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  1. Toddler If your dc's bday is during summer, do you feel you have to invite all the boys to his bday party in July? Or can you have him choose? 2 hr 5 min ago (9 replies)
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    • my ds is 8 and his close friends have moved to smaller parties or even smaller sleepover parties. not as many full class parties anymore 2 hr 4 min ago
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      • ditto. My 8yo had 2 kids at his party this year 2 hr 1 min ago
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    • ^^^now rising 1st grader 2 hr 4 min ago
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    • all the boys in the world? which all the boys are you talking about? 2 hr 4 min ago
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      • Gee, I wonder what she could be talking about, Obtuse Mom. 2 hr 3 min ago
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    • we will do a party with his class boys in the fall 2 hr 3 min ago
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    • I feel it's the only benefit of an august bday- we choose. 2 hr 3 min ago
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    • no. We pick and choose. August bday here 1 hr 55 min ago
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  2. Toddler Ds didn't open presents until after guests let: ok to email thank yous? 2 hr 6 min ago (16 replies)
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    • It's the lazy way out 2 hr 5 min ago
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    • I'm going with yes, though the old school would disagree. 2 hr 5 min ago
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    • i go old school bc it's so easy to write two lines. thank you for coming to my party and for the ____________. Your friend, Timmy 2 hr 5 min ago
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      • I'll have to do some investigating for the addresses but ok 2 hr 4 min ago
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        • you invited all these people to the party and you don't know where they live? 2 hr 4 min ago
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          • Np: really?? 2 hr 3 min ago
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            • of course really 2 hr 3 min ago
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              • You must have toddlers 2 hr 1 min ago
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                • my oldest is 11. I find your answer very silly though. why would i not know where my dd's friends live? 2 hr 1 min ago
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          • np-I just had to do this because I sent the invite through school and half of the parents are not in the directory. 2 hr 3 min ago
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            • everyone is in the directory in our school anyway but its as easy as a text asking for home address 2 hr 2 min ago
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      • and it's such a good habit for your dc to get into now 1 hr 53 min ago
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    • i will get flamed but NO 2 hr 5 min ago
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    • I am writing them out. Just do it, it is the nice thing to do. 2 hr 2 min ago
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    • I'm fine with it. I don't live to count thank yous or judge their method. 1 hr 59 min ago
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      • i hate this kind of reply--you make manners sound like a bad thing. 1 hr 51 min ago
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  3. Toddler I love RHONJ -- it's such trashy TV 2 hr 6 min ago (5 replies)
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    • it's insane. can't even believe even a tiny part of it would be real. 2 hr 5 min ago
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    • God I love those twins!! 2 hr 4 min ago
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      • they are the best!!! i really wanted them to go kick amber's ass last night 2 hr 2 min ago
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        • that was hilarious 2 hr 2 min ago
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          • amber is going down!!! 2 hr 1 min ago
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  4. Toddler Anyone have that "hover ball"? feedback? 2 hr 7 min ago (0 replies)
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  5. Toddler Started individual Pilates on a reformer two weeks ago. It's just not that hard. Shouldn't it be? 2 hr 7 min ago (11 replies)
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    • it can be as hard or as easy as you make it --you probably aren't using your core correctly 2 hr 7 min ago
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      • I have an instructor. I'm not making it harder or easier at all. 2 hr 6 min ago
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        • you need to tell your instructor its not that hard. I bet your form is not correct 2 hr 5 min ago
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          • this... i have done pilates for years and it should be challenging. 2 hr 3 min ago
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    • it should be hard at times at least. some things are easier or harder depending on your strengths and weaknesses. if nothing is hard you aren't working deeply enough. it doesn't...(more) 2 hr 3 min ago
      have to look hard, but it should feel hard.
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    • The first few months seem easy because you aren't doing it right (btdt). It's a part of the process. You are using the muscles that you already developed to do the work. Once you...(more) 2 hr 3 min ago
      click into the muscles you should be using to do the work- you'll be sore and you will stand up straighter and your abs will be flatter
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    • i have been taking pilates for 7 years and it's still extremely hard for me at times. your instructor is not challenging you enough or your form is off 2 hr 2 min ago
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    • If your used to hard core working out, it feels very not hard- it felt more like doing PT to me. But it does change your body in ways that other work outs can't. But you'll...(more) 2 hr 1 min ago
      never lose weight from pilates alone.
