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  1. Toddler Cheaters: who make the first move? Are you flirty? 1 hr 23 min ago (1 reply)
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    • Me, not really but at times. 1 hr 21 min ago
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  2. Toddler Just watched the movie Disconnect. It was actually really good. 1 hr 23 min ago (0 replies)
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  3. Toddler Hhi =155 or so. how much house can we afford? assume no debt, no extraordinary assets. 1 hr 23 min ago (18 replies)
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    • How much saved for down payment 1 hr 23 min ago
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      • enough. I want to know about the income/mortgage part, not factoring in downpayment. 1 hr 22 min ago
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        • But that depends in the down payment. 1 hr 20 min ago
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        • Any bank nowadays wants to see at least 30% down and more money in savings 1 hr 20 min ago
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          • Whaaaat? 30 down?!? 1 hr 19 min ago
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          • Not true, signed NYC realtor 1 hr 19 min ago
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          • Oy 1 hr 19 min ago
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        • Uhhhh 1 hr 19 min ago
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        • Enough for what? You don't know how much the house costs. 1 hr 19 min ago
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    • depends on down payment but about 300k 1 hr 22 min ago
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    • How much do you have for a down payment and what is your monthly drag. Nevermind. Google "mortgage income calculator " 1 hr 22 min ago
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    • Mortgage if 2-2.5 x HHI, depending on childcare costs, cars, loans etc. 1 hr 22 min ago
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    • I have buyers that make 140 and they are pre approved for 330. That's their top though. 1 hr 21 min ago
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    • Mortgage of 300 max depends on taxes though 1 hr 21 min ago
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    • 300-3500 1 hr 17 min ago
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    • OP_ ty. I should have phrased the question as 'how much mortgage could we get?' as I'm not worried about dp, just want to know whatbank might give at this point. 1 hr 12 min ago
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  4. Toddler DH asked me during sex last night to talk dirty to him. had best sex in a long time 1 hr 24 min ago (8 replies)
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    • yes, DH & I do this all the time. Was weird at first, but now gets is VERY hot and heavy 1 hr 23 min ago
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    • Gettin crrazy 1 hr 22 min ago
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    • did you say "your car!", "kitchen!", "bathroom!"...? 1 hr 21 min ago
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      • Your underwear after you poop! 1 hr 15 min ago
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    • what did you say? First time? 1 hr 21 min ago
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    • I think dh would like this but I have NO IDEA now to do this/ what to say 1 hr 19 min ago
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      • TMI.....(more) 1 hr 17 min ago
        I told him how wet I get thinking of him inside of me....then he started asking me questions and would answer them w/dirty talk, etc....was very hot!
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  5. Special Needs Los Angeles area- parents: I need recommendations for middle schools that might serve my high-functioning child with autism. Has anyone heard of The Frostig School? 1 hr 24 min ago (1 reply)
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    • Bridges Academy 1 hr 6 min ago
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  6. Toddler How regularly do you and dh have sex? Satisfied? 1 hr 24 min ago (17 replies)
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    • I am single and very satisfied 1 hr 23 min ago
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    • 2 times a week and no. But I work nights right now and that really sucks for our sex life. 1 hr 22 min ago
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    • 5-6 times per week. Very satisfied . 1 hr 22 min ago
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      • how old are you? Was it always this way? 1 hr 21 min ago
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        • 46. Yes, always 1 hr 20 min ago
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          • do you mind tell me when your bdays are with the year? 1 hr 13 min ago
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            • Why ? That's an unusual question? 1 hr 5 min ago
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      • np - just met a woman last night who told me she and her DH do it 4+times a week and the entire table of about 9 women all sat there in disbelief! 1 hr 17 min ago
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        • we did it 4x last week, i wanted a cash payment 1 hr 15 min ago
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        • I believe that. Some of my friends are stunned too. I've always loved dh and I'm very happy we still have n amazing sex life. 1 hr 14 min ago
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          • or - We are both exhausted b/c 3 hasn't ever been a good sleeper, but also my sex drive died with my thryoid issue so am treating that and am hoping it will change... he is...(more) 1 hr 10 min ago
            totally sexy though and I love him - it is just so strange not to even have the urge really...
