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  1. Cleveland Open marriage versus cheating....(more) 3 hr 5 min ago (2 replies)
    After reading a number of post here, I am getting the idea that a lot of the thrill of cheating is the secrecy and sneaking around and if the cheaters were is an open marriage, the thrill would be gone.
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    • probs 3 hr 5 min ago
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    • no, i just want good, un-stale sex. 3 hr 2 min ago
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  2. Cleveland Describe the last time you were with affair. Where? How long? How long have you been together? 4 hr 48 min ago (0 replies)
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  3. Cleveland Affair and I are going to see a movie tonight (Insurgent, I think). She suggested I wear something loose-fitting because she wants to give me a BJ at some point during the movie. 10 hr 18 min ago (6 replies)
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    • I love giving my DH head in movie theatres. enjoy! 10 hr 17 min ago
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    • gross. 10 hr 17 min ago
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      • only if she spits in stead of swallowing 10 hr 17 min ago
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    • note to self: don't sit next to couple when the guy is wearing loose pants 10 hr 16 min ago
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    • I've done this. It can be really hot. 10 hr 11 min ago
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    • and? 10 hr 2 min ago
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  4. Cleveland Spent last night with my single fuck buddy. I think we had sex at least 10 times. I'm so tired I can barely stand up today 17 hr 42 min ago (6 replies)
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    • Really cool. What was the best? 17 hr 36 min ago
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    • Why only one fuck buddy? 17 hr 36 min ago
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    • Anal? 17 hr 31 min ago
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    • and you had 100 orgasms 14 hr 30 min ago
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      • I had a lot, yes. 10 hr 25 min ago
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        • More than anyone else ever has 9 hr 16 min ago
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  5. Cleveland Does anyone belong to a cheaters anonymous group? 3-27-2015 9:31pm (3 replies)
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  6. Cleveland Feeling better today. its like if i was stronger I could almost go on like affair never happened. Its been one week of no contact. 3-27-2015 8:50am (7 replies)
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    • please, PLEASE, keep it up. i was the dumped by text/icloud poster. I have finally pulled my head out of my ass and am feeling pretty great after a short amount of time treating...(more) 3-27-2015 9:03am
      myself like a worthwhile person and doing things that enrich me, not destroy me. the very first step was committing to NO CONTACT. it's hard, but it gets easier exponentially fast. i promise. no one was more pathetic than I was, and so if i can do it, so can you. gl and keep posting here if you need to.
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      • op:thank you. how do you deal with the loniness? 3-27-2015 10:01am
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        • i will not lie to you. it was agony and a lot of crying for about a week. i watched tv, read, walked my dog, went to the gym, tried (usually failed) not to eat and drink too...(more) 3-27-2015 10:09am
          much, hung out with my sister and her new grandbaby. just do things that make you feel ok. then i started therapy and have taken a few online classes. you will get there. it takes effort every day. i am stickying this. post back whenever you want. when i was at my lowest, a couple of posters on here were supportive and wonderful. hang in there, you have my best wishes.
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          • you are so sweet. ty! & I'm glad you are doing well. 3-27-2015 11:23am
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    • Emo left suddenly for 3 months, the first month was dreadful. He came back when I was already starting to be ok. 3-27-2015 10:29am
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      • did u ever think he'd be back? what did u do? 3-27-2015 11:22am
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        • There were moments I thought he would be back but when he did, it was as sudden as when he left. 3-27-2015 1:26pm
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  7. Cleveland Having a hard time forgiving myself, I didn't sleep with another guy, but could have come close 3-26-2015 7:23pm (34 replies)
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    • how far did you do? 3-26-2015 7:24pm
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      • Kissing, inappropriate touching 3-26-2015 7:26pm
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        • How inappropriate? Spill it. (Did he?) 3-26-2015 7:27pm
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          • Hand job 3-26-2015 7:27pm
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            • Ok, yes, that is pretty inappropriate...(more) 3-26-2015 7:28pm
              But did you enjoy it?
