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  1. Toddler My very quiet and introverted 9 yo ds had a great deal of unstructured time this summer with me and suddenly he's a great conversationalist! 1 hr 26 min ago (0 replies)
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  2. Toddler Apparently Bucket bags are back for fall. 1 hr 26 min ago (2 replies)
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    • what's a bucket bag 1 hr 23 min ago
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    • I love bucket bags 1 hr 22 min ago
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  3. Toddler I just had a really nice night with my dd, at my dh suggestion, but during our night out, he wrote to me to meet him, I did not respond, as dd and I were in a movie. DH just came...(more) 1 hr 26 min ago (19 replies)
    home and now he is mad at me. Said he needed I night out and I was not there for him. Said it was ok but clearly it is not, he keeps going on and on, and on and on.....will not let it go
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    • What's wrong with him? 1 hr 25 min ago
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      • I wish I knew 1 hr 25 min ago
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    • didn't he know you were spending the night out with DD? 1 hr 25 min ago
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      • Yes and knew we were seeing a movie too, turned out the movie was 3 hours, which I did not know by time we arrived home it was 10:30 or so but even then I did not check my phone...(more) 1 hr 24 min ago
        immediately
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        • very strange. has he done anything like this before? 1 hr 23 min ago
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          • From time to time, he can act like a baby, had I known though, I would have left the night available in case he wanted to do something 1 hr 23 min ago
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            • don't do that. you did nothing wrong here and shouldn't need to plan your evening based on whether or not DH decides he wants to spend time with you 1 hr 21 min ago
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    • OP now I am nervous as I have plans tomorrow night with dd and her friend who is sleeping over and then Thu night I have a work function 1 hr 23 min ago
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      • ^scared he is going to be REALLY mad 1 hr 23 min ago
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        • honestly, let him be mad. you had plans with your child and he knew about them. very immature of him to think that those plans should be put on hold because he decided he wanted...(more) 1 hr 22 min ago
          to go out with you instead.
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          • I am but now I am sad and crying because he had made me feel so awful, like I just suck, so I left the room. I do not suck at all and I have a big interview tomorrow. I could...(more) 1 hr 21 min ago
            really use my rest!
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            • you don't suck. HE SUCKS! he is the one in the wrong here. 1 hr 19 min ago
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              • I need to be on my game too....this is for a senior position at a company and I am better than that....I am even starting to think he is concerned I may get this job and then I...(more) 1 hr 18 min ago
                could be doing as well as he is....I wonder if deep down that too will upset him. I am not going to talk about it at all, I am going to keep it to myself
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                • it does sound like something else is going on. my first thought was some sort of competition for your attention between him and DD, but that's just based on this small look at...(more) 1 hr 16 min ago
                  your relationship. focus on yourself and getting ready for this interview. if you want it, go for it
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                  • Thank you...I am going to do just that! 1 hr 15 min ago
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            • this sounds really messed up, both of you. Just ignore him and go to sleep. 1 hr 19 min ago
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              • he appears to be very threatened by the possibility of your getting this job and being equal to him in your relationship. don't think about any of that right now, just get a good...(more) 1 hr 14 min ago
                night's sleep and go for the job!
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        • Wtf? Why are you scared? He's being a selfish baby 1 hr 20 min ago
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  4. Cleveland Does your affair know personal even silly things like your favorite color? Or is it just fucking? 1 hr 27 min ago (9 replies)
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    • Green. Its green. Army green. 1 hr 26 min ago
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      • op:wtf? thats my favorite color! 1 hr 24 min ago
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        • you've told me 1 hr 20 min ago
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          • op: this made me smile. 1 hr 16 min ago
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            • because I guess right or you told me? 1 hr 16 min ago
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              • op:now this made me laugh. you guessed right, silly. & yes. it was told once long ago. 1 hr 12 min ago
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                • good guess on my part, i guess. 1 hr 11 min ago
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                  • op:you are a gem. I hope you are well loved. 1 hr 10 min ago
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  5. Toddler Cant we all agree a fling on the side is ok? 1 hr 28 min ago (45 replies)
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    • sure, go for it 1 hr 28 min ago
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    • eh. i'm not into dishonesty. 1 hr 27 min ago
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    • no 1 hr 27 min ago
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    • i can't, because i don't think it's ok, for me. i honestly don't care what you do. 1 hr 27 min ago
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    • no, "we" can't 1 hr 27 min ago
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    • whatever works for you 1 hr 27 min ago
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    • nope 1 hr 26 min ago
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    • are you asking anon people on YB for permission? why? 1 hr 26 min ago
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    • A-fucking-greed! 1 hr 26 min ago
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    • Oh do I wish, I am so emotionally and physically lonely it is crazy 1 hr 26 min ago
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      • married for how long? 1 hr 24 min ago
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        • 18 years 1 hr 21 min ago