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            • I hope you're better soon 1 hr 6 min ago
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              • or - thank YOU. That is sweet... me too! 1 hr 5 min ago
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    • 1-2x per year. No. 1 hr 21 min ago
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    • 5-7 times a week, he's a stud and I'm a happy lady 1 hr 19 min ago
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      • where do you find a man like this 1 hr 12 min ago
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  7. Toddler 8 yo DD has always played with mostly boys. little nerdy boys, they do oragami or make believe stuff. but they also now randomly wrestle or one suggested they play twister....(more) 1 hr 25 min ago (26 replies)
    they were playing an innocent enough game in the back yard and the boy held DD down and was spanking her. I don't want to assume the worst but I want to get ahead of whatever boundaries we might need to set up in the next year or so. anyone BTDT with girl/boy relationships?
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    • I have. Once when I was the little girl and now with dd 1 hr 23 min ago
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      • and how did/do you handle? 1 hr 21 min ago
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        • Dd is 7 now the boys she's playing with around the same age. Yes they play rough but it's nothing I interfere with. I'm sure she will change the way they play by the time she...(more) 1 hr 18 min ago
          starts going through puberty, just like I di
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          • ah ok. I am hoping these boys (all nice otherwise sweet /well behaved) would not get out of hand. it is just puppy play at this point. but when we were kids there were much...(more) 1 hr 14 min ago
            brighter lines between boys/girls at that age.
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            • Not for me. I was a total tomboy and always had more fun playing with boys tan girls. I would come home scratched and bruised 1 hr 11 min ago
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              • It wasn't anything they did to me, I was always trying to one up them. I had to jump from the highest ledge, climb the biggest tree and jump out, play chicken the best. I was nuts 1 hr 9 min ago
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    • I tell dd no one has permission to touch her against her will. But that seems kind of creepy wet soabkin 1 hr 21 min ago
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      • ..wrt spanking 1 hr 21 min ago
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      • op - oddly there's a very in-your-face girl on her soccer team who practically dry humps girls on the side line. They all tell her to bug off but she's relentless. poor kids...(more) 1 hr 20 min ago
        have no peace.
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        • Poor kid that would worry me 1 hr 18 min ago
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          • the girl has some behavioral issue for sure, a maniac on the soccer field, a mess in school. 1 hr 16 min ago
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    • talk to dd and I would say no playdates with that boy in a while 1 hr 20 min ago
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      • ^at 8.. they should know better. 1 hr 20 min ago
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        • hmmm yeah, although DD and her 7 yo sister, 5 yo brother do that kind of stuff all the time. they're like a pack of puppies constantly rolling aorund with each other. 1 hr 19 min ago
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          • yes.. that's why you have to talk to her. Brothers and sisters are different from playdates.... 1 hr 15 min ago
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            • yes yes. 1 hr 14 min ago
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              • no biggie, just remind her who is and who isn't allowed to touch her 1 hr 11 min ago
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        • np: really? Dd is 7 and would not have the slightest idea. Can't imagine that in a year she'll know that much better. 50 min ago
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    • nerdy boys are really weird like that 1 hr 19 min ago
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    • Did she like it or was she pissed? 1 hr 18 min ago
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      • they were laughing. playing keep away and just messing around. definitely not doing anything she wasn't comfortable with. 1 hr 15 min ago
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        • Then leave her be. Trust me, she will be in charge of when it stops 1 hr 13 min ago
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          • I got breast buds and tackle football was suddenly all my friends wanted to play. I ended that real quick! 1 hr 3 min ago
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            • ok that makes me feel better but at the same time freaks me out!! we're entering an entirely new phase... 1 hr 1 min ago
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              • Lol, I know exactly what you mean. My mom was horrified when I told her Michael touched my chest in the tackle pile so I had to punch him in the nose. She thought it was my blood...(more) 57 min ago
                on my shirt. All these years later and even though I'm a lady I still have a tomboy streak. Dh and will wrestle when dcs aren't around
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  8. Toddler Poll for accuracy: Have you cheated on dh (like yes or no) 1 hr 26 min ago (14 replies)
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    • yes 1 hr 25 min ago
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    • no 1 hr 25 min ago
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    • I kissed someone - is that cheating? 1 hr 25 min ago
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    • No 1 hr 25 min ago
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    • Yes! 1 hr 25 min ago
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      • np: How did this come about? I wouldn't know where to meet somebody 1 hr 18 min ago
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    • Yes, repratedly 1 hr 24 min ago
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      • np: How did this come about? I wouldn't know where to meet somebody 1 hr 17 min ago
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    • no 1 hr 24 min ago
