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  1. Toddler In divorce - does your child support go up and down with exdh's income? do you request a copy of his W2 every year? 5 hr 31 min ago (11 replies)
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    • you can stipulate that 5 hr 30 min ago
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      • good to know. my dh's income varies year to year wildly and owns a co. that could be bought in the next few years. trying to figure an exit strategy (and he knows it too) 5 hr 23 min ago
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    • it's a set amount. if there is a significant change in income, he (or I) could go to court and have it changed 5 hr 30 min ago
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    • No. No. It's set by the court at the time of divorce and so far no changes and I don't anticipate any. Changing would mean going back to court. 5 hr 30 min ago
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    • It remains as set forth in your judgment or agreement until one party moves to have it modified or reviewed, or you agree to change it amongst yourselves. 5 hr 30 min ago
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    • Get a job! Freeloaders! 5 hr 29 min ago
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      • support your kids, asshole! 5 hr 29 min ago
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        • my dh spends freely for himself and his hobbies and gf, but not much else 5 hr 25 min ago
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    • I've never heard of it goiing up, just down. 5 hr 29 min ago
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      • It can decrease based upon a change in circumstances (job loss, increase in income to custodial parent, etc) 5 hr 23 min ago
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        • I know, I have heard of it getting decreased. I've not heard of it going up years later if someone suddenly starts to make more. 5 hr 18 min ago
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  2. Toddler This post has been disliked 4 times. showMove all migrants to Detroit 5 hr 33 min ago (16 replies)
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    • ^ I bet it would thrive 5 hr 33 min ago
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      • they should go to newark, nj 5 hr 29 min ago
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    • to work at... 5 hr 33 min ago
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    • why do you keep posting this? how fucking sad your life must be. 5 hr 33 min ago
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      • np: she's waiting for validation. tell her it's a great idea, why hasn't anyone thought of it before 5 hr 32 min ago
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        • If the govt subsidizes them them as well - really subsidizes them - they could revitalize Detroit 5 hr 28 min ago
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          • I'm sure the current residents would LOVE that 5 hr 27 min ago
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            • It would bring in money they haven't seen. What do you think the objection would be? I'm not talking about dumping them there. I hope you're not either. They'd need...(more) 5 hr 25 min ago
              serious financial support, like Germany provides
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      • she's a fucking dumbass 5 hr 28 min ago
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    • they are skipping over detroit and want to go to ann arbor 5 hr 32 min ago
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      • clutches pearls 5 hr 29 min ago
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    • And with subsidies that could revitalize the city 5 hr 29 min ago
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    • Camden, NJ! 5 hr 29 min ago
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    • How about Dubai 5 hr 29 min ago
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    • East New York 5 hr 29 min ago
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    • Williamsburg 5 hr 27 min ago
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  3. Toddler If you died, would your dh remarry? Who? 5 hr 35 min ago (40 replies)
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    • No 5 hr 35 min ago
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    • Prob., someone really smart 5 hr 34 min ago
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    • My sister. 5 hr 34 min ago
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      • Like Mel Gibson did in the patriot? 5 hr 32 min ago
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        • Yes, we made the pact from that 5 hr 31 min ago
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      • My mom's parents were Syrian (jews) who each were married to other people and each had one baby. The women were sisters and the men were brothers. In Aleppo, one brother died...(more) 5 hr 30 min ago
        leaving my grandmother a widow. And my grandfather's first wife at died at about the same time. Of course, they got married, moved to Brooklyn and had 8 more children together
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    • i doubt it. i know i would never. 5 hr 34 min ago
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    • I don't know but I would want him to remarry, I would not want him to be lonely. 5 hr 34 min ago
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    • I'm sure he would be open to it but I doubt highly anyone would want him. 5 hr 34 min ago
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    • He's so cheap. Prolly not. 5 hr 33 min ago
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    • no. he would try to get himself a younger girl and fail and then live out his life alone. 5 hr 31 min ago
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    • i would want him to, he's a sweet guy 5 hr 31 min ago
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    • sure. i don't know. a younger woman? 5 hr 30 min ago
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    • I think he would be happy not getting married again, except he would get married again so the kids weren't totally his responsibility 5 hr 30 min ago
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    • if he does, i will haunt him. 5 hr 30 min ago
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      • omg 5 hr 29 min ago
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      • why? you'd rather he be lonely? 5 hr 29 min ago
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        • we have a bunch of kids. he'll never be lonely. we WISH we would experience a few minutes of loneliness lol 5 hr 27 min ago
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          • and when your kids leave the house? 5 hr 27 min ago
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            • our youngest kid is 19, in college. we're a close family, very intertwined. there's always someone about, or we're watching the baby. we're much further along this parenting...(more) 5 hr 25 min ago
              thing.
