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  1. Toddler What's a reasonable amount of time in which to cash a wedding gift check? i gave it to my friends about a month after their wedding, it's now been a month and they haven't cashed...(more) 57 min ago (8 replies)
    it. not a huge problem, I just have to keep remembering the $ sitting there can't be spent!
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    • 3 months 55 min ago
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    • I don't get this at all. Why not just balance your account on occasion? 53 min ago
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      • like in a ledger? i've written that one check this year. i wrote two last year. everything else i manage online and i do keep it balanced. checks are just hard exceptions for...(more) 51 min ago
        me to manage.
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        • Are you living paycheck to paycheck? 50 min ago
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          • no, but i'm fussy about keeping excess in savings, not checking so it can't be spent. 49 min ago
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            • You must be since savings accounts earn minuscule levels of interest 48 min ago
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              • np-who cares about the lack of interest on a few grand? Or a few hundred, depending on the op's situation? 47 min ago
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          • np-what is your f'ing point?? 48 min ago
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  2. Toddler Our middle school has no playground. It's a crappy blacktop with nothing to do on it. we are not in the city.We are looking to build a natural scape playground (the renderings are...(more) 57 min ago (16 replies)
    fantastic) of course there is no money for it in the budget (170k would be the top of the line, everything fantastic one). I am on the commitee for this playground to be built. Work is really slow so I am spending my morning researching grants to help fund it. there is a lot of money out there for stuff like this apparently!
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    • middle schools have playgrounds? 56 min ago
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      • yup. our old one had a nice one with climbing features, and places to have outdoor classes 55 min ago
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        • nice! not a thing where we are -- they could use some time to clamber around. i hope yours gets built. 53 min ago
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    • good for you, we did this at our local school, the lead person spent countless hours but it was eventually built GL 55 min ago
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      • we have it blocked out to do in steps if we can't get the money. we could probably get the school board to match some funds if we can come up with some (if we can get 50k maybe...(more) 53 min ago
        they can give us 50k in the budget type thing)
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        • we got the town to kick in some money too, in case you want to consider other funding models 52 min ago
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          • our town is the school board LOL. It's a small town, people HATE to give money once they are "not in the system" 51 min ago
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            • got it 51 min ago
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            • ^^^tghat is an exaggeration, but people in our town HATE improving anything, so you have to prove you can do it with as little help as possible from them 50 min ago
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            • Do they care about property values? Or just lifers who trying to hang on until they dead 50 min ago
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              • a bit of both LOL. they don't want their taxes to go up (which I get) but they also need to keep the school a top district (where we are it is) so we can get people to move her...(more) 48 min ago
                here (which they are)
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    • Our middle school doesn't have a plaground either. We have "blacktop games" and a field, which are enough. 4-square, handball, spikeball, basket ball, soccer, ping pong 54 min ago
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      • our blacktop isn't even big enough for that. you put one kid playing basketball and there isn't room for anything else 53 min ago
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    • I'm glad to know there's money for this. 53 min ago
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    • I've never seen a middle school with a playground...ususally just blacktop and some basketball hoops 45 min ago
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      • our old school had one, it was climbing stuff, no swings or what you would think of as a playground. 42 min ago
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  3. Toddler It's interesting how people eat a tortured chicken but wouldn't eat bald eagle. Or don't mind eating tuna but wouldn't dolphin. They're okay with cows but not horses. An anima...(more) 57 min ago (14 replies)
    perceived as majestic is off limits.
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    • Not very tasty meat, mostly musculature 56 min ago
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    • yawn. 55 min ago
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      • Have some coffee, cunt. 52 min ago
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    • arent they endangered? it's partly cultural - for example, there are countries where it's not unusual to eat a particular breed of dog 55 min ago
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    • Dolphins are smart. Horses are beatiful. Cows and chickens are neither. 54 min ago
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      • I've had dolphin several times. Served with a pineapple habanero chutney 52 min ago
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      • I disagree about cows. their eyes! and a calf? They are so sweet looking. 32 min ago
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    • It's a pet 53 min ago
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    • I had no problem eating horse. It just wasn't that great compared to beef. 48 min ago
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    • There's a great old comedy routine by Stan freberg about that. The turkey was the national bird until someone put it in the oven by mistake 48 min ago
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    • Tuna is a fish. Dolphin is a mammal 33 min ago
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    • I think about this all of the time. HOw I pick apart a chicken and think nothing of it but if it were a dog or cat carcass I'd be republsed 32 min ago
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    • I'm not a vegetarian but I think the way we treat animals (factory farmed ones) is horrifying and there is going to be-or is-some sort of retribution for it 31 min ago
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  4. Toddler In 2012, Tennessee State Representative Richard Floyd, who introduced his very own anti-trans bathroom bill that year, described just what he’d do if he discovered a...(more) 58 min ago (4 replies)
    transgender woman in the same bathroom or dressing room as his wife or one of his daughters.