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    • ugh. You bitches can't follow directions. 1 hr 23 min ago
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    • like no way, dude. 1 hr 23 min ago
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    • No 1 hr 22 min ago
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  9. Toddler If you have two glasses of water and then take a medication...(more) 1 hr 26 min ago (3 replies)
    That says should be taken with two glasses of water are two additional glasses necessary
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    • no 1 hr 26 min ago
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    • You will float away, ffs. What med is this 1 hr 26 min ago
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    • No that is fine. 1 hr 24 min ago
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  10. Toddler Who here has cheated on DH? 1 hr 29 min ago (48 replies)
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    • On exh. 1 hr 28 min ago
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    • Me 1 hr 28 min ago
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      • still married? 1 hr 28 min ago
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        • Yes but wish I wasnt 1 hr 27 min ago
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          • op: I might be in a similar situation... why are you still married? 1 hr 25 min ago
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            • Dh is controlling alcoholic, I am co-dependent, waiting for dcs to get older. 1 hr 24 min ago
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              • sorry :( best wishes. Keep cheating... 1 hr 23 min ago
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                • You are the first who has ever said that to me. 1 hr 20 min ago
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                  • just try not to get hurt, okay? 1 hr 19 min ago
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                    • Or hurt anyone else? 1 hr 18 min ago
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                      • nah, worry about yourself 1 hr 17 min ago
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                        • ^of course, your children, but mostly, yourself 1 hr 16 min ago
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                          • I am careful. Thanks :) 1 hr 15 min ago
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                            • I mean your affair partner really. 1 hr 14 min ago
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                              • Ah, don't worry, he's fine. I'm the one in pain more often. He's living the life! 1 hr 13 min ago
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    • me 1 hr 28 min ago
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      • still married? 1 hr 27 min ago
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    • guilty 1 hr 28 min ago
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    • only twice, married 22 years 1 hr 27 min ago
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      • op: LOL... really loved your "only" :D 1 hr 27 min ago
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      • oh. "only" 1 hr 24 min ago
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    • I've never cheated on anyone, hit anyone, or driven drink. 1 hr 27 min ago
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      • Geez. Live. Little 1 hr 25 min ago
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      • did two of the three 1 hr 23 min ago
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    • i have never met the man 1 hr 27 min ago
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    • emo affair 1 hr 27 min ago
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      • Emo + here 1 hr 26 min ago
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      • I've had like 10 of those. 1 hr 25 min ago
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    • Me 1 hr 27 min ago
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    • me. 1 hr 27 min ago
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    • I'm shocked so many of you have cheated. 1 hr 26 min ago
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      • Why? I am sure many of the clevelanders hang out on toddler too 1 hr 25 min ago
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      • Well, she asked for cheaters to answer. 1 hr 25 min ago
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        • exactly.... it's not national statistics 1 hr 24 min ago
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      • You're on a site with an infidelity forum! 1 hr 24 min ago
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    • WTH? There are a lot of cheaters here! 1 hr 26 min ago
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    • once 1 hr 26 min ago
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    • OP HERE!!!! I AM NOT JUDGING!!!!! 1 hr 25 min ago
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    • only 2 and a half times 1 hr 24 min ago
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      • LOL, define the "half" part.... 1 hr 23 min ago
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      • Describe the half. Please 1 hr 23 min ago
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    • Me 1 hr 20 min ago
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    • me 1 hr 17 min ago
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    • on a few business trips, flings 1 hr 14 min ago
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  11. Toddler Dd's birthday party is next weekend, i'll serve hot dogs, popcorn, pizzas, cupcakes, donuts, nachos, fruit salad, chicken pie. What else shoul i serve them? 1 hr 29 min ago (27 replies)
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    • jesus christ 1 hr 29 min ago
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      • Itda. She shouldn't use a kids birthday party as an opportunity for religious conversion. 1 hr 27 min ago
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        • Np: I've actually had that happen! 1 hr 11 min ago
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    • sounds like a lot!!! .... can I come? 1 hr 29 min ago
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      • op: yes, i love birthday parties 1 hr 28 min ago
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        • I'll be there. That said, you would be fine with half of that. Not being snarky, just trying to save you some work.... 1 hr 26 min ago
