Cleveland

  1. Cleveland Been together for 5 yrs. Yesterday in our hotel he said he wants to see me interact with my dcs bc it's a dimension of my life he's never seen yet. What's this about? 10 hr 2 min ago (7 replies)
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    • he's a loser and is looking form someone younger 9 hr 59 min ago
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    • nothing. he's bored. 3 hr 51 min ago
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    • it means he likes you and interested in your life. it's great. 3 hr 41 min ago
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      • ^but weird that it took 5 years for him think of it 3 hr 38 min ago
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        • we talk about our dcs all the time. 3 hr 15 min ago
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    • He is curious about the you outside of him. 3 hr 40 min ago
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  2. Cleveland Fuuuuuuck....I hate when he starts to text me & I am drunnk. 19 hr 22 min ago (2 replies)
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    • No you don't. You like the attention. 9 hr 47 min ago
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      • No. Not when drunk. 3 hr 50 min ago
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  3. Cleveland Without affair I can... 21 hr 12 min ago (8 replies)
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    • leave my phone behind! 21 hr 12 min ago
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    • stop fantasizing that a cold, remote man could care for me. 21 hr 11 min ago
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    • say I'm going somewhere & be there. 21 hr 10 min ago
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    • live free. Who fucking needs that shit? 21 hr 8 min ago
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    • Put my energy into my marriage with an awesome dh and kids instead of being used by a creepy sociopath who wants even that good in bed. Suck it, ex affair! 21 hr 5 min ago
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    • take a good look at my shitty marriage, get divorced, and not worry about wtf affair is doing every single goddamn minute of every day. This is freedom, my friends! 19 hr 36 min ago
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    • Focus on finding someone available that will love me for me. 8 hr 35 min ago
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      • after all this I will never again believe a man will be with just one woman 6 hr 49 min ago
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  4. Cleveland Where is June mom? 8-21-2014 6:49pm (0 replies)
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  5. Cleveland Have been over for a few months. Today at work in a meeting he starts texting me joking texts, says somethin about some guy wanting me because I'm so hot. Is this his way to try...(more) 8-21-2014 5:05pm (4 replies)
    To work his way back in? Just when I was getting over it all.
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    • ^^^havent texted since last fight/ending it a month ago 8-21-2014 5:06pm
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    • He knows how to work you. 23 hr 33 min ago
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      • Np: yep. I swear there's a manual out there for these fucking assholes. They all have the same tricks. Don't fall for it, op! 21 hr 28 min ago
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    • This is exactly the type of shit my affair used to do. don't get sucked back in. 19 hr 35 min ago
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  6. Cleveland I really do have to remember there is a reason why he is single. Meanwhile I have been married for 20yrs. He hasnt been in a relationship in such a long time. Says he doesnt want...(more) 8-21-2014 12:25pm (7 replies)
    One but truth is he's forgotten how too be with someone. Sad.
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    • how ironic 8-21-2014 12:26pm
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      • op:funny. rereading my post & you are 100% right. 8-21-2014 12:27pm
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    • You're so awesome, you had MULTIPLE simultaneous relationships! 8-21-2014 12:30pm
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      • op:thats not my point. I just seem to think I am the proble when he does not respond the way I want him to 8-21-2014 12:33pm
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        • it's an affair. he doesn't really care about you. and he doesn't want a relationship. 8-21-2014 12:49pm
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    • You sound like a stupid smug bitch...and for no reason. 8-21-2014 1:44pm
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      • NP: Crazy bitch on! 8-21-2014 5:55pm
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  7. Cleveland Someone asked me he an affair ended. In thinking about it, it reminded me of a song that plays in my head whenever I fantasize about seeing her. The song was "Harder to Breathe"...(more) 8-21-2014 11:30am (9 replies)
    by Maroon 5. We were in her living room, going at it, with that song blaring. What song is in your head?
