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  1. Toddler Do you leave a note from the tooth fairy (along with the cash) or just stick cash under the pillow. 2 hr 59 min ago (18 replies)
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    • always a note 2 hr 58 min ago
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      • ain't nobody got time for dat! 2 hr 58 min ago
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    • just the cash 2 hr 58 min ago
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    • no note 2 hr 58 min ago
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    • A note the first time, introducing herself. After that, nothing (aka I lost the stationary I'd bought) 2 hr 58 min ago
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    • i love my dc, cute thoughtful note 2 hr 58 min ago
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      • lmao 2 hr 57 min ago
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      • Yes, you love your dc. And those who don't do a cute thoughtful note don't love their children 2 hr 56 min ago
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        • ^^^ unless of course you meant this as a joke - in that case I love you 2 hr 56 min ago
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      • Well I guess that I do not love my dc because I do not leave a note. 2 hr 54 min ago
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        • I feel sorry for your dc...(more) 2 hr 54 min ago
          ;)
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          • Yeah...the little buggers will probably end up in therapy because of me. 2 hr 53 min ago
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            • They can use their tooth fairy money for it 2 hr 52 min ago
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              • You're right. I'll put it in a fund tomorrow. 2 hr 51 min ago
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          • Save for therapy. 2 hr 45 min ago
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    • I never did the note bc I know my dd would figure it out 2 hr 57 min ago
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    • Don't start with notes 2 hr 56 min ago
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    • Always a note 2 hr 46 min ago
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  2. Toddler Just saw the ad saying the vs swimsuit special is "NEXT"! We're just minutes away people! 2 hr 59 min ago (3 replies)
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    • are your vs panties moist? 2 hr 58 min ago
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    • Please call a therapist. 2 hr 58 min ago
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      • CBS, 10pm eastern, 9 central 2 hr 57 min ago
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  3. Toddler Trigger: have you ever caught someone in an affair? not in flagrante, just run into people where it's obvious they know you know they aren't with their spouse? 2 hr 59 min ago (5 replies)
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    • more than once 2 hr 59 min ago
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    • am i in what lies beneath? 2 hr 59 min ago
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    • Yes 2 hr 59 min ago
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    • Two different bosses 2 hr 53 min ago
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    • op i did with a former boss. it was so embarrassing for me and for him. he brought his gf back to the office, i heard him and went to show him the edits i'd made, and he and she...(more) 2 hr 52 min ago
      were just so embarrassed. standing and staring at me in front of his billion photos of dw and dcs.
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  4. Toddler Watched this week's RHWBH - Kim is completely nuts. 3 hr ago (2 replies)
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    • she is in denial and argumentative 2 hr 59 min ago
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    • Total addict. Lisa R is spot on 2 hr 58 min ago
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  5. Toddler My cat truly loves me, or at minimum, he is very posseesive 3 hr ago (0 replies)
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  6. Toddler My heart is broken. To live with someone, day after day, have dinner with them, make love to them and then hear that you're "pressuring them" when you suggest they meet your...(more) 3 hr ago (71 replies)
    family. After three years of living together with a man who keeps himself at a distance, I feel like a piece of shit.
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    • Good riddance. 2 hr 59 min ago
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    • For fucks sake, grow up and kick his ass out. Don't waste more time on someone who doesn't love you. 2 hr 59 min ago
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    • sometimes this is a good thing to open your eyes to reality. 2 hr 59 min ago
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    • Move on. You sound sensitive and living. Worthy of way more. I'm so sorry. 2 hr 59 min ago
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      • Loving 2 hr 59 min ago
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        • I'm very loving. I love this man. My heart is broken. Tomorrow, he will prentend all is ok, but if I mention it, he will accuse me of yelling at him and pressuring him. 2 hr 56 min ago
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          • You need an intervention 2 hr 55 min ago
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    • how much money does he make? 2 hr 59 min ago
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      • Enough to pay his bills and buy his toys. We don't exchange gifts, never go out to eat. He does his own thing, we split everything 50-50. 2 hr 58 min ago
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    • IT'S A SIGN LADY! 2 hr 58 min ago
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    • You let it go on this long?? Move on lady 2 hr 57 min ago
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    • You have 125 other clear warning signs this guy is awful to you. You must just like abuse and feel deserving of it to post for years and never leave. 2 hr 56 min ago
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    • It hurts like a bitch, I know. Do you want to keep feeling this way? No. Then kick him out while you are still mad bc when you calm down it will be harder to do and you'll make...(more) 2 hr 55 min ago
      excuses for him. I have been in your shoes. Please, start a new life with out his bullshit.