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      • who said anything about weight loss? 2 hr ago
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        • nobody. i am just pointing out the differences. It may feel like it's not hard because you are not sweaty and out of breath the whole time. This is because it's not a weight...(more) 1 hr 59 min ago
          loss work out like spin or whatever.
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  6. Toddler Started bar method last week. I am pretty fit but I just love this workout. I think I am addicted already. Have to hold myself back from going every day which I can't. 2 hr 9 min ago (1 reply)
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    • I think pure barre is boring as hell 1 hr 50 min ago
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  7. Toddler Ok facebookers, hashtags are annoying and serve no purpose but SEVEN hashtags along with a selfie to indicate you are hitting the gym?! #overkill 2 hr 9 min ago (5 replies)
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    • Western Civilization has come to this- making up utterly trivial navel-gazing conventions and then getting worked up over them. 2 hr 7 min ago
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    • Youre a facebooker too, right? 2 hr 7 min ago
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    • the hashtag I hate the most is #feeling blessed# 2 hr 6 min ago
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    • Bringing your morsels of hate reading here is the most tired trend to come down the pike in a long time. 2 hr 5 min ago
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  8. Toddler Tell me if you would cut this person out of your life. not bff but friends. she never rsvps. and she was suppose to come to a dinner party last night at my house which she said...(more) 2 hr 9 min ago (42 replies)
    she was coming to after i called and asked (since she doesn't rsvp). she said yes. i called her during the dinner party to see where she is because she is an hr late, she says..oh, i can't make it. i had a change of plans. wwyd?
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    • So fucking rude. I would be done 2 hr 9 min ago
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      • op: she has done this so many times and not just with me but with everyone i know. i'm getting tired of it 2 hr 7 min ago
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        • Get rid of her. She doesn't value your friendship 2 hr 7 min ago
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        • Why keep inviting her? Is she a queen bee? 2 hr 7 min ago
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          • op: no, because she lives a few houses away and she seemed like a decent person. i don't think she knows what she is doing is wrong. 2 hr 5 min ago
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            • Oh come on 2 hr 5 min ago
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            • There's a reason you can't let her go. You admire her and want her to like you? 2 hr 3 min ago
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    • Cut her off 2 hr 9 min ago
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    • Yes that is beyond rude 2 hr 8 min ago
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    • I'd stop inviting her. 2 hr 8 min ago
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    • I am not sure I would "cut out", but I wouldn't make an effort 2 hr 8 min ago
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    • if i like a person, stuff like this doesn't bother me at all. but i'm probably in the minority. 2 hr 8 min ago
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      • Why would anyone like a person this rude? 2 hr 7 min ago
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        • if i like someone, there must be something there to like, i guess. so not showing up to something just doesn't effect me in any way. oh, you're canceling. ok, see you soon! 2 hr 6 min ago
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        • Because sometimes people just don't care about the same things. Np. 2 hr 5 min ago
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          • or: that's it exactly. i just don't care. 2 hr 5 min ago
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            • THen you don't care that people dont respect t your time and walk all over you. 2 hr 4 min ago
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              • oh dear. that's not my world. 2 hr 3 min ago
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                • It is your world. You choose to ignore the facts. 2 hr 2 min ago
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                  • You are making up the facts to suit your knee jerk assumption and cannot be bothered to ask a single question. 2 hr 1 min ago
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                • Yes actually it is. If you preoared a meal for someone at your home and they just didn't bother to show up, yes they do not respect your time 2 hr 1 min ago
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                  • The OR is too cool for school! Oh no problem, Taylor! 2 hr ago
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                    • She's full of shit 2 hr ago
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                      • You didn't ask her a single question. Came out guns blaring don't care to know a single thing about her. 1 hr 59 min ago
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                        • Dude we are talking about op's scenario!? What questions do you need asked??? 1 hr 58 min ago
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              • This is a fascinating extrapolation for someone you don't know. 2 hr 2 min ago
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      • Then you're a doormat. 2 hr 6 min ago
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        • no, not at all. just a whole different way of functioning in the world. doesn't make it better or worse than yours, just different. 2 hr 5 min ago
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        • Ah, the ybm catch all response. You're not a doormat if you don't feel walked over. If it doesn't bug her, it doesn't bug her! 2 hr 4 min ago
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          • doormat seems to be one thing ybms are afraid of. i can say honestly i've never felt like a doormat. 2 hr 3 min ago
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          • It may not bug her but she is still be walked over. 2 hr 3 min ago
