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  1. Toddler I just got back from halloween craft time with ds's class. 2 other parents showed up. I did 99% of the work. No parents give a shit. I don't know if volunteering every was...(more) 1 hr 29 min ago (27 replies)
    considered a nice thing to do, but now I feel like its turned into the booby prize for us sahm mothers. I hate it. When the next craft day comes, in december, I'm not running it. No one cares. What am I doing with my life?
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    • how many did you think were showing up? 1 hr 28 min ago
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      • op: I knew there were 3 of us, but had asked/invited all parents to help out, had hoped that someone would join. 1 hr 27 min ago
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        • well, look. manhy working parents arent going to be able to take a day off to do this. idk about the sahms and sahds 1 hr 26 min ago
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    • I kind of resent that parents are supposed to come in to school and do crafts. 1 hr 28 min ago
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      • np-ditto, I am happy to buy stuff but don't like participating at all. 1 hr 27 min ago
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        • op: we have to come up with the craft, buy the supplies and run the hour. 1 hr 26 min ago
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          • And what exactly does the teacher do? 1 hr 25 min ago
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            • she helps where needed 1 hr 24 min ago
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            • Stands there resentful that parents are once again insisting on coming into class and wasting time. 1 hr 22 min ago
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          • wow - how old is your ds? 1 hr 24 min ago
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            • 3rd grade.....its a k-5th thing 1 hr 24 min ago
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              • Are you freaking kidding me? 3rd graders should not be wasting time with this silliness in school, IMO. It's fine to do Halloween themed stuff if they like but it should at least...(more) 1 hr 19 min ago
                be worked into the real curriculum. Last year, my dc's class wrote spooky stories the week before Halloween and read them aloud in class. It was great.
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    • Run it for your own kid. 1 hr 28 min ago
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      • op: I used to think that way. My kid does love it when I'm there. But I'll take my kid after school to do something special. This isn't a low income school. Parents who want...(more) 1 hr 26 min ago
        to do things for their kids can.
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    • I am sure lots of parents care, but many people can't take off from work for a "craft time" at their children's school. 1 hr 27 min ago
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    • Does the teacher really need help from parents to do a halloween craft? She can't handle this on her own? 1 hr 26 min ago
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      • op: need or not need, at our school its the parents responsibility. If they don't do it, kids just don't have the craft and see all the other classrooms carrying their craft out...(more) 1 hr 25 min ago
        of school. Not the worst thing in the world.
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        • is this a nursery school or grade school? private or public? 1 hr 24 min ago
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        • i just read that this a 3 rd grade class - ok, that is a bit ridiculous. The teacher can handle this on their own - ridiculous that it is the parent's responsibility 1 hr 22 min ago
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    • no matter what my working status from unemployed to student to working full time: this is not even a little interesting or desirable to me 1 hr 26 min ago
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    • well you did a good deed. no one is forcing you to do it if you feel resentful about it. 1 hr 25 min ago
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      • op: true. I made the decision to do it and I did. I'm done for the year though. 1 hr 24 min ago
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    • See, I hate activities like "craft time" in the middle of a weekday that require parental involvement--so silly and inconvenient. I think it's worth giving feedback to the teacher...(more) 1 hr 25 min ago
      that, as it's difficult for most parents to attend these things, they schedule fewer and make them right after drop off.
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    • if you don't want to volunteer, then don't do it. if i wanted to lead a classroom of kids doing crafts, i would have become a teacher or art instructor. it's not something i...(more) 1 hr 25 min ago
      like to do so that is why i don't volunteer. plus, i can't take time off from work to do that anyway. i have to reserve my time for when dc get sick or have halloween parade, young author breakfast, etc. that stuff is much more important.