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          • But I have been emotionally and physically lonely for about 15 years, I should have left him long ago before we had kids, I don't know what I was thinking 1 hr 20 min ago
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            • he just don't connect? 1 hr 15 min ago
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              • Oh no we do but he is awful in bed and he is narcissistic and selfish, it makes for a tough marriage 1 hr 14 min ago
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                • :( do you think your dc know you are unhappy? 1 hr 12 min ago
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      • are you looking for ana fair? 1 hr 8 min ago
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    • I think it's ok, but I can't do it. 1 hr 26 min ago
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      • ^^^ although I'd like to fuck a stranger. But can't do it.... 1 hr 24 min ago
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    • No. 1 hr 25 min ago
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    • imo it's less bad than ongoing affairs or when love is involved 1 hr 25 min ago
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    • Too many prudes here. 1 hr 25 min ago
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      • because if you don't believe in cheating you are a prude? 1 hr 24 min ago
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        • np, having a little something on the side is not the same as a full love affair 1 hr 23 min ago
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          • cheating is cheating 1 hr 22 min ago
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          • it is still cheating 1 hr 21 min ago
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      • you could say that about anything. what, you DON'T like shit eating? PRUDE! everyone is into different things. its ok, us not liking a fling does not mean you can't have one, love...(more) 1 hr 24 min ago
        it, and go on w your life. no one cares
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        • shit eating? 1 hr 23 min ago
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          • its a thing. some people like it, many don't. some people like flings, some don't no one cares what you do, and not liking what you like doesn't = prude 1 hr 23 min ago
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      • More like lots of unhappy unfulfilling marriages. 1 hr 24 min ago
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        • speak for yourself. i don't need a fling to pump anything up 1 hr 23 min ago
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          • Nor do I. Hence my total lack of interest in a fling. 1 hr 22 min ago
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        • are you talking about the people who want flings? 1 hr 21 min ago
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    • i've had 2 in 14 years, without being proud of it i think it's not as bad as other situations 1 hr 23 min ago
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    • I am fine with open marriages. I think cheating- and hiding it- is wrong. 1 hr 22 min ago
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      • i'd rather dh have a discreet fling than an open marriage. 1 hr 21 min ago
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        • But if you're okay with that, is it really cheating? I am referring to cheating when said infidelity would devastate the partner if they knew. 1 hr 20 min ago
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    • I think so. Seriously, I do. 1 hr 22 min ago
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      • have you? would you? 1 hr 22 min ago
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        • yes and yes 1 hr 20 min ago
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          • what happened? still with him? how long it last? 1 hr 19 min ago
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            • No more details than that! 1 hr 16 min ago
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    • Nope, only on my back. 1 hr 17 min ago
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    • Im looking! 42 min ago
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  6. Toddler I will have sex in one hour! 1 hr 28 min ago (1 reply)
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    • I probably will too. 1 hr 26 min ago
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  7. Toddler How old were you when you had your first orgasm? 1 hr 30 min ago (13 replies)
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    • 36 1 hr 29 min ago
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    • 12 1 hr 29 min ago
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    • in my sleep, maybe 10. in conscious life, 19. thank god for vibrators. 1 hr 29 min ago
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    • 8th grade - so 13 1 hr 29 min ago
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    • 10 1 hr 29 min ago
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    • I need one. Now. 1 hr 28 min ago
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    • Maybe around 12. Wasn't sure what it was 1 hr 28 min ago
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    • in my sleep, in middle school. with another person, 14. 1 hr 28 min ago
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    • Prob around 12. In the shower. 1 hr 27 min ago
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    • 17 yo 1 hr 26 min ago
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    • 28 1 hr 26 min ago
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    • Young. About 7 or 8. 1 hr 20 min ago
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    • Maybe 8? 1 hr 15 min ago
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  8. Toddler Exh has never take. The kids on vacation, only dh and me. His loss 1 hr 30 min ago (0 replies)
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  9. Toddler My dh is a 6'1 190 pound alpha male. he is dominant in bed. i'm very attracted to him even though we've been married for 12 years 1 hr 30 min ago (11 replies)
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    • https://31.media.tumblr.com/f06926c0d087916bc54d115e7d7555e3/tumblr_mz5z6caKbC1ql91j6o1_500.gif...(more) 1 hr 30 min ago
    • wtf is going on here these days. if it's not dominant alpha DHs it's posters in love with teenage boys. 1 hr 29 min ago
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      • np- the teenage boys is one poster who gets off on mom/son incest stories 1 hr 29 min ago
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        • this one has been posting about her dominant DH a lot today too 1 hr 28 min ago
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          • *shrug* someone who can't find any good mommyporn literotica to read, thinks dom dh are something special (and not totally common) 1 hr 28 min ago
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      • this board perseverates like no one's business. 1 hr 29 min ago
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    • what's with the "even though" part? are we supposed to stop being sexually attracted to each other, we married people? 1 hr 29 min ago
