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  1. Toddler If your child (9-10 yo) plays team sports is it common to seek out private coaching? Just curious. Ongoing argument w/ dh about this. 4 hr 41 min ago (21 replies)
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    • not in my sports crazy ct town 4 hr 40 min ago
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      • Interesting, I think it is nuts to pay $100 per session of coaching but dh disagrees w/ me. 4 hr 39 min ago
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      • lol posted below - common in my ct town 4 hr 34 min ago
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    • did. lead to nothing, You either have it or not. 4 hr 39 min ago
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      • I agree. I think maturity (in boys) and drive is more important. 4 hr 38 min ago
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    • I am in NYC and knows tons of people who do this 4 hr 39 min ago
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      • that's so weird, i'm in NYC and i know no one who does it. 4 hr 29 min ago
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        • You know NYC is very big and there are lots of different types here 4 hr 28 min ago
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          • np - What sports are you talking about? 4 hr 24 min ago
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            • Soccer, basketball, baseball, lax 4 hr 23 min ago
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              • Yeah - I'm in NYC too and I don't anyone with private coaches in those sports. However yes on fencing 4 hr 22 min ago
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                • ^^And tennis 4 hr 22 min ago
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                  • Yes tennis too. No to fencing 4 hr 21 min ago
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    • Absolutely and I can't stand it, because we don't do it and then you're made to feel like you're not a good parent. But I don't give a shit. It's ridiculous. I already pa...(more) 4 hr 37 min ago
      year for this damn sport!!
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      • It is very hard not to give into the peer pressure. 4 hr 35 min ago
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        • It is, but we're not doing it. They are just kids. They're not going to play professional sports. (Let's face it--if they're good enough to be pro sports played someday, they...(more) 4 hr 34 min ago
          don't need private tutoring at 11.) They already spend WAY too much time competing.
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    • common here in ct 4 hr 35 min ago
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    • Yes. My child does it. 4 hr 31 min ago
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    • no. 4 hr 29 min ago
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  2. Toddler I recently lost weight and am really surprised by the haters. Fwiw, I am a cancer survivor so I started exercising and eating healthier. But I meet people who don't know i was...(more) 4 hr 42 min ago (16 replies)
    Sick and am taken aback by the snide 'eat a meal' comments from people I just met. I'm 5'4 and 120lbs, so not a stick but lean. I'm not sure what to say!
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    • ppl are stupid ignore 4 hr 41 min ago
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    • tell them "it's hard to eat on chemo" and stare them down. they are assholes. and congrats on beating cancer. 4 hr 41 min ago
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      • totally. You are so justified in putting these fucktard a in their places 4 hr 38 min ago
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    • Maybe you look too thin. 4 hr 41 min ago
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      • Or, I dropped a lot of weight from stress. Got a ton of compliments, but when it went too far people got concerned 4 hr 38 min ago
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      • so what? how doe sthat make it ok? You do not comment on a persons body like that. If you truly care you would only ask, gently, one on one 4 hr 28 min ago
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    • Fwiw, i am 5'4 and went from 120 to 110 in recent months. Almost daily I get comments from people about how great I look. 4 hr 40 min ago
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    • You lost weight because of cancer treatmebt? 4 hr 40 min ago
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      • No, I finished treatment (I was bloated from steroids while on chemo), and I got a nutrition/fitness consult at Sloan. She recommended a mostly plant-based diet and trying to be...(more) 4 hr 35 min ago
        on the low end of my BMI since excess body fat secretes hormones that feed breast cancer. So that's what I did - I lost maybe 3-4lbs but dropped 5% body fat. I feel good, I'm just surprised by the comments because I didn't lose much weight
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    • People are assholes. That is a healthy weight. Hope you are feeling well. 4 hr 40 min ago
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    • how's your face look? dh lost 50 pounds once and there was a point where his face looked gaunt 4 hr 40 min ago
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    • give me a break. lol. no one says that to you. the world caters to you. in all ways. don't be ridiculous. 4 hr 40 min ago
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      • I agree, I highly doubt anybody said "eat a meal " to your face 4 hr 38 min ago
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        • I was walking my dog. the person said oh that dog looks like it needs a meal, like his owner. 4 hr 32 min ago
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          • liar 4 hr 30 min ago
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            • Think what you want, it happened 4 hr 28 min ago
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  3. Toddler I posted before about my dd (6yo) getting into a right and punching a boy in the throat. I got called into the school again and this time the teacher told me that a boy had gone...(more) 4 hr 43 min ago (21 replies)
    home telling his parents my dd said 2 other kids were having sex. His parents flipped out and went to the school, they pulled dd aside... Then the boy changed his story 3 times and it turns out dd never had anything to do with this at all. Then her teacher tells me this has been happening multiple times a day that other dc will blame dd for incidents that she has nothing to do with. I am feeling so frustrated for dd, now it makes sense why she acted out and got in the fight. I don't know how to help her with this, if she is scapegoated (which her teacher told me she thinks is happening) she is going to act out and it's only going to get worse.
