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  1. Toddler Is True Detective any good? I want to start watching since Tim Riggins will be on next season 3 hr 39 min ago (5 replies)
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    • it's great 3 hr 39 min ago
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      • premise? 3 hr 38 min ago
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        • google. i'm not TV Guide 3 hr 37 min ago
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    • me too!! 3 hr 38 min ago
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    • i found it dull and creepy 3 hr 37 min ago
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  2. Toddler Ughhhhhh.....3.5yo just walked out of room complaining of headache and has a fever:( She has been looking forward to Halloween all month. Poor kid. 3 hr 39 min ago (4 replies)
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    • aw .booo\ 3 hr 38 min ago
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    • aw....:( 3 hr 36 min ago
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    • I would still let her go trick or treating. Just keep it on the DL. A block of houses then home to chill. 3 hr 30 min ago
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      • I would too. motrin, fresh air, a little movement. 3 hr 29 min ago
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  3. Toddler Made an off hand comment to mil about how did is struggling a little in math and how its frustrating how I can't really explain some things to her. now, almost daily, she sends me...(more) 3 hr 41 min ago (10 replies)
    An article or calls to tell me what she saw on TV or whatnot. I know its nice she wants to be involved, but I've been involved in this silly common core discussion for 3 years now, and its like she's just discovered it. Smile and nod, smile and nod....
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    • She's just sending it to you. Are you for real with this?? 3 hr 39 min ago
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      • ??? 3 hr 38 min ago
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        • What is your fucking problem? 3 hr 37 min ago
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          • seriously, what's your issue? I can't vent? she calls daily and emails similarly. its annoying but who can I complain to? so I'm here. why so freaking angry? 3 hr 36 min ago
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    • and yet you hang out here 3 hr 39 min ago
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      • yes I know, but I choose to waste time here. she's like a dog with a bonw with it. 3 hr 37 min ago
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        • We post these links all the time and you ____________ 3 hr 37 min ago
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          • oh....I rarely get involved in the debates here. I'm probably one of the few who arent hugely opposed to it...(more) 3 hr 34 min ago
            Opposed to it. You just need the right teachers who understand it and can teach it at the kids level
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  4. Toddler Kind of cool to watch this if you are interested in Hawaii lava situation...(more) 3 hr 41 min ago (0 replies)
  5. Toddler Ybm is emotionally abusive 3 hr 41 min ago (5 replies)
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    • yes, like a mean older sister 3 hr 40 min ago
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    • This is the kind of site if we were school-aged, would be brought to the attention of principals and guidance counselors 3 hr 40 min ago
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    • yup & it's spiking my anxiety now that I am pg, I can't handle it. And I feel so proud of myself when I stop coming here 3 hr 39 min ago
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    • so leaver 3 hr 39 min ago
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  6. Toddler Diy toddler costume ideas that can be worn over a coat? where can i find a pair of butterfly wings tomorrow - party city right? 3 hr 41 min ago (7 replies)
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    • party city has everything 3 hr 41 min ago
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    • I was at target tonight and they had a TON of costume stuff. 3 hr 40 min ago
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      • op: where was this target? 3 hr 40 min ago
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    • Good thing you didn't wait. 3 hr 40 min ago
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      • op: she's 20mo so she doesn't give a shit but my MIL is giving me hell over it bc we're going to a party at ds' school tomorrow. "she won't be wearing a costume!?" ...(more) 3 hr 39 min ago
        lord.
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        • at that age, it's def more for the parents/grandparents and pics 3 hr 35 min ago
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  7. Toddler Weird question...dd wrote a letter on behalf of a friend to give to friend's parents. i found it. i don't know if it was sent. do i a) say nothing b) ask dd c) send ltr d) do...(more) 3 hr 42 min ago (27 replies)
    something else?
