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  1. Toddler Dh wants to go on a cruise. We could really use a vacation but I'm having trouble getting excited about this. 9 hr 6 min ago (24 replies)
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    • get over it 9 hr 5 min ago
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      • Never cruised before. Have you? Can you recommend a cruise line? 9 hr 4 min ago
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        • Tauk, Regent, Viking, Holland 9 hr 3 min ago
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          • These are all upscale and great. 8 hr 46 min ago
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            • But significantly more $$ than a royal Caribbean cruise, right? 8 hr 45 min ago
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    • you will love the bingo 9 hr 5 min ago
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    • what kind of cruise? there are some really nice ones, like small 30 person boats in bora bora and things like that 9 hr 4 min ago
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      • He has proposed royal Caribbean 9 hr 2 min ago
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        • These are absolutely gigantic ships for families with rock climbing walls and surf pools, etc. Check out online reviews of them and see if it is something you would like. 8 hr 21 min ago
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    • I actually love cruising. It works for me. 9 hr 4 min ago
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      • ditto 9 hr 4 min ago
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      • Which cruise line? How many nights? 8 hr 59 min ago
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        • I've done a few. Royal Carribean. They have a more high end line as well that is more exclusive. I've done everything from 2-7 nights. For a first cruise you may want to do 4. 8 hr 57 min ago
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    • I would hate a cruise. Suggest an alternative. 9 hr 4 min ago
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      • He is also interested in disney. We haven't had a vacation in 5 years. Disney doesn't seem like a vacation. 8 hr 53 min ago
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        • So sorry. Your dh has horrible taste in vacations 8 hr 50 min ago
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          • Yes. I know this. 8 hr 49 min ago
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            • What typeof vacation would you like to take? Then you can find something in the middle. Please don't do Disney! 8 hr 20 min ago
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    • I know a dozen families, or all different stripes that LOVE Disney cruises. I don't get it, but they all love it. 7 hr 50 min ago
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  2. Elementary Would appreciate any recent feedback on Scarsdale. I know the reputation. Is it true, and is anyone comfortable there as your basic umc professional family (on mere salaries)?...(more) 9 hr 6 min ago (1 reply)
    Dc's would be approaching middle school. Tia.
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    • lived in tuckahoe when ds was too young to be in school. knew people in scarsdale who were pretty normal. 9 hr ago
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  3. Elementary Cansome 9 hr 9 min ago (0 replies)
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  4. Toddler Any recs for a warm fall shoe that is not boots. i am on my feet a lot but hate the feel of boots and look of sneakers. tia 9 hr 9 min ago (3 replies)
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    • Shoe boots 9 hr 8 min ago
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      • link? or brand to search. thanks 9 hr 8 min ago
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        • Do you like chunky heel or lighter one? 9 hr 6 min ago
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  5. Toddler Both my 2 oldest boys (3rd gr, 1st gr) qualify for a gifted school; both are in gifted classes in a "general ed" school but I'm not super happy w/ their experience. would you be...(more) 9 hr 11 min ago (20 replies)
    ok sending 1 or the other (not nec both) to the gifted school next year? I have an incoming K as well (for next year) (plus a preschooler but that doesn't matter); some friends say it's crazy to consider gifted school for only 1 or the other but I'm trying to evaluate the situation for kid to kid
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    • Ugh 9 hr 5 min ago
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      • op: why ugh? i'm trying to get honest advice in an anon environment 9 hr 4 min ago
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        • You aren't super happy with the experience? 9 hr ago
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          • op: no, the set-up for the gr 3-5 gifted academy is not ideal; i'm ok w/ my 1st grader's teacher/experience but he woudl then go into the 2nd gr (who my 3rd grader had) which i...(more) 8 hr 59 min ago
            didn't love & then the 3-5 gr academy which i'm def not loving
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            • Ugh 8 hr 58 min ago
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              • op: yep 8 hr 57 min ago
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                • You should be loving it! Move them all! 8 hr 55 min ago
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                  • op: i know, it's hard. the gifted school is highly rated in the U.S. i feel lucky to have the option for it, but locally it's a split issue (from ppl who are from here, like my...(more) 8 hr 54 min ago
                    dh);
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                    • You sound like a bored sahm. 8 hr 52 min ago
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                      • op: bored? no, not really. we have plenty going on here :) and I work (very) pt too. 8 hr 51 min ago
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                    • Highly rated by whom? I've never heard of a gifted school rating. 8 hr 43 min ago
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                      • ^^You're not in NYC - are you in the US? 8 hr 42 min ago
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        • no noe knows your kids or the school, ho far away the gifted one is, do you have enough help to ferry the one child to his new friends' homes somewhere else, after school...(more) 8 hr 29 min ago
          activities, etc? If so, fine.
