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  1. Toddler Would you transition to male (or to female, if you're male now) for money? 10 hr 14 min ago (3 replies)
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  2. Toddler Nearly 12 yo ds has a minor cold with a cough, no fever. Would you let him stay home alone while you are at work? He would be alone from 9-11, when Grandma came and stayed untilab...(more) 10 hr 16 min ago (8 replies)
    about 12:30. Then she would return at 3 p.m. and stay until the parents got home.
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    • no i would not 10 hr 15 min ago
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    • Yes. Fine. 10 hr 15 min ago
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    • yes 10 hr 14 min ago
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    • Totally depends on the child, but for both of my kids, yes I would 10 hr 14 min ago
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    • I think it's fine. For me, my younger DC would be okay with it, my older DC would not. 10 hr 13 min ago
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    • Oh Jesus, people. I was babysitting for three years by that point 10 hr 11 min ago
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    • Sure 9 hr 33 min ago
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    • absolutely 9 hr 32 min ago
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  3. Toddler Dh says the Bruce Jenner thing is about $$$ 10 hr 19 min ago (13 replies)
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    • would your DH take hormones ot grow breasts for money? would he castrate himself fort money? if so, then I can understand why he would think that 10 hr 19 min ago
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    • oh I can't imagine that it is. 10 hr 18 min ago
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      • Grow your hair, do your nails , $$ reality show 10 hr 17 min ago
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        • dude is rich. already. 10 hr 15 min ago
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        • really think a former olympian star would suffer the humiliation for money? 10 hr 15 min ago
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          • he already has money. who do you think has been bankrolling the Kardashians? 10 hr 14 min ago
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            • I know. part of my point 10 hr 12 min ago
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              • yes I was adding to your point. not contradicting. its ludicrous to think he is doing this for money 10 hr 11 min ago
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                • ah ok. thanks I don't think everyone realizes he was a much bigger star than the k clan 10 hr 8 min ago
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                  • most of these yentas think the world started in 1982 10 hr 6 min ago
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    • maybe Angelina Jolie is making him do it 10 hr 17 min ago
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    • $$ how? 10 hr 14 min ago
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    • just checked in? what is this about? 10 hr 11 min ago
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  4. Toddler My sweet grandmother died 19 years ago today. I still miss her so much. 10 hr 19 min ago (2 replies)
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  5. Toddler This post has been disliked 5 times. showSAHM at my kids' school had her 3rd dc but the newborn is never with her. Cafe, school, a clothing shop. I can't imaging having a newborn and already leaving it w/ the sitter....(more) 10 hr 22 min ago (146 replies)
    My 2nd lived in his ergo and went with me everywhere. And he was born in Dec. I only got a PT nanny when went back to work PT. 20h week. And THAT hurt.
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    • i see so many of these at school. don't get it either. 10 hr 21 min ago
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      • right? thank you. 10 hr 20 min ago
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      • What don't you get? That they don't want to bring the baby out? 10 hr 20 min ago
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        • What's the big deal? You put the baby in the ergo or bjorn and zip up. 10 hr 18 min ago
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          • Or you leave the baby home to sleep in a warm crib. Hmm that sounds better 10 hr 17 min ago
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          • np. when i had a newborn, i really enjoyed an hour or two away from the baby--sometimes i read at a cafe or went shopping for a new shirt. 10 hr 16 min ago
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            • Me too. It's essential to take a break imo. 10 hr 15 min ago
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          • Not if you have a colicky reflux baby. Then you'd be covered in puke all the time. 10 hr 16 min ago
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            • Np: i had a db with colic and wouldn't dare leave her with someone except dh or my mom 10 hr 14 min ago
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              • And you know what? Your kid isn't any better off for your sacrifice! 10 hr 13 min ago
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                • You have no way of knowing that. Not to mention, if you had dealt with colic, you'd understand why i was hesitant to leave her with a babysitter 10 hr 12 min ago
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                  • Sure I do. It doesn't matter. 10 hr 11 min ago
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                    • No, you don't. And again, you know nothing about colic. 10 hr 11 min ago
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                      • Sure I do. Your nb would have been fine with anybody 10 hr 10 min ago
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                        • Like I said, you never dealt with colic. You're an utter moron. 10 hr 9 min ago
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                          • I did. And your baby would have been fine with a sitter. Your are a fool to believe. Otherwise 10 hr 8 min ago
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                            • A sitter would have killed her. Babies with colic at most at risk for being shaken or worse. There's no way i would have tested someone else's fortitude. And if your db really had...(more) 10 hr 7 min ago
                              Had colic, you'd understand that.
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                              • Omg lol. 10 hr 6 min ago
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                              • Omg. Talk about being a moron. Your anxiety got the best of you. Plenty of people with babies with Colin have sitters 10 hr 5 min ago
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                                • This 10 hr 5 min ago
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                                • Plenty of people are shitty moms. Take you, for example 10 hr 4 min ago
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                                  • How am I a shitty mom? I have nt told you anything about myself 10 hr 3 min ago
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                                    • Your attitude says it all 10 hr 2 min ago
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                                      • Yes! If you aren't a martyr you suck! 10 hr 2 min ago
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                                        • Well, if you lack maternal instinct you sure do 10 hr 1 min ago
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                                          • I am the most maternal person I know. That has nothing to do with having a sitter 9 hr 58 min ago
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                                            • Lol. That isn't saying much. 9 hr 56 min ago
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                                              • It's saying a lot more than you. The person who has no idea what colic is 9 hr 55 min ago
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                                                • Lol. My dd was a preemie with actual colic. Not cried bc i went into stores. 9 hr 54 min ago
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                                                  • Um hum. Mine had actual colic too. I already told you that 7 hours. That was in addition to going into stores. 9 hr 52 min ago
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                                                    • Yes. 7 hours that was triggerd by going into stores. Your db was fussy. If only you knew the difference 9 hr 50 min ago
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                                                      • No I was not going into stores at that time. That would not have been possible. 9 hr 49 min ago
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                                                        • Except you said you did. So were you lying then or now? 9 hr 48 min ago
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                                                          • I said both. So neither was a lie you just can't comprehend what you read. 9 hr 47 min ago
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                                                            • Well you keep lying so... 9 hr 46 min ago
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                                                              • Nope. You just can't comprehend until u say the same thing 10 times. Go back and read 9 hr 46 min ago
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                                                                • you're saying now that you never said your db cried when you entered stores? 9 hr 45 min ago
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                                      • What attitude dear? That its ok to leave a baby with a sitter? 10 hr ago
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                                        • A baby more at risk for being abused? Yes. 10 hr ago
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                                          • Oh please. Your anxiety got the best of you 9 hr 59 min ago
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                                            • It's really easy to say that when you haven't a clue! 9 hr 58 min ago
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                                              • Again dear I am the poster below with the colic baby. I have a very good clue 9 hr 57 min ago
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                                                • "Again"? You want me to be omniscient? 9 hr 56 min ago
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                                                  • Yep 9 hr 55 min ago
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                                                    • And here i thought you couldn't get dumber. 9 hr 53 min ago
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                                  • You sound so desperate 10 hr 2 min ago
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                                    • Dsperate for what? She's telling me my db would have been fine when she has no idea what my db was like 10 hr 1 min ago
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                                      • That is not the same person. You are talking to a few peop,e here and yes plenty of people leave DBS with colic with sitters and are fine. You did not have some special colic...(more) 9 hr 59 min ago
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                                        • Prove it. 9 hr 59 min ago
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                                          • Prove what love? 9 hr 58 min ago
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                                            • Prove that plenty of people with colic dbs leave them with sitters. Bc of all the people I knew inthat situation, none of them did. So I am interested where you came up with that 9 hr 57 min ago
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                                              • Well I am one and many people I know did the same. All fine. Kids are all teens now. No one was abused. Maybe you were abused and that's where your irrational dear came from 9 hr 54 min ago
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                                                • Yes, your db had colic bc he cried in stores. And i was not abused, but it's very lovely of you to try to use that as an insult. Shows the kind of lowlife you are 9 hr 52 min ago
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                                                  • Mine cried in stores in addition to 7 hours in the afternoon into night so you can't read and don't know what the hell you are talking about. And no is did not insult you by...(more) 9 hr 50 min ago
                                                    saying you were abused I just said it because I can't imagine why anyone would assume that their baby would be abused by a sitter
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                                                    • You started with stores until you were questioned. You're FOS. And I thought that bc studies show that they are more at risk. Not to mention, you are incredulous that a sitter...(more) 9 hr 48 min ago
                                                      could abuse a kid? What planet do you live on?
