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  1. Toddler How would I know if I have OCD or ADD? 8 hr 41 min ago (0 replies)
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  2. Toddler If my ds is a 10 slim in Gap pants/jeans, what size is he in Crewcuts? 8 hr 42 min ago (2 replies)
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    • 10 8 hr 41 min ago
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      • bought him a pair of 10 and they are HUGE! 8 hr 38 min ago
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  3. Toddler I have four dc. I am so wanting a fifth. 8 hr 42 min ago (42 replies)
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    • that's just nuts. why? what is missing in your life? 8 hr 42 min ago
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      • it's not nuts. it's just not your thing. nothing has to be missing. np 8 hr 41 min ago
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        • this' 8 hr 41 min ago
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        • just think of all the back to school forms 8 hr 39 min ago
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      • They're so sweet. A fifth would really add to the dynamic. Odd number 8 hr 41 min ago
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        • a middle child 8 hr 40 min ago
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    • go for it, it's fun 8 hr 42 min ago
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    • i have 4, and always wanted another. but i suspect i would've wanted another had we had 5, or 6 or or or. 8 hr 41 min ago
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    • Wow. I cant decide if i want a second. 8 hr 41 min ago
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    • I don't get it. You must not get much (if any) one on one time with any of them as it is. 8 hr 41 min ago
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      • just not an issue, imo and ime. i also have 4. they're not all 1 yr apart. we've had plenty of time with each of them. 8 hr 40 min ago
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        • I'm an introvert so that probably skews my view on this. I have 2 and the alone time we get daily is my favorite. 8 hr 39 min ago
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          • i'm a total introvert myself. 8 hr 39 min ago
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            • Really? I love my kids, but I feel like 5 would be draining in terms it no down time to recharge 8 hr 37 min ago
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              • we're all different. 8 hr 36 min ago
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                • exactly. OP asked. she'll get different answer. 8 hr 36 min ago
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      • I'm one of 5. I don't remember any one on one time with a parent. of coirsew, parents prioritize differently now 8 hr 39 min ago
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        • alone time, family time, quality time. it's newspeak. 8 hr 37 min ago
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          • no 8 hr 37 min ago
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          • What? We read to each kid one on one at bedtime every night. I love that time together. That's what I meant, things like that are harder with 4 or 5. 8 hr 36 min ago
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            • The older ones don't want you reading stories to them at night, plus they go to bed later than little ones so you can do other things with them. Not a problem (I have 4). Plus...(more) 7 hr 53 min ago
              they love to be together - not hard to entertain them, no endless playdate scrambles, no constant worries about screen time.
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    • Do you have money? Help? 8 hr 41 min ago
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      • Yes. No 8 hr 40 min ago
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        • You're with them all day? Are you like one if those Christian bloggers? 8 hr 40 min ago
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          • No. I sAHM 8 hr 40 min ago
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            • Yeah and so you take photos and post them on Pinterest? 8 hr 39 min ago
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    • ?? is this a gender thing, a Duggar thing, a baby obsession thing? 8 hr 41 min ago
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      • I have 3 dds and one ds, so no 8 hr 40 min ago
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      • NP. imho, in some cases, by no means all, it's an unwillingness to acknowledge that your reproductive life phase is ending. makes you feel older with older kids 8 hr 39 min ago
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        • I totally agree with this and I have 4 as well. Would love one more before the expiration date. 8 hr 35 min ago
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          • i'm the NP you responded to. I only have 2 and now that my little one is 3, i feel pangs that i don't have a baby in the house anymore. But I think i'd get that pang with the...(more) 8 hr 33 min ago
            5th if i had 5. one day all the babies grow up.
