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  1. Toddler Etiquette question. Dd gets invited to a friends bday for just cake and playing. You accept. This is on a tues. Then you received a schedule that requires dd to be at a soccer...(more) 1 hr 23 min ago (13 replies)
    Celebration on sat at the same time as cake. Wdyd?
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    • I'd do the birthday celebration over the soccer celebration. 1 hr 22 min ago
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    • Good friend? Go to bday. Not close--cancel and do soccer 1 hr 22 min ago
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    • Bday party 1 hr 22 min ago
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    • i owuld be annoyed i ma getting a schedule for practice so late and go to the aprty 1 hr 21 min ago
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      • This is my friend and I'm going to the same party. She said she knew the date but not what tjne until Thursday for soccer. 1 hr 20 min ago
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        • Is the kid friends with the birthday kid or are you friends with the mom? 1 hr 13 min ago
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          • Both. All good friends 1 hr 7 min ago
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    • up to the kid, i guess 1 hr 20 min ago
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    • bd. 1 hr 20 min ago
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    • You go to the thing you already committed to. 1 hr 20 min ago
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    • Apologize and go to Soccer 1 hr 13 min ago
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    • What does "requires" mean? What happens if she doesn't go? This is very short notice for the soccer thing 1 hr 12 min ago
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    • she won't be the only one who can't make soccer celeb. but maybe she can do both-- come v late to soccer if she is upset about it 1 hr 12 min ago
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  2. Toddler Favorite nut and least favorite nut: 1 hr 23 min ago (11 replies)
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    • Cashew, walnut 1 hr 23 min ago
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    • hazelnut/walnut 1 hr 22 min ago
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    • cashew. macademia. 1 hr 22 min ago
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    • pistachio, walnut 1 hr 22 min ago
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    • Any nut but walnut and walnuts. Walnuts are the worst nut 1 hr 21 min ago
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    • almond-hazelnut tie/walnut 1 hr 20 min ago
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    • I love almonds, but my ds is terribly allergic to them, so I don't eat them. I don't like hazelnuts 1 hr 19 min ago
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    • peanut / almond / walnut / hazel nutů.HATE: cashews 1 hr 18 min ago
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    • I loathe ALL kinds of nuts. Won't touch them. 1 hr 15 min ago
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    • My dad, my MIL. 1 hr 15 min ago
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    • least- hazelnut. just ew. favorite cashew 1 hr 11 min ago
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  3. Toddler Name poll: Godric...(more) 1 hr 27 min ago (29 replies)
    I absolutely love this name but I am open to feedback.
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    • Godric Gryffindor 1 hr 27 min ago
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    • What if he's a Slytherin, though? 1 hr 26 min ago
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    • reminds me of harry potter's birthplace - Godric's Hollow. 1 hr 26 min ago
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    • Cute girls name 1 hr 26 min ago
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    • I've never heard this name before. Sounds made up. 1 hr 26 min ago
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      • not a harry potter fan, i take it 1 hr 26 min ago
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      • all names are made up 1 hr 26 min ago
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      • it was as common in pre-norman england as mohammed is now. 1 hr 25 min ago
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        • ok, whateves, knock yourself out 1 hr 24 min ago
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          • maybe you didn't get the memo: mohammed is #1 name for baby boys in england. before french-norman invastion of england, majroity of the population was descended from germanic...(more) 1 hr 23 min ago
            tribes, and their langauge was old english. godric was a common boy's name. go read a fucking book.
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            • OMG get a life, bitch 1 hr 21 min ago
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            • Is this your first child? 1 hr 20 min ago
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              • ^because just so you know, you'll have to tell people this name irl after he's born. 1 hr 19 min ago
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    • Dead vampire on TB 1 hr 26 min ago
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    • stop trying to make anglo saxon happen, gretchen. 1 hr 26 min ago
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      • Gretchen is German form of Margaret 1 hr 24 min ago
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    • DO NOT DO IT 1 hr 25 min ago
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    • he is a vampire 1 hr 25 min ago
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    • Oh man. That is so bad. So bad. 1 hr 25 min ago
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      • Is it really that bad? What's so horrible about it? 1 hr 9 min ago
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    • what? I don't think i heard you correctly 1 hr 24 min ago
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      • you can hear typed words?? 1 hr 24 min ago
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        • you cant hear sarcasm? 1 hr 22 min ago
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    • Nickname God 1 hr 23 min ago
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    • First db? 1 hr 23 min ago
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      • - no subject -...(more) 1 hr 10 min ago
        yes, what gave it away?
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    • Dumb name 1 hr 17 min ago
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  4. Toddler DB is 4 months old and I start back at work in 2 weeks... any BTDT advice? 1 hr 27 min ago (10 replies)
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    • No, I'm sorry. It's so hard 1 hr 26 min ago
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    • Be kind to yourself. It will be hard 1 hr 26 min ago
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    • It's ok to cry. Cry and cry and cry. Snuggle like crazy every morning and evening and just know that it's ok. 1 hr 24 min ago
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    • Go back so your first day is a Thursday, if you can. 1 hr 23 min ago
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    • I enjoyed going back to work. Taking care of an infant 24/7 is awfully hard. I welcomed the change of routine, but nighttimes are very hard still. I found it hardest around 12...(more) 1 hr 22 min ago
      when the routine felt permanent.
