Cleveland
- Cleveland Spent another wonderful day with affair, but it really is hard coming back home to my awful marriage and knowing he's going back to his great fun life. I don't want him to...(more)
- Is he single?
- No, he's married
- Why does he have such a great life at home and still cheat? He must be a real asshole or lying? What is wrong in your life?
- He says he doesn't have emotional connection to dw anymore and we are very close. My situation is...(more)
- Why do you say that he has a fun life then?
- He says he doesn't have emotional connection to dw anymore and we are very close. My situation is...(more)
- Why does he have such a great life at home and still cheat? He must be a real asshole or lying? What is wrong in your life?
- No, he's married
- if his life is so great why is he sneaking around w/you?
- Fuck, I don,t know. He says he loves me and always talks about being together "someday" but I am not believing that.
- well you shouldn't believe it. he's a liar. and a cheater.
- Fuck, I don,t know. He says he loves me and always talks about being together "someday" but I am not believing that.
- Is he single?
- Cleveland I finally told affair I'm moving out of state in a few weeks. I didn't get the reaction I was expecting, it was a very odd thing. His friend seemed more shocked and sad than...(more)
- you told him and his friend together? does his friend know that you 2 are having an affair?
- how long has affair been going on?
- I told him forst, hi friend just happened to call and he told him. It's been going on for almost a year
- *first
- I told him forst, hi friend just happened to call and he told him. It's been going on for almost a year
- how long has affair been going on?
- you told him and his friend together? does his friend know that you 2 are having an affair?
- Cleveland Has anyone had an affair with someone your dh knows ? my dh is super suspicious because I always tell him when I hang out with affair (we're coworkers). stupid me thought that if...(more)
- you have to lay low for a while. CAn you do that?
- OP: yes, I'm not going to see him again for at least a week (outside of work anyway)
- ^^and I'm trying to get a sitter so dh can come out with me when I do see the guy so I can spend the evening showing dh we're "just friends"
- you sound retarded.
- that seems like a mistake to me. I think you need to go more than a week without seeing him. Your dh isn't stupid
- OP: good point. ok, maybe I will lay really low for a long time and not bring the guy up?
- yes. Be home, don't go out at night after work, make plans with dh, etc
- doing that. tonight I met dh for happy.hour. tomorrow night dh and I ar going to dinner with kids. thurs Fri a.home..
- yes. Be home, don't go out at night after work, make plans with dh, etc
- OP: good point. ok, maybe I will lay really low for a long time and not bring the guy up?
- ^^and I'm trying to get a sitter so dh can come out with me when I do see the guy so I can spend the evening showing dh we're "just friends"
- OP: yes, I'm not going to see him again for at least a week (outside of work anyway)
- how about stop having an affair or get a divorce.....
- how about get off the cleveland board
- you also write about it online
- you are in idiot in more than one wawy
- ruh roh
- fuck you, you stupid cunt.
- get off the cleveland board!
- you get the cleveland board off my boards!
- get off the cleveland board!
- oooo I could have warned you about that. I tried to throw up a smoke screen for DH once with a story about going out with a guy friend--DH wanted to come along! don't EVER tell DH...(more)
- OP: I know, the problem is I work with all men and I have a ton of male friends that I hang out with, and dh comes along sometimes too and gets along great with these guys! he is...(more)
- hmmm...maybe it would have been better if you were jealous of him too?
- OP: I did tell him I know he always goes out with girls at work and how I get a little jealous too but that I think men and women really can just be friends and I don't mind it
- hmmm...maybe it would have been better if you were jealous of him too?
- OP: I know, the problem is I work with all men and I have a ton of male friends that I hang out with, and dh comes along sometimes too and gets along great with these guys! he is...(more)
- nasty scaby slut
- you should have never mentioned him
- you have to lay low for a while. CAn you do that?
- Cleveland My affair broke things off with me a couple of days ago. We both knew that it had to end, but this happened so abruptly that I'm in shock. I know it was the right thing to do, but...(more)
- you'll get over it. i'm sure.
- Probably not possible. It will be tough for a while
- Take it one hour at a time. Limit contact.
- Why be friends with him? End it.