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    • “I’d just try to stomp a mudhole in him and then stomp him dry,” he told The Chattanooga Times Free Press. “Don’t ask me to adjust to their perverted way of thinking and put my...(more) 57 min ago
      family at risk.”
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      • does he send his son to a catholic church? does he send his son into a mens room? 57 min ago
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      • That state lawmakers feel so emboldened to threaten trans people with physical violence is a testament to the hostile and scary world in which trans people live. 56 min ago
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    • These proposed laws and the conversations about them contribute to the climate in which almost 50 percent of transgender people attempt suicide in their lives and transgender...(more) 56 min ago
      women of color are increasingly the target of deadly violence at the hands of partners and strangers. http://www.commondreams.org/views/2016/04/21/anti-trans-bathroom-bills-have-nothing-do-privacy-and-everything-do-fear-and-hatred
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  5. Toddler Fuck you Mother's Day, fuck you. 58 min ago (7 replies)
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    • Are you TTC? 58 min ago
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      • No. Just miss my mom. 57 min ago
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        • Seems like misplaced blame 55 min ago
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    • my mom died in january; her bday was this month, mine the next day. I'm going to a bereavement workshop the thurs b4 mother's day. 42 min ago
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  6. Toddler I'm a SAHM. I'd like to be a consultant with flexible hours. What kind of consultancy pays well and is easy to get into? 59 min ago (12 replies)
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    • Mergers and Acquisitions 58 min ago
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      • I hate you people. So valuable you are getting paid to come in and fire people. Sick. 56 min ago
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        • np - wtf? 55 min ago
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        • my company was acquired and it saved our shirts! 53 min ago
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    • What do you mean consultant? 58 min ago
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    • bait score 2 57 min ago
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    • astrophysics 57 min ago
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    • I know of a high class escort whose a CEO of an "entertainment services consultancy"...(more) 57 min ago
      For tax purposes. I think that fits your description. Pays well, no degree required.
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    • The Tupperware kind 56 min ago
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    • hahahahahahahahaha. ha. 54 min ago
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    • Do an & fields 51 min ago
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    • what are you qualified to advise other people on, that anyone can do? 47 min ago
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  7. Toddler My 10 yo ds is SN and drives me insane. Right now he is complaining on a really whining voice that his sibling is not playing what he wants to play. All day long it's like that 1 hr ago (2 replies)
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    • Spring Break? It will kill the most patient SN parent 1 hr ago
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  8. Toddler There's a mom friend that I like a lot and have hung out for years. Her ds is a pita but my ds gets along well with him. Everytime we're out though, she ALWAYS pays for...(more) 1 hr 1 min ago (29 replies)
    everything, and I feel so bad, but I finally realized I think she pays because no one else really hangs out with her kid. I feel bad about that, not her fault her ds is challenging.
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    • Does she have more money than you? 1 hr ago
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      • definitely 1 hr ago
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        • That's probably why, not the kid. I pay for people who have less. 55 min ago
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          • well, if that's your prerogative.. 54 min ago
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    • Why are you "allowing" her to always pay? 1 hr ago
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      • she does this thing where she always just throws her card or money when it comes time to pay. i'm not like that you know? the bill comes, you look at it, you take out your money....(more) 59 min ago
        she just grabs at it everytime
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        • np- come on, I'm "not like this" either but if it takes that to pay you make it a point to do it a few times. 58 min ago
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          • i HAVE paid a few times, but i'm not going to be like a cat and pounce on the check every time i hang out with her 57 min ago
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            • Jesus, for YEARS you have been letting this woman pay for you and your kid. It's awful. It's really not that hard to tell the waiter ahead of time to give you the check or to just...(more) 55 min ago
              Slip him your credit card before he brings the bill. You kind of suck.