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          • op: my mom is helping me 1 hr 25 min ago
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            • I would say skip the chicken pie and have a green salad. 1 hr 12 min ago
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    • The kitchen sink? 1 hr 28 min ago
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    • A vegetable? How many people? That's a lot of choices. 1 hr 28 min ago
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      • op: 15 kids plus 6-8 adults. 1 hr 27 min ago
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        • Ditch the hot dogs and chicken pie. Get a salad. For starters... 1 hr 26 min ago
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          • Get rid of the nachos and donuts too. 1 hr 25 min ago
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          • or a fruit platter, geez. np 1 hr 25 min ago
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    • say wine and I will marry you 1 hr 28 min ago
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      • op: we'll have that too 1 hr 27 min ago
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        • marry me, random youbeposter 1 hr 10 min ago
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    • Omg how many people are you expecting, 45? 1 hr 28 min ago
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    • lose about half of it. what time of day is party? 1 hr 28 min ago
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      • op: 3:00-6:00 but it will be at home. if the kids want to stay more it's not a problem so i need food 1 hr 25 min ago
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        • ffs. serve pizza, veggie sticks, and fruit salad (and cupcakes). deal with dinner later if you must 1 hr 24 min ago
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          • op: no way i'm going to cook dinner next saturday 1 hr 21 min ago
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            • op: i'm even thinking about bbq for the adults and the kids of course. 1 hr 21 min ago
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    • WHAT? How about pizza and veggie sticks, then cake? 1 hr 26 min ago
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    • Chicken pie? 1 hr 26 min ago
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    • Lose the donuts and chicken pie, add a tossed salad 1 hr 26 min ago
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      • op: i like the salad idea 1 hr 24 min ago
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  12. Toddler I love the song Waves.Mr.Probz is kind of fine too. 1 hr 29 min ago (0 replies)
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  13. Toddler Told dh the less he does the less I need him around. Fucker does nothing! 1 hr 30 min ago (2 replies)
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    • same boat here, I can't freaking stand him now. 1 hr 27 min ago
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      • how long married? 1 hr 14 min ago
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  14. Toddler Did the birthday party mom check back in? Did anyone show up to her son's party? 1 hr 30 min ago (1 reply)
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    • didnt she post she was distributing cocaine? 1 hr 12 min ago
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  15. Toddler I still can't believe that Phil Hartmans wife killed him and then did she kill herself? That was so disturbing 1 hr 30 min ago (9 replies)
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    • Who is that 1 hr 29 min ago
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    • Awful 1 hr 29 min ago
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    • I was in Ireland when that happened. 1 hr 29 min ago
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      • AND......? 1 hr 28 min ago
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        • I'm Troy McClure. You may remember me from such vacations as Iteland 1998 and Belgium 2004. 1 hr 25 min ago
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      • Good to know 1 hr 28 min ago
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      • No one asked for an alibi, but you sound super suspicious. 1 hr 27 min ago
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    • yes she did. bryn i think was a coke addict. 1 hr 27 min ago
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    • this is like 25yr old news, no? 1 hr 12 min ago
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  16. Toddler Who is Caroline Kennedy married to again. 1 hr 30 min ago (2 replies)
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    • Ed Schlossberg 1 hr 27 min ago
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    • wasn't she cheating with punch? 1 hr 24 min ago
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  17. Toddler Walked in on DH jerking off in shower this morning. shower glass was fogged over, so I don't think he noticed. This ever happen to...(more) 1 hr 30 min ago (21 replies)
    anyone else?
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    • I wish. 1 hr 29 min ago
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    • Im sure it has. Whats the big deal? Why didnt you jump in with him? 1 hr 29 min ago
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      • op - not a big deal in general, it just caught me by surprise 1 hr 27 min ago
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    • You sound shocked. 1 hr 29 min ago
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      • yeah, it just caught me off guard. we masturbate in front of each other, but never walked in on him unexpectedly 1 hr 28 min ago
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        • why didnt you announce yoyrself, let him know? 1 hr 27 min ago
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          • i almost did, but was just caught off guard, so i walked out. 1 hr 26 min ago
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            • disconcerting? Hot? Scary? 1 hr 25 min ago
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              • I just froze for a second b/c i was just surprised...but now it's very hot just thinking about it!! 1 hr 22 min ago
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                • tell him now 1 hr 21 min ago
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                  • i want to tell him, but i don't want to embarrass him. maybe i'll tell him his shower was long this morning....and that it would be hot if he were actually jerking off....(more) 1 hr 19 min ago
                    thoughts?