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    • A serious issue? 3 hr 41 min ago
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      • not super-serious (although i happen to know there are some issues there). more like speaking for the kid who wasn't speaking for hersefl 3 hr 40 min ago
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        • leave it be and put it back 3 hr 40 min ago
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    • Why is choice c even there? Who would do that? 3 hr 41 min ago
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      • agreed, def. not c 3 hr 40 min ago
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    • She's like a cyreno? 3 hr 40 min ago
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      • Cyrano? yes! 3 hr 39 min ago
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        • Omg. Did you just correct my spelling?!! 3 hr 38 min ago
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          • yup 3 hr 37 min ago
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            • but I totally "got you". And that's my reward??! 3 hr 36 min ago
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              • sorry--I'm a stickler for spelling and grammar. 3 hr 36 min ago
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                • acorn falls close to the tree? maybe this makes her the likeliest candidate for class scribe 3 hr 34 min ago
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                  • good pt 3 hr 33 min ago
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                    • Bad speller and good point-maker. I see. 3 hr 31 min ago
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                      • Np: Everyone's good at something. 3 hr 31 min ago
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          • Np: it was pretty damn bad 3 hr 36 min ago
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            • One letter? 3 hr 36 min ago
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              • It's a name, and you didn't capitalize. And I just think it's a name you should know how to spell. It's a commonly referenced piece of literature 3 hr 34 min ago
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                • ^^ that wasn't op by the way (although op happens to agree) 3 hr 33 min ago
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                • Eh, you're the op & you're setting off my craydar. sorry I got involved. 3 hr 32 min ago
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                  • Nope, not op. There are enough grammarians on here that there's no reason for op to fake. What's craydar? 3 hr 31 min ago
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    • You can't ask this without telling us what the letter is about. 3 hr 40 min ago
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    • if the letter doesn't have critical information than it's not your business. 3 hr 29 min ago
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      • ok. you're right. 3 hr 29 min ago
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  8. Toddler What were the big hit songs the year you graduated from hs? 3 hr 42 min ago (28 replies)
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    • spice girls 3 hr 41 min ago
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    • Nothings Going to Stop Us Now 3 hr 41 min ago
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      • i just heard this the other day - the mannequin song 3 hr 38 min ago
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    • dave matthews 3 hr 41 min ago
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    • I try by Macy gray, amazed by lonestar, crazy Britney Spears 3 hr 41 min ago
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    • the macarena 3 hr 40 min ago
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    • REO Speedwagon. 3 hr 40 min ago
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    • Every rose has its thorn 3 hr 39 min ago
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    • Don't you forget about me 3 hr 39 min ago
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    • faith by george michael, rick astley was big and also guns and roses 3 hr 39 min ago
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      • 1988 :) 3 hr 39 min ago
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      • ^^ooh and def leppard - pour some sugar on me! 3 hr 39 min ago
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        • LOVE that song 3 hr 38 min ago
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    • Guns n roses 3 hr 39 min ago
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    • Independent Women 3 hr 39 min ago
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    • Blurred lines 3 hr 38 min ago
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    • MC Hammer - can't touch this, Janet Jackson, Depeche 3 hr 38 min ago
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    • welcome to the jungle 3 hr 38 min ago
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    • Jailhouse Rock 3 hr 37 min ago
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    • nevermind 3 hr 37 min ago
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    • Smells like Teen Spirit 3 hr 36 min ago
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    • Beat It 3 hr 32 min ago
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    • Fight for your right to paaartay 3 hr 8 min ago
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  9. Toddler Tonight dh mentioned the cute Japanese nurse that works in the hospital. Why does this bother me? 3 hr 43 min ago (4 replies)
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    • iinappropriate 3 hr 42 min ago
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    • does he work in a hospital? 3 hr 40 min ago
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    • i don't know which is worse- that he thought it was ok to tell you he found another woman cute or that he added her race. 3 hr 40 min ago
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      • seriously, someone is watching some japanese porn tonight - that's for sure. 3 hr 38 min ago
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  10. Toddler If I had my time again I'd have cancelled my wedding the way it was and combined it with my honeymoon. Then I'd have been able to afford a 5 star honeymoon instead of 3 star. AND...(more) 3 hr 43 min ago (8 replies)
    we could have bought our house 2 years earlier.
