Cleveland

  1. Cleveland Co worker is flirty but mentions his wife a lot. They seem pretty happy but my radar is going off 47 sec ago (0 replies)
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  2. Cleveland Didn't hear from affair all week. 31 min ago (1 reply)
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    • Is that good or bad? 25 min ago
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  3. Cleveland Do you ever see him on the weekends? 47 min ago (4 replies)
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    • Yes, sometimes I drive to the soccer field and just watch. 46 min ago
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    • no 40 min ago
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    • Yes. Will spend the Saturday with him two weeks from now. 39 min ago
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  4. Cleveland Sound familiar?...(more) 54 min ago (0 replies)
    Affairs are both messy and glamorous. The forbidden, unstable nature of secret affairs keeps passion flowing years beyond what’s common in a stable relationship. Unfaithful spouses often appear to be addicted to their lovers. They fail in their efforts to end the affair time and time again, pulled back by a magnetic force they can’t seem to resist. Only with great determination are they able to break the spell.
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  5. Cleveland 1 yo playing with popsicle mold for 20 min. yes!! 1 hr 52 min ago (6 replies)
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    • You're having an affair and have a kid that young? 1 hr 50 min ago
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      • I wish. Recently connected with college BF but not sure what will happen. 1 hr 49 min ago
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        • How long have you been married? 1 hr 48 min ago
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          • 5 years. Why? 1 hr 47 min ago
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            • I'm wondering how it went bad so quickly 1 hr 38 min ago
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              • I'm not in a bad marriage but DH travels for work 1-2 weeks out of the month. 1 hr 35 min ago
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  6. Cleveland Question for DHs. How much truth is there for you when you say you will leave your wife but you aren't ready yet? 2 hr 9 min ago (8 replies)
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    • none 2 hr 8 min ago
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    • why do you want a man who would leave his wife and kids 2 hr 7 min ago
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    • None, it's just to get in your pants. 2 hr 7 min ago
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      • this. mine would throw it out there when he got really desperate to win me back. it's awful, but i liked hearing it even though it was bullshit and there was no way i'd leave...(more) 1 hr 55 min ago
        my family, much less for him. anywho if a dude wants to get laid, this is the best card to pull.
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    • Never. Most divorces are initiated by women. If the woman finds out about the affair, I guess you have a shot. But men just don't up and leave their wives for another woman. 2 hr 7 min ago
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      • they do but it's rare and almost never works out 2 hr 3 min ago
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    • they never do. I actually spoke with wife. she told me how he would threaten to kill himself if she left him & took their dcs away. 1 hr 46 min ago
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      • ^^^meanwhile he spoke so poorly of her. lies! I felt bad for her & disgusted with myself. 1 hr 45 min ago
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  7. Cleveland Ow it hurts. had work affair and have ended it and gotten much cooler towards him. so he is cooling off toward me back. it hurts but i know it's the right thing. every day that...(more) 2 hr 48 min ago (11 replies)
    passes when we stay uninvolved again is a bittersweet victory. :( he sits right next to me. i still want him so much sometimes i can't concentrate on what i'm doing. it's so intense!!!! but i know it's wrong and i just can't be that person. i simultaneously hope i quit being attracted to him but then my heart physically hurts the more we pull apart. i honestly can't say i regret anything except the being married part. but i just can't be that person.
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    • Fix your marriage or get out of it. 2 hr 47 min ago
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    • if you like him that much maybe you were meant to be together 2 hr 47 min ago
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      • even if we were, i could never be that person who breaks up someone else's marriage. his wife is so sweet, i love her. she's really special. i couldn't live with myself if i hurt...(more) 2 hr 38 min ago
        her. i already have she just doesn't know it.
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    • you need to quit your job. 2 hr 15 min ago
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      • seriously. something has got to give here. I could not live like this. 1 hr 43 min ago
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        • It will start up again and again. seriously just quit 1 hr 40 min ago
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          • or: not op. thats my point she has to get out to GET OUT. Or you're right she'll fall back. 1 hr 39 min ago
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            • sorry wasn't following. Id move to another city. 1 hr 34 min ago
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  8. Cleveland So if he just wants you as a fuck buddy, what clues would be present? Would there be a luck of romantic intimacy, lack of spending meaningful time together? Like he would just...(more) 2 hr 53 min ago (13 replies)
    want to see you and fuck you in his car type thing?
