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  1. Toddler I forgot to post this the other day, 104 years ago on March 25th the Triangle Shirtwaist Fire occurred, 145 workers died....(more) 7 hr 6 min ago (10 replies)
    • i saw a documentary on that about 10 yrs ago and can't forget it, so awful 7 hr 4 min ago
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    • My great grandfathers fiancé died in that fire. Then he married my great grandmother 7 hr 2 min ago
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      • really?! wow. 7 hr 2 min ago
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      • wow , what did he do for work? 7 hr 1 min ago
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        • Is it buzarre that I have no idea. Now I'm curious and will ask my father tomorrow (he died before I was born.) 6 hr 59 min ago
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          • ancestry.com will show it 6 hr 58 min ago
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    • Everything I know about that tragedy I learned from that historical fiction series about young women in history who inevitably fall in love at the end of the book. 6 hr 57 min ago
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      • np: I've learned most of my world history from romance novels. 6 hr 56 min ago
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        • My limited exposure to European history came from Phillipa gregory 6 hr 53 min ago
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          • I think that's true for a LOT of people. She should expand her range a bit. Maybe some different royalty? 6 hr 52 min ago
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  2. Toddler What is it about doctors and bland personalities? Most I've encountered have very little charisma or "bedside" manner. I know some very intelligent and well respected surgeons...(more) 7 hr 7 min ago (25 replies)
    and well, they are so dull. Is it the intelligence? The focus? What??
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    • yes 7 hr 6 min ago
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      • ^plus they think most of us are too dumb to bother with 7 hr 6 min ago
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    • Science brains 7 hr 6 min ago
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    • People with charisma become salespeople or politicians 7 hr 6 min ago
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    • Too much time with heads in books not enough SOCIALOZATION 7 hr 6 min ago
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      • it's like you have to decrease their age/life experience by 7 years 7 hr 5 min ago
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        • Op- most I know are old 7 hr 4 min ago
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    • Med school and residency are designed to flog the humanity out of you. 7 hr 6 min ago
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      • Op- well, it worked. 7 hr 5 min ago
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    • surgeons aren't known for people skills. but i've met a lot of doctors with good personalities (as doctors) and i rather they be more uptight assholes and be correct. i've had too...(more) 7 hr 6 min ago
      many laid-back doctors.
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    • eh who cares, the nurse can be nice to you, you want the surgeon to be all skill 7 hr 5 min ago
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      • this 7 hr 5 min ago
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      • Op- I don't want nice. I'm just talking about in general. Just conversationally. 7 hr 4 min ago
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    • are you talking about surgeons in particular, or all doctors? they are very different animals 7 hr 4 min ago
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      • Op- you think? 7 hr 4 min ago
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        • yes. So which ones are you talking about? 7 hr 3 min ago
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          • ^^^because you started out saying "doctors" and then switched to surgeons. I know some very charismatic doctors, but I only know one surgeon, and he is not charismatic 7 hr 2 min ago
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            • Op_ well, I guess surgeons. I know some heart surgeons and gastric bypass surgeons as well. Deadpan. Total. 6 hr 58 min ago
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    • Surgeons imo are cocky assholes. Zero bedside manner. Physicians tend to have better manners 7 hr 3 min ago
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      • Op- I hate to say their assholes but arrogant and very entitled to respect maybe. 6 hr 59 min ago
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        • ok fine, yes arrogant. My uncle was a well regarded breast surgeon and he was not an asshole, but very arrogant. No time for small talk. My dss plastic surgeon was the same way....(more) 6 hr 58 min ago
          He was the BEST though, we were lucky he was on call, but man he was arrogant!
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    • My dh is a surgeon, but also a bit asperger-ish. He has a personality, but a weird one. He doesn't get along with other surgeous. 7 hr ago
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      • ^^surgeons. he is very nice, but he lacks emotional connection with people he hasn't known a long time, but is also off when speaking with others. 6 hr 59 min ago
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        • ^^^and he is not cocky or arrogant. Just, weird, i guess. 6 hr 57 min ago
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  3. Toddler What's the deal with the 4 yo girl who took the bus alone to get a slushie-wtf? 7 hr 8 min ago (19 replies)
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    • a real go-getter, that one 7 hr 7 min ago
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    • How did the driver let her on? (Not that he should leave her in street) 7 hr 7 min ago
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      • A passenger saw her walking, he stopped the bus and got her on then called the cops 6 hr 46 min ago
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    • she will really be a handful when she's a teen 7 hr 7 min ago
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    • Look, she just wants a slushie, okay? 7 hr 7 min ago
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      • if it was a coke slushi ita 7 hr 2 min ago
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        • *Shit it's a Coke Slurpee!!!!!!!!!! 6 hr 56 min ago
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    • I will never understand why people don't put a deadbolt high up astounds me. Or buy a door alram 7 hr 6 min ago
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      • you don't know your kid will be so audacious until s/he is. my girls never did that, so when my son was born, and he was an explorer, it was a surprise. 7 hr 4 min ago
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        • My 5 year old could undo the deadbolt when he was three. And a lot of people have issues turning it. He would pull over a chair and undo it and pull the chair out of the way. It...(more) 5 hr 9 min ago
          was very scary! He couldn't undo the chain on top but now he can reach that too. But he understands that he shouldn't now but it's scary!