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      • op: right, well, I had several more important things to do today and next year I'm going to do them. totally done. 1 hr 22 min ago
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        • ok but you don't need to make such a big issue over it. i'm sure the craft would have gone just fine without your involvement, so maybe you should just get over yourself already. 1 hr 21 min ago
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    • 3 parents is a lot of parents for craft time. 1 hr 17 min ago
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  2. Toddler The top of my foot hurts like hell. I play a lot of tennis and seemed to have over-worn my shoes. Got new shoes but feet still hurt. IS this a stress fracture? Top of foot? 1 hr 29 min ago (3 replies)
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    • yes, might be. That's where my dd had pain when she had a broken foot. sorry. 1 hr 23 min ago
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      • ugh - I can still walk, playing tennis too. Should I ice it or something? 1 hr 20 min ago
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        • Orthopedist. And rest. That is the only thing that will heal the bone. 1 hr 19 min ago
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  3. Toddler If I want to dress up as Carol from Walking Dead, what do I need for my costume? (I don't want to do the zombie covered poncho thing) 1 hr 29 min ago (13 replies)
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    • Short grey hair 1 hr 29 min ago
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      • my hair is only a little bit gray. I thought it was more gray until I cut it. close enough I guess 1 hr 26 min ago
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    • short grey hair, knives, guns, olive/grey clothing, some kind of bag. 1 hr 28 min ago
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      • is a nerf gun okay? 1 hr 26 min ago
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        • cool! but not neon. 1 hr 26 min ago
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          • and you have to say shit like "look at the flowers lizzie 1 hr 26 min ago
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            • Maybe I'll put a wildflower in my lapel 1 hr 25 min ago
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              • cherokee rose! 1 hr 24 min ago
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          • pooh. the only one i have is white and orange. should I try to paint it quick? 1 hr 25 min ago
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            • there is nothing white and orange in TWD 1 hr 25 min ago
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              • I know. sigh. But I'm going to take one of my kid's ninja knives that I bought for his costume. I've got brown leather boots and brown cords (because I had not olive cargo pants)...(more) 1 hr 23 min ago
                a purple tank top, gray open shirt, and an olive vaguely army type jacket.
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    • here's what carol is usually wearing this season. hopefully you have short grey hair!...(more) 1 hr 24 min ago
      • I do, but it's not as gray as hers. oh well. I was looking at past seasons. She wears a lot of purple shirts, and then gray or olive, so I did the best I could with neutrals. 1 hr 22 min ago
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  4. Toddler Apparently weed can actually help those with adhd. 1 hr 29 min ago (7 replies)
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    • and Crohn's 1 hr 29 min ago
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      • and people with small children. 1 hr 28 min ago
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    • yep. I know a very successful smart business man who is helped by this. Working with him with out 'his meds" is awful.(scattered, unfocused, too high energy) 1 hr 27 min ago
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    • op, ds 18 can't take meds and smokes. I was very worried about him and was googling like crazy yesterday. seems to help with anxiety, mood, stress.... 1 hr 26 min ago
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      • nP; not to be an alarmist, but study after study shoes pot use while the brain is developing (alcohol also) changes the brain, in not so good ways. 1 hr 25 min ago
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        • that's why I was so worried. I had heard this, and I'm sure it's true. But then there was all this other research .... 1 hr 22 min ago
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    • And asthmatics 1 hr 22 min ago
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  5. Toddler I wonder if being on ybm so much has made me a more jaded parent 1 hr 30 min ago (0 replies)
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  6. Toddler I don't understand why I'm so tired. Could it be because I'm on lexapro? I get 9 hours of sleep a night, sleep solid, WELL. Then is REALLY hard to get up at 8am, then by 3 or 4...(more) 1 hr 30 min ago (2 replies)
    I'm yawning. I don't get it.
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    • yes, i tried that one, too, had to go off it, besides it made me do the weirdest shit in my sleep, made me voraciously hungry at night, too 1 hr 29 min ago
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    • try wellbutrin 1 hr 27 min ago
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  7. Toddler It was very nice speaking to you earlier or to speak to you earlier?...(more) 1 hr 31 min ago (6 replies)
    ESL hold the flames please
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    • both are fine 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • I'd say 'speaking WITH you" instead. Speaking to you sounds too much like a directive. 1 hr 30 min ago
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    • I prefer "with" 1 hr 30 min ago
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    • ... And I look forward to sleeping with you tomorrow. 1 hr 28 min ago
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  8. Toddler If people visit for extended period at your house, wdyd about food? I am freaking out about my parents coming for 3 weeks and the non-stop "what should we do for dinner?" talk. 1 hr 31 min ago (13 replies)
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    • jesus calm down. ask them what they like to eat? 1 hr 31 min ago
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      • ^ havce them go to the store with you when they get here, make a list 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • Does your mom like to cook? Maybe she'd love an excuse to prepare some big meals. 1 hr 30 min ago
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    • In the same boat. ORder in a lot, go out. Make easy dishes- baked ziti, etc 1 hr 29 min ago
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    • i had a friend stay at the house for 2.5 months this year. another stayed for 4 weeks earlier in the year. whatever is in the fridge is available. eat when we eat if you like;...(more) 1 hr 28 min ago
      takeout if you like.