- It's the worst feeling, so sorry you're going through it. Just hang in there and keep in mind that every day that goes by you will feel better. You're probably hurting the...(more)
- op: thank you. you're right about the feeling of rejection. he was really in love with me at first, but he was never able to accept the situation for what it was (he admitted to...(more)
- np: I often wonder when my guy will get to this point. I love him dearly but have no intention of leaving dh and he's seriously thinking I might someday. I told him when he...(more)
- op: thank you. you're right about the feeling of rejection. he was really in love with me at first, but he was never able to accept the situation for what it was (he admitted to...(more)
- Think me and 4 yr affair are almost there. I just feel it fading, but cant seem to just end it. Ive tried to before and it's been jhorrible so I just keep postponing the...(more)
- people change over time. Still hurts though.
- Cleveland Those who have single men affairs. Does he tell you about dates he goes on? How do you deal?
- Easy. To me he is nothing more than a way for me to get what I need when I need it. There's no great love between us. I couldn't care less about anyone else he's sleeping with as...(more)
- np: ditto back when I used to cheat.
- he stopped dating other people.
- Mine stopped dating other girls... hasn't dated anyone in the year and a half that we've been doing this. I almost wish he would date someone so I wouldn't feel so guilty...(more)
- <b>fff</b>
- My affair divorced while we were having affiar andis now dating. It totally sucks, and I just need to end it. Im not even sure I like him naymore as a person, and we were very...(more)
- he doesn't, but I tell him he should be out seeing other people
- Easy. To me he is nothing more than a way for me to get what I need when I need it. There's no great love between us. I couldn't care less about anyone else he's sleeping with as...(more)
- Cleveland What a mess. found out today that affair was living with another co-worker for 8yrs. was madly in love with her. he & i disappeared for a bit during working hours, she was looking...(more)
- You are a trainwreck.
- ?
- why?
- fake
- No. Sadly this is my life. Thinking of just dropping this entire situation.
- you probably should. why the affair?
- No. Sadly this is my life. Thinking of just dropping this entire situation.
- wow, that's harsh. how did you find out?
- about him & supervisor? He told me. What's better is that he was married at the time!! Ready to divorce to marry her! It was serious shit.
- and he was also having sex with you?
- what? NO! He & I have not had sex. He broke it off with supervisor years ago, however tried to reconcile & start over with her a year ago & she told him she moved on.
- you said he was your affair
- ah, thought he was living with her now and you just found out.
- op:no, he is not living with her now. They have history that ended long ago. Well, i am pretty sure he still has feelings for her.
- What kind of place do you work? Best buy?
- op:no, he is not living with her now. They have history that ended long ago. Well, i am pretty sure he still has feelings for her.
- np-Why do act surprised we assume the absolute scum of you?
- what? NO! He & I have not had sex. He broke it off with supervisor years ago, however tried to reconcile & start over with her a year ago & she told him she moved on.
- what are you going to do now?
- and he was also having sex with you?
- about him & supervisor? He told me. What's better is that he was married at the time!! Ready to divorce to marry her! It was serious shit.
- Are you in therapy?
- you must be disappointing in how you turned out
- I don't understand this.
- ^^^disappointed in myself?
- read what you wrote. does it make you proud?
- np-I am not sure how she could live this way.
- this. she is probably one of the most depressing sounding women on here.
- I don't understand why? I think my post time line was not understood.
- you are having an affair? right? you are married?
- This is the Cleveland board, right?
- you are having an affair? right? you are married?
- I don't understand why? I think my post time line was not understood.
- I don't understand this.
- he gets his jollies dipping his pen in the work ink?
- yeah, right?! I should tell him this...then be done with him.
- Wait. How was he living with her for 8 yrs if he was married all the time? I'm so confused.
- You are a trainwreck.
- Cleveland Do you tell your affairs that they are not your first affair?
- of course. why wouldn't you?
- i am being serious. how do you rationalize more than one? why not divorce?
- i was in a super toxic totally invested affair. This guy is a distraction. No sex. just conversation...kissing...
- why have you not considered divorce?
- my life has been around my husband since I was 14yrs old. I don't think i would know how to exist without him. I don't know how he would exist without me. My husband will always...(more)
- of course.
- my life has been around my husband since I was 14yrs old. I don't think i would know how to exist without him. I don't know how he would exist without me. My husband will always...(more)
- why have you not considered divorce?
- i was in a super toxic totally invested affair. This guy is a distraction. No sex. just conversation...kissing...
- Yes, in the getting-to-know-you phase we told each other a lot, maybe too much.
- Hello me. :) I told him e v e r y thing
- do you regret some of what you told him?
- ^bc now I kind of wish I didn't know some stuff he told me about himself.
