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  1. Toddler Which part of pregnancy am I supposed to be enjoying? People always say that "just enjoy it." What am I doing wrong :/ 3 hr 38 min ago (19 replies)
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    • Are you worrying a lot or really uncomfortable? 3 hr 37 min ago
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      • I'm pretty uncomfortable. 3 hr 36 min ago
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        • You don't have to enjoy that. They mean well but only you can decide if you're having fun ;) 3 hr 36 min ago
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          • Thanks. I see it said here, too. It's one of those phrases that probably doesn't mean anything 3 hr 33 min ago
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            • They prob feel nostalgic for that time in their lives. Forgetting the weird muscle aches and constipation (I romanticize it too, and I could barely walk the last / weeks) 3 hr 31 min ago
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              • I think that's right! I had totally romanticized this in my memory too. It's physically very challenging. I'm having trouble moving around. And the reflux at night.. 3 hr 27 min ago
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    • The part before a baby is keeping you up all night sucking on your raw nipples 3 hr 37 min ago
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    • How far along are you? First pregnancy? 3 hr 36 min ago
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      • No, it's my 3rd. But a huge space, it's been awhile. 3 hr 36 min ago
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    • lol, yeah enjoy bc bloating, constipation and heartburn are so conducive to relaxing! 3 hr 36 min ago
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    • I liked strangers rubbing my belly. 3 hr 35 min ago
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    • I think 'enjoy it' really means 'it gets worse soon' 3 hr 28 min ago
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    • I didn't enjoy any of the 3 pregnancies except for the kicking which was fun. Other than that- glad I'll never be pg again. 3 hr 23 min ago
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      • The kicking has been strange for me this time. I think I remember the end where it was consistent. This baby moves a lot but it's more wiggly 3 hr 20 min ago
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    • the EATING 3 hr 22 min ago
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      • I don't really eat that differently, did you? 3 hr 17 min ago
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    • I always wanted to punch people who told me to enjoy the sleep now. Sleeping with a constantly full bladder and a bulbous stomach full of kicks is not restfu!!! 3 hr 16 min ago
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  2. Toddler Starting two weeks of low carb tomorrow or Tuesday. Who's in?? 3 hr 38 min ago (6 replies)
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    • I'm in. let me just finish off my capn crunch. 3 hr 36 min ago
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    • me....plan to take off 20 by october 12..columbus day 3 hr 35 min ago
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    • Like I'd go low carb on Labor Day. 3 hr 35 min ago
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    • me, I'll join in. 3 hr 35 min ago
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    • Ok. So we'll plan to start Tuesday. What would be helpful in terms of daily reminders. I could use one in the morning and one mid afternoon (the don't cave and eat a fucking...(more) 3 hr 8 min ago
      donut reminder). Then maybe one at 8pm to remind me to stop eating for the night. What do you guys want?
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  3. Toddler Trigger: is it "easier" to write off a leased car as a business expense than an owned car? tia 3 hr 38 min ago (3 replies)
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    • yes 3 hr 38 min ago
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    • Nope- you can either write off a lease or a payment- your choice 3 hr 35 min ago
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      • ok but once you own it what can be written off? and if it is bought out right is there a way to claim it? 3 hr 33 min ago
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  4. Toddler Ds in 7th. went to local hs football game last night, some 8th grader on his bus got caught with pot. 8th grader is an elem teacher's son. always a good time for another drug...(more) 3 hr 40 min ago (1 reply)
    discussion with the kids.
