Cleveland

  1. Cleveland Had annual GYN exam today. Boy, they arent as easy breezy prior affair days. I was shitting bricks while waiting for mu hiv results. 25 min ago (0 replies)
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  2. Cleveland I feel like half these crazy stories may be fake but then I have to believe them because my story is one of the crazier ones and it's real, very real. (Affair with family friend...(more) 2 hr 27 min ago (5 replies)
    mom. But now ex-affair mom.)
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    • my story sounds made up. in 6 weeks my partner moved out, then the apartment burned down, and then I lost my job. 2 hr 26 min ago
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    • ITA. It makes me grateful for my relatively drama-free affairs 2 hr 26 min ago
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    • ^although it's not crazy to me at all. It's just that when I posted about it some people didn't believe it. Never occured to me it was that unbelievable. To me the crazy ones are...(more) 2 hr 26 min ago
      the multiple affair moms or the AM moms. Anyway, carry on. Happy Holidays.
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      • multi affairs & AM affairs aren't crazy. signed stalker mom. 1 hr 40 min ago
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    • You are talking about me, arent you? 1 hr 41 min ago
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  3. Cleveland I'm sad. Boyfriend flew home today. Won't see him until the new year. 5 hr 19 min ago (1 reply)
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  4. Cleveland I had sex with affair yesterday during the day. then showered. then in the evening had date night with dh and sex with him too. i'm such a slut 13 hr 28 min ago (10 replies)
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    • suuuure 13 hr 24 min ago
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    • I cannot imagine fucking around on the man I love. Do you love your husband? Honest question not out to flame you. I fucked around on my ex husband but I hated him and we never...(more) 13 hr 10 min ago
      had sex.
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      • i do, i don't moral high ground. im addicted to thrill seeking 13 hr 7 min ago
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        • np - I don't believe this. No one who has any ounce of feelings would put a person they love at risk for that kind of hurt. 10 hr 56 min ago
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    • Ive done this. Did you use a condom? 11 hr 42 min ago
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      • hijack: does the taste of condom completely go away after a shower? 5 hr 49 min ago
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        • you mean will the taste still be there when dh goes down on you? 1 hr 40 min ago
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    • btdt; First time I felt terrible. 11 hr 3 min ago
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    • This is a line I could never cross, and I crossed some big lines. We all have our things though. I had to wait at least 2 days. I know, I deserve a damn medal. (sarcasm.) 9 hr 13 min ago
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      • 2 days! That's probably indicative of WHY you're fucking someone else. 9 hr 12 min ago
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  5. Cleveland @ christmas party work. planning to meet up with my stalker in a bit. I am a little buzzzzzzed. 12-18-2014 7:28pm (17 replies)
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    • this can only end well 12-18-2014 7:40pm
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      • sex was good. I was so aware of the newness took me a bit to get lost in him. 11 hr 41 min ago
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    • let me know how it goes 23 hr 32 min ago
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      • It was crazy. He didnt climax. He offered me coke. At least thats what I think it was. I think this is the reason why he didnt come. He wants to meet up again. This most likely...(more) 11 hr 42 min ago
        wil not happen. He i so different from my exaffair. Sexuall that is.
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        • Come on! He's a coke snorting stalker!? 11 hr 19 min ago
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          • I have known him for years. He works 7days a week crazy hours. Ive always wondered how he kept up. 11 hr ago
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    • I hope you don't arrive home in a hefty bag, in 27,000 pieces. 20 hr 59 min ago
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      • op:Iol, I made it back im one piece. 19 hr 39 min ago
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    • Dude.. What the fuck? Coke? I'm telling you, you're play with mother fucking fire at the gas station. 11 hr 15 min ago
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      • op:you are right. Not sure if it was coke. white power in a dime size baggie. 10 hr 40 min ago
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        • I mean it's either coke or heroin. What's your 6-12mo plan? 10 hr 36 min ago
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          • 6-12??? i dont understand. 10 hr 4 min ago
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            • What's it going to be like in 6 months? Does this have legs for 12 months? Do some forward thinking and try to see where this takes you in that time period. 9 hr 53 min ago
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              • I don't know. I was recently abandoned by my long term. Time doesnt matter. 9 hr 27 min ago
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                • Are you the poster with the 4 year thing where his just dropped you? 9 hr 18 min ago
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                  • Op:No. I think there a few of us long term affairs on here. 1 hr 52 min ago
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    • op:looking back on it now & it was very sexy. 9 min ago
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  6. Cleveland Curious as to how you would handle this-- no flames please--my LD FWB connect while in town for our friend's birthday party weekend. Thought we had a good time, but when I look...(more) 12-18-2014 4:02pm (15 replies)
    for him the next night, he is with my friend. She knew I was with him the night before. I refuse to get into a fight over a FWB and I don't want to lose a 15 yr friendship. Not sure what to think. When I tried to talk to her about it, she refused to talk about it, yet calls to tell me about her kids, etc. Weird situation, I know. I have NOT talked to him at all. He did not contact me to explain at all.