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      • I've been with DH for 23 years. I didn't know I was supposed to stop being attracted to him never got the memo 1 hr 28 min ago
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      • a lot of people lose their sex drive for their spouse after many years 1 hr 26 min ago
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        • Bully for them. Why stay married in that case? 1 hr 24 min ago
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    • my dh is a 6'3" 200 pound literature professor. he is dominant in bed. i still love frequent sex with him even though we've been married for 15 years. 1 hr 29 min ago
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  10. Toddler Does anyone know how to take a boat from Logan into Boston. Where to get it, how often it runs, how much it costs... 1 hr 33 min ago (0 replies)
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  11. Toddler I may not be a perfect parent, but this is fucked up...(more) 1 hr 33 min ago (5 replies)
    • do they share the same mother? 1 hr 32 min ago
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      • assuming they are twins, yes 1 hr 29 min ago
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        • They were born from the same surrogate. Doesn't mean they used the same woman's eggs. 1 hr 22 min ago
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    • Real-life parent trap 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • crazy 1 hr 30 min ago
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  12. Toddler We pick friends who are genetically similar to us. so much for diversity. 1 hr 33 min ago (64 replies)
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    • This post has been disliked 3 times. showpeople always parrot the idea that diversity is a strength but i have yet to see evidence of this. i guess we get better ethnic restaurants in our cities? but mostly it seems like...(more) 1 hr 31 min ago
      people prefer their own kind, which is the most natural thing in the world.
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      • you don't see the value of learning something outside your little bubble 1 hr 30 min ago
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        • this is not an answer. 1 hr 29 min ago
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        • Np- I do see the valuce of it and have always been open to all kinds of people, and still, forming real friendships with people unlike me never seems to happen. I've had great...(more) 1 hr 22 min ago
          collegial relationships, but never real friendships.
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      • I have experienced a great deal of benefit from knowing people of different persuasions. I bet you think travel to various five star hotels in other countries makes you worldly. 1 hr 29 min ago
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        • you make a lot of assumptions for someone who clearly considers herself to be such a cosmopolitan. 1 hr 28 min ago
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          • lol. yes. i'm sure the OR is worldly. to think that there's no point to diversity. let's all stay with people exactly like us. 1 hr 25 min ago
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            • you still haven't described or explained why and how diversity is a strength and not a liability. 1 hr 24 min ago
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              • and you haven't shown evidence that it's not. 1 hr 24 min ago
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                • np you can't prove a negative. that's basic science. 1 hr 23 min ago
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                  • Fine. There's food. We already said that. There's the arts. Music, Dance, Theater, Literature, Art. There's innovation. When you bring different people together from different...(more) 1 hr 20 min ago
                    backgrounds they are able to look at things from different viewpoints and discover new solutions. Also being open to different people means that YOU start learning to accept and recognize new ways of being. Then there is also the humanitarian benefit of discovering that people who are unlike you are actually PRETTY MUCH LIKE YOU AFTER ALL.
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                    • Is there evidence that more diverse countries have better arts, discoveries, etc. or is that an assumption? It seems to me that some of the countries best known for the arts have...(more) 1 hr 16 min ago
                      historically been quite monolithic and even in diverse countries there's no reason to assume that the art created is the result of diversity. especially considering the enormous overrepresentation of white men in the arts. monolithic cultures tend to be the most progressive in terms of social justice issues, even if their views on race may lag behind countries like the US and Canada.
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                      • Uh. The United States. Rock music and pretty much all contemporary pop music that came out of rock music happened because of the mingling of cultures. 1 hr 14 min ago
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                        • cultural appropriation and actual integration are quite different things. many people in the black community were pissed that white musicians took this music and made a bunch of...(more) 1 hr 9 min ago
                          money off it when it came from their culture. do you have any examples aside from american music?
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                          • So what's happening here. Every time I come up with something you're going to say no? 1 hr 8 min ago
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                            • I'm going to challenge things I disagree with or things for which I do not see real proof. Do you just want me to agree with you or do you want to have a discussion? 1 hr 5 min ago
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                              • I don't want to have a discussion. I told you I didn't want to educate you. Go out there and pay attention. I'm not arguing with you because you are too biased to value in...(more) 1 hr 3 min ago
                                diversity
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                                • I'm not biased, I just need evidence, not feelings. It is clear you can offer no evidence. That's fine. But then you say that your own preference is diversity, not that there are...(more) 1 hr 2 min ago
                                  concrete benefits to diversity.
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                                  • I gave you evidence. You pooh poohed it. You want stats? Go look it up. I am not your encyclopedia 1 hr 1 min ago
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                                    • nothing you said was evidence and you could not address any of the points I made in my response. there are no "stats" on the quality of arts. there are no "stats" proving that...(more) 1 hr ago
                                      racial diversity = more technological innovation.
