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  1. Toddler Is sex with your DH as good as it was in the beginning of your relationship? 59 min ago (12 replies)
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    • is is as bad. 58 min ago
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    • of course not 58 min ago
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    • less frequent, but higher quality. we only do it 3-4 times a week now instead of every day. 58 min ago
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    • no 58 min ago
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    • Much much much better 58 min ago
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    • No way 58 min ago
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    • I'll just say different and leave it at that. 56 min ago
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    • negatory 56 min ago
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    • Better 48 min ago
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  2. Toddler Trying to light the pilot light on our furnace and I am so annoyed, this is really dh's job why am I even dealing with this? 1 hr ago (45 replies)
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    • Women should stick to cooking and kids, huh? What year did you time travel from? 59 min ago
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      • I sure would like, to, it's not like he cooks or deals with them 59 min ago
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        • np: maybe it should be a team effort rather than a competition 58 min ago
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          • it's not but I do those things and he can do this, we have a traditional division of labor in this house 58 min ago
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            • sometimes you might need to be flexible if something pops up. Empower yourself to figure it out 57 min ago
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        • You two need to work together. I'm not impressed how hands off he is. 57 min ago
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          • I do not mind it but he needs to deal with the things that fall undert his umbrella and he does, and this is another thing 57 min ago
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            • Does he know that the pilot light is out? 56 min ago
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              • yes but I don't think he remembers that it is 55 min ago
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                • So ask him to help you out when he gets home 53 min ago
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    • You're able bodied and competent 59 min ago
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      • I can use those skills for other things 58 min ago
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        • or use them for the task at hand 58 min ago
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    • are you being a martyr or have you asked him to do it? 59 min ago
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      • I am going to tell him that he needs to do it, I have just attempted so I am not sure 59 min ago
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        • maybe you should ask him nicely. 58 min ago
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    • Because he's... working? 59 min ago
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      • yes and he can still take 2 mins and do this 58 min ago
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        • so can you 58 min ago
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          • it's not working for me so he will have to and in this house I cook and clean and he does garbage and yard work so this is his realm 57 min ago
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            • do you work/ 56 min ago
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              • no and he does not want me to work 56 min ago
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            • np: dude, why the chip on your shoulder? 56 min ago
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              • no, this is how we worked it out 56 min ago
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                • To answer your question, you're dealing with it because the situation arose and your dh is elsewhere. You can opt to let it go until he comes home 54 min ago
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                  • I am 54 min ago
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                    • so what's the problem then? 53 min ago
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                      • nothing 52 min ago
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                        • So this whole thread for nothing!? 52 min ago
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                  • or, just, you know, fix the damn thing 53 min ago
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                    • I am not having any luck, I have tried 52 min ago
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            • he's WORKING. i'm assuming you don't. do your job. 55 min ago
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              • this isn't my job I realize, it's his job 54 min ago
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        • np: can you find instructions on youtube? 58 min ago
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          • have 3 videos up nw 56 min ago
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            • Are you frustrated with yourself or do you feel overworked? 55 min ago
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              • she doesn't even work! 54 min ago
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                • well, I consider taking care of kids and cooking, cleaning to be honest work. That said, I like a challenge of figuring out how to fix something 52 min ago
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              • I just wish I could fix it 54 min ago
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                • Ok- but don't then take it out on dh and blame him 50 min ago
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    • My DH would have no better of an idea about this than I would! 58 min ago
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      • my dh has done this before 55 min ago