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          • nP: so your kids will always live at home? what? that makes no sense. Your kids will eventually have their own lives. I would never want my dh to come home to an empty house. 5 hr 26 min ago
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            • and i think it would be great to live with one of the kids, or vice versa. different strokes. 5 hr 24 min ago
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        • Yes. I don't want to be replaced. 5 hr 24 min ago
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      • so you are selfish and don't think about his happiness (even after you are dead), nice! 5 hr 26 min ago
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        • we are the love of each other's lives. 5 hr 25 min ago
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    • Yes, probably quickly 5 hr 28 min ago
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    • absolutely. he's a big believer in marriage. 5 hr 28 min ago
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      • weird response, it's not about marriage imo, it's about being with the right person and sharing a life together 5 hr 27 min ago
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        • so then every response is weird, right? because no one can imagine being married to literally any human being on earth. but certainly people may prioritize marraige/finding...(more) 5 hr 20 min ago
          someone to share a life with. that's what he does.
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    • probably his asian gf 5 hr 28 min ago
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    • he says no, but i can't see him without someone. he loves being in a relationship. 5 hr 26 min ago
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    • He would not. He wouldn't be able to go on. We have discussed this, as I have serious medical issues. 5 hr 25 min ago
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      • he says that, but you don't know. my dh says the same (i had cancer) but i think he would find someone. 5 hr 23 min ago
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        • So sorry, are you all right now? 5 hr 22 min ago
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          • i'm ok now. 1.5 years of treatment (just had my 2 years anniversary from diagnosis). 20% chance of recurrence. i hope you're not in a situation where you are truly worried...(more) 5 hr 20 min ago
            about your life in a year/two/etc.
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        • He was single (divorced) ten years prior to me. I know him; he wouldn't remarry. 5 hr 19 min ago
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          • fair enough. i wouldn't remarry if something happened to dh. i wouldn't want to bother w. someone else. 5 hr 18 min ago
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    • he says he never would, but I would want him to find someone wonderful for our girls 5 hr 17 min ago
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  4. Toddler Who wants to join my single mothers who hate their exh club? 5 hr 36 min ago (30 replies)
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    • This post just makes me want to adopt more. No point settling just to have kids. 5 hr 35 min ago
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      • um, huh?? 5 hr 35 min ago
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      • I responded below and I didn't marry for kids. I was crazy about him. I was blind to a lot of things but I never felt I was settling. 5 hr 34 min ago
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        • NP: That was me. I have never loved someone like I did him. Now I think about divorce every day 5 hr 30 min ago
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      • Thank god for ivf. I held out for the love of my life but it took a while 5 hr 33 min ago
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      • it's obnoxious to say women are divorced because they "settled" 5 hr 31 min ago
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        • np she knows, that's why she isn't replying to anything 5 hr 31 min ago
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        • OR: I wasn't implying she settled, just saying her post was encouraging me not to settle. 5 hr 30 min ago
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          • np what does settling at all have to do with this post? 5 hr 29 min ago
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            • This is YBM, sometimes it's just a random comment. Have a glass of wine. 5 hr 28 min ago
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              • your random comment means that you need to unsticky and start a new post 5 hr 28 min ago
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          • np: as someone who didn't 'settle,' you shouldn't ever settle, imo. 5 hr 29 min ago
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    • I'm working towards indifference, I think it will be healthier, and I'll feel less sad and hurt all the time 5 hr 35 min ago
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      • i would like to be indifferent, but he keeps doing things that cause me to hate him 5 hr 35 min ago
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        • mine has humiliated me and broken my heart. his work his done, now he wants to be "friends" 5 hr 33 min ago
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          • i wish mine wanted to be friends, bc God knows i've gone out of my way to try 5 hr 32 min ago
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          • Do you want to be enemies? 5 hr 32 min ago
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    • I'm about to join your single moms club. I hope I don't hate my ex. Is it inevitable? 5 hr 35 min ago
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      • i can't speak for anyone else, but all i can say is that it's not my fault we don't get along 5 hr 34 min ago
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        • I want the divorce. He does not. I might end up being the hated one 5 hr 33 min ago
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          • having been the one left, it's pretty horrible 5 hr 31 min ago
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            • Tell me more. Please 5 hr 29 min ago
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              • I don't know your situation; my dh cheated and spent 2 years pretending he wanted to fix things and move on together. I loved him, I believed him, he left. It sucks for me, for...(more) 5 hr 26 min ago
                our kids
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                • np but arent you glad to not be married to a liar now? it's not like you were married to a great guy and he left you 5 hr 26 min ago
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                  • I'm still dealing with it all. I'm happier to be living honestly 5 hr 18 min ago
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                • I'm leaving the marriage but I'm not leaving my kids 5 hr 17 min ago
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      • No. My ex and I get a long very well. 5 hr 34 min ago
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    • It just makes me sad my ex is AWOL and throws money at me to fix all...(more) 5 hr 30 min ago
      Problems without having a real relationship with our kids. Someday this will haunt him
