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  1. Toddler OH YEAH!!! THE teacher gifting fights are starting early this year! Tis the season. Then we shall move on to us horrid parents that send away for summer camp! 1 hr 33 min ago (1 reply)
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    • have the tip fights started? That's when I really feel the ole holiday spirit 1 hr 32 min ago
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  2. Toddler Pathetic, i know, but i am a sucker for any of those sweet and funny dog and cat videos. 1 hr 34 min ago (5 replies)
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    • ditto. a nice break from real news stories. always brings a smile 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • the golden failing at the agility test is my favorite thing this week. 1 hr 32 min ago
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      • didn't see that one! have to look for it. did you see the one with the man sitting in a chair petting one big dog while another big dog is on the couch whining because he wasn't...(more) 1 hr 30 min ago
        being pet? so so so cute!
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      • looks more like obedience test than agility 1 hr 24 min ago
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    • cooper and the ice cream cone! oh and "puppis + stairs" 1 hr 27 min ago
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  3. Toddler You don't know what my child gives to the teacher as a holiday gift. You do not need to know. My child is not trying to make you look bad. 1 hr 34 min ago (16 replies)
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    • What is your purpose for posting? 1 hr 34 min ago
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      • The same as your reason for responding....(more) 1 hr 33 min ago
        Conversation.
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        • Yes, and in this conversation I am informing you that you sound like a tool. Have a good day. 1 hr 32 min ago
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          • Thanks. You have a great day too! 1 hr 32 min ago
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      • np: I was wondering the same. could not give a shit what anyone gives teacher 1 hr 33 min ago
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        • Op: so many responders on other threads do though. 1 hr 32 min ago
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          • And you find it worth beating this dead horse? 1 hr 32 min ago
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            • As much as you find it worth your time to respond. 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • ok 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • Who worries about this? 1 hr 32 min ago
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      • After reading other posts here today, it seems like many do. 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • ita, the insecurity among mommies is nuts. 1 hr 30 min ago
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      • But why shroud in secrecy? Who cares? 1 hr 30 min ago
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        • secrecy? Why announce what you are giving? it's such a nonevent. 1 hr 27 min ago
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          • No one announces- but why post I'm giving something and not telling you! It's anon here. Looking for attention on a slow sun morning, you got it. 1 hr 26 min ago
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    • You are Special 1 hr 29 min ago
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  4. Toddler If your 9 yr old ds and friend were taking turns sitting on each other's lap pretending they were a kid talking to Santa would you stop that? 1 hr 35 min ago (18 replies)
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    • No. Ffs. 1 hr 35 min ago
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    • who're you judging? yourself? your husband? the other kid's mom? 1 hr 34 min ago
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    • were they...naked and drunk? 1 hr 34 min ago
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      • lol 1 hr 34 min ago
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        • because I would definitely put the brakes on that behavior before it leads to an unfortunate scenario. PLUS were they doing this and taking drunk naked selfies? 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • no. 1 hr 34 min ago
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    • are they wearing clothes? 1 hr 34 min ago
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    • what bothers you about this? afraid they are getting a chubby? 1 hr 33 min ago
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      • it didn't bother me but I just wondered if it would anyone else 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • more like photogragh it 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • I probably would tell them to knock off and let me come sit. 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • What is your problem with it? If they are starting to rough house, yes. Otherwise, butt out. 1 hr 32 min ago
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      • NP-I probably would tell them to knock it off only because it physical and with boys almost always, any physical touch turns into rough housing. I have 3 boys and if anything...(more) 1 hr 30 min ago
        seems to be fun like like always turns another way.
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    • my just turned 11yo is crawling around hte house pretending to be a puppy with a stuffed animal hanging out of her mouth while her sleepover friends are just as engrossed in his...(more) 1 hr 31 min ago
      game of house....it's hilarious.