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              • I mean I gave HIM one.... 3-26-2015 7:30pm
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                • He just touched my boobs 3-26-2015 7:30pm
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                  • ^^I feel like I'm 15 3-26-2015 7:31pm
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                  • Sounds like he won. 3-26-2015 7:31pm
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                    • Well, he tried, but I had my period, so... 3-26-2015 7:31pm
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                      • where did you do this? 3-26-2015 7:34pm
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                        • A party 3-26-2015 7:35pm
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                          • And I feel awful about it. We were both drunk. He had smoked some pot too. Just so dumb. 3-26-2015 7:36pm
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                            • where did you meet him. are you going to see him again? 3-26-2015 7:37pm
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                              • A neighbor. I see him around, but not in the sense you probably mean. 3-26-2015 7:38pm
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                                • are you going to try again? 3-26-2015 7:40pm
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                                  • Nooo. Although I do think about it. I think that's part of the reason I feel so awful 3-26-2015 7:40pm
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                                    • is he married? 3-26-2015 7:41pm
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                                      • Yes <cringe> 3-26-2015 7:42pm
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                                        • this was at a neighborhood party? where was your DH and his wife? and other? how did you find the time? 3-26-2015 7:43pm
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                                          • Yes. Ugh, I shouldn't be talking about it. I should jsut get over it 3-26-2015 7:45pm
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                                            • where was everyone else? 3-26-2015 7:46pm
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                                              • Upstairs 3-26-2015 7:47pm
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                                                • how did you engage him? was he flirty before? 3-26-2015 7:47pm
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                                                  • He's a friendly guy. I'm so bad at flirting cues. I honestly don't remember what led up to it. We were in the basement chatting there was a pool table down there, just dumb dumb...(more) 3-26-2015 7:50pm
                                                    dumb
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                                                    • It's like a bad Lifetime movie 3-26-2015 7:51pm
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                                                    • did anyone suspect anything happened since you were alone down there for so long? 3-26-2015 7:51pm
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                                                      • No, I don't think anyone noticed. Big drinking crowd 3-26-2015 7:52pm
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                                                        • When was this? 3-26-2015 7:53pm
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                                                          • A month ago 3-26-2015 7:54pm
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                                                            • And I still see him around but never say anything 3-26-2015 7:55pm
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                • I realize that. 3-26-2015 7:30pm
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    • Did you make out with this guy once before? 3-26-2015 7:54pm
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  8. Cleveland Does garage mom ever post here anymore? 3-26-2015 7:12pm (43 replies)
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    • Actually I lurk more. Post occasionally ;) 3-26-2015 11:01pm
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      • I had a question for you....(more) 3-27-2015 2:17pm
        Do you feel weird seeing your neighbor all the time?
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        • Not really. I texted him today bc I wasn't sure whether I left my garage door open or not. But...(more) 3-27-2015 4:49pm
          We also work for the same employer and don't see each other. If he wanted to do something he has lots of opportunity and it only happens when we've been drinking and at this point I've stopped drinking so it's not going to happen again.
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          • So you just talk to him normally? I made out with a neighbor and I still get freaked out when I see him 3-27-2015 6:34pm
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            • Completely normally. Don't really have a choice. We live right across the street and see each other socially etc. I have to act normally. 3-27-2015 7:37pm
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              • So you never speak of it? You don't feel weird inside? Not trying to dredge up anything! 3-27-2015 7:57pm
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                • Not really. We've done stuff since the initial encounter. I did for a while afterwards. But not now. We're friendly. 3-27-2015 10:37pm
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                  • I still like this guy, but have no idea if he's still interested. Of course I would never initiate anything because I know it is wrong 3-27-2015 10:53pm
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                    • ^^and how did you find the time? I forget if youactually had sex 3-27-2015 10:56pm
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                    • Don't waste your time with him. If he was interested he would've done something by now and it's such a bad idea to shit where you eat if you get what I'm saying....(more) 3-27-2015 11:19pm
                      We did have sex once. It was really bad and lasted about 10 seconds.