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    • well, if her teacher is aware of the problem what plan does she have to deal with it during school hours? 4 hr 42 min ago
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      • She didn't really give me any. I need to have another meeting and try and get some sort of plan. All that she said is that she is monitoring it and talking with the class about...(more) 4 hr 40 min ago
        rumours and telling the truth. Personally I think this is a bad group of kids with dd and she doesn't make good decisions with them and I would like her moved to a different class. I have heard from a few teachers that this class is a lot of trouble
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    • I think that 6yos are not clever enough to all chose the SAME kid to blame 4 hr 41 min ago
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      • Teacher said it happened 3 times yesterday and 4 times on Monday 4 hr 39 min ago
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        • That's insane?!?! 4 hr 37 min ago
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          • I don't see why her teacher would say that if it didn't happen but if its true it makes me sad for dd. 4 hr 36 min ago
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            • I'd take my kid out of that school starting immediately 4 hr 35 min ago
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              • To be honest I was homeschooled so this is all so new to me but it definitely make me second guess sending dd to school. It's better for dd to get this worked out and for us to...(more) 4 hr 31 min ago
                find a solution than to just pull her out though
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                • Your leaving this to a 6yo to work out? 4 hr 30 min ago
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                  • No I mean its better for ds for all of us to find a solution, meaning me, her teacher, and dd 4 hr 29 min ago
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            • if it's true then the teacher needs to find a new strategy to deal with it. what she's doing isn't working. 4 hr 35 min ago
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    • Is it impossible that your kid actually has a behavioral problem? Is this all a complete shock or have there been problems in the past? 4 hr 36 min ago
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      • That is what I have been trying to figure out. We came down so hard on dd when I got the second email to come in because the email didn't let us know that dd didn't do anything...(more) 4 hr 33 min ago
        just that there was an incident. We have never had a problem before in prek, k, at home ect but we thought maybe the adjustment to grade 1 was what caused the shift in dd. she has gotten in 2 playground fights. Though her teacher said those are the only incidents dd has caused a problem
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        • 2 fights since September? 4 hr 31 min ago
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          • 2 fights last week 4 hr 30 min ago
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            • Ok, something's up. Your DD is having some problems and not completely innocent, speak to guidance counselor or a child psychologist 4 hr 29 min ago
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              • I don't think she is, I think a phychologist is probably the best place to start. I worry about the path she's on and her becoming a "bad" kid 4 hr 25 min ago
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    • is she a lot different from the other kids? they don't know how to deal with her? 4 hr 31 min ago
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      • Not that I am aware of. She is small, but a pretty average 6yo girl 4 hr 31 min ago
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    • Does your dd have any friends from class? 4 hr 28 min ago
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      • Yes she has a few good friends from last year, I don't think she has no friends but I don't know. I wish the teacher had more time because I have so many questions now about...(more) 4 hr 24 min ago
        everything that's going on. I'm going to need to try and set up a longer meeting. This one was about 10 minutes long
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  4. Toddler 6.5 week old is asleep since 7. i actually dozed offbut want to go to sleep now.would you try ot dreamfeed or just lether sleep? 4 hr 43 min ago (3 replies)
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    • since it's not that late and she's slept for a while I would def wake and feed before going to sleep 4 hr 42 min ago
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    • Never wake a sleeping baby 4 hr 42 min ago
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    • Leave her alone 4 hr 37 min ago
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  5. Toddler Omg yall. love it or leave it has been spotted in my hood. someone saw hilary. I want to walk up to her and recommend a few housing inspectors and engineers. bc someone could...(more) 4 hr 43 min ago (3 replies)
    haveHave foreseen this was a load bearing wall
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    • Are you canadian? Or 4 hr 42 min ago
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    • So you're camadian? 4 hr 41 min ago
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      • There is obviously something wrong with op. Probably isncanadian 4 hr 40 min ago
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  6. Special Needs Anyone whose child goes to Learning Spring? Do you like it? What is the functioning level of the kids, generally? 4 hr 44 min ago (0 replies)
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  7. Toddler I love my boxer. She's the coolest dog ever. She's so calm and gentle, loves kids, loves to snuggle, plays well with other dogs, etc. But the minute another dog tries to get rough...(more) 4 hr 44 min ago (1 reply)
    with her, she stands her ground and will start tussling!!! The girl is feisty!