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      • well think of the alternative, he could be a fucking thorn in your side while giving you money. i'd take what you have 5 hr 28 min ago
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      • wow, that is my dh too. he is a midlife crisis cliche, and writing checks lets him feel like he is a good father 5 hr 24 min ago
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  5. Toddler So funny watching a movie from 80s (footloose) and the main girl is flat chested and braless. you would never see that today. everyone has implants! 5 hr 36 min ago (3 replies)
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    • boobs were smaller back then 5 hr 35 min ago
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    • I remember finding that odd at the time 5 hr 31 min ago
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      • i find it odd now. like why? 5 hr 30 min ago
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  6. Toddler What has been the secret to your happy marriage? 5 hr 37 min ago (15 replies)
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    • We basically accepted each other's differences 5 hr 36 min ago
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    • Honestly it helps a lot that both of us are the children of very happy marriages 5 hr 35 min ago
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      • i am, though his own family history is sad and somewhat fractured. i think what the first or said is true for us - we are really each ok with the other being who they are. i don't...(more) 5 hr 32 min ago
        want him to change, and vice versa. we are both really laid back, take little seriously. we really like each other, as well as love each other. we have a chemistry that will never die.
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      • I bet that helps sometimes, but my parents were divorced. I pretty much refuse to have that in my life or my kids' lives. dh's parents were so into each other that I don't think...(more) 5 hr 32 min ago
        dh learned much. they wanted to discuss everything privately etc etc.
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      • my ex and I were too. didn't help us. 5 hr 31 min ago
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    • agreed we won't give up, agreed we love each other 5 hr 34 min ago
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    • Communication and not a lot of drama 5 hr 33 min ago
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    • I think marrying an equal partner helps. 5 hr 32 min ago
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      • ITA 5 hr 31 min ago
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      • ita, at least having the same education level, similar work experiences etc., I know I'll get flamed for that but if you have vastly different life experiences I think it can put...(more) 5 hr 29 min ago
        things out of balance eventually.
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        • religion too 5 hr 24 min ago
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        • anti sahm bitch 5 hr 20 min ago
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    • for us, being good friends for a long time before dating. 5 hr 24 min ago
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    • Not keeping score - just asking for things you need to be done 5 hr 23 min ago
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    • blowjobs. And also have time apart AND time just us 2 with nobody else 5 hr 21 min ago
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  7. Toddler LOWER TAXES. I will be able t afford a ft nanny and maybe even a cleaning lady. I will do more work on my house and create jobs!!!! 5 hr 37 min ago (11 replies)
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    • Reaganomics 5 hr 36 min ago
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    • whose going to pay the teachers, cops, firefighters, fixing the roads, etc? 5 hr 36 min ago
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      • I didn't say eliminate. 5 hr 35 min ago
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        • so, lower the pay for all those public servants 5 hr 34 min ago
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          • Retiring after 20 hrs is bullshite. 5 hr 32 min ago
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            • you wouldn't be saying that if it were you, right? 5 hr 32 min ago
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              • Come on, it's impossible to pay full pensions 40-60 years for people that only worked 20. It's ridiculous. 5 hr 30 min ago
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                • again, if it were YOU, you wouldn't be bitching 5 hr 27 min ago
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                  • It's absurd and makes NO sense. It's not about bitching, it's about plain old math. 5 hr 17 min ago
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      • Just stop giving to the welfares 5 hr 35 min ago
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    • Or maybe take care of your own kids and scrub your own toilets? Wild idea, I know. 5 hr 21 min ago
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  8. Toddler Where does your dog sleep? How old is dog? 5 hr 38 min ago (25 replies)
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    • in my bed, 9 5 hr 38 min ago
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    • on the couch, 11 5 hr 37 min ago
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    • Almost 1, she has a cozy bed in laundry room 5 hr 37 min ago
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    • Don't know exactly how old. She's a shelter do and I think she's about 9 or 10. She sleeps in the living room. I think she moves around. 5 hr 37 min ago
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    • under the covers, where a dog should sleep. ;) he's 5. 5 hr 37 min ago
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      • Breed? 5 hr 36 min ago
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        • adorable little mutt 5 hr 35 min ago
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      • Do your sheets stink 5 hr 34 min ago
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        • probably. i don't really care. we do wash our sheets. to my mind, dogs sleep on or in your bed. our last dog slept on the bed, but this guy burrows under the covers. 5 hr 32 min ago
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          • np: itta, why have a pack animal and banish from the pack? 5 hr 27 min ago
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    • Foot of bed, 5 5 hr 37 min ago
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    • They are 3 and 1. The little one is in my bed every night. 3 yr old only when there's a storm bc she's scared. 5 hr 36 min ago
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    • On my bed. 3. 5 hr 36 min ago
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    • On my fucking pillow. 4 months 5 hr 36 min ago
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      • Does he pee on you? 5 hr 35 min ago
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        • No not yet. She's in crate from 10- 2, pees outside , pillow 5 hr 34 min ago
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    • 7 yrs, beds/sofa/floor 5 hr 34 min ago
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    • In their crates, 5 & 6. 5 hr 33 min ago