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    • Fake. Complicated and fake 12-18-2014 4:03pm
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      • No, sadly, this is true and I am having a hard time being the bigger person, not turning into an adolescent about, wondering if my friend is maniac or if I was that lousy in bed...(more) 12-18-2014 4:06pm
        that he took up with the next thing that came along.
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    • if not fake, get rid of fab, find someone better. as for your friend, she is a pos for doing that. sorry but she knew you were with fwb and she didn't care, and doesn't care...(more) 12-18-2014 4:09pm
      about you.
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      • That's been the hardest part about this--realizing she was never my friend. I am also surprised by her ability to compartmentalize this whole thing. She is still texting him. 12-18-2014 4:13pm
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        • np - hold on, though, if he's just a FWB, he can hang around - or have sex with - whomever he'd like. 12-18-2014 4:14pm
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          • So what goes through a man's mind in a situation like this. I am not trying to make it a judgment about me. He is disposable to me, but it did rock my self confidence. There are...(more) 12-18-2014 4:24pm
            so many layers to this event.
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            • if he is "disposable" then why do you care so much? 19 hr 49 min ago
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        • hard to have to drop a friend of long standing but if she can do this to you she isn't your friend. time to lose her too. sorry, hard situation but something you have to do 12-18-2014 4:17pm
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        • how do you know she is still texting him? 12-18-2014 7:56pm
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          • Because she still calls me to chat. She knows that I know and she knows about me, but acts like nothing happened. I have stopped taking her calls because it's just weird. 23 hr 8 min ago
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            • So she openly talks about it with you? 21 hr 21 min ago
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    • np: something similar happened to me once. except my friend didn't know i was having an affair with him. i learned my lesson. players going to play. play with fire and you're...(more) 23 hr 53 min ago
      going to get burned.
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    • I have questions. 1) Did he fuck her? 2) FWB owes you nothing unless you set up the rules beforehand. I guess that's not a question. 23 hr 31 min ago
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      • I am assuming so... he has said nothing to me, which is frustrating because we used to talk quite a bit. I am curious why he would just stop talking to me-- embarassment, afraid...(more) 23 hr 6 min ago
        to confront me, I don't know. I know he owes me nothing, but he's not a one night stand either.
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    • I would dump them both. They both suck. 20 hr 53 min ago
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  7. Cleveland I am having a hard time lately and know its seasonally related, its cold out. Ended with emo last summer, an old friend, recently he came back round again and I said pls don't,...(more) 12-18-2014 4:00pm (10 replies)
    what is the point of it etc. I am just struggling. Busy in life with family, work, friends, out all the time this time of year. Still I feel like crap.
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    • Reasonable. Feeling lonely feels like crap 12-18-2014 4:01pm
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      • Why does it feel lonely? I ask you in all seriousness. I am around people all the time but I miss him. Its so rediculous 12-18-2014 4:02pm
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        • Because being unfulfilled sexually makes one feel unattractive and lonely and it sucks. 12-18-2014 4:04pm
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          • I am not unfulfilled sexually by DH. Its great actually. We have issues related to child rearing and that has been the problem. That is why I let myself become distracted and now...(more) 12-18-2014 4:05pm
            I am in this stupid mess - of my own making.