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                                                      • I said both and you must live in a small little bubble where all the sitters abuse colic kids. I am so sorry. Must be a terrible scary world for you 9 hr 46 min ago
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                                                        • Again, how gross of you to try to use that as an insult. You're really a disgusting troll. 9 hr 45 min ago
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                                                          • Lol mits not an insult. We're you dropped on your head? May be that's it. A 9 hr 45 min ago
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                                                            • Don't play dumb. You're already too dumb as it is to be effective 9 hr 44 min ago
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                              • Nutter 9 hr 53 min ago
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              • op + 1 my 2nd was a massive puker and had dry skin blah blah blah. Mom job stuff. No maryr just your job. Baby package deal. 10 hr 11 min ago
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                • You're comparing dry skin to colic? 10 hr 6 min ago
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                • + 1 this. What the hell? Take care of your baby. 10 hr 5 min ago
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              • M first had colic. There was no possible way to take him everywhere. All he did was cry the minute I entered a store. I would have lost my mind if I didn't have a sitter for...(more) 10 hr 9 min ago
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                • Colic is crying at specific times of the day, every day, for at least 3 hours, starting at 3 weeks. It is not crying when you enter a store 10 hr 8 min ago
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                  • Yes dear. I know. I had a baby that started crying every day at 3:00 and didn't stop until 10:00 at night. It was the most stressful part of parenting and that child is now 18....(more) 10 hr 6 min ago
                    If I didn't have a sitter and a break I would have never made it
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                    • Did you not have a dh? 10 hr 5 min ago
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                      • Of course. He was at work and he would come home and we would switch off and that child cried nonstop for hours. It was horrible 10 hr 3 min ago
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                        • Yes, I know, i lived it. And I didn't trust some stranger to deal with that. 10 hr 2 min ago
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                          • Well I didn't have strangers as sitters. I was lucky that my housekeeper was more than willing to become my sitter, but if I didn't have her, I would have had to hire someone....(more) 10 hr 1 min ago
                            There is no way I could have dealt with that and kept my sanity. You do cried for 3 hours straight. Mine cried for 6 to 7 hours a day
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                            • Mine cried from 1am to 4am every night for 7 mos. So don't even try to compare yourself. 10 hr ago
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                              • So 3 hours compared to 7 you are right not the same. After 3 hours you want to blow your brains out. Oh and I to 4 am is not colic. That's a baby who can't go back to sleep....(more) 9 hr 56 min ago
                                And why would you have had a sitter the? See you could have had a sitter during the day
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                                • 3 hours during the night is a different animals. I would have paid to have her cry during the day instead. And no, i did not leave my nbs with sitters. But it was probably a good...(more) 9 hr 54 min ago
                                  idea that you did
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                                  • So you see your whoe bs about having a colic baby has nothing to do with why you didn't do it. You are just a neurotic control freak who would rather drag an infant into the cold...(more) 9 hr 53 min ago
                                    Then do what's best for them. We get it
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                                    • My db cried at night. But for a baby who had colic hours during the day, they would not. And who said I dragged my db into the cold? 9 hr 51 min ago
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                                      • Keep making excuses dear. 9 hr 49 min ago
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                                        • Excuse to want to be with my nb? How dare I! 9 hr 47 min ago
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                                  • My dear you know how crazy you sound right? It's not a colic of test 9 hr 49 min ago
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                                    • My dear you know how drunk you sound? Try making sense 9 hr 46 min ago
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                                  • Right you would pay to have a baby cry for 7 hours instead of 3. Bull fucking shit! 9 hr 48 min ago
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                                    • During the DAY vs the NIGHT? Absolutely. A million times over. 9 hr 47 min ago
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                                      • Wrong. 9 hr 45 min ago
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                                        • Omg. You think it's easier to be awake in the night instead of the day? 9 hr 44 min ago
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          • It's a big deal for some and why drag a newborn around when they can be at home 10 hr 15 min ago
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    • it's almost like everyone has their own way of being a mother. 10 hr 21 min ago
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    • Stfu 10 hr 21 min ago
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    • your trophy is in the mail 10 hr 21 min ago
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    • You mean not with her for the few times you see her 10 hr 21 min ago
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    • if i were at a cafe or a clothing shop, i'd leave my infant at home, too. who wants to try on clothes with a baby? 10 hr 20 min ago
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    • You are right in your assumption that she must be an awful mom to have the child with her at all times. And think how terrible the WOHMs must be. 10 hr 20 min ago
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    • well it might just be chance that you are seeing her without him or her...I have a baby and there are definitely random times when I'm out without her, but I don't even have a...(more) 10 hr 19 min ago
      sitter, if I'm not with her dh is. yet I think it might be possible to run into me 3x in a week without the baby - but I'd say I'm with her, or in the room next to the one where she's sleeping, on average 22 hours per day.
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    • fake, or crazy 10 hr 18 min ago
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    • Maybe newborn is with dh or grandma? 10 hr 18 min ago
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    • I had a nanny when my 2nd was born so I could take my older one to school , do things with him etc. why is that a problem? My two hours a day without the baby bothers you? 10 hr 17 min ago
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      • Yes. You did it wrong, and will suffer for it 10 hr 17 min ago
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        • Yes my punishment is.... Happiness! 10 hr 16 min ago
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          • Well…for now it is....(more) 10 hr 16 min ago
            I's kidding!
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      • when I have asked about doing this here, I have been flamed to hell and abck 10 hr 16 min ago
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        • ^ I worry about crying baby stressing out me & older kid on long commute to school and home again every day. Might not promote bonding. And db might sleep better if lying flat at...(more) 10 hr 13 min ago
          home or being held.