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                      • Well we made out the one time, he was gone for a while and we had no contact, at a party and he put his hand on my ass then at another party we went further 3-27-2015 11:21pm
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                        • Still a really bad idea. All it takes is someone to catch a look or gesture between the two of you. 3-27-2015 11:30pm
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                          • I guess I am just feeling really used 3-27-2015 11:37pm
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                            • He didn't live on my street before, he was a dad at my DC's school, no he is moving down the street 3-27-2015 11:38pm
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                              • Guess I'm just feeling like a big slut, but 3-27-2015 11:39pm
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                                • Eh. You're not. And don't feel used. Just stop letting it be his decision. If you're this starved for attention find someone who is worth it. 3-27-2015 11:59pm
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                                  • how do I know 3-28-2015 12:07am
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                                    • How do you k ow what?? 3-28-2015 12:18am
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                                      • he's not worth it 3-28-2015 12:19am
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                                        • I just hope he's not completely mortified and disgusted 3-28-2015 12:24am
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                                          • Bc having something so close to home is not a good idea. Why do you care so much what he thinks? Speaking from experience - don't let him control you this way. It's never worth...(more) 3-28-2015 12:26am
                                            it.
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                                            • I guess he does have control and he doesn't know or care. so how did it end with you? 18 hr 12 min ago
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                                              • It's not that it ever really started. There have been a few incidents and that's it. I found someone else which helped me not care and showed me that I was totally getting the...(more) 17 hr 47 min ago
                                                short end of the stick with the neighbour.
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                                                • but you did have sex with him, right? in the end was it that it was not good? 17 hr 45 min ago
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                                                  • Yes. It was in the summer and we went for a "walk". It lasted 10 seconds after about 10 min of fooling around. We have fooled around since then once. 17 hr 41 min ago
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                                                    • so you basically were the one to end it? 17 hr 40 min ago
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                                                      • There was/is nothing to end. We fooled around a few times. We are normal and friendly in between those times. We are friends and see each other socially in a group....(more) 17 hr 35 min ago
                                                        I am very good at compartmentalizing as is he. If you're not good at this please leave the neighbour alone or you will blow up a lot of lives if someone finds out.
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                                                        • ok. I'm not. so I have to move on. just having a hard time. I actually like him but I know it us wrong 17 hr 32 min ago
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                                                          • What is it you're lookig for? Do you want to have an affair? Bc there are other ways to do that. Not that I recommend going down that path. At all. Ever. 17 hr 30 min ago
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                                                            • I really don't want an affair. not sure what I want. I wasn't looking for anything. it just happened and now I can't seem to shake it 17 hr 25 min ago
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                                                          • are you still with dh? 17 hr 30 min ago
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                                                            • <-------- look over here. I'm on my phone and losing the thread 17 hr 28 min ago
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    • Hi. Yes I'm still with Dh. But also have an affair 17 hr 28 min ago
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      • I'm on a tablet too so same! I loved 17 hr 24 min ago
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        • love dh. butack 17 hr 23 min ago
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          • Lol. I can tell! I love Dh as well and spent a lot of time and effort attempting to repair our relationship before actually starting an affair. 17 hr 20 min ago
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            • I just feel we do not connect physically and it really wasn't a problem until these "incidents" with this guy 17 hr 18 min ago
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              • Same here. So I spent the next six months trying to improve our physical relationship and it didn't work. Then I signed up for AM 17 hr 17 min ago
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                • I'm just not attracted to him anymore. I am not sure I want the AM route, no judgment at all! I guess I just want closure. 17 hr 16 min ago
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                  • Hope I didn't offend you! You've been helpful! 17 hr 2 min ago
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                    • Not at all offended. I just wish I had never gone down this path. Although it's made me realize that I wasn't happy and now I'm working on being in a better place in life - so...(more) 13 hr 50 min ago
                      there's that.