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    • My parents paid for my wedding, and I think I should have used the money for a house downpayment. but, my parents had the time of their lives. 3 hr 42 min ago
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      • well i'd hope my parents would be willing to put the same amount towards my first home instead of the wedding. 3 hr 39 min ago
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    • city hall + week at 5-star property with more staff than guests 3 hr 41 min ago
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      • I want a modest wedding and a modest honeymoon destinatio 3 hr 29 min ago
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        • np, a week in Bora Bora. 3 hr 28 min ago
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          • Too rich for my blood 3 hr 12 min ago
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            • well instead of a big wedding you can have a nicer honeymoon, i wish I did that 3 hr 9 min ago
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    • If these are your regrets and not your partner you're doing great imo 3 hr 34 min ago
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  11. Toddler Boyfriend and I had an argument last night. This morning I apologized via text and no response from him all day. This sucks 3 hr 44 min ago (11 replies)
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    • men can so as they please 3 hr 43 min ago
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    • i could not date in this era of texting, which is why I am never getting a divorce. 3 hr 43 min ago
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      • It definitely took a lot of navigating to get used to it. But since he's ignoring me I'm not really inclined to call him 3 hr 42 min ago
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        • Inclined? Just don't call him. 3 hr 41 min ago
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          • I'm not calling him 3 hr 40 min ago
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            • phew. it does suck. i'm sorry 3 hr 40 min ago
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              • Thx. I hate going to bed feeling this way. 3 hr 36 min ago
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                • you'll feel better in the morning. take a hot bath or a hot cup of tea and go read a book or watch TV or something 3 hr 33 min ago
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      • That's a dumb reason 3 hr 40 min ago
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    • that does suck 3 hr 42 min ago
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    • he sucks. 3 hr 34 min ago
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  12. Toddler I'm going to go get more wine. I'm depressed 3 hr 44 min ago (4 replies)
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    • Wine makes it all better. I approve of more wine :) 3 hr 43 min ago
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      • Not better tomorrow, though. 3 hr 43 min ago
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        • take advil before bed and drink water. Feel better 3 hr 42 min ago
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    • Wine is no good for depression. It's a depressant 3 hr 35 min ago
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  13. Toddler Is my iud good for 10 yrs? what happens after that? tia 3 hr 45 min ago (16 replies)
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    • Copper? 3 hr 44 min ago
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      • yes 3 hr 43 min ago
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        • Yup. After that. Decide if you want kids or another form of bc. 3 hr 41 min ago
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          • i'll be 45 when 10 yrs are up. done w/ having kids but probably still capable. 3 hr 39 min ago
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            • Either dh gets taken care of or you do something.another IUD, I did Essure. 3 hr 36 min ago
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    • omg, i read that as it it ok for your 10 yo. 3 hr 44 min ago
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    • Get another 3 hr 43 min ago
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      • it hurt like a motherfucker going in 3 hr 42 min ago
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    • i kept the first one much longer than that. It worked fine. 3 hr 38 min ago
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      • and we have a winner. that was the answer i was hoping for :( 3 hr 37 min ago
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        • ^^^ :) 3 hr 36 min ago
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          • even if the copper wore off, I figured it was stills something in my uterus that prevented implantation. 3 hr 36 min ago
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            • It eventually slipped after maybe 15 years, I then had kids, and when I got a second one, my dr decided I needed something terrifying shaped like a trilobite. I decided I was...(more) 3 hr 34 min ago
              just never ever going to get it out, but when I did it didn't hurt at all
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              • a second IUD, not a second kid ! (mercifully she wasn't shaped like a trilobite) 3 hr 33 min ago
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    • We pull it out and that's that! 3 hr 34 min ago
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  14. Toddler Favorite disney restaurant? 3 hr 45 min ago (21 replies)
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    • the moroccan one at epcot 3 hr 44 min ago
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      • Yum, I liked that one too. We also liked the Liberty Tree, the food was so good. 3 hr 43 min ago
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        • where is that one? 3 hr 43 min ago
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          • Mk 3 hr 43 min ago
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            • what kind of food? I missed that one 3 hr 42 min ago
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              • Kind of like TG dinner 3 hr 41 min ago
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                • ^^family style 3 hr 41 min ago
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                • yum 3 hr 41 min ago
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                • NP did you actually eat the the turkey dinner? Because I did, and it was bad!! 3 hr 35 min ago