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          • Definitely get a sitter! It's better for your older child's adjustment too 10 hr 11 min ago
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            • that's my primary concern, and I can spend all morning before and after and all afternoon with db, and maybe on the pickup commute, coming home with a crying baby is a shorter...(more) 10 hr 9 min ago
              trip for older dc and that will be ok
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      • I guess I'm old school. It would never have occurred to me to have a nanny while SAHMing (on mat leave). It's so easy to tote them around. And, well, nice. 10 hr 16 min ago
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        • No it's not easy or nice in the winter walking to oreschool or taking your older child to swim lessons. Not nice for anyone 10 hr 14 min ago
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          • Sorry, there is nothing easier or more natural or nicer than popping a baby - sleeping or away - into a carrier and going out an about. Jeeze. 10 hr 13 min ago
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            • No it's not natural or nice. And it's important to give your older child time and attention. 10 hr 12 min ago
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            • poster from above, I don't like to be separated from newborns but I live in a cold climate and I hate making my poor newborn have to get into the uncomfortable car seat in the...(more) 10 hr 11 min ago
              cold car (or a hot car in summer), scream in the car seat, etc. I could put them in a carrier once we get where we're going but that is more unbuckling and re buckling which newborns hate. so much better for them to be left at home with dad or a sitter if possible if you have to do errands.
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              • Ah so this I totally get. But in NYC you walk everywhere. The newborns are just perfectly happy snugged in a carrier bundled in a parka. 10 hr 9 min ago
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                • No they are not. 10 hr 7 min ago
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                  • It is only how babies and mothers bonded for the past bazilllion years. 10 hr 4 min ago
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                    • no moms didn't go out in the winter with an nb 10 hr 3 min ago
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                      • What? You're being sarcastic. I hope. 10 hr 1 min ago
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                        • Uh no. Babies had a tendency to die. Women didn't work. Winter babies stayed home 10 hr 1 min ago
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                          • np: not to mention 100s of years ago, grandma or great aunt Suzzy of the 5 kids you had before that would watch the baby 9 hr 59 min ago
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                          • I give up. Babies got swaddled up and taken out when women had to go out. It's cushy affluent mothers who can afford to be home or hire help your thinking of. 9 hr 58 min ago
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                            • eh, back in the day, my kindergartener would have walked himself to and from school, etc. Moms went out far less often 9 hr 55 min ago
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                • They might be, but all my dbs were huge. By 4 mo, they were 20 Ibs. Not super easy to carry for more then a mile. 10 hr ago
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            • yes, there is. it's a lot easier to leave the baby comfortable at home so that you can take care of what you need to take care of without having to worry about her/him 10 hr 11 min ago
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            • I agree! It was actually much easier for me to have all that dental work with a newborn strapped to my chest. 9 months later it was so great to bring that baby to my endoscopy....(more) 10 hr 10 min ago
              She enjoyed seeing my stomach lining on the monitor!
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              • it's an experience every baby should have. 10 hr 10 min ago
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            • not all newborns like to be popped into carriers. I have an 8 month old and spent a lot of money on a lot of carriers and she only barely tolerated any of them for short periods...(more) 10 hr 9 min ago
              of time. plus in the summer she got too hot in all of them. it just did not work. my older dd was a "poppable" baby but they are NOT all like that.
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        • You aren't old school - you are a martyr 10 hr 14 min ago
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        • That's not old school. My mom had a nanny when I was born and I am 49. 10 hr 13 min ago
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        • No, not nice, and not easy. 10 hr 13 min ago
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        • Oh what freaking planet is that nice when it's winter especially? 10 hr 12 min ago
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        • God, I have new born and I would love not to have to do this 10 hr 11 min ago
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    • I guess it's hard for you to understand that not everyone does the same things you do 10 hr 15 min ago
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    • I can't imagine taking a newborn out in frigid weather and dragging him to all the term feasts my other kids are in just so I can say I didn't want to leave my baby. A baby in...(more) 10 hr 11 min ago
      that situation is best off at home
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      • There are loads of tiny babies very cold day in bjorns and ergos happy as bugs in a rug. It's not northern Canada. 10 hr ago
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    • I think it's selfish to drag an nb everywhere. Baby should be at home. 10 hr 9 min ago
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    • I never understood baby nurses but people brag about having them. Maybe it's a status thing? 10 hr 6 min ago
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      • Peop,e have them be ause it helps them. Not something to brag a about 10 hr 4 min ago
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        • Some moms - esp SAHMs seem to need to tell you that they have a baby nurse as in 3 weeks old and THANK GOD FOR THE BABY NURSE. 10 hr 2 min ago
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          • So? It's help. Of course they are thankful 10 hr 1 min ago
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            • Missing part of the journey. 9 hr 56 min ago
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              • np: the hellish part? 9 hr 55 min ago
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                • Absolutely. Everything else is fb fodder. 9 hr 53 min ago
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              • God I hate people like you. Is it also part of the journey to judge every single thing that other people do? I didn't even have a baby nurse, but my mom lives in the same town and...(more) 9 hr 53 min ago
                was a ton of help. Most people these days don't have the same social support that they used to
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                • Family help is different of course. 9 hr 52 min ago
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                  • So the people without family should do what exactly? Suffer? 9 hr 51 min ago
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                    • Or have exactly the # of kids she can handle. Because that's just logical. 9 hr 49 min ago
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                      • That's insane. If she can afford to have help, how is that any different that me having my mom pick up #1, or having her watch the baby while I nap? 9 hr 47 min ago
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                        • I never said it was wrong, I just said I don't get it, personally. Having a few kids not that complicated that you need to deploy staff. 9 hr 45 min ago
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                      • So someone shouldn't have 2 kids just because they didn't want to do it 24/7 for the first couple months? What weird logic. 9 hr 45 min ago
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                        • np it's not like it gets easier after the first few months. 9 hr 44 min ago
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  6. Toddler OK, perhaps parents can't be "forced" to vaccinate their children. but state should refuse this children to enter public schools. 10 hr 26 min ago (161 replies)
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    • ITA 10 hr 26 min ago
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    • ita, our private doesn't allow the unvaccinated 10 hr 25 min ago
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      • our private does not require it, but 98.something % are vaccinated. It's the education level of the parent body 10 hr 24 min ago
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        • yes. the higher level of education the less likely to vaccinate. your school must be full of illiterates 10 hr 12 min ago
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          • Evidence, pls? 10 hr 11 min ago
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            • pick up a newspaper. oh I forgot. ..you don't read 10 hr 8 min ago
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    • are they saying now that kids who have already been vaccinated can still catch something from a kid who has not been? 10 hr 25 min ago
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      • the vaccine doesn't take with a small percentage of kids/people, and that's why herd immunity comes into play 10 hr 24 min ago
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        • herd immunity is an unproven theory and falls apart when you consider the fact that adults don't get boosters. for herd theory to work, adults would have to be mostly vaccinated...(more) 10 hr 21 min ago
          too. but they aren't. when was the last time you got an mmr booster? dh?