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                      • Yea, me either. It was two drunken encounters. I think I didn't know what I was missing before and now I think about it a lot. Ignorance is bliss I guess in this case 11 hr 49 min ago
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                        • Exactly. It was like wow I do want to be wanted. 6 hr 53 min ago
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  9. Cleveland I saw my affair in a restaurant with his wife. They couldn't keep their hands off each other. Kissing, handsy, laughing. It didn't look the way he describes it to me. Like they're...(more) 3-26-2015 6:33pm (10 replies)
    in a sexless marriage.
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    • wow, that must have stung 3-26-2015 6:34pm
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    • he lied to you, dumbass 3-26-2015 6:34pm
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    • maybe when they get home one of them is always "too tired" for some serious fucking, but they like the idea of the anticipation of sex. or maybe he's a lying bastard. 3-26-2015 6:35pm
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    • you are a sucker 3-26-2015 6:48pm
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    • it never is. 3-26-2015 7:47pm
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    • Fake 3-26-2015 8:21pm
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    • are you sure it was his wife? ;) 3-26-2015 11:54pm
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    • stalker 3-27-2015 12:50am
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    • I want to see my affair with his dw to see how they interact, just to see if it's like he says. So what are you going to do OP? keep seeing him or not? 3-27-2015 10:35am
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    • this:...(more) 3-27-2015 10:36am
  10. Cleveland I can't do this...miss affair to much. Not even the man himself just the attention he gave me. Usually have new man to get over old one. this time nothing. its like detoxing. will...(more) 3-26-2015 10:20am (8 replies)
    Thid pass???
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    • Yes it will. By the third week, it will better 3-26-2015 10:31am
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      • op: i hope so. things arent great w dh. i am lonely & depressed. its making me bitter. 3-26-2015 10:36am
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        • I'm willing to bet its your relationship with you thats making you depressed more than your relationship with dh 3-26-2015 10:42am
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          • op:I am sure. I haven't had a drink in 3 days. Im trying here, but miserable. 3-26-2015 10:44am
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            • Get some support beyond ybm! 3-26-2015 10:44am
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              • can't no time. dh crazy work has me somewhere all the time. i am @ work or with kids. that is all. 3-26-2015 10:49am
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                • np - not flaming, but you made time to have an affair and if you're not now, then you can use that time to get some help. 3-26-2015 3:47pm
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                  • time for affair was nill. dark places, late hours, short periods of time. its probably why he stopped contacting me. 3-26-2015 7:46pm
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  11. Cleveland June mom, how are you? 3-26-2015 12:35am (0 replies)
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  12. Cleveland How is emoji mom doing? 3-25-2015 2:31pm (9 replies)
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    • backstory? 3-25-2015 2:32pm
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      • aff ended things with an emoji. look down a bunch of posts 3-25-2015 2:35pm
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        • Ok. I'll admit it. That would hurt 3-25-2015 2:35pm
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          • would you respond? 3-25-2015 2:41pm
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            • np- DO NOT RESPOND TO AN EMOJI 3-25-2015 2:42pm
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            • No. I'd be annoyed and hurt and would find a rebound affair PDQ 3-25-2015 2:43pm
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            • &#128546; 3-25-2015 3:58pm
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    • Thats' just C.O.L.D. 3-25-2015 2:41pm
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    • i saw a clip of sex and the city where burger breaks up with Carrie via post it. i thought about emoji mom. 3-25-2015 4:18pm
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  13. Cleveland I am really trying to keep focused & uplifting. Its been a week & I miss the attention. I know its not good for me . I refuse to cave. 3-25-2015 11:02am (3 replies)
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    • Hang in there. It gets better. 3-25-2015 5:41pm
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    • Psycho mom? Give it another couple of weeks. Don't cave. You'll see. 3-26-2015 6:18am
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  14. Cleveland Penis girth importance...(more) 3-25-2015 7:48am (12 replies)
    hi ladies of cleveland. the woman i am fucking often tells me my cock has stretched her out to the point that she can't feel his penis anymore when they fuck. its not that i am huge, i think its more that he is thinish. she always tells me how deep i am fucking her and how i hit her spots and he can't do that for her. here is my question: how come everywhere you look, they say penis size doesn't matter, yet my experience with this woman shows me that can't be true. your thoughts?