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            • It astonished me when I see strangers here setting the rules that others live by, knowing absolutely nothing about them. You've got some nerve, sister. 2 hr ago
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              • It's a fact. Your reaction to it is the only thing that is different 2 hr ago
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    • Wow that is incredibly rude. I can't imagine 2 hr 7 min ago
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    • Oh come on, a dinner party? You don't just blow that off. I would never invite her anywhere again. 2 hr 6 min ago
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    • Yeah I'd just cut her off. She's inconsiderate and a little crazed 2 hr 6 min ago
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    • I would just stop inviting her to stuff 2 hr 6 min ago
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    • i wouldnt cut her out or anything so dramatic. i wouldnt count on her, and i wouldnt invite her much. i might just tell her to get back to me when she is free. this of course only...(more) 2 hr 4 min ago
      if you still like her and enjoy her company
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    • I would stop inviting her. Is she depressed? Has anxiety? I have a good friend who is clinically depressed and has an anxiety disorder. She truly wants to come to things but just...(more) 1 hr 58 min ago
      can't. I've seen her have an attack. It's unbelievable how stressed out she gets over going to a playground with a new person.
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  9. Toddler Oprah's WHere Are They Now: Does Ayelet Waldman still love her husband more than she loves her children?...(more) 2 hr 11 min ago (21 replies)
    • #thingsiwouldnotwatch Alex, for $1000 2 hr 10 min ago
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    • Didn't care then, don't care now. 2 hr 10 min ago
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    • I can't believe this was a thing. 2 hr 10 min ago
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    • There's nothing very original about saying inflammatory shit to get attention anymore. 2 hr 10 min ago
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    • she sounded immature and selfish then. of course we should all value our partners in a different way than we love our children. but she had to make such a spectacle 2 hr 9 min ago
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    • well does she? 2 hr 9 min ago
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    • Her answer: yes 2 hr 9 min ago
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      • that's going to be embarrassing when they get adivorce 2 hr 7 min ago
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        • It's been over 20 years 2 hr 7 min ago
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    • Not this idiot again. 2 hr 7 min ago
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    • Her adult children will love her for this. 2 hr 2 min ago
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      • They too will be asked to write essays to discuss 2 hr 1 min ago
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        • "Why I Love my Cat Better than Either of my Asshole Parents" 1 hr 51 min ago
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    • She and Ann Coulter are the same for me - media hungry, insecure, and slightly nuts 1 hr 50 min ago
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      • Can't think of two more unalike people 1 hr 44 min ago
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        • They are unalike in their personalities, writing and perspective - I get it. But they are both media hungry people who adore spotlight 1 hr 42 min ago
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          • They are both attention vampires. 1 hr 40 min ago
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          • one seeks media attention constantly, one is an author who was in the media spotlight one time. 1 hr 40 min ago
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    • I like how she came off on this update, I'd be friends with her. 1 hr 44 min ago
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      • Me, me, me, I, I, I 1 hr 26 min ago
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    • I still don't understand why being invested in your marriage = loving your husband more than your children. I have always found that totally illogical. 1 hr 29 min ago
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  10. Toddler I have a very uncoordinated son..he takes after me and I feel bad for him. It's was horrible doing sports for me growing up 2 hr 13 min ago (32 replies)
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    • my ds has low muscle tone and also related speech problems and we are workign on them. if there are specific issues that need addressing it can be helped even through sports...(more) 2 hr 12 min ago
      skills classes that build tone. but not everyone is great at sports even if their muscles are fine
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      • Np... Swimming is a good sport for low tone. 2 hr 2 min ago
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    • What can be done for this! 2 hr 12 min ago
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    • how old? this cou 2 hr 12 min ago
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      • could change with practice. happened to my D's. 2 hr 11 min ago
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    • it seems like some people can be bad at sports and still enjoy them without that painful experience thing 2 hr 12 min ago
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    • does he like sports? my sons weren't uncoordinated, but had no interest in sports. not every boy does. 2 hr 12 min ago
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    • my nephew was like that when he was younger...would trip over his own feet but went on to be a starting quarter back on the football team in hs 2 hr 10 min ago
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      • ^^and now at Naval Academy flying planes 2 hr 10 min ago
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    • Maybe you had some gross motor issues and he has same? There are physical therapists that work with dc for sport skills. Not saying dc will be in the Olympics but sports, not...(more) 2 hr 7 min ago
      Being clumsy could improve his quality of life. How old? Any other issues like handwriting, falling a lot?