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      • boy/girl? 1 hr 30 min ago
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        • girls. this is so refreshing. no one has a phone, they were happy to also make gingerbread houses and ornaments. 1 hr 26 min ago
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    • why?????????????????? 1 hr 26 min ago
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  5. Toddler At my parents for thanksgiving (we go early because it's a 7 hour flight, so we spend the week). Totally jet lagged, my dad just went out and got me coffee. I love my dad. HE was...(more) 1 hr 36 min ago (15 replies)
    going out anyway, but said he would stop. AWWWWW
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    • This post has been disliked 4 times. showyou sound like you're 5 1 hr 35 min ago
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      • why/. because I said awww? because I have nice parents? The attidute on this board toward family is just so bizzare 1 hr 34 min ago
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        • so then you knew what you were in for 1 hr 33 min ago
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      • she does. OP....do you call him "Daddy"? 1 hr 34 min ago
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        • no, I call him dad. You people are so messed up 1 hr 33 min ago
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          • I think it's messed up that you think it is so wonderful b/c your parents are kind. I don't really know anything diff. I guess 1 hr 32 min ago
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            • oh please. she was showing appreciation for a nice gesture. you asshole. 1 hr 30 min ago
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              • which is messed up b/c it is what any parent would do imo 1 hr 28 min ago
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                • ^^I guess OP is not as gracious of a host and wouldn't think of it and that is why she thinks it's nice 1 hr 27 min ago
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                  • trying too hard, you asshole. 1 hr 27 min ago
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                    • me? I'm not trying at all. Trying what anyway? 1 hr 26 min ago
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    • that is my dad too. love him! 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • i think that's very nice, but ... they don't have a coffee pot? 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • So refreshing to hear HAPPY stories here about holiday time with family. Give your dad a hug and thank your lucky stars. 1 hr 28 min ago
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    • cut 5 days-that mother fucker didn't bring me cream. i told him. 1 hr 27 min ago
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  6. Toddler My car battery is dead. I didn't use car since Friday and it's in garage. Doesn't look like lights were left on. Battery is fairly new (about 1 1/2 years old). Am I screwed? Or is...(more) 1 hr 37 min ago (7 replies)
    Can it just be the battery!
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    • call AAA have them jump it and hope that it is not the alternator (they will check that) 1 hr 36 min ago
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      • Will it start with a jump of it's the alternator? 1 hr 30 min ago
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    • Get a jump start. It will be fine if you drive it for a while. 1 hr 36 min ago
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    • Either that or the alternator 1 hr 33 min ago
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      • Ugh. That's what I'm afraid of. Dh is out and will try to jump it when he gets home soon. If it's alternator, that's bad, right? 1 hr 31 min ago
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        • I dont know what you mean by bad. Its easily fixable. 1 hr 29 min ago
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          • I guess I meant expensive 1 hr 28 min ago
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  7. Toddler Why aren't any garages open on Sunday! In brooklyn with a flat and need my car soon! 1 hr 38 min ago (2 replies)
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    • because a lot of people are averse to working on sunday 1 hr 37 min ago
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    • ummm, how do i say this..? the world does not revolve around you 1 hr 34 min ago
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  8. Toddler Recommendations for an online store to purchase a cozy personalized baby blanket for a new mom gift? Thanks! 1 hr 38 min ago (2 replies)
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    • pottery barn kids 1 hr 35 min ago
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    • Restoration hardware 1 hr 35 min ago
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  9. Toddler I need a black or a white dress for a party and can't find anything i like. especially under $250. hate shopping 1 hr 38 min ago (4 replies)
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    • look for Eliza J, good brand, not expensive. nordstrom's, lord and taylor 1 hr 37 min ago
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    • what size are you and what in general would you like 1 hr 36 min ago
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      • i'm 5'2 110. size depends on the brand really. i want something short and sexy. 1 hr 34 min ago
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    • go to Lord and Taylor and try Nordstrom or Nordstrom rack. I can't imagine you can't find anything 1 hr 27 min ago
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  10. Toddler Have been on an intense nanny search mostly with care.com and these people are so unreliable, don't show up for interviews, cancel at last min. Ugh 1 hr 39 min ago (7 replies)
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    • this is why they are nannies 1 hr 38 min ago