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      • I want to call him now and say go, move away, it's what you want. Get out of my life and stop hurting me. 2 hr 54 min ago
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        • Do it!!! 2 hr 53 min ago
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          • I want to, but then I think, maybe I'm being irrational? Maybe I expect too much? I jsut want to feel that the relationship is real, but when you get up from the table frustrated...(more) 2 hr 52 min ago
            after me suggesting we go to my hometown for a long weekend, I feel that something must be really wrong.
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            • What do you get from him? 2 hr 51 min ago
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            • See this is what I mean. You will explain it away. You are completely right in feeling the way you do. You are the normal one here. He's using you. 2 hr 51 min ago
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              • NP - I did this for years with my exdh!!! 2 hr 50 min ago
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              • and you know what? he accuses me of using him for sex, because we do have a great sex life. 2 hr 49 min ago
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                • Lol!!! 2 hr 49 min ago
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                • Yuck. Doormat. 2 hr 49 min ago
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                • a man accusing a woman of using him for sex? that's a first! 2 hr 47 min ago
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                • It's not that great. 2 hr 47 min ago
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              • Years and years of this. He discusses sleeping with Her friends and other women, his Asian fetish, all her flaws, she's not allowed to say she loves him out loud. This woman isn't...(more) 2 hr 48 min ago
                Going anywhere. It's really sick
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                • How do you know all this??? 2 hr 47 min ago
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                  • Her 5k posts that all end in YBM consensus that it's a horrible situation. She's not leaving 2 hr 45 min ago
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                    • Is this the guy who talks about his ex wife ? I don't think this is them... 2 hr 40 min ago
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                      • It's her. They both have sons the same age, he had an adult dd and an ex wife 2 hr 39 min ago
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                        • I feel sorry for this woman. She is clearly tortured, unhappy and stuck 2 hr 37 min ago
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                        • He likes his ex wife still? 2 hr 36 min ago
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            • Ugh, you are already backtracking. You will look back on this convo on ybm when you have wasted more of your remaining looks on this guy and say "fuuuuck, I should have left years...(more) 2 hr 50 min ago
              Ago"
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              • Op here. I know that--I'm really cute at 42 and he has me sucked in completely. 2 hr 48 min ago
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                • You will start to go downhill soon in looks. Get out now 2 hr 47 min ago
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                  • Op here. I know that. Despite the pain, I love him. How can a 52yo man do this to someone? Why would he go on about his commitment to me, then turn on me over a conversation like...(more) 2 hr 45 min ago
                    this?
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                    • Because you're a doormat and he can treat you any way he wants. 2 hr 44 min ago
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                    • He is mentally ill and so are you 2 hr 43 min ago
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                    • Look. It's easy for YBM posters to say get out. We are only hearing how you're explaining this -- maybe there is more here. The point is you don't sound happy. It doesn't seem...(more) 2 hr 43 min ago
                      like a true loving committed relationship. Maybe you are just as crazy and psycho as he is and you guys deserve each other. But I suggest you get therapy, find strength and figure out if this really is good for you and your dc
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                      • I don't think I'm crazy, but I do think I've been manipulated by him. I can't figure out why, though. I've never loved someone this much. In my gut, I know that I'm not h...(more) 2 hr 37 min ago
                        knowing this man isn't as committed as I am, despite him saying so. His outburst tonight is proof of this. We agreed not to get married, from the beginning. Then, one evening last year when he had a few glasses of wine, he suggested that we would one day. When I mentioned it, he accused me of lying! I can't figure him out, other than the fact that he's confused. I'm not, at least I wouldn't be, but he keeps me at a distance. At 42 & 52, if you can't be certain, what's the point, right?