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                  • np: we went for the lunch only - plus then you can pick your dessert (the sticky toffee thing). at the dinner I think you get the johnny appleseed cake 3 hr 33 min ago
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                    • The lunch food is actually good. The turkey dinner is not! 3 hr 32 min ago
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                      • good to know, we'll stick to lunch there! actually, coming from NYC i hate to say it but the food hype at Disney is grossly overrated. 3 hr 31 min ago
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                        • What do you mean hype is overrated 3 hr 31 min ago
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                          • i mean the food is over-rated. I read so many 'reviews' about foodies and Disney and it just didn't live up to my expectations, although some places were a lot better than others. 3 hr 29 min ago
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                            • OMG, so true. We went to le Cellier - people make it out to be this second coming of Christ dinner. Average at best 3 hr 28 min ago
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                              • yeah, i guess if you don't have many options where you live it's great, but being in nyc you get your choice of any ethnic food, and usually very good food, so...but it's still...(more) 3 hr 17 min ago
                                fun.
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        • LOVE their sticky toffee cake dessert, def worth the splurge. 3 hr 41 min ago
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    • Boma at Animal Kingdom 3 hr 43 min ago
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  15. Toddler Is it easier to learn french and then Spanish or vice Verasa 3 hr 47 min ago (5 replies)
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    • ^ whoa. Versa 3 hr 47 min ago
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    • spanish is easy after french 3 hr 46 min ago
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    • I'm learning spanish now after having learned french; my guess is it doesn't matter. Learning either one helps to learn the other 3 hr 46 min ago
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    • Been trying to learn French for years! Live in Montreal and it's not easy--the accent throws me off. 3 hr 45 min ago
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      • I think I would pick up French faster in Paris than Montreal. 3 hr 44 min ago
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  16. Toddler I'm glad that girl with the terminal illness is not going to kill herself this weekend. 3 hr 47 min ago (12 replies)
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    • IDC. only reason anyone gives a fuxk is BC she is oretty 3 hr 46 min ago
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      • She was pretty. Now her cushings has distorted her face a lot. (She is still pretty but not model pretty like before) 3 hr 37 min ago
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    • She's not? 3 hr 45 min ago
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      • No she says she's not readyl Thank God! 3 hr 45 min ago
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        • Oh good 3 hr 44 min ago
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        • oof so sad and disturbing to think about this 3 hr 42 min ago
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    • I thought she said Nov 1 or something close? i avoid the story when i see it actually, it's very disturbing 3 hr 45 min ago
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      • That would be this weekend 3 hr 43 min ago
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    • i'm very grateful i have no idea what you're talking about 3 hr 44 min ago
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    • She changed her mind? I am 100% for death with dignity laws, but I do admit it was freaking me out that she wasn't that close to death and going to end her life. 3 hr 38 min ago
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    • Very sad story. Whatever she wants.. 3 hr 37 min ago
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    • Wow--I was just thinking about her. 3 hr 37 min ago
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  17. Toddler Affair mom from all week said she was as killing herself tonight. u was nor nice to her. worried a little 3 hr 48 min ago (10 replies)
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    • No, I wasn't, and neither were other people, but start to finish it was attention seeking. I suspect you are she. 3 hr 46 min ago
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      • no. just scared of karma 3 hr 45 min ago
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    • I'm an affair mom but I didn't see her posts. Why did she want to kill herself? 3 hr 45 min ago
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    • wait not the one who sexted the friend with benefits even though he asked her to stop? 3 hr 45 min ago
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      • y. said shed call him from her car running in the garage 3 hr 44 min ago
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        • OMG that woman really needs help. 3 hr 40 min ago
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      • Which was an affair who moved away and told her not to contact him but she did anyway. 3 hr 42 min ago
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    • i think it really has to be a long elaborate fake. Nobody can be that neurotic in that annoying a way 3 hr 36 min ago
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      • what of she's teal. we 3 hr 9 min ago
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    • honestly. if she doesn't post the morrow I'm going to feel like shit 3 hr 2 min ago
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  18. Toddler We're having a Halloween costume at work and hardly anyone is into it. I think I'm going to dress up regardless, may be the only one from my office! 3 hr 48 min ago (1 reply)
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    • That's the spirit! 3 hr 47 min ago
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  19. Toddler Do you think plastic surgery shaming (ala renee zellweger) is misogynistic? It's like aging women can't win if they look old or have obvious plastic surgery. The women who have...(more) 3 hr 48 min ago (34 replies)
    "good" plastic surgery (look young for their age) don't get shamed. WDYT?