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                                      • I don't want to talk to you. I don't want to educate you. I don't want to argue with you. You want to learn about diversity, you go find someone else to explain it. 58 min ago
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                                        • lol diversity is awesome until someone thinks different than you do or asks you to back up your argument. asking someone to support their opinion is not asking them to "educate"...(more) 55 min ago
                                          you. it sounds like you are not used to discussing things like this.
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                      • ^^^ compare Canada to a country like Ireland or Scotland in terms of literature, for example. I think you'd be hard-pressed to argue that Canada, with all its diversity, has...(more) 1 hr 12 min ago
                        created better writers
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                        • America. Vibrant art. Vibrant technology. Innovation every time we turn around. I had an Chinese immigrant student once who was extremely smart. She told me she wished she could...(more) 1 hr 10 min ago
                          be more like the rough and tumble american kids, their freedom and creativity and assertiveness and belief that their ideas were worthy was something really valuable and you just didn't get that in a monolithic culture like china.
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                          • why do you attribute these things to racial or ethnic diversity? technology is extremely white and male still. it is a huge issue in the community. america is also HUGE and sheer...(more) 1 hr 6 min ago
                            numbers of people certainly contribute to the quantity of innovations. the US also has enormously rich people (again, overwhelmingly white) that finance stuff that a lot of other countries can't. most major artists in the US are white, which is another big issue. i do not see how you can say these things are the result of racial or ethnic diversity. and are you talking about diversity or are you talking about the US? can you give examples from countries aside from the US?
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                            • you asked why I thought diversity was good. I have answered many times over. You don't want to accept any of my answers. Now ask again why I didn't want waste my time educating...(more) 1 hr 4 min ago
                              you?
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                              • Why are you so condescending? You're not "educating" me, you have failed to make your point. 1 hr 3 min ago
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                                • you tell me you can't prove a negative, but you just say "no it's not" to everything I say, and ignore what you care to. I'm condescending because you are insulting. 1 hr 2 min ago
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                                  • I didn't just say "no, it's not". i brought up specific objections to your points. someone disagreeing with you is not insulting. it is funny that you say diversity is so amazing...(more) 58 min ago
                                    but apparently think someone with a different opinion than you is insulting you.
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                              • np. usually people only say this shit when they know they've been exposed and don't really have any answers. 1 hr 1 min ago
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                                • I haven't been exposed. i have answered. she picks on one thing and ignores the rest. and then says she can't prove a negative. and rock music evolved past appropriation. and...(more) 59 min ago
                                  technology is white and ASIAN which is diversity. and what about all the humanitarian reasons for getting to know people that are unlike you?
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                                  • Not to state the obvious, but the US doesn't exactly have the best humanitarian record. If you're going to argue that you can't use the US as an example. 58 min ago
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                          • you're right, only americans believe their ideas are worth something and have creativity and freedom. there's never been any of that in europe! 48 min ago
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            • np: hey, she never said there's no point. Remember the better ethnic restaurants? 1 hr 24 min ago
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              • oh right. silly me 1 hr 23 min ago
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            • np. i have never really thought about this so i'm curious - what specifically do you think makes a diverse culture stronger than a monolithic one? do you have any real life...(more) 1 hr 24 min ago
              examples?
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              • I do. But you know what? I really don't feel like the HUGE task of educating you on why diversity is good. Why don't you go out there and spend time with people who are different...(more) 1 hr 22 min ago
                from you and see what you learn.