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    • Better to find a nanny through friends or word of mouth 1 hr 38 min ago
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      • That would be ideal, I am trying but not enough options 1 hr 37 min ago
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    • guess we were lucky. the one we hired came early, asked a lot of Q's. been with us for 7 years...gl 1 hr 38 min ago
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      • We do have one great candidate who did all of that but would just like to meet a bunch before finalizing 1 hr 37 min ago
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    • people who don't want jobs in the 9-5 corporate world 1 hr 38 min ago
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    • Sitter city is better ime 1 hr 35 min ago
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  11. Toddler Going to super healthy, diet thanksgiving, so not excited 1 hr 39 min ago (23 replies)
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    • why? turkey is a lean protein & all the veggies are healthy 1 hr 39 min ago
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      • there was no turkey last time and I would like a filling meal on tg 1 hr 38 min ago
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        • i wouldn't go, people like that would have to understand 1 hr 37 min ago
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          • it's dh's family, I would love to skip it but can't 1 hr 36 min ago
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            • np I don't get this 1 hr 22 min ago
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              • I can't skip his family's thanksgiving 1 hr 20 min ago
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        • yikes, i'd eat beforehand then 1 hr 36 min ago
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          • I will, last time we went to McDonald's on the way home 1 hr 35 min ago
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        • Is it rationed? 1 hr 36 min ago
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        • who doesn't serve turkey on thanksgiving? Are they making tofurkey? 1 hr 35 min ago
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          • they made steak last time, a small amount and veggies, fruit and coffee with agave 1 hr 34 min ago
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    • why would somebody do that. fine if you are dieting, but why have your guests unhappy? 1 hr 38 min ago
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      • I am not sure, I think they assume we are all like them 1 hr 37 min ago
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      • even if you are dieting, you make the meal for your guests 1 hr 35 min ago
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    • Take a turkey breast and gravy 1 hr 35 min ago
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      • I am making something I hope they will not enjoy 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • We went to a gluten free thanksgiving last year. Dh made a tray of Mac and cheese and an apple pie post thanksgiving meal. 1 hr 29 min ago
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      • I might out myself but while we were there last time on of them was telling us how they had been on some crazy diet that put them into the hospital for a week 1 hr 27 min ago
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        • Oh dear. I'd decline the invite. I'd rather have a small delicious thanksgiving. 1 hr 25 min ago
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          • I wish I could 1 hr 25 min ago
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      • I went to a GF thanksgiving last year and I was dreading it, but it was great. I seriously would not have known it was GF 1 hr 24 min ago
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  12. Toddler As gay civil rights has become fairly settled in our state, I am finding my students are more and more interested in transgender rights. We do not have any transgender students-...(more) 1 hr 40 min ago (0 replies)
    that I know of- but it is an issue the kids find really important. It is so interesting how often teenagers are at the forefront of these sorts of trends.
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  13. Toddler For years I've always told fb frenemy posters here to get a life. but damn. a neighbor has recently become a beachbody coach and I fucking hate her on facebook now. I apologize...(more) 1 hr 41 min ago (12 replies)
    for every time I ever told you guys you were petty.
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    • what makes you hate her? 1 hr 40 min ago
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      • it's literally 8-10 posts a day, mostly motivational nature photos w/ text about how you just have to suck it up and workout. also 1-2 selfies of her w/ a protein shake. 1 hr 37 min ago
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        • oh I get it. maybe it will wear off and she'll pull back a bit. Just scroll on by I guess 1 hr 36 min ago
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    • what is she doing that annoys you? promoting her business? 1 hr 40 min ago
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    • Is she in better shape than you now? 1 hr 39 min ago
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      • yes and it is KILLING me 1 hr 38 min ago
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      • I don't think so. I mean, she and I hvaen't done a pushup competition or anything, but I don't really have a sense she's like a superwoman. 1 hr 38 min ago
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        • np-what is bugging you? 1 hr 37 min ago
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          • the frequency. and the protein shake selfies/nutrition information. I don't want be part of her clean eating challenge and I think that she's setting up her teen kids for a god...(more) 1 hr 36 min ago
            damn lifetime of eating disorders.