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          • bullshit 10 hr 20 min ago
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            • no, not bullshit. common sense and logic at work. try them some time. 10 hr 20 min ago
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          • but it's not a theory, it's the idea that the more people are vaccinated, the less likely anyone is to catch measles to spread it to the unvaccinated, like babies etc. 10 hr 19 min ago
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            • ^ that is just logic and common sense 10 hr 19 min ago
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              • SHe's nuts. don't bother. Crazy anti-vax ghetto mom 10 hr 18 min ago
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              • yes, it is a theory that has never ever been proven. look it up. 10 hr 18 min ago
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                • troll 10 hr 17 min ago
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                  • everyone who posts things i disagree with is a troll! 10 hr 16 min ago
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                    • you are not disagreeing, you are trolling, and quite obviously 10 hr 15 min ago
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                      • no, i'm disagreeing. it's just that i'm not backing down before the hive mind. get over it and hide the thread if you can't hang. 10 hr 14 min ago
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                        • I don't believe that just now, tonight, a fresh new poster has appeared who is anti vax. You're just playing. 10 hr 12 min ago
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                          • believe what you want. it must be cozy in that little echo chamber you inhabit. 10 hr 11 min ago
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                            • you have a style 10 hr 8 min ago
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                              • you must spend way too much time here. 10 hr 7 min ago
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                                • sometimes I do 10 hr 4 min ago
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                • Where have measles been all of these years then? And measles deaths? Just in a lull? 10 hr 17 min ago
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                  • measles was a common disease for centuries. it was rarely fatal, though often uncomfortable. in places where it is fatal, people live in filth and drink shit water. they also tend...(more) 10 hr 15 min ago
                    to be on the verge of starvation and living in high-stress environments (war torn) with little access to healthcare. yes, let's use their high mortality as a reason to vaccinate first worlders. seems legit
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                    • it was not commonly fatal, but i wouldnt go so far as t say rare, but death wasnt the only serious impct, plenty of life lng health problems, blindness 10 hr 10 min ago
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                      • in very rare cases, yes. did you know the common cold can cause anosmia sometimes? oh god, a dread disease! welp, better inject healthy dcs with powerful drugs that could actually...(more) 10 hr 8 min ago
                        harm them.
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                        • You're awful. Really just an awful selfish person. Or a troll. Either way, awful, selfish. 10 hr 6 min ago
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                          • calling me names is not a rebuttal. nor will it change my mind. you just sound silly now. 10 hr 5 min ago
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                            • I'm a np. I don't care to rebut or change your mind. I just want it on the record that I think you're totally lousy. A bad neighbor and citizen. Not that you care about any of...(more) 10 hr 3 min ago
                              that stuff, but you should be ashamed at both your ignorance and your lack of concern about your neighbors.
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                              • your attempted guilt trip is duly noted but it still won't convince me to medicate my healthy children because you're hysterical and easily swayed by marketing. 10 hr 3 min ago
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                                • Have a great weekend. 10 hr 2 min ago
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                                  • i plan on it, thanks. 10 hr 2 min ago
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                                • NP: you're an idiot. A dangerous idiot. 10 hr 1 min ago
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                                  • more name-calling. get a new scam 10 hr ago
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                                    • I'm a nonprofit, and I have a PhD in Public health. I'm pretty well-qualified to detect stupidity when I see it. 9 hr 58 min ago
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                                      • no, you're just someone with some degrees. by the way, pharmaceutical companies wrote your textbooks. not that you'll care. they're so benevolent! never mind about sv-40 or the...(more) 9 hr 57 min ago
                                        fact that the last case of polio in the us was caused by the opv. whatevs! you have a degree and that means you think you should be able to make medical decisions for other people's children. good thing it doesn't matter what you think.
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                                        • LOL - they wrote my stats text? Because it only takes an understanding tof probabilty and basic math to get the herd immunity argument. 9 hr 54 min ago
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                                          • they wrote your immunology and pharmacology books, yes. again, you won't care. your stats are based on faulty data but you're totally invested in this. people like you would...(more) 9 hr 52 min ago
                                            literally rather see dcs harmed than admit you might be wrong. it doesn't matter--the internet wrecked your monopoly on info. people are rejecting the compulsory vaccine paradigm and there's not a damn thing you can do about it. sleep tight.
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                                            • Kate Tietje? Shouldn't you be filling in your eyebrows? 9 hr 41 min ago
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                    • I have hearing loss from getting measles as a baby. I wear two hearing aids. UK on that, bitch. 10 hr 2 min ago
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                      • sorry, that sucks. shit happens. 9 hr 57 min ago
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                        • you are a truly terrible woman. your kids aren't worth more to the world than the poster you mocked who explained the actual harm of measles. 9 hr 53 min ago
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                          • calling me names doesn't faze me, love. you're just pixels. 9 hr 52 min ago
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                            • your activity in trying to hurt the feelings of someone who faced that unfair impact of a serious disease is you, and it's your character. it's not just pixels. 9 hr 43 min ago
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                • Evolution hasn't been proven. Give that a go, why dontcha? 10 hr 16 min ago
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          • how can you possibly refute that? 10 hr 16 min ago
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    • I always thought that it was more dangerous for the children who were not vaccinated? Is this not the case? 10 hr 24 min ago
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      • No. Because the tax doesn't protect everyone who gets it, and there are many who CAN'T get it, every willingly unvaccinated dc is a potential carrier and risk 10 hr 23 min ago
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      • no the not vaccinated kids become carriers. You need herd immunity for vaccinations to work. 10 hr 22 min ago
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    • This post has been disliked 4 times. showirrational. vaccinated dcs are protected, remember? if they aren't, the vaccines are effective so it doesn't make sense to risk an adverse reaction. and if some dcs have medical...(more) 10 hr 24 min ago
      reasons they can't get vaccinated, they're as much a risk as the other unvaccinated dcs and would have to be excluded as well. your plan is a bad one and will never be made law.
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      • the vaccines aren't effective* 10 hr 24 min ago
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      • Well then I'm open to social shunning. 10 hr 23 min ago
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        • that's fine, because non-vaxers are likely just as eager to shun self-righteous parents who feel entitled to make medical decisions for other people's dcs 10 hr 23 min ago
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          • OP - ax or don't Vax your kid - I don't care. But stay the fuck out of public school 10 hr 21 min ago
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            • i do, but for other more obvious and pertinent reasons. don't worry. we won't be having you and your little live virus shedding machine over any time soon either. 10 hr 20 min ago
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              • I do to - and interestingly, as posted about, dcs' private does not require vaccines. Yet over 98% are vaccinated. It's the parent body with a clue. 10 hr 19 min ago
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                • except overwhelmingly it is affluent educated people who are not vaccinating their children. could it be that they're bothering to actually read about vaccines? hmm. 10 hr 17 min ago
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                  • I'm in NYC, not with CA/Marin county freaks 10 hr 16 min ago
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                  • np- that is so stupid. i don't get these people. they don't trust big pharma and where these drugs are being made, how they are being made, how safe they are. don't they realize...(more) 10 hr 15 min ago
                    that there are only a handful of pharma producers out there. if you don't trust these producers w vaccines, then you hsouldn't have nIT when you have a heart attack either. it distracts from the real problems w the pharma industry
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                    • vaccines are prophylactic. you are telling people to inject their healthy dcs with powerful drugs that have known side effects up to and including death. use your brain. 10 hr 14 min ago
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                      • because measles, mumps, rubella, diphtheria….polio…none of these EVER causes a death or disability 10 hr 13 min ago
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                        • of course they can. so can the common cold. your point? shit happens. still not a good reason to medicate a healthy child with a robust natural immune system. push your snake oil...(more) 10 hr 12 min ago
                          elsewhere. we aren't buying it.