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      • yes, handwriting is an issue, tying shoes, etc. Is that gross motor? 2 hr 5 min ago
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        • np: no, that is fine motor. If your DC has both fine & gross motor coordination issues he probably has dyspraxia (which is just a general motor planning disorder) 2 hr 5 min ago
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          • so he probably has both fine and gross and he's also ADHD. 1 hr 57 min ago
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            • it's possible. It's also common for kids with ADHD to have coordination issues too. 1 hr 55 min ago
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              • ^^I'm the NP below whose DC has dyspraxia. My suggestion is just find something he enjoys, regardless of what it is (swim, biking, scooter riding, playground, hiking). My DC...(more) 1 hr 51 min ago
                cannot do either team or individual sports in terms of competiting or the like but he has things he enjoys doing, even if he's not the most coordinated doing them.
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              • I would think that getting him therapy would be really helpful. The handwriting, clumsiness etc. is all very frustrating and OT, PT can help with this. These are really just...(more) 1 hr 49 min ago
                symptoms of something that can be helped. People will say it is ok to not be athletic (and that is true) but if your dc would enjoy that and just can't that is a different story.
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    • Sports aren't necessary in life anyway. 2 hr 5 min ago
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      • Exercise is. 2 hr ago
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        • You do not have to do sports to get exercise. Riding a scooter or bike is exercise, running & playing tag is exercise, climbing on playground equipment is exercise. 1 hr 58 min ago
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          • np an uncoordinated kid is going to have trouble with some of that oo 1 hr 56 min ago
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            • That is just not necessarily true. My DS is dyspraxic and can do all of that! 1 hr 56 min ago
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            • np: but you don't have to do it well to enjoy it, as you do with sports 1 hr 55 min ago
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              • tell that to the kid who can't ride a bike and no one will play tag with 1 hr 55 min ago
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                • I posted above my DC has a coordination issue along with low tone. There are specialists who teach bike riding to kids like this, and anyone can play tag - it doesn't require...(more) 1 hr 53 min ago
                  intense coordination.
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                  • sigh. it requires other kids to play with. 1 hr 53 min ago
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                    • Sigh. Do you even live with a kid like this? I do, and I suspect you do not. Please stop just spewing out statements as though they are truths. You think uncoordinated kids have...(more) 1 hr 50 min ago
                      no friends? Have no one to play tag with? Gasp***....they do.
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                      • um yeah. I have. he's 20 now and I spent many afternoons at the park watching him *try* to join in. 1 hr 47 min ago
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                        • um, things have changed since your DC was a kid in terms of options for help, therapy too. 1 hr 31 min ago
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      • np yes and no. I have a very non-sporty son but it was and is important for him to be able to move. so he learned to swim, ski, hike.. it didn't help in middle school but at least...(more) 1 hr 59 min ago
        he's active.