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  3. Toddler In your experience -- if you have awesome sex the first time -- does it get better? Or is it all downhill from there? 1 hr 1 min ago (7 replies)
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    • most sex goes downhill after the first few years regardless of how it started 1 hr 1 min ago
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      • itd 1 hr ago
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      • disagree. signed, married 13.5 years and together for almost 19 59 min ago
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        • np. and you seriously think that most people enjoy sex as much after 19 years together as they did in the first years of their relationship? I'd say that's wishful thinking 58 min ago
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          • NP - I have been married 24 years and it's better now than ever. 57 min ago
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    • Both - i think as 2 people get to know one another, they are better at pleasing one another and they work better together, but that thrill of the first time goes away. 1 hr ago
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      • good points...I am craving this guy right now...I wonder if it will be a letdown (though I don't think it will be) 59 min ago
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  4. Toddler Going anywhere nice? Female passenger spotted in departure lounge at Washington Dulles airport in Hazmat suit, gloves and mask...(more) 1 hr 2 min ago (3 replies)
    • like a hefty bag, swim goggles and a snorkel are going to save you 1 hr 1 min ago
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    • Didn't she have to take some of that off to get through security? 59 min ago
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    • except her hands are UNCOVERED at the wrist and so she is exposed. PLUS she would have to take it off and she would have zero clue 56 min ago
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  5. Toddler If you lived in the city for 20 years and moved somewhere much smaller, how long did it take you to feel at home? 1 hr 3 min ago (7 replies)
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    • 2 years. 1 hr 1 min ago
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      • And was there a lightbulb moment where you felt settled in? 1 hr ago
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        • Yes. When I had to fill out an emergency contact sheet and I actually people I rusted on it. 57 min ago
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    • we are moving for dhs job and i know it'll never feel like home, maybe we will be able to come back someday though 1 hr ago
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  6. Toddler How long did it take to get pregnant? i'm 32, and it's been over a year w/no luck. hm. 1 hr 3 min ago (23 replies)
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    • It took me 11 months the first time (36) and 10 months the 2nd (39). good luck 1 hr 2 min ago
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    • are you having sex? 1 hr 2 min ago
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      • ha. yes. lots of it. also using ovulation kit. 25 min ago
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    • almost 2 years, we started at 34 1 hr 2 min ago
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    • 6 months 1 hr 2 min ago
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    • 2 years both times (sigh) 1 hr 2 min ago
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    • are you going to a fertility specialist? 1 hr 1 min ago
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      • haven't, been thinking about it though. 25 min ago
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    • Ds was an oops at 29. We're going to start trying early next year for #2 1 hr 1 min ago
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    • first try x3 1 hr 1 min ago
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    • First db, took 2 months...next time, never got my period after the pill, never ovulated, etc. Waited 3 months, went to an RE and one round of IVF (so one year in total) we had db...(more) 1 hr ago
      #2.
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    • It took me 2 months at 42. I'm sorry you are going through this but it isn't always age-related. Have you gone to a specialist yet? 1 hr ago
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    • At 37 I went to a reproductive endo after 6 months of well timed sex -- which was good. Dh had about 2 sperm, it turned out. 1 hr ago
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      • did it work out in the end? 58 min ago
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        • IVF ICSII -- put two back, got twins. It is the easiest issue to addree. 39 min ago
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    • Three years for DC#1 and three years for DC#2. Did multiple rounds of IVF for both. 58 min ago
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      • how many rounds in total? 58 min ago
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        • More than I like to admit but in the ballpark of 10. Lots of miscarriages. 43 min ago
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          • ^^PS. Let me also note that most people get pg and have a baby within 3 rounds. 42 min ago
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    • I was your age and had been trying for a year and did IVF. Second and third first try 58 min ago
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    • 4 years -- started at 34, had 6 miscarriages and finally second attempt with donor eggs worked. 53 min ago
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    • If you've been tracking ovulation and timing sex, it's time to get checked out. Both you and DH. 52 min ago
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      • sort of what I've been afraid of, although if it's time, it's time... 23 min ago
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  7. Toddler I don't understand the company's mentality towards attacking negative reviews. In the press the media focuses on the message "they'll sue you if you say something bad" rather ...(more) 1 hr 3 min ago (1 reply)
    if the complainer or the company is at fault. In the end the company is left looking like a bully and with a ton of bad PR.