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    • dislike? the dog is smart, no question. she knows when to stand her ground. 4 hr 40 min ago
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  8. Toddler What color would you get?...(more) 4 hr 44 min ago (37 replies)
    • I have white, black, checkerboard and grey 4 hr 44 min ago
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      • what do you wear most often? 4 hr 40 min ago
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        • Grey 4 hr 39 min ago
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          • Yeah, leaning toward grey. I want something more "exciting," but can't quite find another color/pattern that fits the bill. There is a metallic silver, but I think that may be a...(more) 4 hr 38 min ago
            bit much.
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            • I'm not a fan of metallic. Go with what you like though. They're supposed to be fun. 4 hr 37 min ago
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    • is it 1992 and am i a teenaged boy? 4 hr 43 min ago
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      • No, you're just out of touch. 4 hr 42 min ago
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        • okay, eddie vedder mom 4 hr 42 min ago
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          • Naah. I'm 27. 4 hr 41 min ago
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            • how embarrassing for you 4 hr 41 min ago
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              • Yes, you must be right. Everyone hates being young and well dressed. 4 hr 40 min ago
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                • vans = well-dressed now...only on ybm 4 hr 40 min ago
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                  • Like I said, out of touch. 4 hr 39 min ago
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                    • okay, granny. also lol at liking your own post 4 hr 39 min ago
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                      • Oh honey. Keep trying. 4 hr 38 min ago
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                        • at? i'm not the one buying 14yo boy shoes from the time when kurt cobain was still alive 4 hr 36 min ago
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                • Vans are totally back in style. Vince mad knock offs. Jimmy choo does. Prada does. 4 hr 38 min ago
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                  • they're the ugliest shoes in existence aside from maybe those keds your grandmother wore in the 1980s. not that it will stop you lemmings from buying them. 4 hr 38 min ago
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                    • You may not like them. But they are in style and on trend. 4 hr 37 min ago
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                      • "on trend"...someone needs to put down the us weekly 4 hr 37 min ago
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                        • Ahhhh.... I get it you are an Asshole! All clear now 4 hr 36 min ago
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                          • calling me an asshole won't make those shoes any more wearable you dork 4 hr 35 min ago
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                        • Are you still here? Seriously, you are the one who can't think for themselves. What exactly are you wearing day to day? 4 hr 35 min ago
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                          • is who still here? i'm a new poster, baby 4 hr 35 min ago
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                      • en trend. With an e. 4 hr 36 min ago
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                  • oh, in that case...baaaaahhhhhhhhh 4 hr 37 min ago
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    • all of them 4 hr 41 min ago
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    • I'd get them In...(more) 4 hr 40 min ago
      invisible. They're so fucking ugly.
