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  1. Toddler I took unisom that's benadryl rather than the other kind and I'm NOT sleepy. 5 hr 45 min ago (2 replies)
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    • All unisom is Benadryl (antihistamine 5 hr 43 min ago
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      • no, one is different - an anthistamine but a different kind than benadryl. 5 hr 42 min ago
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  2. Toddler Psychopath men are the best in bed 5 hr 45 min ago (6 replies)
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    • ideally you're married to a gentleman and you have a slightly broken well hung man on the side who wants nothing more than sex 5 hr 44 min ago
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      • I'm getting that embroidered on a pillow 5 hr 44 min ago
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    • I've never been drawn to that type. And I'm not sure they are the only ones who are great in bed. 5 hr 42 min ago
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    • That is so true 5 hr 1 min ago
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    • Oh please. I banged a psychopath about a year ago and it was my first experience with AWFUL sex. I didn't even know sex could be bad, let alone THAT bad. 5 hr ago
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      • well you got the wrong kind of psychopath, i'm taking the kind that are rough and dominant and powerful, and the kind that need to make you come for very selfish reasons (getting...(more) 4 hr 36 min ago
        you off is all about inflating their ego"
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  3. Toddler Our new neighbors are moving in! I am so excited. Already I feel an energy shift. I came home tonight and the shades were up for the first time in the 3 years we've lived...(more) 5 hr 47 min ago (1 reply)
    here....the lights were on. I think it's going to be a good thing
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  4. Toddler I'm a novice Facebook user. How do I get names of other Facebook users that I type into a post to appear as links? Sometimes it does, and sometimes it doesn't. What am I doing...(more) 5 hr 47 min ago (4 replies)
    wrong?
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    • @ first. 5 hr 45 min ago
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      • so I'd type "@John Doe"? 5 hr 43 min ago
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    • They should make you into an insurance commercial. 5 hr 31 min ago
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      • op: thanks. AARP? ; ) 5 hr 30 min ago
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  5. Toddler I was going to divorce dh when i found out about his cheating. then i overheard him having an amazing father-daughter conversation with dd. saying all the right things and...(more) 5 hr 50 min ago (12 replies)
    teaching her about boys and slutshaming and making her own choices and being proud of them etc etc. i changed my mind about divorce right there on the spot. cheating or not i'd rather be married to him than not being married
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    • interesting. couldn't he have the same pos influence if youwere sep? 5 hr 49 min ago
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      • 2 nights every 2 weeks is just not the same. i'm angry with him but i still love him and I feel that because he is a good father my kids deserve to see him each and every day 5 hr 47 min ago
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    • What? 5 hr 49 min ago
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    • you get your fun. take advantage. 5 hr 48 min ago
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    • that's nice of you. 5 hr 48 min ago
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    • I'm with dh because it's best for our boys. I don't think it's wrong to be selfless 5 hr 45 min ago
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      • i still love dh, but hearing the conversation gave me a chance to take some time and cool off from the immediate anger 5 hr 44 min ago
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        • I love dh too, but there have been a few times in our 23 y marriage when I might have made 5 hr 42 min ago
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          • The choice to leave if not for dc 5 hr 41 min ago
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            • my grand parents are 92 and 90, married for 68 years. when i asked them their secret my grandma said "we never wanted to divorce at the same time" 5 hr 40 min ago
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  6. Toddler Do most people at burning man do at least some drugs there? 5 hr 52 min ago (35 replies)
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    • of course. tho they're not all the drug addled deviants most people would think 5 hr 52 min ago
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      • Yes they are. 5 hr 29 min ago
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    • Yes, yes, yes 5 hr 52 min ago
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    • yes. of course. it's not as CRAZY as some think though 5 hr 51 min ago
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      • you are right. lots of middle aged people there with normal jobs wanting to re-live youth. 4 hr 36 min ago
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    • I do NOT understand the appeal. I just imagine sleeping in a dustbowl. No way. 5 hr 51 min ago
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      • i did it once and never will again. but i'm glad i did it once 5 hr 49 min ago
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        • What did you get out of it? Besides windburn and chlamydia. 5 hr 49 min ago
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          • a sense of not having to cohere to everyeone else around you and seeing that everyone has a freak side. i know it sounds naive but i was young when i went there. 5 hr 47 min ago
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            • lol, ha, I am not snarking but I can't help laughing at picturing you cohering with all the other freaks about your freak side. Like the goths on South Park. Okay, done laughing...(more) 5 hr 46 min ago
              and really good for you!