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    • I don't understand why you wouldn't send both 9 hr 4 min ago
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      • op: i'm considering both; just don't know that it's the best fit for my oldest. he's a diff't personality; the school is def the type of school made for my 1st grader; will al...(more) 9 hr 3 min ago
        def send him;
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        • np: I bet most will see this from the pov of the eldest attending the new school, but you mean the younger. Yes I would consider sending the younger to a different school. 8 hr 37 min ago
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        • will eldest feel like you are thinking he is not as smart as his brother even though he qualified too? 8 hr 28 min ago
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    • Are you pregnant? 8 hr 55 min ago
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      • op: ha! no, i hope not... 4 dc is enough :) 8 hr 54 min ago
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    • Why would you send one and not the other? Will they still have neighborhood friends? Do they want to go to a diff. school or are they happy? You have 2 bright boys who will do...(more) 8 hr 31 min ago
      well in either place.
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  6. Toddler Teacher told me my K ds needs to work on his fine motor skills. Exactly what does this mean and how do I help him? 9 hr 17 min ago (14 replies)
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    • ask her these questions. google fine motor skills. 9 hr 16 min ago
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    • prob handwriting. ask more specifics. 9 hr 16 min ago
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    • pincer grip, get those pencil grip helpers, lego, beading with large wooden beads and thick waxed cord, get small plastic soldiers and play war 9 hr 15 min ago
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      • ^ water guns with triggers or spray bottles with dye into snow or bubble bath 9 hr 13 min ago
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        • triangle shaped pencil 9 hr 12 min ago
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    • op Does this mean writing in the lines? 9 hr 14 min ago
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      • it might. it might mean writing in general, or using scissors, or manipulating small objects/toys 9 hr 13 min ago
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    • He refuses to do these things when i try to work with him. 9 hr 11 min ago
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      • so play 9 hr 10 min ago
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      • Probably because he knows he isn't good at them/they are difficult for him. I think my DS has this problem too and I want to start working on it. I bet there are tons of ideas...(more) 9 hr 8 min ago
        on pinterest
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    • Moon sand - bury small dinosaurs. Thinking putty (better than thera-putty IMHO) or tons of playdoh. Giant container of rice, hide coins and small toys and have a contest who can...(more) 8 hr 55 min ago
      get the most out - build hand strength and it will help too
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  7. Toddler What if I buy a halloween costume on amazon and then find one I like better? can i still return it? 9 hr 19 min ago (2 replies)
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    • check the return policy. 9 hr 17 min ago
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    • not sure. a lot of retailers have a no returns policy in october 9 hr 17 min ago
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  8. Toddler I was talking to someone today about wanting a new job and he suggested making cupcakes or starting a mom blog. 9 hr 20 min ago (10 replies)
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    • did you ever read the diary of adrian mole? he was ok with pandora having a p/t job in a cake shop 9 hr 18 min ago
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      • i don't know what that is 9 hr 18 min ago
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    • ooh, good ones! or maybe you could do photography -- like family photos, kid pix . . . ; P 9 hr 18 min ago
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      • lol 9 hr 18 min ago
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      • Could you become a yoga instructor? 9 hr 12 min ago
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        • perfect! 9 hr 10 min ago
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          • You guys are assholes. Also, you forgot life coach. 6 hr 59 min ago
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            • and professional organizer 3 hr 28 min ago
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              • or sell Stella & Dot, Rodan & Fields a 2 hr ago
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    • way too many mom blogs 9 hr 17 min ago
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  9. Toddler I miss my exbf so much. He was my bestest friend and favorite person in the whole world :( 9 hr 20 min ago (6 replies)
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    • What happened? 9 hr 14 min ago
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      • we got into a big fight - I wanted him to change some his habits that I look back on as not that bad and he thought I was too emotional. It exploded. It is over. 9 hr 11 min ago
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        • ^^and yet, I feel I will always love him. This bites. 9 hr 11 min ago
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          • How long ago? Why can't you try to get it back? 9 hr 9 min ago
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            • too much time has passed and he won't come back. 9 hr 9 min ago
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              • ^^ I tried and tried - it was like beating my head against a brick wall. We love one another, this is clear, but we can't tolerate one another - if that makes sense - any sense at...(more) 9 hr 8 min ago
                all.