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                        • Why are you allowing him to determine what you do and your future? It's simple. Where is this relationship headed? Am I happy NOW? You're so stuck in your own head and your own...(more) 2 hr 33 min ago
                          shit and trying to "figure out" what he's thinking you aren't even listening to what he's saying or taking in that info. And you clearly don't care about or think about what is good for you. I have been in similar situations and believe me ---- this is all about you. Your low self esteem. All of you is based on him and his whims.
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                          • ^^^^ get this book: Facing Codependancy by Pia Mellody. Get a therapist. Get strong. Or maybe this man will do you a favor and leave you for somebody else 2 hr 32 min ago
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                          • I see that--I'm so entwined and fixated on being with him, but despite being hurt, I make excuses for him. He left for his night shift an hour ago and didn't say goodbye. He knew...(more) 2 hr 28 min ago
                            I was upset, but I was just quiet, took a bath and went to bed. There was all this drama, but it wasn't even me, it was him reacting. I took it all in and wow, here is this man accusing me of pressuring him, of yelling at him, when I did no such thing, all I said was "if you want to come with me, you are welcome." Now, I've been crying for almost two hours. If I mention it, he will say I'm "looking for problems."
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                            • Get a therapist. Only you can solve this. This is ALL about you 2 hr 26 min ago
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                            • np: he has defined everything he does and everything he doesn't like as YOUR fault and YOUR problem and you are LETTING him do this. no one is going to save you but yourself 2 hr 26 min ago
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                              • NP - my ex used to blame me for everything - I spent YEARS posting shit here about what he did and was told over and over again to leave. Took me years but finally got strong...(more) 2 hr 24 min ago
                                enough and I did it
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                        • he has told you straight out who he is and you refuse to believe him, clinging instead to hope based on nothing. HE AIN'T GONNA CHANGE. HE AIN'T GONNA MARRY YOU. and if he did...(more) 2 hr 27 min ago
                          that would just be sadder. then you'd be legally bound to this fucking douchebag.
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        • You're so passive. You are still giving him the power. When you see him next you say, "it's over." And sort out which of you is moving out. 2 hr 52 min ago
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          • I chose this apartment for me and my ds--he renovated it, but I want to live here. I'm not moving. He doesn't even sleep here, he works nights. 2 hr 51 min ago
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            • Your poor kid, in the middle of this bullshit. When you have a kid you're supposed to be an adult. Grow up and get him out before your son thinks this is what relationships are...(more) 2 hr 49 min ago
              like and you fuck him up more
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            • Wait what? smh. tell him to get out. 2 hr 46 min ago
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          • She won't. This guy has done far far worse. She's a doormat. It's sad. Wasting her life like this in front of her child 2 hr 50 min ago
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            • I know, it's wasted breath. Pathetic. 2 hr 48 min ago
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            • oh, christ she has a child? 2 hr 48 min ago
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              • Eh sure, but the sex is great, and she is cute. 2 hr 46 min ago
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              • Yep, a son. She's switched it to a dd in recent posts for some teadin. He also has a son. And an ex wife he talks about fondly non stop 2 hr 46 min ago
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                • How do you know it is the same person 2 hr 45 min ago
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                  • It's not hard to figure out. Ask her. 2 hr 44 min ago
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                • Wait -- this is the woman who has the boyfriend who always talks about his ex wife? I don't think this is her.... 2 hr 42 min ago
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                  • Yep. 2 hr 41 min ago
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                    • No way. I remember that she broke up with him... Guess that didnt stick 2 hr 39 min ago
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                  • What does he say? 2 hr 40 min ago
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                  • this is her?? we've been telling her to dump him for what feels like years now 2 hr 36 min ago