- I think sometimes as women we need to just detach and compartmentalize so we know exactly where affair fits. What relevance does his past life have on you and your relationship...(more)
- ? is this ^ the OR or an NP? I'm not sure I follow you. Talking about your experiences with affairs is a pretty natural topic of conversation. I've had more than one affair and...(more)
- NP, not discussing the past affairs talk. I think that this is imperative that you know your partner's sexual history- whether or not it's illicit. I meant more the whole being...(more)
- well the problem with your sexual history is that it's your relationship history now isn't it? are you saying you should list off the men you've had sex with and say no more than...(more)
- Well no, a sexual history is quite different from a relationship history. For instance if I had a one-night stand, it hardly counts as a relationship, but it is sexual history....(more)
- well the problem with your sexual history is that it's your relationship history now isn't it? are you saying you should list off the men you've had sex with and say no more than...(more)
- NP, not discussing the past affairs talk. I think that this is imperative that you know your partner's sexual history- whether or not it's illicit. I meant more the whole being...(more)
- ? is this ^ the OR or an NP? I'm not sure I follow you. Talking about your experiences with affairs is a pretty natural topic of conversation. I've had more than one affair and...(more)
- I think sometimes as women we need to just detach and compartmentalize so we know exactly where affair fits. What relevance does his past life have on you and your relationship...(more)
- I sort of do, because he gets jealous.
- ^bc now I kind of wish I didn't know some stuff he told me about himself.
- do you regret some of what you told him?
- Hello me. :) I told him e v e r y thing
- Cleveland WWYD? Traveling to another city where affair's friend has relocated. Is it weird to ask the friend to go out one night with me?...(more)
- I think it is fine. Is affair aware and okay with it? If so, I say go and have fun!!
- I'm going to ask affair first if he's cool with it. If he hesitates, I won't.
- fuck them both
- is it a no strings attached affair? or is there an emo component to it? if he really likes you than I wouldn't try to go out with his friend... that's an asshole move. if...(more)
- OP. We love each other, so I guess no night out for me. Damn.
- I think it is fine. Is affair aware and okay with it? If so, I say go and have fun!!
- Cleveland Dating moms: do you go out w/a guy even if he isn't really your type just to get out there, or are you very selective?
- Cleveland Affair freaked out last night b/c it was Valentine's Day and he imagined dh and I having hot sex. He was upset this morning when I talked to him....(more)
- well what does he expect?!?!?! he is your dh...
- I didn't ask HIM if he fucked his dw after their V dinner. It kind of worries me that he got this upset.
- yea he needs to go into this knowing what it's all about
- he is emotionally attached. this is not a good sign. will not end well. you need to slowly distance yourself
- agree
- I didn't ask HIM if he fucked his dw after their V dinner. It kind of worries me that he got this upset.
- what a fool
- pick a team
- you can't be jealous of your affair's spouse. your affair needs to know that.
- He does. I'm the OP of the post below about getting in too deep. Now I really know we are.
- well what does he expect?!?!?! he is your dh...
- Cleveland If you got caught, how did you get caught?
- by not applying to the University of Chicago!
- Dh hired a PI. Did you get caught? I think he got suspicious when I just lost all interest in sex with him. I was up to seeing affair 5 days a week and just wasn't interested...(more)
- OP: no, not yet. dh and I are actually in a good place right now, having regular sex, date nights, etc. things are pleasant around the house. I'm being pretty careful , took my gm...(more)
- fuck you cleveland people! if you got caught it's b/cause you wanted to, fuck you cheeters
- at least I can spell
- it was over, and I was devastated. that's when dh got suspicious, checked my email/phone. I hadn't hidden anything.
- wow apparently by being stupid, at least try not to get caught people!
- Checked email on brand new iPad. Didn't know how to close the browser all the way. Dh used iPad and found them.
- caught me on the phone texting affair... broke into a huge fight, he wrestled the phone from me and read the texts. yes, I was careless but I had been with affair for over a...(more)
- wow. this happened to my affair. i ended speaking to the wife!
- so true!
- I didnt. I could teach a course. I did confess later tho.
- Cleveland Sitting here with dh and kids, waiting for sitter so I can go out on date night with dh...and missing affair so much. He's single and I texted him and he responded "can't talk...(more)
- Fucking his other whore
- sucker
- i texted my exEA just happy v day and he never texted back.
- so lame
- that sucks.
- shit like that use to happen all the time with me & xaffair. So happy that shit is over.