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  10. Toddler I have a Hyundai Elantra. So sue me. 9 hr 20 min ago (4 replies)
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    • who cares? 9 hr 20 min ago
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      • No one I hope. 9 hr 18 min ago
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    • I have 2 Kias. Do I get sued/ flamed/ mocked? 9 hr 17 min ago
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    • I just had one as a rental while getting my car fixed. It's very zippy, nothing like the one my dad had years ago. 9 hr 9 min ago
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  11. Toddler Does anyone make granola bars? Are they easy to make? 9 hr 21 min ago (1 reply)
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    • eh. i've made a variety of kinds. 9 hr 15 min ago
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  12. Toddler Is mom whose boyfriend was back on okcupid on? 9 hr 22 min ago (0 replies)
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  13. Toddler MY ds goes to half day K. I was ale to get a part-time job which means he has to go to the school aftercare for 1 hourl He hates it and cries. He doesn't like anything new. I...(more) 9 hr 22 min ago (13 replies)
    really need this job-how to handle?
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    • You tell him to suck it up 9 hr 21 min ago
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      • is this really how you speak to your kids, any kids? it's not a nice way to talk to an adult, much less a 5yo child 9 hr 20 min ago
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    • Do what you need to do. They push your buttons to get their way 9 hr 19 min ago
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      • maybe he thinks she's pushing his buttons. 9 hr 18 min ago
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        • Of course he does but that is what parenting is 9 hr 17 min ago
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          • i just think this pushing buttons trope is a bunch of crap. the kid is unhappy. the mom has to work. they'll have to figure out a way to work it out. 9 hr 17 min ago
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            • And what is she supposed to do? She needs to parent which means supporting her dc. She can't bend to his every whim 9 hr 15 min ago
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              • she can do whatever she does with empathy, with consideration of this tiny person in her care who, in her words, doesn't like new things. the hard-ass "suck it up" nonsense here...(more) 9 hr 14 min ago
                is just that - nonsense.
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                • I think she should quit her job and feel guilty about not being able to do more 9 hr 13 min ago
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    • You can't make your kid happy all the time! Tell him he has to go period. 9 hr 19 min ago
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    • he will cry for a few weeks and then settle in and be fine 9 hr 14 min ago
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    • you validate the wish even if you can't make it reality 9 hr 13 min ago
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  14. Toddler Psychic mom? 9 hr 22 min ago (0 replies)
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  15. Toddler My husband is gay gay gay. i just know it in my heart. he would never say anything but he never looks at women or flirts with them. he never flirted with me. i wanted sex more...(more) 9 hr 24 min ago (47 replies)
    than he ever did. he is such a beta and lets other men beat him in business. wahhhhhhhhhhhhhh i am sad
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    • i think my sister's boyfriend is gay. but i think they are perfect for each other because he is gentle and she is fragile. 9 hr 23 min ago
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      • op: lol i am fragile too. i have two other friends i think have gay dhs. we all had abusive fathers. not a coincidence 9 hr 21 min ago
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        • nr - you really think he is actually gay? 9 hr 21 min ago
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          • op: sort of. i am bi so maybe i am projecting. he is very anti women who are girly or emotional. he tells me i am like i "rock" bc i am so strong and that is what he likes about...(more) 9 hr 19 min ago
            me. in reality i just squash my emotions to keep the peace
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        • or: my father was abusive. my dh is definitely not gay, but i am the alpha in our relationship. my other sister looks docile pretty boys. totally agree that there is a pattern to 9 hr 19 min ago
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          • op: very interesting! even my father in law told me once i don't like alpha men. 9 hr 16 min ago
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            • also, alpha men don't like me. i was the oldest and went toe-to-toe with my abusive father regularly. everyone else in my family hid from him. alpha men remind me of my dad's ugly...(more) 9 hr 14 min ago
              posturing, and i think they can see that their alpha-ness doesn't impress me. i definitely think it's a two-way street.
