Cleveland

  1. Cleveland I love you. 50 sec ago (0 replies)
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  2. Cleveland We are back in touch because of a major life event and we want to stay updated. But we both know we cannot go back to the old emo and constant communication. It feels weird. 3 hr ago (4 replies)
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    • Why did you break up 1 hr 50 min ago
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      • Complicated but it came down to that he won't get divorced. Well, he was headed down that path but then other things happened. Could be years if ever. 1 hr 34 min ago
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        • are you married? 1 hr 30 min ago
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          • I was when we started. Not anymore. 35 min ago
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  3. Cleveland No flames. I only want the other cleve whores to reply. is he in contact with you during family time? Do you expect him to be? 4 hr 52 min ago (5 replies)
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    • DH: I should think that an occasional and brief "Thinking of you" would be polite. 4 hr 51 min ago
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    • he is, I don't so I get all happy when he does bc I'm not expecting him 4 hr 46 min ago
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    • nsr: No. She knows my schedule, she wouldn't leave a text when dw was around. 4 hr 33 min ago
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    • yes he was. Sometimes I expected and sometimes I discouraged. 3 hr 3 min ago
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    • Yes and no. 42 min ago
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  4. Cleveland What is your story? Why are you here? 11 hr 2 min ago (6 replies)
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    • My wife is a cheating whore 10 hr 58 min ago
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      • well hello sunshine 10 hr 43 min ago
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    • I have had an inappropriate relationship with a married man for six years. 10 hr 13 min ago
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      • inappropriate how 10 hr 3 min ago
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    • nsr: Wanting to hear all the AM stories. 4 hr 31 min ago
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      • The ones as a result of the hack? 41 min ago
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  5. Cleveland Yesterday he texted me all morning and called me on his 24 year anniversary. It really fucked with my head. I love him. This is so stupid. 8-29-2015 6:59pm (24 replies)
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    • Yes, it is 8-29-2015 7:00pm
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      • He tells me he feels so helpless. I don't pressure at all. I won't. This is just so hard 8-29-2015 7:01pm
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        • just cut it off 8-29-2015 7:03pm
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    • Don't make too much of it. It's more about the disrespect he has for his wife than how he feels about you. And this is not to say that he doesn't care about you, but it doesn't...(more) 8-29-2015 7:01pm
      mean as much as it seems
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      • I know. He takes days off work to see me, will call 8-29-2015 7:02pm
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        • ^^or ask to talk on the phone every day at least once, always good morning, good night...it's just a lot. I'm not used to guys doing this. Esp after so long 8-29-2015 7:03pm
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        • Mine did too. And we communicated on every holiday, her bday, anniversary, etc just like it was a normal day. Loves me, blah blah blah. But in the end they are pussies who won't...(more) 8-29-2015 7:04pm
          rock the boat.
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          • I'm ok with being a fuck buddy, just wish he wasn't so damn sweet and affectionate 8-29-2015 7:05pm
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            • It's how he gets you to stay. 8-29-2015 7:07pm
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              • I have no desire to leave my husband, he is putting love and shit into my head 8-29-2015 7:08pm
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    • you know he's too chicken to give up his wife and family for you. 8-29-2015 7:02pm
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      • Believe me I know. I've never even asked or hinted at it, but he has said this 8-29-2015 7:04pm
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        • Or above. I have flat out told him to leave or I'm out. Still nada. They will do it only when they are ready. It's been more than 3 years of this and I expect will be a few more....(more) 8-29-2015 7:06pm
          You are just getting started. That said, if he's been married 24 years his kids are older. He is still there for a reason.
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          • Op-I have no desire to leave my dh, that's the thing. 8-29-2015 7:07pm
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            • you probably should. your dh deserves better. 8-29-2015 7:09pm
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            • ^^^and we have been married about the same amount of time. His closeness and shit is messing with my head. I don't want to leave, and I don't want him to. I've made that clear. 8-29-2015 7:10pm
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              • give it a year 8-29-2015 11:55pm
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          • Statistically speaking, men who leave their wives for an affair do so within the first 6 months 8-29-2015 7:08pm
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            • Op-I never said I wanted him to leave! I won't leave because of my kids, and I've told him this!! 8-29-2015 7:11pm
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              • You aren't doing your kids any favors. 10 hr 39 min ago
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            • Right, because their marriage was already done. Oddly though the men I know who have left for affairs have done it after a few years. 8-29-2015 11:55pm
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    • Mine did this too. I used to think it meant he thought I was special, he was in a way "choosing"me over her. Not so. In reality it doesn't mean anything. We do love each other,...(more) 12 hr 1 min ago
      but the love is of a different sort. You will never be first in his life.