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      • apparently you are old and out of touch 4 hr 39 min ago
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        • lol 4 hr 37 min ago
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        • did you like read on some website how. And are the cool new shoe ? Hilarious. Are you like 43? 4 hr 35 min ago
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          • do you even speak english, illiteratus? 4 hr 34 min ago
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            • i have autism 4 hr 26 min ago
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    • What do you wear these with?? No socks in the winter? Jeans only? How? 4 hr 39 min ago
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  9. Toddler Hate Padma 4 hr 45 min ago (1 reply)
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    • I hate pandas and pad thao 4 hr 45 min ago
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  10. Toddler New bf has a penis that is pear shapes. Not sure what to do with it. 4 hr 45 min ago (27 replies)
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    • wow. really? weird. is there something wrong with it? 4 hr 45 min ago
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      • Not sure yet. 4 hr 43 min ago
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    • Huh? Which end is bulbous? 4 hr 45 min ago
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      • The one closest to him. 4 hr 44 min ago
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        • Those are balls 4 hr 43 min ago
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          • Op: no. I know what male grntials look like. 4 hr 42 min ago
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            • does it even out when erect? 4 hr 40 min ago
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              • Op. I haven't seen it erect. Only seen the pics from his dating profile. 4 hr 39 min ago
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                • LOL! He did not put up pics of his pear penis on his profile. 4 hr 38 min ago
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                  • Op: he did. 4 hr 37 min ago
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                    • And you are dating him?! Wtf? 4 hr 31 min ago
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                  • omfg I am dying!!! Lololol. In what kind of world does a pear-penised man get dates by displaying his privates on the Internet? I'm crying and I'm not even high or drunk. 4 hr 28 min ago
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                • Lol. Good one. 4 hr 37 min ago
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                • Can't stop fake posting 4 hr 37 min ago
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          • omg I just loled 4 hr 30 min ago
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      • np - I am LMAO right now. 4 hr 43 min ago
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        • Dont laugh that cold be my kid! 4 hr 37 min ago
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          • Your ds is posting pics of his dick on a dating site? 4 hr 35 min ago
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            • lolololol crying... 4 hr 28 min ago
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    • Elephantiasis of the shaft. 4 hr 44 min ago
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    • This post scares me. DS was born with a malformed penis. He had ir completely reconstructed...(more) 4 hr 42 min ago
      It seems ok now, hes only 5, but i get worried as he ages its going to look funny and women are going to freak.
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      • this board has the most amazing cross section of humanity on it. what are the chances. 4 hr 41 min ago
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        • omfg right?!? Lolol 4 hr 27 min ago
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      • Don't worry. It's fake. 4 hr 41 min ago
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        • The penis or the post? 4 hr 41 min ago
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    • It needs to be changed 4 hr 41 min ago
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  11. Toddler I was married for 14 years and 10 of them were completely sexless. He was not cheating and neither was I, but we hated each other for the most part and just tolerated each other...(more) 4 hr 46 min ago (21 replies)
    as roommates/parents. I always wonder how neither of us ever felt horny enough just to have a quickie. He watched porn and masturbated all the time.
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    • Are you now divorced? 4 hr 45 min ago
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    • this was me and then I separated and had a lot of sex the first year - completely sexless for the past year.... 4 hr 45 min ago
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      • ^^I am divorced and celibate 4 hr 44 min ago
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      • OP: that is me!! I did the same, but now I want a real relationship. I am moving and after I settle down, I will try to do this 4 hr 43 min ago
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        • I want a real relationship too but I have been single for 3 years. 4 hr 42 min ago
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          • Same here. Are you looking? online dating? 4 hr 41 min ago
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            • i have given up - online dated for a year.....fell in love....now i am done. 4 hr 38 min ago
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              • What happened with love? was he an online guy? 4 hr 37 min ago
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                • yes, and he moved on and i will never.....i think he still thinks about me....it is complicated... 4 hr 36 min ago
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                  • What do you mean moved on? were you getting serious and he got cold feet or what? 4 hr 33 min ago
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                    • i don't know - we love each other....it is messed up. i am alone - he is living with someone ....... 4 hr 32 min ago
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                      • i will be alone or back with him someday....hopes not high....gl 4 hr 31 min ago
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                        • Was he always living with someone? Because when I tried online, I met a lot of guys who had live in gf's and still looking!! 4 hr 30 min ago
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                          • no - he was separated from wife when we met......i know we will be together again. not sure when.....could be a day more or 10,000 years, i will wait... 4 hr 28 min ago
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    • i don't think sex is that important 4 hr 45 min ago
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      • until dh cheats 4 hr 44 min ago
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        • I wish he would. I wish he'd go find a girlfriend and leave me alone and get the hell out. 4 hr 43 min ago
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          • OP: That is what I always wished for and I got it. At first it was hurtful, but now I am so happy. 4 hr 42 min ago
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    • are you glad not to be married (assuming you divorced)? 4 hr 44 min ago
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      • OMG, so glad! Being sexless was only a small part of the reason we divorced! 4 hr 42 min ago
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  12. Toddler Any chicago moms on? 4 hr 47 min ago (7 replies)
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    • Yep 4 hr 45 min ago
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    • Yes 4 hr 45 min ago
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    • Yes 4 hr 44 min ago
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    • op: i'm going to wedding there this weekend. how;s the weather for walking around, etc.? can i wear short dress without tights? 4 hr 43 min ago
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      • You will be cold. 4 hr 43 min ago
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      • It's supposed to be 70 on Saturday, so I say yes. 4 hr 42 min ago
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      • You will be col, it might reach 700 with the sun shining but it will be old after dark. Youneed a coat. Bring a long trench type and you wont need to worry about tights 4 hr 40 min ago
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  13. Toddler NYC Moms - Anyone use a cleaning service for their home for a deep clean? Need some recs. 4 hr 47 min ago (3 replies)
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    • yes, something elves. they were awesome 4 hr 46 min ago
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      • Little Elves? I was just looking at them. Do you remember how much it cost? TIA 4 hr 44 min ago
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        • I'm osrry I don't. I was injured and on meds. $$ but I was very impressed. 4 hr 37 min ago
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  14. Toddler I was emailing a man I met--he seems so kind and intelligent in his writing. I was tied up with other obligations and didn't respond to his latest message for several days (he...(more) 4 hr 48 min ago (7 replies)
    would write back immediately). Now, it seems he must be offended--it's been a few days since my message to him. Oh well, if he's annoyed that I don't write daily, too bad!