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    • he usually comes over at 11 pm and leaves at 1 am 2 hr 53 min ago
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    • ^^^lack of 2 hr 50 min ago
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    • I think a pearl necklace jizz, followed by a rush out the door would be two good clues to start with. 2 hr 46 min ago
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    • men in affairs want a no strings attached fuck buddy. sorry. 2 hr 13 min ago
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      • why are you sorry? 2 hr 13 min ago
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        • i assumed op is hoping for more than a fuck buddy. 2 hr 11 min ago
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          • I don't want to just go places to fuck and that's all. Also don't want to end my marriage. Trying to figure this guy out. 1 hr 51 min ago
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            • whats he like? Maybe I can help. But I'm 99% sure my answer will be - he just wants to fuck 1 hr 50 min ago
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              • I'm sure I suspect the same thing 1 hr 40 min ago
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              • np sounds like my ex! Talked a lot about himself. Loved me because I made him feel alive. Yet, never heard a word I said. Nor did he meet me anywhere other then our fucking spot. 1 hr 40 min ago
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                • Well I won't be meeting him in just fuck spots. 1 hr 37 min ago
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                  • he will see you other places so that he can get you in the "fuck spot". they will go to great lengths 1 hr 36 min ago
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      • What's NSA? I don't want marriage. 1 hr 19 min ago
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  9. Cleveland Should I look for black flats for dd for Halloween or just have her wear her nike sneakers with her vampire costume? 4 hr 33 min ago (5 replies)
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    • - no subject -...(more) 4 hr 32 min ago
      (you may get more answers on the non-trollop board)
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    • How old is she? Will she get use out of them later? 4 hr 30 min ago
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      • She's 5. So no probably not 4 hr 29 min ago
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        • She would be more comfortable in her nikes running around and would not even care if they were not black flats. 4 hr 25 min ago
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  10. Cleveland My aff complains about everything. He's Jerry Seinfeld. 4 hr 38 min ago (1 reply)
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    • that's such a turnon 4 hr 38 min ago
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  11. Cleveland How does your affair refer to things in his house? Like does he say "our bedroom" "our dog" etc? Or "my Bedroom"? 6 hr 9 min ago (3 replies)
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    • The bedroom 6 hr 4 min ago
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      • does it mean anything that he says "ours"? 5 hr 58 min ago
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    • my guy was single but I always said MY. 1 hr 38 min ago
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  12. Cleveland I just can not get enough of ......(more) 8 hr 12 min ago (0 replies)
    MEEEEEEEE
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  13. Cleveland Woke up today in disbelief. Can't believe I ended it after 4yrs. I have to keep strong. 11 hr ago (8 replies)
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    • How did he take it? 8 hr 51 min ago
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      • haven't heard from him. He's probably pissed or waiting it out. 7 hr 26 min ago
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        • What made you end it? 7 hr 21 min ago
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          • He stopped making an effort to see me. I was always visiting him. 2 hr 8 min ago
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            • ^^^If he wasnt willing to come to me. Why was I wasting my time?! 2 hr 6 min ago
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    • 4 YEARS? How did you not get caught? Did you ever try to end it before this? 8 hr 11 min ago
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    • how are you doing? 7 hr 24 min ago
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      • ok. I am most likely going to feel it when I am alone. 5 hr 33 min ago
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  14. Cleveland This post has been disliked 3 times. showGood morning. 20 hr 8 min ago (0 replies)
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  15. Cleveland Canceled & broke off. Thank you Cleveland! 20 hr 36 min ago (0 replies)
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  16. Cleveland FML. Met a guy from Pitts years ago. A few lunch dates but wasn't ready for anything further so I never slept w/him. We Later he divorced and moved. I can't get him out of my...(more) 22 hr 24 min ago (9 replies)
    head.
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    • You both divorced? 22 hr 23 min ago
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      • No, he divorced. I'm still married. Happened fast too. 22 hr 20 min ago
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    • You are Francesca...(more) 21 hr 20 min ago
      In “The Bridges of Madison County” Francesca spends four days with a handsome photographer and the rest of her life savoring the memory. She doesn’t leave with the wandering photographer because of her sense of responsibility to her husband and children and because she’s aware that the untouched fantasy is better than any real-life relationship could ever be.
      Just before her husband dies he tells her, “I know you had your own dreams, too. I’m sorry I couldn’t give them to you.” She regards his dying words as the most touching moment of their whole life together. His honesty and understanding pierced the barrier that her fantasy life had built.
      By maintaining her fantasy life she robbed herself of the happiness she could have achieved in real life.