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      • you weren't special and his wife sure as shit wasn't special. He's contacting his mistress on his wedding anniversary? Puke 6 hr 7 min ago
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    • I wish I had this type of relationship with my affair. 10 hr 10 min ago
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  6. Cleveland If your affair is single and dating how do you feel about it? 8-28-2015 11:34pm (1 reply)
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    • Couldn't care less. He's a great fuck. I don't expect him to be exclusive, I'm married 8-30-2015 5:20pm
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  7. Cleveland I don;t divorce because I am in love with dh. I hope to die in old age after 60 years of marriage with him 8-28-2015 8:24pm (5 replies)
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    • Then you'd better hope he never finds out 8-28-2015 8:25pm
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      • that is the plan 8-28-2015 8:28pm
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    • so stop putting other men's penis' in your vagina 8-28-2015 8:25pm
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      • we all have our flaws 8-28-2015 8:28pm
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    • Nope. 10 hr 38 min ago
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  8. Cleveland Drinks tomorrow after work? Manhattan (the location not the drink, but Im sure we can find a bartender to serve one of those too) 8-27-2015 6:08pm (1 reply)
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    • Where and when? 8-28-2015 11:49am
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  9. Cleveland 20 questions. 8-27-2015 4:16pm (16 replies)
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    • there is only one worth asking here. 8-27-2015 4:17pm
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      • okay then, one question 8-27-2015 4:17pm
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        • Why don't you divorce? 8-27-2015 4:18pm
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          • DW is a great woman. I love her and love my family. 8-27-2015 4:19pm
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            • lol 8-27-2015 4:19pm
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            • But...... 8-27-2015 4:44pm
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              • np: not enough sex so... 8-28-2015 12:30am
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                • same 8-28-2015 12:31am
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                  • tritto. dw and i are in different galaxies in terms of sex. thats worse than different hemispheres. at lease in the latter i could catch a plane or a boat. 8-28-2015 1:07am
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                    • Which is why 90% of men cheat. 8-28-2015 1:08am
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                      • At least I'm not on AM! 8-28-2015 1:11am
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                        • there were almost no women on AM, which is another good reason for any guy not to use the site 8-28-2015 1:12am
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                          • Damn. Very true. I guess Ill have to look elsewhere. 8-28-2015 1:13am
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                      • Is the number that high? Really? (Genuinely curious, not being snarky) 8-28-2015 1:49pm
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                        • np: 90% probably want to, but the number is probably closer to 50% 8-28-2015 2:53pm
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                          • or: I was trying to make the point that the vast majority of men cheat just to have more sex. They love their wives but they simply want more sex. 8-30-2015 7:34pm
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  10. Cleveland Affair is nervous about the AM leak, not bc his dw will find out but worried about his 20yo ds finding it and losing respect for him. Sad. 8-26-2015 12:10pm (16 replies)
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    • tough shit, hope karma kicks him in the ass 8-26-2015 12:10pm
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      • you've never done anything that you are not proud of? 8-26-2015 12:11pm
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        • this post is about the OP, not about me 8-26-2015 12:12pm
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          • no, everyone is subject to your "idea" of karma then, correct? 8-26-2015 12:13pm
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        • stay on topic, delores 8-26-2015 12:12pm
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        • is the affair continuing? he knows its wrong, and does it anyway. that's not making a mistake, that's bad character. 8-26-2015 12:13pm
