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  1. Toddler If my sister doesn't have the money to visit my mother, too bad so sad. She should not expect me to help her! neither should she ask our mother. she is a grown woman. earn...(more) 1 hr 19 min ago (17 replies)
    money or don't visit toots
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    • id have to know more 1 hr 18 min ago
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    • She can ask her mother and her mother can say no. None of your business. 1 hr 18 min ago
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    • Shut up. You should have asked your sister, not your mom. 1 hr 18 min ago
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    • awww, you sound sweet - and what business is it of yours whether or not your mom helps her?? 1 hr 17 min ago
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    • Some people get through life by asking other people to subsidize them. That's their life skill. 1 hr 17 min ago
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      • and some people think that is a good thing to help family out esp to see their parent 1 hr 17 min ago
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    • Exhibit #94839 why you shouldn't think that you have to give your child a sib so they will be "friends for life" 1 hr 17 min ago
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      • No thinking person says this 1 hr 14 min ago
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    • but if you have enough to help her and it would give pleasure to her AND to your mother, why not? 1 hr 17 min ago
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    • Fake 1 hr 17 min ago
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    • i would pay - but i spend a lot of money helping our siblings 1 hr 15 min ago
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      • Ditto. I'd leave my parent out of it. 1 hr 10 min ago
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    • Try "my mother is 90 and dying. She has dementia and is crazy paranoid about money so my sibling and I pay all of her expenses. Our other sibling wants to come visit monthly and,...(more) 1 hr 14 min ago
      though she knows all if this, asked my mother to pay her monthly travel expenses to come visit. It was stressful. I wish she'd communicated with us so we could have spared my mother and just sent my sister the money directly. Now we have to pretend to send it through my mom who will complain and be stressed every month when it comes up."
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      • So sorry 1 hr 13 min ago
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      • I would tell her that straight out "if you need anything please ask me, it is hard on mom to deal with finances because she's fucking 90 and dying" 1 hr 12 min ago
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  2. Toddler Can someone explain to me why the terms "public school" and "private school" are the other way around in Britain? I can see why public means public here, but why does it mean...(more) 1 hr 19 min ago (8 replies)
    private there? TIA.
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    • because england. 1 hr 18 min ago
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    • Rich kids were tutored at home less rich kids went to "public" like eton. 1 hr 17 min ago
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      • Hmmm...plausible....good idea. That explains why a "public school" means what is does in Britain. But why is what we would call a "public school" called a "private school" 1 hr 15 min ago
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        • Because the "public schools" is us are "state schools" in Britain. They didn't exist when Eton, et al were founded. 1 hr 12 min ago
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          • Thank you! I've always wondered. 1 hr 11 min ago
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    • b/c 'public schools' are open to the public for a price.. vs old 'private schools' that were only open to certain families... at least in theory. 1 hr 6 min ago
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  3. Toddler I am a member of this tag sale group on facebook. It never ceases to amaze me the overpriced crap people try to sell. Their shit is just not worth as much as they would like to...(more) 1 hr 20 min ago (23 replies)
    think it does
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    • i've never resold anything in my life - i love to give stuff away 1 hr 20 min ago
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      • ^my mother, on the other hand, tries to sell or give away the crappiest crap 1 hr 18 min ago
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    • is it local? 1 hr 19 min ago
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    • me too - which one are you a member of? maybe we are in the same one :) 1 hr 19 min ago
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      • dutchess/putnam cunty mom's 1 hr 17 min ago
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        • ah - i'm in westchester 1 hr 17 min ago
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          • Is your stuff better? 1 hr 15 min ago
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            • eh. i'm a lurker, never bought anything 1 hr 14 min ago
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          • Which one? Me too 1 hr 13 min ago
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        • that's some typo, toots :) 1 hr 15 min ago
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          • op:lol! sorry!!! meant county 1 hr 14 min ago
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        • I dont want to be fart of a group like that! 1 hr 14 min ago
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    • yeah i especially love when someone posts big screen CRT tv and tries to sell it for $150. you can't get rid of those for free. 1 hr 19 min ago
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      • I tried to get rid of an old tv and VCR for 25- no takers 1 hr 18 min ago
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        • yeah just because your tv was $1k when you bought it and it's some sort of special flat screen CRT doesn't mean it's worth $150. makes me laugh. 1 hr 18 min ago
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        • old polaroid cameras are selling for $500 on ebay 1 hr 17 min ago
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          • np there will aldways by the outlier item or 2, besides polaroids, turntables are also popular. but by and large, old technology is crap. 1 hr 13 min ago
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      • You really can't give those away free. They are useless. 1 hr 17 min ago
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    • I'm on one and it's awesome b/c really wealthy women sell really nice stuff for butt cheap 1 hr 16 min ago
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    • v. true. i donate clothing in good condition to sal army. old linens & towels to go animal shelters. electronic junk goes once a year to county electronic collection day. if i...(more) 1 hr 15 min ago
      have something i think is wroth selling, i etiher ebay it or go to local consignment shop that carries everything.