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    • I have a Japanese friend whose son just walked out the door and walked 20min to the supermarket solo...(more) 7 hr 5 min ago
      Crossing streets etc - 4 yr old!!!
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      • what does Japanese have to do with it? 7 hr 1 min ago
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        • Because Asians are super smart. 6 hr 57 min ago
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    • was it a big gulp ? i get it 7 hr 4 min ago
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      • a big gulp shushie? 7 hr 1 min ago
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        • shushie has liquor in it 6 hr 59 min ago
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          • I seriously am having difficulty writing that word tonight 6 hr 57 min ago
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        • np: Slurpees (7-11 slushies) come in the same sizes as Big Gulps 6 hr 57 min ago
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        • Ssshhhhh 6 hr 57 min ago
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  4. Toddler Do you consider bipolar to be a chronic illness? 7 hr 8 min ago (2 replies)
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    • Yes, definitely. But you may be thinking chronic means something other than what it does--it describes an illness that persists for a long time 7 hr 7 min ago
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    • Chronic? As in life long and can't be cured? Yes 7 hr 6 min ago
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  5. Toddler Can I get some host/hostess gift ideas, please? A couple I really don't know well is hosting a birthday party for a good friend of mine (mutual friends). I don't know if they...(more) 7 hr 8 min ago (8 replies)
    drink (and for some reason I'm thinking they may not), so I don't want to bring wine. I should bring them something, right? thanks
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    • Chocolates 7 hr 8 min ago
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    • truffle sea salt, something nice from a bakery, tea towels 7 hr 7 min ago
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    • Big fancy candle 7 hr 7 min ago
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    • Gourmet olive oil 7 hr 7 min ago
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      • op: Oh, we actually happen to have a gourmet olive oil store in our town! 7 hr 6 min ago
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        • Great! Nice gift 7 hr 5 min ago
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          • yes, thanks for the suggestion! I always forget about that place. 7 hr 3 min ago
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    • orchid 7 hr 2 min ago
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  6. Toddler Why did all of the mothers suffer or die in "Into the Woods"? 7 hr 9 min ago (42 replies)
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    • That movie was the biggest piece of shit. 7 hr 8 min ago
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      • np - Who said anything about the movie? 7 hr 6 min ago
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    • Because they all do in fairy tales 7 hr 8 min ago
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    • riffs fairy tales 7 hr 8 min ago
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    • why is every show on tv these days centered around affairs? 7 hr 7 min ago
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      • You're not watching the right shows 7 hr 7 min ago
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        • name one that isn't a comedy that doesn't have affair or cheating in it. 7 hr 5 min ago
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          • My current favorite, Better Call Saul 7 hr 3 min ago
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          • np - Justified, Scorpion, Person of Interest, Broadchurch, Grimm, Jane the Virgin, Gotham, Elementary 6 hr 58 min ago
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            • and all of those have at least one normal relationship going on? Where are the shows that have a relationship or marriage in it at all, and they aren't cheating is my uestion. 6 hr 57 min ago
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              • so you want a show that focuses on a married couple, but they have no problems and their relationship is completely happy and stable? the reason that doesn't exist is because it...(more) 6 hr 55 min ago
                would be incredibly boring! television isn't real life!
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                • no, i want a show that might show some reality. mOst shows that center around couples have more than one, and they are almost always all assholes. And there can be some realness...(more) 6 hr 53 min ago
                  is shows. and i think the obsession with making all cheating society and media is ruining marriage. JMHP
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                  • but a show about nice people being nice to each other doesn't give way to dramatic plot lines. it can give way to comedic plot lines and jokes, but not drama. because drama...(more) 6 hr 52 min ago
                    happens when people make mistakes and do bad things. so maybe you should watch parks and rec or something, to see happy people being in love
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                    • np - IMO the relationship in the marriage of The Americans is great. I don't know if what they do is "cheating" in the OR's eyes or not 6 hr 50 min ago
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                      • if you think it is possible cheating, its cheating;. only on yb is it not cheating if you don't get caught. 6 hr 50 min ago
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                        • LOL - obviously you do NOT watch this show. 6 hr 46 min ago
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                    • i think walking dead is fantastic. Yes, it is a fake premise, but the people are real, but also kind. Not fucking each other left and right or fucking people over. Its possible to...(more) 6 hr 50 min ago
                      have drama and goodness.