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                    • Yes, we have. Wasted effort. 2 hr 35 min ago
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                    • IS it you, op??????????? 2 hr 34 min ago
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                      • The fact that she doesn't answer means it is. She feels shame about it and I feel sorry for her 2 hr 31 min ago
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                        • I do too. I'm angry with her but I feel sorry for her too. She has to make the change though. This guy will continue to milk her forever 2 hr 30 min ago
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                          • It's about her.... She keeps focussing on him but this is all about her 2 hr 29 min ago
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      • This 100 times 2 hr 52 min ago
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    • three years and he has never met your family? 2 hr 54 min ago
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    • Cow. Milk. Fool. 2 hr 53 min ago
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  7. Toddler Why do sports parents think that anyone cares about their kids teams except the kids on it and their families? 3 hr ago (11 replies)
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    • example? 3 hr ago
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      • Hanging signs along the road with their kids names, begging on local Facebook groups for people to go to their kid's games. 2 hr 59 min ago
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        • I've never seen or heard of this 2 hr 56 min ago
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          • Np: I've seen the signs but never begging people to attend games. I do have fb friends who post inning by inning scores- so annoying 2 hr 53 min ago
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        • Link? 2 hr 55 min ago
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    • you can cut out the word sports and it's still true. 2 hr 59 min ago
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      • That's true, but it seems like sports parents are much worse. I don't hear much about kids orchestra or chess competitions, but I'm supposed to care about the girls high school...(more) 2 hr 58 min ago
        basketball team?
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        • really? do you know a lot of those parents, because I do, and they are into it. 2 hr 56 min ago
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          • Yep. Te chess people are a whole other class 2 hr 55 min ago
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          • They post on their personal FB. Not town-wide ones with all the names of the kids on the team and encouraging people to come out. 2 hr 54 min ago
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  8. Toddler Would you let an 8 yo sleep over at a bday party if you didn't know the family at all? Never met them and don't know the kid? 3 hr ago (11 replies)
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    • No 3 hr ago
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    • can your 8yo protect himself/herself against manipulation by someone they look up to for protection? 2 hr 59 min ago
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      • ^the answer is NO. 2 hr 59 min ago
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    • no 2 hr 59 min ago
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    • I don't let my 8 yo sleep over anywhere, so this is a big no 2 hr 59 min ago
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    • op thanks, I'm not allowing it, but was wondering if I was being crazy. Why invite such young kids for a slumber party when you don't even know them? 2 hr 58 min ago
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      • red flags 2 hr 57 min ago
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        • really, I'm sure it's fine but why put parents in the spot of having to say no when it's going to make so many uncomftable 2 hr 56 min ago
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          • or setting their kids up for rejection. red flag. trust me. 2 hr 55 min ago
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    • friend did this once thinking she was being too over protective, her dd called at 9pm. teenage sister was taking care of them with other teens and mom and boyfriend were drunk....(more) 2 hr 57 min ago
      extreme case but still.
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  9. Toddler Mom who was asking about quadratic equations - in common core, 9th grade, not before...(more) 3 hr 1 min ago (1 reply)
    • Np, I just noticed on khan academy they note which section of cc each exercise satisfies. 2 hr 59 min ago
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  10. Toddler Dd was on a flight from Detroit to Dallas this evening. The in flight sitcom was interrupted by a strange Muslim broadcast. She and other passengers thought the plane was being...(more) 3 hr 1 min ago (13 replies)
    hijacked. They landed and deplaned safely. Nothing was mentioned. The flight attends dans were all nervous. No explanation. Just panic.