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  4. Toddler I spend so much damn money. 1 hr 20 min ago (21 replies)
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    • Make a budget. Stick to it. 1 hr 20 min ago
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      • np never works, bc SOMETHING always comes up 1 hr 19 min ago
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    • how much do you spend? 1 hr 20 min ago
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      • my dh go through $1mm a year - its ridiculous 1 hr 19 min ago
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        • you spend $1M in cash? 1 hr 19 min ago
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          • yes, but that's houses and private school in manhattan. im not a huge shopper. 1 hr 17 min ago
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            • houses? buying or maintaining? and how many children are you putting thru school? i have 2 in private and 2 homes and we don't spend $1M a year. 1 hr 16 min ago
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              • maintaining and mortgages. 3 kids, 3 great vacations a year. charity events 1 hr 13 min ago
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                • i sincerely doubt you are spending $1M on that. if you are that rich, aren't your homes paid for? 1 hr 13 min ago
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                  • Np, not necessarily. We have two mortgages, one is $500k, the other $700. 1 hr 11 min ago
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                    • one of my mortgages in 2 million, the other is probably $1.2 mm 1 hr 10 min ago
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                      • That's a lot. Our hhi is $4mm, mortgages are nbd, but we have them. 1 hr 9 min ago
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                  • i wouldn't say we are all that rich. makes more sense to finance the houses with really low rates. 1 hr 11 min ago
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    • me too, and i don't have it to spend :-( 1 hr 20 min ago
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    • stop shopping, get a hobby 1 hr 19 min ago
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      • I'm not a huge shopper. 1 hr 18 min ago
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        • then how are you spending $1 million a year? 1 hr 17 min ago
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          • the house/apartment. service providers, private school, living in manhattan 1 hr 16 min ago
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            • service providers. Tee her hee. 1 hr 15 min ago
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            • where is you house? 1 hr 14 min ago
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              • penthouse in nyc and house in hamptons. Service providers - gardners in both places, therapists for two of my 3 kids, tutors, housekeeper, babysitters 1 hr 12 min ago
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  5. Toddler I don't want anything or need anything. 1 hr 20 min ago (2 replies)
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    • good. 1 hr 20 min ago
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    • me either. it's a very nice feeling. 1 hr 15 min ago
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  6. Toddler Dammit! DS has braces and he just lost the back tooth with the ring that holds the wires. Waiting for call back from ortho. Of course, he's getting his braces off in a week and...(more) 1 hr 21 min ago (19 replies)
    hasn't had any problems the past 14 months. ARGH!
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    • Yikes it's just hanging there? 1 hr 21 min ago
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      • Yep. Hanging there attached to the wire. 1 hr 14 min ago
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    • if he's getting them off in a week, i wouldn't stress. 1 hr 21 min ago
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      • ^ unless you are saying his back tooth just came out. 1 hr 21 min ago
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        • Yes. His back tooth came out and is hanging there connected to the wire. 1 hr 19 min ago
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          • wow. i don't think molars are supposed to come out. you may want to call the dentist. 1 hr 19 min ago
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            • He's only 9.5yo, so I'm not sure if it was a permanent tooth or not. 1 hr 18 min ago
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              • ^^ OP: Have a call into his orthodontist. Waiting for a call back. 1 hr 17 min ago
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                • why did he have braces so young? 1 hr 16 min ago
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                  • This was stage one to make room for his adult teeth. He'll get stage two in a few years. 1 hr 13 min ago
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                • ^^ OP: The molar might be a baby tooth. My dd (age 11) has two back molars left to lose. Maybe he just lost it early. Though, he said he bit into a small lollipop today. 1 hr 15 min ago
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    • I'd just take them off then. 1 hr 21 min ago
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    • his tooth fell out? 1 hr 21 min ago
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    • so shouldn't be that huge a deal if they are coming off in a week, maybe they can come of now? 1 hr 20 min ago
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      • Well, 9:30PM on a Saturday night really isn't a convenient time for removal. 1 hr 19 min ago
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        • no, i didn't mean that - 1 hr 18 min ago
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          • OP: I know. Just being sarcastic. Sorry. 1 hr 18 min ago
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    • Call dentist too 1 hr 18 min ago
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  7. Toddler Anyone sleep with white noise at night? Does it make it harder for you to sleep if you travel and there's no white noise? 1 hr 22 min ago (12 replies)
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    • when i travel i use some kind of radio and put it on a static station 1 hr 21 min ago
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    • DH runs an air purifier for white noise. When he travels he plays white noise on his phone. 1 hr 20 min ago
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    • I have app on phone 1 hr 20 min ago
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      • which one? 1 hr 20 min ago
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      • what app? 1 hr 13 min ago
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        • Poster from below: white noise is the name of the app. The free one ... I have the other but like the thunder setting on the free one 1 hr 10 min ago
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          • White noise ambience lite 1 hr 8 min ago