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    • Dog bed in dds room. 5 5 hr 32 min ago
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    • In our bed, 5 5 hr 29 min ago
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    • 4 yo/foot of my bed 5 hr 26 min ago
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    • in my bed. 13. I lift him up to bed now. 5 hr 24 min ago
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    • one sleeps at the foot of the bed and the other sleeps under the covers snuggled with us. both 12yo 5 hr 23 min ago
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    • our bed - 4yo and 8yo 5 hr 23 min ago
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  9. Toddler Hiring a videographer for dd's bat mitzvah for $300 for filming the ceremony. about 2 hours. includes editing. not bad, right? nyc. dh is griping. 5 hr 39 min ago (18 replies)
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    • they are getting a raw deal 5 hr 38 min ago
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      • he's doing it as a friend. 5 hr 37 min ago
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    • Sounds really cheap. Who's doing photos and how much 5 hr 38 min ago
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      • a friend is a photographer. she's doing it for free but i'm paying her anyway 5 hr 38 min ago
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    • be careful. you may get what you pay for here. if you ever intend on actually watching this silly video, that is 5 hr 37 min ago
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      • he's actually a documentarian. i'm doing it to upload since overseas family wants to see it 5 hr 37 min ago
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        • unless you are religoious, do you really think anyone wants to watch the f*cking ceremony on video for more than 5 minutes. barach atah adeonoy and be done. 5 hr 30 min ago
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          • actually, it's not that simple. it's secular and she's doing a great project that some people want to see. amen. 5 hr 29 min ago
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            • (they really don't) 5 hr 27 min ago
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        • yeah a shitty documetarian 5 hr 28 min ago
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          • who has won awards 5 hr 28 min ago
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            • ooohh awards.. Joe's Very Best Documentarian Award? 5 hr 27 min ago
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    • Super super cheap. Be careful 5 hr 37 min ago
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    • That is extremely cheap 5 hr 32 min ago
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    • The odds of you getting a quality product at that price is low. I would have a back-up plan. 5 hr 32 min ago
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      • it actually seems as if it's a friend who is a professional, and just accepting this token payment 5 hr 31 min ago
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        • will she/he be a guest? do they know all your friends? my df had her friend, who is a professional photographer, shoot her dc's BM. Pictures were good quality but concentrated on...(more) 5 hr 29 min ago
          all of their mutual friends rather than all the guests. Also, bc he'd never shot a BM before (tho he'd attended them before) he missed some of the important moments.
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    • you get what you pay for 5 hr 29 min ago
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  10. Toddler Your mom is on her sixth round of chemo. What can I send her? 5 hr 40 min ago (14 replies)
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    • she doesn't want anything but a visit from you. 5 hr 39 min ago
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      • I can't visit :( it's good friends mom and she is too afraid terms 5 hr 38 min ago
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    • cashmere wrap to wear in infusion room 5 hr 39 min ago
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    • hand cream, a nice throw, something she really likes 5 hr 39 min ago
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    • Why can't you go. Visit 5 hr 39 min ago
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      • Not my mom a friends mom 5 hr 38 min ago
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    • Bitch fucking ask her. 5 hr 39 min ago
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    • beauty counter lotion is so nice. no harmful chemicals or smells 5 hr 38 min ago
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      • ^I love the shampoo and body wash too. I don't even feel like I need conditioner with the shampoo, but it isn't heavy 5 hr 36 min ago
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        • She probably lost her hair to chemo. Shampoo not appropriate! 5 hr 34 min ago
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          • possibly, yes. the products are wonderful though. 5 hr 31 min ago
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    • carton of Lucky Strikes; they're toasted for flavor! LSMFT 5 hr 36 min ago
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    • A card with a hopeful, heartfelt message. Signed, my mom had a lot of chemo 5 hr 32 min ago
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  11. Toddler 4th grader listens to Fetty Wap. Where did I fuck up? 5 hr 40 min ago (6 replies)
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    • you gave him unfettered access via some stupid little device. 5 hr 40 min ago
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    • Nobody know what the fuck you're yammering about. 5 hr 39 min ago
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      • I sound like Fetty Wap 5 hr 39 min ago
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    • My 10th grader loves him. I kinda do too 5 hr 39 min ago
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      • Is this bad? He gets straight As, never in trouble, great athlete but loves rap 5 hr 38 min ago
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    • I have no idea what that is 5 hr 38 min ago
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  12. Toddler So i realized today my dh spends more than he earns and my widowed, moneyed mother has too much $ but wont part with it. then im caught in the middle. they hate each other 5 hr 41 min ago (8 replies)
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    • leave them both 5 hr 40 min ago
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    • How old is your mom. How many siblings do you have? 5 hr 40 min ago
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      • 80 and i have 3 sibs 5 hr 38 min ago
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    • One thing has nothing to do with the other. 5 hr 39 min ago
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      • well sure it would, they would both judge the other as a damn fool 5 hr 38 min ago
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        • this 5 hr 36 min ago
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        • who cares? the only thing that actually matters here is that you and your husband may have a financial problem. you may not, maybe you make a shitload of money and so what he...(more) 5 hr 36 min ago
          spends doesn't matter.
