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  1. Toddler Dh is addicted to porn. he's not watched in probably a year..which is fine but we still have a strained sex life and he still prefers jerking off to real sex (instant...(more) 1 hr 28 min ago (49 replies)
    gratification)...want to hear something gross, he said you dont have to leave me "signs"...and i said what do you mean? and he says the sock you left out_apparently he jerked off into a sock and it happened to be the one i threw on top of the hamper rather than into it..i mean how gross is this?...ugh
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    • he's just not that into you 1 hr 28 min ago
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    • he needs help 1 hr 27 min ago
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      • and you could probably use some support 1 hr 27 min ago
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      • he does right...its so digusting. 1 hr 27 min ago
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    • do you never have sex? my dh jerks off. i don't care at all. 1 hr 27 min ago
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      • very very rare. and he has trouble maintaining an erection so even if we do, the chances of him ejaculating are slim 1 hr 26 min ago
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        • He can't be a lover. He just wants to come. I dated someone like this. 1 hr 25 min ago
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          • yep 1 hr 24 min ago
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          • what does this mean??? 1 hr 16 min ago
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            • It means that he can't relate and share and be excited by a live human being with her own sexual needs. It's all about him and the orgasm. Takes no pleasure from being with...(more) 1 hr 14 min ago
              another person.
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        • does he get you off? 1 hr 24 min ago
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          • sometimes...not a lot 1 hr 22 min ago
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        • np I don't know what this says about me, but I would have to end the marriage. And I am not one of the more sexual people in the world, but he's got a serious problem that is...(more) 1 hr 23 min ago
          driving a huge wedge.
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          • we had a LONG LONG talk that night....im sure shit wont change and im thinking this is the end of our relationship...im so turned off 1 hr 23 min ago
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    • He can do the laundry if he's so fucking sensitive. 1 hr 27 min ago
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    • i'm more offended by not using a hamper than i am by the autoerotic behavior. 1 hr 27 min ago
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      • not sure what that means- him not tossing it in there?...i actually took it out of his drawer because i was putting new ones in and it was weird this one lonely sock sitting in...(more) 1 hr 25 min ago
        his drawer so i threw it on top of the hamper when i walked out of the room
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        • i guess i wondered why he doesn't put dirty clothes in the hamper. that's crappy. 1 hr 24 min ago
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          • oh who the hell knows, so gross the entire scenario 1 hr 24 min ago
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    • Is it the desire to avoid intimacy or you think just easier? 1 hr 26 min ago
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      • he gets horny and jerks off...there is no waiting for him, its the addictive sde 1 hr 26 min ago
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    • What do you do with this? 1 hr 26 min ago
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    • dump 1 hr 26 min ago
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    • good for him for not using porn for so long. It does sound really difficult, though. How are you? 1 hr 25 min ago
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      • im depressed...it makes me really really sad that he would rather do that than have sex with me or even fool around with me...its dehuminizing. 1 hr 24 min ago
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        • OP, I am so sorry. My DH used to jerk off in bed next to me when he thought I was falling asleep 1 hr 23 min ago
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          • ugh.. 1 hr 22 min ago
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          • np that's rough - are you still married? 1 hr 22 min ago
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            • yes, but it isn't any better 1 hr 22 min ago
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          • Ugh 1 hr 21 min ago
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        • yeah, that's how I would feel, too. Are you thinking about ending it? 1 hr 23 min ago
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          • there is that thought in my head for sure...how can i live such a lonely married life? 1 hr 22 min ago
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            • not good. Does he seem to want to work on it? I know that sex addiction and porn addiction are legit problems, but I don't know that it's fair to ask a spouse to spend years...(more) 1 hr 20 min ago
              workign that particular problem out.