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            • I'm sorry. I misunderstood your original post. I thought you had also been having a physical affair with the old friend. The issue is that you resent your dh about the...(more) 12-18-2014 4:08pm
              child-rearing thing, and felt cherished and listened-to by your emotional affair. Those are nice feelings.
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              • thank you for your thoughtful reply. Yeah, something like that I guess. No, it never got to sex. I cannot even imagine how badly I would feel if that were the case. So I feel like...(more) 12-18-2014 4:10pm
                I dodged a bullet. Still just feel melancholy. thanks
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    • It's because you need someone to talk to. That's the purpose emo served. He listened. Didn't judge, or give his opinion, just listened. 12-18-2014 4:13pm
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      • I barely spoke to him about DH. He spoke to me about his DW and I just listened. But you are right about listening. Are you a dw or dh? 12-18-2014 4:17pm
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        • I'm a dh. Sometimes you just need someone to process your days with. It sounds like you and dh haven't really processed the child rearing thing 12-18-2014 4:19pm
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    • I think it was very strong of you to push him away when he came around. Did you end it or did he? 12-18-2014 6:50pm
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  8. Cleveland If some guy you slept with once over a year ago contacts you, how would you respond? 12-18-2014 3:00pm (24 replies)
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    • not at all 12-18-2014 3:00pm
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    • Depends.. What were the circumstances 12-18-2014 3:01pm
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      • Slept together once. He couldn't make the time to see me again. I met someone else and when he contacted me in the spring said I wasn't interested. He just texted me again asking...(more) 12-18-2014 3:02pm
        how I am.
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        • I feel for the guy. Sometimes you cross the line and you're not sure if you can keep up the charade at home. It's not that he doesn't want to spend the time with you, he obviously...(more) 12-18-2014 3:13pm
          likes to keep trying, it's just that maybe it's hard for him to manage that double life. You can engage him, just keep up good boundries.
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          • It's a tricky thing though. I don't want to encourage and dont want to piss him off in case he goes bunny boiler on me. 12-18-2014 3:16pm
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            • Well it's been this long. Why do you think he'd go bunny boiler on you? 12-18-2014 3:40pm
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              • I doubt he would. But no point in being a complete bitch. 12-18-2014 3:45pm
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                • I think you should just be cordial. I'm doing fine how are you? How's it going by you. Friend zone him if you don't want to do anything with him. 12-18-2014 3:46pm
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                  • I am. Now he's all like I should've tried harder. You were great. Etc. 12-18-2014 4:23pm
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                    • Then you say thanks, I really appreciate that. Then you take him down the road of having an affair with someone else. Has he found anyone else? She sounds like fun. I'm not going...(more) 12-18-2014 4:27pm
                      back there but I'm sure you'll do fine. Friend zone all the way.
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                      • I basically said I'm flattered and am not interested. He hasnt found anyone else he says and I didn't respond to his last text. Dunzo 20 hr 39 min ago
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                        • Good. Now he knows his place. 11 hr 29 min ago
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        • i am jealous. although this did happen with my 1st affair. when he contacted me i was already with my 2nd so rejected 1st. 12-18-2014 6:53pm
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          • Don't be jealous. It's annoying really. 11 hr 18 min ago
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            • but he wants you. did he break up with you? i want my ex to want me. 10 hr 32 min ago
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              • I have no idea why. I haven't spoken to him since spring and was short with him then as well. It just fizzled out bc he couldn't make the time to see me. Then I met current affsir...(more) 9 hr 21 min ago
                Who blows my mind.
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                • i want that too. ex to contact me and someone to blow my mind. shit, i want to be you right now. 9 hr 19 min ago
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                  • I get a lot of interest from previous affairs and now that I'm with current im simply not interested in the attention. Yes of course it's nice to be remembered but annoying to...(more) 9 hr 17 min ago
                    deal with. And current is not happy about that.