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                      • so you just answered your own question - there's a show that isn't a comedy that doesn't have an affair in it (i have never seen it). i said my favorite was better call saul, no...(more) 6 hr 47 min ago
                        cheating there either. but it's also not a show about people in love/married. once a drama begins to focus on that stuff, of course cheating will be a common plot point
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                        • np - Hey - I gave the names of lots of shows above. 6 hr 46 min ago
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                          • yeah and OP complained they weren't about normal relationships 6 hr 45 min ago
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                            • I don't think she's seen any of them. My guess is that she only watches the nighttime soap operas like Scandal and Parenthood. 6 hr 43 min ago
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                            • they aren't about people or relationships at all! I named ONE.Just one. with people, drama, relationships, anguish, and still not all assholes who all have to ruin it with sex...(more) 6 hr 43 min ago
                              every other minute. It just doesn't do it for me. Its all i see on tv unless its comedy or about something totally unrelated to human emotion.
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                              • but the other responder named eight! watch one of those! 6 hr 42 min ago
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                                • to be honest, i gave up a couple years ago when every show was mad men, ray donovan, the affair, blah blah blah... all of it. 6 hr 40 min ago
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                                  • A couple of years ago? The Affair was just on a few months ago. 6 hr 39 min ago
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                                    • and you guys post about it every night it was on. I know OF it. I don't watch it because I hate that thats what gets women going these days. 6 hr 35 min ago
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                                      • Oh. So you never watched it. OK then. 6 hr 31 min ago
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                              • So what shows do you watch? 6 hr 39 min ago
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                                • mindy project, walking dead, buying alaska, i liked lost and i liked Once upon a time for a while but it got stupid, stuff like that. 6 hr 37 min ago
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                                  • So three current shows. I have never even heard of buying alaska. How can you comment on the state of current television then? 6 hr 30 min ago
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                                    • buying alaska is a home buying show. Not actors. So i watch two shows. And the rest are the same shit. sorry that bothers you. 6 hr 27 min ago
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                                      • It doesn't bother me whatsoever but you are talking out of your ass since you don't even watch TV. 6 hr 25 min ago
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                  • np - I watch a lot of TV and I have no idea what you are rambling on about. 6 hr 51 min ago
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                  • Oh boy. You really think the institution of marriage is crumbling because of HBO's 'The Affair'? Infidelity existed long before tv 6 hr 46 min ago
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      • they're not 7 hr 6 min ago
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      • WTF? lol 7 hr 6 min ago
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    • Because sodheim watche'd too much dosney as a child and read too many Grimke fairy tales 7 hr 7 min ago
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      • you're really cute but I don't know what you're saying! 7 hr 4 min ago
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    • Did they? 7 hr 6 min ago
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    • Why are all the dads in tv sitcoms morons? 7 hr 6 min ago
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      • Reaction to the "Father Knows Best" trope of earlier sitcoms 7 hr 4 min ago
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    • children must rid themselves of their mothers to be free in the world 7 hr 5 min ago
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  7. Toddler The person who cuts my hair is transitioning and I keep fucking up the pronun. Also, she is married so when I see her wife I still mess up sometimes and ask after her his amd. I...(more) 7 hr 9 min ago (9 replies)
    feel horrible when I do that
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    • So what dude 7 hr 9 min ago
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    • so she used to be a man? 7 hr 8 min ago
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      • Yes 7 hr 7 min ago
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        • and she now has a wife. did she have a wife when she was a man? 7 hr 6 min ago
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    • bait score -3 7 hr 8 min ago
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      • Nope true story and I feel bad when I screw it ip 7 hr 7 min ago
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    • just use THEY exclusively 7 hr 8 min ago
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    • Eh, shit happens 7 hr 8 min ago
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    • That's one understanding wife. Or do you mean she married her after the transition? 6 hr 56 min ago
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  8. Toddler Natures care organic garden soil commercial. 7 hr 10 min ago (0 replies)
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  9. Toddler I lost weight to get rid of my double chin. Now my face is gaunt and I still have the chin. Age is a bitch. 7 hr 10 min ago (1 reply)
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    • So are genetics! 7 hr 7 min ago
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  10. Toddler Any updates on the mom and dd who survived the fire in brooklyn? 7 hr 11 min ago (11 replies)
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    • last I read, mom still struggling to survive, neither knows about the deaths, the Dad is begging for rabbi's blessing to have lots more children 7 hr 9 min ago
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    • I think the dd recently had surgery. Mom is still in induced coma, I think 7 hr 9 min ago
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      • ^and yes, neither knows about deaths. 7 hr 8 min ago
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  11. Toddler Ok, so I just watched the first episode of Australian the slap. Ritchie doesn't have a camera, no one saw hector and Connie. This versions hector is so much more believable as a...(more) 7 hr 11 min ago (3 replies)
    A guy that a babysitter would want to fuck. Rosie's hair is much better than the stupid way she wears it in the American version.