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              • he says he's trying...he's doing what he can etc. i dont know its all such a fucking drag. 1 hr 19 min ago
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        • np- I mentioned above that I dates someone like this. I truly believe that this has absolutely nothing to do with you and how attractive you are to him. This is his sickness. 1 hr 22 min ago
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          • oh i know this...im very sexual, Im in great shape- im active...its all on him and his addiction issues 1 hr 21 min ago
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            • Is he in any kind of treatment. I might make that a condition for staying together. 1 hr 21 min ago
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              • no-i should i guess.... 1 hr 19 min ago
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                • np holy shit, at the very least he should be seeking treatment. But even with treatment - good for him, but the damage is done. It's a lot to ask of you to continue and intimate...(more) 1 hr 18 min ago
                  relationship with this man.
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                  • i know...its all very sad. he's depressed on top of it all as well which makes things a lot worse all around 1 hr 17 min ago
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                    • he needs therapy for sure. That's a good first step. 1 hr 16 min ago
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                    • He needs help. 1 hr 12 min ago
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                • You need marriage counseling, at least, and he needs porn addiction treatment. I dont know how you'd ever expect to have anything better with him without it. 1 hr 16 min ago
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                  • np ita - he can't just try hard to fix this himself. He's got a serious problem. He can't dig himself out without some help. 1 hr 15 min ago
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    • Why are you still married to this cerdo? 1 hr 25 min ago
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    • how old are you? 1 hr 24 min ago
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  2. Toddler Cornbread/corn pudding...can I make it Wednesday or does it need to be fresh Thursday? 1 hr 29 min ago (3 replies)
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    • imo something like that benefits from being fresh. many things taste great next day though 1 hr 28 min ago
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    • cornbread fine. I am not sure what corn pudding is 1 hr 28 min ago
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    • fresh. 1 hr 28 min ago
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  3. Toddler What do you think of these? too much?...(more) 1 hr 29 min ago (5 replies)
  4. Toddler How is your relationship with DH? Roommates or are you still attracted to each other? 1 hr 30 min ago (64 replies)
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    • Following... 1 hr 29 min ago
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    • dh. still attracted. 1 hr 29 min ago
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    • never was deeply attracted. tht was a mistake . 1 hr 29 min ago
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    • still great. 1 hr 29 min ago
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    • great, complete co-parents and fuck like bunnies 1 hr 29 min ago
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    • We are crazy about each other. We're like two high school kids 1 hr 29 min ago
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      • jealous! I mean it. lucky you. 1 hr 28 min ago
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        • We've had some low lows, but we've ironed out a lot of wrinkles along the way. 1 hr 27 min ago
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          • how? 1 hr 27 min ago
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            • The early years or child rearing, adjusting to a new city, a new home, finance troubles. We've grown a lot together, and in doing so we've taken our licks. 1 hr 25 min ago
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              • I mean how did you iron it out? 1 hr 24 min ago
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      • i look at him and see that very young man i fell in love with, the many years we've spent together disappear in a way. 1 hr 26 min ago
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        • that's very romantic 1 hr 25 min ago
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          • i am a romantic, and i think he is, as well. 1 hr 24 min ago
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    • a mix of both. 1 hr 29 min ago
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    • we were mostly roommates for a few years. had a talk 2 mos ago and have been having sex pretty much every day since. it's been nice 1 hr 28 min ago
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      • who initiated the talk? how old? 1 hr 28 min ago
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        • i did, didn't like where we were heading. he's 53, i'm 47 1 hr 27 min ago
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          • yes tell us more please 1 hr 27 min ago
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            • he's had trouble with performance anxiety, which messed up our sex life. I took intercourse off the table and said we should just do other stuff, that was the gist of it 1 hr 24 min ago
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              • still attracted though? 1 hr 22 min ago
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                • turns out very much so, we've been acting like teenagers 1 hr 21 min ago
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                  • wow v inspiring. thank ou for sharing 1 hr 21 min ago
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                    • yw. I had to let go of a lot of shit I've been pissed about first but it was either that or we would end up divorced and I didn't want to do that. Having that closeness again made...(more) 1 hr 18 min ago
                      every other part of our relationship better too.