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                    • you tell him these things? were u dumped by exs? 1 hr 51 min ago
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                      • I have in the past. No. I've never been dumped. 1 hr 35 min ago
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    • I had that happen but it was after I was divorced. I texted back "Hey! Nice to hear from you. I am divorced now and not hanging with married men. If you and dw are separated lets...(more) 12-18-2014 6:35pm
      hang out" Never got a response. ha
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      • how long ago was this? 12-18-2014 6:54pm
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      • Funny how these great affair guys disappear when you are suddenly single 9 hr 21 min ago
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  9. Cleveland He must be over the moon that he got to break my heart. 12-17-2014 10:23pm (15 replies)
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    • Maybe you are giving yourself to much credit. 12-18-2014 7:56am
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      • what do you mean? 4yrs together. I served him well.There were moments where I wanted to break free & he would manage to pull me in. Made me vulnerable then dropped me like a bomb. 12-18-2014 9:31am
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    • read the love affairs of Nathanel P. 12-18-2014 8:38am
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      • ? jist please. 12-18-2014 9:29am
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        • Relationships and how you can easily misunderstand even the best of intentions. 12-18-2014 9:43am
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          • I should read this to gain insight as to why he dropped me? I know he hopes I miss. just wish henwee.man enough to tell me he is done. 12-18-2014 1:53pm
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            • It happens to everyone at some point. You have to take your licks in this business. 11 hr 29 min ago
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              • lol, thanks. 10 hr 4 min ago
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                • Think about it like this. At least you didn't marry the guy! If this was a normal dating situation and you had committed 4 years to this guy then he drops you that would have been...(more) 9 hr 54 min ago
                  markedly worse.
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                  • you are right. it still hurts. The rejection. I miss him. 9 hr 21 min ago
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                    • Rejection will always hurt. You feel bad when you don't get a job you interviewed for, when your mom friends go out without you, or when you make a move on dh and he'd rather...(more) 9 hr 19 min ago
                      sleep.
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                      • does that last one happen to you? 1 hr 50 min ago
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      • great book 12-18-2014 12:11pm
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    • only if you used him. Did you? 12-18-2014 12:17pm
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      • we used each other. To fill our own needs. 12-18-2014 6:51pm
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  10. Cleveland Kim's dd is so pretty (RHOBH) 12-17-2014 10:19pm (2 replies)
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    • Her kids seem nice. Portia is the one I'm worried about. 12-17-2014 10:20pm
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    • a cheater that watches the real housewives series. shocking. 12-17-2014 10:21pm
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  11. Cleveland So I went through a true moment of insanity and had a brief affair with a coworker. It lasted a few months (so fine not a moment of insanity) but I realized it was stupid and...(more) 12-17-2014 10:17pm (1 reply)
    totally not worth it. I didn't even kind of like the guy. He's so annoying and such a loser. Anyway - now he's even more annoying bc I cut it off and he I wants it to continue.
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    • Good for you. 12-18-2014 1:03am
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  12. Cleveland My affair bought me a diamond ring for xmas. I love it but can quite obviously...(more) 12-17-2014 8:20pm (8 replies)
    Never wear it. But it's so beautiful.
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    • you can hand it down to your daughter when she has her 1st affair 12-17-2014 8:21pm
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    • How sweet! Not 12-17-2014 8:21pm
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    • Ever think that he is thinking of you as a whore and that is payment? Sorry but I am very cynical about men. Too many disappointments. 12-18-2014 1:06am
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      • No, he doesn't think that way. He also bought me a book and a pink Floyd album. 12-18-2014 8:18am
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    • Wear it on your right hand. And sell it when the affair is over. 12-18-2014 1:25am
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      • How would she explain it to dh? 12-18-2014 7:57am
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        • Amateurs. She says it's fake and bought it on the street. 12-18-2014 9:37am
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          • Op: it looks very real. I thought about doing that or saying I bought it at one of those jewellery parties 12-18-2014 10:49am
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  13. Cleveland So having a new guy is liberating. was with a guy for 4 yrs and what a difference when its fresh. wow! 12-17-2014 7:22pm (5 replies)
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    • So gross. 12-17-2014 7:24pm
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      • like your face. 12-17-2014 7:30pm
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    • First affair was the gateway drug. You will have many more after the initial thrill wears off or you are caught. 12-18-2014 1:10am
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      • op:this is my 3rd. 12-18-2014 9:32am
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        • ^^^i am not crazy about this one. Just need someone to fill this void. I am attracted to him. He gives off such a good vibe I want to soak it up. 12-18-2014 9:33am
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  14. Cleveland Been with him 3 years and squirted during sex for the first time ever today(with anyone). I can't believe it keeps getting better. I cum and orgasm all the time but damn...(more) 12-17-2014 6:35pm (8 replies)
    That was awesome. I've always done it with fingering, but never during sex. Fucking amazing
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    • You're one nasty ass slut. 12-17-2014 6:40pm
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    • I saw affair last night and had the best orgasm of my life. I swear it went on for a minute. I thought I was going to faint. 12-17-2014 6:58pm
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      • Op- I am still reeling from it. I've had so many orgasms with him and they're great...this took me to a whole other level 12-17-2014 7:05pm
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        • how long together? 12-17-2014 7:16pm
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          • 3 years. We are non emo, really good friends and coworkers. He's single, I'm married. He dates, etc. I am free to see others (and have) but generally we see each other once a...(more) 12-17-2014 7:42pm
            week and just fuck and hang out for a bit. Sometimes we take breaks for a month or so. It's very relaxed.