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              • np: you are snarking. bugger off dickhead 5 hr 44 min ago
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                • come on, it's funny! I say it kindly. But you can't take burning man that seriously. 5 hr 43 min ago
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                  • i really didn't. i kinda lauged at the people who took it seriously. but i had the time of my life. 5 hr 42 min ago
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                    • sure, but the np is taking it very seriously. I think you can laugh about it and still enjoy it. 5 hr 41 min ago
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              • you can laught. i really don't care. i laught at them now. it was FUN. i loved it. i had a great time being high and in a surreal environment. 5 hr 44 min ago
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                • np: I get it completely. I'm sorry I didn't go before it jumped the shark. 5 hr 43 min ago
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                  • thanks. and ita it now may as well be coachella II 5 hr 43 min ago
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              • np: why does it offend you that she had a good experience there? 5 hr 44 min ago
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                • where did I say I was offended? I just think it's funny. I went to an art school, I know about people thinking they are individual and feeling free among the like minded. 5 hr 42 min ago
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                  • you souund insufferably smug. you assume YOUR experience is realer than anyone else's. typical aritst. 5 hr 41 min ago
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                    • lol, you really can't read. Any art school is full of people having those "real" experiences, not exempting myself, of discovery and finding people like them. You have to look...(more) 5 hr 40 min ago
                      back on it with humor. Haven't you seen that South Park episode? it's pretty funny.
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                      • and how much REALer are your experiences, dear? 5 hr 38 min ago
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                        • they aren't at all. That's my point. 5 hr 37 min ago
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                      • barf 5 hr 37 min ago
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                        • eh, I can't take romanticizing any of this too seriously. It's fun and we can look back with nostalgia, and that's great. But it's also silly. 5 hr 36 min ago
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                  • you make my skin crawl. 5 hr 39 min ago
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                    • Well, I'm sorry you feel that way, but it's like any finding yourself experience. Beautiful and important at the time, a little funny in retrospect. 5 hr 37 min ago
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            • ^^also it was really fun getting high with friends and dancing to moving raves in the desertr 5 hr 45 min ago
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              • I think it's the desert part I'm not on board with. 5 hr 45 min ago
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                • or: that is why i'm one and done. i hate the desert and hiking in gernal. but i did love burning man as a 25 yo 5 hr 43 min ago
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                  • It seems like it would be good in Vermont. 5 hr 42 min ago
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      • looks kinda fun to me. I see the appeal. 5 hr 48 min ago
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      • the artwork. you never know what you will see. that would be the appeal to me. 5 hr 45 min ago
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    • yes 5 hr 49 min ago
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    • I'd say 75%. Some just get drunk. That was 6 years ago when I went last time. Since then so many more people I know have gone, I bet the drug takers are an even smaller share of...(more) 5 hr 30 min ago
      total. It's just not as counter cultural anymore.
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  7. Toddler I think there is nothing wrong with an affair. 5 hr 55 min ago (14 replies)
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    • come on. 5 hr 53 min ago
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    • eyeroll. bad baiter. Too late. see ya. 5 hr 52 min ago
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    • i wouldn't say "nothing" wrong, because even just the risk of getting caught is a danger and wrong. having said that, i do think in some circumstances affairs can improve...(more) 5 hr 52 min ago
      marriages.
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    • your vows? your kids? 5 hr 52 min ago
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    • It's wrong but in a way I miss my parents days where you'd have one and the other person would have one and you'd just stay married. 5 hr 50 min ago
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      • np, my mil caught me in a compromising position. she has never been a big fan of mine so i assumed she'd run to dh. we had a d and m later and she said she wasn't going to tell....(more) 5 hr 49 min ago
        that while she didn't condone cheating she felt a sex only affair is less bad than divorce.