- Eh, it happens. My one-nightstand on New Year decided to send me a text inviting me over for dinner and drinks only to backtrack when he realized he texted the wrong person. I...(more)
- Cleveland We are in this deep, and I mean deeply in love. Fuck. It can't end well.
- same here. I'm just enjoying the ride. I know it'll end in misery but whatever
- that's not good. What will you do?
- I really don't know. I do not know.
- Why can't it?
- 2 families involved.
- I think it's already over and you're just struggling with reality.
- So are we. I'm enjoying the ride and taking it day by day.
- BTDT. It will most likely end badly. I ended up hurting my dh, my kids, my parents, siblings, friends, affair, affairs family, EVERYONE. It's the best feeling...(more)
- Oh this is so good for me to hear. We ended it and its so painful but better than the worst case scenario.
- Here's the thing... it's easy to get caught up in the pain you experience over ending it with affair (it's SOOO freaking hard to cut off something that was so...(more)
- ITA. I'm SO glad I ended my emo affair. I DID think about how my selfish choice would impact everyone if they ever found out, but honestly, it was because affair wasn't as into...(more)
- wow thanks for posting this (np). Can you say how your dh found out?
- he had been suspicious for awhile (about 7-8 months after affair started he began to get suspicious) and he...(more)
- oh god that must have been horrific for everyone. Crazy thing is that when I think of my parents finding out it seems worse than if dh finds out. I have to remind myself that it...(more)
- absolutely. and remember that if dh is angry enough with you he could tell everyone. everyone. friends, family, co-workers, neighbors... and most importantlly, your children...(more)
- terrifying
- absolutely. and remember that if dh is angry enough with you he could tell everyone. everyone. friends, family, co-workers, neighbors... and most importantlly, your children...(more)
- oh god that must have been horrific for everyone. Crazy thing is that when I think of my parents finding out it seems worse than if dh finds out. I have to remind myself that it...(more)
- he had been suspicious for awhile (about 7-8 months after affair started he began to get suspicious) and he...(more)
- Here's the thing... it's easy to get caught up in the pain you experience over ending it with affair (it's SOOO freaking hard to cut off something that was so...(more)
- Oh this is so good for me to hear. We ended it and its so painful but better than the worst case scenario.
- Cleveland Do you have anyone you talk to about your affair? I don't even want to tell my therapist. I feel like such a bad person
- my therapist because she is great- she never judges and she rolls with all my insanity
- op: I really like my therapist. But I still hesitate to tell her. Its admitting that I am shitty person
- no it's admitting you needed something right now or then- she wont judge you
- I know this is my issue, I'm just having a really hard time with it. I have a session tomorrow.
- no it's admitting you needed something right now or then- she wont judge you
- op: I really like my therapist. But I still hesitate to tell her. Its admitting that I am shitty person
- please..save your money.
- what do you mean?
- I have one friend who also had an affair that I talk to.
- I only talk about it here. No one irl knows.
- Only here. I could never ever tell anyone in real life. I've been with affair for a year now and I'm comfortable enough with him to talk about the horrible ups and downs...(more)
- if your therapist judges you she isn't the right therapist
- op: she doesn't judge me, I judge myself. that's why I have a hard time talking about it. But I did talk to her about it this week
- - no subject -...(more)
- my therapist because she is great- she never judges and she rolls with all my insanity
- Cleveland How do you know when it stops being just about the sex? Do affairs really fall in love even when it starts off just about sex?
- mine started out as a flirtation/crush and we quickly fell in love...
- sex=bonding. sometimes you fall in love. it happens. frequently.
- i went into the relationship only wanting sex and flirting- he came back at me full force wanting more- we fell in love. he broke my heart because he couldnt be satisfied with...(more)
- what do you mean? He dated others or what?
- yes it absolutely can happen. I wanted nothing but sex from affair. Nobody believes me, but I was really happily married before affair....(more)
- Wow. How often did you see each other?
- We saw each other 3 days a week at work (for about an hour at a time). It was brief interactions at a time but it was enough to keep that spark going. He would just...(more)
- Wow. How often did you see each other?
- Cleveland After 2yrs of emo & sex affair it's finally over. we sustained a lot throught the realationship however his drinking got in the way. resulted in me speaking w/his wife. we got...(more)
- i would execute him from my mind...it will take time but you need to let him the fuck go...
- op:i think i have...what he did to me on that day. I know it mostly was the booze. Still..2yrs & i didn't get a call, nothing. Hurts to realize how it was all lies. I was a fool.