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        • how did that not help in middle school 1 hr 57 min ago
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          • b/c only baseball and hockey mattered. 1 hr 57 min ago
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        • right. But as I said above. Sports aren't necessary to be active. There's many ways to be active that aren't defined sports. Just walking is being active. 1 hr 56 min ago
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  11. Toddler I have a friend whose kids are dressed so well...all the down to their bathing suits. I've kind of been inspired to dress my kids better. And myself 2 hr 13 min ago (23 replies)
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    • i let my kids pick out their suits. why would i care what bathing suits they have 2 hr 13 min ago
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      • Op: I went shopping with them before and here's what happens: she picks out a few suits and dd chooses what she wants. It's more like my friend has an "eye" for fashion. She...(more) 2 hr 9 min ago
        will clothes for them from lands end but you'd this it was some expensive outfit
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        • but i don't make my kids' outfits for them unless we have to go to a nice dinner or a party or whatever. I am fine with my kids selecting what they wear. I think it's a form of...(more) 2 hr 8 min ago
          control I don't need. I can dress myself. I don't need to have any glory reflected in my kids' outfits
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    • This post has been disliked 3 times. showI used to be like that. Now I am regualr and when I see kids dressed terrible even tho I know they come from nice familes I do think it takes them "down" a notch 2 hr 12 min ago
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      • you think this is "regular"? 2 hr 11 min ago
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      • That is pitiful 2 hr 11 min ago
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      • What does dressing "terrible" look like? 2 hr 10 min ago
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      • so you would judge my D's for wearing basketball shorts and T-shirt? 2 hr 8 min ago
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        • np my kids wear that all summer. it's called being ready to play. who cares what they wear? 2 hr 6 min ago
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      • I'd be just fine being taken down a notch by someone the likes of you. No big loss. 2 hr 1 min ago
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    • i buy my DD the nicest clothes and yet she looks like punky brewster -- i used to care and now i don't 2 hr 12 min ago
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    • Can you give examples 2 hr 11 min ago
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    • i don't relate - i don't care what anyone but me wears. 2 hr 11 min ago
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      • This post has been disliked 3 times. showThat's socially retarded. 2 hr 9 min ago
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        • i think it's the opposite. i think it's socially enlightened, it's far more open-minded than the ybm way. judge a book by its cover? no thanks. 2 hr 9 min ago
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          • ITa. It's called being mature. I find it laughable adults truly dwell on things like this. 2 hr 1 min ago
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      • So your kids look a mess? 2 hr 5 min ago
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        • np: there is a difference between looking like a mess and being dressed all coordinated & well down to bathing suits. WTF is THAT? 2 hr ago
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    • God I so can't be bothered with this. 2 hr 7 min ago
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      • It's as easy to dress your kids nicely as it is for them to look like shit. 2 hr 3 min ago
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        • np: Jesus Christ, are you this obsessed with appearance? As long as your child looks neat, who really cares about this??? I guess you want to present the perfect looking family on...(more) 2 hr 2 min ago
          the outside because the inside apparently is lacking.
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      • I can, but I love clothes. 2 hr 1 min ago
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    • Sorry but LOL. This is the shallowest thing I have ever heard. 2 hr 3 min ago
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  12. Toddler Speaking of working out, I so wish they would bring back step aerobics. Not old lady slow step classes…..real ones taught by dancers/choreographers that were fast and hard. Used...(more) 2 hr 14 min ago (9 replies)
    to be my favorite thing in my 20s.
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    • I know! I loved step! 2 hr 14 min ago
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    • i thought the steps were hard on the knees 2 hr 13 min ago
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      • good point. i wonder if at 39 i could take it. when i took it regularly i was much much younger! 2 hr 13 min ago
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    • "Classic Step" - start your marketing plan. It could be THE thing. 2 hr 13 min ago
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    • ditto - -get the gin miller reebok videos 2 hr 10 min ago
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      • omg….used to do that in college! 2 hr 8 min ago
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        • thye have them on dvd now at collage video 2 hr 8 min ago
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    • my gym just changed from a step class to a Blast/step class. it's really hard and a great workout! 2 hr 8 min ago
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    • My lifetime still has them! 2 hr 7 min ago
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  13. Toddler Thoughts on ORange is the New Black...Haven't started but need a new series 2 hr 14 min ago (9 replies)
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    • Worth it. 2 hr 13 min ago
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    • There's a reason why it only has 2 stars on Netflix. It isn't very good. 2 hr 13 min ago
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      • Bull 2 hr 12 min ago
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        • oh come on. the characters are wooden stereotypes, taylor schilling can't act her way out of a paper bag, there are plot holes big enough to drive a van through (pun firmly...(more) 2 hr 11 min ago
          intended). etc. etc. etc.