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    • if he's this precious, you dodged a bullet 4 hr 47 min ago
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      • those are my thoughts! I'm divorced, have a ds, work full time and involved with a charity and a sports league. 4 hr 46 min ago
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    • is it remotely possible he's been busy 4 hr 46 min ago
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      • for sure! hoping that's the case. I don't care if he takes two weeks to respond. 4 hr 43 min ago
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    • i never responded to any email immediately. 4 hr 45 min ago
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    • reading way too much into this. 4 hr 44 min ago
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  15. Toddler NJ Burb. My friend has whooping cough. 4 hr 49 min ago (14 replies)
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    • Damn really? Just got my booster 4 hr 48 min ago
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      • That's great. Yes she thought she had walking pneumonia 4 hr 47 min ago
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      • np ditto and i thought it was sorta silly, but maybe not! 4 hr 46 min ago
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        • Just went today. My dr said it's a must if you are around small childre 4 hr 46 min ago
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          • she's a dental hygenist 4 hr 45 min ago
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    • Which bur 4 hr 47 min ago
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    • please have her go around to all the hippie clusters and scare the shit out of them into getting their kids vaxed 4 hr 45 min ago
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    • our whole family got that when dd was 4. it was awful. she was fully vax'd. 4 hr 44 min ago
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      • she got whooping cough and still got it? 4 hr 44 min ago
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        • Yes. you need herd immunity. We were so sick. 4 hr 42 min ago
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          • wow i had no idea. but if she was vexed, how??? 4 hr 42 min ago
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            • Vaccines aren't 100% effective. They work when everyone is vaccinated but when people start opting out some vaccinated people will get it. 4 hr 38 min ago
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      • oh sorry. 4 hr 43 min ago
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  16. Toddler I will never move on from my ex and I am ok with this. I guess as long as I am ok, no harm no foul. 4 hr 49 min ago (0 replies)
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  17. Toddler Ds speaks french, Italian, English and arabic. Do top schools care about things like that or only grades 4 hr 50 min ago (14 replies)
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    • zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz 4 hr 50 min ago
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      • And...(more) 4 hr 49 min ago
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    • Has he done anything interesting with his language skills? 4 hr 50 min ago
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      • Not much. Been too busy gaining them. We're an English-only family 4 hr 49 min ago
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        • Tell him to get a job translating at the airport. 4 hr 48 min ago
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          • Or UN 4 hr 46 min ago
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            • That would probably be harder. A friend got into Ivies translating at the airport. She had an excellent essay about it. 4 hr 45 min ago
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    • They care 4 hr 48 min ago
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    • It's an interesting fact, but need more 4 hr 47 min ago
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    • That's not enough 4 hr 46 min ago
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    • They care. It's better than track team, etc. 4 hr 46 min ago
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    • helps a tiny bit 4 hr 39 min ago
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    • wait- you only speak English and your kid is fluent in all those other languages? is he a savant? 4 hr 30 min ago
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      • He probably only know a very little in each language. How would OP know? 4 hr 25 min ago
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  18. Toddler I'm really annoyed. We've checked out thousands of books from our library without issue. And then I get a phone call saying one book is damaged and I have to pay $25 to have it...(more) 4 hr 51 min ago (4 replies)
    replaced. I look at the book and it's bc two pages are kind of wavy and folded. Did I even do this? It's not anything I would have even noticed if I were reading it to my kids. I'm not even sure we folded the page! I am so confused bc the condition of the book is great and we check out all kinda of books in even worse condition.