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      • np: thank you for posting this. very thought-provoking for me. 9 hr 59 min ago
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        • nnp I agree, but the message also could be that she in fact should have left 9 hr 56 min ago
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          • agree, and that was always my interpretation - but the one above is interesting 9 hr 41 min ago
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    • hint about him? 21 hr 7 min ago
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      • He had a moniker of sorts. I know he talked to a few other DWs from Pitts and met at least one other. Has two kids. 2 hr 17 min ago
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  17. Cleveland I started emailing a guy here with no intent to have an affair at all, it was just to talk through some stuff. Now I feel like it was a mistake 23 hr 26 min ago (22 replies)
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    • elaborate 23 hr 25 min ago
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    • was that last yesterday? 23 hr 25 min ago
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      • ^last night 23 hr 24 min ago
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        • jealous? looking for someone? 23 hr 2 min ago
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      • No, that wasn't me 23 hr 23 min ago
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    • why? because you're into him? 23 hr 24 min ago
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      • No, I didn't know him at all. He seemed sympathetic and we have had some nice chats. It's been three months and up until now it's been pretty platonic. I enjoy talking to him, he...(more) 23 hr 22 min ago
        seems intelligent and I am not looking for more, but now I think he is
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        • this wouldn't be much of a problem unless you partly want to, too. 23 hr 19 min ago
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          • I definetely am not. I think he's intersting, but that is all. 23 hr 18 min ago
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            • Are you in the same city? 23 hr 18 min ago
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              • Yes. NJ 23 hr 16 min ago
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                • Well, that's not a city, obviously 23 hr 16 min ago
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    • Yeah. We've all fucked him. 23 hr 22 min ago
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      • You know, you are probably right 23 hr 22 min ago
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        • he must be very handsome 23 hr 20 min ago
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          • I haven't met him in person 23 hr 19 min ago
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    • You met him on Cleve? What did you think he was hanging out for? 23 hr 16 min ago
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      • Yea I know, my bad. I am way too trusting. BUT I made it clear I was not into that 23 hr 15 min ago
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        • np: If it was my ex-affair who stalked me on here, trust me, if you meet him IRL it will be a terrible disappointment. 22 hr 13 min ago
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    • I hang around here. I am not looking for an affair. 20 hr 55 min ago
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    • How very passive aggressive of you to announce it here. 7 hr 36 min ago
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  18. Cleveland F'ing my spiritual teacher. intense. 10-23-2014 8:22pm (5 replies)
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    • tantric. 10-23-2014 8:23pm
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    • I want to hear about this. I'm fucking my yoga teacher. 22 hr 40 min ago
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    • Um, you people who do this are playing with fire. Your so-called "spiritual teacher" is 100% full of shit. So it the other chick's yoga teacher. My god, ladies. Wake up. 22 hr 10 min ago
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    • is that code for pastor? 20 hr 44 min ago
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    • 'intense': the most meaningless description ever. try 'fraudulent and morally bankrupt 'teacher'' 20 hr 41 min ago
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  19. Cleveland I love tall men. Has have some weight on them. My 1st affair was 6'4. The 2nd was 6". This potential 3rd guy is 6"3. I am 5'. Loves me a big man. 10-23-2014 7:46pm (9 replies)
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    • you are so gross 10-23-2014 7:47pm
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    • I get it. Dh is 6' 3". But I'm divorcing him and will end up with a guy who is short. Go figure. 22 hr 11 min ago
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      • op:dh is short. He doesn't act like it though. 20 hr 46 min ago
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    • Same. 6' or over. Current affair is 6'4. 21 hr 5 min ago
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      • op:right. If you're going to have an affair. Go big.. or tall in this case. 20 hr 45 min ago
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        • Mine is in good shape. Not buff and muscles but just good shape. 12 hr 54 min ago
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    • jury is still out for me, met a guy last month and i think he was 6'2 (I'm 5'2 barely) sex was good but the kissing, hated it standing up 20 hr 43 min ago
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      • op: love when they lean in though. so sexy. 1 hr 37 min ago
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  20. Cleveland I drink everyday. I am also in an affair. I am dropping my affair before I drop my drink. 10-23-2014 7:38pm (2 replies)
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    • Which came first? 22 hr 5 min ago