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      • this is really a slippery slope. Wait til hackers release names of women who've had abortions, or anything else people want to remain private. 8-26-2015 12:12pm
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    • Cool dad! 8-26-2015 12:10pm
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    • ROFLMAO. Cheaters all get what they deserve, eventually. 8-26-2015 12:12pm
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    • don't worry, i'm sure dad pushed his son into the right college, fraternity and profession (banking, consulting) where this will be a reality (through peer pressure) for him soon...(more) 8-26-2015 12:14pm
      enough
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      • you couldn't be more wrong, but go ahead and make assumptions. 8-26-2015 12:15pm
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    • I really dont like people like you. You both know its wrong, and you only care when you're about to be caught. As long as its kept secret, you could care less about what you're...(more) 8-26-2015 12:18pm
      doing. horrible, evil disgusting excuse of a person you both are
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      • you hit the nail on the head 8-26-2015 12:20pm
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      • Or, rather on a more human level, they are seeking and obtaining some socially unsanctioned pleasure in this brutish world with no intention of hurting anyone. 8-26-2015 1:27pm
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        • oh shut the f up 8-26-2015 4:05pm
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  11. Cleveland I gave her my heart and all she gave me was a pen 8-25-2015 11:08pm (12 replies)
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    • at least you got a pen out of the deal. 8-25-2015 11:42pm
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    • she wanted all of you not just your heart. 8-25-2015 11:45pm
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      • I wish she did 8-25-2015 11:46pm
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        • how do you know? 22 hr 48 min ago
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          • She's gone forever. I know. She slowly pushed me further away then ended it. I can't blame her and I should have seen it coming to emotionally prepare. I wish her the best from my...(more) 21 hr 50 min ago
            heart. Ill take the pen and the memories.
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            • How did she end it? 10 min ago
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            • She is only gone forever if you want her to be gone forever. Anyway, I feel like I was in a situation like this but different. I was ready for something real and he was not. I...(more) 7 min ago
              understood his marriage was the most important thing to him and I respected it.
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    • Joe lies 8-25-2015 11:48pm
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      • when he cries 8-26-2015 11:19pm
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    • so let's hear a bit more about this pen 8-25-2015 11:49pm
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    • say anything. Great movie! ;) 8-26-2015 9:08am
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    • I hear you. 22 hr 48 min ago
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  12. Cleveland Had an affair. Ended it 5 yrs ago. Got my act together. Now divorcing. Contacted affair and he wants me back. For good. Marriage, kids, the whole shebang. This isn't...(more) 8-25-2015 10:28pm (43 replies)
    fake
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    • TITF 8-25-2015 10:29pm
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    • Op-he's single (and always has been) 8-25-2015 10:29pm
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      • what is wrong with him that he wasn't able to find a relationship in 5 yrs? 8-25-2015 10:30pm
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        • He actually got married and divorced in the 5 yes we were apart. No kids. 8-25-2015 10:30pm
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          • why did you end the affair? 8-25-2015 10:31pm
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            • Wanted to work on marriage. 8-25-2015 10:35pm
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              • what made you decide it wasn't going to work? 8-25-2015 10:35pm
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                • Soooooo much. 8-25-2015 10:36pm
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                  • i'm in a similar situation. Can you elaborate? 8-25-2015 10:41pm
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          • NP this is a red flag to me. (Aside from the fact that he's gross enough to sleep with a married woman.) He got married and divorced within a 5 year span? Screams of commitment...(more) 8-25-2015 10:32pm
            issues.