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    • first time? 1 hr 28 min ago
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      • op - yes, first time i saw him without him knowing i saw him. this has happened to u? 1 hr 27 min ago
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    • Recycling old material, STILL??? Good the fuck night 1 hr 21 min ago
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    • Yes, maybe 3 times during our 15 yr marriage 1 hr 17 min ago
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      • did u confront him? 1 hr 17 min ago
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    • why wasnt he fucking you? 1 hr 11 min ago
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    • wonder who or what was getting him off 1 hr 10 min ago
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  18. Toddler I'm confused by some posts where people say if a woman wants to go to the gym on the weekend and leave DH with the kids, she should just GO. There has to be some negotiation,...(more) 1 hr 30 min ago (18 replies)
    right? Like "Hey, DH, mind if I head to the gym? I'm happy to swap this afternoon if you'd like to go then." People seem to say here that when they want to do something, they just DO IT, without having to negotiate with their DH.
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    • I don't negotiate but I don't just walk out of the house. I say- I'm going to a class at 10, be back at 12. 1 hr 29 min ago
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      • That's a long class 1 hr 28 min ago
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        • I take a shower. I'm not racing home 1 hr 27 min ago
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      • I just don't get it - what if he has made plans to go to a class at the same time? Does he just plan to stay home all weekend in case you pop out to a class? 1 hr 27 min ago
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        • He works out during the wkday while at work, it's not an issue. 1 hr 26 min ago
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    • Why do you think it has to be title for tat? 1 hr 27 min ago
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      • With little kids it is often so much easier this way. 1 hr 25 min ago
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      • It doesn't have to be, but don't you offer that if you are going to go out and leave him with the kids for a few hours, he should probably get some opportunity to do the same...(more) 1 hr 24 min ago
        during the weekend at some point?
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    • Negotiate seems like not quite the right word. 1 hr 27 min ago
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      • Okay, fine. But people here seem to indicate they just do whatever they want to on the weekends. Don't you have to talk to your DH, see what he wants to do too? 1 hr 26 min ago
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        • It's just a ybm style of being sure of oneself. It comes off the wrong way I Think 1 hr 25 min ago
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          • I think you're right - surely people are over-stating it. 1 hr 24 min ago
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        • i usually just say to DH "i'm going to the gym at 8am tomorrow, so just be aware the kids may need you." he says "ok". 1 hr 18 min ago
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    • It's because men just stop on the way home from work, without having to clear it with anyone. While women can't just go as the please without making sure the kids are covered. 1 hr 23 min ago
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    • no we don't negotiate. i just go. and then later if DH wants to go, he just goes. 1 hr 18 min ago
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    • What's to negotiate? DH and I decide to do things - make sure the other wasn't hoping to do something else at that time - if they weren't we just do it. If we both were hoping to...(more) 1 hr 14 min ago
      do something at the same time, then we tell each other what it was, figure out which is more pressing/important and let that person do it. I guess you could call that a negotiation. I just call it being a normal parent.
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    • i agree with you - i wouldn't be happy if dh just walked out and did something. we run things by each other. that said, we don't forbid each other to do things. i might say I'm...(more) 1 hr 9 min ago
      getting annoyed if he's doing something too much though
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    • Maybe it's the whole "give them an inch they take a mile" thing? If they started negotaiting with dh's the dh would eventually see it as a power thing and take advantage, so they...(more) 1 hr 8 min ago
      are heading that off by not giving him any power in the first place?
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  19. Toddler Left message for orthodontist on voice mail for their emergency number. How soon would you expect a call back? 1 hr 30 min ago (1 reply)
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  20. Toddler Phil Harrtman and Jan Hooks on SNL now 1 hr 32 min ago (12 replies)
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    • : ( 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • Are they stretching the "live" part? 1 hr 31 min ago
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      • np: BITCH! ..lol... 1 hr 31 min ago
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      • Lmao, just a bit 1 hr 30 min ago
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    • They wee good as the Clinton's 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • What channel? 1 hr 30 min ago
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      • 4 1 hr 29 min ago
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        • Thanks. I thought it was a rerun on e or something. I wonder why they are showing this random episode now? 1 hr 28 min ago
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          • They do it every week at 10 1 hr 26 min ago
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    • Tom Hanks is hosting 1 hr 30 min ago
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      • He looks so young 1 hr 29 min ago
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        • I know, baby face 1 hr 28 min ago
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  21. Toddler House hunters renovation is outside of Boston tonight 1 hr 32 min ago (2 replies)
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  22. Toddler Hows Dr. Spencer doing? 1 hr 33 min ago (4 replies)
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    • stable 1 hr 30 min ago
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    • They said he's entering the next phase of illness, gastro symptoms. 1 hr 28 min ago
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      • thats not good. 1 hr 28 min ago
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        • I think they all eventually go through the phases, how bad it is or how well he fights them who knows. 1 hr 25 min ago
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  23. Toddler We moved to a town ten years ago that I've never really loved. But now since we have kids and they're happy what's the point of moving? 1 hr 34 min ago (7 replies)
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    • do you have friends there? building a network of friends takes so long and it is priceless. 1 hr 33 min ago
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      • One and then a bunch of women who are my kids friends moms who I like but wouldn't call them friends. We socialize but it's not deep or anything. 1 hr 32 min ago
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        • do you think that's a function of you not feeling like the town is the right fit for you? we've been in our town for 7 years and I meet so many women I could see being close...(more) 1 hr 27 min ago
          friends with - its hard to get there - but I know these are my people, so to speak. If I were in a southern conservative town, I'd be miserable, for example.