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    • please shut up 3 hr 48 min ago
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    • no 3 hr 48 min ago
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    • Well, if women are treated well and poorly for plastic surgery, it can't be based (at least soley) on sex. 3 hr 48 min ago
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    • Of course it is! 3 hr 47 min ago
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    • i do think it's misogynistic, as women are more pressured to do it. 3 hr 47 min ago
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      • no one puts a gun to their head to do it. and plenty of men are nipped and tucked (and mocked) as well 3 hr 46 min ago
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        • are you saying that the pressure to look young in face and body is equal for men? 3 hr 45 min ago
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          • that's not what OP was talking about. she was talking about the public reaction to surgery that had already occured 3 hr 44 min ago
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    • This post has been disliked 3 times. showomg you women and your inane buzzwords/phrases. the "shaming" meme. sigh. i didn't see anyone shaming her. i saw people understandably commenting on a major celebrity looking...(more) 3 hr 46 min ago
      utterly unrecognizable from her former self
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      • i know. they latch on to every last one of them. such basic bitches on YBM these days 3 hr 45 min ago
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        • wrong usage 3 hr 41 min ago
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          • of what, dear? 3 hr 39 min ago
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            • basic bitches 3 hr 39 min ago
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              • nah, it's apt. predictable, prone to falling in line, regurgitating simpleminded thoughts and catchphrases 3 hr 37 min ago
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                • sonwtimes it's appropriate to call it shaming, maybe not here. But you're just as guilty with your calling others basic botches, ironically 3 hr 37 min ago
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                  • i disagree :) 3 hr 36 min ago
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                    • about what, my dear? On here it is now supremely basic bitch of you, according to your definition, to call others basic bitches 3 hr 35 min ago
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                      • the basic bitch thing is fun and harmless. the "shaming" tag is ponderous and usually said by the type of person everyone else RUNS away from at a cocktail party :) 3 hr 34 min ago
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                      • ^ I would also argue that the stereotype of the basic bitch would be more inclined to dismiss feminism 3 hr 33 min ago
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                        • let me guess: you just LOVE jezebel and have a decade-old NPR tote :) 3 hr 32 min ago
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                          • nope, I decamped from Jezebel in annoyance 6 years ago. 3 hr 31 min ago
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                            • HA! 3 hr 31 min ago
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                              • It was fun before the commenters there ... I don't know. It's almost worse than here. 3 hr 29 min ago
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                            • ^ and I don't use symbols like npr support or fashion etc to identify myself 3 hr 31 min ago
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                              • omg i can totally picture you. are you full on lez or did you give that up after college? 3 hr 29 min ago
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                                • Just pretty and glamorous the way I was born 3 hr 28 min ago
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                                  • teehee 3 hr 27 min ago
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                                    • Im much better than you 3 hr 26 min ago
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                          • she totally does. teehee. love you 3 hr 31 min ago
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                            • a love based on lies 3 hr 29 min ago
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      • that's not a mem 3 hr 45 min ago
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        • you know what i meant. 3 hr 44 min ago
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    • bad surgery get shamed for anyone 3 hr 35 min ago
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    • ita 3 hr 24 min ago
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  20. Toddler So, we 3 hr 49 min ago (0 replies)
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  21. Toddler I made posole (soup with chicken in it) two nights ago. Still OK to eat the leftovers? 3 hr 49 min ago (10 replies)