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            • Totally true. 8 hr 32 min ago
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    • At that point, isn't it a bit like deciding if you want another cat or not? Is there really much difference? 8 hr 40 min ago
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      • yes there is 8 hr 40 min ago
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      • Huh? 8 hr 40 min ago
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      • np: that's disgusting and you obviously totally don't get it. 7 hr 55 min ago
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    • You know you are going to get flamed to hell here......(more) 8 hr 39 min ago
      But I have four too and think about it :) my youngest is only 17 mo so not quite there yet. How old are your kids?
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      • 9, 7, 4, 1 8 hr 37 min ago
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        • Cool! Mine too :) I say go for it. 8 hr 36 min ago
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    • I have 6 kids. I frequently dream of the days when I had just my oldest for 2 years... it was so long ago.... dreams of the quiet. My house is never quiet now. 8 hr 38 min ago
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      • You like it now? 8 hr 37 min ago
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        • haha, love my kids. love my husband. 2 or 3, depending on the momentt in time, are the devil. one tells me often she would choose dh over me until forever, and ever and I...(more) 8 hr 29 min ago
          shouldn't feel bad because I have her brothers to keep me safe (her words)
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  4. Toddler Are my ebay sale's earnings taxable? oh shit! 8 hr 43 min ago (1 reply)
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    • Only people who buy from your state. How much do you make? I'm disgusted with ebay lately. 8 hr 38 min ago
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  5. Toddler There's this terribly hungry cat up the block. so now both kids have cat food in zip locks so they can give the cat food tomorrow after school. then they have to run away because...(more) 8 hr 43 min ago (5 replies)
    I don't want it coming home after them.
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    • Just put a bowl of food out, but not near your house. 8 hr 42 min ago
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    • you could help them build it a shelter. kids like that. use small cardboard box completely line with heavy-duty black garbage bag, fill with hay. 8 hr 41 min ago
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      • or: but where will they put the shelter? 8 hr 38 min ago
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    • my stray cats (that I had fixed and tubes tied after one of them gave birth to the other ones) come and sit outside my french doors staring in, little pauper faces 8 hr 39 min ago
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      • ^ lol tubes tied, I meant ears notched, omg 8 hr 38 min ago
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  6. Toddler OMG SOA! What an episode. 8 hr 43 min ago (0 replies)
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  7. Toddler The players gonna play play play play play and the haters gonna hate hate hate hate hate and imma gonna shake shake shake shake...(more) 8 hr 43 min ago (0 replies)
    Shake it off! Shake it off!
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  8. Toddler So I am the one who's dh just can't seem to get it together. Used to have a job making 24k a year now making 42k ish a year. Getting his masters in IT in the hopes of getting into...(more) 8 hr 44 min ago (46 replies)
    A solid career. Anyway right now his job is just a "taxi" in the sense it is just a job until he finishes school. It is pretty dead end. Tonight dh was crying- his manager gave notice and now dh will have to deal directly with the owner who is a so called jerk. So ruining the "easy " work enviroment. Their department was the fun department. I really had a hard time feeling sympathy for dh. I told him to completely disengage, if the owner yells, water off a duck. Dh should either go find another job or start raising to the occasion and make something of himself so he is not stuck in crap job after crap job. Dh said he feels his "safe little island" is gone. My response- so what, the plan was to stay there less than a year anyway. Sorry for long post/ just mad at how dh can't see big picture and is crying over a dead end crap job
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    • empathy is helpful in this kind of situation 8 hr 43 min ago
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      • I was just venting hereI 8 hr 42 min ago
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    • Why the fuck would he get a masters in IT? 8 hr 42 min ago
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      • Good fucking question!! One I have been asking since last August when he started!! Don't know why he couldn't just get some certifications. Well I do know why/ his father is...(more) 8 hr 41 min ago
        paying/- in fact insisted dh get a masters or else no inheirtance
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        • My dh is in IT and makes 150k with a bachelors. It makes zero sense to get a masters in IT. 8 hr 39 min ago