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    • nsr: Correction: Someone asked me how affair ended. 8-21-2014 11:31am
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    • none in mind but i miss him. we never had music when we were together. it was too intense, the music would've distracted me. 8-21-2014 11:33am
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      • nsr: The only time we didn't have music was in her backyard. She was such an exhibitionist. I was not. 8-21-2014 11:50am
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    • There are so many songs I couldn't name one. 8-21-2014 1:26pm
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    • whenever i hear a song by his favorite band, i feel such a longing. 8-21-2014 3:24pm
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    • Acoustic version of Everlong 8-21-2014 3:43pm
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    • I wrote a song called, "I'm So Glad To Be Rid of You, You Toxic, Narcissistic Piece of Shit." Catchy little thing, my tune. 19 hr 33 min ago
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    • I love that song. The song that always reminds me of my first affair is (You Want to) Make a Memory by Bon Jovi. It describes it perfectly. 10 hr 14 min ago
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      • ^my current affair sends me love songs often. His current fave for us is "All of Me" by John Legend. 10 hr 12 min ago
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  8. Cleveland Looking for the right person. 8-21-2014 12:16am (14 replies)
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    • more info 8-21-2014 12:17am
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      • The title speaks for itself. I think I am ready if I found the right person,but maybe I should smarten up and not go down this slope. 8-21-2014 12:18am
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    • You want mine? 8-21-2014 12:28am
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      • no but what is going on that you don't just get rid of him or her on your own? 8-21-2014 12:34am
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        • I think I want to. But it's a hard habit to break. I've gotten used to the contact, getting secret messages, etc. Hard to give up even though not satisfied 8-21-2014 12:37am
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          • Its not him its more the need or want. 8-21-2014 12:39am
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            • I'm not getting what I want from the relationship, but I would be getting even less if I ended it. So not sure what to do. 8-21-2014 12:40am
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              • Why not end it and either go try to work it out with dh (maybe I am being naive) or look for a different companion? you found him. You can find another. 8-21-2014 12:42am
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                • I'm not sure how easy it is to find. Takes a whole to build trust. And I wonder if they all aren't the same. As for DH, we get along fine. Nothing to work on. I just have no...(more) 8-21-2014 12:45am
                  feelings or spark or interest. I don't know that it's anything I can work on.
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                  • What do you want? Why isn't he providing it? 8-21-2014 12:49am
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                    • We don't get together as often as I would like, I am his lowest priority (duh), I don't feel valued. 8-21-2014 12:56am
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                      • That is often how we all feel. 8-21-2014 1:00am
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                        • True dat. But isn't the affair supposed to magically make it all better?? ;-) 8-21-2014 1:07am
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                          • that magic can fade too. has it been a long relationship? are you near one another? 8-21-2014 1:10am
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  9. Cleveland Is it too much to ask to get this board humming tonight? No, not that kind of humming. 8-20-2014 9:09pm (22 replies)
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    • ask me a question 8-20-2014 9:10pm
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      • How many affairs have you had? 8-20-2014 9:10pm
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        • 1 plus some indescretions 8-20-2014 9:12pm
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        • np. what's an 'affair'? a hook-up? a kiss? 8-20-2014 9:12pm
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          • a repeated experience 8-20-2014 9:13pm
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            • ^even if it's not full on sex. 8-20-2014 9:13pm
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              • then 1 8-20-2014 9:14pm
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                • and what happened? 8-20-2014 9:19pm
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          • it needs to be long term as in a few months in my opinion and sexual. not a random hook up. 8-20-2014 9:14pm
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        • none. ive gotten drunk and kissed a random person but never sex. 8-20-2014 9:14pm
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        • how many have you had? 8-20-2014 9:14pm
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    • Are you currently in an affair? f not or if so, what do you look for in that person? just sexual? purely emotional? both? 8-20-2014 9:16pm
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      • both 8-20-2014 9:21pm
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        • how long has it been? was it emotional first or second? 8-20-2014 9:25pm
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          • emo first if you mean flirty and texty 8-21-2014 12:02am
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            • flirty and emo are different. how long before flirts became real? 8-21-2014 12:07am
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    • No humm{ers} for you! 8-20-2014 9:32pm
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    • I'm just a lurker here now. Affair ended, no plans to have another. It was horrible, I'm an ass for doing it. 8-20-2014 10:41pm
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    • hummmmmm 8-21-2014 12:26am
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  10. Cleveland I dont understand feelings. why say you love me? I am not going anywhere until I am done. No matter your feelings. 8-20-2014 2:10pm (6 replies)
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    • ??? 8-20-2014 4:03pm
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    • Huh? 8-20-2014 5:17pm
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    • I get it. 8-20-2014 5:41pm
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    • Can you explain this? 8-20-2014 6:49pm
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    • says the aspie affair. 8-20-2014 7:34pm
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    • Yoda? 8-21-2014 12:22am
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  11. Cleveland Anyone ever fuck affair one last time knowing you were never going to contact them again? & actually followed through? 8-20-2014 2:03pm (14 replies)
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    • First time was supposed to be the last. At this point, I am afraid it could go on for years if we aren't found out. Someone here said it's too easy once you've gotten away with...(more) 8-20-2014 2:24pm
      it, and that is the truth. I hate this life.