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    • You're good thru next Tues. 3 hr 49 min ago
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    • Of course 3 hr 49 min ago
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    • I thought posole was hominy and pork. 3 hr 48 min ago
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      • i made it with chicken. It was really good! I'm going to go eat the leftovers now that I have everybody's blessing 3 hr 47 min ago
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        • Did you use canned hominy or dried? 3 hr 46 min ago
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      • Traditional is red chile, pork and hominy. But my MIL makes and amazing green chile, chicken and hominy one. So good with sliced cabbage and diced onion. 3 hr 45 min ago
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        • ooh I have some cabbage but I'm out of avocado. Maybe I'l slice some up. Thanks for the suggestion 3 hr 44 min ago
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          • Splash of lime too if you have it. 3 hr 43 min ago
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  22. Toddler Ds and his girlfriend told me when they're ready to be married they want to elope. They don't want a big wedding. They want to go to some island paradise with like 4 people and...(more) 3 hr 49 min ago (42 replies)
    get married. They say they want to spend the money saved on a better honeymoon, bigger diamond ring and put the rest towards a house. When they come back they'll just have a party for family and friends. Is this selfish? They say they don't want to spend 50k on a wedding just to entertain people they don't like so they can keep up with the weddings of other people they don't like.
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    • ages? 3 hr 49 min ago
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      • ds is 23, she is 22 3 hr 48 min ago
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        • wow so wise for so young 3 hr 48 min ago
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    • they're so much wiser than I was at that age. When I think back to all the money spent on my wedding which was a glorified 1 day party and all the much more worthwhile longterm...(more) 3 hr 48 min ago
      things that could have been achieved with the money.
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    • But they do want to spend it on a ring? 3 hr 46 min ago
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      • part of it on a bigger ring than they'd other wise afford. And the logic is the ring is there for life and entirely for them, the wedding is a 1 day party that is just spent on...(more) 3 hr 45 min ago
        feeding and entertaining others
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      • This is where they lost me. They should get a cz and go to europe for 6 weeks. That is what I did. It was AWESOME. 3 hr 44 min ago
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    • They'll spend 15k on the island paradise, 10k on the honeymoon, 15k on ring and 20k on "big party". We're not saving money here 3 hr 44 min ago
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      • the honeymoon will be on the island paradise, you don't have to count that twice. And the party at home will not be 20k. It'll be a simple get together. Maybe 1-2k max. 3 hr 42 min ago
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        • So.. No food or booze 3 hr 41 min ago
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          • well that would be the 1-2k. For 2000 dollars you can buy plenty of food and booze. 3 hr 40 min ago
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            • So .. Make that the wedding 3 hr 40 min ago
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              • but if you call it a wedding then it gets compared to all the other bitches who spent 50k. If it's a post wedding party then there's less pressure. 3 hr 39 min ago
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                • They sound young 3 hr 38 min ago
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                  • 23 and 22. They're planning this for about 2 years from now. 3 hr 38 min ago
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                    • Maybe they'll be old enough to not feel the need for big rings and fantasy island by then. 3 hr 37 min ago
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                      • but wanting a 1 day party is a more mature way to spend 50,000? 3 hr 36 min ago
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                        • The ideal that they think that's an insane amount to spend, and now will spend it anyway, makes them sound young. Take your "house party", up the budget to 8k. Then call it a...(more) 3 hr 33 min ago
                          day. It's not a multi event extravaganza.
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                          • but they're getting a week long 5 star honeymoon AND a very ring that is there for life AND a house deposit all in place of a 1 day event that most people forget about by the end...(more) 3 hr 31 min ago
                            of the week, THat seems like making your money go much much much further.