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                          • np- you really have no idea how immune systems and disease works.or youre a troll, which i think you are 10 hr 12 min ago
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                            • yawn. everyone who posts things i can't refute is a troll! everyone! 10 hr 11 min ago
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                              • no. really. you have to be. or your a dumbass who doesn't know how disease works. what a fucking mornon. 10 hr 11 min ago
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                                • "your a dumbass". okay then 10 hr 10 min ago
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                                  • too dumb to love 10 hr 10 min ago
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                                • ^disease are able to infect and disrupt despite an immune system. that is what makes them illnesses. you are too dumb to live 10 hr 10 min ago
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                          • You realize you are the only one here who thinks this way? Go away, annoying troll 10 hr 10 min ago
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                            • oh heavens! someone thinks differently than the rest of ybm! that cannot be. we all must think alike! there can only be one opinion about anything. what a loser you are. 10 hr 6 min ago
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                      • All themedication we use has side effects, and we use other prophylactic medication. all drugs have side effects potentially. all of them. from OTC to heavy sedatives 10 hr 13 min ago
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                      • you're fake 10 hr 13 min ago
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                        • no idea what you mean by that. 10 hr 12 min ago
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                          • what confused you? 10 hr 11 min ago
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                      • I am surprised a dummy like you knows a word like prophylactic 10 hr 9 min ago
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                        • calling me stupid is not a rebuttal but of course it's a common tactic among your kind. you can't win with reason so you resort to flinging poo. you're a chimp. 10 hr 8 min ago
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                          • Once again,I lost my hearing because of idiots like you. Wanna pay for my hearing aids? $5,000 for tw 9 hr 56 min ago
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                            • i never gave you measles. my dcs have never had measles. sorry for your health problem but they have nothing at all whatsoever to do with me. 9 hr 54 min ago
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                              • Of course they do. If you had vaccinated your kids, measles wouldn't have been transmitted in the community. The fewer people have it, y...(more) 9 hr 53 min ago
                                The less it spreads. How dumb can you be not to get that? How can you catch a disease if no one has?
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                                • your vaccinated dcs are safe, remember? because the vaccines totally work. remember? so relax. 9 hr 51 min ago
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            • what about a playspace, airplane, library? the list is endless… 10 hr 20 min ago
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          • ehhh, you'll all be dead eventually. 10 hr 21 min ago
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            • everyone dies, honey. 10 hr 20 min ago
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              • yeah, but y'all are going to die 14th century style. Have at it. 10 hr 19 min ago
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                • i know you really want this to be true. nobody loves the thought of sick and dying children like smug vaccine pushers. 10 hr 19 min ago
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                  • Well, I'm sure your flower oils will cure your mental disability someday too. 10 hr 18 min ago
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                    • why would i take flower oils? no idea what you're talking about. we practice good hygiene and focus on sleep, exercise, and nutrition. when we have 14th century hygiene and...(more) 10 hr 17 min ago
                      nutrition and medicine maybe your statement will make even a slight amount of sense.
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                      • someone with an applicable degree here: it wasn't just cleanliness that killed off half of Europe in the 14th, 15th,16th....19th centuries you know. 10 hr 16 min ago
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                        • no, it was bubonic plague. i guess we should get that vaccine oh wait 10 hr 14 min ago
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                          • np: Bubonic was only was three different plagues and the only one spread by vermin. Christ, you're stupid. 10 hr 13 min ago
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                            • how about sweating sickness? do you have a vaccine for that one? 10 hr 12 min ago
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                              • All communicable viruses have a shelf life. And ps: do not get into the ring with me on this unless you'd like to look even stupider in front of your one friend here. 10 hr 11 min ago
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                                • what you fail to understand is that your supposed credentials mean absolutely nothing to me. a degreed moron is still a moron. 10 hr 10 min ago
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                        • don't blow her 88 IQ with facts, please. 10 hr 14 min ago
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                          • the average african american iq is 85. is this why you keep calling me ghetto? so smug, classist, and racist to boot. what a charmer! 10 hr 11 min ago
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                            • the ghetto part came from your foul language 10 hr 9 min ago
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                              • sure it does, racist. 10 hr 7 min ago
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                  • You know what I love? All these middle class white women, who were raised on Spaghettios and tv diners finding their inner Andrew Weil in adulthood. Talk about smug, And PHONY. 10 hr 17 min ago
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                    • you don't know a thing about me but your assumptions tell me a whole lot about you. so you're classist and smug. nice personality combination! 10 hr 17 min ago
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                      • she's a smug ghetto mom 10 hr 16 min ago
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                        • says the woman with an AA degree. 10 hr 14 min ago
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                          • I knew I was right! 10 hr 13 min ago
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                            • Can someone explain how she can be smug & ghetto? Are you esl? Do you know what ghetto refers to in this context? 10 hr 12 min ago
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                              • uneducated, foul mouthed, irrational and prone to violence. 10 hr ago
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                    • I'm sure your mom will hold you in her bible study meeting. 10 hr 16 min ago
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          • I'm actually making medical decisions for MY dc, so keep your nasty children away from mine and we'll all be good. 10 hr 20 min ago
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            • i pay the same taxes you do and we'll attend public schools if we so choose. we don't, but not because of vaccines. 10 hr 20 min ago
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              • Again, no one misses your indigo child. Keep moving. 10 hr 19 min ago
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                • don't worry. my child will never rub shoulders with yours--thank god! 10 hr 16 min ago
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                  • Yeah, we don't unschool. 10 hr 15 min ago
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                    • we do, upon occasion. my four year old can add, subtract, divide, multiply, read, and write. has yours mastered wooden blocks yet? 10 hr 13 min ago
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                      • LOL. Sure, right! 9 hr 57 min ago
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      • Wrong. The vaccine is not 100% effective, and there are many who want the vaccines and can't have them due to immune issues, allergies. ec 10 hr 22 min ago
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        • then those dcs can't be in school either. pathogens don't care why someone didn't get vaccinated, right? so this is not a safety issue to you. it's a moral one. fortunately the...(more) 10 hr 21 min ago
          law is very clear that all dcs have a right to an education even if people like you think they don't. again: go fist yourself.
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          • ghetto mom - there are kids in school with immune issues, allergies, etc. Deal with it 10 hr 20 min ago
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            • that's great. so op thinks they don't deserve to be in school. nice, right? 10 hr 19 min ago
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              • OP thinks they should not put other children at risk. I agree 10 hr 18 min ago
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    • ITA. no more social/religious waivers. strictly medical waivers, tracked through statewide databases so that school nurses can crosscheck things. 10 hr 24 min ago
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      • go fist yourself. 10 hr 23 min ago
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        • You seem to run in nasty circles all around. 10 hr 23 min ago
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          • i don't care what you think of me, dear heart 10 hr 22 min ago
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            • Sweet Ice Fishing Jesus, you're annoying as hell to boot. 10 hr 22 min ago
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              • i don't care what you think of me, sugar. 10 hr 19 min ago
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                • Sugar, honey, dear. Pick up a book besides Natural Health, will you? 10 hr 15 min ago
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                  • how about "what your doctor may not tell you about vaccines" by stephanie cave, m.d.? how about "evidence of harm" by david kirby? how about "how to raise a healthy child in s...(more) 10 hr 9 min ago
                    of your doctor" by robert mendelson, m.d.? and on and on. not that you actually read books that might challenge your worldview. like, ever.
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                    • the eradication of diseases like polio - which would tear through communities - is a triumph. why would seeking out literature claiming against settled medical science and publci...(more) 10 hr 1 min ago
                      health statistics be 'challenging my worldview' in a positive way, like learning a language or something? i really want to know
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                      • you haven't read the books, and won't. you've made up your mind and that's that. so what? i can list more titles but why bother? 9 hr 59 min ago
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                        • you also won't explain what the harm is, what the science is, how a balance of equities says newborns, very young kids, very old and weak people, people going through treatments...(more) 9 hr 54 min ago
                          like chemo, all should be at enhanced risk for fatal or debilitating disease.