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      • I loved infancy. I hate 22 months to 36 months. 1 hr 20 min ago
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      • I agree w this. Being at work was a grind but ok. Coming home to an adorable baby is delightful, generally. 1 hr 15 min ago
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    • Keep things simple at home. Enlist your Dh. Enjoy your baby. Take care of YOU. 1 hr 15 min ago
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    • I was ok with it-- I knew db was in good hands and it prepared me for work/life balance. 1 hr 9 min ago
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  5. Toddler Etiquette question. Person invited you over for cake for dd's bday on Tuesday. Not a party. You get a 1 hr 28 min ago (4 replies)
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    • present, yes. 1 hr 27 min ago
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    • Ive been to many of those. Sometimes I do. Sometimes I don't. It seems 50/50 with the other people who have come as well. I don't make myself crazy. 1 hr 27 min ago
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    • yes. just as a rule you really need to bring something anytime youre invited to someones home. in this case a gesture gift-a $10 toy 1 hr 23 min ago
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    • How could you go w/o a gift for the child? 1 hr 22 min ago
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  6. Toddler There's a guy who delivers frozen bulk food around here. It's like Omaha Steaks comes to your door. Very suburbia but very helpful 1 hr 29 min ago (3 replies)
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    • Where? 1 hr 28 min ago
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      • he does upper westchester and fairfield cty ct I think. 1 hr 26 min ago
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  7. Toddler What's the earliest age you have seen your DD with very clear puberty signs (underarm or pubic hair)? 1 hr 31 min ago (18 replies)
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    • 10.5 1 hr 30 min ago
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    • My dd is 11.5 yo. She developed pubic hair before her breasts started developing. Breast development just started within the past 6 months. 1 hr 30 min ago
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      • ^^ The pubic hair started probably about a year ago. But she is very hairy -- gets it from her father. 1 hr 29 min ago
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        • ditto, but my dd isn't hairy. She's just starting with the buds 1 hr 9 min ago
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    • 10 1 hr 30 min ago
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    • my friend's dd has pubic hair at 7 1 hr 29 min ago
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    • 10 with hair, 9 with breast buds 1 hr 29 min ago
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    • my niece has it all - 10.5 1 hr 29 min ago
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    • Breast buds at 9, pubic hair at 10. Kind of first period at 10.5 1 hr 29 min ago
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    • which is the lead indicator for approaching periods - breasts or hair? 1 hr 29 min ago
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      • arm pit hair I think? 1 hr 28 min ago
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      • Hair. But not always 1 hr 27 min ago
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      • My ped said it's usually 2-3 years from first signs to period 1 hr 25 min ago
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      • Google Tanner Stages 1 hr 25 min ago
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      • Our ped said rule of thumb is period will start about 2 yrs from the beginning of breast development. 1 hr 24 min ago
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        • really? I heard a year 1 hr 22 min ago
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    • breast buds just before turning 9. just started having b.o. as 4th grade ended, at age 10. 1 hr 23 min ago
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    • Mine is 11 with zero signs yet 1 hr 23 min ago
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  8. Toddler My dc's sleep patterns are all messed up and school starts Monday. Should be "intersting" 1 hr 31 min ago (2 replies)
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    • Unless super young I wouldn't worry. They'll snap right back into the routine. 1 hr 30 min ago
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      • Hope so. I think worrying about middle school 1 hr 25 min ago
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  9. Toddler Df's teen dd is approaching obesity. She goes for walks with her friends and will occasionally play soccer and loves to swim. She goes to a very accepting school and apparently...(more) 1 hr 32 min ago (16 replies)
    when her ped told her that she was getting unhealthy and she needed to lose weight, she says "I am happy with my body and I don't need to change for anyone." Wwyd? Friend is telling me she only had healthy foods in the house and doesn't make food an issue, but dd will over eat any food.
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    • Why would you do anything? 1 hr 31 min ago
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      • OP wants to save the world 1 hr 27 min ago
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    • She's your kid? 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • M. Y. O. B. 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • What exactly would you do?? 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • Just be glad it's not your kid who is gonna have some real health problems and esteem issues down the oad and stay out of it 1 hr 30 min ago
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    • Well the mom needs to limit portions 1 hr 30 min ago
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      • Always the mom. Always. 1 hr 29 min ago
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        • Exactly, teens don't just eat what mom feeds them. 1 hr 29 min ago
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    • I know a girls like this. Very overweight but popular and it doesn't bother anyone. 1 hr 30 min ago
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    • Call social services, definitely. Maybe the newspaper, too. "There is a teen girl who is looking a little chunky. This must be stopped NOW." 1 hr 30 min ago
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    • i would refuse to talk to them ever again 1 hr 29 min ago
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    • you need to do nothing. but if you're asking what i would do if it were MY dd, i'd get more active and insist that my dd get more active as well. we'd have more salads for dinner...(more) 1 hr 27 min ago
      and make sure there's NO junk food in the house, ever. i'd also put her in an organized sport like soccer or basketball - lots of running.