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      • You are a very nice person. 1 hr 27 min ago
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        • just laid back. 1 hr 26 min ago
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      • op-that sounds great, my parents explain to sit down for a long dinner every night! 1 hr 25 min ago
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        • they have to adapt the when in rome theory. it's sometimes hard for our parents to understand how busy things are for us. give them an opportunity to just try to fit into the...(more) 1 hr 24 min ago
          way things roll in your house.
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          • op-it will create major conflict with my dad, so I suck it up and am in tears at night. It's ridiculous I know. 1 hr 24 min ago
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    • "Take us out to dinner, Mom!" 1 hr 28 min ago
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    • i plan my menus a wk in advance, so i would share them and ask which meals they plan to join us. 1 hr 27 min ago
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    • I plan meals. 1 hr 21 min ago
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  9. Toddler Did your tween or teenage stop liking things that you like? 1 hr 32 min ago (11 replies)
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    • Such as? 1 hr 31 min ago
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      • like if you both like jazz, do they start to think that's not cool? 1 hr 30 min ago
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        • Yes, absolutely. Movies we used to watch, music we lallergies liked. You name it. 1 hr 28 min ago
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    • sure. that's fine 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • My 12 yo dd hates everything about me these days. 1 hr 31 min ago
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      • she didn't say hate you, but things that you like. 1 hr 30 min ago
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        • ^^and not even hate. 1 hr 29 min ago
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          • guess it's my way of saying she hates everything I like. Including me! But she's coming out of it. 1 hr 28 min ago
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            • she doesn't really 1 hr 26 min ago
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    • sort of, in a way. but not really. 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • The hardest thing for me was when 12 yo DD stopped reading for pleasure. 1 hr 28 min ago
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  10. Toddler Chewy sweetarts is a crime 1 hr 34 min ago (4 replies)
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    • I agree 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • pair it with diet coke. heaven and all your plaque comes off your teeth 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • ita...why eat them if not for the chalky-goodness. 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • i love all kinds of sweet arts! 1 hr 22 min ago
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  11. Toddler Oh where wopuld Pininterest be without those Mormon moms 1 hr 34 min ago (4 replies)
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    • what? 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • Or the blogosphere! 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • A lot less chevron! 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • I don't notice so many mormon moms. maybe a few. you are following mormons. 1 hr 30 min ago
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  12. Toddler I waited until the afternoon to say this, but I had the best middle of the night sex last night. 1 hr 34 min ago (3 replies)
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    • We haven't done that in a long time. I think we're too tired. 1 hr 34 min ago
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    • hmmm, since my dh is on the couch bc of snoring this is unlikely to happen to us 1 hr 28 min ago
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      • You should go there in in the middle of the night and jump him 49 min ago
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  13. Toddler Creative ladies -- need a name for my recruiting firm 1 hr 34 min ago (12 replies)
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    • Hire Power. 1 hr 32 min ago
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      • lol 1 hr 32 min ago
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      • funny but too religious 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • The Talent 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • Jobs R Us 1 hr 30 min ago
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    • All In 1 hr 29 min ago
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    • Woot Recruit 1 hr 26 min ago
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      • woot.com now owned by amazon won't like that. 1 hr 24 min ago
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    • Ebola Airlines 1 hr 22 min ago
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    • Top Cadre 1 hr 21 min ago
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    • I Whore You Out 1 hr 21 min ago
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    • i was thinking i should start one of these... i am always hooking people up with jobs, might as well get paid for it! i am really good at connecting people with the right things,...(more) 1 hr 18 min ago
      not just in jobs, but resources, collaborators, etc... i love connecting people... i would be a great match maker or pimp
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  14. Toddler The costume parade is supposed to be from 2:15-2:45 & school lets out at 3. What time would you go? They've invited parents but it seems kind of sprawling. 1 hr 36 min ago (4 replies)
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    • go at 2:30. 1 hr 35 min ago
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    • 215. REally. It goes faster than you think and yo umay miss your kid 1 hr 34 min ago
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    • 2:10, my kids want to spot me as soon as they come out or they get tears coming up, but once they spot me they ignore me. 1 hr 32 min ago
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      • Mine's in 5th grade so we have this tighrope to walk between the embarrasement zone and being present. 1 hr 31 min ago
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  15. Toddler Anyone get custom window treatments? Looking at roman shades and wondering how much it should cost per window 1 hr 36 min ago (5 replies)