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    • that is very freaky 3 hr ago
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      • I know. She refuses to fly home now. She wants to drive 3 hr ago
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    • Doesn't sound like panic 2 hr 59 min ago
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      • The quiet kind. Apparently 2 hr 59 min ago
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    • i'm skeptical this happened 2 hr 58 min ago
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      • Well it did according to my dd. 2 hr 58 min ago
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        • I'm calling BS 2 hr 58 min ago
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        • Have you reported this to anyone? 2 hr 57 min ago
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          • Who am I going to report it to? I assume the airline workers are trying to figure out wtf happened. 2 hr 56 min ago
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            • She should contact the FBI if she thinks she witnessed something suspicious. 2 hr 54 min ago
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              • I'm sure the flight crew did. 2 hr 54 min ago
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                • So what? You think they would not want to interview others on that flight? 2 hr 53 min ago
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  11. Toddler When do private school notices go out in NYC? 3 hr 1 min ago (3 replies)
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    • Hs is out and I believe middle school as well 3 hr 1 min ago
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      • thank you - wanted to check in w a friend who was waiting for middle school 2 hr 58 min ago
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    • already did. 3 hr ago
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  12. Toddler Can someone explain net neutrality and why people are freaking out? 3 hr 2 min ago (8 replies)
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    • you want net neutrality. It means the internet is free and open. Non net neutrality means that isp giants like verizon and comcast can slow down service you want to see because...(more) 3 hr 1 min ago
      they are not being paid for it by youtube. So if Amazon doesn't want to pay comcast, you can't stream
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      • So why are people convinced that net neutrality means it will cost more $ for us bc others will get it free? 2 hr 59 min ago
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      • No. It means the federal govt takes control of something it has no business controlling. And, you stupid sheep think it is a good thing 2 hr 57 min ago
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        • yeah, Tim Wu is the stupidest sheep that ever was. Where do you teach law, now? 2 hr 55 min ago
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        • When we disagree with a conservative agenda, are you being a sheep then? 2 hr 55 min ago
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        • I'd prefer the govt oversee this as opposed to Google or amazon or the Koch britheres 2 hr 54 min ago
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    • see john oliver 2 hr 52 min ago
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  13. Toddler I feel like I have fluid in my ears (pressure) but my sinuses feel fine. Odd? 3 hr 2 min ago (4 replies)
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    • Decongestant 3 hr 1 min ago
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      • I'll try. God, this has been the worst winter. Kids keep getting sick and giving it to me. 3 hr ago
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    • Not really. Take a decongestant. And buy flonase. 3 hr 1 min ago
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    • i have been dealing with this feeling for months. i saw an ent, he blamed my deviated septum 3 hr 1 min ago
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  14. Toddler If you have moved out of Manhattan and NOT gone to NYC metro area, where did you move? 3 hr 3 min ago (18 replies)
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    • CA 3 hr 2 min ago
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    • best friends moved to weston, FL 3 hr 1 min ago
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      • what do they do for schools? 3 hr ago
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        • lol. not all schools in FL are bad. many are A rated. 2 hr 59 min ago
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          • Seriously. People on here don't realize that majority of FL has top schools. 2 hr 58 min ago
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            • OR: wasn't being snarky, considering a move to that area, honest question 2 hr 58 min ago
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          • yes that's why I am curious 2 hr 58 min ago
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    • philly burbs 3 hr 1 min ago
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      • considering this. how is it? 2 hr 59 min ago
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        • It's great. fantastic schools, tons to do, lots of good shopping (food& otherwise), reasonable col. western edge main line. 2 hr 58 min ago
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          • where are you? do you spend much time in the city? 2 hr 57 min ago