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              • op: omg you are me!!! apparently i went up against my alpha dad as young as 3. my mom called me her hero bc i stood up to him when he yelled at her. she was proud of me and...(more) 9 hr 10 min ago
                would tell people how brave i was. the man sent me to the ER but she still thinks he is okay. they are both horrible
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                • ugh, i am so glad you survived that ugliness. no one should ever be put in that position, especially by a mother. 9 hr 7 min ago
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                  • op: i know, she still doesn't get it. i barely talk to her. she likes it that way and i am her only child 9 hr 6 min ago
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                    • wow, i am lucky that i talked my mom into leaving my dad and she is on her own now, happy and with great relationships with all three of us girls 9 hr 2 min ago
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    • are you serious? are you going to leave him? 9 hr 23 min ago
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      • possibly or have an affair 9 hr 21 min ago
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        • I would just leave - when did you figure this out? 9 hr 20 min ago
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          • i sort of like him though. like a gossipy younger brother. we agree on everything 9 hr 20 min ago
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            • do you have kids? I am surprised you are not more disturbed 9 hr 19 min ago
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              • np: ita 9 hr 18 min ago
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              • op: i am very disturbed! i just don't show it. i have sort of reinvented myself as a perfect friend, reliable, great volunteer, selfless, etc etc. i lost myself along the way 9 hr 17 min ago
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                • I am sorry.... 9 hr 17 min ago
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                • np: sorry. i would talk w/ him. 9 hr 17 min ago
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                  • ^maybe play naive? ask if he's having an affair? do you think he's cheating? 9 hr 16 min ago
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                    • op: it's possible. i wish he was, at least i would think he actually has a pulse. another red flag is that everyone tells me he looks and acts like george clooney. 9 hr 15 min ago
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                      • is he really career driven? i know my dh isn't gay but there are times our sex life takes a hit bc of his career. 9 hr 14 min ago
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                        • op: sort of. the market has been down/not in his favor so he is sort of depressed. i think anyone who lets the market determine their self worth needs to get priorities in check....(more) 9 hr 12 min ago
                          i told him that but he doesn't understand
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                          • i agree w/ you but can also understand from their perspective (the career driven, competitive type); i'm not saying he's not gay, just trying to understand overall issues; you...(more) 9 hr 10 min ago
                            know? I think communication is key either way. would he ever admit being gay if that's the case?
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                            • not sure, but when i mention it he gets very quiet and doesn't really answer me 9 hr 9 min ago
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                              • mention what - being gay? 9 hr 8 min ago
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                                • yes 9 hr 7 min ago
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                                  • hmm. i'm sorry if i missed it - do you have kids? 9 hr 6 min ago
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                                    • yes 3 9 hr 6 min ago
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                                      • and i'm assuming he's a good father? i would look at what your'e missing in your relationship & talk about that w/ him - not focusing on sexual orientation; your're missing x, ...(more) 9 hr 3 min ago
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    • how is your sex life? 9 hr 21 min ago
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      • when we met i wanted 3x a week, he could only get it up 1x. then it dwindled to every other week and now it's 1x a month at best 9 hr 20 min ago
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        • omg, how long married? 9 hr 20 min ago
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          • 13 years 9 hr 17 min ago
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            • and sex once a month? 9 hr 17 min ago
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              • yes, sometimes every other week 9 hr 16 min ago
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        • why did you marry him? 9 hr 18 min ago
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          • he is nice and funny, an all around good guy, i knew he would be a kind, good father, he also makes tons of money 9 hr 14 min ago
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    • Bummer. I dated a gay man for many years but didn't marry him so I can only sort of relate. He admitted to gay sex though so I knew about it. I guess he considered himself...(more) 9 hr 20 min ago
      bisexual but I wonder what would have happened if I had married him.