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          • I have it too. I love that app 1 hr 6 min ago
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    • my baby and she's totally addicted 1 hr 19 min ago
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    • I sleep with a fan on for the white noise. Now I can't sleep without it so I bought a travel white noise machine 1 hr 19 min ago
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    • Oh yes 1 hr 19 min ago
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    • I use an app on my phone 1 hr 14 min ago
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  8. Toddler 16yo dd has been talking all day and will not stop. 1 hr 23 min ago (6 replies)
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    • Something's bothering her and this is how it's manifesting 1 hr 22 min ago
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      • Hmm. Doesn't seem troubled. It's bothering the hell out of me though. I need quiet, so irritable. 1 hr 21 min ago
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    • i love it when my teen talks 1 hr 22 min ago
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    • Be grateful for these days. 1 hr 20 min ago
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      • I keep telling myself that. 1 hr 19 min ago
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        • Dds 15 and 18. I miss conversation. 1 hr 19 min ago
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  9. Toddler I am intuitive, ask me anything 1 hr 24 min ago (41 replies)
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    • tell me something about myself! something specific ;-) 1 hr 24 min ago
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      • you are sitting at a desk staring at your computer. 1 hr 23 min ago
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        • OMG! Something else!? 1 hr 23 min ago
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      • one shoe is off and one on 1 hr 20 min ago
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    • will I get a job soon? 1 hr 23 min ago
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      • yes, and I feel that you are quite a go getter in spirit 1 hr 23 min ago
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    • whats the next chapter in my life 1 hr 23 min ago
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      • I instantly felt the presence of love. 1 hr 23 min ago
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        • hmmm more info please and thank you 1 hr 21 min ago
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          • I felt a love for this man - 1 hr 14 min ago
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    • will i get married? 1 hr 23 min ago
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      • you will however not soon, like in 2 years 1 hr 22 min ago
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    • What should I say to him? 1 hr 23 min ago
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      • keep it light 1 hr 17 min ago
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    • What is next for me? 1 hr 22 min ago
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      • career change 1 hr 17 min ago
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        • I am a sahm. 1 hr 14 min ago
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          • I See that you are needing more of a focus in your lie 1 hr 14 min ago
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    • will my dd marry? no relationship & none on the horizon. tia. 1 hr 20 min ago
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      • yes she will find the truest love - good heart 1 hr 16 min ago
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        • aw, thx! she does have a good heart! and a good looking face & body, but some issues w/gettingb close to men. you've made me smile! 1 hr 14 min ago
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    • Will bil be ok or not? 1 hr 20 min ago
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      • he will be ok, not saying that he will be here a long time. 1 hr 16 min ago
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        • Where do you see him? 1 hr 9 min ago
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    • Should I drop dh in light of his betrayal. 1 hr 20 min ago
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      • instinct says that you should. however, ask yourself if you truly love him and I mean unconditional love - no matter what love. If so, then you must stay..... 1 hr 15 min ago
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        • My instinct? Anyhow only parental love is unconditional I believe 1 hr 14 min ago
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          • that is not true and there is your answer - leave 1 hr 13 min ago
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    • Will I have another baby? 1 hr 17 min ago
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      • yes, i feel that you are very fertile - I see 2 kids 1 hr 14 min ago
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    • Will i have another baby? 1 hr 14 min ago
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      • Im not the same poster as above. 1 hr 14 min ago
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        • I do not see baby when I read your post 1 hr 13 min ago
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    • Dd bat mitzvah. Is she going to enjoy it? 1 hr 13 min ago
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  10. Toddler FYI. Total spam (though im not connected w the comapny) the Fun Factory Stronic Eins Pulsator sex toy is amazing. second to my hitachi. just bought it. love it. 1 hr 25 min ago (2 replies)
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    • i've been debating getting a sex toy to hit my g-spot. 1 hr 23 min ago
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      • there is one that is spec for g spot. i think its call teh zwei? 1 hr 23 min ago
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  11. Toddler Wow. how many of us have musicman on right now? 1 hr 26 min ago (4 replies)
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    • Just you 1 hr 25 min ago
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    • me! 1 hr 24 min ago
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    • Didn't know! DS would have loved, but we just watched another movie 1 hr 21 min ago
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  12. Toddler If you can't spend more than $100 fir a pair of boots, shop thrift or consignment and get something of decent quality 1 hr 26 min ago (51 replies)
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    • i've heard people say that this is very bad for your feet. 1 hr 25 min ago
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      • I'm guessing most people donate boots that never fit well. 1 hr 24 min ago
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    • AIAB 1 hr 25 min ago
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      • ita. total aiab. 1 hr 24 min ago
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      • what does this mean? 1 hr 23 min ago
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        • asshole in a bubble 1 hr 22 min ago