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      • Please, please tell us about your talk! What did you/he say, how did it get started, and what about the talk helped change things? 1 hr 27 min ago
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    • Roommate 1 hr 28 min ago
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    • Still great after 21 years. 1 hr 27 min ago
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      • how?? 1 hr 27 min ago
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        • I'd like to say it's our great personalities but I know it's just...(more) 1 hr 26 min ago
          Dumb luck. We are compatible.
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          • np my mom always said that compatibility was the most important thing, in terms of a long, happy marriage. i think she was right, it's why we are still so happy after 30+ yrs...(more) 1 hr 25 min ago
            together.
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            • see, I had that on one level, but no chemistry , and the marriage failed. 1 hr 25 min ago
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              • chemistry is part of compatibility, imo 1 hr 24 min ago
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                • I guess if you define it that way. I don't. I think you can be compatible with someone in a very platonic way 1 hr 23 min ago
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                  • but you're talking about a romantic relationship. chemistry always matters, in my opinion. 1 hr 22 min ago
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                    • I agree with you! 1 hr 22 min ago
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            • 30 years? how old are you, when did you get married? how old are dc? 1 hr 24 min ago
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              • we're both 56, we've been together since we were 25. married a couple of yrs into the relationship. 1 hr 24 min ago
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    • very much the latter, and i thank him for that. he makes it easy. 1 hr 27 min ago
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      • I so agree w this. We each have our quirks but I so rarely walk in and worry about being together. Life at home is smooth. 1 hr 27 min ago
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    • Roommates. Married 10 years. I'm 45 and he's 43. Sex once a year on average, maybe. 1 hr 26 min ago
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      • that's ont ok 1 hr 25 min ago
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        • I don't know why we stay together. Relationship is pure shit. We fight a lot. I'm still attracted to him, but I'm so mad at him that I don't want to have sex with him and I guess...(more) 1 hr 24 min ago
          he feels the same.
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      • doesn't it feel strange to be married and not have romantic feelings for one another? 1 hr 25 min ago
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        • It feels strange to be married to someone who doesn't have romantic feelings for me, who looks at other women when I'm right there, who behaved crushy toward a co-worker, to be...(more) 1 hr 23 min ago
          married to someone I don't trust at all. Yeah. It feels strange.
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          • why do you stay married to that? 1 hr 21 min ago
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            • I still love him, but I'm very sure it's over and I won't stay married. I'm 45 and feel like I have only a few good years left. I feel like I'm wasting them. I feel heartbroke...(more) 1 hr 19 min ago
              because of what could have been, so I've tried to wait it out. But we just fight all the time and I'm really excruciatingly lonely.
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              • therapy alone. stat. 1 hr 17 min ago
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                • It's all going in that direction. I'm going to leave with the kids for summer and I think that will be it. I don't imagine us lasting the summer. 1 hr 15 min ago
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                  • ^ two kids and don't want to disrupt their school year with a divorce. 1 hr 14 min ago
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          • Wow, what an awful home life. I'd be out like a bat out of hell. 1 hr 19 min ago
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            • It's an awful home life for both of us. It's been this way for four years. It's hard to let someone go and the relationship go when you love them, but you know it just won't work. 1 hr 18 min ago
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    • Roommate. We're older parents with health issues, still work well together as a team but no energy for that stuff. 1 hr 26 min ago
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    • we are still attracted to each other and yet we have little sex. I don't really know why, frankly. intimacy issues on both sides, I think 1 hr 24 min ago
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  5. Toddler Have you talked about this article?...(more) 1 hr 32 min ago (2 replies)
    • I read another take on this by a different educator. Basically that two tests means constant test prep and that teachers can go "a mile wide but only an inch deep." She thinks the...(more) 1 hr 28 min ago
      change is a good one, though in an ideal world students would learn more history than they are given the opportunity to do so now. I'll see if i can find it and link.