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            • paoli. a lot of time in city. 3 train stations within a few minutes. my dh commutes via train to city every day. 2 hr 54 min ago
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              • what line of work is he in? We're getting fed up with Brooklyn and prices and thinking about leaving. 2 hr 53 min ago
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                • accounting. the job market is good here. good salaries too. 2 hr 51 min ago
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    • va 3 hr 1 min ago
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    • Wash, DC 3 hr ago
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  15. Special Needs Neuropsych recommendation near Rockville Centre? 3 hr 4 min ago (1 reply)
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    • if we were on toddler, 8 people would post recommendations near Rockefeller Center 2 hr 47 min ago
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  16. Toddler Tell me how complicated this is going to be - my mother has had a woman privately caring for her since she came home from hospital. Just got word that medicaid aid is going to...(more) 3 hr 4 min ago (10 replies)
    start at 9am on sunday - i was originally told 1st or 2nd week in march. This woman that is currently with my mother is going to have a difficult time even though i have advised her of the 1st/2nd week of march thing - how would you handle this? We are willing to pay her an additional week to stay on for transition - work will be very minimal for her as this other aide will be there doing basically everything - I am dreading having this conversation tomorrow - ughhhhh
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    • You can get the other aid paid by medicaid 3 hr 1 min ago
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      • no she doesn't work for an agency she is just a person my father has paid - my father can NOT stand this woman - they do not get along at all - she is good to my mother 2 hr 55 min ago
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        • She doesn't have to work for an agency. 2 hr 54 min ago
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          • my father hates this woman - i don't think it really matters - they are not getting along well at all 2 hr 53 min ago
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    • Ugh... if hse is a caregiver she knows how tis works and an additonal week work/pay is fair and kind. 3 hr 1 min ago
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      • ^^ sorry for typos.. phone. 3 hr 1 min ago
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    • Try to keep the woman you know. Some of these aids are terrible. 3 hr 1 min ago
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      • my father HATES this woman - can NOT stand her 2 hr 56 min ago
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    • Sunday is the start of the first week of March. If you already informed her it was happening then, what's the problem? 2 hr 59 min ago
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      • b/c it is somewhat more sudden then we expected 2 hr 56 min ago
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  17. Toddler My neighbor was committed today. she's writing about it on FB. it's really strange and awful. 3 hr 4 min ago (14 replies)
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    • This is when someone should shut down her account 3 hr 3 min ago
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    • It's strange she has access to the internet. 3 hr 3 min ago
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      • agreed 3 hr 3 min ago
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      • Explains a lot about YBM actually... 3 hr 2 min ago
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        • op: omg, holy shit. i'd nver though of that before. I hope she's not on. 3 hr ago
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          • My sister works on a psych ward. Patients do not have access to internet or their phones. 2 hr 58 min ago
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            • Np: my childhood bff, a veteran rehab patient, has figured out how to sneak her phone into rehab. Not sure if psych patients are more thoroughly searched... 2 hr 44 min ago
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        • I want to like this 10000x 2 hr 58 min ago
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    • Are you sure she was? 3 hr 3 min ago
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    • how awful. that is a terrible experience. was it against her will or did she commit herself? 3 hr 2 min ago
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      • op: I don't know. it's weird on her fb page. I mean, she must have a computer there. but then that makes no sense. should i reach out to the dh and offer to help? the kids are...(more) 3 hr ago
        kind of difficult though.
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        • no. as a btdt, I'm going to say, unless you are very close to the family, let this play out a little more first. I know that there was a lot of shame involved (there shouldn't be)...(more) 2 hr 57 min ago
          and it took time for my family to process what was happening and how to connect with people for help.
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          • okay. the dh had texted me last week about something weird. he asked if my sitter was home and I said she was and then he just texted me that he's been worrieda bout his son but...(more) 2 hr 48 min ago
            it was all okay now.