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            • Probably still loved op 8-25-2015 10:33pm
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            • He said he was still in love with me and rushed to get married 8-25-2015 10:33pm
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    • Good. I hope. 8-25-2015 10:30pm
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      • You hope what? 8-25-2015 10:30pm
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        • I hope it is good for you, him, and your dcs 8-25-2015 10:31pm
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    • he sounds desperate. and no other whores wanted him in 5 years, so sad. 8-25-2015 10:30pm
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      • He can fuck whomever he wants. He is young , good looking and has a lot of money. 8-25-2015 10:34pm
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        • Exactly. He is a spoiled rich kid that never had to for anything. When marriage looked like work, he bailed. 8-26-2015 1:16am
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    • If you want it then go for it. Have you not been in contact for 5 years? 8-25-2015 10:32pm
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      • No 8-25-2015 10:33pm
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        • Do you have kids? Take it slow if you do. And finalize the divorce. 8-25-2015 10:34pm
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          • Yes I have 3 8-25-2015 10:34pm
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            • Which divorcing mom are you? 8-25-2015 10:35pm
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              • I haven't posted about my divorce really 8-25-2015 10:36pm
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            • oh for christ's sake 8-25-2015 10:35pm
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              • ? 8-25-2015 10:35pm
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                • please dont put 3 innocent children through this 8-25-2015 10:38pm
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                  • She can't have a relationship because she has kids? 8-25-2015 10:40pm
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                    • yes its because she has kids, nothing to do with the hot mess of a person she is 8-25-2015 10:42pm
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                    • She needs to help her kids work through the divorce before getting into any relationship. 8-25-2015 10:44pm
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                      • And? 8-26-2015 12:23am
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                        • np: she should read the response from SLA 23 hr 57 min ago
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            • "Mommy and Daddy are getting divorced. It has nothing to do with you, just some sleaze Mommy used to have sex with who is conveniently single now too!" 8-25-2015 10:35pm
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              • Shit happens. She might very well be quite happy and the kids too. 8-26-2015 2:04am
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    • It probably won't work but might as well give it a go. 8-25-2015 10:42pm
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    • Be single and date. How old are your dcs? 8-25-2015 10:43pm
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      • I am pretty sure I want him. And vice versa. 8-25-2015 10:43pm
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        • Then be single and focus on your dcs. 8-25-2015 10:44pm
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        • date but don't introduce him to your dc. Wait 8-25-2015 10:46pm
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        • I post on Cleveland so obviously I don't have a problem with affairs but you really should put your dcs first in this situation. 8-25-2015 11:06pm
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          • Where does it say she isn't. 8-26-2015 12:22am
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            • She's getting divorced and she mentions wanting to get into a relationship. She never mentions anything about working on helping her dcs post divorce. 23 hr 56 min ago
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    • Can I ask why you're divorcing now? Did your dh find out ever about your affair(s)? 8-26-2015 2:22pm
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  13. Cleveland Did you know Lesley Howard (Ashley Wilkes) was Jewish? And was shot down by the Luftwaffe during WWII? 8-25-2015 9:06pm (5 replies)
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  14. Cleveland With AM looking less attractive as an option, does anyone use fetlife? 8-24-2015 10:58pm (5 replies)
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    • never heard of it 8-24-2015 11:04pm
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    • Ill take any option 8-24-2015 11:28pm
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    • Is that for fetishes? 8-25-2015 1:22pm
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      • I haven't really used the site but it does seem to be all about fetishes. 8-25-2015 3:56pm
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      • it is. but it's not a bad place to start. 8-26-2015 11:37pm
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  15. Cleveland If you met your affair online, did he come on real fast with sexting, etc. Like before you even met? 8-24-2015 10:30pm (14 replies)
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    • red flag 8-24-2015 10:32pm
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      • It is right? The guy begged to send me a dick shot!! 8-24-2015 10:33pm
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        • bye bye 8-24-2015 10:34pm
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        • Not such a turn on. Nah. I think a cuticle shot mot be more appealing. 8-24-2015 10:34pm
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    • Do none of you women have any self respect?! 8-24-2015 10:34pm
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      • Define respect. I don't respect cock shots. 8-24-2015 10:35pm
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        • Op-this! I am not going to meet him. Just wondering if this par for course 8-24-2015 10:36pm
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          • I can't see that kind of approach working. Even a first date online chat with a vag shot is a bit too much. 8-24-2015 10:37pm
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            • What does that mean? First date is via FaceTime and you send a vag shot?? 8-24-2015 10:39pm
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              • FaceTime first date. Not a bad idea. 8-24-2015 10:43pm
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                • What did your line above mean? 8-24-2015 10:44pm
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                  • It was a joke 8-24-2015 10:45pm
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                  • Come on LA mom. Get with the program! 8-24-2015 10:45pm
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    • Most guys, yes. One guy recently asked to send me videos and dick pics without any in return. He seemed obsessed about it, got off on it. 8-25-2015 1:09am
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  16. Cleveland Long shot- but any south pasadena mom on? 8-24-2015 2:26pm (2 replies)
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    • I think Ashley Wilkes is from south pasadena. 8-24-2015 3:44pm
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    • Yes, hi honey 8-24-2015 6:36pm
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  17. Cleveland How did you meet your affair? I met a guy I really like a couple of years ago but wasn't ready. Online just seems so depressing, I want someone I have some sort of connection...(more) 8-24-2015 2:25pm (12 replies)
    to, don't just want to meet and fuck.