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            • my single was the same. then something happened & he wont return my calls. enjoy him while you have him. 12-17-2014 9:16pm
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        • Same here. It almost made me cry which I've never ever done before. 12-17-2014 7:44pm
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          • I told him and he was shocked, he's such a dude he didn't really notice the difference. I'm still dyin here. I have to work with this fucker every day too. When I see him...(more) 12-17-2014 8:14pm
            tomorrow I'm gonna have a hard time not getting horny again. Been doing this 3 years!!! Wtf
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  15. Cleveland Condoms. why do you use them? more so not to get pg or stds?...(more) 12-17-2014 1:27pm (9 replies)
    Those in long term use them?
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    • we don't use them anymore. I have an IUD 12-17-2014 1:27pm
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      • op how long with affair? 12-17-2014 1:28pm
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        • 3 years 12-17-2014 2:08pm
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          • aw, that was me & my guy. he was single! 12-17-2014 2:28pm
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    • we don't use 12-17-2014 1:28pm
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    • I have never used any hormonal method or IUD. Just condoms. 12-17-2014 1:29pm
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    • I don't want to get the high five. 12-17-2014 2:47pm
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    • We don't use either. 12-17-2014 4:47pm
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    • stds 13 hr 27 min ago
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  16. Cleveland I emailed him yesterday afternoon and have not heard back. I feel like a fool. 12-17-2014 6:40am (7 replies)
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    • Time to find someone who makes you happy 12-17-2014 6:42am
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      • He did, he made me smile. Not starting another, it is too hard. I know he is thinking of me, that's the hardest. 12-17-2014 6:54am
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        • Why do you think he's not responding? 12-17-2014 6:56am
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          • He might be done and does not want to continue the dialogue or seeing each other. 12-17-2014 7:11am
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        • change your preception. he is NOT thinking of you. He is thinking on how to aviod you so you finally go away. 12-17-2014 8:54am
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    • stop just stop. find a new man. he doesnt deserve so much attention from you. 12-17-2014 8:53am
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    • What are the circumstances around this email> 12-17-2014 9:24am
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  17. Cleveland With each man that passes in my life II begin to think more & more like a man. 12-17-2014 12:12am (3 replies)
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    • ^^^through my life. 12-17-2014 12:13am
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    • lol 12-17-2014 12:17am
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    • like sand through an hourglass...... 12-17-2014 12:17am
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  18. Cleveland So, I fucked my stalker... 12-16-2014 10:46pm (24 replies)
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    • That's one way to get rid of him 12-16-2014 10:48pm
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    • This reminds me of the Rodney Dangerfield joke about how the single woman living alone solved her cockroach problem ... she asked them for a commitment ... maybe he'll leave you...(more) 12-16-2014 10:48pm
      alone now.