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  13. Toddler So Germany and the US should accept all refugees who want to resettle. 5 hr 41 min ago (32 replies)
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    • no. there should be a cohesive plan to divide the burden among countries 5 hr 40 min ago
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    • No, the Arab nations should actually accept them 5 hr 40 min ago
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      • This. Why do those rich Arabs country's never do anything about the issues in their backyard? Why does Europe and US have to do clean up? 5 hr 34 min ago
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    • no 5 hr 39 min ago
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    • And what about people who are already here escaping violence next door? Oh yeah, they don't count. 5 hr 39 min ago
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      • np what? 5 hr 38 min ago
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        • What don't you understand? 5 hr 37 min ago
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          • i'm not sure why this would be an either or situation 5 hr 35 min ago
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            • Then charity starts at home. Start trying to get the people here better lives. The Syrian situation is tragic, but so is the violence from our neighbors. I wish there were some...(more) 5 hr 32 min ago
              Heartbreak for people picking our fruit, too.
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              • being a migrant worker and being a refugee are pretty different things 5 hr 27 min ago
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        • Nnp: Refugees from Central America 5 hr 36 min ago
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          • why does supporting syrian refugees mean you don't care about any other refugees? 5 hr 36 min ago
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            • should we accept ALL refugees who want to come to the US? why stop at Syria? how about African refugees? 5 hr 35 min ago
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              • i believe that the US should be more open to refugees in general, yes. it takes a very small number proportionate to many other countries 5 hr 34 min ago
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                • how would we possibly feed, house and educate them? 5 hr 33 min ago
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                  • cut huge military spending, raise taxes to create better social services 5 hr 32 min ago
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                    • better social services for immigrants and refugees 5 hr 32 min ago
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                      • for everyone, if you want it 5 hr 29 min ago
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    • OP from the post that got flamed - now everyone is changing their tune, not so sure they want millions of refugees in the US 5 hr 38 min ago
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      • They shouldn't be in Europe either. 5 hr 38 min ago
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      • i'm from sweden, which has a huge refugee population, and i would fully support the US taking a large group of refugees 5 hr 37 min ago
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        • 10 million? 50 million? 5 hr 36 min ago
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          • it depends on what resources would be available for them. 5 hr 35 min ago
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            • well, let's start with schools and social service agencies - do we have the resources to accept millions of refugees from the middle east and Africa? 5 hr 34 min ago
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              • if resources were reallocated from other places, such as the bloated military, absolutely 5 hr 33 min ago
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                • so accept 50 million refugees and cut the military in half 5 hr 33 min ago
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                  • germany has historically taken in at least twice as many refugees as the us in raw numbers despite having only 1/4th of the population. the US can do more. 5 hr 29 min ago
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                    • We have enough problems. 5 hr 23 min ago
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                    • they don't have the stupid military that we do. 5 hr 21 min ago
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        • We already have illegal immigrants. Besides these Muslim people are crazy they just want everyone else to be Muslim too 5 hr 35 min ago
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          • i believe you are deeply misinformed about the situation 5 hr 34 min ago
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          • Yesh. No way. 5 hr 22 min ago
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  14. Toddler Did anyone hear the npr interview today with the Syrian mother who used to be a teacher? 5 hr 41 min ago (7 replies)
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    • This post has been disliked 4 times. showWho gives a shit 5 hr 39 min ago
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      • why so grouchy? 5 hr 39 min ago
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        • she is a troll with no life, ignore np 5 hr 38 min ago
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      • said the loser on YBM on a friday night, go fuck yourself since your DH won't 5 hr 38 min ago
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      • aw, rough life huh? lol 5 hr 38 min ago
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    • no, what was the interview about 5 hr 37 min ago
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  15. Toddler Started watching Tyrant, WOW I find Barry so hot 5 hr 42 min ago (7 replies)
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    • I don't, but I like the show, and if you think he is hot at the beginning, you will really be into him in season two 5 hr 41 min ago