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    • sticky 1 hr 35 min ago
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    • a lot...if you're doing custom for the whole thing, I'd budget b/n 500/1 k per window depending ont he fabric 1 hr 32 min ago
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      • I was just looking at the shade store and it was close to 1k for a window 1 hr 31 min ago
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        • that's about right 1 hr 31 min ago
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          • I'd like to find cordless roman shades though 1 hr 24 min ago
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  16. Toddler My kid has come visiting from college with a giant beard, looks like fidel castro. 1 hr 36 min ago (16 replies)
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    • hipster alert. what college? 1 hr 35 min ago
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      • this isn't hipster anymore. all the douches in my town have them. 1 hr 35 min ago
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      • just stop with the hipster bullshit 1 hr 28 min ago
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    • Aww--hipster. I bet the girls go wild. 1 hr 35 min ago
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      • or the boys, as the case may be. 1 hr 35 min ago
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    • Tell him your generation started hipsters and I bet he'll run the other direction. 1 hr 35 min ago
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    • Send him back! Halloween and he's home? 1 hr 34 min ago
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    • i like it! 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • does he smell? 1 hr 30 min ago
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    • Men have beards. This is the way it should be. 1 hr 29 min ago
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    • Lol. Neither of my sons will ever be able to grow a beard, I think. They're lucky to have eyebrows. 1 hr 27 min ago
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  17. Toddler Have soup I can make for lunch, but having chili for dinner. Just do it, right? Or should I go get something... 1 hr 36 min ago (3 replies)
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    • fucking seriously? 1 hr 35 min ago
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      • LOL. I know right (OP) Just had ot put it out there. Going to microwave my soup now. 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • The beauty of it is that you can do whatever you want! 1 hr 35 min ago
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  18. Toddler I keep rereading that 12 mo old ds loving the stairs as a 12 yo ds - and laugh every time. god i am simple. 1 hr 36 min ago (0 replies)
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  19. Toddler Chicago moms - are you still taking kids out for T-o-T in this weather? 1 hr 36 min ago (9 replies)
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    • dh is...I'm handing out treats and drinking wine 1 hr 36 min ago
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    • oh yes. they will murder me in my sleep if i don't 1 hr 35 min ago
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    • of course. We live in Chicago! We're used to it 1 hr 35 min ago
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    • What's the weather like? I miss Chicago so much I am nostalgic for layers! (florida now). 1 hr 34 min ago
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      • OP: I grew up in FL and miss mild halloweens and no layers on costumes! 1 hr 33 min ago
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      • I am a chgo native and now in Houston TX ... I don't miss it at all! 1 hr 33 min ago
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        • ^^^ i heard there are flurries today 1 hr 32 min ago
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          • OP: more the wind, 50 mph winds 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • if I ever get out of bed. 1 hr 34 min ago
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  20. Toddler I keep getting robo calls from a collection agency for someone I don't know. When I call them, they say they haven't called. It's every day! What would you do in this situation? 1 hr 38 min ago (9 replies)
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    • BBB. get the name of the company, phone number etc. 1 hr 37 min ago
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    • Scam. Can you block the number? 1 hr 37 min ago
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      • I don't actually know. I have a new phone. 1 hr 37 min ago
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        • cell phone? iPhone? same number calling daily? 1 hr 36 min ago
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          • It's a Motorola Android. Yes, it's the same number calling every day. I just don't know how to block on this phone. I will figure it ou 1 hr 35 min ago
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            • You usually can block right from the Recent Calls or on your carrier website 1 hr 31 min ago
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        • If it's an iPhone you can block the number. 1 hr 36 min ago
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    • tell them if they call again you will file a claim with the fc or whomever it is that would fine them. google 1 hr 37 min ago
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    • This happened to me for a while too. Eventually it stopped 1 hr 36 min ago
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  21. Toddler What should I read? I like literary fiction, historical fiction, some nonfiction, mysteries.. 1 hr 39 min ago (18 replies)
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    • bone clocks 1 hr 38 min ago
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      • ty! 1 hr 37 min ago
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      • reading this now for book club great so far 1 hr 36 min ago
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    • all the light you cannot see-- great book 1 hr 38 min ago
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      • ITA 1 hr 37 min ago
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      • haven't heard of this, thanks 1 hr 37 min ago
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      • np. i tried this. does it get better? the beg was slowish for me. 1 hr 36 min ago
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        • WHAT?!?!? i was in love with it from the beginning 1 hr 35 min ago
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          • i thought i would too. this is normally my thing. i need to try it again. 1 hr 34 min ago