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  12. Toddler Anyone know if the World Cup cricket is on US tv tonight? 7 hr 13 min ago (3 replies)
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    • I have it on as my screen saver 7 hr 12 min ago
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      • streaming video? 7 hr 11 min ago
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        • Oh wait.. thats a still photo. 7 hr 11 min ago
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  13. Toddler The copilot's gf maybe should have reported him. She was a teacher, so a responsible type. 7 hr 13 min ago (6 replies)
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    • For what? Being depressed? 7 hr 12 min ago
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    • So now it's her fault? 7 hr 12 min ago
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    • i thought she was a stewardess? 7 hr 12 min ago
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    • mskes sense in hindsight but probably not much could be done & it would be sort of meddlesome/harassment 7 hr 11 min ago
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    • where did you read she was a teacher> 7 hr 11 min ago
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    • I doubt she could have imagined what he did 7 hr 11 min ago
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  14. Toddler This post has been disliked 5 times. showIs a family middle class with an hhi between 175-200k? Not UMC, right? 7 hr 14 min ago (93 replies)
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    • depends where 7 hr 14 min ago
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    • yes! 7 hr 14 min ago
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    • This post has been disliked 5 times. showLMC Manhattan 7 hr 13 min ago
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      • maybe even ghetto-like. Living in a tenament with no electricity probably 7 hr 12 min ago
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    • HHI is $225K and I say we are UMC, even in NYC, flame away 7 hr 13 min ago
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      • Why flame, that's accurate 7 hr 12 min ago
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        • I constantly see middle class at $400K posts here, it's just so ridiculous. 7 hr 12 min ago
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      • We make 225 and feel barely middle class 7 hr 12 min ago
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        • sad 7 hr 11 min ago
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        • You are doing something wrong then. 7 hr 11 min ago
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          • Jinx 7 hr 10 min ago
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          • Please enlighten me 7 hr 10 min ago
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            • Your view of middle class is severely warped 7 hr 9 min ago
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              • My view? I'm talking about my own personal life. We make 225 and are stretched tight 7 hr 8 min ago
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                • what are you spending $ on? 7 hr 8 min ago
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                  • Normal stuff- housing, transportation, dinner out 1x weekly, cleaning help, camp, temple rarely travel. We have a lot of debt 7 hr 7 min ago
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                    • You spend too much. 7 hr 7 min ago
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                      • So what gets cut? 7 hr 6 min ago
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                        • How many kids do you have? 7 hr 5 min ago
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                        • dinner out, cleaning help, camp, just starting with your list. this isn't hard! 7 hr 4 min ago
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                          • Again my point is that- these are all things my middle class parents did and they stretch us 7 hr 1 min ago
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                            • Well life is not what it used to be and al, that you are doing is an upper middle class lifestyle 7 hr ago
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                              • And we are tight so clearly our incomes are NOT umc 6 hr 59 min ago
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                                • Yet you are not cuttiing back 6 hr 59 min ago
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                                  • Again I didn't say I was. My lint is we are just MC and work extra jobs etc to pay for most extras 6 hr 58 min ago
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                                    • Bullshit 6 hr 57 min ago
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                                    • Then you spend too much of food, or clothing,something. You are losing money somewhere. 6 hr 56 min ago
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                                      • We are paying down debt 6 hr 56 min ago
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                                        • Your mortgage is too high. 6 hr 55 min ago
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                                          • Its 2100 our take home is 12,500 - it's not too big 6 hr 54 min ago
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                                            • np: you have a take-home of $12.5K and a mortgage of $2100 and you are complaining about feeling stretched. Something is wrong with this picture. 6 hr 52 min ago
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                                              • Where does your money go?? 6 hr 51 min ago
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                                                • our take-home is $6800 and it goes to housing, transportation, food, clothing etc. - but not to camp or cleaning! lol! 6 hr 50 min ago
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                                              • Again add 1 k for taxes, 1 k for commuting /car insurance, add camp and such and electric bills of 500 etc life gets expensive 6 hr 50 min ago
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                                                • Yes, life is expensive. No one promised you a goddamn rose garden. Imagine how you'd suffer on, say, $100K. 6 hr 49 min ago
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                                                  • That wouldn't be us- we both have big jobs and that's the way it is. If we made less we would have lived differently 6 hr 48 min ago
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                                                    • I'm so sad I wasted my typing skillz on a stupid fake post 6 hr 47 min ago
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                            • If you budgeted better with that income it shouldn't stretch you. Your housing costs are likely high as well. 7 hr ago
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                              • Under 25% of take home -$3200 for mortgage and taxes 6 hr 58 min ago
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                            • your parents were UMC, not MC, if they afforded all that easily. also: the markers of class do change with the generations, but objectively you have a high income - anywhere you...(more) 6 hr 59 min ago
                              live including NYC. sorry. now maybe think about those expensive camps if you have a lot of debt, and clean your own damn house like all the MC people I know.
