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  1. Cleveland Falling back in love hard with ex affair. We were apart for 4 months and have crashed back into it so hard. He's the first guy I've been with that is married (no kids) and the...(more) 6 hr 8 min ago (14 replies)
    first one I've truly loved. Have been with single guys and never got close, they lasted quite long and were great but I was able to keep emotionally distant because they are just not "relationship" type guys. I could see myself being with this guy. He has told me before he wants me to leave with him. I don't think he's totally serious but I have considered. Our emails are so intense. Not just shallow stuff. We've known each other for years. I am crazy about him.
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    • Is this just emo? 6 hr 7 min ago
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      • Oh god no lol. We are very much physical 6 hr 6 min ago
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        • Why so many affairs? 6 hr 5 min ago
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          • Just had one, then another popped up, then ended those when this guy pursued and I realized he was much better than the others and could actually last 6 hr 2 min ago
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            • So this is #3? What's wrong with dh? 5 hr 59 min ago
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              • The other 2 were just physical. I don't even count them. Dh and I are more roommates now. He's like a brother to me 5 hr 55 min ago
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                • So it's only an affair if its emo? 4 hr 33 min ago
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                • Does he consider you a sister to him? 2 hr 55 min ago
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    • Drama. Just leave and be together. 6 hr 6 min ago
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      • I would if I didn't have kids 6 hr 5 min ago
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        • Oh please. I left and I have kids. They are great. 6 hr 5 min ago
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      • exactly. this. 6 hr 5 min ago
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    • you're married? what will you do when you see the mess he leaves in the bathroom? what about his weird habits? how will real life with this guy be in 5 years? 6 hr 5 min ago
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      • I'm not exactly livin the life here now. 6 hr 3 min ago
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  2. Cleveland Ah, that "new affair" smell. Had our first overnight together last night. There was a lot of nudity. It was good. 11 hr 31 min ago (7 replies)
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    • Ew 11 hr 31 min ago
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      • lol 11 hr 30 min ago
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        • Yeah cheating is hilarious. 11 hr 29 min ago
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          • so uncheck Cleveland, you ding dong 11 hr 29 min ago
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    • No one cares. 11 hr 29 min ago
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    • I'd be concerned if there was no nudity 6 hr 6 min ago
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    • So it wasn't as bad as you expected or are you a dif OP than two posts down? 49 min ago
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  3. Cleveland Dh is my rock, he is reliable and never lets me down. When he promises something he delivers 10 times out of 10. These are very good qualities and just what I want from a husband...(more) 4-18-2014 7:04pm (8 replies)
    and father. But...it can be monotonous. I love him now more than ever but...he doesn't excite me. My aff always keep me off balance. Sometimes he's hot,sometimes he's cold. Sometimes he feels guilty, sometimes he celebrates that he's seduced me. I never know what to expect, he disappoints me as often as he doesn't. But it's so thrilling and exciting to always be wondering. One man is my knight in shining armor, the other is my rollercoaster. Neither would make me as happy by themselves
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    • grow the fuck up 4-18-2014 7:05pm
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    • Amazing that you would treat such a good dh so poorly 4-18-2014 7:05pm
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    • Appreciate your DH. Funnily, my affair was the one I could count on 10 out of 10 times. Exdh not so much. P 4-18-2014 7:09pm
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      • Np: I feel this way too. My affair is reliable, has never let me down. Did you end up with affair? 4-18-2014 7:11pm
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        • It's moving that direction. 4-18-2014 7:24pm
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    • You don't deserve your husband. 22 hr ago
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    • Selfish bitch 22 hr ago
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    • What you consider exciting is really that feeling of anxiety from not knowing if the man will call, if he cares abou you, etc. It's a sign of low self-esteem not to be attracted...(more) 20 hr 58 min ago
      to men who really care about you.