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        • well, that's oldfashioned and puts marriage on too high a pedestal - it really depends on the mores of the people. My parents grew up in the 60s and 70s and it was looser then. 5 hr 47 min ago
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          • i'm modern in most ways but I still think discreet sex only affairs are less of a problem than divorce. and i feel too many people give up on marriage too easily. i wish it wasn;t...(more) 5 hr 41 min ago
            so easy to divorce. obviously in cases of abuse there's no argument, but in other cases i wish we had more of a habit of fighting harder to fix things
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            • yeah, I have to totally disagree with you after my friend couldn't get divorced for years from her jerk husband because of laws that made them drag it out. Divorce should be easy...(more) 5 hr 38 min ago
              as should abortion. But I do sort of miss the culture of affairs being less of an issue - you can have one and still maintain that relationship or love over the long run.
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              • that's what i mean, if divorce wasn't so easy maybe people would be more forgiving and maybe there instinct would be to try and fix things rather than just walk away 5 hr 9 min ago
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      • Wtf? Never happened 5 hr 47 min ago
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        • lol, totally happened! All the time throughout history. 5 hr 47 min ago
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        • np, it did so. for a long time looking the other way to an affair was easier to do than divorce. there was more shame in divorce 5 hr 46 min ago
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  8. Toddler Anyone watch the Chelsea handler finale? 5 hr 55 min ago (0 replies)
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  9. Toddler Been daydreaming about moving to the desert and growing my hair into long, gray braids and wearing a lot of turquoise. 5 hr 56 min ago (3 replies)
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    • I'd move to a forest. Your skin will end up like a prune in the desert 5 hr 55 min ago
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    • sounds fabulous, actually. I recommend perusing the Sundance Catalog to perfect your new persona, here ;)...(more) 5 hr 54 min ago
    • I wouldn't mind growing old with Willie Nelson. Sounds relaxed and fun. 5 hr 52 min ago
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  10. Toddler Is Drunk History funny? 5 hr 57 min ago (1 reply)
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    • I laughed quite a bit. Definitely better than tosh. His shits getting tired. 5 hr 25 min ago
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  11. Toddler Sick puppy update: dh fed him some hot dog and he is HEALED! Miracles never cease. Nor do weirdo puppies, apparently. WTF? I need a drink. 5 hr 58 min ago (0 replies)
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  12. Toddler This post has been disliked 3 times. showOne time when I was 17 my mom asked me what i looked for in boys, and I accidently said "well hung" without thinking, at the dinner table. with my dad right there who thought i...(more) 6 hr ago (6 replies)
    was still a virgin. to be fair, i had spent the day with my friends and dicks were a major part of the girltalk. and i wasn't concentrating, and i blurted that out without thinking
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    • One time I worked for a gay boss (years and years ago) and he asked where some files were. I said, "Oh, a little fairy left them in your chair".... 5 hr 59 min ago
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    • One time, in band camp.... 5 hr 59 min ago
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    • Gross. 17? 5 hr 59 min ago
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    • Take it to the barley legal porn chat site freakshow. 5 hr 58 min ago
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      • I prefer wheat berries or rolled oats 5 hr 53 min ago
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  13. Toddler Can you really come from oral? 6 hr 3 min ago (6 replies)
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    • of course, god yes 6 hr 1 min ago
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    • yes, shall i show you? 5 hr 57 min ago
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    • It's pretty much the only way 5 hr 56 min ago
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      • np, unless your dh has a lot of girth and can hit your g spot with his dick from almost every position 5 hr 54 min ago
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    • get your spouse/partner/boytoy to coordinate his mouth on your clit with his fingers on your g spot. mindblowing O 5 hr 53 min ago
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    • Fake. 5 hr 21 min ago
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  14. Toddler After spending all day in 1st grade, my dc comes home with homework and has to have a reading log signed every day by me. He is tired and does't want to read and do homework and I...(more) 6 hr 5 min ago (21 replies)
    don't blame him. He cries every morning, he doesn't want to go. They are making reading into a punishment. Should I talk to teacher?