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      • oooohh...always enjoyed my drink but it has increase since affair mess. 20 hr 43 min ago
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  21. Cleveland I never text him. However, I always respond when he reaches out. Do you think this makes me seem like I can take it or leave it or do I look like a doormat? 10-23-2014 7:33pm (27 replies)
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    • More like you will accept whatever he gives. 10-23-2014 7:34pm
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      • Op: how would I change this perception? 10-23-2014 7:37pm
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        • dont text back 10-23-2014 7:38pm
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          • Op: I would feel terrible ignoring. He has never done that to me. 10-23-2014 7:41pm
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            • He knows you'll always be his little whore, scrounging for scraps of his attention. 10-23-2014 7:43pm
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              • Op: that's ok. He scrounges for mine. 10-23-2014 7:44pm
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                • Doesn't sound like it. You sound like the desperate one. 10-23-2014 7:49pm
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                  • Op: I'm not sure whether you're trolling. But, I do miss him when I haven't heard from him in a while. 10-23-2014 8:05pm
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                    • You're just a sad, confused, desperate slut. You go panting whenever he wants you. So pathetic. 10-23-2014 8:19pm
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        • Initiate sometimes but not frequently. That is more of a take it when I want it. 10-23-2014 7:39pm
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    • take it or leave it. 10-23-2014 7:35pm
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    • How does it make you a doormat? 10-23-2014 7:36pm
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      • Op: because I am always there for him when he wants me. He reaches out sporadically. He has no clear pattern. Sometimes it's often. Sometimes not. I don't text him because it...(more) 10-23-2014 7:39pm
        makes me too anxious and I want him to think they I don't care. However, I think that my plan might be having the opposite effect.
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        • Does it have to be a game? 10-23-2014 7:41pm
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          • Op: I wish it didn't. 10-23-2014 7:42pm
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            • Maybe this isn't the guy for you? 10-23-2014 7:49pm
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        • agree. stop playing games. text him or dont. either way it seems to bother you. 10-23-2014 7:51pm
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          • Op: I guess I want more than what he's giving. More consistent contact. 10-23-2014 8:03pm
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            • so text him! 10-23-2014 8:18pm
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              • Op: lol ok. I'm always nervous that he won't text back. 10-23-2014 8:21pm
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                • Then you will have what you need to know 10-23-2014 8:26pm
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                • or:he will. & he will be happy. 20 hr 42 min ago
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            • He's too busy loving his wife to waste time with you. Wait until her period starts, and then he'll come to his sloppy seconds. 10-23-2014 8:20pm
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              • Op: I'm sorry that your husband betrayed you. I hope you find peace someday. 10-23-2014 8:25pm
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                • Lol. He didn't. Try again, toots. 10-23-2014 8:31pm
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              • He's thinking about his affair when he's with his wife. 22 hr 4 min ago
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    • guys don't think this way. i notice that mine doesn't "wait to respond". if he's available he texts back right away, if not then i hear from him when he can 23 hr 33 min ago
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  22. Cleveland Wondering what happened with the couple that exchanged emails yesterday. From the "I need someone to fuck me" post. 10-23-2014 6:43pm (3 replies)
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    • They're g chatting about sex. It's gotten naughty. 10-23-2014 6:46pm
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      • She wanted more than sex 10-23-2014 6:49pm
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    • Nope. Just sex. Not all women want more. 22 hr 41 min ago
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  23. Cleveland He wants me to have a baby with him. Know him 5 years and together off and on a year and a half. He's said it before but he was totally serious. His wife is 10 years older and...(more) 10-23-2014 6:26pm (8 replies)
    beyond child bearing age...I feel bad for him. He would make a great father.
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    • Fake posts YBMers think of in the shower for $100, please Alex. 10-23-2014 6:29pm
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      • Op- not even close to joking 10-23-2014 6:31pm
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    • Mine also wants me to have his baby. Same deal. His wife is 50 yo. I'm like wtf is your damage!? 10-23-2014 6:37pm
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      • Op- he's even thought through the legistics of how we could do it. I was a bit freaked 10-23-2014 6:38pm
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        • Mine hasn't gone that far. But he makes a lot of comments about how beautiful our baby could be and how maybe it would be a girl like I've always wanted. I'm like no way. No...(more) 10-23-2014 6:41pm
          desire to ever be pg again. Especially with him.