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      • thanks, I'm interested. 1 hr 27 min ago
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  6. Toddler Why do the kardashian's have a show about the hamptons, etc. does E! think anyone cares 1 hr 32 min ago (3 replies)
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    • i watched 5 minutes of scott ODing on something and going to the hospital. they are all pathetic and should be ashamed. not even good tv 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • Clearly many many people do. Ratings drive programming. 1 hr 30 min ago
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    • you're surprised that people care about the Hamptons but are ok with people caring about the Kardashians? 1 hr 30 min ago
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  7. Toddler I amazon primed some snow boots for dc this morning, and paid the extra $3.99 to have them here tomorrow. 1 hr 32 min ago (2 replies)
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  8. Toddler Is tuna good for you ? 1 hr 32 min ago (10 replies)
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    • sure. in moderete amounts 1 hr 32 min ago
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      • modarate 1 hr 32 min ago
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      • i mean the fish not tuna salad, is is a "good" fish 1 hr 32 min ago
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        • in what respect? 1 hr 31 min ago
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        • yes in controlled portions. its one of the fish that tends to have more mercury bc it's a bigger fish. but healthy sure 1 hr 31 min ago
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  9. Toddler Is the snow wed or thurs? 1 hr 34 min ago (7 replies)
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    • Wed into thurs 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • accuweather can help you with this 1 hr 33 min ago
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      • is that on the internetz? 1 hr 33 min ago
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      • or an 8-ball may be equally helpful 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • Is there some weather app you could use? Probably better n asking here. 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • It's not. I live in florida 1 hr 30 min ago
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    • it's going to RAIN! 1 hr 30 min ago
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  10. Toddler If you and dh were living like roomates, would you be upset if he had an affair? 1 hr 34 min ago (28 replies)
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    • upset yes, shocked no 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • Depends. Who refuses who and why? 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • well, he had the affair, and now we live like roommates. 1 hr 32 min ago
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      • Do you care if he cheats again? 1 hr 24 min ago
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      • what was it like before and during? 1 hr 24 min ago
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      • You deserve better. 1 hr 23 min ago
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    • You still have an obligation to be honest, even if not passionate. Talk about it - say you need that passion and if it won't come from each other, you need to go elsewhere....(more) 1 hr 32 min ago
      Don't lie and cheat.
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      • that sounds perfect on paper. 1 hr 31 min ago
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        • you can dislike all you want, but it is true. in real life it is a rare thing that both parties would be ok with this. hence the pretty high rate of infidelity. fact. 1 hr 27 min ago
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          • This whole "obligation to be honest" is lala land. 1 hr 21 min ago
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            • I"m not saying that. I actually agree that in principle we do have that obligation, but there are so many other factors at play that this just doesn't happen IRL 1 hr 21 min ago
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              • OR yeah.. people seem to think they are entitled to happiness and if they can't divorce or find some other way out of the marriage, cheating is the only choice. It isn't. 1 hr 19 min ago
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                • divorce isn't always the apparent best option. 1 hr 18 min ago
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                  • Of course, and that is fine - then the non-divorce option means staying effectively single. 1 hr 16 min ago
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                    • huh? not getting divorced = stayoing married. 1 hr 15 min ago
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                      • Yes, staying married and not cheating. 1 hr 15 min ago
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                        • you just keep demanding it. I"m sure that will fix the world. 1 hr 14 min ago
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      • This doesn't really happen. 1 hr 28 min ago
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        • I'm not talking about what 'happens' I'm talking about what is OK. If you can't talk about it, you can't just go cheat. 1 hr 24 min ago
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          • LOL. yes, yes you can. and people do precisely b/c what you are advocating is so unrealistic. 1 hr 22 min ago
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            • Saying that you have to deal with your marriage OR keep it in your pants is NOT unrealistic. 1 hr 21 min ago
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              • the real world says otherwise. I"m not saying it is ideal, or what we wish would happen, but it is in fact more likely that someone wiill cheat than do as you suggest 1 hr 20 min ago
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                • Again, I'm not talking about what people do. I'm talking about what is RIGHT for them to do. 1 hr 19 min ago
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    • i am in this situation and yes, i'd be upset. we trust one another. 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • I was upset when I discovered my now ex was putting himself in the position to have an affair. (I don't know if he ever did). our marriage wasn't sexless, but it certainly lacked...(more) 1 hr 31 min ago
      A LOT. I was mostly pissed, not shocked , and not as upset as I should have been.