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    • No. Too early for that. Just read less 6 hr 4 min ago
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    • public? 6 hr 3 min ago
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      • yes and they are using Common Core. 6 hr 1 min ago
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        • common core tells schools what material to cover. it doesn't tell them what they need to do, how to handle homework, etc. to accomplish that. 5 hr 56 min ago
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    • No. It's life 6 hr 3 min ago
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    • I would fake the reading. enough already. 6 hr 3 min ago
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      • ty I will try this. 6 hr 2 min ago
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        • have him read to you for 5-10 minutes and call it a day. don't make reading a chore. try to up it every so often but don't worry about fking it (NP) 5 hr 57 min ago
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          • ITA - my ds likes to read me things off the internet. Try a mix of IFLscience and animal planet type stuff. 5 hr 56 min ago
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    • Can you fund something he wants to read? 6 hr 3 min ago
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    • can you both read before bed together and count that? 6 hr 2 min ago
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    • I feel the same. It's read, read, read. They are turning kids off to reading. Better they should rest, or play outside when they get home. 5 hr 59 min ago
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      • Most kids learn to read, except those who are dyslexic. If he complains it is probably hard for him which is normal for a boy starting 1st. Just read to him, something fun. 5 hr 54 min ago
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    • I just ignored the reading log thing for all of 1st grade. DS reads above grade level. He started 1st slightly behind. I'm not one of these " my kid is brilliant!" moms - I just...(more) 5 hr 57 min ago
      want him to be happy. He is prob similar to your ds. I would just kind of ignore it. Worked for me.
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    • op-he loved going to the library weekly during summer. He is so miserable now. 5 hr 55 min ago
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      • this has to stop. tell him you don't live life that way. not part of your family values. 5 hr 55 min ago
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    • Just out of curiousity, how much is he supposed to do? I hate to say it but I would talk to the teacher most likely because it puts him in a bad position to not have it done and...(more) 5 hr 53 min ago
      have the teacher in authority, etc. Yes I am that mom.
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    • op I'm so glad I posted this tonight. I realize that maybe I'm taking the whole thing too seriously. I'm going to fake it for awhile but will offer to read with him if he wants...(more) 5 hr 49 min ago
      it.
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      • NP: our teacher always said just do 10 min per night and it's OK if a lot of those nights is ME reading to him. so I would do that and not feel like like I was faking the reading...(more) 5 hr 45 min ago
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    • You can just read to him right before bedtime, and then sign off on it. 5 hr 18 min ago
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  15. Toddler Anyone have experience dealing with mean girls in Kindergarten? Trying to help dd with a friend who has turned on her. 6 hr 5 min ago (26 replies)
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    • Are u talking about the girls or moms? 6 hr 3 min ago
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      • Girls 6 hr 2 min ago
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        • I was half joking...many times the mean girl shit is encouraged by mean moms 6 hr 1 min ago
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          • In this case, it definitely comes from a mom 5 hr 59 min ago
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          • USUALLY!!! 5 hr 56 min ago
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            • Very true. Fortunately for dd the toxic moms left the school to spread their evil elsewhere 5 hr 53 min ago
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              • my dd, alas, is about to enter a class full of them. a veritable cesspul of bitchiness powered by some of the vilest women I've ever met. 5 hr 52 min ago
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                • ^cesspool. don't know what a cesspul is... 5 hr 52 min ago
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                • Im so sorry. Where are u? Are there any nice moms? 5 hr 48 min ago
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                  • yes and I don't have the whole class list yet but my stomach churns every time I hear another name. It's like every time I think it can't get worse it does. 5 hr 45 min ago
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                    • ^I ran into one of the moms several times and she was so nasty that I ended up Googling her, found out she is well known in her field, and everyone hates her. every other word on...(more) 5 hr 44 min ago
                      google about her was "abrasive".
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                      • Ugh, sounds awful 5 hr 42 min ago
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                        • well I'm just going to keep my head down this year...! 5 hr 41 min ago
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    • Get her to learn quickly that some kids are jerks and don't overthink it. Move on. New friends. It's not personal. Don't fuel the drama. 6 hr 3 min ago
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    • make another friend.once the girl turns, it's over. 6 hr 3 min ago
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      • Np: sound advice. Loyalty is a virtue 6 hr 2 min ago
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      • That's what I'm trying to do but I guess there will be an adjustment period 6 hr 2 min ago
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        • sad but true. teach her to cut her losses and move on, and to get busy with other kids. line up playdates with other girls if you can. and my big advice to all mothers of...(more) 5 hr 58 min ago
          girls...make sure your kid has activities and friends outside of school so they can get away from the shit that follows!!