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        • Something is pushing your buttons! This isn't your first post about it!! 1 hr 37 min ago
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          • it is! I'm sort of embarrassed about it, too. 1 hr 36 min ago
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            • NP-I think you think she is full of herself. That can be bothersome. Human nature. 1 hr 35 min ago
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  14. Toddler I should not drink coffee on Sundays. weekdays I use the caffeine--sundays I drink it and sit here tapping my feet 1 hr 43 min ago (2 replies)
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    • or you can use the energy 1 hr 43 min ago
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      • this is the only day I do not workout. Body needs a rest. I will go walk the 3 dogs though. 1 hr 42 min ago
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  15. Toddler I find being around type A sahms just so draining. It's a bit miserable. Sahm but solidly type B. 1 hr 44 min ago (7 replies)
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    • hang with me. type Z 1 hr 44 min ago
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      • That would be so much more preferable 1 hr 43 min ago
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    • yeah, it makes me feel like a loser too. 1 hr 43 min ago
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      • No way. It's the opposite. They seem almost pathetic in their intensity. C 1 hr 43 min ago
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    • But not type A people in general? I find them draining whether they work or not. 1 hr 43 min ago
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      • You might be right but for some reason it seemed more appropriate in the work environment you know? 1 hr 42 min ago
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    • type A in general isn't my speed, whether at work or at home. 1 hr 35 min ago
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  16. Toddler Divorced moms, if you initiated the divorce how did you do it. Did you get eveything in order before telling, or... was it something you discussed with ex before taking any...(more) 1 hr 45 min ago (14 replies)
    action?.
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    • got all my ducks in a row altho i did try.. 1 hr 42 min ago
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      • Did you for example say I'm going to meet with a lawyer or did you do it without sharing,? Thanks 1 hr 41 min ago
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        • definitely see a lawyer first. 1 hr 39 min ago
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        • w/o sharing 1 hr 39 min ago
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    • get everything in order first --- AFTEr you try marriage counseling 1 hr 40 min ago
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      • He won't do counseling 1 hr 38 min ago
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        • well, there you go..move on 1 hr 37 min ago
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      • counseling is not a requirement 1 hr 36 min ago
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    • It was a discussion we had for about a year. I didn't really do much before aside from come up with a budget to see if it was even realistic. 1 hr 38 min ago
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      • ^ told him before I saw a lawyer. I wanted everything to be on the and up and wanted to set a precedent. But I trusted him, sometimes that is not always the case. 1 hr 37 min ago
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        • yes, certainly would not have trusted my ex. 1 hr 36 min ago
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    • I know someone who didn't say a word. Just had her lawyer send the papers. I thought that was very cold. 1 hr 37 min ago
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    • I filed and then told ex dh that I wanted a divorce. I was beyond any discussion or additional therapy. 1 hr 36 min ago
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      • OP: what the OR above described does seem cold/mean, I agree with her but am so tempted to go this route as I already feel so emotionally drained that the though of more...(more) 1 hr 32 min ago
        discussion is putting me over the edge
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  17. Toddler Have 3 sick days I have to use by December 4th. Should I use one for Christmas shopping or just let them go? 1 hr 45 min ago (43 replies)
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    • yes 1 hr 44 min ago
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    • ^^^im always busy at work, btw. 1 hr 44 min ago
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    • What do you mean you have "sick days"? 1 hr 44 min ago
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      • What do you mean what do I mean? Sick days. 1 hr 44 min ago
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      • Have you ever had a job? 1 hr 43 min ago
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        • I have pto to use for whatever. Have never had desgnated sick days. What are the rues for them? 1 hr 36 min ago
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          • Op: at my company we get 15 days vacation, 5 sick and 3 personal. Since I started in march it was prorated. Had to use personal right away for a previously scheduled vacation...(more) 1 hr 35 min ago
            before I was allowed to use vacation leaving me with no personal left.