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          • Or a photographer or music or rented tables 3 hr 40 min ago
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            • op, well no none of that. just food and booze and a fun house party 3 hr 38 min ago
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              • For how many people? 3 hr 37 min ago
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      • true on on the 1st 2. they can do a not so fancy party 3 hr 42 min ago
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    • Smart kids 3 hr 44 min ago
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    • right on 3 hr 44 min ago
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    • I spent 10k on my wedding. Why do they feel the need to spend the money somehow? 3 hr 43 min ago
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      • i think the motehr feels the need 3 hr 40 min ago
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    • not really selfish unless you want to be a part of their special day 3 hr 43 min ago
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    • Whose money are they saving? 3 hr 43 min ago
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    • Do they have 50k? 3 hr 43 min ago
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      • not yet but that's the going rate of weddings these days, and they'd ask us to contribute to their house deposit instead of to the wedding 3 hr 41 min ago
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        • But you're not invited? 3 hr 39 min ago
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          • paying 25k for a glorified party invitation seems kinda irrational. 3 hr 37 min ago
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            • Huh? 3 hr 36 min ago
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              • if you're paying for the wedding just to be invited that is crazy. what about spending the same money to help your kid get his/her first home 3 hr 35 min ago
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                • If your kid wants to elope, hate off. But don't make mom and dad pay! 3 hr 33 min ago
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                  • so again, why would you be willing to pay for a wedding but not a house deposit? 3 hr 31 min ago
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    • They realize that the gifts they would get would offset any costs of a big wedding. If they go away alone old there won't be any gifts 3 hr 42 min ago
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    • Who are they lucky "special people". Not mom and dad? Who is paying for it? 3 hr 42 min ago
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    • It's THEIR wedding. They can do whatever they'd like. If I were you I'd just say congratulations and smile a lot, you're getting a daughter-in-law! 3 hr 42 min ago
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  23. Toddler Moms who were emotionally abused by a spouse, can you give examples of the abuse? My Dh can be nasty but not sure I would characterize his behavior as abusive 3 hr 51 min ago (9 replies)
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    • that is one really overused word 3 hr 51 min ago
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    • Calling you names, putting you down, hyper critical 3 hr 49 min ago
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      • oh brother 3 hr 47 min ago
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        • "You're a fucking stupid bitch" - abusive 3 hr 46 min ago
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        • You don't think a spouse who calls you a cunt-bitch daily is abusive at all? 3 hr 46 min ago
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    • does it have to be "abuse"? If you are unhappy, you do not need further excuses or terminology. Your unhappiness is sufficient of itself, no 3 hr 45 min ago
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    • mocks me when I cry, likes to tease me by holding my arm when he knows I want to do something like answer the phone and laughs when I can't break his grip. we are seperated 3 hr 39 min ago
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    • blowing you off. not willing to talk to you or engage. being mean and not caring. not ever holding your hand or connecting with you emotionally or physicially 3 hr 35 min ago
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  24. Toddler Any suggestions for underwear for the last couple of months of pregnancy and postpartum? I always wear thong type and I'm not sure if I can go to wear full panties but open for...(more) 3 hr 52 min ago (2 replies)
    suggestions
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    • Low rise bikinis. 3 hr 52 min ago
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    • dh's tighty whiteys 3 hr 49 min ago
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  25. Toddler How many fb friends do you have? How old are you? I am 36 and have 502 3 hr 52 min ago (10 replies)
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    • 560/43 3 hr 52 min ago
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    • 40, no more than 150 3 hr 52 min ago
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    • just over 900. 46yo. 3 hr 52 min ago
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    • I hate friend collectors 3 hr 50 min ago
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    • 250ish/ 49 3 hr 48 min ago
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    • not sure, i pared it down to only people i am truly interested in talking to. it's between 100-150, 44 yo 3 hr 48 min ago
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    • 70-80? I"m 39 3 hr 47 min ago
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    • i don't do fb 3 hr 46 min ago
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    • 680/36 3 hr 41 min ago
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