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                    • Middle and lower middle class people don't go to dinner once a week or have cleaning help or send kids to camp. Here is where you thinking is warped 7 hr 5 min ago
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                      • and her thinking is really warped if she's in a lot of debt and still does all that shit. 7 hr 4 min ago
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                        • This is true too. Like how do you have cleaning help and go to dinner once a week with all that debt 7 hr 2 min ago
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                    • are you serious? cleaning help and camp are not, like, basics of life or something. they are LUXURIES, you idiot. 7 hr 5 min ago
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                      • So someone who is UMc can't afford luxuries? You're all proving my point 7 hr ago
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                        • You are doing all those things? Weren't you ever taught to live within your means. You should live the life you can afford not the one you wish you had 6 hr 59 min ago
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                        • look, it's a "luxury" just to live in an expensive area and have a roof over your head. but no, having a certain HHI doesn't entitle you to a certain number of luxuries. middle...(more) 6 hr 58 min ago
                          class typically connotes having enough for the basics, comfortably. you clearly have that and then some, but you don't want to feel "stretched". ok. move to a cheaper area where your HHI goes farther, get smarter with your money, earn more. or just STFU.
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                          • I'm just adding my 2 cents to this discussion. No need to get nasty. 225 is mc at best I live in a far burb and we both have long commutes. We do the best we can. 6 hr 56 min ago
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                            • Lol 6 hr 56 min ago
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                              • You can laugh but we drive 8 and 10' year old cars and live In an old house that isn't really nice 6 hr 55 min ago
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                                • np: yes but you send your kids to camp and pay for someone to clean your house! do you get that not everyone does that? 6 hr 53 min ago
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                                  • Well I need child are in the summer and everyone here sends kids to camp. 6 hr 52 min ago
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                                    • you don't have to do what "everyone" does. (p.s.: "everyone" doesn't. only the people you think are your kind of people. and not even all of them.) 6 hr 51 min ago
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                                      • My "kind" ? Like all of my neighbors? 6 hr 50 min ago
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                                        • Yes! You feel entitled to spend what they spend because...they spend it so, so should you? Do you realize how stupid and illogical that is? If you don't have it, doesn't matter...(more) 6 hr 48 min ago
                                          what your neighbors do, you can't spend it. Unless you want to feel "stretched" or in "so much debt"
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                                    • Oh my. No wonder you are in debt. You are dumb as hell 6 hr 50 min ago
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                            • You live in the burbs! Why is your mortgage so high? 6 hr 55 min ago
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                              • We paid 510'for our high ranch and out down 125k our taxes are 12k yr 6 hr 54 min ago
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                            • Np: I live on that in NYC with 2 dc and we live a very nice lifestyle. I don't feel like we struggle in any way 6 hr 55 min ago
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                            • you're living beyond your means because you feel entitled to more. I'm not being nasty. you just need to refocus instead of feeling sorry for yourself. 6 hr 54 min ago
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                              • Did I ask for pity? I made a statement that we are quite middle class 6 hr 53 min ago
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                                • OK, now I think you're fake. Good one! riled us all up :-) 6 hr 51 min ago
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                                  • You can think it's a joke but i assure you, UMC can easily afford many vacations and meals out all the time and clothes and new cars every few years. That's not us 6 hr 49 min ago
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                                    • You did what you set out to do, now get off the post before you jump the shark with it, ok? 6 hr 47 min ago
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                                      • Whatever think what you like 6 hr 46 min ago
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                                    • You are wrong 6 hr 47 min ago
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                                      • And we agree to disagree 6 hr 45 min ago
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                                        • No we don't agree to disagree. No one agrees with you 6 hr 45 min ago
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                                          • And you don't live my life so you don't know 6 hr 43 min ago
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                    • np: look at your list. you are UMC. 6 hr 53 min ago
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                • How? 7 hr 8 min ago
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                • You can be stretched tight on 1 million if you spend a lot. That is meaningless 7 hr 7 min ago
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                  • I love it when people with tons of money complain about how they are really poor because "my expenses are high!" as if there is no choice! they just HAVE to spend all their...(more) 7 hr 3 min ago
                    money...