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  4. Cleveland No seriously, he's picking me up in a half hour and I am in no mood to deal with him. Help? 4-18-2014 3:27pm (1 reply)
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    • in these kinds of situations I usually find that a quick bj makes them happy and gets them to go away quickly 4-18-2014 6:52pm
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  5. Cleveland A few weeks on AM and I am absolutely blown away by how many bored women there are out there... boredom seems to be the number one driver amiright? 4-18-2014 2:22pm (9 replies)
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    • Are you a DH? 4-18-2014 2:23pm
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      • Yes sorry meant to clarify that 4-18-2014 2:23pm
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    • It is more sexy to say bored than angry or bitter or anything else that might be true 4-18-2014 2:24pm
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      • Op: Ahh, interesting. I guess I didn't consider that. I have been surprised by the levels of boredom expressed, and some of these women don't seem interested in making much...(more) 4-18-2014 2:25pm
        effort.
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        • Np: dw here. I have been on AM for a while and I can tell you, the amount of men claiming boredom is high. 4-18-2014 2:39pm
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      • THIS. It's rarely boredom. It's embarrassing to say my husband's an asshole who won't touch me. 4-18-2014 3:05pm
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    • why are you on AM? have you had affairs before? 4-18-2014 2:32pm
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    • I cheat out of boredom and to thrillseek, but it's not the case for everybody. Some women are genuinely unhappy for one reason or another. I wish I could say that about my...(more) 4-18-2014 6:55pm
      situation, might make me feel less guilty.
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  6. Cleveland Well here's the fucked up thing du jour: made arrangements to spend the night with emo. Now I absolutely do NOT want to fuck him. Awkward. 4-18-2014 2:06pm (8 replies)
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    • If he is cheating to, he has had to come up with deception to get this might. You need to suck his dick at least. 4-18-2014 2:07pm
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      • op: maybe I can feign death 4-18-2014 2:08pm
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        • No, he deserves this 4-18-2014 2:10pm
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          • op: he is single. and how do you know what he deserves? Maybe he's an asshole. 4-18-2014 2:11pm
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        • ^I guess I will have to get extremely drunk. I can't even pretend to be in the mood. 4-18-2014 2:10pm
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          • It's Good Friday for him. Make it a Great Friday. 4-18-2014 2:11pm
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            • op: lolol all right, but this will involve a lot of alcohol 4-18-2014 2:12pm
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    • Cancel. 4-18-2014 3:09pm
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  7. Cleveland Dick pics do nothing for me. Do women normally enjoy such photos? 4-18-2014 11:56am (11 replies)
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    • I do. Can't believe they can be so different. 4-18-2014 12:00pm
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    • I do. But I am grossed out by uncircumcised ones. 4-18-2014 12:01pm
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      • Me, too, ugly 4-18-2014 12:02pm
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      • both my dh and aff are uncirc. i don't care at all 4-18-2014 2:18pm
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    • Not from a man I'm seeing. But if you wanted to show me a dick pic now I'd look 4-18-2014 12:12pm
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      • Ask and ye shall receive - NSFW!!! #dickpicisthenewselfie I love taking them...(more) 4-18-2014 1:01pm
        [IMG]http://i60.tinypic.com/v43t08.jpg[/IMG]
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        • np: this is the first dick pic I have ever seen, and hopefully my last. I don't get the appeal of the medium, which is strange bc I am SUCH a fan of the real thing. 4-18-2014 2:02pm
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          • It is an ugly penis for certain 4-18-2014 5:03pm
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        • You have no head 4-18-2014 5:02pm
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    • no but I enjoy telling him I enjoy getting them because he feels so awesome. I also enjoy the risk he is willing to take on me. 4-18-2014 1:51pm
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    • They do absolutely zero for me in terms of turning me on but I find them helpful for practical reasons. I want to see what I'm dealing with before committing to the affair. I'd...(more) 4-18-2014 6:56pm
      rather not risk it all for something...unsatisfying.