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    • Thyroid? 1 hr 23 min ago
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    • Dd was getting a little chunk last year and minded. I got rid of all hfcs products and told her to keep it up outside school, for a start. She is naturally active so that helps. 1 hr 19 min ago
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  10. Toddler Does your dd starting middle school care about 1st day outfit or not? Mine is not into it at all. 1 hr 32 min ago (9 replies)
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    • First day is not until Sept 4th, but yes, it will be a BIG deal. And it will also be a big deal for my 2nd grade dd. 1 hr 30 min ago
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      • np-my 11 yr old could not give one iota what she is wearing to her first day of middle school 1 hr 30 min ago
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        • That is awesome. I seriously wish the schools had uniforms. 1 hr 29 min ago
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        • Same here. Mine just doesn't care at all about this stuff. Wonder how that all plays out 1 hr 29 min ago
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          • tritto. My 11 yr old is very low key about this stuff 1 hr 19 min ago
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    • She is obsessed with her clothes for when school starts 1 hr 27 min ago
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    • they love their clothes, my girls, just like i do. but don't care about getting something new for the first day. every day is the same. 1 hr 27 min ago
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    • she wears a uniform but will go to town on hair 1 hr 26 min ago
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    • Mine doesn't care but she's not a fashion girl 1 hr 20 min ago
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  11. Toddler Was in a Y yesterday with developing 10yo dd. They have a women's only locker room with a huge hot tub that everyone goes in naked. Dd and I are sitting there and then she does a...(more) 1 hr 33 min ago (16 replies)
    somersault. Vag and full moon to everyone sitting there. I told dd not to do it again. Dd asked why and I said that it wasn't something you should do in a hot tub and she was putting her privates a little too in people's faces. I got such a crazy look from these 2 women sitting there. Should I have let her keep doing somersaults? Or were they already appalled at the somersault and not reacting to what I said?
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    • hot tub is not for somersaults. regardless of clothed or naked 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • Lol 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • no somersaults but i would have been biting my tongue to keep from laughing hysterically if i were there 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • Who knows. Who cares what they were thinking. You did the right thing. I have never, ever been in a semi-public hot tub where it was the norm to go naked. Sauna --- yes. But hot...(more) 1 hr 31 min ago
      tub???
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    • Gross. All of it. 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • it's more that you don't do summersaults in a full tub. the privates is non applicable. 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • who knows. i think what you said is fine. I'd have reacted the same way. 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • She's 10 it's fine 1 hr 25 min ago
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    • i'm not sure i would have my 10 yo in a hot tub 1 hr 25 min ago
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      • Everyone does it. It's a big family style Korean Y. 1 hr 24 min ago
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      • are you kidding? my kids LOVE hot tubs. however, i think i would be a bit weirded out by nude public bathtubs. 1 hr 23 min ago
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        • i'm not kidding but that's just me. it's really hot for kids, plus it's a place people go to relax. having a kid jumping around is annoying. 1 hr 23 min ago
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    • I hate locker rooms with DC 1 hr 24 min ago
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    • 10 yo is too big to be doing that 1 hr 23 min ago
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    • GROSS....who gets in a hot tub naked with strangers?? 1 hr 22 min ago
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    • why the need to let us know she is developing? 1 hr 20 min ago
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  12. Toddler I know a kid that is such a little asshole. Every time I see him, he's being mean to other kids. But he keeps getting invited places. Do other people just not notice? Also,...(more) 1 hr 33 min ago (5 replies)
    why does my kid want to be friends with him? I've never seen him not being mean, except right in front of his mother.
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    • rich family? 1 hr 32 min ago
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      • Not particularly more or less than anyone else in the group. But everyone's fairly UMC. 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • is his mom popular among the other moms? 1 hr 32 min ago
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      • Yes. I don't think that she's very nice either, but at least she's polite and fun. I mostly just avoid her. 1 hr 31 min ago
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        • sounds like everyone else wants to remain on her good side, and they're offering their own kids as sacrifice. who cares if her kid is mean to their own kid as long as they're in...(more) 1 hr 25 min ago
          the popular lady's favor? I hate people.