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                          • my little sister developed a seizure disorder that began 2 hrs after a round of vaccines. the ped admitted it was common with that batch and that she was not the first such case...(more) 9 hr 50 min ago
                            he'd seen. my mother still had us all vaccinated but of course back then there were maybe 10 shots total--not 40 or whatever insane number it is now. you're not going to convince everyone that your idea is a good one--especially when those drugs have been proven to harm and even kill children. experiment on your own dcs if you like but you aren't getting your claws on mine.
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                            • she developed a life-long disorder from the vaccine? i'm genuinely sorry, but i also don't believe your anecdote fully. 9 hr 37 min ago
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        • hm, it seems we're not on the same side of this one, huh? 10 hr 21 min ago
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        • who says shit like this? 10 hr 21 min ago
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          • Idiots who think blogs are medical texts. 10 hr 21 min ago
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        • are you ghetto? 10 hr 21 min ago
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          • no idea. are you? 10 hr 18 min ago
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            • your language and tone is oddly reminiscent of an uneducated thug, prone to violence. 10 hr 17 min ago
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              • no, it really isn't. but i see now that you are completely detached from reality so my advice is to take your meds and have a nap. 10 hr 7 min ago
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      • there you go 10 hr 23 min ago
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      • Why would anyone dislike this? 10 hr 22 min ago
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        • a delicate flower just suggested i fist myself for posting this, but sadly i am very bad at yoga moves. she sounds smart though!! 10 hr 21 min ago
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    • Don't most schools require vaccinations? NYC publics do and I know that's the case on long island too. 10 hr 23 min ago
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      • you can get exemptions. 10 hr 22 min ago
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        • Why should anyone be exempt except for a medical reason? 10 hr 22 min ago
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          • religious exemptions, originally requested by and granted to Jehovah's Witnesses and Christian Science practitioners. now co-opted by fucking idiots who think being a mommy means...(more) 10 hr 19 min ago
            being smarter than every epidemiologist alive.
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          • religious reasons, sigh. 10 hr 19 min ago
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            • if they are that religious, they should be attending religious schools. 10 hr ago
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          • they claim religious 10 hr 19 min ago
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          • Religious exemptions. I know a ton of people on LI with them. Np 10 hr 17 min ago
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          • there's no proof required of your religious beliefs, or the exostence of your religion 10 hr 17 min ago
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            • different rules in different states. pretty easy to opt out in california. you dont even have to use the word religion, just personal beliefs 10 hr 15 min ago
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              • This is actually no longer true, as of 2014. In ca now to opt out you need proof of medical counseling. 10 hr 3 min ago
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                • huh, who knew? although google just says you need a signature from medical personnel, not actual proof of counseling 10 hr ago
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      • YOu are most likely not aware that people get out of it. 10 hr 20 min ago
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    • If my kid can’t bring peanut butter to school, yours shouldn’t be able to bring preventable diseases. 10 hr 18 min ago
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    • 20 percent unvaccinated at pre-school. Which I only found out after I left.. I was pissed and I have no idea which of my dc classmates were not vac.. I was pregnant at the tome 10 hr 11 min ago
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      • where are you? that is really scary 10 hr 9 min ago
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        • Los Angeles of course. I found out from the la times. 10 hr 6 min ago
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    • We need to modify each states loophole for opt out. It is a joke in many states. 10 hr 7 min ago
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  7. Toddler And Scandal watchers? i need some clarification 10 hr 26 min ago (8 replies)
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    • go 10 hr 26 min ago
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    • yes 10 hr 25 min ago
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    • op - was she kidnapped and taken to the middle east? is she on a sound stage? im confused 10 hr 15 min ago
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      • probably still in the US, and yes they made it look like the middle east 10 hr 14 min ago
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        • is this related to her mother or father ? (do you think) 10 hr 14 min ago
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          • I think it;s related to the vice president and whatever foreign country he was linked with, they're going to demand the US invade their enemy 10 hr 10 min ago
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            • planning to start a war between West-Angola and the U.S., by setting up the bombing and kidnaps Olivia to force Fitz to declare a war. 10 hr 3 min ago
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      • yes, she is on a sound stage. thats all we know 10 hr 14 min ago
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  8. Toddler Real FB post: today I served cold pressed apples juice with organic berries apto the children at breakfast. 10 hr 27 min ago (10 replies)
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    • sa,momella! 10 hr 25 min ago
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    • people are such wankers 10 hr 24 min ago
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    • Link? 10 hr 24 min ago
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      • I won't do that but the post included a photo of this oh so special juice. 10 hr 21 min ago
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    • What comments did you get after you posted this? 10 hr 23 min ago
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    • ok what is cold pressed apple juice? 10 hr 17 min ago
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    • where all the typos included? 10 hr 16 min ago
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    • Apples juice? Is that like Brussels sprouts ? 10 hr 14 min ago
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  9. Toddler I just finished Outlander book 8. Can't believe I have to wait 4+ years for another one :( 10 hr 28 min ago (25 replies)
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    • reread 2/yr 10 hr 26 min ago
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      • Plus the show 10 hr 26 min ago
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    • Let me ask you this: I read the first book and was not keen for a number of reasons, but tons of people seem to love these books. Do they get better or are they just not for me? 10 hr 26 min ago
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      • i feel the same way. i read the first one with waning interest. i cant imagine reading all eight. 10 hr 24 min ago
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      • I was wondering the same thing. I think I was not used to the tone of it. the romance novel-ishness 10 hr 23 min ago
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        • and also, there was something about the whole thing that there were 2 gay characters and they were both creepy predators/rapists 10 hr 22 min ago
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          • There's another creepy gay predator character? I actually liked her creepy gay predator character. I am not sure I was supposed to, but I did. 10 hr 15 min ago
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    • Can you tell me how to get through book 2? Because that's where I get really, really bogged down. They're in france. And it... does it get better? 10 hr 25 min ago
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      • poster from just above you: HA. I think I have my answer 10 hr 25 min ago
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      • ^^ I am not a snob about these kinds of books, btw. I loved Gone with the Wind, Forever Amber, most everything that Phillipa Gregory wrote... but... 10 hr 24 min ago
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      • Yes. Book 3 is where it really gets going, then she gets into a rythm and they really flew by. Book 2 was my least favorite 10 hr 23 min ago
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        • It just feels really fake. Like she doesn't bother to describe settings, just her and Jaime discussing politics. For like 100 pages. Probably more. I've tried to read it at least...(more) 10 hr 22 min ago
          five times.
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          • ^^ Can I skip the rest of book 2? 10 hr 21 min ago
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            • Sure, except the climactic end bit 10 hr 20 min ago
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              • Is there anything I need to know before that? 10 hr 19 min ago
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    • GOT...I've been waiting since 1997....I started reading when I was 16. I'm now 33...He is going to die and I will never know what happens. 10 hr 25 min ago
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      • I'm 46, but otherwise I am you too. I know people at his publisher who think that too. 10 hr 23 min ago
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        • really? have you read his blog? (I'm totally giving away my nerdy fandom here) He constantly bitches about how much he hates these books, how completing them is sucking the life...(more) 10 hr 19 min ago
          out of him...meanwhile he is writing other horrible books instead!! Why can't he just finish already!!