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              • lol, well if i suck that bad, she doesn't think so 54 min ago
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                • I guess she just thinks you're poor and have no self respect 53 min ago
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                  • right. that's why she wants us to hang out and pay, ok 53 min ago
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                    • She feels sorry for you, I guess. 52 min ago
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                      • she doesn't act like she feels sorry for me.. 51 min ago
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                        • Lol, sure she does, she grabs the check every time. 50 min ago
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                          • lol! well, i guess that's it, she feels sorry for me! lucky me! 50 min ago
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          • This. OP sounds like a freeloader. 56 min ago
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            • of course i do, troll. 55 min ago
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              • I don't think you understand the meaning of troll 49 min ago
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                • so explain it to me then 49 min ago
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        • How about this- she suggests and outing, you say great but only if you're allowed pay as she has paid the last gazillion times? 57 min ago
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          • oh, i've tried that, she says "next time " every time 56 min ago
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            • and you say "nope- I insist, I'm serious" 54 min ago
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    • I don't really understand the point of posts like this. It's like "this other woman has a kid who is so much worse than my own. " 54 min ago
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      • ....and so I basically let her pay me to hang out with her shitty kid 54 min ago
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        • i can't speak for why she does this, all i'm saying is what i see 53 min ago
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          • What's funny is in your post it sounds like you feel sorry for her, but she probably just thinks you can't afford to pay for yourself. 50 min ago
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            • the funny thing is, i can more than afford to pay for myself, so hahahaha! 49 min ago
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  9. Toddler Where in Manhattan can I buy Zara Teres leggings? Infinity doesn't have much of a selection. Lester's? 1 hr 2 min ago (6 replies)
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  10. Toddler There's a trans man I know -- where do they go to the bathroom? He can't use the urinal, so presumably he pees sitting down in the stall? (No, I wasn't thinking about this...(more) 1 hr 4 min ago (3 replies)
    before all of the posts this morning).
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    • Many men use the stalls 1 hr 2 min ago
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    • Most men in Germany pee sitting down. There are signs telling them they should not be standing. 59 min ago
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    • Does your dh pee sitting down in your house? 52 min ago
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  11. Toddler Jennifer Aniston is 47 and still looks amazing in a bikini. Yes, I know she never had kids. lol. I'm sure that's why lol....(more) 1 hr 8 min ago (71 replies)
    • pretty perfect ita 1 hr 8 min ago
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    • Her nipples are always hard 1 hr 7 min ago
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    • I wonder when the next tabloid will say she's pregnant with a donor egg! 1 hr 7 min ago
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      • Donated by Julia Roberts 1 hr 7 min ago
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    • jesus her ass is amazing 1 hr 7 min ago
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    • LOL LOL LOL 1 hr 7 min ago
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    • Wow. Is there a statue of her somewhere in an attic that is decrepit and obese? She has made a pact with the Devil or something. 1 hr 7 min ago
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      • The Red Woman 1 hr 7 min ago
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        • I was thinking like a female version of the Picture of Dorian Gray. 1 hr 6 min ago
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    • I'm sure the hundreds of millions and time for trainers, etc. helps too. 1 hr 6 min ago
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      • well and that too 1 hr 6 min ago
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        • no not that too, that is why she looks like that, plenty of celebs WITH kids also look like that 1 hr 5 min ago
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          • at 47? with natural breasts? link it 1 hr 4 min ago
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            • np: omg did you see the rest of her body? You think that is plastic surgery? And no, I do not think she has fake breats but of course you would only focus on that. 1 hr 2 min ago
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              • I think the poster was saying she didn't have fake breasts. 1 hr 1 min ago
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              • what are you talking about? the OR is suggesting that lots of woman with children have a body this great and natural, i would like a link 1 hr ago
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            • nnp; her boobs are pretty small, doubt they are fake, you weirdo 1 hr 2 min ago
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              • that is what i said, try reading 1 hr 1 min ago
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          • right? people here are so jealous and bitter, it's sad. 1 hr 3 min ago
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            • ? how is saying a person has an amazing body a sign of bitterness? you seem confused 1 hr 2 min ago
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          • genes also 58 min ago
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      • I was being sarcastic about not having kids part. People want to attribute it to that but cmon, the woman works for it! :) 1 hr 6 min ago
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        • she works really f-ing hard, that cannot come naturally 1 hr 3 min ago
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    • i have that issue, too 1 hr 6 min ago
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    • She does a ton of coke 1 hr 6 min ago
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      • how do you know? or do you assume? 1 hr 5 min ago
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        • No, she does Diet Coke 1 hr 5 min ago
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      • Nice 1 hr 5 min ago
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      • HOw do you know? 1 hr 4 min ago
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    • she seems to spend so much time on the beach. it's kind of weird. i am sure she is a nice person but i can see why brad was attracted to a complicated women trying to save the...(more) 1 hr 5 min ago
      world over a pot-smoking simple beach bunny working on her tan every day.