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      • op: love Rodney. 12-16-2014 10:58pm
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    • where? 12-16-2014 10:50pm
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      • op @ work. empty office. 12-16-2014 10:59pm
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        • you work with him? 12-16-2014 11:07pm
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          • op: No. Same building. 12-16-2014 11:14pm
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    • Who is stalking whom? 12-17-2014 9:25am
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      • Him to me. Then my long term began to be neglectful. Not giving me what I wanted. Ditched him stood in a spot for 5 min & viola. stalker appeared. 12-17-2014 10:38am
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        • Well if you're fucking him, you can't exactly call him a stalker. 12-17-2014 10:53am
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          • op:not anymore. He has upgraded himself to fuck buddy. 12-17-2014 11:09am
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            • How was it? 12-17-2014 11:30am
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              • Fun. I think he is in love. popped up 2x to kiss me afterwards. 12-17-2014 1:25pm
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                • Nice. Just don't get complacent. You're still at work and you get get fucked more ways than one if this gets out. 12-17-2014 1:37pm
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                  • op: yes. thing is I have no way of contacting him. dont have his # nor does he have mine. insures phones are safe but i miss the texting like i had with previous affair. 12-17-2014 2:59pm
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                    • Do you at least know his name? 12-17-2014 3:06pm
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                      • op:of course. 12-17-2014 3:30pm
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                        • oh so you can look him up in the company directory. 12-17-2014 3:42pm
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                          • no. dont have access to that....i know where he is m-t thats it. 12-17-2014 4:12pm
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                            • I can see how this can be really good for some time but it might just fall to shit if you're not careful. 12-17-2014 4:18pm
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                              • this goes for all affairs, no? 12-17-2014 4:51pm
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                                • This is a little more incendiary because it's in the workplace. At least when it's someone outside of work you can avoid them if the shit goes south 12-17-2014 4:52pm
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                                  • op:very true. 12-17-2014 7:20pm
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  19. Cleveland Truest fact that i've learned here on cleve, best way to get over one is to get under a new one. 12-16-2014 10:34pm (8 replies)
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    • A vicious circle. I have to break it. 12-16-2014 11:12pm
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      • op:how many have you had? 12-16-2014 11:14pm
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    • That was me! But I actually got that advise from toddler back before Cleveland existed. I had to post like affair was a boyfriend because I didn't want to get torched. If only...(more) 12-17-2014 8:06am
      they knew how kind and supportive they were to me when affair dumped me on my sorry ass.
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      • ^advice.. 12-17-2014 8:07am
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      • Why did he dump your sorry ass? 12-17-2014 8:12am
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        • I became too needy. Well he didn't say it but gave me this whole monologue about how beloved me so much and I was hurting and couldn't give me what I needed or wanted. Blah, blah,...(more) 12-18-2014 1:36pm
          blah.
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          • ^how he loved me so much.. 12-18-2014 1:36pm
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          • ^But we got back together after that because I begged like a pathetic woman. But he kept me at arms length and continued to chat with me email and texts. I sent him a text saying...(more) 12-18-2014 1:41pm
            I missed him terribly then got in the shower. When I got out I read a text from him saying that part of his life was over. "Sorry I can't break this off over lunch." This was the fucking man who brought me soup when I was sick.
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  20. Cleveland When dumped how long before he/she tried to reconnect again? 12-16-2014 8:17pm (6 replies)
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    • In my experience it's about 3s - days, weeks or months. 12-16-2014 9:45pm
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      • op:but they always try now don't they. My first did & it was easy to shoot him down because of my current guy. 12-16-2014 10:33pm
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    • Do you mean the dumper or the dumpee? I was dumped. Wondering if he will be back... 12-16-2014 11:11pm
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      • how long ago were you dumped? 12-16-2014 11:15pm
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        • Almost 3 weeks! Haha 12-16-2014 11:23pm
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  21. Cleveland June mom checking in.... :( 12-16-2014 5:50pm (10 replies)
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    • how are you? 12-16-2014 5:50pm
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      • He came back... Emailing he wants to see me. And I did last week.... Affair back on. I am...(more) 12-16-2014 5:54pm
        Hoping that I lose interest before dh finds out again. Dh and i r in therapy - sooo frustrating that dh makes no effort to resume some kind of connections with me.... Treats me like one of the kids.... I am hoping on hope that I lose interest in affair before dh finds out again. He will NOT stick around, I know this. And I will be devastated... I respect him, but cannot stand him. Maybe dh leaving me is the kick in the ass into reality that I need.