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    • depends. why are you living like roomates? are you resentful b/c you sacrifice a lot, do most of kids stuff and work and dh just whines about you not wanting sex, yet doesn't ask...(more) 1 hr 30 min ago
      you what you really need (in the bedroom and out) and then instead of working on your situation he decides to make strip club going a habit? and you further turn off of him and feel he is distant but you are not really sure why? and then you eat too much and feel unattractive from the extra 10 pounds? and then dh further calls you "cold" and works more and goes out without you all summer while you spend your days at work or with dc? and then you discover texts from him to a woman you have never heard of? yes, it would be upsetting.
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    • Depends. Was the matter discussed openly and agreed upon? 1 hr 30 min ago
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    • yes, because he coiuld have used the energy to lure and seduce another woman on me. 1 hr 25 min ago
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  11. Toddler Have you ever heard of a public school kid skipping a grade? do people do this anymore? 1 hr 34 min ago (35 replies)
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    • both of my brothers did. Back in the 70s. 1 hr 33 min ago
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      • i did too. 1 hr 32 min ago
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      • I skipped from 6 to 8, my sis from 7 to 9 , also back in the 70's 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • I did. I skipped second grade. 1 hr 33 min ago
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      • I skipped 1st 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • I know 4 people who did this when I was a kid (late 70s/early 80s) - haven't heard anyone doing it now 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • On kid in our school did this. Skipped 1st. He is now in 11th, everyone else in 10th 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • I don't think it happens much anymore. I did back in the early 80s 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • OP: I should have clarified that I mean in the last, say, 10 years 1 hr 32 min ago
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      • one girl in our town in NJ has. she's super smart . 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • dh could have but his mother said no, i did 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • not in nyc but since 1/3 of them are still 4 starting k they'd be really young compared to the rest of the country 1 hr 31 min ago
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      • I started school at age 4 and I skipped a grade. I graduated high school at 16. 1 hr 31 min ago
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        • but now in many places the cut off for K is July 1. Those kids would already be 1 1/2 years older than you were if you didn't skip. Starting ages used to be more standard 1 hr 29 min ago
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          • I was in NYC. The cut-off is still December. There were kids that much older than me in my graduating class. 1 hr 28 min ago
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            • that's not what I'm saying. I'm saying that now 19 yos are graduating from hs. summer biys are held back. in some places Juky 1 is the official cut off. I never knew anyone...(more) 1 hr 26 min ago
              tha Old when I grad:uated. The grade skipping was relaticely commonq
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              • I live in NY State and I am not aware of a July cutoff. It is not common to have a 7 y.o. in kindergarten. 1 hr 23 min ago
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                • not NY. other places. and nyc privatez 1 hr 17 min ago
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    • In NYC, it's not that they skip people, but rather than have a late cutoff and do not allow redshirting. So you get things like my 4th grader who is still 8 years old. 1 hr 31 min ago
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      • people used to skip though 1 hr 30 min ago
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        • Even in the 1980's, it was rare. More of a phenomenon in my parents' generation. 1 hr 27 min ago
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      • And you can work on more advanced stuff without skipping in G&T or with differentiation, they generally do that rather than skipping a child a grade. 1 hr 28 min ago
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    • My ds did, but we had redshirted initially and it wasnt the way to go for him 1 hr 29 min ago
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    • Success Academy does this a lot... 1 hr 29 min ago
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      • ^Charter, but still public ;-) 1 hr 29 min ago