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      • I think celebs in general always seem to be on the beach 1 hr 5 min ago
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    • That is a 22 yo butt. Jesus. 1 hr 4 min ago
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    • i guess you get used to the bathing suit wedgie, it would drive me bonkers 1 hr 4 min ago
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    • wow no cellulite 1 hr 3 min ago
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    • I don't get this country's obsession with her for 20yrs. She's a pot head, a decent actress, with a famous dad. 1 hr 3 min ago
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      • she's more famous than her father, come on 1 hr 3 min ago
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        • Now but she's not an interesting person at all. 1 hr 2 min ago
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          • either are reality stars, at least she is a legit actress 1 hr ago
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            • It's neither and we are discussing her, not anyone else. 54 min ago
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      • you can say that about plenty of otehr famous people who did not even have a hit sitcom, including the Kardashians. Why are people obsessed with them? 1 hr 1 min ago
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    • HGH shots 1 hr 3 min ago
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      • ya think? 1 hr 2 min ago
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      • you think? i am sure this explains lopez but not sure about anniston 1 hr 2 min ago
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        • It would be kind of dumb of her not to. 1 hr 1 min ago
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          • not if she doesn't need them and still looks this good, no one knows the long term impact of them 59 min ago
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            • She would look like any other 47 years old woman without them. 58 min ago
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    • they had her diet in People - she listed lemon water as her breakfast 1 hr 2 min ago
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      • and does she still chain smoke 1 hr 1 min ago
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    • in ten years no one will think she is hot 1 hr 2 min ago
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      • np-I think she will be like Jane Fonda, hot forever. She's not even the prettiest (Fonda wasn't either), but clearly very very careful about her exercise, looks, nutrition... 1 hr 1 min ago
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      • i think you are wrong 1 hr ago
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      • I don't know. Sophia Loren is like 75 and still hot (not that I think JA is sophia loren) 1 hr ago
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        • there is "hot" for an old lady, and then there is actually hot 58 min ago
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          • yeah well you have never been hot is my guess, just mean and bitter. lol. At least aniston has had her hey day. Yours never came! 58 min ago
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            • do you feel better now? 55 min ago
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      • don't be jealous honey 57 min ago
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    • She has good genes. and looking good is basically her job. 1 hr 2 min ago
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    • I know a lot of women with really great bodies and they are not celebrities, but I guess they live like them. 1 hr 2 min ago
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    • She sleeps a ton and works out an hour or more every day. Like, she sleeps 9 hours in a row 1 hr 2 min ago
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      • and THAT is something she can do because she doesn't have kids. 1 hr 1 min ago
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        • yet so many other celebs WITH kids have amazing bodies too np 59 min ago
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        • Np: my SIL has been a SAHM since her kids were born (they're both in their 20s now) and she sleeps 8 hours every night and naps every day. 59 min ago
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          • and she has a great body? 59 min ago
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            • Yes. She works out every day, gets a massage once a week, shops at Whole Foods every day for dinner ingredients, eats well. 57 min ago
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              • She must have had help when they were smaller though, right? 56 min ago
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                • Sure, live in. But when they were small she didn't work out as much. Once they were in school ft, she got rid of her live in and just hired a PT housekeeper. 54 min ago
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  12. Toddler Jeez. Magnesium, hot lemon water, probiotics, bone broth and finally...(more) 1 hr 9 min ago (13 replies)
    I'm feeling a little "normal".
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    • what happened?? 1 hr 8 min ago
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      • I'm going to get flamed! I ate gluten one night because it was all that was there and it fucked me up. I've been gf for several years, never formally dx but celiac is rampant in...(more) 1 hr 7 min ago
        my family so I just stopped eating it when I started having symptoms
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        • If you think you might have celiac you need to be dx with an endoscopy, and they will have you eat gluten previous to the test so they can see if there is actual damage to your...(more) 1 hr 6 min ago
          intestine. It is not good to just "assume" you have celiac, you need to know for sure.