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          • I agree!! But fil insisted !! Told dh no masters no money. Pathetic!! To be fair dh hasn't worked in IT for years so needed some retraining but it's going on too long 8 hr 37 min ago
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          • np: except see above. His dad is paying and said he has to or no inheritance. 8 hr 37 min ago
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            • Op-- fil is 84, thinks a masters is a golden ticket and is a control freak 8 hr 35 min ago
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    • id be pissed too. He need to grow the fuck up and quit being such a fucking baby. 8 hr 42 min ago
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      • Op- this!! He is a college educated man, has work experience and is crying because his dead end job is changing. I am glad- if that manager stayed dh might have stayed in job for...(more) 8 hr 39 min ago
        years
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        • I know women who have creed because their yoga teacher left. You get attached to people and places, nothing to do with money. Let him vent. He'll move on. 8 hr 8 min ago
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    • run your own life 8 hr 41 min ago
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      • I do but I am married to him 8 hr 39 min ago
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        • but he's who he is, and you're who you are.np 8 hr 38 min ago
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          • I really should just leave him. He is kind of a loser who probably won't ever get it together 8 hr 36 min ago
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            • you obviously do not respect him. Trust and respect are absolute requirements for healthy marriage. You need to leave him. 8 hr 35 min ago
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              • I am having a hard time respecting him tonight. He was seriously crying at dinner. I told him that he was way too attached to dead end job, 8 hr 34 min ago
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                • does he have depression going on? He needs to see someone. 8 hr 33 min ago
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                  • He is a little emotional unbalanced - gets angry often 8 hr 29 min ago
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                    • meds would help 8 hr 27 min ago
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            • How much money do you make? Since you consider him a loser you must be a "winner", I guess. 8 hr 7 min ago
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        • you infantalize him 8 hr 37 min ago
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          • How? I told him I don't feel bad - he is not an indentured servant. Go find another job 8 hr 35 min ago
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    • A bad work environment can really make your life hell. And if he's also in school and helping to raise kids, that's a lot on your plate WITHOUT a hell job 8 hr 33 min ago
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      • Op/ ita. He works 8 hours a day, clock in, clock out. I told him to disengage, that job is not his life. Work on getting out of there. 8 hr 30 min ago
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        • working full time, going to school and raising kids is a lot. I would bet he's exhausted. Add a negative change like this and it's not surprising. 8 hr 28 min ago
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          • We don't have dc and the school is online 8 hr 27 min ago
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            • then what are you bitching for? the damn guy is going to inherit anyway. 8 hr 26 min ago
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              • Not counting on it. 8 hr 23 min ago
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                • Well don't count on being around for it anyway. 8 hr 22 min ago
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            • are you kidding me? I want to punch this guy in the face! What a spoiled brat! 8 hr 26 min ago
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              • i think op is being a bitch 8 hr 25 min ago
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                • i think this childless baby taking online classes is a spoiled brat. Maybe the weed is making him depressed. He needs to grow the fuck up. 8 hr 23 min ago
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                  • He has a job. He's getting a masters. He's allowed to be upset sometimes, as are you. 8 hr 22 min ago
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                    • i would be disgusted at this behavior. What a drama queen. It's his last island of safety ? Lololol 8 hr 21 min ago
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                      • Not last- one island until he finds another. He got too caught up in the feel good nature of joking around with co workers-- it's a job!! 8 hr 18 min ago
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                      • Well he clearly gets no warmth at home. You don't have anyone to support - why does it matter so much to you? And you clearly knew he wasn't on his way to Wall Street when you...(more) 8 hr 5 min ago
                        married him.