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    • Are you in tax? 3 hr 38 min ago
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  5. Toddler I jave an age spot on teh side of my face. derm says i can have it burnt off.anyone btdt? 3 hr 40 min ago (9 replies)
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    • yes -- you do it with a laser and they always seem to come back 3 hr 39 min ago
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    • I'm doing it after the summer 3 hr 39 min ago
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      • ditto 3 hr 38 min ago
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      • good idea. who are you seeing. 3 hr 38 min ago
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    • I think there's some cream in going to look into. The laser comes back 3 hr 37 min ago
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      • same issue, stay out of the sun and it won't come back - yes i get that you try but this is the reality of sun damage 3 hr 36 min ago
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      • i was just looking at amazon. some cream..begins with V looks good 3 hr 36 min ago
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        • A neighbor used something the derm gave her 3 hr 35 min ago
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      • they come back no matter what 3 hr 10 min ago
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  6. Toddler Hotel rec near tuxedo ny? 3 hr 41 min ago (1 reply)
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    • Theres a bunch on rt 17 in nj which are not that far 3 hr 40 min ago
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  7. Toddler I got up from table at restaurant last night and a huge squirt of blood went up my back over my pad and put a huge bloody stain on the back of my pants. Good times. 3 hr 42 min ago (9 replies)
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    • Wtf? How much do you bleed?' 3 hr 42 min ago
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      • It was a trickle all day. Not even enough for a tampon. 3 hr 41 min ago
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    • Oh geez. That's such a bad feeling. 3 hr 41 min ago
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      • Luckily it was just a half block walk home. And my shirt was long enough to cover. I hope. 3 hr 41 min ago
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    • WTF..TMI THAT SHIT 3 hr 37 min ago
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    • Are you in your 40s? 3 hr 35 min ago
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  8. Toddler I think melissa's gonna pull the plug 3 hr 44 min ago (8 replies)
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    • RHONJ. 3 hr 43 min ago
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      • joan rivers' daughter 3 hr 43 min ago
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      • Yeah this Joe to jail stuff 3 hr 43 min ago
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    • How did she sound when you spoke with her? She must be so distraught. 3 hr 43 min ago
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      • Not distraught. Resting comfortably. 3 hr 43 min ago
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    • On what? 3 hr 43 min ago
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  9. Toddler What is cake boss? 3 hr 45 min ago (7 replies)
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    • Buddy Valastro 3 hr 45 min ago
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      • And? 3 hr 44 min ago
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        • He's the cake boss 3 hr 44 min ago
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          • Not who. What? How do you visit? Like a cupcake shop? 3 hr 43 min ago
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            • Yes in Hoboken, called "Carlos's Bakery" and he has a show in food network 3 hr 42 min ago
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    • S&M bedroom game involving pastry 3 hr 44 min ago
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  10. Toddler Rosie from RHONJ- faked her relationship...(more) 3 hr 48 min ago (6 replies)
    • she was on millionaire matchmaker too. they have been playing that angle at bravo for a while. 3 hr 48 min ago
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    • Is she straight now? 3 hr 46 min ago
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    • That's sad 3 hr 45 min ago
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    • crap. i liked Rosie 3 hr 42 min ago
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    • why did she fake it? for a story line? 3 hr 40 min ago
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  11. Toddler Would you rather live in NJ on 200K, or St Louis on 1M HHI? 3 hr 49 min ago (26 replies)
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    • Where in NJ? 3 hr 48 min ago
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      • wherever you can afford. 3 hr 46 min ago
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        • Short Hils? 3 hr 44 min ago
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          • I dont think you can afford a house in SH for 200K. 3 hr 43 min ago
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          • Ha not on 299k 3 hr 42 min ago
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    • Is that it? Can I live in queens on 100k? 3 hr 48 min ago
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    • i would have to visit STL and check it out for that money 3 hr 48 min ago
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    • St Louis I guess, I live in nj which is a state by the way and love it but find myself too close to family and needing space so I would be happy to try st louis 3 hr 48 min ago
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    • i'll take door number 3, please 3 hr 48 min ago
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    • St Louis has a lot going on. I'd go there on that salary in a second. 3 hr 47 min ago
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      • Ditto 3 hr 47 min ago
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        • Trip to 3 hr 47 min ago
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        • Have you visited the newish sculpture park downtown? It's really nice. 3 hr 46 min ago
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      • ita. i would travel more with that money. 3 hr 47 min ago
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    • NJ 3 hr 47 min ago
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    • Latter 3 hr 47 min ago
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    • Nj- i need to be close to the ocean 3 hr 46 min ago
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    • St Louis 3 hr 46 min ago
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    • how about pa with 200k? 3 hr 33 min ago
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      • I have no reason to move to PA. 3 hr 27 min ago
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  12. Toddler I laugh when I hear about people going to cake boss 3 hr 49 min ago (21 replies)
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    • fondant is such a lazy way to decorate a cake. tastes disgusting 3 hr 49 min ago