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          • I know. A dr put me on the gluten challenge to prep for endoscopy and I couldn't do it- but I know you're right. There could be other issues, too. 1 hr 5 min ago
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            • Have you discussed your concerns with your doctor? I understand it must seem impossible to do the prep if you feel that gluten is causing you severe pain. Who could handle that?...(more) 1 hr 1 min ago
              Perhaps there is an alternative way of evaluating you for celiac, but if it's NOT celiac, you have to know that too, so I don't really see a way around it. My bff's dd was dx celiac in the last year and I have learned a lot about it - it's misunderstood. You want to have a real dx if you have it, for proper medical care and also so you can be taken seriously when you need to be 100% GF.
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              • why do you feel she needs a definitive diagnosis? She is doing what she would need to do if the diagnosis was celiac and it is helping her 57 min ago
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        • You have celiac and don't need an endoscopy. The cure is the same either way....(more) 1 hr 5 min ago
          Get a gene test swab if you want. Non invasive
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          • Np: so you don't have to be eating gluten to verify celiac? Is this a change? 1 hr 2 min ago
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            • At this point for her to go back to eating it and suffer extreme consequences, feel like shit, damage her guy again is completely ridiculous and no it does not need to happen....(more) 55 min ago
              Takes years to heal anyway. The flattened villi are located in 1cm of the entire small intestine. I had one and the doctor saw lesions. That plus my symptoms and multi ppl in my family with it including my mother meant I have it. I have all 4 genes too. The endoscopy actually wrecked me and I suffered for years after with constant reflux. So..
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        • You can easily develop an intolerance if you eliminate gluten. Not surprising that you had a reaction 54 min ago
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          • That's not how it works lol. Your gut heals and you have a reaction eating it again because you have healed. 50 min ago
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    • Homeopathic cancer cure? 1 hr 8 min ago
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      • You scare me with this. No. 1 hr 7 min ago
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  13. Toddler Help me out. I am working on a sign up genius I need to email the sign up to our principal so he can mass mail it to the parents. Is there a link on sign up genius to copy it to...(more) 1 hr 12 min ago (0 replies)
    send the link to him? does that make sense?
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  14. Toddler Out of nowhere, my contacts are fucking with my vision. When I wear them, my eyes go bananas. I've been to two eye drs and nothing is wrong with my eyes. I dn't want to wear...(more) 1 hr 12 min ago (2 replies)
    glasses all the time!!
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    • Could be dry eyes. Do you use drops? 1 hr 7 min ago
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      • I actually picked some up yesterday. 1 hr 6 min ago
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  15. Toddler Suddenly got into heated discussion with dh should babysitter take dd to ortho adjustment? I think it's parent responsibility everything health related. He disagreed. 1 hr 12 min ago (23 replies)
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    • I agree with him. 1 hr 12 min ago
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    • I agree with him. 1 hr 12 min ago
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    • it's just an adjustment, babysitter can go 1 hr 11 min ago
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      • It is almost all sitters there, you go every 6-8 weeks, could eat up all of your vacation time. 1 hr 1 min ago
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    • I'm on his side. Ortho adjustments are like 5 minutes; parents don't even go in. If there's a problem, they'll let you know. 1 hr 11 min ago
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    • For this I agree with hm. For gall bladder surgery, with you, 1 hr 11 min ago
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    • how old is dd? 1 hr 10 min ago
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    • Go if you want. He doesn't think he is needed. He doesn't go. 1 hr 10 min ago
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      • I know. it's not an arguement. Just POV 1 hr 9 min ago
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        • Most people do not have enough vacation to go to every ortho adjustment, totally fine. New braces fitting, I would definitely go. 1 hr 2 min ago
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    • As long as your kid isn't anxious and doesn't mind the sitter taking, I don't see the issue 1 hr 9 min ago
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    • Sorry, mama. 1 hr 8 min ago
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    • My kid goes alone. It's no big deal. 1 hr 4 min ago
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    • adjustment is no big deal. he's right. it's not an extraction or anything major. 1 hr 4 min ago
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    • Why did it get heated? Do you not trust his judgement in general? 1 hr 3 min ago
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      • we are entitled to own opinions. That's all. Don't plant a seed here 1 hr ago
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        • Or he's really frustrated by you using concern re kids to overly control his life? Got heated bec you generally OTT 56 min ago
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    • Lol chill mom 1 hr 3 min ago
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    • What do kids get adjusted? 1 hr 3 min ago
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      • They just tighten them. 10 minutes 1 hr 2 min ago
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      • Never mind. Orthodontia. Duh. I was thinking orthopedic! 1 hr 1 min ago
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    • If it is just a check up, I see no issue. Half of the kids come with babysitters, or alone (for teens). 1 hr 3 min ago
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  16. Toddler Is anyone here unhappily married? 1 hr 13 min ago (10 replies)
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    • Did it auto correct to unhappily? 1 hr 12 min ago
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    • For me it depends. I feel like I always do my part as a wife/mom and my dh is up and down, depressed often, so insecure, bitter. When he is in a good mood I am fine with our...(more) 1 hr 11 min ago
      marriage, when not it makes me sad.