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        • Charter=publicly funded private, not the same as public school. Totally different rules by which they are governed. 1 hr 26 min ago
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          • not a privately funded public? 1 hr 25 min ago
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    • i did bklyn 70s but it wasn't skippi;ng. we did three years in two. so call it whatever, but i graduated HS at 16. 1 hr 29 min ago
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    • I have not heard of anyone doing this. It seems to have fallen out of favor - people find different ways to handle advanced learners now. 1 hr 28 min ago
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      • ^I mean to say that it seemed sort of common when I was a kid, but I never hear about it now 1 hr 28 min ago
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    • I know several who have done it (within the past 5 years) 1 hr 28 min ago
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    • I was encouraged to skip all mine. I refused. I know a very pushy mom who has a 14 yo senior. he's very smart but he should not be a seniir 1 hr 28 min ago
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      • That sounds like skipping 2-3 years 1 hr 27 min ago
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    • ONly when transfering in or out of the school 1 hr 25 min ago
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  12. Toddler Think we will be able to fly into Asheville, NC, wednesday & out on Saturday? 1 hr 34 min ago (0 replies)
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  13. Toddler I grew up with fake Xmas tress and have happy memories of setting it up every Thanksgiving. Now I've done the same thing, dcs can't wait to take out the tree Thurs. 11ys w/ same...(more) 1 hr 34 min ago (2 replies)
    tree ;)
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    • nice 1 hr 34 min ago
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    • great. every family has their own traditions that they enjoy. 1 hr 34 min ago
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  14. Toddler Any LA moms on? Have been looking at real estate postings and noticed that they dont list the cost of Real Estate taxes. When does that get disclosed, at the open house, via your...(more) 1 hr 34 min ago (3 replies)
    broker? Thanks.
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    • Just ask listing broker. Or check trulia 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • you mean the yearly taxes? if you look online it should be posted 1 hr 33 min ago
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    • I see it listed on zillow. Tax history shows last two years. 1 hr 32 min ago
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  15. Toddler Its 76 degrees right now 1 hr 34 min ago (2 replies)
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    • it's snowing here 1 hr 34 min ago
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    • nice but I'm inside w/ AC and it's freezing 1 hr 32 min ago
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  16. Toddler Are you fucking kidding me that its going to snow?i am fully expected to pack 3 kids up (one who is sick) and schlep from VA to NY on wednesday and it's going to f'ing snow. i...(more) 1 hr 35 min ago (15 replies)
    will be shocked if DH and I don't get divorced over this holiday.
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    • drive up tues night 1 hr 35 min ago
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    • This is why people create their own traditions and stay at home! 1 hr 34 min ago
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    • Maybe try to go on Tuesday or Thursday. 1 hr 34 min ago
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    • come tuesday night instead let dh take a train 1 hr 34 min ago
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    • Do you see my post below? People think I am crazy for not having it. 1 hr 34 min ago
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    • can't leave tuesday. i have to work until 9. i always DO stay at home but got the serious guilt trip from both of my parents this year, like pissed off and yelling at me guilt...(more) 1 hr 32 min ago
      trip. (one even threatened to be dead by next year...i kid you not)
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    • jesus with the dramatics 1 hr 31 min ago
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      • are you offering to drive us the 5 hour drive that will take 9? thanks so much. we will be ready at 7 am wednesday morning 1 hr 29 min ago
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        • np-lol 1 hr 28 min ago
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        • you should leave Tuesday night at 11pm, let the kids sleep in the car. 1 hr 28 min ago
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          • i think both dh and i would fall asleep at the wheel. 1 hr 23 min ago
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        • i'm not offering to do anything for you, but you don't HAVE to do it. stop making a choice that YOU'RE making into such a big deal. stay home then and shut up. 1 hr 28 min ago