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      • and what do you do if you are caught? shit happens 8-20-2014 4:16pm
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      • How long together? 8-20-2014 5:24pm
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    • nsr: I haven't, but my first affair did this to me. 8-20-2014 4:35pm
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      • did she say anything to you during or before you were with her or were you surprised it just ended then? 8-20-2014 5:23pm
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        • Did she ignore your messages? How did she end it? 8-20-2014 5:43pm
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          • nsr: After years of seeing each other; I sent her an IM. It was a typical IM conversation, one that would usually end in talking about our next meeting. Well, this time she said...(more) 8-21-2014 11:27am
            to stop contacting her immediately or she'd call my wife, and she'd call the police. I had no warning, I wasn't a stalker. This had gone on for years, she just dropped all this on me at once. Did it work? Yes.
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            • Wow. 8-21-2014 11:50am
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            • Was she single? Do you hate her for it or do you understand? Sometimes I wish I had the heart to do that...minus the threats. But she probably threw that in there to ensure that...(more) 8-21-2014 11:54am
              there would be no turning back.
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              • nsr: Yes, she was single. 8 hr 24 min ago
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    • What is nsr, please? 8-20-2014 5:18pm
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      • some mid-late 30's guy in seattle 8-20-2014 5:24pm
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    • had a couple of last times and then really did it. ended. happy i did 8-20-2014 5:24pm
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    • I fucked affair on the same day I fucked dh just because I was pissed off at him and knew I'd never fuck him again. And I didn't. 8-20-2014 10:39pm
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  12. Cleveland Anyone on tonight? 8-19-2014 11:50pm (3 replies)
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    • here 8-19-2014 11:53pm
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      • how is your man doing? 8-19-2014 11:54pm
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    • I'm here, but since you posted this an hour and a half ago I doubt you are still here. 8-20-2014 1:24am
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  13. Cleveland Tmi...(more) 8-19-2014 4:18pm (14 replies)
    I am like a horn dog - all I think of us sex, especially the 24-48 hrs after we've been together. He is so sexy and the sex is so hot. The other day, I was home alone and started thinking about him and started touching myself (been doing that a lot lately) and it was such an intense orgasm that as soon as I cam u grabbed my phone and took a video of myself down there bc I was curious. And I could see the come, really thick, oozing out of me. I then showed him the video today when he came over. I swear, I feel like a smutty over-sexed teenage boy.....!