- i just broke up with my fool 2 wks ago..huge coke head. he was on a 3-4 day binge when i came over..it was just a mess. i read his emails and found out he was having a weird emo...(more)
- Thank you so much for sharing. I am in such a state of shocked that i was that person..in that situation. I know i am to blamed for my part in having the affair in the first place...(more)
- the lies are actually truth to him- i met this assholes parents...he begged me to come back to him numerous times - when in between the week we were "broken up" he'd be spending...(more)
- you are 100% right. you are so better off!! This guy got so drunk & sloppy his wife was around & he called me up...he then swayed out the house & left me on the phone with her....(more)
- the lies are actually truth to him- i met this assholes parents...he begged me to come back to him numerous times - when in between the week we were "broken up" he'd be spending...(more)
- Thank you so much for sharing. I am in such a state of shocked that i was that person..in that situation. I know i am to blamed for my part in having the affair in the first place...(more)
- What did he do to you? Please share.
- don't want to get into so much detail, but at one point..he was on top of me & pulled my hair really hard...twisting my head. He told me to take a breath or he would take it from...(more)
- np: I'm so so sorry you went through that. I went through something similiar with my affair. We've been seeing each other for a year and a half. He's single, I'm married with no...(more)
- op:I am so very sorry that you are in this situation! My goodness, i agree it's not healthy. What is it that keeps you going back? I will not lie. I miss what we were but I know...(more)
- honestly... I keep going back because I am afraid that if I reject him then he will out me to everyone. I have visions of him contacting dh out of anger and telling...(more)
- op:I am so very sorry that you are in this situation! My goodness, i agree it's not healthy. What is it that keeps you going back? I will not lie. I miss what we were but I know...(more)
- np: I'm so so sorry you went through that. I went through something similiar with my affair. We've been seeing each other for a year and a half. He's single, I'm married with no...(more)
- don't want to get into so much detail, but at one point..he was on top of me & pulled my hair really hard...twisting my head. He told me to take a breath or he would take it from...(more)
- i just broke up with my fool 2 wks ago..huge coke head. he was on a 3-4 day binge when i came over..it was just a mess. i read his emails and found out he was having a weird emo...(more)
- op:i think i have...what he did to me on that day. I know it mostly was the booze. Still..2yrs & i didn't get a call, nothing. Hurts to realize how it was all lies. I was a fool.
- i would execute him from my mind...it will take time but you need to let him the fuck go...
- Cleveland Just got an iphone. what are the best features/apps?
- BLITZ BEJEWELED (do not say i did not warn you!)
- I personally love tetris
- op - thanks. i do have bejeweled
- Is this meant to be related to affairs? If so... I have several app suggestions I can give you. :)
- please do
- don't want to get into too many details because i'm scared that dh will find ybm and discover my secrets... but you can get the app...(more)
- please do
- Whatever you do, do not turn on the "find my iphone" feature.
- lol
- BLITZ BEJEWELED (do not say i did not warn you!)
- Cleveland Is the Dh who goes by NSR on?
- no. but i'm curious to know this story now. (Do you like that part of posting here or not like it?)
- op: i do like that part. Very long story short I had posted some weeks back about conflicted feelings I was having about affair. NSR talked me through it. Fast foward to yesterday...(more)
- well, if you want, update me. i'll listen. no judgments.
- are you a dh or dw - just curious
- dw.
- op: ok. the long and short is this - affair and i work at smae place in diff areas. it was never "love" but i alwyas thought it was a little more than just sex. one of our things...(more)
- how are you feeling about all of this?
- relieved that i got off my chest what I needed to. vindicated that he admitted was also wrong as for months it was "all my fault". secure knowing that it wasnt actually just sex...(more)
- you mean you might get back together?
- relieved that i got off my chest what I needed to. vindicated that he admitted was also wrong as for months it was "all my fault". secure knowing that it wasnt actually just sex...(more)
- how are you feeling about all of this?
- op: ok. the long and short is this - affair and i work at smae place in diff areas. it was never "love" but i alwyas thought it was a little more than just sex. one of our things...(more)
- dw.
- are you a dh or dw - just curious
- well, if you want, update me. i'll listen. no judgments.
- op: i do like that part. Very long story short I had posted some weeks back about conflicted feelings I was having about affair. NSR talked me through it. Fast foward to yesterday...(more)
- hey op, he's a creep. btdt. he grosses me out now
- why what happened
- no. but i'm curious to know this story now. (Do you like that part of posting here or not like it?)