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                • I live in Toronto! It's extremely diverse. I've lived in 9 different countries. But I'm curious about your answer. 1 hr 21 min ago
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                  • so you tell me 1 hr 20 min ago
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                    • why are you avoiding the question? 1 hr 19 min ago
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                      • because it's exhausting having to defend my very identity to people who are ignorant. and because i answered it above. so why don't you just look up 1 hr 18 min ago
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                        • what does this have to do with your identity? 1 hr 15 min ago
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                          • Because I am multicultural. I come from a diverse background. Diversity is wonderful. Having everyone look alike and have all the same traditions and values is not so much. 1 hr 13 min ago
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                            • do you not realize how at odds this attitude is with the stuff you're posting? 53 min ago
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                • Why don't you just answer the question instead of insulting people? 1 hr 19 min ago
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                  • I didn't insult you. I said go meet some diverse people and find out 1 hr 17 min ago
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                    • I know people from all over. I'm a minority myself. Why would you assume other people don't have those experiences simply because they ask you about your opinion? 1 hr 16 min ago
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                      • If you know then YOU answer the question 1 hr 12 min ago
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                        • I do not agree that diversity is inherently better. 1 hr 5 min ago
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      • I don't 100% agree, but this is actually true. If you read the book The Geography of Bliss, the happiest countries tend to be the most homogeneous. 1 hr 23 min ago
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        • Which ones for example? 1 hr 22 min ago
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          • Switzerland, Iceland, Netherlands 1 hr 18 min ago
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            • those are small countries, maybe that 1 hr 15 min ago
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              • ^has something to do with it 1 hr 15 min ago
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        • Genetically homogenous or class homogenous? 1 hr 20 min ago
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          • A little of both if I recall (it was a long time ago that I read it) but definitely genetically. 1 hr 18 min ago
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    • what does mean, exactly? aren't all humans pretty genetically similar? i'm not a scientist, so i don't know. 1 hr 30 min ago
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    • I do not feel this is so in my life. In my lifetime of friends, I've had a united nations of friends, from tiny little trinidadians to giant blond germans. 1 hr 30 min ago
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    • Not me! 1 hr 25 min ago
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    • i'm scandinavian. almost all my friends are Ashkenazi Jews. i wonder why. 1 hr 25 min ago
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      • Jews love Danish! 1 hr 20 min ago
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        • WEveryone loves danishes 1 hr 4 min ago
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      • I'm Euro mutt and almost all my close friends throughout the years have been Jews. I don't buy this theory 52 min ago
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    • How do we know? OTOH, genetic diversity is good when choosing a mate, pheromones play a role in that. 1 hr 24 min ago
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  13. Toddler Watching the desperate housewives pilot and just saw lynette's sons shove a shopping cart into an old woman at the store and knock her down, right after she runs into someone from...(more) 1 hr 34 min ago (0 replies)
    her old firm and lies about how much she loves motherhood. lol my life
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  14. Toddler Why oh why must my dds obsess over clothes. why? almost 8yo wants to wear 4 dresses and one pair of shorts in her closet. never mind the other 10 teeshrits, skirts dresses and...(more) 1 hr 34 min ago (11 replies)
    shorts. what the fuck.
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    • why does it matter to you what she wears as long as she's presentable? doesn't seem like a battle worth fighting imo 1 hr 33 min ago
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      • i cannot do laundry and iron as often as she would like 1 hr 33 min ago
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        • no reason an 8yo can't start learning how to do her own laundry 1 hr 32 min ago
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          • we tried that at the beginning of summer. feel apart with camp schedule and swimming and her being wiped out 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • because she is a person with taste and style of her own. 1 hr 33 min ago
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      • but she picked most of it out. i learned early to ok purchases b/c older dd was like this too 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • Are they more comfortable? I have 2 8 yr old dds and no one seems to be into clothes yet 1 hr 32 min ago
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      • no. 1 hr 32 min ago
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        • Why does she care then? I never hear any of the girls my dds age showing any interest in this 1 hr 31 min ago
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          • i think its genetic. couple of her friends seem to care too. 1 hr 30 min ago
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            • Maybe it is just different groups. My dds are into keychains and beanie babies 1 hr 29 min ago
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  15. Toddler Anyone see the Jaime private school girl show from Australia? It's on HBO as sunset high 1 hr 34 min ago (4 replies)
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    • yeah 1 hr 34 min ago
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    • yeah 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • I watched it on the plane. Funny 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • Not as funny as summer heights high 1 hr 25 min ago
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  16. Toddler Do you boycott anything for ideological reasons? 1 hr 35 min ago (44 replies)
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    • i'm boycotting dyson 1 hr 34 min ago
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    • Boy Scouts 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • Amazon, walmart, edensoy, hobby lobby, 1 hr 33 min ago
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      • What's with edensoy? 1 hr 31 min ago
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        • Eden foods is also trying to claim they don't have to cover basic birth control for women 1 hr 28 min ago
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          • Wow...are they religious based? 1 hr 27 min ago
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          • Fuck them then! I'm now boycotting too 46 min ago
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    • every company that's fighting the state of vermont on mandatory gmo labeling 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • walmart 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • Yum, oh wait, I am still here 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • i don't boycott, but i am a vegetarian for ideological reasons. 1 hr 32 min ago
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      • ^^ oh, and I would never go to a horse race 1 hr 32 min ago
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      • I'm trying to get there, have cut out red meat so far. 46 min ago
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    • Barneys, boy scouts, chick filet 1 hr 32 min ago
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      • My gay friends didn't even give up,chick filet, so we dropped that one 1 hr 30 min ago
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    • amazon, walmart, costco-- big box stores and big online stores. And of course hobby lobby 1 hr 31 min ago
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      • Why Costco? 1 hr 30 min ago
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        • I heard they had decent labor practices. 1 hr 29 min ago
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          • And you're against that? 1 hr 29 min ago