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      • np: yeah, same issue here. didn't marry him (never considered) but loved him. still stalk him on fb some but v. happy w/ my dh 9 hr 17 min ago
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      • what's he doing now? how often did you have sex? was he masculine? 9 hr 17 min ago
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        • We had amazing sex. All the time, much more than DH. He was very very sexual. He was physically very masculine but pretty femme in other ways. Unfortunately he is dead now :( 9 hr 13 min ago
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          • yikes, what happened? 9 hr 9 min ago
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            • He was murdered. But I don't know what happened. I don't think it had anything to do with his sexual preferences though. 9 hr 7 min ago
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              • i'm sorry 9 hr 5 min ago
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                • Thanks. Totally weird and frustrating. Remains unsolved 9 hr 4 min ago
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  16. Toddler In case you were wondering, the best Guns'n'Roses song is "Estranged", love that song 9 hr 24 min ago (0 replies)
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  17. Toddler I drive a BMW x3 , guess I suck. 9 hr 24 min ago (2 replies)
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    • are you a real estate agent? 9 hr 24 min ago
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    • Lamest BMW ever- wanna be douche mobile 9 hr 21 min ago
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  18. Toddler Anyone have a roomba? Thoughts? 9 hr 27 min ago (2 replies)
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    • Anither crappy gadget 9 hr 22 min ago
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    • my parents love theirs 9 hr 21 min ago
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  19. Toddler Damnit! the new fire alarm went off and as i was trying to open it i ripped it off the wall and the plaster and paint came off! 9 hr 27 min ago (0 replies)
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  20. Toddler When did you start showing with dc #2? 9 hr 29 min ago (7 replies)
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    • 6 months but I have a long torso 9 hr 28 min ago
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      • wow! that is amazing. 9 hr 27 min ago
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        • Baby was only 6 9 hr 26 min ago
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          • 6 lbs at 37.5 weeks 9 hr 26 min ago
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          • my first was 6 lbs 10 oz and i showed at 3 months 9 hr 25 min ago
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    • Very soon. 9 hr 16 min ago
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    • Literally at like 4 weeks 6 hr 59 min ago
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  21. Toddler Not sure my scale is working. Strange if I go to my drs office and ask to weigh? Its a big office, should I ask the front office/receptionist people to call my dr's assistant then...(more) 9 hr 30 min ago (3 replies)
    ask her?
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    • OMG. Buy a new scale. 9 hr 30 min ago
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    • They used to have scales at the mall where you could weigh yourself for 25 cents. 9 hr 28 min ago
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      • my grandma used to weigh herself at public. 9 hr 27 min ago
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  22. Toddler When I'm feeling blue late at night, I watch youtube videos of babies playing with big scary Rottweilers...(more) 9 hr 31 min ago (5 replies)
    • d'awww. videos of babies playing with dogs/puppies are always my go-to genre if i'm sad. 9 hr 28 min ago
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    • I hate this video, one slight move of the baby the dog can chew the baby up like the bottle 9 hr 28 min ago
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      • I like to think the owners are smart enough to have trained the dog not to do that 9 hr 25 min ago
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    • I love rotties and will defend them to the ends of the earth, socialize them early on (with both humans and other dogs) and they are the sweetest most loyal dogs 9 hr 25 min ago
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    • Watch Cute Overload. 9 hr 15 min ago
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  23. Toddler Where can i find an elsa costume in ny for 7 yr old dd? Ordered one from AliExpress and now it's not coming on time. 9 hr 31 min ago (6 replies)
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    • disney store 9 hr 29 min ago
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    • Pretty sure I saw a bunch tonight on wholesale costume and costume express 9 hr 29 min ago
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    • Walmart or Kmart 9 hr 26 min ago
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    • Amazon 9 hr 24 min ago
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    • Target 9 hr 20 min ago
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  24. Toddler It never ceases to amaze me that really make value judgements on others bsed on the cars they drive. Granted, I'm not a car person at all--I drive a Hyundai and it suits me just...(more) 9 hr 32 min ago (38 replies)
    fine--but aside from thinking "nice car," I don't really make the leap from the car to the person driving it.