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  8. Cleveland I can't get over this break up. i can't stop thinking about the times it was nice (which i can count on one hand) versus the times he was awful to me. i hate myself for ever...(more) 4-18-2014 10:35am (8 replies)
    having done this a) because it's wrong, and b) because I put myself in a position to be hurt so badly. i love my husband, but this man is like a drug to me. i can't shake the obsession.
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    • normal. still sucks. sorry 4-18-2014 10:40am
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      • np: exactly. btdt. you don't miss him... you miss IT. the high, excitement. you need to treat this like an addiction and remove yourself from any and all...(more) 4-18-2014 11:00am
        temptations/interactions (I changed jobs). like the poster below, I wonder what the hell I was thinking. But even now, about once or twice a year I miss IT. Not him. But the last thing I want to do is go back to that daily hell. I'm so focused and really enjoying everything else about life these days - my job, my dh, my children, my home, hobbies. It's nice to be free of that truly crippling (and unjustified, honestly) obsession.
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        • really, because right now, i feel like i miss HIM. His handsome face, the way he could be so sweet if he saw that i was upset, the way he absolutely conquered me sexually. just...(more) 4-18-2014 4:00pm
          so sad. he is exactly what i want. why doesn't he love me?
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          • np: because he is incapable of loving anyone but himself. There is nothing you could have done differently. Please ask yourself why you would fall in love with such a person. I...(more) 11 hr 34 min ago
            get it, because I did precisely the same thing. In fact, I could have written this post. I'm in therapy now, and what an eye-opener. My attraction to this dude was based upon having 2 narcissistic parents. He made me feel sufficiently bad about myself for me to think "love" when I saw it.
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    • you will not believe me. but in a year or so you will wonder why it was ever so painful . you will be fine. i promise. please trust me. 4-18-2014 10:40am
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    • me too, only I divorced before I got involved with him. 4-18-2014 1:58pm
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    • Oh stick it out a bit longer. It has been a little over 2 months for me, and I'm pretty much completely over it. You'll be surprised how quickly this shit evaporates if you let...(more) 11 hr 36 min ago
      it.
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      • thank you for your kind words. i will take it hour by hour, day by day. 8 hr 31 min ago
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  9. Cleveland Is Cleveland now a conduit for meeting potential affairs? 4-17-2014 11:48pm (8 replies)
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    • no 4-17-2014 11:48pm
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      • seems to be offers floating around 4-17-2014 11:49pm
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    • Can't believe there are creepy dhs trolling and ready at any given moment. 4-17-2014 11:51pm
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      • any more or less than the dws below looking for an affair and considering here? Please. 4-18-2014 12:03am
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    • I was a bit surprised myself. wonder if its the same person? wasn't that the norm on pits? 4-18-2014 9:12am
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    • Si 4-18-2014 1:39pm
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    • Like this is less dignified, or risky, than AM? 4-18-2014 10:23pm
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    • I didn't think it was - just made a random post asking for advice. And ended up chatting with someone. 4-18-2014 11:00pm
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  10. Cleveland But seriously, I am a woman who keep herself in serious shape, has a very prestigious career and has a lovely personality most people find charming. Where can I find a new mutual...(more) 4-17-2014 11:22pm (42 replies)
    Side piece? I don't want love. Just nice respectful treatment and then slightly dirty sex. That so muh to ask? It'd also be nice if our careers were matched.