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      • you need to find a way to separate your own happiness, this sounds exhausting 1 hr 6 min ago
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        • well, it's hard! If you have someone being negative around you all day, you'd have to be a zen monk not to feel it on some level. 1 hr 5 min ago
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          • yes, i agree it is very hard 1 hr 5 min ago
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    • We are so up and down. When it's bad, it's BAD. But when good it's fine. I'm....content. 1 hr 10 min ago
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      • this is me...but bad is always him throwing something in my face.. 1 hr 1 min ago
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      • ditto. 1 hr ago
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    • i was. divorced now. why do you ask? 1 hr 10 min ago
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  17. Toddler The privacy argument for these anti-trans bathroom bills falls completely apart when it comes to enforcement. Who exactly will have the authority to verify who is “male” or who...(more) 1 hr 13 min ago (13 replies)
    is “female”? Will there be pee police?
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    • What will happen to androgynous men and women who don’t conform to the police officer or bureaucrat’s notion of what “real” maleness or femaleness is? For legislators trying...(more) 1 hr 12 min ago
      to protect privacy, the unintended or ill-considered consequences of these bills seem to undermine their purpose
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      • np: the bathroom part of these bills are the LEAST worrisome when you really get down to reading what else is in the bills 1 hr 10 min ago
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      • exactly. "you look kind of flat-chested. Don't pee in there or I will arrest you." 29 min ago
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    • these bills aren’t motivated by privacy concerns — they’re motivated by ignorance, misinformation, and fear. Many people, particularly social conservatives, find transgender...(more) 1 hr 9 min ago
      people, at best, curiosities, and, at worst, less than human, even if the more political hide their disgust with carefully crafted language.
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    • the bills are ridiculous but I think they reflect a discomfort with the redefinition of what it means to be "male" and "female" that we are seeing with the rise of the transgender...(more) 1 hr 8 min ago
      movement. I don't think everyone's concerns are simply bigotry.
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      • Transgender people, whether people know it or not, are already using the bathrooms they have a right to, and doing so without incident. 1 hr 7 min ago
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        • and that is totally fine, of course. As I said, the bathroom bills are ridiculous. But people (WOMEN) are feeling a bit defensive here because the language of the transgender...(more) 1 hr 4 min ago
          movement seems to relegate "ciswomen", biological women, to second-class status.
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          • that is just stupid 1 hr 2 min ago
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            • What an intelligent response. 1 hr 1 min ago
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      • Laws like North Carolina’s and bills like Tennessee’s, if enacted, mean transgender people will have to make the impossible decision of breaking the law or revealing their...(more) 1 hr 6 min ago
        private medical information.
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        • Not to mention the obvious risk of harassment and violence that comes with forcing transgender women into men’s restrooms and transgender men into women’s restrooms. 1 hr 6 min ago
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          • The fear of violence is already a daily reality for transgender people, and bills like these could very well make it unsafe for trans people to go out in public if they become...(more) 1 hr 5 min ago
            law.
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            • Quit cutting and pasting, it's so annoying 1 hr 4 min ago
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  18. Toddler Try to fathom the crazyness of every aspect of this:...(more) 1 hr 13 min ago (2 replies)
    40-year-old substitute teacher Lisa Robyn Marinelli was caught having sex with a student when the student walked out of her car, zipping his pants up. She gave the boy a pair of her underwear as a gift.