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    • simenon, maigret novels. 1 hr 38 min ago
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    • Fingersmith, a dark-adapted eye, Still life 1 hr 37 min ago
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      • I liked Fingersmith, will try the others 1 hr 37 min ago
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    • Razor's Edge. 1 hr 37 min ago
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    • boys in the boat 1 hr 36 min ago
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    • Short stories. 1 hr 36 min ago
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    • Anna Karenina ... by Tolstoy ... it really is a great read; if you read it in school, time to read it again. 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • quincunx 1 hr 30 min ago
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    • Of Human Bondage was a good one 1 hr 28 min ago
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  22. Toddler I think I'm done with 2nd grade hw. I'm letting my kid handle it. He won't. And I 1 hr 39 min ago (47 replies)
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    • ^I'll be okay with it 1 hr 39 min ago
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      • That's fine. Is he otherwise a good student? 1 hr 38 min ago
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        • Very 1 hr 38 min ago
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          • you let hiim take exams? 1 hr 35 min ago
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            • exams? in 2nd grade? we dont have exams 1 hr 34 min ago
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              • you don't have like a spelling test for example? 1 hr 33 min ago
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                • sure. he does great on those. 1 hr 32 min ago
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                  • whjy do you allow him to take these? they shoujld be banned 1 hr 32 min ago
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                    • why would they be? takes 3 minutes and spelling is useful, homework is not. study after study has shown this. I'm not making it up 1 hr 31 min ago
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                      • what about spelling homework? 1 hr 27 min ago
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                        • why are you being such an argumentative jerk? np 1 hr 26 min ago
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    • HW at that age is a total waste of time 1 hr 39 min ago
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      • it's habit forming for later years--but it's very frustrating to kids--totally boring--not connected to knowlege builiding & they know it. 1 hr 38 min ago
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        • there are some habits that can begin at 5th grade. Others that can begin at 8th. etc etc 1 hr 38 min ago
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        • .. and then they're burnt out by the time they're 11 1 hr 37 min ago
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        • OR: I'm not in favor of hw--it's just this is the only reason I've read that supports giving it out and I can sort of get it--but not really. 1 hr 37 min ago
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          • laundry, cooking, investing, taxes .. .so many important habits that can be taught later on 1 hr 36 min ago
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            • i keep reading that chores are more important than homework at this age. its about self sufficiency 1 hr 34 min ago
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              • NP agree with that 1 hr 33 min ago
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        • that is totally absurd 1 hr 36 min ago
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      • it's actually counter-productive. not only a waste of time. worse 1 hr 36 min ago
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        • it'sthe tool of the debil 1 hr 36 min ago
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    • ? 1 hr 39 min ago
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    • how much ? 1 hr 37 min ago
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      • an hour. plus reading which he does without issue 1 hr 35 min ago
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        • an hour seems like a lot. is it really an hour, or an houjr b /c he's fooling around? if i recall 2nd grade, it could be done in 10 mins 1 hr 34 min ago
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          • NP was that pre-common core. my 2nd grader has 40 minutes (and it takes him 50) 1 hr 33 min ago
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            • i know, damn that common core. it's the ruination of childhood. it shoujdl be banned. where is the outrage? 1 hr 32 min ago
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              • I'm okay with the CC. Just think the HW is OTT -- and it's not IN the CC, just always blamed on the CC 1 hr 32 min ago
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          • it's a whole new world 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • what do you mean, hje won't? 1 hr 36 min ago
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    • im anti homework anti tests anti studying. i think kids should just go to school and ask for what they want to be taught 1 hr 36 min ago
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      • I'm okay with the "flipped classroom". give the kid a movie, a book, a cd, a magazine to study at home. come in ready to write about it, discuss, draw etc 1 hr 34 min ago
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        • i actually don't think they need teachers. just some adult supervision. 1 hr 34 min ago
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        • well, they arne't going to know how to read or write until they ask to be taught it, and that might not be til age 12 or so. 1 hr 34 min ago
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          • you learn to read and write in class and at home. but not with hw 1 hr 33 min ago
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            • no, not in class unless you ask to be taught. who decides when that is? 1 hr 32 min ago
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              • huh? not sure where you're coming from 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • I will be flamed, but home work is optional in our house. so far they choose to do it, but I don't fight them on it. but they get very little home work 1st and 3rd grade. 1 hr 35 min ago
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      • ITA. it should be optional always , in all grades even college. 1 hr 33 min ago