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    • to me, a car is how i get from here to there. i don't care what it looks like, as long as it is functional 9 hr 31 min ago
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    • I drive a Hyundai too, and love it. But... This may surprise you....people look down on us!! 9 hr 31 min ago
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      • that kind of person, though, is kind of an asshole. so who cares? 9 hr 30 min ago
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        • or: agree. I had no idea when we purchased the car.....had know idea we were bottom feeders :) 9 hr 29 min ago
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          • ^^^and I heard this from my relatives in Detroit....motor city 9 hr 28 min ago
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      • no, they don't. get over yourself 9 hr 30 min ago
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        • I wish you were right. but if you don't think people judge houses/cars/boots....you are delusional. 9 hr 26 min ago
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          • what kind of people, though? small-minded, insecure, judgmentals? 9 hr 25 min ago
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            • most people make snap judgments on EVERYTHING. 9 hr 25 min ago
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              • i guess my world is just different? 9 hr 24 min ago
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                • where do you live? 9 hr 24 min ago
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                  • by my world, i mean the people i know. i don't know people who are like ybms in terms of their judging everything. i like people who share my own live and let live attitude. judge...(more) 9 hr 21 min ago
                    not, lest ye be judged and all that
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              • np. i think you hang out with the wrong people if you really believe this 9 hr 24 min ago
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                • I've lived in Michigan, Washington DC, NYC, Los Angeles and Denver. people are people. 9 hr 23 min ago
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                  • not the ones i know. i can't imagine anyone i know giving a second thought to someone's car or clothes or whatever 9 hr 22 min ago
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                    • for real? like if I drove up in 1981 Honda Civic to pick up my kids, you wouldn't make a snap judgment? be honest. 9 hr 18 min ago
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                      • no. what conclusion would i jump to? maybe you are broke. maybe you love 81 civics. maybe your grandma left you this car and you can't part with it. maybe you don't care about...(more) 9 hr 16 min ago
                        cars and bought whatever was cheapest. maybe you collect hondas. who knows?
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                        • gandhi is in the house 9 hr 15 min ago
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                          • it's a bit alarming to me that the concept of not judging someone for their car is so unimaginable to you 9 hr 14 min ago
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                            • I'm saying it's right...but in THIS wealth and status obsessed society....I think it's the reality. that doesn't mean you need to succumb. but don't pretend it doesn't 9 hr 10 min ago
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                              • blech. I'm NOT saying it's right.... 9 hr 10 min ago
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                              • i'm not pretending anything. sure, people like that exist. but not everyone is like that and i'd even say that *most* people aren't. most people don't really spend much time...(more) 9 hr 9 min ago
                                thinking about other people and their stuff at all.
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                        • the conclusion might be "wow, that person drives an old shitty car." 9 hr 14 min ago
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                          • that's not a judgement, that's an observation 9 hr 12 min ago
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                  • perhaps you attract those people? 9 hr 22 min ago
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                  • You find the same crap in every city. Shit hangs with shit 9 hr 22 min ago
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                • nnp i think folks who believe this believe it because its their MO 9 hr 23 min ago
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                  • i agree 9 hr 22 min ago
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                  • nnnnp I make fast appraisals, but most of the time I see connections for friendliness 9 hr 20 min ago
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                    • ^ like I'm not trying to be a bitch and won't exclude, will love etc. But I can say scathing things about everyone. 9 hr 19 min ago
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                    • exactly. we all make fast appraisals. 9 hr 19 min ago
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      • I would say people do not, but my dh would make a fucking dumb joke about your car and I would have to tell him, and then he would feel bad - he and his dad experienced massive...(more) 9 hr 26 min ago
        wealth swings from poor to rich as children and again as adults. Issues.
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    • when i see a minivan i think 'goddamn it, this person is going to drive 10km under the speed limit in the left lane!' and 90% of the time i'm right. a lot of the behavioural...(more) 9 hr 30 min ago
      stereotypes hold up much of the time.
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      • except if it's a dude driving the mini van then I think, fuck watch out (unless it's Miami, then it's just meandering slowpoke) 9 hr 25 min ago
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    • It's hysterical. If I said everyone who drives a mini van is a frump who gave up, this board who go crazy. But it's ok to say that BMW drivers are douches 9 hr 26 min ago
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      • np - ITA. That's ridiculous. But that's the class hatred here on ybm. 9 hr 25 min ago
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        • ybm hates everything, especially its own self 9 hr 25 min ago
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  25. Toddler Have never ever noticed my puppy fart before. But omfg the smell from that little thing all night tonight. It almost made me gag. 9 hr 33 min ago (4 replies)
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    • what kind of puppy? 9 hr 26 min ago
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      • Cockapoo 9 hr 24 min ago
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        • pic? they are so so cute 9 hr 23 min ago
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          • Can't post a pic, but he's ridiculously cute, looks like a stuffed animal 9 hr 17 min ago
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