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  13. Toddler Wait, could sunscreen cause pimples on a 7yr old? 1 hr 34 min ago (2 replies)
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    • not pimples but a raised allergic rash 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • Yes. They can clog pores & cause some bumps that way on the face IME 1 hr 20 min ago
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  14. Toddler Is it weird that i am not at all that my 18mo, my third, only has 4 words? 1 hr 35 min ago (29 replies)
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    • You don't seem to have enough words either. 1 hr 34 min ago
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      • lol concerned . I was editing on iPhone and messed it up 1 hr 34 min ago
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        • My ped told me that if my dd wasn't putting 2 words together by 2yo, I should worry. But it turned out fine. My DS, in the other hand, was significantly speech delayed and had...(more) 1 hr 32 min ago
          yesr
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          • ^^years of therapy. 1 hr 31 min ago
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          • My first didn't put two words together either and we had her evaluated and was fine 1 hr 31 min ago
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            • my second didn't at that age and we put him in therapy and it made a HUGE difference. 1 hr 30 min ago
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    • boy or girl? 1 hr 34 min ago
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      • Girl 1 hr 33 min ago
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        • i would have her checked out, especially if funds aren't an issue. early intervention makes a huge difference. 1 hr 31 min ago
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          • ^see last post 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • no! Of course not. 1 hr 34 min ago
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    • lol you have a retard kid 1 hr 33 min ago
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      • Get help for your own child. You're in denial 1 hr 32 min ago
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        • I don't think she's in denial. She's just a horrific person who enjoys spewing this line time after time. 1 hr 21 min ago
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          • your horrific 1 hr 16 min ago
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            • aw, you can't spell either. You are a pathetic loser. 1 hr 14 min ago
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              • your the loser 1 hr 13 min ago
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                • you have mental issues seriously. get some help. 1 hr 12 min ago
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    • Nah, I was like that too with my 3rd. Of course, she needed 2 years of intensive speech therapy and everyone was pretty snotty about how I should have brought her in...(more) 1 hr 32 min ago
      3 months earlier. So you might want to get it checked. Even 3rd children deserve services.
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      • ditto. that's about where my 18 mo was, and while she's fine now (and even in a gifted program - and i was SO worried) she did have 1.5 years of speech therapy 1 hr 30 min ago
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      • np-lol, im so lazy with my third. she needs a reading tutor 1 hr 30 min ago
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    • do 2 older dcs love to tell you what their sister wants? do they give her lots of attention? it's like that old joke about kid not speaking till he's 4 to bitch about his oatmal...(more) 1 hr 31 min ago
      and when mother says "omg, you can talk! why havent you said anthying till now" and 4 yo says "up till now everything was ok."
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      • except early intervention with speech delay makes a world of difference. 1 hr 29 min ago
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        • It really does. And it gets so much harder once they turn 3. It's worth it to get evaluated and start services, if required, ASAP. 1 hr 28 min ago
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          • or - i'm not saying op shouldn't mention to ped and discuss serviceds; just saying that 3rd dcs are often babied by older sibs. in the meantime, op, how abouty suggesting to sibs...(more) 1 hr 27 min ago
            that they try to get #3 to talk. make a game of it.
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            • I think that that's something people joke about, but I don't think it's actually true. If anything, 3rd kids get more face to face interaction, because they have siblings paying...(more) 1 hr 23 min ago
              attention to them.
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              • but also catering to them...i'm midddle and my younger brother was speech delayed (term didn't exist then; docs kept telling my mother he was retarded). i understood his babble...(more) 1 hr 21 min ago
                and pointing and translated for everyone.
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                • ^^and yes, the dx in 1967-68 was still retardation. 1 hr 21 min ago
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    • Mine had 2 & wound up having a speech delay. 1 hr 22 min ago
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  15. Toddler What is up with the posters on here who claim all Muslims are evil and none of them denounce the violence? are they stupid or just cynically spreading hate to get us into another...(more) 1 hr 35 min ago (22 replies)
    war?
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    • they do the same thing with blacks 1 hr 34 min ago
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    • Where are they wrong? The moderate majority is irrelevant 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • I have no idea. I started to engage with them last night on this board, and quickly realized that dealing with blind hatred is a fool's errand. 1 hr 33 min ago
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      • I do think they might be paid trolls 1 hr 25 min ago
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    • how did you find out? how do you know we regularly consult with state dept and dept of defense on u.s. policy? curses! 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • Nasser Muthana, 20, has been revealed as a key figure in a chilling recruitment video aimed at luring jihadists to Iraq. The star medical student secretly travelled to Syria from his family home in...(more) 1 hr 31 min ago
      in Cardiff with his 17-year-old brother Aseel - despite being offered the opportunity to study medicine by four universities.

      http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2663558/ISIS-releases-chilling-recruitment-video-featuring-young-British-men.html#ixzz3BDqDtTTy
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      • it's diff in england. jew hating goes back over 1000 years, so importing an entire culture that agreed with them was a no brainer. so it's back firing a bit. long term, brits will...(more) 1 hr 29 min ago
        hand their country over to jihadis on a silver platter.
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      • his furious father Ahmed Muthana, 57, said if his sons ever return to the UK, he would like to see them jailed. He added that his sons have 'betrayed his family and betrayed...(more) 1 hr 29 min ago
        betrayed Britain' - before insisting he had already binned family pictures of his boys because 'you don't keep the devil in your house.'