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    • Do you wear cologne? 3-25-2015 7:55am
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      • no 3-25-2015 8:11am
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        • Wears perfume bc OP is really a dw 3-25-2015 10:50am
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    • Dear Abby.... 3-25-2015 8:58am
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    • VBA 3-25-2015 10:20am
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      • There's no V in this post. Fittingly. 3-25-2015 8:42pm
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    • He might be "average" but lately not getting very hard. This happens with my dh. Confidence and performance issues can make it difficult to get more than semi hard. Maybe he...(more) 3-25-2015 10:47am
      senses from dw that she's not happy with their sex life.
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      • ^^^And on another note, she is an idiot for telling about her dh's cock. Unless she's just playing head (pun intended) games with you. 3-25-2015 10:49am
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    • She also could be bullshitting you, or more likely exaggerating to make you feel good. I've done it. 3-25-2015 8:43pm
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    • ime, length doesn't matter but girth does. 3-26-2015 1:30am
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      • ^and most of that size doesn't matter stuff is about length 3-26-2015 1:31am
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    • bc women are lying when they say size doesn't matter. Just like men lie about a ton of shit. 3-27-2015 10:38am
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  15. Cleveland 11:11 tonight and thought of someone. sometimes it happens like that 3-25-2015 12:04am (3 replies)
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    • This is how I feel every night. And then I wish. Yet, I find myself here, alone, with nothing to full thr pain of missing someone. Fortunately, there will be another 11:11 and...(more) 3-26-2015 4:11am
      abother chance to wish for my someone's love.
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      • someone's love? who? My 11:11 is on my mind. 3-27-2015 12:53am
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        • Not a someone in general but a specific kind and beautiful someone that I miss and love in the truest sense. thibking about my someone makes me smile and cry at the same time. I...(more) 3-27-2015 6:07pm
          want my someone back.
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  16. Cleveland How would I know if I am bad in bed? Is there a difference between married sex and affair sex? I think I fuck like a wife. 3-24-2015 9:01pm (4 replies)
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    • If you fuck like my wife, enthusiastic, adventurous and insatiable, you are fine. 3-24-2015 9:37pm
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      • if your dw is that good at it, why are you in Cleveland? 3-26-2015 12:14am
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        • np - some guys just can't go without the strange 3-26-2015 3:49pm
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    • You say that like it is a bad thing. 3-25-2015 1:10pm
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  17. Cleveland Was having sex with fuck buddy this morning and he stuck his thumb in my ass and I came instantly, repeatedly. He's done it before but not for so long and with so many orgasms. 3-24-2015 6:39pm (3 replies)
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    • fake 3-24-2015 6:40pm
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      • Why would this be fake? 3-24-2015 6:40pm
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    • poor you for getting this so late in life 3-24-2015 8:38pm
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  18. Cleveland I am talking to 2 new guys. One is crazy into me, constantly tells me he's thinking about me, needs me, misses me. The other is asking me things like what I will do if I really...(more) 3-24-2015 6:37pm (4 replies)
    like him, if I'm looking for love, blah blah. I've had quite a few affairs and I just want to fuck and enjoy the experience and variety. I feel like I'm the man and they're the women. Crazy.
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    • What's crazy is how gross you are 3-24-2015 6:39pm
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      • Get off Cleveland 3-24-2015 6:40pm
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        • Or, get off strange dick. 3-24-2015 6:40pm
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    • its alllll pretend, honey. enjoy it, because it doesnt last & hope that when it ends, it ends well. 3-24-2015 8:38pm
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  19. Cleveland Crap. Affair told me that his wife asked for a divorce last night. She doesn't know about us...(more) 3-24-2015 1:22pm (16 replies)
    I guess when he told me they didn't get along he wasn't lying.