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    • $25 for thousands of book checking out seems reasonable. 4 hr 50 min ago
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    • that is insane 4 hr 49 min ago
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    • Just realize you've put 25 worth of wear over all the books you read 4 hr 48 min ago
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    • I wouldn't pay it 4 hr 48 min ago
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  19. Toddler You know what's pretty good with vodka?.... eggnog 4 hr 52 min ago (4 replies)
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    • I love eggnog 4 hr 51 min ago
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    • I prefer rum 4 hr 50 min ago
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    • brandy 4 hr 50 min ago
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      • wow vodka and brandy?? I hope you mean brandy and eggnog 4 hr 31 min ago
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  20. Toddler Dh cheated. I am devastated. Obviously. I stupidly went to guy friend drunk and tried to force him to have sex with me. Drunk.. very drunk... and he told me he wouldn't have...(more) 4 hr 53 min ago (63 replies)
    sex with me while I am drunk and upset and not thinking straight and that he doesn't want to be an angry bitter excuse for being hurt. And i cried in his arms for two hours and told him he made me feel worse like the least sexy person on the planet. he told me he didn't say no to hurt me but not to hurt me in the end and It would make him a dick if he did it. He told me i could stay with him for a few weeks if i need to with dd. I just feel so completely unlovable and alone.
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    • i'm sorry. your feelings are so normal. i wish you peace some day soon 4 hr 53 min ago
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    • Oh I am so sorry - BIG hugs to you.....you have the right to feel this way and be hurt....your dh did something awful. 4 hr 52 min ago
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      • ^^and your friend loves you - I mean you are lucky :) 4 hr 51 min ago
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    • snap out of it! 4 hr 52 min ago
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    • He was lovely to you. 4 hr 52 min ago
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      • NP. Right? She should feel very loved by her friend. 4 hr 50 min ago
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    • He sounds as though he loves you a lot 4 hr 52 min ago
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      • right? Only a guy who was bonkers about a woman would behave like this. 4 hr 50 min ago
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        • np- or a good friend. Don't give false hope. 4 hr 48 min ago
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          • um a good friend who loves her a lot. She is married not hoping to fall in love. The post was about her dh 4 hr 46 min ago
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            • Any man who respects women would behave like this god you people are fucke up 4 hr 46 min ago
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        • I don't know about that. I think most men are pretty decent. 4 hr 44 min ago
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    • Oh he's probably totally in love with you and doesnt want to fuck it up. At least that's how the script for m movie about you reads. Woudl you rather be played by Jessica...(more) 4 hr 51 min ago
      Chastain or Kerry Washington?
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      • I have mind kalings body and kelly clarksons face... so.... i am not that cute and my husband fucks size twos who are prettier than me and my cute guy friend turns down free sex. 4 hr 49 min ago
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        • your husband is an asshole 4 hr 48 min ago
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        • Don't be an idiot. Sex with a devastated person isn't "free", the guy was looking out for you. And really, you are focussing on the wrong thing here. Your dh is a fucker 4 hr 48 min ago
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          • this 4 hr 48 min ago
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          • well, no shit my dh is a fucker. I don't even want to think of him, because I will throw up, again, for the third time. And i would like not to tonight. Its easier to think about...(more) 4 hr 45 min ago
            how no man wants to fuck an average looking fat girl.
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            • No man wants to fuck someone who is using him to get back at her dh. Especially not a good man. You put your friend in a SHITTY position and now you are being ridiculous. Call a...(more) 4 hr 44 min ago
              therapist. Work through your shit. Signed divorced chubby and average looking with a lovely boyfriend.
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            • You may have earned it but stop being petulant and dumb pls 4 hr 40 min ago
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        • does he make a lot of money? those women starve themselves so that an unavailable asshole will fuck them. wores that prostituion 4 hr 47 min ago
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        • Your cute guy friend isn't a douche. That's a GOOD thing. 4 hr 46 min ago
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        • you're guy friend is a good friend. don't mess that up. worth way more than a cheating dh. btw mindy plus kelly is a good mix imo 4 hr 46 min ago
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    • your friend loves you a lot and thats why he treated you like that and respected you and understood your pain 4 hr 50 min ago
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      • but doesn't want to have sex with me, because i am ugly and fat and he wants to fuck a size two too 4 hr 48 min ago
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        • wrong, because he is a nice guy and you are married 4 hr 48 min ago
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          • op- I'm not fucking married anymore. please. Marriage rules end when you find out your husband has been fucking someone else for almost 2 years. Sorry. My ring went down the...(more) 4 hr 42 min ago
            garbage disposal. its done. Id rather spend the rest of my life alone and fat eating fast food than stay with that.