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                  • Op- this!! 8 hr 20 min ago
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          • omg, single moms do all that all the time without a wife to help. He needs to grow a fucking spine. 8 hr 27 min ago
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            • and single moms don't get upset or frustrated or exhausted? since when? 8 hr 25 min ago
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            • Lol. We don't have any dc! And his school is online . Fwiw he has time to go to gym a lot and smoke pot 8 hr 25 min ago
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              • I'm sorry, so you don't have kids, he's getting another degree, he's set to inherit, but you're pissed off at him because he's not together enough for you? 8 hr 23 min ago
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                • Not counting on the inheirtance, his degree seems meaningless and yes- I am complaining about him crying over a crap job!! Let him go walk dogs, elder care, anything to make some...(more) 8 hr 21 min ago
                  money while he is in school
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                  • How much do you make that you are complaining about him? 8 hr 4 min ago
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                    • About 120k- changes year to year 7 hr 57 min ago
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  9. Toddler How perfect is this photo:...(more) 8 hr 44 min ago (32 replies)
    • Not really. Kinda stupid. 8 hr 43 min ago
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    • that's an ugly back 8 hr 43 min ago
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    • Does nothing for me, but whatev 8 hr 43 min ago
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    • I don't get it 8 hr 42 min ago
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    • She probably got $100,000 for that. Thanks to having 7 million followers 8 hr 42 min ago
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    • Really? 8 hr 42 min ago
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    • Well, now i know i am not even a little bit bi. 8 hr 42 min ago
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      • op, i am attracted to some women like Cara but I am not bi or lesbian. 8 hr 41 min ago
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        • I know, i am not judging, she is beautiful but this photo was vaguely repulsive to me. 8 hr 39 min ago
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    • Pearls would look nice, but that ugly bead thing and that uglier tattoo... 8 hr 42 min ago
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    • Linebacker on hormones? 8 hr 41 min ago
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    • is she a model? 8 hr 40 min ago
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      • Cara Delevingne. For a while she hooked up with Selena when Selena was rebounding from Bieber. She is lesbian. She is a model and has now also got a role in a movie and is working...(more) 8 hr 40 min ago
        on an album.
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        • a real renaissance woman! 8 hr 39 min ago
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    • perfect? it's very amateur. 8 hr 40 min ago
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      • np, these celebrities are paid a lot of money for these social media ads. And looking amateur is actually an advantage because it makes it seem more natural which makes it a more...(more) 8 hr 37 min ago
        effective ad
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        • I don't know who she is, but this picture is nothing special. I'm only responding to OP's post about how perfect the photo is. 8 hr 36 min ago
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          • she is a model and lesbian with 7 million followers on instagram 8 hr 35 min ago
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            • that's nice. the picture is not special or perfect. 8 hr 34 min ago
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              • the picture itself might not be perfect but she is\ 8 hr 31 min ago
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    • i used to have a bead kit too! 8 hr 40 min ago
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    • what's perfect about it? Do not find her attractive. Boring. 8 hr 38 min ago
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  10. Toddler Doesn't Eric Schneiderman remind you of Spitzer when he was running. 8 hr 44 min ago (1 reply)
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  11. Toddler My normally lovely dh has this stressful work thing on saturday and he is currently FREAKING out. his new phone won't update, he's stomping around, he's trying on his clothes for...(more) 8 hr 46 min ago (5 replies)
    this even. He's totally unhinged. it's only Tuesday! that's 4 days of this?