    http://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/british-columbia/negative-online-reviews-led-to-threats-of-legal-action-from-targeted-businesses-1.2803572
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    • ITA. i wrote a negative review once on TripAdvisor and the company sent me a nasty email. So I just wrote another review about their email. Haha, fuckers@ 1 hr 3 min ago
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  8. Toddler So pissed at Hulu Plus. Watched the Affair pilot last week on it, and now it is nowhere to be seen, it looks like they won't have the show...Why bother teasing people? 1 hr 4 min ago (5 replies)
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    • hulu plus sucks 1 hr 4 min ago
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    • Showtime released it ondemand about a week before it aired. The hulu thing is probably them wanting to hook you and get you to buy showtime 1 hr 2 min ago
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      • well, that's not happening! Kind of stupid imo because now I am pissed. 1 hr 1 min ago
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    • Do you pay for Hulu plus? 58 min ago
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    • blame showtime not hulu 56 min ago
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  9. Toddler Need a costume idea for me and dh for his work cocktail party event (so nothing sexual) 1 hr 4 min ago (3 replies)
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    • google light up jellyfish costume, you can make them easily 1 hr 2 min ago
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    • Dumbledore and McGonigal 9 min ago
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    • Walt and Jesse 9 min ago
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  10. Toddler Nigeria has become free of Ebola. And the relatives of the man who died have all been cleared now. The 2 nurses are responded to treatment and have beaten it. The worst of this is...(more) 1 hr 5 min ago (14 replies)
    behind us. Time to calm down people.
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    • I was never excited, to be honest 1 hr 5 min ago
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    • Yeesh. Where were you on Saturday when people were demanding to know what they should do? 1 hr 5 min ago
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    • the two nurses are not anyhwere near out of the woods yet. 1 hr 4 min ago
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      • they are. Only like 50% of people with Ebola die. And that includes 3rd world countries with substandard medicare care. No more than 30% will die in the US. Or 1 in 3. 59 min ago
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    • And yet a school in NJ has told two Rwandan kids they must stay home. Meanwhile Rwanda is nearly *3000* miles from the nearest affected country. 1 hr 4 min ago
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    • until it starts again with a case in a new state. hopefully that hospital is prepared bc we shouldn't infect 2 people trying to treat 1 1 hr 3 min ago
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    • CNN will be devastated to hear this. 56 min ago
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  11. Toddler Finally! 10yo can now come home on the bus alone, get into the house (we have a keypad lock and keypad for garage door too) and I don't have to rush home if I am gettin ghis...(more) 1 hr 6 min ago (1 reply)
    brother or at an appointment. This is freeing.
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    • ^^^^and the nice thing is, our garage door sends a ding to my phone when it is opened so I know he got in 1 hr 5 min ago
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  12. Toddler Ds is 21 and can stay up the whole night without being affected. I miss being young. If I have less than 7 hours I am miserable the next day. 1 hr 6 min ago (0 replies)
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  13. Toddler This post has been disliked 3 times. showHave you joined the Klinghoffer protests? thinking of heading to lincoln center tonight. 1 hr 8 min ago (21 replies)
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    • no 1 hr 7 min ago
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    • Why? 1 hr 7 min ago
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    • Im pretty sure there are enough jews on the UWS. They dont need me. 1 hr 6 min ago
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    • I had no idea they are protesting that opera. Why? 1 hr 6 min ago
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    • don't live nearby. makes me fucking sick. try this w/trayvon martin and nyc would burn. but making fun of a murdered jew is cool! jews don't mind! 1 hr 2 min ago
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      • clearly you're not at all familiar with the opera. making fun of him? no. 1 hr 1 min ago
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    • wear your hazmat suit 1 hr ago
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    • why would anyone write an oprea about this? 59 min ago
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      • why not? operas aren't traditionally about the warm and fuzzies 58 min ago
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        • I know, I am a huge fan, I love the opera. This just seems like oddball material. I guess I prefer the fictional stuff. Magic Flute, La Bohem, Das Fliermaus (sp I KNOW), Hansel...(more) 57 min ago
          et Gretal, Pirates of Penzance, M Butterfly
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    • Does the opera portray the killing as being justified? There are lots of productions that involve murder. Don't understand the excitment. 55 min ago
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  14. Toddler What is the deal with every woman aged 3 to 93 in leggings lately? I know this has been a trend for several years but it is like everyone just said F it, I am going all in on eht...(more) 1 hr 8 min ago (12 replies)
    The leggings with no regard to how my ass looks. Crazy but kind of liberating too.