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    • I watched the first episode. Wanted to like it but I couldn't stand it 5 hr 41 min ago
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      • why? 5 hr 39 min ago
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        • because the American wife is SO DUMB: if my dh's family was a bunch of mid eastern despots I would NOT say "they're family, we should go!" 5 hr 37 min ago
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          • I agree, but they have to have a show. I enjoy it 5 hr 36 min ago
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          • The show definitely requires some suspension of disbelief throughout, but I like it 5 hr 32 min ago
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  16. Toddler How much would u pay a mothers helper for 1 week in the hamptons? 6 nights 5 hr 42 min ago (30 replies)
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    • Is she coming with or I'm hiring her there? 5 hr 41 min ago
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      • Coming with, 2 doc 5 hr 40 min ago
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        • HOURS?? 5 hr 39 min ago
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          • 10-12 hrs a day 5 hr 38 min ago
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        • let's say 10 hours a day x 6 = 60 hrs x 20 for 2 dcs..$1200. cause you know you're not gonna spend a lot fo tiem with them 5 hr 37 min ago
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          • ita -- this person is being taken away from her own life 100% whether or not she is working 24 hours / day 5 hr 36 min ago
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            • yep..check cnn. this morning 5 hr 35 min ago
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              • lol, autofill...yep! 5 hr 35 min ago
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    • how many dcs? hours? 5 hr 41 min ago
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    • $750 5 hr 40 min ago
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      • what is to dislike? this is round the clock 5 hr 38 min ago
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    • $800 5 hr 40 min ago
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      • -- maybe $100 and if you get ice cream for your kids get her a cone, too 5 hr 35 min ago
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    • How. Any fucking hours op? Wtf is wrong with you sahms. 5 hr 40 min ago
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      • when i was 12 i was a mother's helper, worked a full week, and then went away with the family for a week or so. it was one of the more uncomfortable and miserable experiences of...(more) 5 hr 38 min ago
        my life.
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        • i bet it was! you don't know where you fit in -- what exactly is expected? did you have any time to yourself? 5 hr 37 min ago
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          • not really. it was strange to be The Help, watching the sweet little boy i watched while cousins, my own age, were playing and having fun around me. 5 hr 35 min ago
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            • stupid family with cousins that wouldn't help...my nieces totally pitched in to help me when my dc was small 5 hr 33 min ago
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              • you don't understand. they were children themselves, as i was. it was their vacation. i was there watching their little cousin. 5 hr 30 min ago
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                • how old were you? 5 hr 29 min ago
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                  • i was 12. it was the summer after 7th grade. 5 hr 28 min ago
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                    • yep. my nieces helped at that age. they loved playing with my dc. 5 hr 27 min ago
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                      • Np: my dds are that age. They enjoy helping out and playing with their young niece and nephew, but it can get awkward if they are suddenly expected to help out constantly. It is...(more) 5 hr 24 min ago
                        their vacation, too, and if the parents need a ton of help, they shouldn't expect the kids to help out constantly.
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            • ugh. that's awful. it reminds me of these young asian girls doing manicures and pedicures for girls the same age who have everything - cars, jewelry, expensive hair colors ... it...(more) 5 hr 33 min ago
              bothers me.
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              • Boo hoo. 5 hr 30 min ago
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              • it was decades ago, and i still remember how uncomfortable i was all week long. it was surreal to me. 5 hr 26 min ago
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    • really depends on how good she is - "mother's helper" implies she can't watch them without you so a lower pay rate...any where from 8-10/hr - depends a bt on if you are feeding...(more) 5 hr 35 min ago
      and housing her as well
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      • for me just the opposite: to help mom with everything: kids, errands, shopping, bathrime, meals 5 hr 29 min ago
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        • yes - but what I mean to say is that the mom does not leave the helper alone with the kids and go out to dinner or whatever 5 hr 25 min ago
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  17. Toddler I lose a ton of hair on a daily basis, but I also grow new hair to replace it. What could cause that? 5 hr 42 min ago (2 replies)
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    • normality? 5 hr 41 min ago
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      • No, he amount I lose is pretty extreme. Others comment on it 5 hr 40 min ago
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  18. Toddler I think ideally the syrian refugees should be resettled in the gulf region. I think the US and Europe should assist with the resettlement. it is in everyone's interest to stablize...(more) 5 hr 42 min ago (31 replies)
    these poor people.