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    • what is it? 8 hr 45 min ago
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      • this conference he chaired. it's a big deal. it's going to be great. but he's freaking out. 8 hr 44 min ago
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    • Lordy. Godspeed. 8 hr 43 min ago
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      • op: I KNOW! I don't even know what to say to make him feel better. his phone is fucked but he'll work it out. he can use it but his work email didn't make it over. 8 hr 41 min ago
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        • Well at least it gives him something to focus his Freakout on... 8 hr 30 min ago
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  12. Toddler I give dh a bj whenever he wants. That's my thing. And he gives me a massage whenever I want. That's his thing. 8 hr 46 min ago (12 replies)
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    • assuming neither of you ask 3 x a day that's great 8 hr 44 min ago
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      • we have a limit of 1 per day max. And we both usually end up asking about 5 times a week 8 hr 41 min ago
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    • you, short straw 8 hr 44 min ago
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      • i like giving bjs, and i LOVE getting massages. So it's a perfectly acceptable trade imo 8 hr 43 min ago
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    • I hate bjs 8 hr 43 min ago
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    • whatever works for you. 8 hr 42 min ago
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    • dh- i kind of like that it isn't that often but not infrequent so it still leaves some excitement. 8 hr 41 min ago
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    • my dh is indifferent to BJs but loves fucking, cunnilingus, and massages. it's great 8 hr 37 min ago
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      • he must have a small penis, i'm sorry 8 hr 36 min ago
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        • so silly. this doesn't even make sense. don't be jealous 8 hr 35 min ago
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          • a man that likes to give oral and not recieve is probably overcompensating and insecure about his size so he doesn't want you having a close up look at it 8 hr 30 min ago
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            • np you have a really poorly informed way of looking at sex. 8 hr 18 min ago
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  13. Toddler I love that all the sex scenes in How To Get Away With Murder are between gay men. 8 hr 46 min ago (1 reply)
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    • It doesn't do it for me. I'm not homophobic in the slightest but I don't really care to see man on man. It's just meh to me. 8 hr 44 min ago
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  14. Toddler I am fairly psychic - please, ask me something :) 8 hr 47 min ago (54 replies)
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    • See anything about my love life? 8 hr 46 min ago
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      • I see the color white and someone who is interested in you - a pure type of love. Are you dating someone? there is interest there. 8 hr 46 min ago
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        • blah blah blah, answer the ones that have a right/wrong answer 8 hr 45 min ago
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        • Color white? No one in particular. 8 hr 44 min ago
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          • white is pure - this is a friendship frist 8 hr 41 min ago
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    • am I a man or a woman? 8 hr 46 min ago
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    • where should I live? 8 hr 46 min ago
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      • I feel you in the northeast - more like new england. Smaller town. 8 hr 45 min ago
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        • That's where I am now, sort of. 8 hr 44 min ago
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          • Never mind! 8 hr 44 min ago
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          • that wasn't me- no I'm in Asia and I hate new england! 8 hr 35 min ago
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    • Am I going to get a better job next year, (and thanks!) 8 hr 46 min ago
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      • yes, you are determined and I feel that there are doors opening up for you. Start looking and doors will open 8 hr 44 min ago
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    • what does he think of me? 8 hr 46 min ago
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      • he cares about you but you need to open up more...there are some insecurities there on both ends 8 hr 44 min ago
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    • Will dh and I ever have sex again? 8 hr 46 min ago
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      • My gut says that you need to get to therapy and really talk and figure a lot of stuff out. How do you feel about it? 8 hr 43 min ago
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        • Already in therapy. Have been for a while. You don't seem particularly intuitive. 8 hr 41 min ago
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          • I see you not having sex again and moving on to a better relationship 8 hr 40 min ago
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            • We had sex last night, after a long dry spell. 8 hr 39 min ago
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              • how did it go? 8 hr 39 min ago
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    • Where is my necklace? In the house or did I lose it elsewhere? I'm wrecked! 8 hr 46 min ago
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      • it is lost - I don't feel that it is in your house 8 hr 42 min ago
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        • :( -- where did I lose it? 8 hr 41 min ago
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          • the restaurant 8 hr 40 min ago
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            • Grocery store maybe? I wasn't in a restaurant 8 hr 38 min ago
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              • ^^^^^ Any clue??? 8 hr 33 min ago