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    • yes -- so comfy 1 hr 8 min ago
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    • they like them? I know women arent supposed to wear what they like, only what they are "supposed" to wear 1 hr 7 min ago
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      • no i dont so i dont wear them but it doesnt bother me if anyone else wears them 1 hr 4 min ago
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    • my 8th grade history teacher wore leggings every day and her legs were like lumpy tube of jello and shook even when she stood still 1 hr 6 min ago
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    • A few years? Leggings are a modern classic. 1 hr 6 min ago
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    • you have to wear a longer shirt 1 hr 6 min ago
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    • i have no problem and love wearing them-just cover the butt. 1 hr 6 min ago
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    • "these days" meaning last 5 years 1 hr 6 min ago
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      • It is different this season in that many people arent covering their butt in legging. Have noticed this is San Francisco, DC and NYC past few weeks. 1 hr 5 min ago
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        • in nyc I see coverage still, Mostly. 1 hr 2 min ago
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    • SOooooo comfy. 1 hr 6 min ago
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    • the world has spoken and woman are no longer dressing for anyone but themselves. 1 hr 6 min ago
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  15. Toddler I don't really think single women go trolling bars for married men. That's just not how most affairs start. If it DOES start in a bar like that, odds are, it wasn't the woman...(more) 1 hr 10 min ago (31 replies)
    initially pursuing.
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    • I agree. This whole picture of desperate women trolling for men in bars is so 1975. 1 hr 9 min ago
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    • as a married man who is often at the bars, I can tell you women never troll for me 1 hr 8 min ago
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      • then you fug 1 hr 7 min ago
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        • np or he goes to more expensive bars you're not able to visit 1 hr 7 min ago
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          • i am not able to vist any bars as i am a mom 1 hr 6 min ago
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            • np so get a babysitter 1 hr 6 min ago
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            • without a babysitter? 1 hr 5 min ago
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              • my son has sn so i cannot get any babysitter. but thanks for playing 1 hr 4 min ago
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                • are you single? 1 hr 4 min ago
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                  • no but bad situation with dh he does not help with ds 1 hr 2 min ago
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                    • i'm sorry, what a dick! 1 hr 2 min ago
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                      • thanks. some days are better than others and other days i wish i could just stay out all night 1 hr 1 min ago
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                • what SN? 1 hr 4 min ago
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                  • special needs 1 hr 3 min ago
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                    • i know, i mean which one? 1 hr 2 min ago
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                • there are sn sitters. expensive, but they exist. can you talk with his therapist? i don't personally prefer bars, but you gotta get out some. 1 hr 3 min ago
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                  • thanks, we also are limited on $$ now 1 hr 3 min ago
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            • oh god, are you one of those women who uses "i'm a mom!" as an excuse for your empty, boring life that doesn't involve any activities apart from staying home with your kids? 1 hr 5 min ago
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    • Ha! I know several 40-something divorcees who go out looking for men at bars. 1 hr 8 min ago
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      • but not married men at bars. The appeal of the married man is in someone you get close to some other way and start to feel for his situation with the awful, mean wife he just...(more) 1 hr 6 min ago
        can't divorce. Not some slease monkey in a bar hitting on women.
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    • women and men go to bars for same reasons. the handsome guy flirting with her all night, not wearing a wedding ring. she doesnt know he is married. 1 hr 8 min ago
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      • that doesn't fit my OP then. My point is that affairs, at least ones where the woman knows he is married, don't start in bars like that. 1 hr 6 min ago
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      • these women NEVER know that they're married until after they fall in LOVE!! Oopss... oh well.. I love him now. 1 hr 4 min ago
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        • and the men doing some really fancy story telling about what hell his life is. 1 hr 2 min ago
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    • My exdh met his girlfriend in a bar. He was actively looking for someone, and that was that. 1 hr 6 min ago
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    • My dh met his mistress at an office party for another company. She was attending with her dh. 1 hr 4 min ago
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    • I know two affairs going on right now and they started where? Yep, you guessed it...after school pickup! 1 hr 3 min ago
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      • Yes, this is far more likely.. the guy looks like a good guy, good dad.. it is easier to believe him when he talks about his awful marriage. 1 hr 1 min ago
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        • What is great is that one of the couples works on PTO stuff together - they are personal trainers at different gyms - so they have the same schedule. But it's the worst kept...(more) 59 min ago
          secret.