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        • Whatever. That's to throw off suspicion. 1 hr 28 min ago
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    • Are they denouncing? I don't hear them 1 hr 30 min ago
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      • maybe you should take your fingers out of your ears and listen to a news source other than Fox fake news. start with the link above where the father of the criminal wants to see...(more) 1 hr 26 min ago
        his son in jail
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        • Lol. One guy? That's it? 1 hr 25 min ago
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          • ita 1 hr 24 min ago
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          • I could provide you links all day and you would still stick to your agenda of claiming all Muslims are evil, if you didn't flip oit and start calling me vile names first. you are...(more) 1 hr 21 min ago
            either mentally deficient or a paid online troll trying to spread propaganda to get us into another dumb war. Or both.
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            • Sure you could. Btw, try not defending them bc you sound absolutely insane 1 hr 20 min ago
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        • I don't watch Fox news. I'm sure this father wants to throw the police off his tail and ds' so he'll say what they want him to. But you don't accidentally raise a jihadist. 1 hr 24 min ago
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          • np you're truly an idiot 1 hr 18 min ago
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            • Says the naive terrorist-lover 1 hr 17 min ago
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            • Nice try. 1 hr 17 min ago
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          • there are reasons young people become criminals, even when their parents are not. you haven't provided any proof that all Muslims support jihad. but I will provide more links...(more) 1 hr 16 min ago
            that they are not, after breakfast and maybe later after I go work out. Try to control yourself and don't call me names when I do, if that is possible for you
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            • How convenient for you! Gfy in advance :) 1 hr 12 min ago
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        • What else is he going to say? "I want all infidels beheaded!" With a cadre of reporters around him? No. 1 hr 19 min ago
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  16. Toddler College prof here. off the teen post - i can tell which of the incoming freshman had moms that made eggs for them when they whined and which did not. 1 hr 36 min ago (24 replies)
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    • how? 1 hr 35 min ago
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      • the ones who have been pampered expect me to bend over backwards to accommodate them and don't want to work hard. 1 hr 35 min ago
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        • Having your mom make you eggs does not = being pampered, jackass 1 hr 34 min ago
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          • no, but the attitudes expressed on that post do 1 hr 34 min ago
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        • and this is about making eggs? 1 hr 34 min ago
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    • @@ 1 hr 35 min ago
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    • Op of that post....I really am amazed by the responses I got 1 hr 35 min ago
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      • Either true batshit crazy insecure moms or someone playing you. Even money on that one. 1 hr 34 min ago
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      • lol, me too. you know i have parents call me sometimes? my favorite was a mom who indignantly told me "X has repeatedly asked to submit work late and you have said no every...(more) 1 hr 34 min ago
        single time"
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    • Blah blah kids today blah blah I'm old blah blah 1 hr 35 min ago
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      • i went to a brewery the other day and they played live music and it was TOO LOUD. i got all irritated, and then a bit sad. 1 hr 33 min ago
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        • I hate loud music. But I always have, even as a kid and teen. 1 hr 31 min ago
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          • lol. i just felt so old. my response was "WELL I AM GOING TO HAVE TO WRITE A REVIEW ON YELP ABOUT HOW HORRIBLY LOUD IT IS IN HERE!" 1 hr 30 min ago
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    • Much as I'd like to agree w you, you're doing the same thing those wingnuts in that thread are doing. 1 hr 35 min ago
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      • aren't we all doing the same thing here? it's an online message board. 1 hr 33 min ago
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        • I think those of us who have a brain in our head owe it to the rest of the board to be rational when we talk about stuff. 1 hr 32 min ago
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          • i think ypu're taking it way too seriously 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • What exactly are you trying to say? 1 hr 35 min ago
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      • Np from the looks of it, not much. 1 hr 34 min ago
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    • my DC make their own eggs 1 hr 33 min ago
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      • my dc raise their own chickens and harvest and cook the eggs themselves and have an egg selling business...(more) 1 hr 30 min ago
        and are generally better than your kids
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    • That is so fucking true. Make your kids be more independent, you are not doing them any favors by being their slave 1 hr 27 min ago
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    • Get over your bad self my Lib sistah 1 hr 24 min ago
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  17. Toddler I am the type of woman that has never ever looked put together. At 43, this still drives me nuts. I would need a personal stylist, keratin treatment and a guide on how to dress...(more) 1 hr 38 min ago (60 replies)
    each day.