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            • youre drunk right now, right? 4 hr 41 min ago
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              • Np, clearly. She's completely irrational. 4 hr 40 min ago
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            • I hope someone trusted is watching your child right now 4 hr 39 min ago
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            • the problem is that you are distraught. he doesn't want to take advantage of you. What he did has NOTHING to do with what your asshole dh did 4 hr 38 min ago
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            • dude you could have sold that shit 4 hr 32 min ago
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        • no that's not why. 4 hr 47 min ago
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    • What a fantastic friend! 4 hr 49 min ago
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    • if this guy isn't in love with you, he loves you. what he did was the definition of love, platonic or not. 4 hr 48 min ago
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    • Kudps to your friend. Anyone who had sex with you when you were so terribly distressed would be a monster. 4 hr 48 min ago
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      • Exactly. 4 hr 45 min ago
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      • this 4 hr 44 min ago
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      • This post has been disliked 3 times. showwhat ridiculous logic, sometimes you just want to feel good when you're grieving and you want a man to be a man, not to be a girl with feelings. If you wanted feelings you'd go to...(more) 4 hr 41 min ago
        a female friend. You go to a man in this situation because you just want to be fucked.
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    • your dh is a loser for cheating but I also can't stand guys like this other man. I know it is not PC. But imo you are not a man if you have a willing women and you don't fuck her....(more) 4 hr 42 min ago
      Grow some balls.
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      • are you for real? 4 hr 42 min ago
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        • yes, IMO it shows a lack of respect to the woman. It infantalizes her. She is an adult she knows what she wants, and if she asks for something that is her responsibility. A real...(more) 4 hr 40 min ago
          man would perform when he is needed and not make decisions for her.
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          • oh for pete's sake. maybe he was making the decision for himself that he didn't want to have sex with someone using him to hurt her dh. 4 hr 39 min ago
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            • that is not a real man IMO. A real man delivers when you need him. A real man is not a coward that rejects you when you're already feeling rejected 4 hr 37 min ago
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              • A real human doesn't say shit like this, bot. 4 hr 36 min ago
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          • He didn't want to fuck her. Men still have a choice about that in your anti feminist world right? 4 hr 38 min ago
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            • Real men want sex and have sex when it is offered. 4 hr 36 min ago
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              • dh- you sound fucking twisted lady 4 hr 35 min ago
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                • if I am in grief and I want somebody emotional who will be led by their feelings I will go to my girlfriends. If I want a penis inside me I will go to a man. 4 hr 34 min ago
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                  • then go to a male escort. not a friend drunk. but guess what, an escort or hooker won't fuck you drunk and crying. i promise. 4 hr 32 min ago
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                    • i'm a woman and I am not hideous. I have 30 guys in my phone who would fuck me if I ask and respect me enough to not question my agency. 4 hr 28 min ago
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                      • you have 30 guys in your phone who give a bigger shit about coming than you. 4 hr 25 min ago
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                        • She's happily married mom of 3 (with an active troll capability and fantasy life) 4 hr 23 min ago
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          • perform? is he a seal in an aquarium? Lol. you must be joking. what you think of men is funny! 4 hr 37 min ago
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      • Are you attempting to say the worst thing you can think of? You are what is wrong with men. 4 hr 41 min ago
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        • i am a woman. Idiot 4 hr 40 min ago
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          • i didn't say you weren't. i said you are a woman that makes men the way they are, cheating on their wives and mistreating women like objects. 4 hr 39 min ago
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            • that is another ridiculous jump in logic. I think cheating is cowardly too. 4 hr 37 min ago
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      • Oh fuck off you petty bitch 4 hr 39 min ago
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      • you have a really low bar. are you actually a parent? that is concerning. 4 hr 39 min ago
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        • right? lol. ds, when a woman is crying and devastated and drunk and asks for sex, you perform dammit! 4 hr 36 min ago
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        • i am a happily married mom of 3. 4 hr 35 min ago
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  21. Toddler Psychic mom on? 4 hr 54 min ago (0 replies)
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  22. Toddler I have a small bungalow . Liv room is 26 x 11, din room 10 x 12 , galley kitchen. Please tell me I can fit 13 adults and 10 kids if the kids hang in the basement most of the time. 4 hr 54 min ago (5 replies)
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    • sure. lr is huge 4 hr 53 min ago
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      • Well it sure doesn't feel huge but i can sit 6/8 in din room and i have five seats in liv room. I don't mind if people eat on the couch. my mother is making me feel like no way...(more) 4 hr 52 min ago
        can it work
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      • ty 4 hr 52 min ago
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        • :). people are so happy to be invited somewhere that it won't even seem crowded. have fun 4 hr 46 min ago
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          • ty. it's family. only my mom will be bothered. 4 hr 44 min ago
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  23. Toddler I asked 6th grade dd if she was going to the school dance, and she said casually, "Yeah, but I don't know if I'm going with a date." I looked at her like she had two heads and...(more) 4 hr 55 min ago (2 replies)
    she quickly added, "Definitely not with a date."