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          • Are the respective spouses playing along to avoid dealing with it too? 58 min ago
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  16. Toddler If you gave a good size donation, would you put your name on it or do it anonymously? 1 hr 10 min ago (13 replies)
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    • did it anonymously. Don't need people knowing my business 1 hr 10 min ago
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      • op: that's my thinking. did one anon last year, this year they are pushing to have my name on it 1 hr 9 min ago
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        • why do they want your name on it? 1 hr 8 min ago
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        • I could be paranoid but I'm convinced if people know it's me I'll get hit up for everybody's pet charity 1 hr 8 min ago
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    • it depends. it only pays NOT to make it anonymous if you think it will encourage your peers to donate as well 1 hr 9 min ago
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    • i make every donation anonymous 1 hr 8 min ago
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    • what size donations are we talking here? 1 hr 7 min ago
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    • Always anonymous. ALWAYS. 1 hr 7 min ago
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      • ^^ we also passed on naming rights to an active family that couldn't make a donation. 1 hr 2 min ago
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    • anon for sure 1 hr 4 min ago
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    • depends how much and to what 59 min ago
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  17. Toddler I miss living overseas. I miss the expat community. It was so easy to make friends and get out. 1 hr 11 min ago (18 replies)
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    • This post has been disliked 3 times. showso basically you are needy and you require needy people 1 hr 11 min ago
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      • Nasty much? She misses where she used to live in what sounds like an interesting situation 1 hr 10 min ago
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      • don't be jelly 1 hr 10 min ago
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        • jelly of what? that is how she sounds 1 hr 8 min ago
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          • np: she might sound like that to an awful person looking to criticize, maybe 1 hr 8 min ago
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            • it's just a troll. Ignore her. Don't take her bait. 1 hr 6 min ago
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          • awww, punkin. you just keep living in the same town you grew up in, meeting the same people day after day, taking the same holiday every year to the shore. Say cheers with your...(more) 1 hr 8 min ago
            box wine. Some of us get out in the world.
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      • np that's mean but to construe it in a nice person way, she might like an environment where people don't have entrenched friendships where they are reluctant to meet new people 1 hr 10 min ago
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    • I miss living in Brooklyn- always something going on 1 hr 11 min ago
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    • Ditto. How long have you been back? 10 months for us and I am not adjusting, neither are the kids. 1 hr 9 min ago
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      • op: 11 months for us. Maybe it gets easier? 1 hr 7 min ago
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        • I think we must be in the the middle of the hard hump to get over. Where are you now? We're in DC, which I thought would make the transition easier since so much of the community...(more) 1 hr 5 min ago
          is transient, but if it is making it easier I'm not feeling it.
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          • op: I'm in NYC. 1 hr 3 min ago
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        • np: what are you finding hard? only two months back for us, but we were in a city in europe, so so far, im just excited about things like chocolate chips and tampons with...(more) 1 hr 4 min ago
          applicators. but i dont think everything has really hit us yet
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          • op: I was like that when we first came back. "Wow! Target!!!" but now I'm finding it hard to meet people and to get out and do things that I did overseas because there were...(more) 1 hr 2 min ago
            systems in place for expats to meet other expats. It is awkward trying to make conversation during the 5 minute wait at school pick-up.
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    • i miss excelled public transportation. it just sucks so bad in the us except for ny 1 hr 9 min ago
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    • You were a novelty in a strange land so you had that going for you, plus fellow Americans over there. Now you're just regular smug you, putting down where you live. Of course...(more) 1 hr 3 min ago
      people run from you and your snooty dc.