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          • excellent! Never heard that 1 hr 22 min ago
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            • not original to me but determined to help its originator make it happen here. 1 hr 19 min ago
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          • np i don't get it 1 hr 22 min ago
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            • she is living in a bubble and not in touch with the real world. and an asshole to boot 1 hr 21 min ago
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              • No she's not. Stfu 1 hr 20 min ago
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                • op totally is. she is the AIAB personified 1 hr 20 min ago
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                  • np this is such a lame insult 1 hr 19 min ago
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                    • IDA. so many people here are totally out of touch with reality. It fits time and time again 1 hr 19 min ago
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                      • i get the point, but the saying is lame 1 hr 18 min ago
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                      • Nnp who's reality? Oh you mean yours? 1 hr 18 min ago
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                        • look. to the average american, $100 shoes are on the pricy side. that is reality. you may have more money ( i spend more than that ) but know that you are fortunate 1 hr 16 min ago
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                          • While that may be the case, it has nothing to do with what the op said. How bad is your reading comp? 1 hr 15 min ago
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                            • It is good. only an asshole would demand for someone to go buy used shoes for higher quality. you keep missing that 1 hr 14 min ago
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                              • Demand? Wtf? Lol! Your projection is HILARIOUS 1 hr 13 min ago
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                              • I think you misunderstood. Np 1 hr 10 min ago
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                  • She sounds helpful. I've found a ton of great stuff on consignment. You sound bitter. Np 1 hr 18 min ago
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                    • she is condescending. not all consignment stores have high end stuff. and $100 is a ton of money to some people. 1 hr 17 min ago
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                      • Right and that's why she suggests thrift or consignment! Are you stupid? 1 hr 16 min ago
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                        • Who is she to say what quality is? Sheese. let people buy what they want. not everyone cares about labels and brands and "high" quality. (many inexpensive brands are just as...(more) 1 hr 14 min ago
                          good if not better than $$$ brands)
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                          • What $70 pair of boots is as "good" as a full leather expensive pair? Are you serious? 1 hr 14 min ago
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                            • Honey, no one needs leather SOLES. The stitching and the uppers are what matter. Soles can and often are replaced with years of wear anyway. 1 hr 12 min ago
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                              • Yes because the stitching on a $70 pair if boots is going to be better than on a $500 pair. Of course. You are a genius aren't you? 1 hr 11 min ago
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                          • You sound embarrassed now that you were confused and you should be. 1 hr 12 min ago
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        • Asshole In A Bubble 1 hr 22 min ago
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    • Its a superstition but you shouldn't wear others shoes 1 hr 25 min ago
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    • I just got a pair of Boutique 9 booties at Goodwill, they are gorgeous 1 hr 25 min ago
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      • I also got Cole Haan lace up boots there. 1 hr 22 min ago
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    • You sound so fucking condescending 1 hr 24 min ago
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      • I didn't see it as condescending. Are you the one who called that other poster low rent? np 1 hr 23 min ago
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    • I think buying on sale is fine 1 hr 24 min ago
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      • Even on sale you won't get a pair of real quality leather boots for under $100 1 hr 23 min ago
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        • sure you can 1 hr 23 min ago
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        • You are wrong. 1 hr 22 min ago
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        • I got Stuart weitzman boots for $90 last year at dsw 1 hr 22 min ago
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          • exactly, patience and perseverence. 1 hr 21 min ago
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        • that's actually not true - you won't get Prada boots at that price, but there are less expensive stores that run sales. if you are a good shopper you can get great values 1 hr 22 min ago
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        • I bought a pair of $500 Rag and Bone boots at tjmaxx today for $199. I'm sure there are nice things in the $100 priced point there. 1 hr 21 min ago
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        • You just don't know how to shop. How sad for you. 1 hr 16 min ago
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    • I have some amazing boots from a resale shop for 100. Originally 800. 1 hr 24 min ago
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    • i will not wear someone else's sweat filled shoes, ever 1 hr 24 min ago
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      • eyeroll 1 hr 23 min ago
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        • eyeroll all you want, it's gross 1 hr 22 min ago
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    • I consigned two never worn pairs of good quality boots. It's hit or miss but you may find something. 1 hr 22 min ago
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  13. Toddler Okay, i know what some of you are going to say, but i wanted to put this out there for a bit of support. i recently have been having some problems because i have become a bit...(more) 1 hr 26 min ago (66 replies)
    psychic. I was so stressed about it and was hiding it from some people. finally, I felt like I was going nuts. I finally went to my former therapist who helped me during other difficult times. I was not sure what she would say, but by the end of my countless stories of what was happening, she said, 'suzi, you have a gift." and sent me to an energy healer. this was about 5 days ago and I am still processing this. am sick in bed from the stress of this all.
