to you.
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                  • Sigh. Ty. Not sure I ever want to do anything like this again 11-22-2014 9:54am
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                • Nope if you were a super hot actress he's have performance anxiety and not be able to get it up. He's a loser baby. 11-22-2014 1:25pm
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    • What a dipshit. Him. Not you. 11-22-2014 9:33am
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      • Op: I'll take that. Thx! :) 11-22-2014 9:55am
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        • Seriously. What sort of a fucking loser acts this way? 11-22-2014 1:10pm
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    • So his other pursuits have dried up and he's back to you. I would only use this contact as a way to ask him questions about his sexual dysfunction and why he backed off. Otherwise...(more) 11-22-2014 3:33pm
      He's not worth your time and dignity
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      • How would you ask him about the sexual dysfunction? 11-23-2014 2:10pm
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        • "so what happened that time we were together- you went from semi hard to coming in about 2 seconds. is that how it usually is for you?" or "that time we were together you came...(more) 11-23-2014 9:01pm
          before you were really hard. is that because you were nervous or...?"
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          • This makes me feel kind of sorry for him. Not sure what it would accomplish? I am curious 11-23-2014 9:42pm
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            • yeah, i just want the answers ;) have you ever been able to just say, dude, what's the deal, why did you go cold after that experience? 11-25-2014 11:23pm
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  18. Cleveland Had drunk sex with DH last night and he admitted that his biggest fantasy is to watch me fuck another guy 11-21-2014 11:16pm (6 replies)
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    • Hello me. That is what dh is pressing for. 11-21-2014 11:17pm
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      • have you ever cheated on him? 11-21-2014 11:18pm
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        • no 11-21-2014 11:19pm
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          • what do you say back to him? 11-21-2014 11:20pm
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    • Pretty sure my exh was turned on thinking about me and my affair togther after he found out about us. 11-22-2014 7:52am
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    • both dh & exaff talked about this. totally bullshit when i tried to get them together. 11-22-2014 11:47am
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  19. Cleveland Detox mom here. seems like he is doing the same. last communication was on wednesday. 11-21-2014 8:03pm (7 replies)
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    • ^^^I was tempted to text him just now. Came here first. 11-21-2014 8:06pm
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    • Focus only on YOU. Focus on the positives of not having to deal with him. No constant texting/being chained to your phone. No horrible, relentless guilt and fear of getting...(more) 11-21-2014 8:49pm
      caught. You are getting free of him and of this entire situation. It was not a good situation. You are doing the right thing. Stay focused. Don't let your "addicted to the affair" side take over.
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      • op:still clean. thank you 11-21-2014 11:11pm
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        • Np: :) good job. I am a 11-22-2014 2:08pm
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          • ^^^also no communication from either of us since Wednesday AM, after...(more) 11-22-2014 2:10pm
            His lame, non responsive email. I am proud of this little accomplishment. Every day it's a bit harder bc it solidifies more that he is done. But every day I also feel a bit more empowered.....
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            • op:right. Each day that goes by its just proof I meant so little & we were together for 3yrs. 11-22-2014 4:41pm
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              • ^^^how long were you guys together? 11-22-2014 4:49pm
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  20. Cleveland What would be a good opening line to say to someone you often see during your commute? 11-21-2014 11:57am (4 replies)
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    • Crazy weather, huh? 11-21-2014 11:57am
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    • "I have a question, and I wanted the [male/female] POV on it. Would you mind if I asked you?" 11-21-2014 11:59am
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    • you may remember me from such trains as the 7:15 out of Matawan 11-21-2014 12:00pm
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    • "Ever been to Boston? Wanna fuck?" 11-21-2014 8:48pm
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  21. Cleveland Quick shout out to an old friend. I saw you walking on Park last night. You still look fucking hot. 11-21-2014 10:13am (14 replies)
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    • are you a dh or dw? 11-21-2014 11:28am
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      • Dh 11-21-2014 11:28am
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        • did you meet your "friend" here? 11-21-2014 11:30am
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    • What makes her so hot and what happened to her? 11-21-2014 11:38am
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    • Sup Stalker 11-21-2014 1:00pm
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    • KC still drooling for Q. Go to the dentist! 11-21-2014 2:44pm