- Cleveland It's so hard to know that you're both hurting so much, and still not reach out to him.
- be strong. it will only add to the hurt to reach out
- yeah, he is not hurting....
- this
- Why are you both hurting?
- Cleveland I told him that I wanted to leave dh for reasons having nothing to do with him. He asked me whether I would want to spend the rest of my life with him if that were to happen. Not...(more)
- is it what you want?
- if I were to leave dh? I don't know. I don't him to leave his wife. At least I don't want to be the reason he does.
- you are a loser. only losers do this.
- why did it almost make you cry?
- I
- I just wasn't expecting that. I figured we have a great relationship. Awesome chemistry. We often say we love each other. But to me none of it is real because we're both married....(more)
- ^ This morning I woke up to an email from him stating that for the first time since we've ben together, he didn't care about getting caught just so we could take our relationship...(more)
- he is lying. shit like this makes them nervous. He is feeling you out. think nothing more of it.
- He could be lying, but not out of nervousness. He knows I've been conflicted about leaving for the past 3-4 years, and he wasn't in my life then. He also knows that I had a trial...(more)
- is it what you want?
- Cleveland This place changes my real life more then facebook, FB is a show, this place people say the good, bad, and ugly
- Yup - Anonymity = truth
- people are often playing games and releasing hostility too. Don't take all comments for real.
- True true. But you get waaay more authentic opinions on controversial topics here than you could on Facebook.
- Just have to weed out and ignore useless comments
- Agreed.
- Just have to weed out and ignore useless comments
- True true. But you get waaay more authentic opinions on controversial topics here than you could on Facebook.
- people are often playing games and releasing hostility too. Don't take all comments for real.
- i think this is another kind of show, though.
- I agree! If you saw my facebook you would think I have the perfect marriage and life, and it's the total opposite of that
- Yup - Anonymity = truth
- Cleveland Thank You ladies, after reading all your stories i ended it before it got any further. It hurts enough now. Couldn't imagine if we had been together years and slept with...(more)
- affair?
- Yes
- huh, I ignored their advice and dove in
- how did that work out?
- going well so far but it's early stages :)
- I miss the attention, it was a big ego boost, so it was depressing not having it. If it had gone further I think I would be depressed for months when it ended
- :) good luck. I did too and its been wonderful.
- going well so far but it's early stages :)
- how did that work out?
- yep. I ended it after 5 mos, before it got out of control. It was so painful & still is but can't imagine more time, deeper connection.
- Gotta take the bull by the horns-- gotta be ready to prepare our daughters when the time comes
- good for you!
- affair?
- Cleveland Just found out that we are moving within the next 4 months. Husband is going to be transfered and we are putting our house on the market on Monday. I guess this will make for a...(more)
- tell us about the affair. How long have you been involved?
- op: we've been seeing each other for about 8 months, but things have gotten serious within the past 3 months probably
- Best case scenario, really.
- tell us about the affair. How long have you been involved?
- Cleveland How can you say" I really want to fuck you!" without turning him off?
- How could that turn any man off?
- coming off too forward maybe? I don't know...
- Context needed... where, when, how will you say this?
- A message to a man I've been talking to. I was thinking a msg. We haven't met up yet.
- If we were together, he would get the message, no words would be necessary.
- A message to a man I've been talking to. I was thinking a msg. We haven't met up yet.
- Save that kind of talk for third base. Said like a 17yo. ;)
- Agreed- obvious w/out words way better move
- dh: If that doesn't work, then you need another man
- I'm pretty sure that saying I want to fuck you to any man will do the trick ;) that's hot
- How could that turn any man off?
- Cleveland I'm heartbroken. This hurts so bad. I tried to end it with affair for a good solid year and he refused to let me go....(more)
- When you get treatment.
- When you tell your husband
- why tell?
- LAUGH MY FUCKING ASS OFF! Go slit your wrists.
- op: wow, that's nice... thank you.
- i told you so
- It will get better, get some therapy, find a hobby get help for the real issues at hand that drove you to have an affair
- - no subject -...(more)
- Don't feel rejected. Remember you were the one who wanted to end it first. He probably knew it was over then, and held on so he could be the one to end it for the same reasons you...(more)
- op: good advice, thank you.
- no problem!
- np: I feel like I'm in a similar situation. Have been with affair for over a year, and I've tried to end it a couple of times. He refused to let me go. Now I'm completely addicted...(more)
- no problem!
- op: good advice, thank you.