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        • well IDA with that, but homework as busy work is not learning. Middle school homework should be project driven, not worksheet driven. 1 hr 32 min ago
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          • no homework, ever. what is wrong with you? no chores no homework nothing but learning thru doing 1 hr 31 min ago
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            • well now I see you are just being an asshole to those who you don't agree with. I hope you have a happy halloween 1 hr 30 min ago
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    • hw is the most stressful part of the day in my house. dc is otherwise calm and pleasant, but turns into a total nightmare when it's time to do hw 1 hr 32 min ago
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      • it ruins our limited family time 1 hr 29 min ago
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  23. Toddler MOTHER FUCKERS...(more) 1 hr 40 min ago (8 replies)
    • we are on a train moving backwards and it is really fucking scary. 1 hr 39 min ago
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      • no, there is just a huge rightward pedulum swing for some reason, and that smaller group is getting huge press and somehow getting a little power. Its freaky and will self...(more) 1 hr 32 min ago
        correct eventually
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        • lets hope so 1 hr 31 min ago
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          • everyone else is going the right direction, its just slowing things down, not stopping. 1 hr 30 min ago
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            • ITA, signe AZ mom ( lots of liberals here) 1 hr 29 min ago
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    • gilbert is very very conservative and Mormon. 1 hr 39 min ago
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      • ^ fwiw, many schools in the area teach normals stuff, this is what happens when the religious right gets on the school boards 1 hr 38 min ago
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    • whatever. I used to live in a bible belt area, you got used to the asshole-ishness and your parents taught you certain things at home. 1 hr 38 min ago
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  24. Toddler Ooh, i got an email from Mark Ruffalo with moveon. 1 hr 40 min ago (1 reply)
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    • is he cheating on me? 1 hr 37 min ago
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  25. Toddler I was trying to reconnect with a df. She invited me out for drinks with two other women-I barely know them and she is close with them. Haven't seen df in years. I declined but...(more) 1 hr 41 min ago (23 replies)
    gave her a few other options of times. Never heard back. Been over a week. It kind of stings. She just isn't into me right? Fwiw she first contacted me via Facebook messages.
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    • Oh, did you post about it? I think I remember it. 1 hr 40 min ago
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    • FB messaging means nothing--but she was trying to connect you to her group of friends and you declined. She's not quite sure how to connect with you either. 1 hr 39 min ago
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      • np-what the friend proposed it really daunting for someone more introverted, I think if there was history and a real interest for friendship the woman would have been flexible. 1 hr 38 min ago
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        • Op/ this plus I honestly had a committment that evening. I could have come later but felt even weirder doing that 1 hr 36 min ago
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      • Op/ I told her I was free any evening this week (that is over) or next three Sundays any time 1 hr 35 min ago
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        • Is she a mother? How could she be free those times? 1 hr 29 min ago
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          • Yes and so I am. You never meet for a drink after work? Or have lunch or a drink with a friend Sunday afternoon? 1 hr 27 min ago
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            • No 1 hr 27 min ago
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              • How many dc? Fwiw she had asked to drinks on Thursday evening 1 hr 26 min ago
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            • Family time 1 hr 27 min ago
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              • So when do you get together with dfs? 1 hr 25 min ago
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    • That was rude of you. If I were her, I'd feel like I'd reached out and was rejected. 1 hr 39 min ago
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      • So if I was unable to see her that one time/ that's it? I gave her a choice of other times 1 hr 38 min ago
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        • did you say you couldnt make it because you had other plans or because you didnt like going out with her two other friends? 1 hr 34 min ago
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          • nevermind saw yiur oist above. friend is probably really busy and youre low priority now. reach out to her again in a few weeks and if she doesnt respknd call it a day 1 hr 33 min ago
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            • Answered in full below 1 hr 31 min ago
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          • First she asked me if was free , told her had to check volunteer meeting time and suggest a place. She told me couldn't meet there because set plan with two other women. At that...(more) 1 hr 32 min ago
            point I told would not be able to make it on time so said why don't we meet x y or z
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    • Maybe she's really busy and was trying to accommodate too many people at once. Reach out and invite her for drinks, one-on-one. 1 hr 39 min ago
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      • I did. Gave her a choice of times. No reply 1 hr 37 min ago
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        • Try again in a month if you're still interested. 1 hr 36 min ago
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          • Ty. Just really down about it today 1 hr 35 min ago
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            • I wouldn't read too much into it. 1 hr 34 min ago
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    • she's very busy. reach out to her again next mo w/ a few suggested dates. 1 hr 22 min ago
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