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                • Yes we all get that. If you have a hhi of 225k and you feel like you are lower middle class then something is not right 7 hr 6 min ago
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        • You are doing it all wrong then 7 hr 11 min ago
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      • We're the same an d I agree, but we have low housing costs, like public school, and have some family help (Dh's not mine) for things like camp, so really, I can't talk. 7 hr 11 min ago
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        • we have similar but no family help, still pretty comfortable but housing costs really are key, which we do not have to worry about 7 hr 9 min ago
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      • because you are. thank you for being realistic. 6 hr 53 min ago
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    • UMC pretty much anywhere. 7 hr 12 min ago
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    • google is your friend 7 hr 12 min ago
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      • Not really in this case. 7 hr 11 min ago
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    • Why the dislike? We are in a tract home suburb of Los Angeles. 7 hr 11 min ago
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      • LA is a big burb. Where do you live? 7 hr 10 min ago
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      • I lived in Los Angeles with a kid with a below $50K HHI and didn't consider myself poor. You are just comparing yourself to the Joneses. Really STFU 7 hr 2 min ago
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    • why do you care? 7 hr 9 min ago
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  15. Toddler Can anyone send me a hug? feeling kind of down. 7 hr 15 min ago (9 replies)
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    • aw hugs to you 7 hr 15 min ago
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    • Me too and I am sending you a hue hug! 7 hr 14 min ago
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      • *huge* not hue lol 7 hr 14 min ago
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    • i'll send you a wine-soaked kiss 7 hr 14 min ago
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      • me too ... cheap wine, but a kiss nonetheless ... 8-) 7 hr 10 min ago
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    • {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{hug}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} 7 hr 11 min ago
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    • Aww what is the matter? 7 hr 10 min ago
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    • This will cheer you up, or not. A coffee shop just opened in Park Slope with the rage line, A Hug in Mug. Mon fucking dieu. 7 hr 9 min ago
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      • Tag line, not rage line. Though it does make me infected with rage. 7 hr 8 min ago
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  16. Toddler I got an accidental full on all hair off bikini wax yesterday. Dh and I passed out bc of a long wk so no sex last night, tonight I was looking forward to it and seeing his...(more) 7 hr 15 min ago (17 replies)
    reaction. Ds just got sick an hour ago and I feel sick from cleaning it up and dh is cleaning the bathroom now. No sex tonight either, plus ds is in our bed. boo.
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    • get ready for sexy stubble sex? 7 hr 15 min ago
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      • sigh, guess so. Blerg 7 hr 14 min ago
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      • np: come on, I'm sure op can manage some sex before the stubble comes in! That takes a while with waxing 7 hr 12 min ago
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        • not for me, i'm greek. 7 hr 11 min ago
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          • like 2 days? You're wasting your money with waxing then! 7 hr 11 min ago
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        • maybe tomorrow night! I am hopefull 7 hr 11 min ago
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    • Does your dh like little girls? 7 hr 14 min ago
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      • like I said it was an accidental full bikini wax, I thought full meant full line and leave a triangle. and I am sure you know the answer to your dumbass question 7 hr 13 min ago
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        • That doesn't make sense. 7 hr 12 min ago
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          • I have had maybe 3 before this one, always at the same place in manhattan. They call it full- which means the line but more and they leave a triangle or whatever you want. Went to...(more) 7 hr 10 min ago
            new place and they said line, full or brazilian. I said full just like the other place, so I thought....
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            • Then what's a Brazilian? 7 hr 8 min ago
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              • they mentioned something about between the cheeks. I don't know. whey I went to my old place where they left my little triangle, they did some between the cheek work then. I won't...(more) 7 hr 4 min ago
                be going back to European wax center again
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              • np: crack hair 7 hr 1 min ago
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        • np: I think the OR was referring to your anticipation of dh's reaction, not suggesting you had it done on purpose 7 hr 11 min ago
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    • An accidental one? 7 hr 13 min ago
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    • I remember you from yesterday. Sorry to hear that. 7 hr 13 min ago
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      • ha! thanks. figured I would be flamed again. My ds has been getting sick this past month, i think it's a food allergy. 7 hr 11 min ago
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  17. Toddler I can't imagine living in a place that's so violent that it's better to ride on top of a train and risk death and rape, and to bring my children along. it's unfathomable, yet...(more) 7 hr 16 min ago (6 replies)
    there many places, like el Salvador, where death and murder is everywhere.
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    • fucking downer 7 hr 15 min ago
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      • wanna about mani pedis? 7 hr 13 min ago
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        • it's 11:20, had a rough day with my kid, so yeah. Ballet Slippers or Mademoiselle? 7 hr 13 min ago
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          • I basically rip my toenails off, so I'm not really an expert. I get a pedicure once a year. 7 hr 10 min ago
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    • there are many countries in Africa with severe problems, as well as elsewhere...do we open our borders completely to the whole world? or do we have special obligations to others...(more) 7 hr 14 min ago
      in the Americas?
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      • we definitely have a responsibility to our southern neighbors because we caused a lot of their problems. they come here because we're near and they have that option. I think...(more) 7 hr 11 min ago
        Africans go to Europe.