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    • So let's talk. Keratin is easy, book it. What do you do and what's in your wardrobe? 1 hr 37 min ago
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      • SAHM, crazy frizzy hair. Jeans, long sleeve tshirt and sneakers in winter, summer is shorts and t shirt with sneakers. I have foot issues so no cute shoes. 1 hr 36 min ago
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        • np - boots! i have horrible feet issues too and boots are great. 1 hr 35 min ago
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          • Nnp, I have a bone spur sticking out of my arch, no boots. 1 hr 34 min ago
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            • op-yeah, what boots are good for PF? none 1 hr 33 min ago
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              • I have that too. I have a pair of Merrill ankle boots, not cute, but I can wear them for short periods if I have to. 1 hr 32 min ago
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                • If I cheat just one day of flip flops or flats, bam, feet are killing me 1 hr 31 min ago
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                  • Well yeah bc neither of those have any arch support. No one can wear those pain free. But a pair of Birkenstock Gizehs in a metallic are great for summer. 1 hr 29 min ago
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                    • Yes, I can wear burks for a few hours. Is so funny that others comfy shoes are my fance shoes. 1 hr 27 min ago
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                      • That could be part of the issue. Don't save the nice stuff, wear it every day! 1 hr 26 min ago
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                        • Sorry, I'm OR, not op, I meant that my feet can only tolerate those types of shoes others call comfortable for a few hours before I'm crippled. 1 hr 25 min ago
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                          • I'd up the ante on my sneaker wardrobe then. Cole Haans, New Balance is cool seasonal colors, etc. 1 hr 23 min ago
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                            • I agree, if op can. It's hard. It's also so depression to,shop for shoes when you can only buy ugly ones. 1 hr 21 min ago
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                  • have you tried fit flops? they have great support. 1 hr 27 min ago
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              • they are with inserts! i have bad PF too. 1 hr 28 min ago
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        • You can absolutely have cute shoes with foot issues. What are your jeans like? 1 hr 35 min ago
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          • bootcut, dark. Never can wear anteing else. pear shape 1 hr 34 min ago
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            • And your sneakers? Hat are we talking about? 1 hr 33 min ago
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              • yes, looks horrible. No choice, feet hurt unless I wear running shoes 1 hr 32 min ago
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                • Above poster, have you to ried Clark's? Look on zappos, read reviews, you can always send them back. 1 hr 31 min ago
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                • But what kind, colors? Are they beat up and worn? 1 hr 31 min ago
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                  • no,new, Brooks really nice 1 hr 31 min ago
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                  • Lol, those of us with foot issues can't wear old shoes, we need support. 1 hr 29 min ago
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                • np: some are still better than others. I have 2 pairs of Nike - one is dark grey and the other is black. No bright colors, no chunky funky weird heel. Get a simple running...(more) 1 hr 15 min ago
                  sneaker.
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        • So keep your ugly shoes but upgrade your jeans and Tshirts from the gap to Vince or something. 1 hr 35 min ago
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          • vince? who is that? 1 hr 34 min ago
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        • np - you sound cute. get the keratin or a cut by deva or ouidad trianed stylist. starting getting pedis every 2-3 weeks. other wise, casual is the best if you don't wohm. 1 hr 34 min ago
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        • Go for long sleeved Ts that aren't plain. They need some visual interest, some texture. Think patterns, color, details. 1 hr 33 min ago
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          • Good pt, all of mine are solid 1 hr 32 min ago
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            • np: before and again has nice long sleeved t's with patterns. 1 hr 29 min ago
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    • Ditto, but I've gotten better lately. I'm not fashionable, in that I have a "look" but it works for me. I get my hair colored regularly, wear a bit of make up and a good watch. 1 hr 36 min ago
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      • My point is that I'll never have style or anything but I can look pulled together despite it. 1 hr 35 min ago
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      • OP here, I would seriously just like to look like I care! 1 hr 35 min ago
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      • people still wear watches? 1 hr 26 min ago
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        • Old people do;). 1 hr 22 min ago
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    • unless you look like a total schlump, that hyper grooomed look that 40 something nyc women have can be aging. as long as you don't look like an unmade bed, not being perfectly put...(more) 1 hr 35 min ago
      together from head to toe can be youthful w/o tth.
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      • I think my hair makes me come off as a schlump and honestly, I have no clothes that fit me now because I lost 30 lbs this summer. I am still needing to shave 20 off so I don;t...(more) 1 hr 35 min ago
        want to buy new ones.
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        • give yourself a break! you lost 30 lbs?? you're awesome! buy yourself a few new things! 1 hr 34 min ago
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          • It's all in my face, I swear. My ass is still huge and I have thunder thighs! 1 hr 32 min ago
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        • Buy some jeans that fit, even Old Navy. 1 hr 33 min ago
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          • I know this sounds horrible but I can not even stand to spend $30 on myself until I reach my goal of losing 50 lbs 1 hr 30 min ago
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            • That is horrible. Would you tell a friend that? Seriously, buy $150 bucks worth of jeans and shirts that you look great in now. 1 hr 26 min ago
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            • np: that's part of the problem. Treat yourself to some Old Navy jeans that fit - they are on sale right now - $19. Live a little so you can feel good in the meanwhile!!! Feeling...(more) 1 hr 18 min ago
              like you look like shit will not help you reach your goal.
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    • I never wore makeup regularly until I turned 40 yo. Now I need to wear it every day (I don't use a lot). I have found that practicing yoga has really helped my posture. I am much...(more) 1 hr 35 min ago
      more aware of my body and how I carry myself. I think that counts for a lot.
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      • I need to start yoga NOW 1 hr 29 min ago
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        • Yes, you do. I love, love, love yoga. I am going to class in 2 hours. 1 hr 29 min ago
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          • Ditto, yoga is an essential part of my life. 1 hr 27 min ago
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    • if you can afford to buy some new clothes, the stylists at stores like Nordstrom and crew, etc will help you for free. They end up selling clothes so don't charge to help you...(more) 1 hr 34 min ago
      pick some outfits.