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            • No, I'm following up on your question, sorry. 1 hr 28 min ago
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              • No problem. That's why I was confused :) 1 hr 27 min ago
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        • My neighbor boycotts Costco because they won't sell guns. Craaazzeeee 1 hr 27 min ago
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    • Barilla pasta, Eden foods, hobby lobby, chikfila, Abercrombie. 1 hr 31 min ago
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      • ^walmart, of course 1 hr 30 min ago
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      • barilla? why? 1 hr 27 min ago
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        • The CEO said he was against gays and if they didn't like it they could eat a diff brand of pasta. I'm not gay, just an ally, but it pissed me off. 1 hr 20 min ago
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    • Somewhat. I avoid some stuff, but it's easy to do since there are other options. 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • Nutella. SAVE THE ORANGUTANS!!!!!! 1 hr 31 min ago
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      • np. what are they doing to orangutans?? 1 hr 30 min ago
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        • Palm oil is the biggest culprit of deforestation of their habitats. 1 hr 27 min ago
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          • thanks. 1 hr 27 min ago
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      • What? I don't like Nutella, but what's the deal with orangutans? 1 hr 30 min ago
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        • Don't eat palm oil. 1 hr 27 min ago
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          • Easy one as it's bad for you anyway. Thanks for the info. 1 hr 19 min ago
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    • Fast food 1 hr 30 min ago
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    • no. there are stores i don't shop at because i don't like shopping in big stores, but it's a preference, not a statement 1 hr 28 min ago
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    • Nestle-evil 1 hr 27 min ago
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    • walmart, nestle, meat 48 min ago
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    • I used to and then I got cynical and realized it doesn't make a difference. 46 min ago
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  17. Toddler I love my bf and the sex is good but it is not hot. 1 hr 35 min ago (3 replies)
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    • if it's not hot it isn't good 1 hr 33 min ago
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      • op: I know :( sad me. 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • what does this mean? 1 hr 30 min ago
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  18. Toddler I cut.out gluten for medical reasons but have lost 5 lbs in a month! Haven't lost weight in yrs 1 hr 37 min ago (0 replies)
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  19. Toddler How many people did you sleep with when you were in high school? 1 hr 37 min ago (39 replies)
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    • 0, but I fooled around a lot with about 4 guys 1 hr 37 min ago
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    • zero 1 hr 37 min ago
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    • 3 1 hr 36 min ago
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    • Zero. Was not ready for that. Too awkward, scared of boys 1 hr 36 min ago
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    • if bjs don't count, 1 1 hr 36 min ago
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    • 0 1 hr 36 min ago
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    • 4 1 hr 36 min ago
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    • 2 1 hr 36 min ago
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    • 2 1 hr 36 min ago
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    • No idea...15? 1 hr 36 min ago
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      • In high school? wow. 1 hr 36 min ago
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        • I was busy... I had a good 10 years of fun before I settled down. No regrets 1 hr 35 min ago
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          • starting at what age? 1 hr 33 min ago
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            • 16. 1 hr 32 min ago
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              • how many guys total? 1 hr 31 min ago
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                • Guys and girls...I have no idea. Probably under 75. A few 'group sessions' will really skew the results. 1 hr 30 min ago
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      • Public school? 1 hr 35 min ago
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        • I went to public school, but in my private college, all the biggest sluts were those from private school. It was kind of shocking to my underprivileged eyes. 1 hr 34 min ago
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          • np- i work p/t at a sex health clinic. the most teen cases of STD are all kids from $$ schools. 1 hr 31 min ago
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            • I actually didn't mean to slut shame. But I really was shocked at how sexually active they were, and how many drugs they took, and how hard they drank. And had been for years....(more) 1 hr 27 min ago
              They weren't newbies. I was the innocent, little old public school me.
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        • Lol 1 hr 34 min ago
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      • yikes 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • 0 1 hr 36 min ago
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    • A few 1 hr 36 min ago
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    • 3 1 hr 36 min ago
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    • Zero. 1 hr 35 min ago
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    • 1. 1 hr 35 min ago
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    • 0 1 hr 35 min ago
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    • 3. 4 if you count a guy the summer between HS and college 1 hr 35 min ago
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    • 7 in high school, 13 in college and 14 after college until married at 32. 1 hr 35 min ago
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    • 0 1 hr 34 min ago
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    • 1 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • 0 but then summer came . . . 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • no intercourse, but LOTS of orgasms with one guy 1 hr 32 min ago
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      • why no intercourse? 1 hr 29 min ago
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        • he was a "good Catholic" and too scared 1 hr 28 min ago
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          • were you frustrated by that? 1 hr 27 min ago
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    • 12 1 hr 29 min ago
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  20. Toddler This post has been disliked 3 times. showDh is cocky. He walks with a natural strut. He oozes confidence. Out of college he applied for jobs without having any experience (and a faked resume) and his motto was "fake it...(more) 1 hr 39 min ago (33 replies)
    til you make it". I've always been attracted to these qualities even when they annoy me
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    • He's having an affair 1 hr 39 min ago
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      • and seeing prostitutes 1 hr 38 min ago
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      • op, just because he's confident he's having an affair?he could have other women but he'd never cheat 1 hr 37 min ago
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        • Actually he is probably not confident which is why he acts that way 1 hr 36 min ago
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          • this 1 hr 34 min ago
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          • Which makes him even more likely to cheat. Needs admiration from someone who doesn't know him well. 1 hr 34 min ago
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        • Because he is a dishonest person 1 hr 35 min ago
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          • he did what he needed to do to get ahead but he's good at his job now 1 hr 34 min ago
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            • np - someone like that will always do what he needs to do to get ahead, even if it is illegal. that's not a quality I admire 1 hr 34 min ago
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              • oh come on, faking some experience for a low level job isn't the end of the world 1 hr 33 min ago
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            • a million bucks says that he continues to do unethical things to "get ahead."...(more) 1 hr 33 min ago
              to get ahead of the people who play by the rules, he means.