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  18. Toddler Class moms: do you know every parent at this point in the year? 18 kids and i am hazy on a few faces/names still 7 hr 16 min ago (4 replies)
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    • Nope. I know who all the kids are though. 7 hr 13 min ago
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      • op: me too. i am bad with names and faces. try hard but, eh 7 hr 12 min ago
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        • I don't even think I've seen all the parents. 7 hr 10 min ago
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    • yes i do 7 hr 9 min ago
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  19. Toddler Second marriage: She had a very traditional wedding 17 years ago, he had justice of the peace for his brief marriage. What kind of wedding would you plan? 7 hr 16 min ago (9 replies)
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    • Elope 7 hr 15 min ago
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    • cocktail party with live music 7 hr 15 min ago
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      • Op: cocktail party like later in the evening? What time? 7 hr 14 min ago
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        • Like a small 10 min ceremony at home for you and a handful of relatives/friends, then cocktails a sunset with bigger crowd and great catered food and drinks 7 hr 12 min ago
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    • What do they want. 7 hr 14 min ago
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    • Close friends and family at home 7 hr 14 min ago
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    • i'd elope. 7 hr 2 min ago
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    • Weekday wedding, dinner at nice restaurant / private space, drinks and maybe dancing after. 7 hr 1 min ago
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      • OR: FWIW, I just really want to go to a weekday wedding at like 6:00 and then dinner after, so this is all about me. 7 hr ago
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  20. Toddler My dd is turning 4 and wants to have a backwards bday party. what is a good party favor that can be given out when they first get here (and can be used for fun at the party....(more) 7 hr 17 min ago (5 replies)
    doesn't need to make it all the way home necessarily)? also, it's mostly boys coming. so 5-6 yo boys
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    • Silly string 7 hr 15 min ago
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    • Bubbles 7 hr 15 min ago
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    • Silly string 7 hr 14 min ago
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    • op: what about punch balls or rocket balloons? 7 hr 14 min ago
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      • Sure if you want to blow those up or have them all over your backyard 7 hr 13 min ago
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  21. Toddler Speaking of hippos, here is one that lives with a family...(more) 7 hr 18 min ago (4 replies)
    • Dd loves hippos. She sleeps with her stuffed hippo and takes it everywhere she goes. 7 hr 16 min ago
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    • They are the most dangerous animals on the planet 7 hr 16 min ago
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      • to humans yes it's true 7 hr 15 min ago
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      • How do they kill? 7 hr 12 min ago
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  22. Toddler My house will always be open to my kids, as was my parents house. Even though i moved from europe, i always felt so easy returning home and using the house as my own, very...(more) 7 hr 19 min ago (14 replies)
    comfortable staying with my mum and dad
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    • Ditto. 7 hr 17 min ago
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      • ^^^minus the Europe part 7 hr 17 min ago
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    • this is how my family is too. 7 hr 17 min ago
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      • i think many families on here are kinda of cold to each other 7 hr 16 min ago
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        • I have the same situation and am from here. I don't really know any families who are not like this 7 hr 13 min ago
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          • i know so many who aren't really close and have friends who feel like guests when they go home to visit. i think that the poorer you grow up, the closer and more at ease you may...(more) 7 hr 10 min ago
            be ? the more formal families i know seem to lack this
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            • I grew up in a wealthy family and a wealthy town. So no. Not true. Maybe cultural but I am Jewish and we are all about family, dh is Italian and its the same thing 7 hr 8 min ago
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              • oh of course always lots of exceptions to the rules !!! Happy to hear you are a close family, hopefully my boys always see me as "home" 7 hr 5 min ago
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                • Honestly we are not exceptions. It's the same for all my friends and that includes Hispanic, Irish and Italian families. I don't know anyone who is not extremely close to their...(more) 7 hr 3 min ago
                  family who couldn't go to them for help or go home
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                  • where do you live ? 7 hr 2 min ago
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                  • and those cultures are renowned for family life 7 hr ago
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    • I so agree! 6 hr 57 min ago
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  23. Toddler What do you think of a family with a HHI of 1mm that drives old Toyotas and VWs and lives in a decent but badly furnished house? They go on vacation all the time though. Is this...(more) 7 hr 19 min ago (30 replies)
    The right way to live? I can't figure it out.
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    • wasps 7 hr 19 min ago
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      • wasps don't buy furniture,they inherit it 7 hr 17 min ago
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    • their money/their call 7 hr 19 min ago
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    • Yes!! They are smart. 7 hr 19 min ago
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      • there is no right an wrong 7 hr 18 min ago
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      • This is dumb 7 hr 16 min ago
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    • There is no right way. Do want you want. 7 hr 19 min ago
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    • sound good to me. i would rather have cheaper things and travel more 7 hr 18 min ago
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    • that sounds like a great way to live. they have money 7 hr 18 min ago
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    • it's what floats their boat. 7 hr 18 min ago
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    • There is no right way. Whatever makes them happy. And why would I know their HHI? 7 hr 18 min ago
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    • There is no right way to live. Everyone has priorities and figures out what works for them 7 hr 18 min ago
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    • It's sort of living the way they want. Why the fascination? 7 hr 18 min ago
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    • yes, totally.i love to travel 7 hr 18 min ago
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    • It's really their business, not yours. Why do they have to live in the type of house you think they should live in. 7 hr 18 min ago
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    • probably saving a shitload! 7 hr 17 min ago
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    • they probably find no fun in expensvie cars and houses/ and restoration hardware coffee tables. 7 hr 17 min ago
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    • do what pleases you. Our surroundings affect how we feel so we pay attention to (sparsely) decorating more than most. DH likes luxury cars. I dress like shit though. 7 hr 17 min ago
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    • think about it, no one can take their expensive furnishings with them 6 feet under....they sound low key and smart to me. 7 hr 17 min ago
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      • no you can enjoy them each day when they surround you 7 hr 16 min ago
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        • but some people don't get off on $$ cars or furniture, me for one 7 hr 15 min ago
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          • right, different priorities, you can't take your memories with you either so decide what matters each day 7 hr 13 min ago
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    • They just care more about travel and less about stuff. 7 hr 16 min ago
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      • or more about saving for retirement, that's what I do 7 hr 14 min ago
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      • i would care about the house but not cars, and would appreciate travel. everyone's different. i know someone who never wants to go anywhere. 7 hr 14 min ago
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        • I hope they have nice rugs, then, and really nice chairs. 7 hr 13 min ago
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    • seems to be right for them. why do you care? they'll probably retire soon and not live for labels and other useless things 7 hr 16 min ago
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    • you want us to morally condemn their bad furniture? 7 hr 15 min ago
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    • Experiences vs. possessions, works for me. 7 hr 12 min ago
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    • I need details on the furniture. 7 hr 10 min ago
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  24. Toddler DH is stressed and 8 yo ds was being aggressively annoying and grabbed him and he sort of yanked her off and slapped her butt hard enough that it made a loud smack. It really...(more) 7 hr 20 min ago (17 replies)
    threw me to see him snap like that. Is this normal? Should I not overreact?