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    • how do you know him? 8-19-2014 4:20pm
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      • What do u mean? 8-19-2014 4:23pm
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        • where did you meet your affair? 8-19-2014 4:23pm
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    • nsr: Affair sent me an unsolicited photo of her a few weeks ago. It was fantastic. You're a good girl, and you are making him happy, though, that's a little graphic for me. 8-19-2014 5:00pm
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      • How else does she keep you happy? 8-19-2014 5:47pm
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        • nsr: Well, she really makes me happy when I see her. But in between visits she'll send me random IMs here and there and keeps me... interested. 8-19-2014 6:47pm
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          • how often are you in contact? 8-19-2014 8:44pm
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            • nsr: Not often enough; we talk every few weeks. See each other a few times a year. 8-20-2014 4:39pm
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              • Why not increase contact? Why not at least talk more often since she is long distance? 8-20-2014 5:44pm
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    • that's disgusting discharge not come 8-19-2014 5:05pm
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      • What's the diff? 5 hr 58 min ago
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    • taking a picture of your pussy with 'oozing' anything is never hot. sorry. 8-20-2014 2:06pm
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      • Unless you're in the porn biz. 8-20-2014 5:18pm
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        • even then...oozing is just.not sexy. 8-21-2014 12:02pm
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  14. Cleveland I need a new side piece. Where IRL have you met yours? 8-19-2014 3:52pm (18 replies)
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    • why do you need a "new" one? 8-19-2014 3:54pm
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    • What happened to your old one? 8-19-2014 3:54pm
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    • Don't meet someone in real life. Too much work. Tinder ftw, bitches. 8-19-2014 3:55pm
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      • aren't you afraid of people IRL recognizing you? how do you do it with FacebooK? 8-19-2014 3:57pm
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    • what's a side piece? 8-19-2014 3:55pm
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    • always at work 8-19-2014 3:57pm
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    • Work, the gym, Starbucks, yoga, any of those work 8-19-2014 3:57pm
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    • the gym is fruitful 8-19-2014 3:57pm
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      • people at my gym are either too young or fugly. 8-19-2014 4:13pm
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        • What is this "too young" craziness? 8-19-2014 4:15pm
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          • i'm not attracted to college students. i like my men to be my age or older. 8-19-2014 4:17pm
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    • are you a dh? 8-19-2014 4:00pm
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      • any dh who refers to a "side piece" is skeezy. 8-19-2014 4:06pm
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      • No. Dw 8-19-2014 4:43pm
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        • what are you looking for?\ 8-19-2014 4:59pm
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    • AM 8-19-2014 6:03pm
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  15. Cleveland What other ways to make fish? I have a lot of whole porgy and striped bass. I have already grilled and made a stew. What now? 8-19-2014 12:45pm (13 replies)
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    • bake, batter and fry 8-19-2014 12:46pm
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      • Didn't even think to fry. Thanks. 8-19-2014 12:46pm
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    • ^I'm on a role. Will stop now. Ok but seriously. My brother brought me a ton. 8-19-2014 12:46pm
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      • On a roll, dear 8-19-2014 12:49pm
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        • Thanks sweet pea. 8-19-2014 12:51pm
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      • you're having an affair with your brother?!?? 8-19-2014 12:49pm
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        • EWWWWWWWW. No. he went fishing with his hot friends and brought me back lots of fish....(more) 8-19-2014 12:52pm
          Is it wrong I'd love to have an affair with the really hot one?
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          • you're posting on Cleveland... : ) 8-19-2014 12:54pm
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            • Oh. I totally know that. I don't lie (well..) but I just kept forgetting to switch my posting board. ;) 8-19-2014 12:57pm
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    • stop cheating 8-19-2014 12:46pm
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    • Is this some sort of weird cheater sex talk? 8-19-2014 12:48pm
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    • Hairy clam? Fish tacos? 8-19-2014 1:49pm
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  16. Cleveland How often do you get together with affair? 8-19-2014 12:21pm (28 replies)
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    • nsr: Usually 2x a year, but one of those times was recently called off for reasons beyond our control. 8-19-2014 12:30pm
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      • Do you cheat on her since it's long distance? If not why not? 8-19-2014 12:35pm
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        • nsr: She just happens to be long distance. If she lived near me, it would be much, much more often. 8-19-2014 1:07pm
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          • do you love her and wish you could be together for real? 8-19-2014 1:09pm
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            • nsr: No. We were coworkers for years, and then at one event, some flirting led to a visit in her hotel room....(more) 8-19-2014 1:12pm
              And that's how we both keep it. What is your situation?
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              • I love him and want to be with him. Also long distance - but did not start out that way. Unhealthy situation. 8-19-2014 1:14pm
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                • nsr: Is he married too? Does he share this feeling? 8-19-2014 1:16pm
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                  • He is married. I am not now but I was. He shares the feelings. The logistics are too difficult to overcome at this point though. He moved partly to get away from the situation...(more) 8-19-2014 1:20pm
                    but that didn't work and now he's sort of fucked.