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    • in my (limited) experience, phones, etc. are confiscated. no? 3 hr 2 min ago
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  18. Toddler Stupid problem but I'm under the weather and got my nails done today. One nail is very messed up. Would you go back tomorrow if you weren't feeling great? 3 hr 5 min ago (0 replies)
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  19. Toddler I have GC to Victoria secret -- I for them years ago when I got married and exdh was so mean to me and had no interest in me I never bought anything from VS (we never had sex...(more) 3 hr 5 min ago (22 replies)
    anyway).... Now I'm using them. Can't buy bras bc my breasts are tiny. Getting lingere (I have a boyfriend now - no flames! Been divorced for years)
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    • okay. 3 hr 4 min ago
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    • Huh? 3 hr 4 min ago
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    • ^^^ oh! Forgot my question -- what is good from Victoria secret? Was never a big fan of that place 3 hr 4 min ago
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    • so what? 3 hr 4 min ago
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    • how can you not wear bras!? 3 hr 3 min ago
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      • Lol! I do - but VS doesn't carry a lot of A cups 3 hr 3 min ago
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        • they do but they call them b-cups. vanity sizing. 3 hr 3 min ago
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          • jinx!!! 3 hr 2 min ago
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          • Really? Didnt know that - thanks 3 hr 1 min ago
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        • because vanity sizing - i'm an A but b there 3 hr 2 min ago
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    • Aren't VS bras mostly for people with tiny boobs? They only go up to a C cup in most styles. 3 hr 2 min ago
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    • sexy thongs, sheer teddies 3 hr 2 min ago
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    • why can't you buy bras? they have small sizes 3 hr 1 min ago
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    • Did ex get you the GC? 3 hr 1 min ago
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      • No. Shower presents. And then a birthday party 2 hr 59 min ago
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  20. Toddler My mortgage is $4k per month. what is a good HHI to have to cover this? 3 hr 5 min ago (3 replies)
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    • 8k per month take home 3 hr 4 min ago
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    • isn't it a bit late for this math? 3 hr 2 min ago
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    • $300k annual 3 hr 2 min ago
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  21. Toddler If someone adds a life event on fb saying they started school w the name of the university and date and then on their profile it says studied at the same school under education...(more) 3 hr 5 min ago (1 reply)
    did they start school again or they just added where they studied.
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    • Why do I care? Fuck, man. 3 hr 4 min ago
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  22. Toddler A friend has been spending a lot of time with another mutual friend, they are both married but she is a dw and he is a dh. Today my Dh sees her in her vehicle outside starbucks,...(more) 3 hr 6 min ago (5 replies)
    he goes in and sees other df sitting at a table with 2 drinks. He said he is meeting someone. Df never goes in and df in starbucks gets a text, takes both drinks and leaves. Dc then texts me later in the day randomly telling me she went to get coffee today but forgot her wallet and went home. I don't even care what she is or is not doing. I don't ask questions or snoop and have no idea why she is texting me like she thinks she's in trouble It's obvious they were meeting for coffee but I don't care nor does my dh. I have no time for drama and it seems that this is heading that way. I need to distance myself from these friends right?
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    • Just a wee bit 3 hr 5 min ago
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    • No. They are having an affair. It's not about you. Just ignore. 3 hr 4 min ago
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    • Myob 3 hr 3 min ago
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    • Well they are cheating on their spouses so Id need to get away from that 3 hr 3 min ago
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      • Even if they are I don't want to know I want to stay completely out of it 3 hr 1 min ago
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  23. Toddler Rye or Locust Valley? 3 hr 6 min ago (1 reply)
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    • all depends on where you work in nyc 3 hr 1 min ago
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  24. Toddler After reading this I am starting to see it as blue/black...(more) 3 hr 6 min ago (6 replies)
    • I still don't see it. It looks gold and white, but in the shadow of something. 3 hr 5 min ago
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      • This 3 hr 3 min ago
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    • the longer I stare at it the blacker it gets 3 hr 1 min ago
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    • Nope, white and gold 3 hr 1 min ago
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    • For gods sake, it's white and gold! 2 hr 55 min ago
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    • I only see blue and black. 2 hr 54 min ago
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  25. Toddler I need to let it go. I need yoga. Let the resentment go. 3 hr 7 min ago (2 replies)
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    • You need 2 drinks and a fuck 3 hr 5 min ago
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