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          • good advice. the mean girls only have power over those who care if they are in the "group". 5 hr 53 min ago
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            • Np: that is true, they can't control you 5 hr 47 min ago
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            • or above - this must be why my dd does fine - she truly doesn't give a shit and rolls her eyes at the drama. she just doesn't care. she doesn't want to go to their birthday...(more) 5 hr 39 min ago
              parties or sleepovers - they don't have a lot of currency over her. I was the polar opposite...
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        • yes but some of these girls do all this "today I like you", then "now I don't like you" and it's torture. Just get your DD away. 5 hr 58 min ago
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          • Yes, it's crazy. I have a older ds and he & his friends are so normal and nice 5 hr 57 min ago
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          • I remember kids doing this. Tiny school. Started a bit later though. 3rd grade? Jessica and Ashley talked and they aren't friends with you this week. 5 hr 56 min ago
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          • Ita, it really is horrible. 5 hr 56 min ago
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  16. Toddler 10 yo crying hysterically for 1.5 hrs. Scared and nervous to start 5th grade in new building with more kids (moves from elementary school) 6 hr 6 min ago (11 replies)
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    • tomorrow? 6 hr 5 min ago
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      • Thursday. Hopefully she got out all the tears tonight. 6 hr 4 min ago
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    • Poor kid. Is this typical? 6 hr 4 min ago
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      • I expected some reaction. She's said she's nervous. Been prepping her - talk to a 6th grade friend about what to expect & practice walking to school. Prepping may makesher...(more) 6 hr 1 min ago
        extra nervous, but no prep wouldn't help either.
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    • Would a warm bath help? Maybe you could read to her until she falls asleep? 6 hr 4 min ago
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      • Falling asleep in the bathtub isn't safe 6 hr 3 min ago
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    • tell him/her to get a fucking grip. serious. have a xanax you weirdo. 6 hr 4 min ago
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      • I basically told her that. 6 hr 3 min ago
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        • you should. Thats unreal and not ok. My anxiety ridden 5yo doesn't behave like that. 6 hr 2 min ago
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          • I wasn't coddling her. 5 hr 59 min ago
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            • You had to have been. Hysterical for 1.5 hours? 5 hr 58 min ago
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  17. Toddler Do you ever feel you made a mistake with the school you chose for dcs and it's too late to turn back? 6 hr 6 min ago (2 replies)
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    • Yup. It's been 4 years. Can't get out 6 hr 1 min ago
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  18. Toddler Why did I used to think soon to be ex dh was so great. I am embarrassed now. I feel like I was hypnotized...Or maybe more like Stockholm syndrome 6 hr 9 min ago (10 replies)
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    • douchebags can be seriously hot for a time. sometimes we women actually like being treated less than ideally. i've been there before 6 hr 5 min ago
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    • We have all done this- thought someone was so so so so awesome only to realize they are just idiots. 6 hr 3 min ago
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    • OMG I feel your pain. I am separated (only for about 6 weeks now) and holy shit, what did I ever see in this horrible man? 6 hr ago
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      • np, he probably fucked you good 5 hr 59 min ago
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      • ^and I am regularly flamed on here because I "chose him" and I "didn't see the signs." Yeah whatever. 5 hr 59 min ago
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    • in high school i liked the nice boys. in college my vagina seemed to have a mind of its own in chasing the douchiest possible guys 6 hr ago
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    • Did he pay you a lot of attention at first? 5 hr 55 min ago
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      • yes. he really changed. 5 hr 39 min ago
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  19. Toddler Janis joplin really was one of a kind. watching her vids in a rabbit hole. 6 hr 9 min ago (4 replies)
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    • indeed 6 hr 8 min ago
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    • yup. makes me sad. 6 hr 8 min ago
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    • beautiful and unique voice. she was 26 when she died? something like that? such a waste of talent and life. 6 hr 7 min ago
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    • she was really way too young when she died. the country was crazy back then 6 hr 6 min ago
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  20. Toddler Does your 3rd grade ds act like a baby? 6 hr 9 min ago (0 replies)
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  21. Toddler Did you have any physical criteria for a dh? Were there any deal breakers regardless of how nice or rich, honest answers please. 6 hr 12 min ago (12 replies)
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    • Why, who are you dating that didn't make the cut? 6 hr 12 min ago
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    • Rich was my only criteria. 6 hr 11 min ago
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    • legs and a dick 6 hr 10 min ago
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    • Nope, not at all 6 hr 10 min ago
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    • I never looked for a dh. just became friends with mine and ended up pregnant 6 hr 10 min ago
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    • I found his talent attractive before I found him attractive and then he aged well... 6 hr 8 min ago
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    • not so much dealbreakers, but i was the kind of person who would have sex early and then decide if i wanted more. i'd usually only want to turn the one night stand into something...(more) 6 hr 7 min ago
      more if the guy was well endowed. and to get to my bed they had to fit my type. dark hair, large defined jaw/chin, tall, strong/big enough to carry me.