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                    • nsr: haha. Literally. You could always move. 8-19-2014 1:23pm
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              • Or: I am single. He is married. Been together for years. We're more like good friends. Don't love each other but care. I wish I were more special to him though. 8-19-2014 2:26pm
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                • you want him to love you? 8-19-2014 4:01pm
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                  • Or: yes but I honestly don't think I love him. I care for him deeply but mostly I like the attention and how he makes me feel. Am I lying to myself? 8-19-2014 4:09pm
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                    • nsr: I don't think you are lying to yourself. You've summed up the reasons for most affairs in my experience. 8-19-2014 4:15pm
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                    • np:how can you want love from someone you dont love. why would you want this? 8-20-2014 2:09pm
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          • If it were closer and more often you'd likely develop real emotions. 8-19-2014 1:15pm
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            • nsr: I can see that. Its hard to be so intimate so often, and not get hooked. 8-19-2014 1:18pm
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      • Is it emotional too? 8-19-2014 1:11pm
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        • nsr: I would be lying if I said there were no emotions. But, I do not love affair. Though once, in the heat of the moment I did say "I love you," when I meant to say something...(more) 8-19-2014 1:13pm
          more like, "I love this."
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          • oh dear 8-19-2014 1:14pm
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          • nsr: I know, she never mentioned it. That was several years ago. 8-19-2014 1:16pm
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          • Is she married? Does she love you? 8-19-2014 2:22pm
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            • nsr: She's single, she doesn't love me. 8-19-2014 4:03pm
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          • at least you're honest. 8-19-2014 4:02pm
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            • How do you know she doesn't love you? 8-19-2014 4:11pm
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              • nsr: She's had the opportunity to move closer to me for work, and she's happy where she is. (Across the continent) That's my top indicator. 8-19-2014 4:13pm
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                • That could just be how she protects herself. 8-19-2014 4:17pm
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    • Several times a week. But we only fuck on business trips (once every couple of months or so). 8-19-2014 1:47pm
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    • Depends on when he's in town. Some months only once. This month is about 3-4x 8-19-2014 6:05pm
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  17. Cleveland Labs shed a lot right? Any lab owners on? 8-19-2014 12:02pm (2 replies)
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    • ^Oh for fuck's sake I really should stop cheating and get back to work. 8-19-2014 12:02pm
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    • Only in winter, yes huge tufts. 8-19-2014 12:04pm
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  18. Cleveland I CANNOT BELIEVE THEY VILLIFIED STAR ON LAW AND ORDER SVU. FUCK 8-19-2014 11:15am (1 reply)
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    • ^yes. That's my post below. I do not lie that this was meant for Toddler. 8-19-2014 11:15am
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  19. Cleveland If you need an alibi just pretend you made a new friend. At Starbucks or whatever. You are welcome. 8-19-2014 11:01am (9 replies)
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    • Oh good advice to help me cheat better! 8-19-2014 11:02am
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    • Do you mind if people lie to you? 8-19-2014 11:02am
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    • Please explain 8-19-2014 11:03am
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    • yeah, that always works. mystery friend dh has never met, no suspicion there! 8-19-2014 11:04am
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      • OP: Works if your husband doesn't give a shit. 8-19-2014 11:16am
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        • np that is right. I was VERY good, but my dh didn't really care enough to ask baout my day. 8-19-2014 4:04pm
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    • I actually reconnected with an old friend from hs via fb. We've met for drinks once. The other two times I told dh was going out with her and met affair. 8-19-2014 12:51pm
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    • Right. This post brought to you by the producers of Cheaters. Help us make our next season great! 8-19-2014 3:24pm
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      • that show tho! 8-19-2014 4:03pm
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  20. Cleveland Have you ever sent pics to affair? If so, why? Do you do it to entice him or because he wants you to/puts pressure on you? 8-19-2014 9:01am (8 replies)
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    • We exchange pics as a normal part of sexting. 8-19-2014 9:02am
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    • i send him dirty pix of myself all the time. sometimes i try to snap a pic of me and dh having sex and send it to him. it turns him on that i fuck others. he wants to be with me...(more) 8-19-2014 9:03am
      and dh.