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            • What are the rules on the sick days? 1 hr 34 min ago
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              • It's never really been laid out but I'd say ppl take a day here and there. 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • use 1 hr 43 min ago
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      • Thinking tomorrow. 1 hr 43 min ago
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    • yes, use them..they're yours: do shopping, relax 1 hr 41 min ago
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      • I think I will but it will just make the rest of my week stressful and I'll probably end up doing some work in the morning. 1 hr 40 min ago
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      • those are personal days 1 hr 39 min ago
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    • you use all of your sick days? that looks really bad 1 hr 40 min ago
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      • I haven't used a single sick day since I started this job in march. 1 hr 39 min ago
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        • y'oure a new employee, you shouldn't. 1 hr 38 min ago
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          • 8 months is not that new. 1 hr 38 min ago
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      • Bad to whom? 1 hr 39 min ago
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      • Lol. What are you talking about? She has 3 left. She wants to use one. 1 hr 38 min ago
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    • At my office you have to be sick to use a sick day. Cant use them as personal days 1 hr 37 min ago
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      • Op: well, I would lie and say I was sick. We just have to say, I'm using a sick day today. No one asks or cares. 1 hr 36 min ago
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        • Untrue. Your manager knows, and therefore knows you have no integrity. 1 hr 35 min ago
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          • No. Really my manager does not ask questions. People call out for migraines, stomach virus, etc even she does and no one minds. We have a pretty stressful job and sometimes people...(more) 1 hr 34 min ago
            just need a day.
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            • Then take a personal day or vacation day that is what they are for. 1 hr 32 min ago
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      • Do you have to bring a note? 1 hr 36 min ago
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        • No its an honor system. 1 hr 35 min ago
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          • So then no, you don't have to be sick. 1 hr 33 min ago
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            • If you have honor you do. 1 hr 32 min ago
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              • You sound brain washed. 1 hr 32 min ago
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                • Huh? Being honest is being brainwashed. Surprise! I also declare all my income for taxes, do not pay my nanny or cleaning lady "off the books". Pathetic that you think being...(more) 1 hr 30 min ago
                  honest is a negative characteristic.
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                  • Don't be silly. A day off is a day off. An adult should be able to decide how best to use his/her day off. 1 hr 29 min ago
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                    • Op: honestly. I'm sick of going to work. So there, I'm sick. 1 hr 28 min ago
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                    • What yhe fuck does this mean. A sik day is for when you are sick. An adult would know that. 1 hr 28 min ago
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              • They are sick days she is taking, not priceless vases. 1 hr 31 min ago
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                • Lol. This. No one cares if you take one day once in a while. Especially if you work hard. 1 hr 30 min ago
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          • Lol 1 hr 31 min ago
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      • I would be a disaster in corporate america. 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • What's the policy in your office? We have personnel days but sick days are for when you are actually sick. I'd count my lucky stars that I didn't have to use them and let them go....(more) 1 hr 34 min ago
      In fact, that's what I do.
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      • Finally one other honest person. 1 hr 26 min ago
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  18. Toddler We live in an area with very good public schools, but the vibe is insanely competitive, esp if your kid is in the top academic group. My kids are still little, but it really...(more) 1 hr 45 min ago (23 replies)
    makes me want to look for alternatives. Just seems toxic.