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    • ny sah sis always looks great-jacket, belt, scarf, boots or sandals 1 hr 34 min ago
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      • THIS, I WANT THIS LOOK but I am only 5'5 and still FAT 1 hr 33 min ago
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        • she's only 5'4" and has put on a few recently-the scarf can really help proportion, jacket/sweater is nice cover. (a belt can be tricky) 1 hr 28 min ago
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          • ^^i want it too-and i find i dont shop for accessories like the scarf or belt-and thats the key 1 hr 27 min ago
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            • ^^Plus as you lose weight the scarf/and some open cardigan type will still fit 1 hr 26 min ago
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            • OR below: I wear a lot of scarfs & cute hats too. The nice thing with these & that you can find cute, cheap ones all over the place in NYC! In the suburbs look at Target & other...(more) 1 hr 10 min ago
              stores like Rainbow
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        • np: you know, I'm a SAHM, and I'm not wearing boots & a cute little outfit to the park & supermarket. You don't need to look so stylish and you can still look decent in t-shirts...(more) 1 hr 11 min ago
          jeans. A lot has to do with fit, color choice.
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    • I have bad feet too. I wear nice sneakers (neutral color like dark grey), fitted t-shirts with scarves or cute casual jewelry, and jeans. Once in a while I can wear my Merrill...(more) 1 hr 16 min ago
      clogs (dark brown), but not for long periods of time. I also make sure I put on a little makeup and my hair is groomed. I have a casual style & that's just me - I do not like the uber-stylish look anyway.
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      • That's me as well. If you want to,spend some money, Mephisto has some ok looking shoes mixed in with ugly. 1 hr 15 min ago
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        • I really find the scarf or cute necklace and some bangle bracelets layered up make a big difference in looking more put together - and it's not expensive to do 1 hr 9 min ago
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          • It adds polish for sure, but if you are wearing clothes that fit you 20 lbs ago, you just look desperate. Op needs to buy a few things that look good now. 1 hr 7 min ago
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            • well yes, I agree with you there. She should go & buy a few inexpensive basics that fit well for now 1 hr 5 min ago
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  18. Toddler What should I do for my 40th bday 1 hr 38 min ago (0 replies)
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  19. Toddler So i just popped a pimple on my 7yr old's cheek. wtf? 1 hr 39 min ago (5 replies)
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    • Thanks for sharing. 1 hr 39 min ago
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    • don't pop, it can scar. 1 hr 37 min ago
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      • i had to get rid of it. i put alcohol after 1 hr 37 min ago
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        • alcohol doesn't mean it won't scar. 1 hr 34 min ago
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        • Np: why did you have to get rid of it? Who are you people? 1 hr 33 min ago
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  20. Toddler 5-0 said freeze, and I got numb 1 hr 39 min ago (0 replies)
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  21. Toddler What do I do about 6 1/2 year old dd who has temper tantrums, only at home, but all the time. She insisted on doing 3rd grade math on the computer, got frustrated and had a...(more) 1 hr 40 min ago (6 replies)
    screaming, kicking tantrum. will also tantrum at bedtime and if she can't have a snack. at school or with friends is totally fine.
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    • Get her off computer 1 hr 39 min ago
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    • no more computer. give her once chance, per week. if she fails, she gets no more until next week. no more snacks at bedtime, ever. don't give her any chances. she's old enough...(more) 1 hr 36 min ago
      now to make it from dinner until breakfast the next morning. bedtime snacks are a terrible habit to get into anyway. gl.
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      • this isn't about her control, something seems off 1 hr 35 min ago
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        • ^also, why no snacks if she's hungry. that just seems mean. 1 hr 35 min ago
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          • my bet is that she's not hungry; she's just in the habit of getting food before bed. it's a terrible habit to get into, so why perpetuate it? wasted calories right before...(more) 1 hr 33 min ago
            climbing into bed? awful!