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    • why not here in the US? 5 hr 42 min ago
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      • ^It is much easier to resettle people in their region where they speak the language and are culturually similar 5 hr 41 min ago
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      • Like North Dakota, or one of those empty states 5 hr 41 min ago
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        • why not in your city? 5 hr 40 min ago
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          • I live in Fargo bitch. 5 hr 38 min ago
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          • NYC can take some, but I don't think the city has the resources for a million 5 hr 38 min ago
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            • North Dakota has the resources though? 5 hr 37 min ago
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      • Np: They would rather stay home (or closer to it) if it were safe 5 hr 40 min ago
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    • Yes, maybe Israel can give up some of the land they were given to help out. 5 hr 41 min ago
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      • what land was Israel "given?" 5 hr 41 min ago
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        • Lol. 5 hr 40 min ago
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          • yeah I didnt think you could answer. maybe Jordan could give them the land that they were "given". 5 hr 39 min ago
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        • Given. Israel occupies the same land it did in 1940. 5 hr 39 min ago
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      • Actually, I think it would be very fitting for Israel to help a little since after all it was a country founded to help those persecuted with no place to go. Maybe some of the...(more) 5 hr 31 min ago
        Christians being persecuted because of their religion. I'm Jewish btw.
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    • Muslim countries circumcise 10 year olds w no anesthesia they're sick fucks 5 hr 40 min ago
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    • how does a sunni differ from a shia? let's start there. 5 hr 39 min ago
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      • how does sunni differ from christian or jew or buddhist? that is not reason to refuse these fleeing people int he west 5 hr 38 min ago
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        • again, where should 10 or 50 million people go? in your city? 5 hr 37 min ago
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          • the world should share the burden of helping them. the most logical places are surrounding countries and peacful countries in the region. the west can assist wrih resources 5 hr 36 min ago
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            • interesting, I got so flamed for saying this 5 hr 32 min ago
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              • really? seems so reasonable to me. obviously, this will never happen. and thus the west has to shoulder the burden. but its a crime 5 hr 30 min ago
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      • Spelling. 5 hr 37 min ago
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      • sunni is extremr 5 hr 36 min ago
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    • The Arab countries don't give a flying flip about Syria. They have enough of their own political issues and turmoil. They aren't going to help. They haven't helped t...(more) 5 hr 33 min ago
      the Palestinians. Why would they help these refugees?
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  19. Toddler Does oxycotin, percocet make angry people even more so? my mother had hip surgery and shes been quite awful to deal with the past 3 weeks. heards shes yelled at my 2 bros, one sil...(more) 5 hr 43 min ago (10 replies)
    and myself in the span of a few days
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    • no but if she is weaning off, then yes 5 hr 42 min ago
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    • Sundowning 5 hr 42 min ago
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    • No it mellows them out 5 hr 42 min ago
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    • she might be depressed 5 hr 42 min ago
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      • she has severe depressive episodes. wondering if all this shit shes spewing will throw her into another one 5 hr 40 min ago
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    • sheesh, pain killers make me chill. 5 hr 42 min ago
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      • I fucking love painkillers. I'd be in big trouble if I had consistent access to them. 5 hr 41 min ago
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        • i loved percocet for my c/sections but my mother is hell on wheels now 5 hr 37 min ago
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    • Yes, some people. Pain really makes people irritable, too. 5 hr 41 min ago
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    • ime, yes. oxycotin was given to my dad for pain, and he was instantly addicted, it hastened his demise. 5 hr 39 min ago
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  20. Toddler How would you phrase this because every way I think of phrasing it sounds a little rude. I took over a lot of administrative duties -as a favor- for a friend's business. I am...(more) 5 hr 44 min ago (23 replies)
    being paid. They laid someone off and needed some basic bookkeeping done but here and there people are asking me to do that woman's personal assistant tasks and for the third time now, my FRIEND, has asked me to order him food. there was no reason at all that he could not place the order himself. he was not more busy than i was. I told him I didn't want to do stand he said something like "come on,can't you try to have a good attitude" i don't remember verbatim because i was trying not to murder him. i did it but i need to speak to him.