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    • what state am I in? 8 hr 46 min ago
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    • Is it time to cash out or will our house value continue to rise? 8 hr 44 min ago
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      • your home value will stay the same or increase but not in the near future - you need to decide what you really want and need in a home - where you want to be, don't focus so much...(more) 8 hr 41 min ago
        on the money
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        • Nice try. Brooklyn. 8 hr 40 min ago
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    • will i lose my dignity? 8 hr 44 min ago
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    • When will i get pg? 8 hr 44 min ago
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    • will someone care? 8 hr 43 min ago
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    • what is the deal with me emotionally/mental and identity wise? How will my love life go? 8 hr 43 min ago
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    • Will I make up with an old friend who was like a sister ? 8 hr 43 min ago
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    • will i wake tomorrow from this nightmare? 8 hr 42 min ago
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      • job? 8 hr 39 min ago
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        • song lyric. just singing in my head, thought i'd write it down 8 hr 37 min ago
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    • "barely" psychic 8 hr 41 min ago
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    • what do you see in the future for us re: babies? 8 hr 40 min ago
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    • When will we move? Will the house sell quickly? Make or lose money? 8 hr 40 min ago
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    • Will DH get the job he interviewed for last week? 8 hr 37 min ago
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    • How is my cousin? Afraid to call.... 8 hr 33 min ago
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    • Will this business idea work out?? 8 hr 33 min ago
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    • When will we have dc #2? Ever? 8 hr 31 min ago
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  15. Toddler A guy comes out of nowhere and pushes me on the ground, takes me by my feet, in my dress—in my thong dress, in front of everybody! 8 hr 47 min ago (4 replies)
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    • I hope I am next! 8 hr 46 min ago
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    • how does he take you by your feet and WTF is a thong dress? GO TO BED, LITTLE BOY. 8 hr 45 min ago
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    • what's a thong dress? 8 hr 45 min ago
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  16. Toddler Thoughts on this dress?...(more) 8 hr 47 min ago (25 replies)
  17. Toddler I got in trouble for eating all of the reeses peanut butter ice cream treats last night. 8 hr 48 min ago (2 replies)
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    • trouble with whom? 8 hr 46 min ago
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    • with whom? 8 hr 46 min ago
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  18. Toddler If your dd is "afraid" to try tampons but is athletic and on a team, what do you suggest? pads seem so cumbersome and potentially risky for lack of a better term. wish she would...(more) 8 hr 48 min ago (8 replies)
    just try tampons
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    • Let her wait till friends suggest it 8 hr 47 min ago
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    • i quit competitive swimming bc i was afraid of tampons. of course i didnt tell my mom this was the reason. 8 hr 47 min ago
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    • her body, her choice. she'll figure it out. i have no idea when either of my daughters started using tampons. 8 hr 47 min ago
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    • take her to the doc for help figuring out how to use them? that's what it took for me. . . . 8 hr 47 min ago
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    • what team? it's probably fine 8 hr 46 min ago
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    • I was the opposite. I wanted to use them and my mom wouldn't let me. 8 hr 46 min ago
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    • their must be good video examples on you tube or something... (obviously not actual people doing it, but like an animated diagram) to explain 8 hr 46 min ago
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    • DD is a swimmer, it's a big issue, her friends helped her figure it out. 8 hr 45 min ago
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  19. Toddler I can't get that Budapest song out of my head 8 hr 48 min ago (0 replies)
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  20. Toddler When Clooney was Dr Doug, he was very hot. 8 hr 49 min ago (2 replies)
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    • extremely and I think he is gay 8 hr 48 min ago
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      • what does gay have to do with hotness? 8 hr 48 min ago
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  21. Toddler Anyone have experience with LBD? Lewy Bodies Dementia? 8 hr 49 min ago (48 replies)
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    • No I think it's alzheimers. But wondered at first. Why do you think this? Alcoholic? 8 hr 48 min ago
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      • come again? 8 hr 46 min ago
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        • Don't alcoholics get it more often than non alcoholics? 8 hr 44 min ago
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          • never heard of this. 8 hr 44 min ago
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            • np: me either. 8 hr 42 min ago
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    • I work with patients with LBD, can I field a question for you? 8 hr 47 min ago
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      • my dad- he declined in a few days. he is suddenly in a wheelchair, eyes closed most of the time, can't talk, hallucinating a bit. tiny moments of lucidity. i don;t know if it;s...(more) 8 hr 44 min ago
        the lacks of meds or if it's normal decline.