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    • Do they film it in front of a live studio audience? 3 hr 49 min ago
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    • Why? 3 hr 49 min ago
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      • So gross and overpriced, these are people who don't usually get suckered 3 hr 47 min ago
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        • I have a DF who usually makes good decisions who bought a cake a Costco of all places! 3 hr 45 min ago
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          • Costco cakes are beyond delicious. And kosher too 3 hr 44 min ago
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          • What's wrong with costco cakes? 3 hr 44 min ago
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          • Np: I've never had one but I've heard their cakes are awesome 3 hr 44 min ago
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          • costco cake is actually good! 3 hr 44 min ago
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          • Costco has great cakes 3 hr 44 min ago
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          • Their cakes are delicious 3 hr 28 min ago
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    • Me too. We have a bunch of friends who came to NY and were heading there as a big destination. They couldn't believe we didn't want to join them. I guess I do stuff they wouldn't...(more) 3 hr 48 min ago
      like. I just don't see it as a destination to make a day of
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      • He's. TV personality and people think it's fun. Don't make such a big thing out of it. My cousins came in from Ohio and wanted to go so bad. They had a blast with it. 3 hr 46 min ago
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        • Ita, he's actually a very nice guy. 3 hr 46 min ago
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        • I agree. It's just a thing. No one is confusing it with the 9/11 memorial. 3 hr 44 min ago
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    • Why Ms Smuggerstein?? 3 hr 47 min ago
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    • He's making MILLIONS with all his shows, bakeries and now restaurants. Good for him. 3 hr 46 min ago
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    • My bil and his dds are obsessed. They live in NE. They are thinking of taking a trip to NYC (where is his shop- nj?) to have her party and get a cake 3 hr 44 min ago
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      • Hoboken and Hoboken is very nice and a great place to visit 3 hr 43 min ago
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        • It's actually got a few good foodie destinations. My friend goes to some German pastry place and some other semi famous Italian place there all the time. She makes it a little day...(more) 3 hr 40 min ago
          Trip
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        • It's fine, I'm from NJ. I'm saying they think his cakes are da bomb and want to make a whole trip out of it 3 hr 2 min ago
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  13. Toddler What do you normally eat for breakfast and lunch? 3 hr 53 min ago (9 replies)
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    • Fage yogurt with cherry. lunch varies. 3 hr 52 min ago
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    • Nutribullet and grilled chicken sale 3 hr 51 min ago
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      • What's nutribullet? 3 hr 43 min ago
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        • Health shakes- look it up 3 hr 34 min ago
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    • Cereal (lucky charms this morning) and sandwich for lunch 3 hr 50 min ago
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    • eggs, toast, muffins with fruit. Sometimes cottage cheese. Right now though I'm eating chocolate sprinkles on toast. So yummy! 3 hr 47 min ago
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    • Left overs and eggs. Salad maybe for lunch 3 hr 39 min ago
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    • Egg white w cheese for breakfast. Superfood snacks, nuts, cheese, fruit for lunch. 3 hr 39 min ago
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    • Toast with sunbutter for both 3 hr 28 min ago
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  14. Toddler Mayor Di Blasio defended his plan to scrap an admissions test as the sole criteria for entry into the city’s elite public high schools after alumni from the schools...(more) 3 hr 55 min ago (32 replies)
    • So is it by lottery now? 3 hr 54 min ago
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      • no - DeBlasio can't change it. It's state law. He may have a "plan" but he's not in charge of this. 3 hr 53 min ago
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    • I don't understand I thought they were well diversified with only about 15 percent white - 3 hr 53 min ago
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      • interesting article recently about how competitive HS in NYC that aren't SHSAT schools have much higher %of white students. and that's what he wants for the specialized HS 3 hr 52 min ago
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    • you mean that test for stuy bronx sci and brooklyn tech? 3 hr 53 min ago
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      • Yes CSHAO wants it eliminated 3 hr 52 min ago
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        • i wonder what they want to do instead. like a full application process like for college? 3 hr 51 min ago
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          • so then people with $ can prevail. since they are the ones who can pay for extracurriculars. 3 hr 49 min ago
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            • exactly. and student packaging specialists who will ensure their applications stand out. 3 hr 49 min ago
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              • A test is way more fair. I know from experience that you can be poor and can buy a test $10 prep book and spend hours and hours studying. 3 hr 47 min ago
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                • i am agreeing, i took that test and did not get into stuy 26 yrs ago! 3 hr 46 min ago
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              • Friend had one of those packaging specialists for her kids summer camp trunk! 3 hr 47 min ago
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                • the rich are different 3 hr 46 min ago
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          • For Stuyvesant, Bronx Science, and Brooklyn Tech, state law mandates that the test be used as the sole admissions criteria, so legislation would be needed in Albany to change the...(more) 3 hr 44 min ago
            process.
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            • For the five other specialized schools, the city controls admissions and could make the change on its own, but has not yet done so. De Blasio said that is because officials are...(more) 3 hr 42 min ago
              working on devising a new admissions system to replace the current one.