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    • Neighborhood 8-24-2015 2:27pm
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      • Isnt that risky? 8-24-2015 2:28pm
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        • Some people like that, but if it's going to make you anxious then it sounds like it might not be optimal for you. 8-24-2015 2:29pm
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    • I met one here. 8-24-2015 3:10pm
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    • What is your email. You may like me and I may like you. No need to make this depressing. Blue and white with a touch of purple is quite pleasing to the eyes. 8-24-2015 10:29pm
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      • What are you referring to you in your last line? Also I don't live in NY 8-24-2015 10:32pm
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        • The colors on the board. Where do you live? 8-24-2015 10:34pm
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          • Los Angeles 8-24-2015 10:36pm
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            • Im in DC. Not going to work. It was fun while it lasted and I want you to know Ill never forget our time together. 8-24-2015 10:38pm
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              • Lol 8-24-2015 10:41pm
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                • Please, if you're the poster above, DO NOT send me a vagina shot. It will leave a bad taste in my mouth. 8-24-2015 10:42pm
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    • Online. 8-25-2015 1:19am
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  18. Cleveland Did you know Lesley Howard (Ashley Wilkes) was Jewish? And was shot down by the Luftwaffe during WWII? 8-23-2015 6:41pm (0 replies)
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  19. Cleveland Did you know Lesley Howard (Ashley Wilkes) was Jewish? And was shot down by the Luftwaffe during WWII? 8-23-2015 6:40pm (1 reply)
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    • Have a great time posting. Love you!!!! 8-23-2015 6:41pm
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  20. Cleveland Did you know Lesley Howard (Ashley Wilkes) was Jewish? And was shot down by the Luftwaffe during WWII? 8-23-2015 6:40pm (0 replies)
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  21. Cleveland Did you know Lesley Howard (Ashley Wilkes) was Jewish? And was shot down by the Luftwaffe during WWII? 8-23-2015 6:40pm (0 replies)
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  22. Cleveland Did you know Lesley Howard (Ashley Wilkes) was Jewish? And was shot down by the Luftwaffe during WWII? 8-23-2015 6:40pm (0 replies)
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  23. Cleveland Did you know Lesley Howard (Ashley Wilkes) was Jewish? And was shot down by the Luftwaffe during WWII? 8-23-2015 6:40pm (0 replies)
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  24. Cleveland Anyone on? 8-23-2015 5:59pm (36 replies)
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    • Me but not if you're Blocked Affair Mom 8-23-2015 6:42pm
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      • who? 8-23-2015 7:09pm
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      • you must be Lesley Howard poster 8-23-2015 7:14pm
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      • Big ditto on that. Can't take it anymore. And I can be obsessive. 8-23-2015 7:23pm
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        • Right?! I mean I get that it's tough but for the love of Pete... 8-23-2015 7:54pm
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          • what's the backstory here?? 8-23-2015 8:09pm
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          • But she was with him for such a short amount of time. Chalk it up to he realized your cuckoo and move on. 8-23-2015 8:45pm
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            • I think she broke up with him, though? 8-23-2015 9:09pm
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              • I thought it was mutual. She brought it up Bc of her feelings and he agreed...(more) 8-23-2015 9:39pm
                By agreed I mean he ran the other way.
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            • well I don't think most people having affairs are the most emotionally stable 8-23-2015 10:15pm
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          • many, many women feel like her when it ends. people develop feelings pretty quickly whether dating or in an affair 8-24-2015 1:02am
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            • Again I totally get that but she was ruminating ad nauseum. Like she was waiting for the right answer and was going to keep asking the same question until she heard what she...(more) 8-24-2015 7:49am
              wanted to hear. Nothing was getting into her thick skull.