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        • what is the time frame from onset of symptoms to now? has be been evaluated by a specialist and had neuro eval, cognitive testing, MRI and blood work? 8 hr 43 min ago
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        • he wen toff the anti-psychotics (seroquel) and is now on trazadone and in a nursing home. a month ago he was walking around outside for 20 minute walks, opened a bottle of wine,...(more) 8 hr 43 min ago
          poured a glass..
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          • when was he diagnosed and what were the initial symptoms? it sounds like a very quick decline 8 hr 41 min ago
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            • dx a year+ 2 months ago. he had a psychotic break kind of thing nd it clmdd down when he went on seroquel. but since he's been off this he has declined so fast. the nursing home...(more) 8 hr 39 min ago
              says they don't want him on anti-psychotics bcs of the the side effects, i.e. they don't want to deal deal with an aggressive person, which i understand. it si so hard.
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              • I'm sorry to hear that. It is very hard, hardest for family members. The decline does sounds faster than a typical LBD case. Regarding what you can do, have you tried bringing him...(more) 8 hr 36 min ago
                favorite old songs to play for him, old pictures of family and old friends
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                • i have but he won't open his eyes. these are very good ideas. i will keep trying. i am so worried that the lack of the seroquel is really bad. 8 hr 34 min ago
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                  • what is his favorite food or smell? Smell is the sense that is most closely linked to memory. 8 hr 33 min ago
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                    • ^also has he been screened for a UTI? 8 hr 33 min ago
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                      • i will ask, he has been having fever... 8 hr 32 min ago
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                        • usually if elderly patients are having hallucinations it is due to UTI. 8 hr 31 min ago
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                          • except not with LBD 8 hr 30 min ago
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                          • hallucinations are common with LBD 8 hr 28 min ago
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                    • yes! you are so good to suggest this, i will try this. olfactory therapy! 8 hr 32 min ago
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                      • lavender is a good calming scent. Many men like the scent of cinnamon or vanilla (donuts) 8 hr 31 min ago
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                        • np: just a warning with this one, folks with LBD tend to have very poor olfactory functioning 8 hr 29 min ago
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                          • yes, i just remembered that my dad does not have a great sense. he said that he lost his sense of smell many years ago, maybe 10 year ago. it is often a sign of early dementia :( 8 hr 22 min ago
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                            • interesting 8 hr 21 min ago
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                              • but just a few weeks ago he told me that his sense of smell "came back" a little bit and that he can taste things. so... 8 hr 20 min ago
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                • It could be depression/reaction to new surroundings. 8 hr 34 min ago
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                  • it is def that too. he left home in early sept bcs my mom was dx w/ adv lung cancer. 8 hr 33 min ago
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                    • WOW...your family is getting it x2. So sorry. This is not an easy thing to watch. It's a long goodbye with the dimentia. The patient is the shell of the person they once were 8 hr 32 min ago
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                      • thank you. it is very hard, i am in constant denial. i feel like a kid, i am not prepared for this at all. 8 hr 31 min ago
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                        • My aunt who was like a mother to me died about 7 years ago at age 71. It was very hard on me. I had so much going on (very little kids, house under construction, stressful...(more) 8 hr 28 min ago
                          marriage and dh's career is very high high/low low type). I don't think I properly mourned her passing til the last 18 months when I really wanted to talk to her and she was no longer there (but had not been able to really talk to her in the years leading up to her death anyway)
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                          • ^she had dimentia caused by an auto immune disease. 8 hr 27 min ago
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                            • ^I will also add this: their decline is so hard to watch that it's sometimes a relief when they do pass because you can then remember them as the vital people they once were vs....(more) 8 hr 25 min ago
                              the sickly people they became. No one wants you to remember them as sickly and out of control.