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    • Wow. No. Not cool. No. Just tell him no. 5 hr 43 min ago
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    • Go do something else. Find a different job. 5 hr 43 min ago
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      • this. 5 hr 42 min ago
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      • I don't want to work at all! 5 hr 41 min ago
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      • i HAVE another job, that is the aspect of it that is a favor. I am there to do what I do well very intensely in ashore period of time and then get out and go to my actual job 5 hr 41 min ago
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        • Say no. If you don't need the job leave. 5 hr 41 min ago
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          • this and fuck him. you should just get out. order him food? wtf? 5 hr 40 min ago
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          • I could not believe he said whatever he said to cajole me after I said I didn't want to. then he said about 5 times "do you mind, ok ok" as he walked away 5 hr 39 min ago
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            • Condescending asshole. 5 hr 38 min ago
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            • fuck him. your friendship will never be the same 5 hr 38 min ago
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              • Well, I guess we've confirmed that there's not much to be said. I agree that it has changed things. 5 hr 37 min ago
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            • Why are you not leaving? 5 hr 37 min ago
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              • I'm doing the job. I'm not the type to throw a fit and scream I quit! but it ruined my day today and I wouldn't let it ruin two days. 5 hr 36 min ago
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                • Don't order his food. And you don't have to throw a fit. Just tell him it's not working anymore. Calmly. 5 hr 35 min ago
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        • Leave. 5 hr 39 min ago
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    • wow. talk about taking advantage 5 hr 43 min ago
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    • This post has been disliked 3 times. showyou guys are not on the same page. you are an employee but don't want to accept that? 5 hr 42 min ago
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      • They'd never ask a man 5 hr 41 min ago
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      • ^^that came out snarky, but i just mean they see you as another exploitable employee, and that is not what you signed up for. i'd leave, quit. 5 hr 41 min ago
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    • If hey pay you the extra salary to do so, go ahead. Otherwise don't bother and tell people they need to hire a separate assistant or do that shit by themselves 5 hr 42 min ago
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      • i think people who take food orders are paid a lower salary 5 hr 40 min ago
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    • I want to kick him in the junk for you. 5 hr 40 min ago
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  21. Toddler Do you think Israel is secretly aiding rebels in Syria? not just in terms of medical treatment but militarily? 5 hr 45 min ago (6 replies)
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  22. Toddler Did SJP have bad work done, or did she age badly? I feel she had bad work, bc she hs beady eyes where she didn't before 5 hr 45 min ago (7 replies)
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    • Her nose got bigger, too 5 hr 44 min ago
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    • She's lost a lot of weight she did not have to lose in the first place. She has those veiny madonna arms 5 hr 44 min ago
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    • she was never attractive. she is also extremely thin and extremely muscular/sinewy 5 hr 43 min ago
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      • i don't agree. she was pretty in satc 5 hr 42 min ago
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        • Which premiered 17 years ago. 5 hr 39 min ago
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          • Exactly. She is too skinny 5 hr 18 min ago
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    • She alays hsd beady dyes 5 hr 19 min ago
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  23. Toddler How many refugees should the US accept? 1 million? 10 million? 5 hr 45 min ago (8 replies)
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    • Zero. 5 hr 45 min ago
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    • most people who replied below said all should be accepted, all who want to come to the US 5 hr 43 min ago
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      • The US needs to accept some but obviously not all. 5 hr 37 min ago
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        • how many? what percent? 5 hr 36 min ago
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    • When the gulf states accept Syrians we can perhaps think about it 5 hr 43 min ago
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    • From Canada? 5 hr 43 min ago
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      • from syria, iraq and afghanistan - all of them? 10 million? 5 hr 42 min ago
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    • As many as have been accepted in Bahrain, the UAEs and Saudi Arabia 5 hr 42 min ago
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  24. Toddler My cell phone just rang and I answered my iPad. I didn't know I could do that. 5 hr 46 min ago (5 replies)
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    • Is it had to hold to your ear? 5 hr 45 min ago
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      • It was on speaker 5 hr 45 min ago
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      • np: it's automatically set to be on speaker. i often use it in the mornings, when i sit outside reading the times site on my iPad. 5 hr 45 min ago
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    • yes. i'm not interested in updating my computer, but if i were, i could do it there, too. 5 hr 45 min ago
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      • Op: I think I can there as well 5 hr 45 min ago
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  25. Toddler Elena Ferrante, can anyone share the love? 5 hr 47 min ago (13 replies)
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    • she is not for me 5 hr 46 min ago
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      • stick with it 5 hr 46 min ago
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        • There are so many things to read. 5 hr 45 min ago
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          • true. but I was not thrilled w my brilliant friend, but man, it gets so much better. there's also something really satisfying about a family dynasty and saga over the years, it's...(more) 5 hr 44 min ago
            like a war & peace
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          • have you read the other novels? 5 hr 43 min ago
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    • Who dat? 5 hr 46 min ago
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    • I've only read book #1. About to read #2. Very excited. 5 hr 46 min ago
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      • each book in the series is exponentially better 5 hr 45 min ago
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    • do you think she is a man? 5 hr 41 min ago
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      • 1000% no 5 hr 40 min ago
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        • who do you think she is? 5 hr 40 min ago
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          • no idea, as I am not familiar with the Italian liiterary scene. she recently gave an interview in the guardian about how all the man speculation is sexist 5 hr 39 min ago
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            • but i could see a man saying that! 5 hr 38 min ago
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