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    • Cool story 1 hr 25 min ago
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      • that is what everyone says but i am completely troubled with this. i named my kids after scinetists! 1 hr 24 min ago
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        • now scnisicents! not them! 1 hr 3 min ago
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    • i totally believe you ;-) I was REAMED last week for saying I believed in it all... but I absolutely believe in it... And if you want to do a reading on me, I am here ;-) 1 hr 24 min ago
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      • that actually put me in the trance. but i had to push it away. i think you are empathetic. that is the thing that i think is the strongest feeling. 1 hr 21 min ago
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        • or - amazing... do you have scary intuitions is that why it scares you? Or do you feel like you will be labeled, or...? 1 hr 19 min ago
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        • What do you mean trance? 1 hr 19 min ago
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        • ^^you are light but deep. if that makes sense. you like to be 'peppy' and 'bright' 1 hr 18 min ago
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          • or - yes, that sounds about right? I ove to be alone, but when I am with people I am just ON. I am a total people pleaser... and social, but it takes a lot out of me, so i often...(more) 1 hr 16 min ago
            prefer not to do social things if that makes sense...? I feel like I have to be constantly "on"
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            • yes. i guess the word bubbly. i think you are also concerned about your looks and try to look cheery. it would freak me out to see a photo but what the hell do you look like? 1 hr 14 min ago
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              • or - YES. That is me. VERY concerned about my looks, always have been, but finally feel happy b/c also medical issues are being solved hopefully (maybe you see more on that?)....(more) 1 hr 12 min ago
                Should I post a photo? Are you going to jump into me or anything! Joke!
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                • ^i was always very insecure, but i have posted here before and people have been so flattering, so... 1 hr 11 min ago
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                  • you need to start guided meditations for self love. jody whiteley has been very good for me. 1 hr 6 min ago
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                    • or - ty. I am actually in a wonderful place right now. I have been on some medication and am doing acupunture and not only do I see a light at the end of the tunnel, but I feel...(more) 1 hr 5 min ago
                      less anxiety about my looks...
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                • no. i won't. yeah. post one. i will be honest if it looks like what i thought. i have to hold that in my mind. weird. out of trance right now 1 hr 5 min ago
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                  • okay I uploaded - it has my family too, is that okay? 1 hr 4 min ago
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                    • My DH looks and is REALLY skinny here, but otherwise, here I am/we are - lol!...(more) 1 hr 4 min ago
                      • - no subject -...(more) 59 min ago
                        oh my. how weird. yes. that looked like you but you were from a different angle. and you had red lipstick on.
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                        • i can see...(more) 58 min ago
                          that you have not always been happy but that is what you show. and I can see that your dh thinks you are pretty damn awesome.
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                          • or - he really does. I am so lucky. And he has put up with me recently, but I know he loves me and vice versa and he thinks I am pretty fine! lol! But you just made my night -...(more) 56 min ago
                            ty...
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                        • or - I used to wear bright red lipstick for years... in my early/mid twenties - the HEIGHT of my insecurity... i have a photo of me with hot pink/fuschia lipstick, but not sure if...(more) 57 min ago
                          that's what you mean...
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                          • well, you were flying through the air and you were in your twenties. but i would have been totally attracted to youas a friend. are you an enfj and then sometimes switch to...(more) 25 min ago
                            introversion for months at a time?
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                            • or - wow - and I jsut took that test but got out of the screen before I could remember what I was, but I do know it was pretty spot on... and yes, I think I had some depression...(more) 20 min ago
                              which make me retreat and I realize now it was more anxieties than insecurities... boy was I happy to hit 30! Things really changed for me then, for the better... I was a mess after junior year of college on and off...
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                              • wait. did you take the test and then come back here and see that i thought you were a particular type> what was the sequence? 10 min ago
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                                • or - i took it yesterday or the day before. But then an IQ test popped up so i took that and lost my result for the other! lol! I love a good IQ test! 4 min ago
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                                  • 143? 1 min ago
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                                    • or - 134! Reversed ;-) 1 min ago
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                                      • ohm y god. how funny, i am dyslexic 36 sec ago
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                                      • ^and i get the SAME score every test - I keep hoping for higher - but it says I am in the top 1% of the testers, which really means nothing! HA! 15 sec ago
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                      • You are pretty. How old are you? Hispanic? 58 min ago
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                        • or - not hispanic - wanna guess? My grey gives away my age, but just curious what you think? Dh says he'll divorce me if I dye it - he loves it! I am too lazy and I sort of...(more) 55 min ago
                          like it - until my face starts to show it, I will keep it for now I think. It helps that we live in Brooklyn and not the UES!
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                          • 47? 50 min ago
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                            • or - hrmmmm I guess I should start dying my hair now!!! That was taken on my 41st bday last May :-( 49 min ago
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                              • dyeing?! 47 min ago
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                              • Yeah, it makes you look like a young/old academic, which I usually equate with being over 45. You look great any age you are though :) 46 min ago
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                                • or - Haha! Okay, good to know. DH is 53 almost so at least I still look younger than him! 44 min ago
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                            • ^^^^^^ALL THIS WAS NOT ME< STARTING WITH THE HISPANIC QUESTION.... 22 min ago
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                              • or - op? Yes, I know it was someone else ;-) I am still a little sad that I look 47 truthfully!! 19 min ago
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                        • or - and ty ;-) 54 min ago
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                      • you are beautiful. So my type. (I'm a bi woman). Your dh is a lucky lucky man because you seem very smart and sweet too 47 min ago
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                        • or - gee thank you ;-) That's sweet - he is a very loving husband and the absolutely most amazing father it's ridiculous. He loves those kids beyond and respects me for being...(more) 43 min ago
                          their mother...