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                              • yes, i agree. i just can't believe that a few weeks ago we were going for a walk and he talked about all kind of things... 8 hr 21 min ago
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                                • [MIL poster from below]: I'm so sorry. That's so hard. What a difficult responsibility, to make the right decisions for a parent in your situation, while feeling so sad and...(more) 8 hr 9 min ago
                                  disoriented. You'll do your best, and your parents are so lucky to have you near.
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                            • which autoimmune? 8 hr 7 min ago
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        • I don't know anything about LBD, but MIL went from completely active and (to all outward appearnces) lucid to dementia in about 6 wks; ultimate dx was CJD (Cruetzfeldt-...(more) 8 hr 25 min ago
          Jakob Disease), which is a spongiform encephalitis disease that's rare but not unheard of. Don't know if it matches your dad's experience, but might be worth asking. If we'd known it earlier, it would have made things easier for MIL.
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          • im so sorry, that is intense. 8 hr 23 min ago
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            • did I mention that I had a baby 3 wks after the sudden decline started, 3 wks before she passed away? It was a really challenging time. 8 hr 16 min ago
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              • ^^^and thanks for your kindness -- intense is a good word for it. 8 hr 16 min ago
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                • ^^^and if you are OP, I hope you and your family find peace soon. 8 hr 15 min ago
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              • wow, crazy. 8 hr 15 min ago
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                • lol, and it was during Hurricane Sandy, so we spent a week of it, with a newborn and a 7yo, living in our dear friends' guestroom. Arghh! 8 hr 14 min ago
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                  • ^^and that's the last I'll say to hijack OP's post (my apologies), unless OP has q's that I might be able to help wtih. 8 hr 13 min ago
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    • my FIL has this. 8 hr 43 min ago
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      • how is he now? 8 hr 42 min ago
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        • he can't talk or walk but he can still eat. 8 hr 42 min ago
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          • oh no. this is my dad. did he decline all of a sudden? is he in a wheelchair? thesis no life for him, i don't know what to do. 8 hr 41 min ago
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            • no, he declined over a few years. 8 hr 39 min ago
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  22. Toddler Does the youtube app suck? 8 hr 49 min ago (0 replies)
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  23. Toddler Is anyone else's DH incapable or unwilling to deal with helping make sure dks' hw gets completed? 8 hr 49 min ago (1 reply)
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    • I'm not willing to do that myself. 8 hr 44 min ago
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  24. Toddler Ex would fill up a trash can w/ beer bottles nightly (usually he'd have 12)- now he is w/ a new woman and says he doesn't drink...but as usual, lie. He only drinks 'fine' tequila...(more) 8 hr 50 min ago (5 replies)
    (she's mexican) and apparently this does not count. I was amazed that he'd stopped drinking and thought, oh maybe it was me causing him to drink..
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    • he sounds like a winner 8 hr 49 min ago
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    • how is drinking tequila "not drinking"?? 8 hr 48 min ago
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      • yeah- that's alcoholism for you- he I guess thinks no beer is not drinking 8 hr 46 min ago
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    • you don't cause someone to be an alcoholic. 8 hr 42 min ago
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      • op, of course I 'know' this- but it can feel like it. 8 hr 34 min ago
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  25. Toddler OK, if both partners are equally at fault in a situation where neither could consent to sex because they are drunk...(more) 8 hr 50 min ago (3 replies)
    does this mean the "bottom" in male gay sex can be a rapist? isn't the "bottom" the one that must consent to being penetrated, and the penetrating partner is the one who is at fault if he penetrates without consent? I would think this would go for heterosexual sex too. I don't think we can talk about this subject as if anatomy doesn't matter or as if men and women are, y'know, totally equal and the same and in a position of equal power when drunk and having sex.
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    • omg, I can't even read this 8 hr 49 min ago
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    • I would think penetration w out consent is raps 8 hr 46 min ago
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