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    • Good public schools mean parents care very much about education. It's a good thing. 1 hr 44 min ago
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      • There is caring and there is cut-throat competition. np. 1 hr 44 min ago
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        • You don't have to participate in that. 1 hr 43 min ago
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          • this - it's totally a choice. i have a dc in a HS that is said to be cut throat but many dcs just opt out of that aspect. 1 hr 42 min ago
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            • agree--my oldest just graduated from HS w/ 3rd highest GPA but he was not part of the uber competitive group at all. He did his own thing 1 hr 41 min ago
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              • that's what dd does. she just declines to discuss grades w/anyone. and she doesn't know what anyone's grades or GPA or whatever is either. 1 hr 40 min ago
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                • I found out when he was given a medal for the 3rd place ranking. otherwise he never really talked about it. Some of the top kids get obsessed. 1 hr 39 min ago
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            • ITA. 1 hr 41 min ago
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          • It's hard to avoid when it's the culture of the school. 1 hr 40 min ago
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            • it really isn't hard at all. 1 hr 40 min ago
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            • I find it a challenge but the good education is worth it. We dial back that stress and I feel my kids are the better for it. I truly don't have the energy or personality to get on...(more) 1 hr 39 min ago
              That bandwagon. There are plenty of like minded people in town, too.
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      • np. but then there are places like chatham where people start cheating. they care more about the grades/scores than the education. 1 hr 40 min ago
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        • I teach at a Title I school (i.e., NOT at all competitive) and cheating is totally rampant. It is rampant at most schools. It doesn't seem to be linked to...(more) 1 hr 39 min ago
          pressure/competitiveness.
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    • Why don't you see how your kid does? 1 hr 43 min ago
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    • It's important to remember that over the course of 18 years you get to set the family dynamic and tone. This matters, a lot. 1 hr 43 min ago
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      • agree. 1 hr 43 min ago
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      • You set the tone at home, but they also spend a lot of time outside of home and you don't get to set the tone at school 1 hr 39 min ago
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        • Home matters. A driven kid is going to be driven. A laid back kid is going to be laid back. So much of this pressure is coming from parents. 1 hr 38 min ago
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          • Both matter. I'm not saying home doesn't play a huge role, but the environment they spend most of their day in matters too. It's naive not to recognize that. 1 hr 22 min ago
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    • Stay and reevaluate when kids are older. You may find more simpatico parents 1 hr 43 min ago
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    • We moved our kids from public to private in middle school for that reason. I know there are also some very cutthroat private schools, but the one we chose is not. 1 hr 41 min ago
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    • My ds is an average student in a top rated public, and I like that he's beginning to feel some pressure. He's 12 and doesn't put in the effort but is starting to because everyone...(more) 1 hr 39 min ago
      around him is interested in As. He got his first A in math this year the other day because he buckled down.
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    • there are places that are more shades of gray. I looked for a town where although the schools are excellent and the parents are clearly invested, they don't force AP classes down...(more) 1 hr 21 min ago
      to freshmen. they simply aren't offered, so there is no pressure to conform to something developmentally inappropriate. for example.
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  19. Toddler I had a dream I killed my ex-bf last night. I remember everything so intensely, trapping him and then disposing of the body. where i was at, the conversations, his grandmother was...(more) 1 hr 46 min ago (1 reply)
    the one that started to look for after he went missing just like it would be irl. i was afraid of getting caught. crap, i don't even mildly dislike him, why would i dream this???