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          • Yeah, I've been reading his blog since... a long time. I dont read it much anymore. He knows he's written himself into a corner, I think. I'm a writer too--not successful, but...(more) 10 hr 16 min ago
            still--I've written enough to see how it can happen. One thing that gives me hope is, I recently read a novel by his assistant and this other guy? And it's not bad. So presumably, if GRRM dies, they'll ghost the rest of it. Maybe? Not that I want him to die. I think I know where he's going with a lot of his books, and it could be fantastic. IF he gets there. But there are worrying signs: like the fact that he didn't publish the last Egg novella and wrote that crazy boring dragon dynasty story instead. (Am I outnerding you?)
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      • how old is he? he seems vigorous enough 10 hr 23 min ago
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        • he is not exactly the epitome of health. He's old, obese and agoraphobic. 10 hr 21 min ago
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      • I thought the author was a woman... is Diana Gabaldon a pseudonym? 10 hr 20 min ago
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        • GOT is game of thrones 10 hr 19 min ago
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          • Ah. Yes, that all makes sense now 10 hr 18 min ago
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    • I read the first one...I can't really motivate myself to read anymore of htem. 10 hr 22 min ago
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  10. Toddler Will there be another snow day in NY on Monday? 10 hr 29 min ago (1 reply)
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    • No. The ll bean boots arrived today. So there will not be anymore snow this winter 10 hr 28 min ago
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  11. Toddler Watching some of the footage of Tiger Woods over the last 2 days. Gosh he looks terrible. The mindfuck of being exposed, losing Elin, using roids all those years and a serious...(more) 10 hr 30 min ago (6 replies)
    case of the confidence yips have rendered him non-competitive. Quite amazing.
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    • confidence yips? 10 hr 28 min ago
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      • Yes - the yips 10 hr 27 min ago
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        • what does that mean? 10 hr 25 min ago
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          • Mental breakdowns doing very basic functions - like a second baseman who can't throw to 1st base. 10 hr 25 min ago
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    • No, he was very competitive coming in last place today in Phoenix 10 hr 24 min ago
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      • Very competitive? 10 hr 22 min ago
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  12. Toddler I need to watch x-files or something. Pg and dreaming about other men (not having sex, just falling in love, so happy). Aaron Paul. Ex-bf. I need new material. 10 hr 31 min ago (11 replies)
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    • aliens are next? 10 hr 31 min ago
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      • that would be good actually, the further from real life the better 10 hr 30 min ago
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    • I had those kind of dreams in my last pregnancy, too. They were always random Hispanic men 10 hr 30 min ago
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      • weird, are you hispanic? 10 hr 29 min ago
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        • No. One time when dh and I were first married he woke me up and said I was saying "Luis, Luis!" in my sleep lol 10 hr 28 min ago
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          • lol 10 hr 27 min ago
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          • ^(he's not Hispanic either, and he was actually kind of mad about that. Luis was a guy I barely knew from work who I apparently subconsciously found hot) 10 hr 27 min ago
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    • When I was pregnant with my now-10yo, I had recurring dreams that my dh left me for Michelle Branch (remember Michelle Branch? Shitty pop singer). I would wake up with real...(more) 10 hr 27 min ago
      abandonment emotions. I think I'd rather the Aaron Paul.
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      • there's a real emotional hangover from the dreams, for sure, it's weiord 10 hr 26 min ago
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      • I think she's a lesbian! 10 hr 26 min ago
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        • lol, seriously? I have to tell my dh 10 hr 25 min ago
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  13. Toddler I want a new watch, not sure what I want, any suggestions 10 hr 31 min ago (8 replies)
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    • why do you need a watch when you have a cell phone? 10 hr 29 min ago
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      • np - it's quicker with a watch 10 hr 28 min ago
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      • they are 2 different things 10 hr 25 min ago
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      • i sleep in my watch 10 hr 12 min ago
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    • Budget? 10 hr 29 min ago
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    • for under 500 you can get a pretty one, citizen eco drive. 10 hr 27 min ago
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      • Or an Apple watch 10 hr 22 min ago
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    • cartier tank 10 hr 26 min ago
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  14. Toddler Does getting older make people develop a farting problem?...(more) 10 hr 33 min ago (15 replies)
    'cause both dh and I kind of have, and it's so vile.
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    • I never was gassy until I had children...now it is a big problem. I can blow away a room..I have tried diet changes, etc...but nothing.. 10 hr 32 min ago
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      • OP: yes, we both could clear a room, so imagine our bedroom in the morning. the dog looks green....(more) 10 hr 29 min ago
        we blame it on the dog in front of the kids. poor dog.
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    • maybe it's what you both are eating? 10 hr 32 min ago
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      • OP: but our diets haven't changed. 10 hr 28 min ago
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        • You don't tolerate it as well 10 hr 6 min ago
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    • I almost never fart 10 hr 31 min ago
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      • ditto. and when i do i do it in the bathroom and expect dh to do the same (and he does). ex-h was a farter and it totally killed my attraction to him, among other things 10 hr 29 min ago
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        • OP: I do try to limit it to the bathroom but the biggest issue is the middle of the night, plus sometimes it just escapes. Mortifying 10 hr 28 min ago
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          • that sounds terrible, sorry :( there are natural enzymes that you can take. like beano but without the crappy additives. i think the one i take is called bean-zyme 10 hr 27 min ago
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            • thanks, I guess I'll need to be looking into like a case of this :) 10 hr 27 min ago
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              • i won't eat legumes without it. it really does work 10 hr 26 min ago
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    • I've heard you shouldn't trust a fart after 40... You just might shit yourself. 10 hr 31 min ago
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      • OP: well, at least that hasn't happened yet (to my knowledge) 10 hr 29 min ago
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    • It's the food 10 hr 6 min ago
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  15. Toddler Measles cases in California soar...(more) 10 hr 34 min ago (16 replies)
    • Everyone just needs to calm down and read this:...(more) 10 hr 33 min ago
      • I can't believe this is real... 10 hr 32 min ago
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        • oh believe it. 10 hr 32 min ago
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      • holy shit! how the fuck is that even real? are there children's books about how Mary Mallen was a really amazing heroine and chef? 10 hr 31 min ago
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        • hahah! did you read some of the reviews? they are amazing...(more) 10 hr 28 min ago
          I'm waiting for the sequels "Timmy's Terrific Tetanus" and "Rebecca's Remarkable Rabies."

          And then of course there's "Helen's Happy HPV" and "Paul's Pleasant Polio."

          "Eddie's Ebullient Ebola" can follow once there is an Ebola vaccine to be refused.