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          • you're criticizing tv. no one criticizes tv on ybm. all tv shows are the BEST ever 2 hr 6 min ago
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          • what plot holes? 2 hr 6 min ago
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      • My netflix shows 4.5 stars 1 hr 59 min ago
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    • I like it 2 hr 12 min ago
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    • I loved it, a real hoot. 2 hr 7 min ago
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  14. Toddler Best coffee solution for at home - needs to be affordable but great coffee 2 hr 15 min ago (12 replies)
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    • Toddy cold brew system 2 hr 15 min ago
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      • np. but can you make good HOT coffee with that? 2 hr 14 min ago
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        • Yes -- add water and heat up. 2 hr 14 min ago
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          • and it doesn't taste like reheated iced coffee? because I love cold brew iced coffee- but I hate reheated coffee. 2 hr 13 min ago
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            • well, reheated cold brew is different than reheated hot brewed, because it starts out less bitter 2 hr 12 min ago
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              • hmmm. I might try it. 2 hr 11 min ago
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        • you need to reheat it in the microwave 2 hr 13 min ago
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    • the nespresso milk frother. Around 100.00 but will make any shitty coffee taste great 2 hr 14 min ago
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    • i use a melitta cone for a perfect cup every time. 2 hr 13 min ago
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    • Aeropress. Fantastic. 2 hr 12 min ago
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    • Live-in barista boy toy 2 hr 12 min ago
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    • Buy a Melita filter cone for $3-$5. Put it on top of a cup. Add two scoops of Cafe Bustelo (available in supermarkets and Costco). Pour boiling water on top. 2 hr 12 min ago
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  15. Toddler At what point do you not want your child to receive "pity" invites from other parents? That can be worse at a certain age 2 hr 15 min ago (13 replies)
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    • i never did. 2 hr 15 min ago
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    • How does the kid know it's a pity invite? 2 hr 15 min ago
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      • WHen everyone there is friends except for you 2 hr 14 min ago
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        • np: most of the time, my kids didn't want to go to the party where everyone was invited, if they weren't actually friendly with the kid 2 hr 12 min ago
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    • What's a pity invite? 2 hr 14 min ago
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    • After Kindergarten. I think the whole birthday party rule book should be thrown out the window. Some of you ladies cling to it like the holy bible. 2 hr 14 min ago
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      • even before K, like forever. i just don't see why not being invited to a party is a big deal. you can't be invited to everything; you can't invite everyone to everything. 2 hr 14 min ago
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        • at the age of 5, if whole class is invited you should be invited too. once the parties get smaller then of course that rule is not going to apply 2 hr 11 min ago
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    • i don't think it's ok to exclude a very small number if everyone else is invited. for small gatherings it should just be the kids who make sense 2 hr 14 min ago
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    • never. I don't ever want my kid to get a pity invite 2 hr 14 min ago
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    • i dont want a pity invite as long as you make sure my kid doesnt know he wasnt invited. but he often finds out where we live, which ticks me off. there is no attempt to be subtle...(more) 2 hr 13 min ago
      at all. different culture, but i hate it
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    • What is this? 2 hr 11 min ago
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  16. Toddler What should the subject line be on email to contacts that today is my last day of work? 2 hr 17 min ago (10 replies)
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    • LAST DAY OF WORK FOODFIGHT! 2 hr 16 min ago
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    • "Message from sue" 2 hr 16 min ago
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      • with last name? and do I need to copy my boss? I don't really want to. 2 hr 13 min ago
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    • Sayonara, suckers 2 hr 16 min ago
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    • "Sue is moving on." 2 hr 15 min ago
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    • Take This Job & Shove It 2 hr 15 min ago
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    • good bye 2 hr 15 min ago
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    • Goodbye to All That 2 hr 14 min ago
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    • Adios, fuckers 2 hr 8 min ago
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    • Contact information, etc. 1 hr 58 min ago
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  17. Toddler Bunco night was off the hook last night. My cereal this morning tasted like vagina. 2 hr 18 min ago (1 reply)
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  18. Toddler Last night you guys said my boytoy wasn't hot so I ended things with him 2 hr 20 min ago (15 replies)
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    • You have too much money. You'd feel better if you gave it all to me. 2 hr 19 min ago
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      • the main reason I had a boytoy was for people to be jealous of me sleeping with a hot young guy. His personality was average, if I'm going to date an average looking guy I'll date...(more) 2 hr 17 min ago
        someone my age. I thought he was hot but as shallow as it sounds, other people thinking he is hot was more important and they most of you said he wasn't. I texted him late last night and now it's over
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        • yeah, you can do so much better. he was barely average 2 hr 17 min ago
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        • did you tell him that it was because he wasn't hot enough? 2 hr 10 min ago
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          • no. i just said we needed to see other people 2 hr 9 min ago
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    • good for you 2 hr 19 min ago
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    • is this for real? you thought your boyfriend was hot, anonymous people on the internet told you he wasn't so you dump him? Most of those people were trolling you, you stupid woman 2 hr 15 min ago
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      • no they werent- they were honest. He was not hot 2 hr 13 min ago
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        • he was better than average. Unless people think the average guy is what they see in a magazine 2 hr 11 min ago