    She first started being interested in the boy when her 15-year-old daughter started dating him. http://www.ranker.com/list/hottest-teachers-caught-sleeping-with-students/trent-walker
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    • Rookie error. Should have zipped up inside or worn tracksuit pants 1 hr 12 min ago
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      • You should start a consultancy business to help people get away with scandalous sex 1 hr 10 min ago
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  19. Toddler How can i sign up dc to take SAT? he wants to take it (he's in 9th grade) 1 hr 13 min ago (4 replies)
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    • Collegeboard.org 1 hr 9 min ago
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    • why the hell does he want to take it now? 1 hr 1 min ago
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    • google it, easy to do online..is he talking about SAT or one of the SAT2 tests? 59 min ago
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    • Start with PSAT 45 min ago
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  20. Toddler A rap song by Black Trump:...(more) 1 hr 14 min ago (3 replies)
    • Lol, love it. Almost as good as Panda by Desiigner. 1 hr 13 min ago
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      • I love Panda! 1 hr 12 min ago
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        • NP: Such a catchy song 1 hr 11 min ago
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  21. Toddler The Americans...(more) 1 hr 19 min ago (12 replies)
    Do you think Elizabeth actually meant it when she said Phil could go with Martha, or was she manipulative as she so often is? I cannot tell with her. I felt so bad for Martha, such a cruel fate.
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    • I think both manipulative, but also meant it, like this is your "out" if you want it 1 hr 17 min ago
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      • Do you think...(more) 1 hr 17 min ago
        Phil loves Martha, in a different way?
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        • yes...(more) 1 hr 16 min ago
          because she completely trusted him and is more vulnerable than Elizabeth, who is the more of a true believer and cold blooded.
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          • I wonder...(more) 1 hr 15 min ago
            if she will make it to Russia and we will follow her. Tatiana is up to something.
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            • agree about Tatiana...(more) 1 hr 14 min ago
              but I think she will be "lost." I don't think we will know what happens. However this ends, I hope we see how these characters fare 20 or 30 years later, what they are doing today. I could see Martha turning up in Cuba.
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              • maybe, I kind of hope...(more) 1 hr 13 min ago
                She ends up with Philip. I really cannot stand Elizabeth, her robot-likeness and devotion to the cause now.
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                • I find it hard to believe she can be so militant and a believer after living in the US so many years and getting a glimpse of live in East Germany when her mom was sick. 1 hr 11 min ago
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                  • yes, it's interesting that...(more) 1 hr 10 min ago
                    after all these years it still has such a hold over her and Phil is more and more questioning.
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          • np: ditto. martha truly loves him and elizabeth was forced into a relationship with him, so he's never sure with her. 1 hr 14 min ago
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    • is this a good story? 1 hr 15 min ago
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      • amazing but you have to watch from the start and it is not a fast-paced show. 1 hr 15 min ago
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    • I just started watching on Amazon. It's good! 1 hr 15 min ago
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  22. Toddler Going to Rome late August (with kids). Will adding Florence be too much? Or a good idea? Never been to either 1 hr 19 min ago (9 replies)
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    • Ages? How long? We plan vacations where we want to go and try to make it kid-friendly while there. 1 hr 17 min ago
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      • 9 and 12. They are really good travellers. and we will have spent a week hanging out with family in France before. \ 1 hr 16 min ago
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        • Of course it will be fine! 1 hr 16 min ago
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          • Thanks. How many days? 1 hr 12 min ago
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            • I don't know? 3 nights? 1 hr 9 min ago
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    • how many days. Florence is always a good idea, and easy train ride. Very crowded in August, but there are skip the line and timed tickets, so make sure you get those. 1 hr 17 min ago
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    • Yes add it. 1 hr 17 min ago
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    • Florence is wonderful, very walkable, very accessible (it's easy to "get"). Kids will love it. As long as you aren't shortshrifting both cities I say yes 52 min ago
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  23. Toddler If there are no separate bathrooms for men and women, where will the girls go in clubs to "talk"? 1 hr 19 min ago (35 replies)
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    • Outside 1 hr 18 min ago
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      • Not private enough 1 hr 18 min ago
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        • It will be once everyone else is in the bathroom 1 hr 16 min ago
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    • How awful for a girl getting her first period at school in a coed bathroom 1 hr 11 min ago
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      • I think they should keep the separate bathrooms and have 1-2 (depending on the size of business, institution) individual bathrooms for "others" 1 hr 10 min ago