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          • If something happened between me and dh I would have a baby with him. Sigh 10-23-2014 6:43pm
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            • I wouldn't. I loathe being pg. he's older and already has one severely autistic kid. 10-23-2014 6:47pm
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    • men who want this are so fucking needy. babies themselves. 10-23-2014 7:28pm
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  24. Cleveland Strange random questions affair asks? GO! 10-23-2014 6:23pm (13 replies)
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    • Do you think my wife is pretty! 10-23-2014 6:24pm
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      • Wow 10-23-2014 6:24pm
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      • good one 10-23-2014 6:25pm
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      • how do you answer that?? 10-23-2014 6:25pm
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        • Very pretty but chubby 10-23-2014 6:25pm
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          • sounds honest 10-23-2014 6:26pm
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            • She lost weight when he left her 10-23-2014 6:27pm
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    • Do you think you could lose weight so you're as pretty as my wife? 10-23-2014 6:25pm
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      • Has to be fake. 10-23-2014 6:39pm
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    • He asked how often do and I have sex, if we had sex last night 10-23-2014 6:58pm
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      • That seems legit 8 hr 44 min ago
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    • Will you wear a ring to symbolize us? 8 hr 46 min ago
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  25. Cleveland Why am I such an attention whore? 10-23-2014 2:39pm (34 replies)
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    • because you are unfulfilled in life and don't know how to process that appropriately. so you act out. 10-23-2014 2:40pm
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      • but why do i see attention from so many men? is it bc i used to be fat and invisible? 10-23-2014 2:43pm
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        • No, it's because you have unresolved problems, and you deal with them in this immature way instead of confronting the actual issues. This just distracts you. 10-23-2014 2:49pm
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          • what issues could those be? bc i've thought about it and don't know 10-23-2014 2:53pm
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            • I can't say. Possibilities are: your marriage is bad and you seek attention because of that, you're insecure and need validation... 10-23-2014 2:55pm
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              • i think i feel completely indifferent about my dh and marriage as a result of affair 10-23-2014 2:56pm
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                • People who have solid relationships don't enter into affairs. 10-23-2014 2:58pm
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                  • oh i know. it's the attention and hero worship for me 10-23-2014 3:01pm
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                    • You know. I fooled around on my exdh (I wouldn't call them affairs). In hindsight, I very much regret that I didn't confront issues head-on. 10-23-2014 3:05pm
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                      • i tried to before i actually commenced looking for an affair. i spent 6 months trying to fix things and got nowhere. so here i am. having an affair, fooling around with another...(more) 10-23-2014 3:07pm
                        and texting and chatting with one more
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                        • why did you actively search for an affair? 10-23-2014 3:11pm
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                          • was desperately unhappy with dh and sex. tried to fix it and was repeatedly shut down 10-23-2014 3:15pm
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                            • ok, so your marriage is bad. and instead of figuring that out, you seek attention through affairs. FIN 10-23-2014 3:17pm
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                              • pretty much. i did try to figure it out and got nowhere 10-23-2014 3:18pm
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                                • you gave up and sought distraction. the problems are still there. 10-23-2014 3:19pm
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                                  • yep. because you can't fix it on your own. dh wasn't even trying. 10-23-2014 3:20pm
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                                    • OK. So your partner doesn't listen to you, isn't engaged in making the relationship work. So...what do you do? 10-23-2014 3:20pm
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                                    • np- but now you've compounded them 10-23-2014 3:23pm
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                                      • op: i absolutely have. most of the time i enjoy the attention, but would be so upset to have dh find out 10-23-2014 3:27pm
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                                        • upset is an understatement. mine did and i'll never be the same. obviously the marriage is wrecked as well. get out and fix your marriage. gl 10-23-2014 3:29pm
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                                          • op: i just don't want to end the affair. i do love him (as much as one can) 10-23-2014 3:34pm
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                                            • mmhmmm 10-23-2014 3:35pm
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                                              • cut off before i finished, as much as one can in the vacuum of an affair. 10-23-2014 3:36pm
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                                                • THINK about what you are saying. Seriously. 10-23-2014 3:38pm
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                                                  • i know what i'm saying. i get that. 10-23-2014 3:38pm
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                                                    • And you realize that it is fucked up? 10-23-2014 3:41pm
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                                                      • oh completely. it's not right or normal 10-23-2014 3:42pm
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                                                        • so, stop it. 10-23-2014 3:48pm
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                                                          • easier said then done 10-23-2014 3:52pm
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                                                            • It really isn't. 10-23-2014 3:53pm
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                                            • You love him but you're fooling around with another guy and texting/chatting with another? No you don't. 10-23-2014 8:08pm
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            • probably daddy issues 10-23-2014 3:03pm
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              • op: i don't think so. my dad was a good dad 10-23-2014 3:04pm
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      • np:the man again....? 10-23-2014 3:23pm
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