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          • np- people like you on YB are the worst 1 hr 24 min ago
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          • well clearly i should have said exactly that to my parents. you are so right. have a wonderful holiday season. 1 hr 23 min ago
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  17. Toddler Anyone know what the difference is between Adjunct Faculty Member and Adjunct Lecturer? TIA. 1 hr 35 min ago (4 replies)
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    • in my experience lecturers make more... 1 hr 35 min ago
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      • Are they more experienced? 1 hr 33 min ago
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        • I would think so - an adjunct faculty could just teach one class. But it varies, the title is not that descriptive. 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • Are these two titles at the same university? 1 hr 24 min ago
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  18. Toddler Stomach is very nauseaus today.. tomato soup or chicken soup for lunch 1 hr 35 min ago (2 replies)
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    • Chicken soup. I find creamy soups kind of gross when I don't feel 100%. 1 hr 34 min ago
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      • tomato soup is not a creamy soup, pers e 1 hr 34 min ago
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  19. Toddler Expert: My Michael Brown Autopsy Analysis Was Taken 'Out Of Context'...(more) 1 hr 35 min ago (11 replies)
    • Judy Melinek, one of the forensic experts who was quoted by the St. Louis Post-Dispatch on Tuesday about the Michael Brown autopsy report, is taking issue with how the newspaper...(more) 1 hr 35 min ago
      portrayed her comments.
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      • to what effect? 1 hr 35 min ago
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      • the paper claimed she said the gunpowder evidence supports the claim that MB was reaching for the gun. she believed the findings could be explained by other scenarios as well. 1 hr 34 min ago
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        • both are true. What it doesn't support is that he was shot at a distance with his hands up. 1 hr 34 min ago
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          • you aren't an expert. She is - and someone keeps posting her words as proof that MB deserved to be shot - which is a deliberate misinterpretation of the facts 1 hr 32 min ago
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            • Deserved is inflamatory. It discredits the story that he was only shot at a distance and with his hands up. He was in a struggle with the police officer. 1 hr 32 min ago
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    • "What happens sometimes is when you get interviewed and you have a long conversation with a journalist, they're going to take things out of context," she said. "I made it very...(more) 1 hr 34 min ago
      clear that we only have partial information here. We don't have the scene information. We don't have the police investigation. We don't have all the witness statements. And you can't interpret autopsy findings in a vacuum."
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    • This is a month old. I watched the ep btw and O'Donnell, whom I generally like, was bullying her like crazy to back down from any suggestion that the evidence might indicate he...(more) 1 hr 33 min ago
      was reaching for the gun. It was not his finest moment and (speaking of taking things out of context), Talking Points doesn't get it quite right.
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    • she's terrified of being targeted via internet & thugs. i dont blame her. 1 hr 33 min ago
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      • you are crazy and racist 1 hr 32 min ago
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        • thank goodness cooler heads like yours are here. 1 hr 31 min ago
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  20. Toddler Should I get a KURA Reversible bed for my dcs' very narrow room (7.5 feet wide)? The bed is 41 inches (~3.5 feet) wide. One child would sleep on a mattress on the floor, the other...(more) 1 hr 36 min ago (11 replies)
    would sleep up top. They are 3 and 5.
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    • every twin bed is 40 inches wide. 1 hr 35 min ago
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      • ^^^ so what are you asking? are they sharing a room permanently? 1 hr 35 min ago
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        • Yes. We only have 2 bedrooms. Right now the older one has an Ikea toddler bed (it's long but narrow) and the little one sleeps on a toddler bed. She's outgrowing the toddler bed....(more) 1 hr 33 min ago
          The room could fit two ikea toddler beds lengthwise, but the 5 yo might outgrow his bed soon.