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    • awesome... Sorry it's been hard for you... What are some of your experiences? 1 hr 23 min ago
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    • It's okay that you are psychic 1 hr 23 min ago
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    • What are the experiences that make you think you are psychic? I used to have them, too - just like thinking I see a friend in a crowd, and then the friend calling me. Or (before...(more) 1 hr 21 min ago
      caller ID) knowing who was calling, no matter how random.
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      • i have started 'falling' into people. and sometimes i cannot tell whose body is whose. so i can get 'inside' their mind as well. 1 hr 19 min ago
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        • Ok we need examples because this is starting t to sound like hallucinations/crazy thoughts 1 hr 18 min ago
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          • well, here is an example that freaked me out. i was struggling with this, so i checked on SENG website- it is a site for the emotional something for the gifted. anyway, there was...(more) 1 hr 11 min ago
            a woman in town who had written an article and she meets with gifted people (not a doctor but therapist of some sort)...anyway, I checked out her website, was nervous so waited 3 days to write. finally, I did, and rechecked the website to take a look at her. for some reason.
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            • more...(more) 1 hr 9 min ago
              I found a photo of her that was taken in 98 or something. it was of this woman dancing tango with her head to the side, and it was really far away. I went downtown with my kids. we had a snack at the local whole food style place, and then, I felt like I needed to move away, I walked towards the door, there was a feeling of my kids being in a long tunnel away from me, and then I ahd this wave pass over me and
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              • and? 1 hr 8 min ago
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              • more...(more) 1 hr 7 min ago
                I saw the back of a woman's head. it was grey and frizzy. I called out this new woman's name in a near whisper, and then again, and she came closer. I was in a trance and we spoke. she asked if she knew me and I told her that I ahd written her that morning and that,,,i knew I was going to see her. ....so, these things scare the living shit out of me
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                • np WOW!! 1 hr 7 min ago
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                  • i know. and that is just one that you would think amazing. there are others that would not make sense . oh, our town has 300,000 people in it 1 hr 4 min ago
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                    • np: I'm stuck on the woman doing the tango in 1998 1 hr 1 min ago
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                • Is the woman dead? Wtf? 1 hr 6 min ago
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                  • np i just got the willies, but i think the woman is alive from what OP said... 1 hr 2 min ago
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                    • Was op talking to her in real life or in her dream state? I'm confused and think more and more that op may be losing her mind 59 min ago
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                    • no. i saw her for real and spole to her. 57 min ago
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                      • Oh shut the front door. What did she say? 54 min ago
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            • And?... 1 hr 9 min ago
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      • that is so cool 1 hr 2 min ago
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    • id like to ask you things but I don't want to put you in a tough position because I'm being treated for a recurrence of breast cancer. But I'm sorry you are having a rough time 1 hr 19 min ago
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      • well, i can refer you to the woman who my therapist referred me to. she is a healer. and yes, i think i shouldn't because i got some empathetic pain in my head. let me get you...(more) 1 hr 16 min ago
        that name . it is here by my bed side...her name is marie manucheri- she is an rn and in Washington. not sure if my therapist sent me there fro healing or because the same thing happened to this woman.
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        • thx! 1 hr 15 min ago
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          • And fwiw I have a great doctor and a good prognosis as well as more resources than most people have 1 hr 14 min ago
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            • i will look into Marie 1 hr 13 min ago
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    • I love this post in so many ways 1 hr 3 min ago
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  14. Toddler We got a goody bag on our porch today with a note that said "You've been Boo-ed! 1 hr 26 min ago (9 replies)
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    • ^^^Whoops - and it said to post on our front door the cut-out of a ghost, so people would know we have been boo-ed, and then to put goody bags on two other houses nearby, and give...(more) 1 hr 25 min ago
      them pictures of ghosts to post. Would you do it?