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          • no fucking lie, i have an uncle named Paul Robert WHO HAD POLIO as a little boy and guess what? it impacted his health for life! 10 hr 25 min ago
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            • I've read people who think measels is "just a rash" and everyone should get it because it's good for your health. People are actually claiming this. 10 hr 24 min ago
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              • jesus h christ on a pony 10 hr 22 min ago
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      • Wow. 10 hr 24 min ago
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      • Australian of course 9 hr 58 min ago
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    • people in northern cal are startig to really worry about it too 10 hr 29 min ago
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      • 7% of kids in Marin county haven't been vaccinated. 10 hr 28 min ago
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        • yeah, it's more like 2% where we are, and the existing cases in marin are related to disney, but naything can happen 10 hr 25 min ago
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          • I'm so glad we left Marin. That said, school nurse said today that we have 15 unvaccinated kids. 10 hr 23 min ago
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            • we are in the east bay. im sure we have some at our school too, but not that many 10 hr 16 min ago
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              • I'm east bay too. 10 hr 12 min ago
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  16. Toddler Measels in oenn station. 10 hr 37 min ago (7 replies)
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  17. Toddler Ex-h is newly engaged. he's still using my things in his house (like stuff i handmade, decor, etc.) and i just learned he's using my name as his password still. wtf? 10 hr 37 min ago (23 replies)
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    • how would you know that? 10 hr 37 min ago
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      • he told me so i could access some things on dc's ipad 10 hr 37 min ago
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        • it makes sense in dcs iPad. I'm sure his pwords are different 10 hr 29 min ago
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      • np think about it 10 hr 37 min ago
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        • op: no, i wasn't snooping. wouldn't do that even if i cared what he's doing on his computer 10 hr 36 min ago
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          • so it was dc's ipad? or his? 10 hr 33 min ago
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            • dc's. i have them now and they have their iPads with them (they use them for school. ex-h bought and configured them) 10 hr 31 min ago
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    • laziness has nothing to do with you 10 hr 37 min ago
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      • op: maybe not. after the divorce i gave away or sold everything i had that reminded me of him/the marriage 10 hr 36 min ago
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        • he's not you 10 hr 36 min ago
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          • really? i wasn't sure. thanks for clearing it up 10 hr 35 min ago
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            • you are very welcome 10 hr 35 min ago
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        • so did i after my divorce and my exh was like yours 10 hr 35 min ago
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          • did he remarry? really hoping the new dw will get rid of that stuff. it's a mind fuck to go to his house and see stuff i made or picked out literally everywhere i turn 10 hr 32 min ago
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            • yes he did and they still use my stuff. she is cheap and I guess doesn't care 10 hr 31 min ago
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              • that is so bizarre. in her shoes i would purge like it was soviet russia 10 hr 31 min ago
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                • they are both weird. 10 hr 29 min ago
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    • he still loves you. 10 hr 34 min ago
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      • i really doubt it. i tried to reconcile with him a couple years after the divorce and he declined. in retrospect i'm glad he did but the whole thing is weird. 10 hr 33 min ago
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        • men are stupid. sometimes they want one thing and do another 10 hr 32 min ago
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          • i don't know. he doesn't act like he loves me, but then sometimes he does things that are totally unnecessary and seem designed to keep me more involved in his world. 10 hr 30 min ago
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        • np if i were his fiancee this would not feel good to me 10 hr 32 min ago
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          • i have no idea how much she knows, if anything. i've never even met her but by all accounts she's very sweet. i know she's good to dcs so far. 10 hr 32 min ago
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  18. Toddler I miss the goodnight moon farewell poster 10 hr 39 min ago (5 replies)
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    • bonne nuit, lune 10 hr 38 min ago
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    • god, I killed it copying her one night. It was a moment of genius, never to be repeated. 10 hr 38 min ago
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    • you will be assimilated 10 hr 32 min ago
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    • She was wonderful. 10 hr 27 min ago
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    • me too. where did she go? 10 hr 9 min ago
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  19. Toddler Can muslims watch the superbowl? you know because the ball is made from pigskin 10 hr 40 min ago (4 replies)
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    • so stupid. they don't care about the death of the pig. It's not like a hindu with cows. They don't want to eat an animal they find filthy 10 hr 38 min ago
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    • Sure. They just can't eat the football 10 hr 38 min ago
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    • op: one more question, can Hindus wear leather? 10 hr 36 min ago
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    • THEY DON'T CARE ABOUT YOU KILLING A PIG. THEY JUST DON'T WANT TO EAT IT. 10 hr 33 min ago
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  20. Toddler This post has been disliked 4 times. showDo vegetarian women ever give bjs? if they're not into meat... 10 hr 41 min ago (2 replies)
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    • lol 10 hr 41 min ago
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    • winter's hard on a message board 10 hr 33 min ago
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  21. Toddler Another storm coming on sunday night? 10 hr 41 min ago (1 reply)
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    • No, it's imaginary 10 hr 36 min ago
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  22. Toddler If you were going to live in az, where would you live? 10 hr 42 min ago (7 replies)
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    • what town where the university is-tuscon? 10 hr 41 min ago
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    • Scottsdale 10 hr 41 min ago
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    • Sedona maybe 10 hr 41 min ago
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    • Tuscon 10 hr 32 min ago
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    • I guess Scottsdale, but I would hate to live there. 10 hr 31 min ago
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    • some suburb of Phoenix I guess. my cousin lives there and has a huge house with pool for like $200K 10 hr 26 min ago
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  23. Toddler Pain in my bridge that comes and goes. i've been to the dentist and they never see anything. i also have a very deep sinus cavity in that area so maybe it's that? then all of...(more) 10 hr 42 min ago (0 replies)
    no pain. like nothing. sinus or tooth?
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  24. Toddler Holy shit, if one more person says something about how FIVE vaccinated people got measles from Disneyland, I'll SCREAM. newsflash, 33,000 vaccinated people didnt get the measles...(more) 10 hr 43 min ago (20 replies)
    that day. Fucking philistines. I'm so done.
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    • I'm with you. I had to ban myself from Facebook. 10 hr 43 min ago
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    • good, stop talking about it. you aren't changing anyone's mind anyway. 10 hr 42 min ago
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      • np: like rape and climate change, ita. 10 hr 41 min ago
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        • I see what you did there 10 hr 38 min ago
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    • I don't understand what point you're arguing 10 hr 40 min ago
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      • anti vaxxers keep insisting that because 5 vaccinated park goers at Disney got the measles, vaccines don't work. they're idiots. 10 hr 39 min ago
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        • they don't science well. they don't even deserve 'understand' because they never even tried to think about science, stats. 10 hr 38 min ago
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        • ah, it's with you. nonsense. 10 hr 37 min ago
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          • ^^^ugh, 3 cocktails and ybm on an iPad. I should just bed now. but ita with you 10 hr 37 min ago
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    • I thought it was more than 5. 10 hr 40 min ago
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      • np: nope, as far as infected from the park visit? it's five. 10 hr 39 min ago
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      • Yes. More like 105 at this point. 10 hr 38 min ago
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        • link, please. 10 hr 37 min ago
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          • shell link you to a blog, just hold on. 10 hr 37 min ago
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        • Look it up yourself. They are tracking a bunch of cases to those who originally caught it at Disney. Don't be dense. 10 hr 35 min ago
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          • And as of this past Monday it was six. So shut your fool mouth. 10 hr 34 min ago
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            • you two are talking about different things. 10 hr 34 min ago
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        • it's actually SIX reported cases, you imbecile. 10 hr 35 min ago
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          • It's over 80, see CDC 10 hr 33 min ago
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        • she said UNvaccinated. pay attention 10 hr 33 min ago
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  25. Toddler I swear this is a work-related question: Have you ever heard of the word "hand job" used to refer to female masturbation? What would be a better term to use? 10 hr 44 min ago (10 replies)
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    • finger wank 10 hr 44 min ago
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    • rub one out 10 hr 43 min ago
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    • ^^I should add--something we would have used when we were younger--story takes place in the 80s. 10 hr 43 min ago
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    • rub one out 10 hr 43 min ago
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    • pushing the pudenza 10 hr 43 min ago
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    • "get off" 10 hr 43 min ago
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    • steering the boat. 10 hr 38 min ago
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    • No.. 10 hr 35 min ago
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    • finger 10 hr 34 min ago
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    • google synonyms of "female masterbation" 10 hr 34 min ago
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