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      • np, so basically right body = sex, right dick = dating, right personality = marriage? 6 hr 4 min ago
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    • of course. if I wasn't attracted to him physically what's the point? 6 hr 5 min ago
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    • honestly. I met my dh when we were very young and the criteria was dark spiky hair, piercings, and big dig. 6 hr 4 min ago
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    • Jewish and smart - otherwise above 5' 5 hr 44 min ago
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  22. Toddler Dd starts private school in couple days. We are on financial aid. Her birthday is end of Sept. Tonight dh told me if I'm doing her party at home he doesn't want me to invite...(more) 6 hr 12 min ago (23 replies)
    anyone from her new school because he thinks they won't want to come to our neighborhood and won't want to be in our small apartment. I said "well I'm inviting all the girls and if they don't come more cake for me". He thinks I'm being crazy. What do you think?
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    • I woukd invite them, they already know you aren't rich 6 hr 11 min ago
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      • Np, wow. Sounds like you're being a bitch. How would they know already she's not rich. 6 hr 10 min ago
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        • Her neighborhood, apt, they are in FA 6 hr 9 min ago
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    • I agree with you. 6 hr 11 min ago
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      • Thanks. I think at least one might surprise us. You never know. 6 hr 9 min ago
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    • awww. he's nervous. are you in Nyc? It will be fine. what grade? 6 hr 11 min ago
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      • Yes. Brooklyn. Kindergarten. 6 hr 10 min ago
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        • invite the girls in the class. everyone does not own a browntone in private school. 6 hr 10 min ago
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          • They do where we live 6 hr 8 min ago
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            • There you are!!! 6 hr 8 min ago
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            • In Brooklyn? I doubt it. I know kids at every private in Brooklyn. I know kids on FA and I know kids who live in brownstones and I know kids whose parents rent shitty apartments...(more) 6 hr 5 min ago
              because they would rather pay tuition than a mortgage. there are all kinds. This is not UES.
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          • Op: this is a great idea. 6 hr 7 min ago
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        • Packer? Signed, Packer mom on aid 6 hr 7 min ago
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          • No. 6 hr 6 min ago
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            • well, I was totally freaked out about it, too. But in the end, no one cares. They really don't. 6 hr 5 min ago
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    • I can only answer this if I know what school and roughly what neighborhood. 6 hr 10 min ago
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    • Please just give some people the benefit of the doubt that they don't care that you're on financial aid and just want to get to know and be friends with your kid. We're in private...(more) 5 hr 35 min ago
      And just want our kid to friends with nice kids.
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      • There are very few people like you at private schools. I have dcs at private and public and I can't say that about public school parents. Families who choose private do so to keep...(more) 5 hr 28 min ago
        Their dcs with a certain class.
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        • You're wrong! We chose private bc it was a good school for our DC. Our public school is not strong academically. If it had been a better school, i would not have hesitated about...(more) 5 hr 24 min ago
          sending DC.
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  23. Toddler Ds is 18 and has started being into buying protein powders. and waking up at 5am to work out. And he turned our basement into a gym. His girlfriend left him for a guy in college...(more) 6 hr 15 min ago (18 replies)
    and now he wants to be bigger and stronger to be more attractive. Should I be concerned?