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          • And an actor who enjoys pulling the wool over people's eyes. 1 hr 34 min ago
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    • Barf- jail for fraud is t far behind 1 hr 39 min ago
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      • you missed the "til you make it" bit. He faked the first week and then he figured it out and he'sbeen great ever since 1 hr 37 min ago
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        • Till he fakes the next illegal thing he does 1 hr 36 min ago
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          • oh please. he wasn't applying to be a surgeon. he was applying for a job that you could do without experience. it was low level management 1 hr 35 min ago
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            • np - and he would have been fired if found out. that doesn't tell you anything? 1 hr 34 min ago
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              • and he has made millions for his company since. sometimes lies benefit all parties involved 1 hr 32 min ago
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                • it doesn't matter. there have been cases of people in situation like this who have been fired, and some of them have been pretty high up in their companies 1 hr 31 min ago
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        • so after the first week he applied for jobs using jis real resume 1 hr 36 min ago
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          • well then he had real experience. He's been with the same business since and has climbed the ladder there 1 hr 33 min ago
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            • you know that if they find out he lied on his resume they could fire him, right? 1 hr 33 min ago
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            • np. what line of work? 1 hr 33 min ago
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              • finance, a bank in NYC 1 hr 32 min ago
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                • *shudder* sometimes this place makes me so grateful for my dh. 1 hr 31 min ago
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        • And the resume fraud? 1 hr 26 min ago
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    • Sounds like a mental illness 1 hr 38 min ago
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    • i'm glad you like him. i'd cross the street to avoid his douchey ass, though. 1 hr 38 min ago
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    • i have no respect for those types 1 hr 37 min ago
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      • well you might think differently if one of those types had the abilitly to seemingly give you orgasms at will 1 hr 36 min ago
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        • how could he, though, if she doesn't like that kind of man? i feel the same, i'm turned off by the type A. 1 hr 35 min ago
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        • my dh is a a deeply ethical man and he gives me multiple orgasms several times a week. 1 hr 34 min ago
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    • Fakers are really unappealing and they get caught. 1 hr 37 min ago
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  21. Toddler A priest and a rabbi are standing on a corner and a young boy walks by. The priest says "Let's screw him!" The rabbi says "Out of what?" 1 hr 40 min ago (1 reply)
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    • okay- I'm sorry but that is funny. 1 hr 39 min ago
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  22. Toddler Yay, 8 yr old is finally forming good friendships and really oming out of his shell !! The more friends he is making, the more confident he is becoming, nice circle 1 hr 40 min ago (4 replies)
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    • I read this as *omg-ing* out of his shell. puts a different spin on the post 1 hr 39 min ago
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    • :) 1 hr 38 min ago
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    • I hope I can write this about my almost 8 y.o. dd soon. What changed for him? 1 hr 35 min ago
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      • I don't know. He is a nice kid but extremely shy and just not "cool" he has lays tried hard though and now has a better sense of humor and goofs around a little ( never in class)...(more) 1 hr 25 min ago
        and kids are more attracted to him. We also worked hard and hosted lots of play dates and did many social things. He was never a loner but would never speak !
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  23. Toddler Ok, so, i just got sucked into this Twister movie. i never saw it. why didn't my 16 year old self know Cary elwes was in this?! 1 hr 41 min ago (2 replies)
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    • Because he was in it for the profit, not "for the science." 1 hr 40 min ago
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      • hee! i didn't know he was in the movie 1 hr 39 min ago
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  24. Toddler So my non-eating Inlaws made a salad niscoise for dinner tonight for 5 adults and 3 kids. It was 3 cans of tuna on the salad. My 4 yr old asked "is this the whole dinner or the...(more) 1 hr 42 min ago (45 replies)
    appetizer?" I love her. I gave the kids chicken nuggets after 3 bowls of salad. Now I am making up an errand with dh so he can take me for some fast food before I faint. I am also nursing an 8 mo a million times a day. Other kids are 4.5 and almost 3. Salad niscoise? Really??? And yes, we proposed to cook and they said no.