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              • She was processing out loud. I don't think any more than others but she was doing it on here. 8-24-2015 8:59am
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                • you're nuts. she took almost the entire first page one day with her posts 8-24-2015 12:39pm
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                  • that was a bad day for her. Many of us have been there. 8-24-2015 1:36pm
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                    • i think it was a bad week, but still - like the above poster said it was like she was looking for...(more) 8-24-2015 2:32pm
                      looking for an answer no one was giving
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                      • So? 8-24-2015 3:53pm
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                        • Go away blocked affair mom. 8-24-2015 4:58pm
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                          • Seriously was not me. I saw this thread, but have not responded. 8-24-2015 5:12pm
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                            • Correct. It was me. 8-24-2015 5:20pm
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                              • THank you for "sticking up" for me. I am not proud of my actions. I just needed to vent and had no other outlet. Haven't been on for a week or so and happened to see this post. 8-24-2015 5:42pm
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                                • Hopefully you've got your shit together now and are moving ahead in...(more) 8-24-2015 5:45pm
                                  The right direction. You received some really sound advice and I hope you really listened.
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                                  • I haven't felt the need to post here. It's unproductive. As for advice, I have actually met with a therapist who specializes in this area. Seems like she will be very helpful. I...(more) 8-24-2015 5:54pm
                                    don't want to rehash it, but I do want to point out that HE was the one who started talking about feelings early on, like a few weeks in, not me.
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                                    • Glad to hear that but you're still "stuck" on the fact that he shared feelings first. Wtf cares at this point?! My point this entire time is that you need to forget about him and...(more) 8-24-2015 6:00pm
                                      Move on. Not go Rain Man and play that over and over and over again. It's irrelevant.
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                                      • I was just clarifying misinformation above. Yes, I am a little stuck on that, it kind of messes with one's self esteem, at least mine. 8-24-2015 6:05pm
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                                        • All you need to know is he turned his back on you and rejected you. You should be done. 8-24-2015 6:14pm
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                                          • You sound very bitter. 8-24-2015 6:18pm
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                                            • Hahaha I'm really not. This woman needs tough love to get through her thick skull. She needs some self respect. 8-24-2015 6:25pm
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            • Are you a DH or DW? 8-24-2015 2:10pm
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              • DW 8-24-2015 2:39pm
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                • Did that happen to you? 8-24-2015 2:44pm
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                  • Did what exactly happen to me? 8-24-2015 2:49pm
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                    • YOu seem like you were speaking from experience 8-24-2015 2:59pm
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                      • We are all here for one reason or another... 8-24-2015 3:08pm
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              • OR: DW. Sure, i've fallen for a man quickly. I've also had situations where i haven't. 8-24-2015 8:10pm
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      • She's been quiet lately. 8-23-2015 7:47pm
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  25. Cleveland If a single guy was all into you, met online via tinder, and really wanting to meet you even though he knows your married-- does that make him weird? 8-22-2015 6:41pm (21 replies)
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    • Yes 8-22-2015 6:42pm
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      • So you wouldnt meet him? How do you find married person? AM creeped me out 8-22-2015 6:43pm
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    • ^^^ you are 8-22-2015 6:42pm
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    • No, just horny. 8-22-2015 6:42pm
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    • Why would a married woman be on Tinder? 8-22-2015 6:42pm
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      • Where should I go? 8-22-2015 6:43pm
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        • Go for what? 8-22-2015 6:44pm
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          • Find a lover 8-22-2015 6:45pm
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            • Grocery store 8-22-2015 6:47pm
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              • Lol. Been approached once or twice. But what if they are single? 8-22-2015 6:48pm
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        • Where do you lve? 8-22-2015 6:45pm
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    • For sure 8-22-2015 6:47pm
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      • He told me is he on tinder to find a friend, a lover and if something more developed it would be like winning a lottery- ie doesn't expect it 8-22-2015 6:49pm
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    • You're. 8-22-2015 6:48pm
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      • I know that, corrected myself 8-22-2015 6:50pm
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    • So you told him eh? I knew it wouldn't deter him. 8-22-2015 6:49pm
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      • Lol. Yes I was talking to different men, told both, both didnt care. But too many red flags with one, so he is out of picture 8-22-2015 6:50pm
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        • Listen, if you just want to get laid you need to stop overthinking. 8-22-2015 6:54pm
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    • the dude wants to get laid. Hence tinder. He doesn't care about your situation. Sex please. 8-22-2015 9:11pm
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    • DUDE - get a divorce. We've already talked. You are being a giant fucking chicken shit. 8-22-2015 10:46pm
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