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      • Weird but sexy. Wish you'd post one here. 8-19-2014 9:07am
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        • no way. ha ha. 8-19-2014 9:12am
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      • Wow. That's some serious shit. I don't judge the poly impulse, but I think it's uncool to send a pic of your DH's junk without his consent. 8-19-2014 1:48pm
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        • Np. I think it's a toddler mom fucking with you 8-19-2014 1:49pm
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      • did he ask you to do this? 8-19-2014 4:05pm
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    • All the time. To entice and bc he asks. He sends me pics as well. 8-19-2014 9:04am
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  21. Cleveland Dd is about to start her senior year and is kind of irritable lately. Says she is ready to graduate. Normal? 8-18-2014 9:47pm (2 replies)
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    • oops my "lol" comment was meant for this board, which is kind of instant karma, is it not? 8-18-2014 9:54pm
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    • sounds like she is living in a house with underlying anxiety and conflict and she is ready to be out that door. 8-19-2014 8:21am
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  22. Cleveland I know this is a longshot but here goes. Anyway to rollback a digital odometer? 8-18-2014 9:24pm (4 replies)
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    • NOT because I'm trying to get out of buying a lease, because I don't want people to know where I was. Just thought I should clarify. 8-18-2014 9:28pm
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      • did you already go?and do you live with someone who checks mileage? 8-19-2014 5:55am
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    • Details, please. Where were you? How much needs to be rolled back? 8-18-2014 10:20pm
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    • Dude. You have bigger problems than the odometer here. But you knew that. 8-19-2014 3:19pm
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  23. Cleveland Do you have any personal (not sexual) boundaries that are not crossed with aff? 8-18-2014 5:45pm (13 replies)
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    • nsr: Not since the procedure. 8-18-2014 6:03pm
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    • we dont really ever use our names 8-18-2014 6:21pm
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      • nsr: Okay, thanks. 8-19-2014 12:29pm
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    • Honestly we seemingly have none. Which doesn't bode well for the long run. 8-18-2014 8:58pm
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      • how long together? 8-18-2014 9:02pm
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      • why not? 8-18-2014 10:05pm
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        • I don't know. We are just very open about our real lives. We talk about our families and work and stuff like that. 8-18-2014 10:50pm
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          • Do you share pics of your families? 8-18-2014 10:55pm
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            • Yep. Usually just kids. But I've seen pics of his dw and vice versa. 8-19-2014 12:00am
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      • Same. Everything is on the table 8-19-2014 1:30pm
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        • Are you ok with that? 8-19-2014 6:17pm
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  24. Cleveland Poll: Who here has/had an affair, and who does/has not? 8-18-2014 3:58pm (11 replies)
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    • No, I have not had the pleasure of one. 8-18-2014 3:59pm
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    • I haven't had one, but I'm the other woman. 8-18-2014 4:08pm
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      • nsr: Isn't that the same as a yes. Basically? 8-18-2014 4:11pm
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        • Hard to say since I don't know the purpose or distinction of this particular poll. Being cleveland and all.. it is a valid difference. For example, I can't answer the question...(more) 8-18-2014 4:13pm
          below because I didn't cheat on my ex.
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          • nsr: I see. No other purpose than to get some people chatting on this board again. My affair is single too. 8-18-2014 4:15pm
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            • How do you feel about her? Love? Respect? Do you ever feel like you want more for her? 8-18-2014 8:42pm
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              • nsr: I adore her. I definitely respect her. But our relationship really is not about that. 8-19-2014 12:28pm
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                • What's it about? 8-19-2014 4:00pm
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    • I am having one. 8-18-2014 4:51pm
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    • I am single. He is not. 8-18-2014 8:41pm
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    • I did. we are now married. 8-19-2014 4:01pm
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  25. Cleveland Poll: On a scale of 1 to 10, how much did you love your spouse when you first cheated on them? 8-18-2014 2:29pm (9 replies)
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    • I cannot imagine loving my spouse all that much if I was cheating on him/her 8-18-2014 2:31pm
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    • is this for a bar graph or a pie chart? 8-18-2014 2:31pm
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    • I'll tell you this much. My exdh didn't have any respect for my feelings or our relationship when he did that. I really don't care about his "love". 8-18-2014 2:33pm
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      • di you think that is the case for all cheating? 8-18-2014 2:33pm
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        • If you love and respect this person and don't want to hurt them, keep your pants on. 8-18-2014 2:35pm
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    • loved him very much, but was disappointed and angry with him for a lot of reasons 8-18-2014 2:33pm
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    • 12 8-18-2014 2:55pm
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      • why did you cheat? 8-18-2014 3:21pm
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    • I can't even imagine cheating on someone I love who loves me back. 8-18-2014 4:10pm
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