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    • no sounds pretty normal 6 hr 14 min ago
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    • i would be worried because i hate boys and men like that 6 hr 12 min ago
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      • andI would be worried not only because of that but because of roids. 6 hr 11 min ago
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      • he says he doesn't want to be huge huge. more like channing tatum than schwarzenegger 6 hr 11 min ago
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        • lol. Omg. Honestly the hottest boys are not the ones who lift but the ones who do rockcliming, outdoor shit - thin and naturallly built. 6 hr 9 min ago
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          • ^and, I'm sorry, since he's your son at all but a man should sit him down and tell him to perfect his oral sex skills and he'll keep anyone woman who comes his way, so to speak,...(more) 6 hr 8 min ago
            especially if he treats them well.
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            • np, unless he is well endowed enough. when i used to date i'd overlook the lack of oral if he had a nice dick 6 hr 6 min ago
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              • no way, when they are 18 they don't know what the fuck to do with it. Oral has staying power. 6 hr 6 min ago
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                • ^and now i'm going to stop becasue this is her son. Yuck. Sorry Op! 6 hr 5 min ago
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                  • Haha she has an 18yo ds, i'm sure she's aware enough to know sex is a part of his life 6 hr 3 min ago
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                    • Aware, and being forced to contemplate the details are different. 6 hr ago
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      • A young man who cares about his appearance and wants to be stronger? 6 hr 4 min ago
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        • np - yeah, I never went for the jock type. 6 hr 3 min ago
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          • Weird. Neither did I and I married one. Now I think taking pride in your appearance is a good thing and wanting to be strong and healthy for the rest of your life is positive. I'd...(more) 6 hr 1 min ago
            Be happy if my ds was like this.
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            • well you must have liked one enough to marry him. I've literally never dated anyone like that. It's fine but so may people place that above other values. 6 hr ago
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              • Then they're just a vain asshole. There is a balance and taking care of and strengthening your body isn't a bad thing. 6 hr ago
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                • At 18 a lot of them are vain assholes. 5 hr 59 min ago
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    • normal. my nephew did this. that age group is very into working out, eating healthily, etc. 6 hr 6 min ago
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  24. Toddler I lost my virginity at 15 with a 19 yo boy. we were secretly together for 3 months until i cheated on him with a guy i went to school with. he was so heartbroken he cried, then he...(more) 6 hr 18 min ago (11 replies)
    joined the army.
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    • Funny how we think about boys/men as out for sex, but they have serious feelings. 6 hr 15 min ago
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      • i always assumed i was just sex for him. and a summer fling before he went back to college. I was very wrong 6 hr 13 min ago
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    • omg nothing worse than the boy who cries. I had one of those. he delivered two dozen red roses to my house. I threw them in the garbage and my mother thought I was a heartless...(more) 6 hr 14 min ago
      bitch. Maybe I was.
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    • Glad he joined the army instead of having anything to do with you! 6 hr 14 min ago
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      • np: omfg, dude. She was 15. He was a statutory rapist. Don't feel sorry for him, please. 6 hr 13 min ago
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        • and a cryer 6 hr 11 min ago
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        • nnp, statutory rape is wrong because of the power imbalance that is usually there. that wasn't the case here. he was wrapped around her little finger. he isn't a villain 6 hr 10 min ago
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          • her "little finger." You are talking about a 15 year-old girl, here. A GIRL. WTF. She wasn't some kind of bitch/hussy. What on earth. 6 hr 2 min ago
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            • ^and statutory rape is someone over 18 fucking someone who is under 18. That's what it is. 6 hr 1 min ago
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              • except for all the states where the age of consent isn't 18 5 hr 57 min ago
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            • i'm not saying that at all. i'm just saying she clearly had the upper hand in the relationship when she was able to sleep around and he was so heartbroken he cried and joined the...(more) 5 hr 55 min ago
              army. emotional and mental development do not always go hand in hand with age. Sometimes a 15 year old can be the dominant one in a relationship with a 19 year old
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  25. Toddler So when do people host Rosh Hashana dinner? On the 24th (night before....) or the 25th day of? 6 hr 22 min ago (0 replies)
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