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    • first, google him to make sure you didn'tkill him 1 hr 31 min ago
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  20. Toddler Making thanksgiving dinner today (divorced) and my first time. Turkey isin, should I make everything else now? How to keep it all warm? 1 hr 46 min ago (1 reply)
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    • what time are you eating? don't make all the sides now. prep/slice/ whatever but don't cook yet 1 hr 43 min ago
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  21. Toddler All these years of google and I never press "I'm feeling lucky" 1 hr 47 min ago (4 replies)
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    • That is a discussion for your therapist. 1 hr 47 min ago
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      • you know, I think you are right. First I need a therapist. 1 hr 46 min ago
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        • google it 1 hr 46 min ago
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        • Try Google 1 hr 46 min ago
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  22. Toddler Speaking of gross cosby, why does he perform in those awful sweats? 1 hr 47 min ago (2 replies)
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    • they are comfortable? And easy to take off. 1 hr 46 min ago
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    • he got a standing O performing this weekend. people are cray cray 1 hr 45 min ago
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  23. Toddler Ok, NYC coops - gas, heat a/c water covered in maintenance fee? tia 1 hr 48 min ago (6 replies)
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    • There's no one answer. I don't pay for gas, heat or water but I don't have central air and I pay for electricity for my window units. 1 hr 47 min ago
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      • thanks. which borough ? 1 hr 46 min ago
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        • Manhattan 1 hr 46 min ago
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          • looking at Seward park. ar eyou in that area? 1 hr 44 min ago
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            • No. 1 hr 44 min ago
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              • NP. I'm on 22nd. I pay ac. 1 hr 43 min ago
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  24. Toddler How big of a turkey for 12 adults and 4 kids? 1 hr 49 min ago (18 replies)
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    • Fucking huge. 1 hr 49 min ago
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    • We are having 10 adults and 3 kids and I was told 14-15 lbs would be plenty with leftovers 1 hr 48 min ago
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      • You were lied to. 1 hr 47 min ago
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        • I'm not concerned. I have a vegetarian, non eating kids and will be serving Swedish meatballs and a ton of sides. I don't want a ton of leftovers 1 hr 46 min ago
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          • Swedish meatballs and turkey? 1 hr 45 min ago
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            • Yep. Why not? Kids will eat them and I want another meat 1 hr 43 min ago
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          • That sounds brutal. 1 hr 42 min ago
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            • ^add to that my gluten free ds. It's a high maintenance table 1 hr 41 min ago
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              • Holy fuck. Cater! 1 hr 40 min ago
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                • I'm just not making all traditional foods. I'm k 1 hr 39 min ago
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                  • ^im making a gluten free Mac and cheese and stuffing for the vegetarian and kids! adding Swedish meatballs for other kids! not making potatoes because I will have 2 stuffings plus...(more) 1 hr 38 min ago
                    The Mac and cheese. I'm trying to give the guests what they want
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      • Thst person doesn't know what they're talking about. I get 18 pounds for four of us with the intention of leftovers for each if us once. 1 hr 43 min ago
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    • here you go...(more) 1 hr 47 min ago
    • For 12 adults, no kids, I was told 16-18 lbs and I bought a boneless breast roast for insurance. 1 hr 47 min ago
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    • half pound per adult is the rule 1 hr 45 min ago
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      • Maybe triple that. 1/2 lb. is for boneless meats and even that's only 8 oz. raw. 1 hr 42 min ago
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        • This 1 hr 40 min ago
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        • i stand corrected, Haven't had my coffee yet and I actually do 1 1/2 lbs per guest 1 hr 38 min ago
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  25. Toddler I'm too lazy to read the Bill Cosby articles. Anyone want to share the bottom line and/or an opinion? 1 hr 50 min ago (8 replies)
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    • he is a disgusting old man 1 hr 49 min ago
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    • about 15 women, so far. similar stories. even two actresses that worked with him -- one from law & order -- came forward. none of these women have anything to gain. drug them and...(more) 1 hr 48 min ago
      rape them.
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    • He roofied women who then woke up to find themselves naked and covered in his semen, unable to prove anything. Some came back for more, some went to cops, nothing could be proven....(more) 1 hr 47 min ago
      Lisa Bonet tweeted that nothing stays in the dark forever.
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      • And he gave payouts over years 1 hr 45 min ago
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      • Oh wow. She did? wow. 1 hr 36 min ago
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    • He got away with drugging and raping women. 1 hr 46 min ago
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      • how did he drug them 1 hr 41 min ago
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