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      • oh honey, you're only embarrassing yourself at this point. 1 hr ago
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  18. Toddler The affair...what does everyone think so far? 1 hr 14 min ago (11 replies)
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    • what channel is it? is it online yet? 1 hr 13 min ago
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    • I think I hate the double episodes. I don't want to see everything twice 1 hr 12 min ago
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    • I cannot suspend disbelief just on the basis of real estate stupidity. Rich FIL house on lake. 'Poor' waitress house on OCEAN. Bikes to work and lighthouse? Works as a 'breakfast'...(more) 1 hr 7 min ago
      waitress at Lobster Roll when her inlaws OWN deep hollow ranch ? How about she rents out the ocean front house and moves to deep hollow and sticks to selling jam?
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      • She said the house is her grandparents and she pays cheap rent 1 hr 6 min ago
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        • you rent it out. I know a guy who owns a house on the ocean. rented it for two weeks in august. Got $250,000. 1 hr 4 min ago
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          • ^^townies in the hamptons dont work the breakfast shift unless they OWN the place. I doubt writers ever spent any time in hamptons before writing this show. 1 hr 3 min ago
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      • ^^also FIL house on LAKE would NOT be walking distance to OCEAN beach. 1 hr 2 min ago
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    • why couldn't they find american leading actors? 1 hr 2 min ago
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      • np-where are they from? 1 hr 2 min ago
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  19. Toddler Did iOS 8.2 fix the Bluetooth issues? 1 hr 14 min ago (1 reply)
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    • 8.1 was released today 1 hr 6 min ago
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  20. Toddler Google "jeff the killer". If a 5th grader was showing these pictures to your 8yo in school (on a school chromebook), and now your child was flipped out...would you tell the...(more) 1 hr 14 min ago (26 replies)
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    • Oh, hell yes. And I'm the least confrontational person ever. 1 hr 14 min ago
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    • I'm not googling that 1 hr 14 min ago
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    • yes 1 hr 13 min ago
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    • Lol. No. It's kids being silly around Halloween. 1 hr 13 min ago
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      • did you google it? 1 hr 12 min ago
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        • Yes. There's a lot worse stuff he could see. 1 hr 12 min ago
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          • so would you show that to your 8 yo? Wouldnt care if someone did and he was really scared? 1 hr 11 min ago
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            • I would just tell him it's a cartoon and get on with life. 1 hr 11 min ago
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            • tell the school, they need to have better filters. 1 hr 6 min ago
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              • ita, if they can down load that, the next thing may be worse 1 hr 5 min ago
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            • I woudln't like it, that freaked me out a bit. I don't like shit like that though, and I wouldn't appreciate someone showing my kid that eiether 1 hr 5 min ago
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              • At least it wasn't porn. 1 hr 4 min ago
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    • You could tell them, but they'll just roll their eyes after you leave. 1 hr 12 min ago
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    • Let me guess. He's your oldest and a total snowflake. 1 hr 11 min ago
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      • no, he's my middle. No need to be a bitch here. 1 hr 10 min ago
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        • shhhh let her be a bitch. it's entertaining to her only but makes the rest of us feel sad for her. She's posting on everything. 1 hr 9 min ago
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    • I didn't google it but if it is really gory, you should probably give the school a heads up so they can filter. Not to get the kid in trouble though. 1 hr 10 min ago
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  21. Toddler So my almost 5 yo has officially regressed in night training. Was night trained immediately when he was potty trained. Lasted for 2 years. Now fully back in pullups at night :( 1 hr 15 min ago (1 reply)
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    • Have you taken him to the doctor? Maybe it is medical. Or if there have been major changes, that could do it too - stress. 1 hr 9 min ago
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  22. Toddler Any Transparent watchers on? 1 hr 15 min ago (5 replies)
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    • I just started it this morning during workout. 1 hr 14 min ago
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    • Love that show. 1 hr 14 min ago
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      • Did you see the whole thing? 1 hr 13 min ago
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        • No, about half way 1 hr 13 min ago
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    • thats so funny..i watch it during my workout too 1 hr 13 min ago
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  23. Toddler Should i back off potty training? ds will be 3 in nov. goes to preschool. he can pee in potty at home, sometimes at school, but cant/has no idea to poop in it 9so thats why i send...(more) 1 hr 16 min ago (28 replies)
    diapers to school), and of course nighttime is diapers. should I stop with the underwear at nights/weekends? this has been going on for about 3 months.