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    • At work, duh 4-17-2014 11:22pm
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    • I'd date you but I live very far from Cleveland 4-17-2014 11:23pm
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      • Lol, I'm in NYC. So no Panera bread dates for us I guess ;) 4-17-2014 11:24pm
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        • Where's your favorite Panera in NYC? I'll buy you coffee there. Maybe even a sandwich. 4-17-2014 11:25pm
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          • I couldn't possibly know, seriously! But give me some stats and i'll think it over 4-17-2014 11:26pm
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            • Professional, witty, fit, smart for starts 4-17-2014 11:27pm
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              • Really? You sound good. How do you propose I find out if you're the real deal? Cause I am. 4-17-2014 11:29pm
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                • Email me and we find out more? 4-17-2014 11:30pm
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                  • What's your email? 4-17-2014 11:32pm
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                    • Inside...(more) 4-17-2014 11:36pm
                      Nycdh2014@gmail.com
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                      • Alexander? 4-17-2014 11:40pm
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                        • ha. hoping for the promised pic? 4-17-2014 11:41pm
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                          • Figured you were fishing with several rods 4-17-2014 11:42pm
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                            • Who is Alexander? 4-17-2014 11:43pm
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                            • So to speak 4-17-2014 11:44pm
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                              • Well good luck with op 4-17-2014 11:46pm
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                                • Np Dh. Are you someone else? 4-18-2014 12:02am
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                      • Sent... 4-17-2014 11:42pm
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    • Lol 4-17-2014 11:23pm
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    • through work? Professional associations? Gym? 4-17-2014 11:24pm
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    • I think you've oversold yourself 4-17-2014 11:24pm
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    • In a bar? Other side of a deal you're working on? I'd hit on you if we were across the table from one another. 4-17-2014 11:24pm
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      • That's how I met the last one. Hot but turned out a little boring/stressed. 4-17-2014 11:25pm
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        • What's your career? 4-17-2014 11:26pm
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    • what kind of dirty sex? 4-17-2014 11:26pm
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      • Interested in phone or cyber? 4-17-2014 11:26pm
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        • neither. i just want to hear what gets you going. 4-17-2014 11:27pm
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      • Lots of blow jobs aba recipe 4-17-2014 11:27pm
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        • Fuck I wasn't finished. I like dirty talk, having multiples, am open to trying the back 9 or maybe another woman. Who knows 4-17-2014 11:28pm
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          • the back 9? is that like the back door? 4-17-2014 11:28pm
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          • Seems like you're missing something but don't know what it is... Need someone to help you find it 4-17-2014 11:29pm
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            • I'm mostly vanilla but with a huge appetite. Like to go multiple rounds. Love giving head. Love acting out fantasies. Etc. Hope that helps 4-17-2014 11:30pm
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              • Sounds worth exploring... 4-17-2014 11:31pm
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          • Back 9??? How many holes you got? 4-17-2014 11:30pm
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            • Golf expression 4-17-2014 11:35pm
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    • You can take my affair off my hands 4-17-2014 11:27pm
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    • I feel this could have been written by me. I want a bit on the side that respects me enough outside the bedroom but disrespects just the right amount inside the bedroom. 4-17-2014 11:29pm
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      • always the tough but welcome combination 4-17-2014 11:31pm
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    • you sound very uptight. 4-18-2014 9:13am
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    • You sound high-maintenance but you just don't know it. 4-18-2014 1:03pm
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  11. Cleveland My student today told me I reminded hert of James Bond...(more) 4-17-2014 11:17pm (4 replies)
    That is pretty much itin terms of compliments
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    • Old and cheesy? 4-17-2014 11:18pm
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    • Why on Cleveland? 4-17-2014 11:19pm
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    • Eh...which one? Sean Connery Bond or Pierce Brosnan Bond? 4-17-2014 11:24pm
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    • Um, you are posting about a student on Cleveland?? Are you sure you should have a job in that field? 7 hr 57 min ago
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  12. Cleveland Ok men: rate yourselves. Looks. Cate 4-17-2014 11:11pm (2 replies)
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    • ^^career. Ability in bed. What elderly outage to bring a woman 4-17-2014 11:12pm
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      • ThAt last part is what do you think you have to offer ap 4-17-2014 11:13pm
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  13. Cleveland Has anyone met someone legit on here? I have a great job and a bangin' body but can't seem to find the right replacement for my old guy 4-17-2014 10:56pm (44 replies)
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    • This is a mommy board! 4-17-2014 10:59pm