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    • now he is yours 3-24-2015 1:23pm
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    • it's hard to get along when you are emotionally absent because you are having an affair. 3-24-2015 1:23pm
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    • are you married? 3-24-2015 1:24pm
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    • your days are numbers. he is about to hit the singles market and will not be interested in an affair. 3-24-2015 1:25pm
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      • True 3-24-2015 1:25pm
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        • He will no longer be interested in odd hours or hiding things. The excitement fades and becomes more work than just plain old dating. 3-24-2015 1:27pm
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      • np: i would drop HIM at this point. 3-24-2015 1:50pm
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      • Op: I said if this actually comes to pass we are done. Bc I prefer an even playing field. He doesn't want a divorce from her though. So that's good. But from what he said she is...(more) 3-24-2015 7:16pm
        totally done with him.
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    • just words. 3-24-2015 1:48pm
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    • They probably didn't get along at all. Does he want you or were you just a hole? 3-24-2015 2:47pm
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      • He doesn't want a divorce bc of kids. He cares/loves me. Not just a hole to him as far as I know. 3-24-2015 7:17pm
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        • Well he may see you as more than a hole but that doesn't mean he has the kind of feelings for you that you think he does. One of the biggest mistakes women make is to think that...(more) 3-24-2015 8:55pm
          men either are simple pigs or think like women. Neither is correct. But rarely does a man in an affair love like women think he loves
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          • oddly if you had asked me a month ago I would've said he loved me deeply. Now I dont. I think he thinks he loves me. But I know he doesn't. 3-24-2015 9:34pm
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          • this might also be the case for how many married men feel about their wives 3-26-2015 1:33am
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  20. Cleveland He ended things by sending an emoji. 3-24-2015 12:36pm (17 replies)
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    • which one? 3-24-2015 12:37pm
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      • 4 kisses and 3 pig snouts 3-24-2015 12:38pm
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        • OUCH. What does that even mean? 3-24-2015 12:54pm
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        • Fucking lol. 3-24-2015 9:42pm
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          • Can't make this shit up. 3-24-2015 10:10pm
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    • you get what you deserve when you play with fire 3-24-2015 12:38pm
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    • be grateful he didn't wreck your DH and DCs 3-24-2015 12:38pm
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    • were you hoping for a ring instead? 3-24-2015 12:42pm
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      • NO. but something more civil 3-24-2015 12:53pm
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        • are you suppose to be the pig? 3-24-2015 1:47pm
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          • wouldn't you think so? i don't have an emoji to english translator to reference for this. 3-25-2015 10:28am
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        • emojis are cute. 3-24-2015 4:08pm
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          • np:we will be using them instead of typing altogether 3-24-2015 5:01pm
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            • nnp: I have thought perhaps they will replace written language in the lower classes, eventually. 3-26-2015 6:21am
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    • omg, lol. that is so fucked up 3-24-2015 1:33pm
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      • beyond shocked 3-25-2015 10:28am
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  21. Cleveland How long have you been posting on Cleveland? me 2010. 3-24-2015 12:11pm (3 replies)
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    • I'm still waiting to have an experience worthy of my first post. 3-24-2015 12:13pm
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      • how long lurking? 3-24-2015 12:28pm
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    • 2012. 3-24-2015 12:22pm
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  22. Cleveland I was the icloud poster. i am wondering what ever happened to the 4 year poster? if you are on, please let me know what's up with you. thx 3-24-2015 10:18am (0 replies)
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  23. Cleveland Psycho dumped me ya'll 3-23-2015 9:10am (11 replies)
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    • Lol! Not if you're unhappy though but if not then good going! You needed to get rid of that baggage. 3-23-2015 10:20am
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      • op: I did. Miss the crazy but better this way. Odd he just dropped everything. Stopped contacting. From 10000 to 0. Saw him this morning & completley ignored him. He looked...(more) 3-23-2015 10:52am
        good. But def better this way.
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        • i bet this is just another phase in his mind games with you. 3-24-2015 12:19am
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          • op: i had to run out & grab something. when returning he comes out of the building makes some loud fiasco with stopping a bus & running across the street. so odd. Not sure his...(more) 3-24-2015 8:39am
            thinking. I dont think I care much I just have to be aware.