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    • No, you should not stop. 1 hr 14 min ago
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    • No don't stop it'll be twice as hard when you start back up. Can you catch him when he's about to poop and put him on the potty? 1 hr 13 min ago
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      • op-ive tried, but he doesnt go in a corner and he goess all differnt times 1 hr 12 min ago
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    • No, he's ready. Throw away all diapers. 1 hr 13 min ago
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      • op-what if he pees or poops on the way to school? we walk there 1 hr 11 min ago
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        • change him 1 hr 11 min ago
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          • where??? 1 hr 10 min ago
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            • At school, in the bathroom, duck into a Starbucks. Come on woman do you want him potty trained or not? 1 hr 8 min ago
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              • i am on the way to work also at that time-where am i going to carry wipes and diapers? 1 hr 7 min ago
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                • Are you for real? 1 hr 7 min ago
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                  • i am asking. 1 hr 5 min ago
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                    • Carry a bag with two diapers and a small thing of wipes, plus a change of clothes. 1 hr 5 min ago
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                      • i would have to bring it to nad from work 1 hr 5 min ago
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                        • Yes, yes, all 1.5 lbs. You'll survive. 1 hr 4 min ago
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                • Wow. You really don't want him potty trained. 1 hr 6 min ago
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                  • yes, i do. but if i send him to school soiled his teachers would be mad,and it would be uncomfortable and cold for mds 1 hr 5 min ago
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                    • You don't send him to school soiled no one suggested that. Just have him go before school and change before class. 1 hr 4 min ago
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                    • Do you change his diaper of he poops on the way? 1 hr 4 min ago
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                    • Why wouldn't you change him after his accident? 1 hr 3 min ago
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                      • no i mean if he pees and we are walking it would be a few blocks before tehre would be someplace to change him-there arent many stores around 1 hr 1 min ago
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                        • So have him pee before leaving. I don't understand...do you want him potty trained or not? 1 hr 1 min ago
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        • How long is the walk? Have him pee before you leave 1 hr 10 min ago
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          • about 25 minutes 1 hr 10 min ago
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          • plus 1- he might poop and 2-its freezing out so people pee more in general 1 hr 9 min ago
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    • So he's been pooping in his underwear for 3 months? I'd put him in pulups 1 hr 12 min ago
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      • op-by diapers i meant pullups- 1 hr 12 min ago
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        • pullups = diapers 1 hr 2 min ago
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    • My dd needed night time pull ups a full year after being potty trained during the day. But she didn't poop at night, just pee accidents. 1 hr 7 min ago
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  24. Toddler Wow. There are some very intelligent, interesting women working out trying issues in their lives here now. 1 hr 16 min ago (3 replies)
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    • we're just trying to get through 1 hr 16 min ago
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    • such as? 1 hr 12 min ago
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      • Just posting the obvious. Somebody posted 'wow there are a lot of idiots here now' and it pissed me off so I decided to post the above. 1 hr 11 min ago
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  25. Toddler Anyone get jealous when dh go out for drinks with the guys, so many desperate women out there looking for men and my man is so handsome and outgoing. 1 hr 17 min ago (67 replies)
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    • No I am happy for him 1 hr 16 min ago
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    • no, I like having time to myself sometimes 1 hr 16 min ago
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      • my friends are like that but their dh's are ugly so no worries 1 hr 15 min ago
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    • Lol, no, not at all. I go out a lot. 1 hr 16 min ago
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    • He doesn't do drinks with the guys that way, just not his style. 1 hr 16 min ago
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      • Would you be upset if he did? 1 hr 15 min ago
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    • nope, you are welcome to throw yourself at my DH all day long...and good luck with that 1 hr 16 min ago
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      • You dont think he would like something new for a night 1 hr 14 min ago
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        • OR is secure, OP, you are not. And that's no way to live. If you can't trust your dh you will give yourself an ulcer 1 hr 13 min ago
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        • np-it's hard for me to imagine that situation because it seems like such a dumb trap, something with a coworker, building over time seems more possible. 1 hr 13 min ago
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        • if he wants to risk it all and do that...that's his choice. I dont think he would, mind you. 1 hr 12 min ago
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    • it never crosses my mind that anyone would come onto dh or that he would be open to it 1 hr 16 min ago
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    • If I'm jealous its because I want to go out for drinks with the girls. 1 hr 15 min ago
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    • LOL! No, my DH is not an idiot. 1 hr 15 min ago
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    • no 1 hr 15 min ago
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    • dh goes out with work co-workers (male and female) and I don't mind. I am not his babysitter 1 hr 14 min ago
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      • Is he god looking? 1 hr 13 min ago
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        • not only is he good looking AND tall AND with a posh english accent 1 hr 12 min ago
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    • "handsome and outgoing" = a big flirt 1 hr 13 min ago
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      • Op-thats my thinking 1 hr 12 min ago
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    • I used to be the "cool" wife about that kind of stuff...totally trusted my husband. And then caught him in an affair. 1 hr 13 min ago
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      • Was he hadsome and outgoing? 1 hr 6 min ago
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    • np, these posters above with the LOLs and the "my dh is not an idiot", or "he would never be open to that".... OK. 70 percent or married men admit to cheating. do the math,...(more) 1 hr 13 min ago
      ladie s.