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      • But we aren't supposed to care about things like that. 1 hr 10 min ago
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        • How awful for the transgender girl to have her period in the boy's bathroom 1 hr 9 min ago
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          • Thay is a tuny 1 hr 8 min ago
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            • ^^tiny percentage of people 1 hr 7 min ago
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          • Why is it awful exactly? You are in the stall with the doors closed, either way. 1 hr 6 min ago
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            • When you discover blood oj your pants and need someone to get you supplies and a sweater to tie around your waist. 1 hr 4 min ago
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              • You use toilet paper in a pinch, and go get the supplies from nurse's office. Girls' bathrooms don't have them either. 1 hr 3 min ago
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                • again, you realize yiu have blood on your pants. You want to cover it while you get to the nurses office. I would ask a girl to bring me a sweater or coat or something. 1 hr ago
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                  • Most girls would be too mortified to ask another girl they don't know. And they don't bleed that much at first, thankfully. You are making it more of a drama than it is. 58 min ago
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                • Girls bathrooms in nyc will soon have them for free. 59 min ago
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          • If it's important for the trans girl to not have to use the bathroom with guys why isn't it also important for the rest of us to not have to? Just having to claim you " identify"...(more) 1 hr 4 min ago
            as a female is enough to gain access to bathrooms, dressing rooms and locker rooms. There is nothing to prevent pervs from doing this and pretending they're trans.
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    • We just need more single stall bathrooms, anyone can use those without controversy. 1 hr 7 min ago
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      • Yes but we can't retrofit every school, train station, airport, office and store overnight 1 hr 6 min ago
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        • We started that a good while ago with family/handicapped accessible bathrooms. All newish buildings have those. 1 hr 4 min ago
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          • Why can't trans people just use the family bathroom 1 hr 3 min ago
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            • Of course they can, anyone can. 56 min ago
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          • Ok but here in nyc many of our public buildings are quite old and anyone can use any bathroom 58 min ago
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        • I will be flamed but I think they should cut off a section of the men's room. There is always a long line in front of the lady's room. I think men just do their business faster 1 hr 4 min ago
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      • I don't know about other places but there aren't enough bathrooms in nyc 1 hr 5 min ago
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        • Every store or restaurant is required to have one. 54 min ago
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          • But many don't 52 min ago
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          • Cvs, DR, Walgreens, no bathrooms at all. Deli: no way 51 min ago
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  24. Toddler My anxiety is so bad today and I don't even know why. Hate this. 1 hr 20 min ago (6 replies)
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    • Get the app called Headspace. It's guided meditation exercises that really help. 1 hr 20 min ago
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    • That's the nature of the beast. 1 hr 20 min ago
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      • Exactly - that was anxiety in a nutshell for me - feeling panic when there was zero actual threat. I worked through it with CBT. 1 hr 17 min ago
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    • stop. touch, smell, listen. you've been here before and you'll come out the otherside. walk yourself there 1 hr 20 min ago
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    • Mine is terrible today but alas I do know why. I have so many anxioety-provoking things going on and so much groef and regret, I wish there were an easy fix for this but I am...(more) 1 hr 17 min ago
      afraid th events are too much. Maybe the goood news is that in your case if it is not situational you can correct the brain chemistry?
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    • You are getting your period 1 hr 16 min ago
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  25. Toddler This post has been disliked 4 times. showArt mogul Jay Jopling to wed American curator half his age... just three years after his ex-wife Sam Taylor-Wood married toyboy lover, 23 years her junior...(more) 1 hr 23 min ago (7 replies)
    • SHOOT ME! ZzzzzzzzZZZZZzzzzzZZZZZZZZZZZZzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz 1 hr 22 min ago
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      • Wake up cunt! 1 hr 21 min ago
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        • micropenis! THere you are! 1 hr 18 min ago
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          • Np: omg! Two trolls meet up on a post. Will ybm explode now? 1 hr 14 min ago
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    • So much sex in the world of art curators. I wish I was a curator. 1 hr 21 min ago
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    • sam taylor-wood's husband took her name instead of her taking his or is it some combination? 1 hr 16 min ago
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    • all these posts about her lately -- is someone here obsessed with her or with her cute husband? 1 hr 13 min ago
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