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          • Nope. I think people are stressed and busy. Most women I know work ft. Now it seems to be a phase of people spending more and impressing eachother more. Just not genuine. 1 hr 25 min ago
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            • ahh I can see that. I have family in Wilton and we are in a low key state and I am always taken aback by the "like our new Range Rover?" and the kids demanding a new patagonia...(more) 1 hr 21 min ago
              every season. a materialistic tone would be a real downer for me but I can understand some people LOVE that, love do dress to impress, have nice things etc.
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    • same here, but i'm not happy. not so much unhappy, just not happy. i have no idea where i would even go anyway. 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • Similar here, but I actively do not like it, schools are just ok, but kids love it. Sigh 1 hr 27 min ago
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  24. Toddler I'm drunk as hell, alone and am a chronic cheater. Ask me anything 1 hr 34 min ago (31 replies)
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    • no thanks 1 hr 34 min ago
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    • Why do you need so much attention? 1 hr 33 min ago
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      • Dh hasn't given me attention since I had our last kid 8 years ago 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • are you a dw or a dh? 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • no 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • are you my exaffair? 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • what on earth would be interesting enough to ask you? 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • Alone as in single? 1 hr 32 min ago
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      • No just alone at home 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • why do you cheat so much? do you get caught? 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • No. You bore me. 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • ah, and now OP responds to her own threads so she doesn't get a bunch of "no" responses 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • what did you drink? 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • https://31.media.tumblr.com/33fbc779263454bda489af5eb0ee5e24/tumblr_inline_ncfo67FSym1rqfc4i.gif...(more) 1 hr 31 min ago
    • name and credit card # 1 hr 31 min ago
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      • Op lmao...couldn't type it right 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • how long married? How many times have you cheated? 1 hr 30 min ago
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      • Married 18 years. Cheated 4x over last 2 years. A few other very close calls 1 hr 29 min ago
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        • Who are you cheating with? Do you think you just want to get caught?! Like you don't care if you do I mean? 1 hr 29 min ago
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          • Friends, colleagues. I have a very flirty personality. They just come after me and I go 1 hr 27 min ago
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            • People know. How do you feel about that? 1 hr 26 min ago
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            • Are you afraid someone will just tell DH - esp if they are friends and colleagues?!? 1 hr 26 min ago
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              • Don't care. And he never associates with people at my work 1 hr 25 min ago
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                • i hate to be judgmental, but you need help. 1 hr 18 min ago
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        • why? Where? Whom? 1 hr 29 min ago
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    • How many have you cheated with?...(more) 1 hr 30 min ago
      Me - 6
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      • Op- have you ever overlapped? One time I fucked 3 guys in 24 hours (including dh). Crazy 1 hr 28 min ago
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        • Circumstances? 1 hr 28 min ago
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          • Had sex with one after work at 5, dh at 5 am next day, other after work at 4 next day 1 hr 25 min ago
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        • Yes, it was 3 in 48 hrs I think. I did not like myself then. 1 hr 27 min ago
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  25. Toddler Do you ever wonder what your dog named you? 1 hr 34 min ago (8 replies)
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    • "The Human Who Feeds Me." 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • I'm the head bitch. 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • mommy 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • No 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • "Love of My Life" 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • Lady who took me from the bad place 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • My immortal beloved 1 hr 29 min ago
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    • She knows me as Mama. Dh is Daddy. Her name is Hattie. 1 hr 22 min ago
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