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    • Not in front of dd 7 hr 19 min ago
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      • I didn't. She went to her roomand I followed her. She seemed okay but who knows? 7 hr 19 min ago
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        • I'm sure she is fine. Did she jump at him? 7 hr 18 min ago
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          • She was grabbing him and provoking him. He has swatted her before. I just worry it might escalate 7 hr 17 min ago
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            • What did she think would happen? She's old enough to know better. 7 hr 15 min ago
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        • she didn't cry? np 7 hr 17 min ago
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          • No. But she did look sad and shocked 7 hr 16 min ago
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            • heAndre should apologize 7 hr 8 min ago
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        • Stop overreacting she singing 7 hr 17 min ago
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    • you people are so dramatic. really. you love nothing more than to post some stopry about a bad man being cruel to women or children and if you should divorce them. Your kid was...(more) 7 hr 15 min ago
      being super annoying, she didn't stop, he made her stop. he didn't beat her.
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      • Okay, good. I was just asking for some perspective 7 hr 15 min ago
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      • there are other ways to stop you EIGHT yo from being annoying, fyi 7 hr 14 min ago
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        • Sounds like this kid probably didn't respomd to the other ways. 7 hr 13 min ago
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        • but that one worked just fine. sometomes doing something to them that is embarrassing and shameful is what gets them to stop being inappropriate and misbehaving. she shouldn't...(more) 7 hr 12 min ago
          have to be told to stop 100 times before her dad loses his patience.
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        • well apparently the 8yo acts like she is 2. Who needs to be told to stop multiple times at that age when they can't keep their hands to themselves. clearly she has boundary...(more) 7 hr 11 min ago
          issues, but she doens't like when someone does similar to her.
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      • This is it exactly. She was pushing the boundaries, was told to stop, knew she should but continued. She got what she was...(more) 7 hr 12 min ago
        Was asking for, her dad handled it right
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    • It's fine. Move on 7 hr 12 min ago
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  25. Toddler Is anyone else sick of same sex couples causing so many problems in this world??? sister, I am. So much trouble caused by same sex couples! At the grocery store, the movie...(more) 7 hr 20 min ago (16 replies)
    theaters, the dmv!!!
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    • Haha! 7 hr 20 min ago
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    • ? 7 hr 20 min ago
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    • I was going to dislike this but you have to be kidding 7 hr 20 min ago
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      • just saw something on tv about a protest against same sex couples. How can you protest that?? 7 hr 19 min ago
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        • Np: have you heard about the law in Indiana allowing companies to not serve same sex couples, along the lines of religious freedom? 7 hr 16 min ago
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          • Clearly same sex couples cause trouble for religion. Damn them! 7 hr 13 min ago
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    • can you give us some examples of this trouble? 7 hr 19 min ago
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      • I can't!! 7 hr 18 min ago
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    • yes, they are real trouble makers. all up in your grill with their happy relationships and nice clothes. 7 hr 19 min ago
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      • and fucking nice handbags! 7 hr 18 min ago
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    • damn them, adopting all of those foster kids! 7 hr 17 min ago
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    • they cause a lot of uproar! they should just get over marriage already 7 hr 16 min ago
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    • Sometimes, it's so hard for me to remember who is who. I'm fine with same sex couples, but only if they're different races, or one is really fat, otherwise I'm always calling Dave...(more) 7 hr 15 min ago
      Jim or Jim Dave. I protest!
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      • So inconvenient for the rest of us! 7 hr 14 min ago
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    • i'm actually just tired of this "cause". let's move on already. 7 hr 14 min ago
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      • Its not a cause if its not a problem 7 hr 13 min ago
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