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          • better than average is not hot. at least not imo. 2 hr 10 min ago
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            • he was a 6 or a 7 out of 10, and he's 23. and op is nearly 40. She was lucky to be banging him 2 hr 8 min ago
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              • not for me he wasn't. BUt we all like different things. If op likes it and thinks he's hot- then fine. But really for me- with that body- he better have a perfect face. 2 hr 7 min ago
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          • there is no definition on his body anywhere. for me you need some sort of definition to be considered hot 2 hr 8 min ago
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    • Picture! 2 hr 13 min ago
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  19. Toddler Holy moly, blueberries are cheap and delicious right now. 2 hr 20 min ago (3 replies)
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    • i wish i liked them. just don't. not even a little. 2 hr 17 min ago
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    • ita 2 hr 7 min ago
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    • 3 pints for $5 at my supermarket right now 2 hr 3 min ago
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  20. Toddler How do you tell whether it's that your marriage has lost its spark, or whether it never really had it at all? 2 hr 21 min ago (3 replies)
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    • If it's different than it was, something's changed 2 hr 18 min ago
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    • You can't figure that out lol? 2 hr 17 min ago
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    • LOL i think you'd know 2 hr 16 min ago
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  21. Toddler Dh's grandma's body shutting down. So sad. She is 100 yrs old though. Healthy up until a day or two ago 2 hr 23 min ago (36 replies)
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    • it is not sad. humans have a life span. she has maxed out and you are all lucky beyond belief. the loss is always sad and sorry for that but please celebrate her incredible...(more) 2 hr 20 min ago
      life and your family's great luck.
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      • of course. Still sad though as she is this cute Italian woman that was just the sweetest thing. Hard worker all her life....that is the key my friends and always stayed active...(more) 2 hr 19 min ago
        w/friends and groups. She was widowed at a very young age too
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      • I cannot believe the utter nerve that some people have in beating people ove the head with this trope. The op is sad. It is sad because she is sad. 2 hr 18 min ago
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        • ita. corollary is any complaint you have these days is a response that someone has it worse. 2 hr 16 min ago
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        • right? of course death is sad. It is sad to know that you will never see someones smile again, hear their voice... who are these people who say "death isn't sad" 2 hr 15 min ago
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          • Unfortunately I believe this is the "op is always wrong" theory of ybm. 2 hr 14 min ago
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        • I disagree. This woman and her family had a huge gift. It's sad but the opposite of tragic. 2 hr 14 min ago
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          • All the op suggested is that SHE IS SAD. And she gets a lecture about how lucky she is. Utter bullshit. You can be right, and still an asshole. Why be an asshole? 2 hr 13 min ago
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            • I'm not OR, I'm agreeing with her. And frankly, it's not easy for those of us who had no grandparents and whose parents died young to hear. 2 hr 11 min ago
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              • wow. So everything is about YOU isn't it? What a way to go thru life 2 hr 8 min ago
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              • You're bummed because she got more out of her grandma than you did? And think that you should express this here? 2 hr 8 min ago
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              • OP: my grandparents died young and my dad did too so save your tears. I had an awful amount of death growing up 2 hr 5 min ago
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                • ^^this wasn't my grandmother! 2 hr 5 min ago
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              • you're right- its not easy to hear. I feel sadness for anyone who loses a family member. At any age. Even people I don't know- I feel sadness for them that they are going...(more) 2 hr 2 min ago
                through the loss of a loved one. As someone who has experienced that loss- maybe you could scrounge up a bit of empathy instead of this jealousy you seem to have/
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      • of course it's sad. it's always sad to lose a beloved family member; it doesn't matter how old a person was. it's sad. 2 hr 9 min ago
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    • Awwww:(. So amazing that she made it this far 2 hr 20 min ago
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    • my God she had th elongest life and perfect way to exit. I have seen so much suffering and much earlier. she is so so so lucky. 2 hr 19 min ago
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      • that is true. If this is the end she will be lucky to slip out of this world so easily at that age 2 hr 18 min ago
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      • np she can be lucky AND the OP can be sad! 2 hr 2 min ago
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    • That's not sad 2 hr 18 min ago
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      • The OP is sad. 2 hr 17 min ago
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      • death is sad at any age. It is a final good bye 2 hr 17 min ago
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        • ^^I mean who the hell are you people? 2 hr 17 min ago
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          • evil ones 2 hr 17 min ago
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            • ^^and won't be living to 70 let alone 100 2 hr 16 min ago
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      • Yes, death is happy! 2 hr 17 min ago
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    • Ahhhh but what a life! 2 hr 15 min ago
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      • she used to do commercials for a national brand of spaghetti sauce....lol. this was in the 90s 2 hr 14 min ago
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        • ^^they found her in an Italian club 2 hr 14 min ago
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          • ^^and she would have never, ever in her life have used a jared sauce/gravy 2 hr 14 min ago
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    • wow, what has been her secret to great health? 2 hr 10 min ago
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      • friends, family, stayed active, did tons and tons of word puzzles her whole life, I don't think she ever drank or smoked. Just was always very sweet and kind-hearted 2 hr 9 min ago
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      • LUCK. jesus. luck of genes, luck of life. people, there are no secrets. many wonderful people who did everything right health and spirit wise die young, many nasty fucks die...(more) 43 min ago
        super old. it is LUCK.