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          • is a bunk bed not an option? one wiht a good railing? 1 hr 32 min ago
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            • No. The room also has a sloping roof on one side. It's a tiny house. One day I think dh and I will have to switch rooms with them. 1 hr 30 min ago
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              • then just put two mattresses on the floor along the wall? no need for a real bed frame, right? 1 hr 30 min ago
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                • I don't think that will work. 1 hr 28 min ago
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      • IKEA sizing can be different 1 hr 34 min ago
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        • i dont' get the question. sorry 1 hr 33 min ago
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          • op: ight now they're in narrow beds, but my 3 yo is outgrowing her bed. So we have to buy a new bed regardless. I was thinking of getting the KURA bed for them to share. 1 hr 30 min ago
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    • There are some really great ideas for these online, FYI. People paint them, decorate them all sorts of funky ways. They seem sturdy...if the DC on top can be trusted not to fall...(more) 1 hr 33 min ago
      down in the middle of the night (a hazard for any bunk), I say go for it!@
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  21. Toddler Omg, we're spending $350 on a big Christmas tree. First Christmas in our new apt! So happy its large and has high ceilings. Going all out 1 hr 36 min ago (16 replies)
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    • Home depot will have it for half 1 hr 35 min ago
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      • half?? try $90 1 hr 34 min ago
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        • You're right. and they are awesome trees 1 hr 33 min ago
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          • ita -done spending a fortune at the corner lot. 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • it comes decorated for that price? 1 hr 35 min ago
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      • sorry, we spent 350 so far. we bought some new decorations. tree itself was $180 1 hr 34 min ago
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        • (including delivery !!) 1 hr 33 min ago
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        • only the best for you, amiright? 1 hr 32 min ago
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        • is this a real tree? 1 hr 31 min ago
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          • yep 1 hr 29 min ago
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            • call the police - you wuz robbed. 1 hr 28 min ago
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    • I buy a 9-10 foot tree for $60. 1 hr 35 min ago
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    • A fake one? 1 hr 34 min ago
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    • for $350 someone better be bringing it to the house, putting it in the stand, putting the lights on it and making me hot chocolate while i go down ornamental memory lane with my...(more) 1 hr 33 min ago
      kids
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    • dang girl. you are SPENDY 1 hr 32 min ago
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  22. Toddler Moms of gays/lesbians: When did your dc come out to you? 1 hr 36 min ago (0 replies)
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  23. Toddler Took your advice and bought a few Mexican cokes for the next time i get a bad sinus headache (like a migraine for me) all stocked up lol 1 hr 36 min ago (5 replies)
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    • love mexico coke! i'll ever forget when i had one in puerto vallarta when i was 14. they are soooo gooood! 1 hr 35 min ago
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    • or just buy Kosher 1 hr 35 min ago
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      • No. Kosher for Passover, not Kosher, and that's available only for a few weeks in the spring. 1 hr 30 min ago
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    • you can also get Kosher for Passover Coke. 1 hr 35 min ago
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    • most other countries have coke without hfcs. 1 hr 34 min ago
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  24. Toddler Is a snow storm coming to ny? 1 hr 36 min ago (11 replies)
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    • snow flakes, not a storm 1 hr 36 min ago
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    • yes 6-9 inches 1 hr 36 min ago
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      • When? 1 hr 34 min ago
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        • Wed into Thurs!!!! and maybe more!!! 1 hr 34 min ago
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      • where did you see 6-9? max i saw was 2-4 and weather underground is saying 1! 1 hr 33 min ago
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      • NY is a pretty huge state. the city is expected to get 1-3 inches whereas upper westchester more 1 hr 31 min ago
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    • I think "storm" is overstating it. We are getting some snow. 1 hr 35 min ago
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      • IT"S THANKSGIVINGASNOWMAGEDDON 1 hr 35 min ago
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    • yes yes a thousand times yes 1 hr 35 min ago
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    • If 1 inch is a storm, then yes 1 hr 35 min ago
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  25. Toddler If we get snow on Wed into Thurs are you going to do Thanksgiving on Fri? 1 hr 36 min ago (3 replies)
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    • of course not 1 hr 36 min ago
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      • So you will ask your guests to drive in snow? 1 hr 35 min ago
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        • I will be a guest driving 2.5 hours in snow (that's without traffic) 1 hr 28 min ago
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