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  24. Toddler I got my flu shot and booster dtap (yes I posted once before that I heard dtap was painful). The dtap stung going in but I was fine and my arm is fine. My flu shot arm is f'ing...(more) 4 hr 55 min ago (6 replies)
    killing me though ! Wtf
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    • flu mist baby 4 hr 55 min ago
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    • Really? You sure they didn't mix up arms? My dtap arm felt like lead for a good3 days. 4 hr 54 min ago
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    • a lot of people have that this year. Dd who dd my shot just rammed it in and he said peopel who dont ram it in have patients with a lot of pain. Mine didnt hurt at all 4 hr 54 min ago
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      • Oh. Huh- she did it kind of fast so that makes sense 4 hr 54 min ago
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      • ^shoudl say "dude who did my shot" 4 hr 53 min ago
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    • My DTAP arm hurt horribly for 4 days. Flu arm 1 day (usually no pain) 4 hr 50 min ago
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  25. Toddler Who waits until college before smoking weed and having sex? 4 hr 56 min ago (27 replies)
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    • me 4 hr 56 min ago
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    • some people. thats ok 4 hr 56 min ago
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    • you're kidding, right? 4 hr 56 min ago
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      • I'm not. I'm reading the post by the person who was "I was so wild and had sex and did drugs in high school and college." who didn't? 4 hr 55 min ago
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        • a lot of people. do you really think everyone is the same? 4 hr 52 min ago
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          • I don't. but I am amazed by all the "it's surprising I went to a good school because I partied." that always shocks me. we all partied. we all went to good school. 4 hr 51 min ago
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            • again. not everyone partied. not everyone went to a good school. 4 hr 49 min ago
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            • Who is we? 4 hr 47 min ago
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        • me, at least for the drugs part. sex, yes. drugs, no 4 hr 46 min ago
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        • np. i actually didn't. 4 hr 44 min ago
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    • I smoked weed and cigs and drank in hs but no sex until college. 4 hr 56 min ago
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    • me 4 hr 56 min ago
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      • ditto, still haven't smoked and I'm over 40 now 4 hr 55 min ago
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    • Me, barely 4 hr 55 min ago
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    • not sex but i've never smoked ever 4 hr 55 min ago
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    • I did. 4 hr 55 min ago
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    • My Dh- well actually he was 22 for sex. Started coke around 20 though. (Maybe for 6mo-1yr) 4 hr 54 min ago
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    • I did neither of those things either before or during college. 4 hr 54 min ago
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    • i didnt do either until after college 4 hr 53 min ago
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    • I didn't have sex until after I graduated undergrad 4 hr 53 min ago
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    • i did 4 hr 52 min ago
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    • my dh is 45 and never smoked weed 4 hr 51 min ago
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      • i know many people who didn't smoke or do drugs - no biggie. that's their choice. 4 hr 47 min ago
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        • My dh would never follow a crowd- he is 100%his own person 4 hr 46 min ago
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    • I drank and smoked weed before college but didn't have sex til soph year. My roommate and I were the only girls on our hall freshman year who were still the "big V" and we felt...(more) 4 hr 47 min ago
      like freaks and were determined to lose it ASAP. This was in 1981
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    • I didn't have sex until college and smoked pot only twice in college. My dh has never smoked weed. What's the big deal? 4 hr 47 min ago
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    • I had sex before I went to college, but I've never smoked weed 4 hr 47 min ago
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