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      • with some woman they met at a bar though? 1 hr 12 min ago
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        • work friends + drinks = affairs 1 hr 12 min ago
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          • op is talking about random women though, not coworkers. 1 hr 12 min ago
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            • does it matter? 1 hr 11 min ago
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              • I think it does actually. 1 hr 10 min ago
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          • I posted above about not being my dh's babysitter and I truly mean it. I cannot live like this. with this cloud of doubt and insecurity 1 hr 11 min ago
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      • link to that stat? 1 hr 12 min ago
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        • google is your friend 1 hr 12 min ago
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          • np I've looked that up. Nowhere has it ever said 0% 1 hr 11 min ago
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          • So you're throwing out random numbers. Ol 1 hr 11 min ago
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            • no, and 84% cheat AFTER children. just google it. 1 hr 10 min ago
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              • Fox news no study offered 1 hr 9 min ago
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                • lol 1 hr 8 min ago
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                  • LOL all you want. I think those numbers are pretty close to on the mark. 1 hr 7 min ago
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                    • nopeon ole 1 hr 7 min ago
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                    • well I'll worry about "I thinking" when you know something about social science and statitistics 1 hr 6 min ago
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                      • whatever, the number is high. 1 hr 4 min ago
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                        • its actually not. 1 hr 4 min ago
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                          • ok. keep telling yourself that. 1 hr 3 min ago
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                            • i don't need to. Study after study.. 1 hr 3 min ago
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                              • again, show two? I've seen one from 1991 that has no link to the original study. Show me two. Just two and I'll go away 1 hr 2 min ago
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                                • two right below 1 hr 1 min ago
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                                  • yes those both say 25% where is your 70% number? 59 min ago
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                                    • i think you and I are agreeing and she left. Lol 58 min ago
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                                      • Oh well! LOL Good fighting the good fight! 56 min ago
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                        • again, statistics disagree with you. S cientifically valid information isn't the same as "I think" 1 hr 3 min ago
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              • ok. You're not even close...(more) 1 hr 8 min ago
          • np-25% according to 2004 University of Chicago study... 1 hr 11 min ago
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          • 2004 university of chicago says 25% 1 hr 7 min ago
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      • np - I don't think it is so much about a specific DH not being the type or whatever - but more about - it is on the DH to be upstanding... 1 hr 11 min ago
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    • a single friend of mine was hit on by the DH of a mom at our school. it's not always the women "throwing themselves" 1 hr 12 min ago
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      • op-Im worried about that also, did she go for the dh? 1 hr 11 min ago
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        • no- she knew he was married! 1 hr 6 min ago
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    • Are you one of those women who, if your DH does cheat, would be 100% mad at the other woman for tempting him away? 1 hr 12 min ago
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    • Jealous that it's not me 1 hr 11 min ago
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      • ^^having cocktails 1 hr 11 min ago
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    • If it's a bunch of other dads, no. With his formerly single friends (like frat brothers) sometimes 1 hr 10 min ago
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