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    • why don' you bitch some more. you aren't annoying at all. 1 hr 41 min ago
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    • I teach my kids to eat and say thank you when not at home. 1 hr 41 min ago
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      • They did that. Then they said they were still hungry. 1 hr 40 min ago
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        • Tuna and sale should be enough 1 hr 39 min ago
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          • There was not enough food. 1 hr 39 min ago
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          • For 8 people? No there was not enough food, ops dh should have ordered a pizza 1 hr 37 min ago
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          • For 8 people? No 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • This post has been disliked 4 times. showLol but why are you nursing an 8monthnokd all the the time? 1 hr 41 min ago
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      • Seriously...and I nursed until 18 mo but by 8 months DBS were not nursing all the time 1 hr 40 min ago
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      • Clearly that's the only food the poor kid is gonna get 1 hr 39 min ago
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      • She's hungry! There is only so much you can cram into them at meals. Plus she is jetlagged. And she just started pulling up and cruising so i think she is hungrier. 1 hr 39 min ago
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      • How many calories worth of solids do you really think an 8mo consumes?! 1 hr 36 min ago
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    • Hmmmm 1 hr 41 min ago
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    • Shud up 1 hr 40 min ago
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    • That sucks. Can you get some provisions to keep in the house? 1 hr 40 min ago
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    • Your DH was supposed to deal with this. WHERE ARE HISU BALLS. 1 hr 40 min ago
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    • I'd be going out for icecream instead 1 hr 39 min ago
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    • Guys, I know you prefer to find reasons to flame an OP, but you really can't defend serving this bullshit "dinner" to 8 people. It is rude to treat guests like that! 1 hr 39 min ago
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      • they're family. her husband must know what his family is like, and plan accordingly. Mom, we're going shopping to get some food. 1 hr 38 min ago
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      • She posted earlier. Her DH and his brother were anticipating the problem, saying they were going to make fish tacos. Clearly, they caved. 1 hr 38 min ago
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        • they tried 1 hr 37 min ago
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        • Ok, I missed that but still, why flame the op? 1 hr 37 min ago
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          • I'm not. I'm flaming her wuss of a DH 1 hr 36 min ago
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            • I'm not talking to you then :) I'm talking to the ones focusing on how often she nurses or saying she is annoying, etc. 1 hr 35 min ago
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    • i don't understand why you people with crappy inlaws have husbands who don't deal with it. 1 hr 39 min ago
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    • That was it? For 8 people? No bread even? That's insulting! 1 hr 38 min ago
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      • There was bread with olives in it. I left that out. Oh, no dressing on the salad. 1 hr 38 min ago
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        • Jesus. That's is ridiculous. Your dh needs to step it up or NO more meals at their house! or at least not without eating both before and after the "meal" 1 hr 36 min ago
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    • Maybe you should take the inlaws out to dinner so you can eat what you want. 1 hr 38 min ago
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    • Who was the 5th adult? 1 hr 38 min ago
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      • BIL 1 hr 37 min ago
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        • so you're saying that two men, brothers, who grew up together and know their parents' habits turned into 10 yr olds, incapable of solving an expected problem. 1 hr 35 min ago
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          • np- that's usually how these things go 1 hr 30 min ago
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          • They tried. Mil said there would be enough food. 1 hr 28 min ago
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    • Were there potatoes and green beans and eggs and olives in the salad? 1 hr 36 min ago
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      • No potatoes. Olives and a few eggs. Green beans. 1 hr 33 min ago
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        • I think the problem was that it was a bad salad, not that they served a salad 1 hr 32 min ago
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          • It was not enough food!!!! 1 hr 28 min ago
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            • And there was no other food in the house? No fruit? Peanut butter? Milk? 1 hr 23 min ago
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              • Nothing. We are going now to stock up again. 1 hr 23 min ago
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    • I love your dd 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • What is up with your dh? I don't get this. You've been complaining about this since you've planned this "vacation" 1 hr 28 min ago
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      • He loves his parents. He is nonconfrontational. 1 hr 25 min ago
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        • If you complained to him half as much as you complain to us, he should get over his reluctance and take care of his family. Or at least make plans to go out for dinner 1 hr 23 min ago
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  25. Toddler I'm done with feeling desperate and doing match. I have a happy life and all of that makes me feel like crap. I'm just going to keep focus on my kids but also widen my circle and...(more) 1 hr 42 min ago (2 replies)
    get out there more -- if it happens that I meet someone in the process.... Great
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    • how long have you been on match? 1 hr 34 min ago
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      • I tried it on and off last year for a few months. Then tried again this year. I'm just not ready to sift thru the men and the rejection and the time focussed on looking on match....(more) 1 hr 32 min ago
        I don't like the way it makes me feel
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