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        • how is it being with affair? i would think it would be so awkward at this point since you wanted more and he's made it clear he's not leaving her. is this why you think you might...(more) 12-16-2014 5:59pm
          lose interest?
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          • Op: I don't think so. I don't want him to leave his wife.... I know It would never work... I just feel like I'm maybe a...(more) 12-16-2014 6:08pm
            bit turned off by the fact that he i swe how deceptive he is. Just for sex. At least I'm in it for love... He just wants the thrill,of the sex with what he refers to as " the woman fantasies are made of....". I also realize the stakes are higher for me now and that made it awkward. I was a ball of nerves. For the first time, i faked orgasm with him (and usually he gets me soooo hot, I come 10 times in one afternoon.... ). He's the one whose wife is having surgery tomorrow.
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            • i think it's good you're seeing affair more clearly now. he shouldn't tempt you when the stakes are this high, it's selfish. and yes, it does seem like you are trying to force...(more) 12-16-2014 6:16pm
              your dh to leave you.
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        • ^^^ to clarify by "he will not stick around", I was referring to dh, if he were to find out *again*... 12-16-2014 6:10pm
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        • This is so messed up on so many levels. 12-16-2014 7:08pm
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        • WHY won't you divorce?? How can you go to therapy while cheating? Why would you be devastated? I don't understand any of you. 12-16-2014 8:48pm
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    • were you sexually abused as a child? 12-16-2014 7:45pm
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      • Not that I know of??? Why do you ask?? 12-16-2014 9:08pm
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  22. Cleveland Affair's dw undergoing Laparoscopic Oophorectomy/Hysterectomy tomorrow. 12-16-2014 1:25pm (9 replies)
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    • it is so messed up that he discusses this with you. 12-16-2014 1:28pm
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      • Op: you think? Why? 12-16-2014 1:31pm
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        • boundaries? basic decency? WTF is wrong with you people? 12-16-2014 1:33pm
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          • Op: I suppose. But isn't a major enough event that it would almost be weird I he do not tell me? He told me last week bc we were discussing scheduling... 12-16-2014 1:40pm
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            • i just find extramarital relationships so fucked up that I cannot fathom. 12-16-2014 1:44pm
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              • Oh. Well, that is a completely different issue..... 12-16-2014 1:48pm
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                • No, it isn't. You should get the fuck out of his life. 12-16-2014 1:51pm
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    • Will he be with you during the procedure? 12-16-2014 1:30pm
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      • oh, that's a great idea! She will be knocked out, so no risk. 12-16-2014 1:31pm
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  23. Cleveland Was going to text him, but done giving him more of me. working on a new man. excited. 12-16-2014 11:48am (2 replies)
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    • why are you having an affair? 12-16-2014 11:49am
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    • What text would you have sent? 12-16-2014 11:51am
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  24. Cleveland Men don't miss us the way we miss them. They just move on to the next woman. This makes me feel stupid. 12-16-2014 8:25am (8 replies)
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    • I know it can feel that way, but it's not quite that simple. While men are less likely to fall for the "this is the one for me" trap, he will always remember you with a smile on...(more) 12-16-2014 8:28am
      his face.
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      • Right. They miss you a little if you cross their mind, but not really 12-16-2014 8:49am
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        • I had a torrid affair with a man who seemed to adore me. I'm not sure it could have been faked. Anyway, it ended and I found him online looking for someone just like me. Complete...(more) 12-16-2014 10:04am
          description physical and character and all. FUCKED UP.
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          • thats funny. 12-16-2014 10:19am
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          • How long after? 12-16-2014 5:45pm
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      • You're cheating with a cheater. You're not exactly dating quality dudes. 12-16-2014 5:49pm
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    • You're very wrong. 12-16-2014 6:19pm
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    • That's not true at all 12-17-2014 9:26am
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  25. Cleveland I can not believe how much I miss him. 12-15-2014 10:29pm (3 replies)
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    • where did he go? what happened? 12-15-2014 10:40pm
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    • I am you. It is so hard. 12-16-2014 6:41am
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      • debating on texting him how fucked up this is, not smart right? we were together 4 yrs! 12-16-2014 9:52am
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