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  22. Toddler 8 yr old is usually not the type to wake up w/? upon ? but this am he did...."Mom do you think a scientist could teleport someone into a picture?" "Will robots bring kids to...(more) 2 hr 25 min ago (4 replies)
    school in 40 years?".....WTF were you watching ds? They syfy channel?
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    • DS is 7 and thinks about minecraft A LOT. What to build, how to build it....he wakes up taking about this stuff. 2 hr 24 min ago
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      • yeah not into minecraft anymore. 2 hr 24 min ago
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        • my point is boys aroudn that age can be like that about things that interest them. 2 hr 20 min ago
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    • The bizarro questions is one of my favorite things about that age. 2 hr 6 min ago
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  23. Toddler Turning 40 this year. I am going to be in the best shape ever for my 40th year of life! I have 9 months to lose 30 lbs and get strong again. I'm excited! 2 hr 25 min ago (5 replies)
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    • i got into shape at 41 -- it can happen! GL 2 hr 21 min ago
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    • hey, I am doing this same thing!! 2 hr 16 min ago
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    • bar method 2 hr 16 min ago
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      • i like those classes, don't love. 2 hr 15 min ago
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        • or - but they truly transfrom the body 2 hr 13 min ago
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  24. Toddler 6yo has a stomach bug. lo fever, threw up once. he is now moaning on the couch in pain though. he feels crappy of course and i feel badly about that but to put it into...(more) 2 hr 25 min ago (7 replies)
    perspective, he is a complainer. so im not sure if he is in tons of pain hence the moaning, or just complaining a lot. how to tell and what to do for some relief? tia
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    • nothing you can do- you don't want to give meds, because they'll make him puke again likely. offer him a cool towel, some ice chips to suck on... 2 hr 24 min ago
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      • op- thanks we are doing the ice. i just dont know how to gauge it. i mean, moaning from pain sounds really bad but he complains a lot so im just not sure if this is drama or...(more) 2 hr 23 min ago
        really bad pains, kwim?
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        • I do. Its tough, but the good news is- theres nothing you can do even if it is real pain, so you don't have to feel bad if you're wrong on that one. Just comfort him. Hope he...(more) 2 hr 22 min ago
          feels better soon!
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          • op- i just worry that its his appendix or something and im sitting here saying its just a bug, youre fine, and then all of a sudden im in the ER 2 hr 21 min ago
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            • its far more likely that it is a bug. BUt if it continues, gets worse... press on his belly- if it hurts when you release (but not when you push) thats a sign of appendix. And...(more) 2 hr 19 min ago
              ime appendix pain is can not move pain... have him jump. I think thats a test- if he can jump- its not appendix.
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              • They do the jump test in the ER 2 hr 4 min ago
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        • my dd is the same and she and the stomach virus last week. she threw up once but moaned a lot too. I wasn't sure either. It took about 4 days for her to feel better. 2 hr 21 min ago
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  25. Toddler I have been sleeping 3-4 hours a night for weeks. will i just collapse at some point, or an i keep on like this? 2 hr 26 min ago (0 replies)
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