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      • i do miss Q (I'm not KC) 11-21-2014 2:55pm
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      • I don't think it's Q 11-21-2014 3:04pm
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      • Get. A. Life. 11-21-2014 5:04pm
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        • Says. The. Person. Not. Only. On Youbemom. But. Cleveland. 11-22-2014 1:20pm
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    • Perhaps she does not want a shout out? 11-21-2014 3:17pm
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    • Thanks! 11-21-2014 6:08pm
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    • Thanks bro, I am still working out a lot and eating right, followed dw's advice and drinking tons of water too! Appreciate it. 11-24-2014 12:48pm
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  22. Cleveland Why would a man choose to be all emo, no sex? 11-21-2014 2:54am (8 replies)
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    • Has sexual issue, 11-21-2014 3:01am
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    • dh: no real man choose emo. 11-21-2014 6:38am
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    • DH here: men don't think emo is really cheating. 11-21-2014 8:47am
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      • what's the point of emo for a man? 11-21-2014 11:29am
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        • what do you mean the point? 11-21-2014 2:35pm
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        • attention, affirmation, distraction. same as for a woman. 11-21-2014 6:02pm
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    • Fucking another woman is a HUGE line to cross. The emo route is probably a lot safer in his eyes. Personally, I feel like emo is just a big tease. 11-21-2014 9:59am
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    • Because he is a little bitch? 11-21-2014 1:00pm
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  23. Cleveland I went looking for my stalker tonight. Lingered a bit in places. Decided to head back and heard familiar footsteps. I ran. Chickened out or wised up at the very last moment. 11-20-2014 11:52pm (14 replies)
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    • is this a guy you work with? 11-20-2014 11:54pm
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      • No. Neighborhood. 11-20-2014 11:56pm
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        • deets please. 11-20-2014 11:56pm
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          • op: He spots me & turns up places. Knows my schedule. I could be walking the dog, laudry or just coming home from work. He pops up. 11-21-2014 12:02am
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            • jesus. have you talked to him or is this some kind of boo radley guy? 11-21-2014 12:06am
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              • yes. we've spoken. kissed a few times. 11-21-2014 12:08am
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                • you're married, i assume. is he? 11-21-2014 12:09am
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                  • op:yes. He is. 11-21-2014 12:21am
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    • Please post back when he rapes and kills you then chops you up. Oh wait, I mean tell him to report back! 11-21-2014 12:23am
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    • Sweet so now you are the stalker. 11-21-2014 8:44am
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      • op:how ironic, no?! Glad I ran. Slept better 11-21-2014 11:19am
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    • You have no idea how dangerous and stupid this is. You think you are powerful, but you are being PLAYED. This stalker is a manipulative psychopath, and you cannot win a whatever...(more) 11-21-2014 8:52pm
      sick/crazy game he is playing. JUST STOP IT. You are too blind to see. Stop this nonsense, and report back in a few months how mortified you are that you ever behaved this way. Seriously, sister. It's nuts.
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      • op:Was in a bad place. Haven't seen him or have I had any desire to see him. thanks. 11-22-2014 5:58pm
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  24. Cleveland Things eventually come to an end.. It's hard sometimes, but have to keep moving forward. 11-20-2014 12:13pm (2 replies)
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    • yes. best to make most of them when in your life. 11-20-2014 1:01pm
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    • It is so true. It's hard to accept some day and others it's so freeing. 11-20-2014 2:27pm
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  25. Cleveland My period is due today. no sign of it, day is still young.. 11-20-2014 11:24am (9 replies)
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    • its your affairs baby? 11-20-2014 11:24am
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      • nah, I am sure I'll get it tonight. 11-20-2014 11:29am
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    • How old are you? 11-20-2014 11:26am
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      • 38. 11-20-2014 11:31am
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        • Probably not peri. I am sure it will come soon. :) Are you TTC? 11-20-2014 11:33am
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          • not at all. just usually like clock work. very difficult to get me pg. ty! 11-20-2014 11:36am
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    • Did you kiss your stalker yesterday? 11-20-2014 12:09pm
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      • he got her preggo 11-20-2014 2:26pm
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    • op:still no sign. I have been under a lot of stress, I am sure tomorrow it'll be here. 11-20-2014 9:50pm
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