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      • Yes. We did this tonight. 1 hr 25 min ago
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        • Where do you live? Curious how widespread this is. 1 hr 21 min ago
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      • It's becoming a "thing". Thank god I don't live in a burb. 1 hr 22 min ago
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        • If you lived in a burb, would you do it? I don't want to, but I also don't want to be un-neighborly. 1 hr 20 min ago
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      • STOP THE INSANITY. It's the elf on a shelf for Halloween. i hate shit like this. 1 hr 16 min ago
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        • YES! That's exactly how I feel. We have sufficient traditions, don't need to pile on a bunch more. Do you think it's horrible of me not to participate? 1 hr 14 min ago
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          • do you want to be part of a club yoy have no interest in? then, sure. 1 hr 12 min ago
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    • i like the idea of leaving the goody bag without instructions to do it to someone else 1 hr 3 min ago
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  15. Toddler What is average bat mitzvah gift to give from just you and dh? Our friends dd 1 hr 26 min ago (4 replies)
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    • We give a gift like a birthday gift. 1 hr 25 min ago
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    • close friends 200ish. other wise 150sih 1 hr 24 min ago
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    • i gave $200 to very close friends. 1 hr 23 min ago
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    • 250-300 1 hr 21 min ago
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  16. Toddler Is there a place where I can buy blue contacts for a Halloween costume? 1 hr 27 min ago (1 reply)
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  17. Toddler Ttc for over a year, 1 dc. Every month, as ovulation nears, something happens to sabotage efforts. Now i have this weird tingling on left side of body and i worry i may be...(more) 1 hr 27 min ago (8 replies)
    seriously ill or dying, and stupid to ttc because it may kill me. Wtf is wrong with me?
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    • Anxiety 1 hr 26 min ago
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    • Probably ovulation. Do you really want a baby? 1 hr 26 min ago
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    • You are stressed out. Give yourself a break 1 hr 26 min ago
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    • Are you stressed over trying ? 1 hr 26 min ago
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    • Stress I already told u 1 hr 25 min ago
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    • That is stress from your job and tic. Relax 1 hr 25 min ago
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    • I suggest you take my mom's advice. Throw out your thermometer, throw that TTC book away, Don't worry what day is ovulalation and try to foget you are TTC. Just have fun. It will...(more) 1 hr 22 min ago
      happen and you will get rid of that stress tingling.
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  18. Toddler Ive always known how to say it, but until I was about 12 whenever I read the word "recipe", i said "REE-SIPE." 1 hr 29 min ago (0 replies)
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  19. Toddler Still trying to think of late 80s NYC restaurant. West side, 40-50s. I thought it was a woman's name, but now I am thinking maybe more of a NN? Like Queenie's? Any other...(more) 1 hr 29 min ago (13 replies)
    thoughts?
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    • what kind of food was it? 1 hr 26 min ago
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      • American 1 hr 25 min ago
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        • 1985? 87? 89? 1 hr 23 min ago
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          • I moved to NYC in 86 so I fell like it was maybe 88? 1 hr 23 min ago
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            • ^^^and I feel like it was 45-55 maybe between 8th and 9th? 1 hr 22 min ago
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    • Nell's? 1 hr 26 min ago
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      • No, but totally right idea and right era. But not a club and in midtown. But owned by a Nell type celeb who would be there and socialize with everyone. 1 hr 24 min ago
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        • B. smith 1 hr 20 min ago
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          • She was a tall white woman that looked like a drag queen 1 hr 19 min ago
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    • josie's 1 hr 24 min ago
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  20. Toddler Ok, I have a friend who grew up in a very dysfunctional situation and continues to live that way. She complains as if she wish she didn't live like this, yet she won't make...(more) 1 hr 29 min ago (16 replies)
    changes. For example, her bitch sister will text her dd and say bad things about my friend, the dd's mother, but then the next thing she is giving my friend money for her ds' birthday gift. I told her to decline the money ( even though she needs it) and to tell her sister to keep the money and stop talking shit about her to her dd, but she keeps allowing it. I'm getting sick of hearing about it and her not setting boundaries.
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    • Well, many dysfunctional people do it bc they rely on those people. 1 hr 28 min ago
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      • well you can't have it both ways... 1 hr 28 min ago
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        • What do you mean? If they cut them off, they don't get their support. 1 hr 27 min ago
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          • the sister doesn't support her, but the little money helps. that said, either accept that it comes with the territory and shut up, or decline and set boundaries. it's draning fro...(more) 1 hr 26 min ago
            me
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            • Sure, bc you are not used to dysfunction. She's used to it and doesn't know another way. 1 hr 26 min ago
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              • how do you know what i'm used to or not? 1 hr 25 min ago
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                • OH BOy. 1 hr 24 min ago
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                  • that's saying nothing 1 hr 22 min ago
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            • It is support, that money is support? That I the price she pays. Either tell her this, or just change the subject when she starts draining you 1 hr 24 min ago
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              • i told her this, and i'm tired of telling her this, and i do change the subject, but it comes up again bc this is her life, and i'm just sick of it 1 hr 23 min ago
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    • typical dysfunctional family - enmeshed, codependent, lack of proper boundaries 1 hr 28 min ago
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      • i know, but don't you at some point make a decision that enough is enough, esp when it's causing you heart palpitations, hair loss, and other wise affecting your health? 1 hr 27 min ago