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      • Great. So how's your daddy looking these days? 4-17-2014 11:00pm
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      • Why are you on Cleveland then? 4-17-2014 11:01pm
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    • Who are you looking for? 4-17-2014 11:00pm
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      • I'm looking for a busy professional who doesn't mind a woman with a demanding, prestigious job. I'm thin and attractive and all that. I value kind guys with quick wits. 4-17-2014 11:02pm
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        • why haven't we met before? 4-17-2014 11:03pm
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          • Wh are 4-17-2014 11:07pm
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            • WhAt 4-17-2014 11:07pm
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              • Fuck this phone. Trying to Akwjt 4-17-2014 11:08pm
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                • Ask what you seek 4-17-2014 11:08pm
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                  • Smart, sexy, somewhat bored and looking for the thrill of new passion. 4-17-2014 11:11pm
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              • Why haven't we met before if we're looking for each other? 4-17-2014 11:08pm
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        • Are you married I single? Only looking for a single or married man or does it not matter? 4-17-2014 11:04pm
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          • I prefer married, like me, but I'm open As long as boundaries get communicated etc 4-17-2014 11:06pm
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            • I think we're looking for the same thing and same boundaries. 4-17-2014 11:07pm
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              • How big is your dick? 4-17-2014 11:08pm
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                • I don't have. 4-17-2014 11:09pm
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                  • That's someone else jumping into the thread 4-17-2014 11:10pm
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                • But I have a big dick personality. I like uninhibited sex. I like watching pork. 4-17-2014 11:10pm
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                  • I love watching AND eating pork, preferably while fucking 4-17-2014 11:12pm
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        • Are you still here, op? 4-17-2014 11:15pm
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          • Yep 4-17-2014 11:16pm
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            • How are you going to find your guy? Wait for him to dazzle you with wit? 4-17-2014 11:18pm
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              • Or with a dick pic 4-17-2014 11:19pm
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                • Aim high! 4-17-2014 11:20pm
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                  • I'm kidding and also not op 4-17-2014 11:22pm
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                    • Figured as much. Too bad... I have an astonishing dick pic. 4-17-2014 11:23pm
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                      • I dare you 4-17-2014 11:24pm
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                        • Not here in public... 4-17-2014 11:25pm
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                          • Your name is tattooed on it? Impressive. 4-17-2014 11:26pm
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                            • Just first and last not middle 4-17-2014 11:27pm
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                              • Well here's hoping your name is Alexander. 4-17-2014 11:28pm
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                                • They call me The Great 4-17-2014 11:29pm
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            • How will you know when you find him? 4-17-2014 11:22pm
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              • OP. Not sure. Didn't see the last one coming until...well, he did. 4-17-2014 11:52pm
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    • I've heard of people who met someone. Better here than AM. 4-17-2014 11:01pm
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      • Has to be better than AM. I post one bikini shot and got hundreds of creepy responses. It was too much 4-17-2014 11:03pm
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        • Exactly. Meet through words and skip the creepies. 4-17-2014 11:04pm
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    • I would travel for A 4-17-2014 11:04pm
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      • Good guy. But not sure how to evaluate 4-17-2014 11:05pm
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        • Why not? Email. Talk. Get to know him. 4-17-2014 11:06pm
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          • You could try doing this with your dh 4-17-2014 11:09pm
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            • Why are you on Cleveland if you're going to moralize? 4-17-2014 11:10pm
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    • Sorry any grown woman that describes herself as having a "banging body" is probably not my type and not nearly as 'professional' as she claims 4-18-2014 1:25pm
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  14. Cleveland Do all men describe themselves as good looking? 4-17-2014 10:47pm (2 replies)
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    • Actually most don't 4-17-2014 10:48pm
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    • no but they all think they deserve a supermodel. It's weird. 4-18-2014 9:44am
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  15. Cleveland I had to let him go. It was making us both nuts. He says he will be back but we'll see. I have my doubts. 4-17-2014 10:33pm (0 replies)
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  16. Cleveland I don't want to be like this anymore. But I'm like a crack addict. Help. 4-17-2014 7:40pm (2 replies)
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    • I feel the exact same way. I can only imagine what a drug addiction is like but I think it's a lot like an affair addiction. The highs, the lows, the withdrawal. If I was able to...(more) 4-17-2014 8:12pm
      help myself I'd help you too.