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    • honestly, get her checked out. that's not normal. 1 hr 36 min ago
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  22. Toddler Anyone who is severely depressed on? 1 hr 40 min ago (0 replies)
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  23. Toddler I hope nothing exciting happens at this Staten Island March 1 hr 44 min ago (10 replies)
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    • what's the march about? 1 hr 42 min ago
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      • Against police brutality /Eric Garner choke hold death 1 hr 41 min ago
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        • Man if that doesn't show how the demographics of SI have changed, I don't know what does 1 hr 41 min ago
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          • They are being bussed in 1 hr 39 min ago
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    • What march? 1 hr 42 min ago
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      • You sound white. 1 hr 39 min ago
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        • she might not live in SI or in NYC at all. not everyone keep track of what is going on in NYC. 1 hr 39 min ago
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          • Ty. I live in PA 1 hr 38 min ago
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        • You sound like an asshole. Np 1 hr 37 min ago
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  24. Toddler Dh and I legally separated in June, he moved downstairs (...(more) 1 hr 46 min ago (12 replies)
    ( can't afford his own place) can I file my taxes separately? (It's a separate apt)
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    • You can file separately but married, yes. 1 hr 46 min ago
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      • My understanding g a 1 hr 42 min ago
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        • Oops was that I could file head of household if legally separated 1 hr 42 min ago
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          • Yes you can- but only 1 of you can claim the kids 1 hr 41 min ago
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            • Yeah-- that's our agreement. 1 hr 39 min ago
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    • You never have to file a joint return 1 hr 45 min ago
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    • It may be to your advantage to continue to file jointly 1 hr 44 min ago
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      • If I can file single head of household it is definitely better for me 1 hr 41 min ago
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    • Yes 1 hr 43 min ago
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    • how is that working? 1 hr 38 min ago
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      • Ok. 1 hr 36 min ago
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        • nice to have that separate apartment. 1 hr 36 min ago
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  25. Toddler I don't know how to parent my 3yow. He's my 3rd dc and my most defiant. All my calm attempts to discipline fail. Nothing seems to work. I get so frustrated and angry I wind up...(more) 1 hr 46 min ago (23 replies)
    losing my temper and flying to rages which I immediately regret and hate myself for. His morning he slapped me while I tried to be calm and direct and I lost it. I flew off the handle and frightened him. My dh tells me I give him this huge payoff by losing my temper and I see that he's right. But I feel powerless here. I don't know what to do.
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    • Your Three Year Old: Friend or Enemy by Louise Bates Ames. Dated book but will save your life. 1 hr 44 min ago
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      • Thank you so much for the rec. I will look into it 1 hr 44 min ago
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      • np: Cliff Notes? 1 hr 42 min ago
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        • np: it is a cliff notes book on normal behavior for a 3yo. you can get them a the library 1 hr 34 min ago
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    • when you get into a tense situation, pretend he's not your child. discipline him as if he wasn't yours. calm, detached. gl. 1 hr 44 min ago
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      • Thank you. I will try this too 1 hr 43 min ago
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      • Agree 1 hr 43 min ago
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      • Very good advice 1 hr 42 min ago
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      • That's a great tactic. I'm going to try this next time. 1 hr 41 min ago
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    • Google Louis CKs Kids routine for a laugh. He does a whole bit on 3yos being assholes which is pretty funny 1 hr 42 min ago
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      • I'll do this too 1 hr 38 min ago
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    • No advice, just a sorry you're having to deal with that. Btdt. My 3yo was misery. I once got so so so frustrated I actually yelled "shut the fuck up". To a 3 yo. Go ahead and...(more) 1 hr 41 min ago
      flame away, btw. Nothing anyone can say can make me feel worse about it. Total loss of control. Made me understand expression "bring you to your knees". Hang in there...at least you know he'll outgrow it. Eventually.
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      • He brought me to my knees this morning. I was in the bathroom crying on the floor. I just had no idea what to do. 1 hr 40 min ago
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    • OMG, I could have written this exact thing when my dd was 3. She was impossible and I cried almost daily because I couldn't deal with it. I can only comfort you and say that he...(more) 1 hr 41 min ago
      will outgrow this
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      • It's small comfort but I'll take what I can get. Thank you 1 hr 38 min ago
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      • Ditto and I am in the throws of a recently turned 4 yr old dd that seriously pushes me to the edge each day. 1 hr 37 min ago
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    • Only sympathy here. I cannot parent my 11.5 yo dd. We're all doing the best we can. You will figure it out, with time. Don't be too hard on yourself. Maybe your DH can step in...(more) 1 hr 37 min ago
      more at times when you are challenged.
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      • I thought that was the sweet age? 1 hr 36 min ago
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        • OMG, you have no idea. 1 hr 34 min ago
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          • ^^^ There are times I have rage toward my dd. I never, ever felt this upset when she was a toddler. Not saying that dealing with a 3 yo is easy. Just saying that I can...(more) 1 hr 33 min ago
            commiserate!
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            • my step-mom started her rought time with her pre-teen dd. they're still at each other's throats now that her dd is 14. they just don't click. i think my dad feeds it, though -...(more) 1 hr 29 min ago
              he creates a competition between the two of them. they're always vying for his approval. crazy!
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    • I have one of those. I had to switch my parenting style thinking (dogs vs. cats). The youngest of my three has to be parented more like you would a cat. Direct commands or going...(more) 1 hr 32 min ago
      head to head and you are likely to get your eyes clawed out! Be more sly and subtle. Set up the surroundings so dc does what you want but thinks he decided it himself. Flame away but it's a mindset that really works.
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    • I think we started 123 magic at that time with my 3 yo. I second the Ames book to see what was going on. Also look for ways to set up positive experiences for him. We did sticker...(more) 1 hr 32 min ago
      charts at that time for everything for dd (i just found the stack - we need a max of 5 stickers and she got a book or toy). if this is a definant child, read Kazdin's book on parenting the defiant child. it saved our lives with our dd.
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