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        • Some people can't cut ties with family 1 hr 26 min ago
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          • like i said, you can't have it both ways. 1 hr 25 min ago
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    • So the aunt is talking to badly to her neice about neices mom ( aunt sister) 1 hr 27 min ago
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  21. Toddler My favorite song is "have you seen her?" By the chi lites. Love it 1 hr 30 min ago (5 replies)
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    • I love that song too.Also Love on a Two Way Street 1 hr 29 min ago
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      • Op: yes! I love the original version by the moments. Love it! 1 hr 28 min ago
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        • me too. I have the Youtube saved in my bookmarks 1 hr 24 min ago
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          • Op: me too! The chi lites on soul train...such a great performance. 1 hr 22 min ago
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            • one of the best concert I ever went to was Barry White and Earth Wind and Fire 1 hr 16 min ago
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  22. Toddler You really ought to give Iowa a try 1 hr 31 min ago (6 replies)
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    • des moines is hopping 1 hr 30 min ago
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    • Yes desmoines 1 hr 30 min ago
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    • said the school shooter 1 hr 30 min ago
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    • Pick a little talk a little Pick a little talk a little Pick a little talk a little CHEEP CHEEP CHEEP 1 hr 29 min ago
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      • Signed, Hawkeye 1 hr 26 min ago
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    • Provided you are contrary. 1 hr 25 min ago
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  23. Toddler Who's more annoying on Instagram, Jess Seinfeld or Hiilaria Baldwin? 1 hr 32 min ago (15 replies)
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    • tough call 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • Who is Jess Seinfeld? 1 hr 31 min ago
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      • Jessica married to Jerry 1 hr 31 min ago
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      • who is hillaria B? 1 hr 31 min ago
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        • sounds like a disease. 1 hr 30 min ago
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        • come on 1 hr 30 min ago
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          • i really have no clue who that is... alec baldwins someone? 1 hr 28 min ago
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            • Yes, his wife. 1 hr 27 min ago
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      • Really? 1 hr 30 min ago
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    • you don't have to follow them. do you. 1 hr 30 min ago
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      • Don't change the subject. 1 hr 28 min ago
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    • I actually like Seinfeld-it seems like she is enjoying her life. Hilaria and the stupid poses just annoys me. 1 hr 30 min ago
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      • The poses....omg 1 hr 28 min ago
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    • I don't follow either one of them so I cannot say, aren't most people like this on instagram annoying, as are momtographers 1 hr 15 min ago
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    • You can add Gwenyie to this list 1 hr 14 min ago
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  24. Toddler Trigger post - what is your guacamole recipe? be precise please 1 hr 32 min ago (24 replies)
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    • reservation at rosa mexicana 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • ripe avocado, lots of lemon juice, salt and pepper. That's it. 1 hr 31 min ago
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      • precise? 1 hr 30 min ago
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        • Yes. 1 hr 28 min ago
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        • If that's not precise enough for you, you should avoid the kitchen. 1 hr 28 min ago
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    • A few avacados, lots of lime juice, salt, cilantro, jalapeño, a little chopped tomato. There's no precise recipe. 1 hr 31 min ago
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      • op: I know, but I am honestly curious how people make their guac 1 hr 29 min ago
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    • Avocado and garlic salt 1 hr 31 min ago
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      • Garlic salt is garbage 1 hr 27 min ago
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    • garlic onion salsa tobasco lemon tomatoes salt pepper 1 hr 30 min ago
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    • op: mine is lemon or lime juice, salt, chopped tomato and onion. oh and avocado... 1 hr 30 min ago
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    • Avocado, fresh like juice, garlic, salt, pepper. Often add a jalapeño and some tomatillos. 1 hr 28 min ago
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    • perfectly ripe avocado. small clove garlic. 1 lime, 1 jalapeño pepper. salt. for dd, add 1 chopped tomato and coriander 1 hr 28 min ago
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    • avocado mashed, couple of cloves of garlic, minced. juice of one lime, salt. simple and good 1 hr 27 min ago
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    • avocados, lime, garlic, onion, cilantro, diced and drained tomatoes salt, red pepper flakes 1 hr 27 min ago
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    • 4 avocados, 1/2 small minced onion, juice from 1/2 a lime, a few dashes of Franks hot sauce, salt to taste, cilantro 1 hr 27 min ago
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      • This. No garlic. No tomato. Just this. 1 hr 22 min ago
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      • Oop: thank you for the precision! unfortunately I can't use cilantro usually bc dh is one of those people who can't stand the taste (thinks it tastes like soap). 1 hr 21 min ago
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        • Or, leave it out. Still great. 1 hr 19 min ago
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    • the one in that yellow cookbook - how to cook everything 1 hr 24 min ago
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      • Worst.cookbook.ever. 1 hr 22 min ago
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    • 2avocados, salt, lime, 2 cloves garlic, diced 1 hr 19 min ago
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    • I grind cilantro salt lime and a bit of white onion and jalapeño together. Then mix big chunks...(more) 1 hr 13 min ago
      Big chunks of avocado and a tomato if I have a good one. I like it chunky not too smooth
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  25. Toddler How do I post something on FB to a smaller group? I want to post things that only certain people can see. I don't want former students, certain family members, etc. 1 hr 32 min ago (1 reply)
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    • you need to change the audience. create a group in your friend's list and then when you post a message, select that audience 1 hr 22 min ago
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