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      • There are times when I truly feel that I will need an in patient detox bc of this. I'm not strong enough otherwise 4-17-2014 8:47pm
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  17. Cleveland This article supports school of thought that monogamy is not a reasonablebexpectation to have of men. i think it 4-17-2014 4:29pm (4 replies)
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    • Lol 4-17-2014 4:30pm
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    • sorry. i think it's exactly the same for women. At least it is in my marriage..... http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/cultural-animal/200806/fathers-who-leave 4-17-2014 4:30pm
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    • I always say monogamy is a worthy ideal, but when we fall short of it that shouldn't be an automatic dealbreaker 4-17-2014 6:26pm
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    • this is what I think.. and I am divorced after a long marriage. I think it is a worthy goal, but it is also ok to acknowledge that a choice you make in your 20s just might not...(more) 4-17-2014 6:27pm
      work for 60 years.
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  18. Cleveland It's been months but I know he's going to call again someday. Anyone have an affair pop up again after long hiatus? How did you respond? 4-17-2014 7:59am (10 replies)
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    • Yeah, drunken booty call 4-17-2014 7:59am
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      • Me, too, all he cared about was using me for the sex 4-17-2014 8:02am
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    • What's your goal? 4-17-2014 8:05am
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      • seriously, my xaffair once simply told me, "what can I do?". It's true. I was never leaving dh. & he was single . 4-17-2014 9:16am
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    • Its been 3 wks for me (I think). Not sure if mine will pop up but best part about it is that I don't care. Absence does not make my heart grow fonder at all. GL 4-17-2014 9:21am
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    • I've had 3 flings/affairs. One ended for a few months and he came back begging, I put him off for a while then we started again (just sex), one ended badly and was off for a year...(more) 4-17-2014 9:29am
      Before he came back with a vengeance, of course we started again now ended again due to same issues but he's asking to get back together. The third was very serious and ended sadly...no contact for 3-4 months and now talking and planning to meet again. They all come back
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    • Mine don't come back. I close that door pretty damn hard. 4-17-2014 9:46am
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      • They all don't come back. I had one not come back. So thankful for that now. 4-17-2014 12:24pm
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      • This is me. Mine is now terrified of me, as well he should be. 4-17-2014 6:46pm
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  19. Cleveland Don't the hotels you go to ask for a photo ID from one of you when you check in? 4-16-2014 9:32pm (4 replies)
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    • Not the pay by the hour ones 4-16-2014 9:33pm
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    • You are overthinking this. 4-17-2014 7:57am
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    • please stop cheating. you can't do it. 4-17-2014 12:25pm
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    • why in the world would you care if the hotel clerk saw a photo id of you? 4-18-2014 1:53pm
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  20. Cleveland Is your office open or closed this Friday? 4-16-2014 4:43pm (16 replies)
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    • why you want to hook up? 4-16-2014 4:44pm
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      • I could be tempted but not sure what that has to do with your office being open. 4-16-2014 4:44pm
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        • um the board 4-16-2014 4:47pm
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          • i see. thanks. want to hook up? 4-16-2014 4:47pm
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            • sure//// are you a guy? cause i need to get laid 4-16-2014 4:48pm
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              • i am. you're a dw? 4-16-2014 4:49pm
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                • im a single mom 4-16-2014 4:51pm
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                  • are you in ny or whereabouts? 4-16-2014 4:51pm
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                    • yeah 4-16-2014 4:52pm
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                      • want to talk more on email? 4-16-2014 4:54pm
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                        • or is here better? 4-16-2014 4:58pm
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              • curious to hear more if you're interested... 4-16-2014 5:06pm