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    • Thank goodness. I don't want you to end up in a sack, in 27,000 pieces. Stay away from that sick fuck. 3-23-2015 10:49pm
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      • op:thank you. I am glad too. Just dealing with empty void. normal. I put my wedding ring back on. Need to focus on my family/dh..sane people. 3-23-2015 10:52pm
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        • or: in about 2 weeks you will be completely fine. But he'll be back. Please don't get sucked back in. Please? He's really a nut job, and you really need therapy. 3-23-2015 11:02pm
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          • op:cant afford or disguise therapy. he was a rebound affair. i can't go back. Will not go back! 3-24-2015 8:31am
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            • ^^^i just hate the feeling of abandonment. loneliness. anyway, head up for me. For the first time in a long time I am free from affairs. I have a great chance here to make things...(more) 3-24-2015 8:36am
              right.
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            • you can't afford not to be in therapy 3-24-2015 4:09pm
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        • are you a dh? 3-24-2015 12:09am
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  24. Cleveland My affair never gave any of the standard lies. Said he loves his wife, will never leave, they have a decent sex life, etc. Always very real. Would that turn you off? 3-22-2015 10:16pm (19 replies)
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    • A married man hitting on me? Yes. 3-22-2015 10:16pm
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    • I m not a sleazebag cunty slut, so I'd never find out. 3-22-2015 10:18pm
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    • Don't you deserve more? 3-22-2015 10:26pm
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      • No, not really. My DH is a good man and so is his DW. I often have dreams about going to hell. I should stop. 3-22-2015 10:29pm
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        • yes. you should. 3-23-2015 2:42am
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    • Why is he cheating if he's happy in his marriage? That's almost worse, imo. 3-23-2015 10:06am
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      • Honestly, he said he didn't want to come to the end of his life wondering what he'd missed out on. We each add a dimension to the other's life. 3-23-2015 3:12pm
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    • He's probably unhappy but doesn't want you to get any crazy ideas about leaving. For whatever reason, he doesn't want a divorce - expensive, stigma, kids. He'd rather stay and...(more) 3-23-2015 10:34am
      have a side piece. He's dragging you along to make his boring shitty life better.
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      • np - keep in mind that no matter whether he's happy or unhappy, he doesn't care about you enough to make you "the one." if that's something that's important to you, that...(more) 3-23-2015 12:39pm
        only thing you should be thinking about. i stopped my affair because it hurt and damaged me too much to know he didn't love me.
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        • This but also keep in mind how he treats a woman he "loves" He cheats on her. 3-23-2015 2:52pm
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          • I'm going to remember this statement right here. Sums it all up. 3-23-2015 4:08pm
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            • Yes remember it. I will never understand why women think a cheating married man is some kind of prize they lost. Wtf? 3-23-2015 4:54pm
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              • because if he chooses you, you "won." you beat his wife. women always see other women as competition. it's sad. 3-24-2015 10:19am
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        • that's well and fine. he doesn't care about either if you, so don't kid yourself that you are special. nothing against you, just a cheating man doesn't live anyone but himself 3-23-2015 5:50pm
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          • THIS THIS THIS 3-23-2015 10:52pm
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          • can't the same be said for a cheating woman? 3-24-2015 8:52am
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            • in my experience, not usually. the woman falls in love 3-24-2015 10:16am
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  25. Cleveland Even though they were all lies, maybe some true. they were nice to hear. 3-22-2015 9:35pm (3 replies)
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    • he made me feel like I was interesting. like what i said mattered. all for sex. 3-22-2015 10:19pm
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    • I was very sincere w/former affair and he never believed a word I said. Turns out he didn't trust me because HE was a lying liar who was just flattering me so he could get blow...(more) 3-23-2015 10:57pm
      jobs. I am so naive.
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      • i think this is what happened to me. i should have known better & now jist hope im not carrying an std 3-24-2015 8:40pm
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