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                • yeah once she gets a look at you she will lose interest. You'll never EVER get someone in my league again. ;) 4-17-2014 6:44pm
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                  • did I have you once? 11 hr 35 min ago
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      • ha. wrong board lol. 4-16-2014 4:44pm
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    • No. But my affair and I will be there for a few hours in the morning. The afternoon will be devoted to family time 4-17-2014 6:28pm
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  21. Cleveland If you meet in a hotel, how does it get paid for without dh/dw finding out about it on credit card? 4-16-2014 4:36pm (12 replies)
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    • pay cash, go to an hourly place 4-16-2014 4:39pm
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      • don't big cash withdrawals raise questions too? where do you find hourly places (and are they ok/nice not scuzzy)? 4-16-2014 4:40pm
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        • Take $20 out every couple days. I've seen then when I've been just driving around. 4-16-2014 4:42pm
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          • ok, good to thought. are you in nyc? recommendations? 4-16-2014 4:42pm
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            • idk.. maybe by the airport? 4-16-2014 4:47pm
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              • more looking in manhattan 4-16-2014 4:47pm
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                • I've seen places on 8th ave 4-16-2014 5:11pm
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                  • ok thanks. where do you meet? 4-16-2014 5:13pm
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    • Buy a visa gift card 4-16-2014 5:04pm
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      • thats clever. so it shows up as a gift then you use that? 4-16-2014 5:06pm
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        • You can get them at office supply stores, target, etc 4-16-2014 10:01pm
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    • you can reserve on cc then pay cash when get there. 4-16-2014 8:39pm
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  22. Cleveland Bored. I won't contact him though. So proud of me. 4-16-2014 10:15am (2 replies)
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    • who? 4-16-2014 10:17am
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    • Dude. Kudos. He's a jackasss, move on. 4-17-2014 6:42pm
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  23. Cleveland Fuck. missed him again! damn. now I probably wont bump into him until next week. 4-16-2014 9:24am (5 replies)
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  24. Cleveland The thing that might suck the hardest about being so thoroughly rejected is now I feel like I need proof or validation from someone else that I'm still desirable. Yet I don't want...(more) 4-16-2014 7:00am (7 replies)
    To do something this painful ever again. So now I'm just left with this horrible memory of this guy who ultimately didn't want me. Ugh. Advice?
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    • Stop letting a man determine your worth. Wtf. 4-16-2014 7:02am
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      • This! Although, finding a new man would make it much easier, withoit the right mindset you'd be right back to where you started. 4-16-2014 9:29am
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    • This is the way you are interpreting what happened. With an affair it is much more that the situation wasn't working than a rejection of you. 4-16-2014 7:04am
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    • Whore. 4-16-2014 7:21am
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      • I really didn't get to be one, that's my problem 4-16-2014 8:11am
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    • What I do when I feel like this is find a new guy to bang. Preferably hotter than the last guy 4-16-2014 9:33am
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      • This is the yb mantra 4-16-2014 10:16am
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  25. Cleveland I'll know I'm 100% over it when I don't even check the Cleveland board anymore to hear your stories. But I'm 90% over it, so that's good. Also, I still want to say "out l...(more) 4-15-2014 7:30pm (3 replies)
    horrible that affair experience was, what a selfish asshole he always was (from day one), and how he never gave me even a single orgasm. I don't know why I put up with this loser for over a year and a half. End of rant.
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    • Ugh it sounds terrible. I wish I could say my affair is an asshole who sucks in bed. Would be so much easier to move on 4-15-2014 8:08pm
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      • op: it did make it a whole lot easier to get over it. All I have to do is remember that even on our very best day, he had no interest in me at all, he just wanted a blow job. 4-15-2014 8:10pm
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        • Ugh that is such a turn off. Good riddance 4-16-2014 3:52pm
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