              Schools Chancellor Carmen Farina said a committee of experts has been meeting to discuss what the new criteria should look like.
              “I believe in high standards, and we’ve got to be sure that whatever process we use, that the standards are still met,” she said
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              • high standards my ass. 3 hr 41 min ago
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    • "It’s just this simple. This is a society that’s supposed to be based on fairness. Our specialized schools don’t reflect the kind of fairness that any New Yorker would recognize...(more) 3 hr 52 min ago
      recognize by any common sense measure,” de Blasio said.
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      • shouldn't elite schools be competitive to get in? what is his alternative? 3 hr 52 min ago
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      • No equality of opportunity life isn't fair 3 hr 51 min ago
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      • It will be less fair when it's based on BS criteria. For now, anyone can study hard for the test. 3 hr 51 min ago
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      • Everyone taking the same test seems dairy to me. 3 hr 51 min ago
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        • it may not be 100% fair, but it's certainly more fair than any other way. 3 hr 50 min ago
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        • but what about the lactose intolerant test takers? 3 hr 50 min ago
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    • "Could I fill Stuyvesant with people of all backgrounds and have a great and wonderful educational experience keeping the most rigorous standards? Unquestionably." 3 hr 48 min ago
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      • " You know what the problem is? Standardized testing,” he said. “You cannot judge people solely by a standardized test.” 3 hr 47 min ago
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        • Somehow the schools that are not test based but are highly competitive have way more white students. This is really about Asian hatred. 3 hr 45 min ago
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          • no it isn't 3 hr 40 min ago
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            • I think it is. Otherwise why not go after the non specialized HS where there is a much higher (non representative) % of white students? 3 hr 38 min ago
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    • Off topic, but here goes: what if we put all out hand-wringing and big money used for school "reform" toward meaningful poverty eradication? Every study suggests that school...(more) 3 hr 39 min ago
      environment cannot compensate for the academic detrimental effects of poverty.
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      • ita - but the wealthy don't want money spent that way because it doesn't directly benefit them 3 hr 26 min ago
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        • It's less glamorous, maybe than the idea of education 3 hr 22 min ago
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          • there are a lot of wealthy people who have invested in companies that will profit from eliminating public education and replacing it with charters 3 hr 17 min ago
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  15. Toddler Yoga Moms: Whats a yoga that is similar to Bikram w/out heat and not so long. I think Bikram can tone and really open up a stiff person but I can't stand the heat and length 3 hr 57 min ago (2 replies)
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    • regular yoga in a cut-rate studio with no a/c. 3 hr 54 min ago
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    • Just do vinyasa or ashtanga 3 hr 48 min ago
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  16. Toddler Trigger:I have two cars-130k and 100k respective and only had one small problem with one over the 8 years. One I bought used with 25k miles. I drive 20-25k mi a year and I could...(more) 3 hr 59 min ago (42 replies)
    never imagine having endless car payments. Leasing is wasteful
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    • if your cars are american they won't last much longer. if they are japanese you are in luck 3 hr 59 min ago
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      • Toyota and a Mazda 3 hr 57 min ago
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        • you could be ok. i have owned 4 american cars and they rarely last beyond that 6 figure mileage beofre major stuff goes wrong and they are worthless 3 hr 57 min ago
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          • np And I had a Toyota that crapped out at 80k. Another blanket statement... 3 hr 56 min ago
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            • Crapped out ? Sounds like you didn't take care of it at all 3 hr 55 min ago
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              • Perfect maintenance record. 3 hr 54 min ago
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                • so what went wrong? cars do require maintenance. 3 hr 54 min ago
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            • wow really? people still pay top dollar for hondas with tons of mileage. maybe it is just honda that runs so well for so long 3 hr 55 min ago
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        • you have a $100, 000 mazda? 3 hr 56 min ago
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          • mileage not cost lol 3 hr 56 min ago
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            • oh! lol . gawd 3 hr 56 min ago
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            • Np lol I was wondering the same thing 3 hr 55 min ago
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          • 100k miles 3 hr 56 min ago
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    • It depends on your situation, for some thatbwaste is worth it, you really do need to understand someone else's responsibilities and finances to judge 3 hr 58 min ago
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      • if youre well off/rich and dont want to mess w a car, by all means lease. that was no the situ of the OP of the other post 3 hr 54 min ago
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    • i find people that lease can't commit 3 hr 58 min ago
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    • Leasing is wasteful for you. Making blanket statements about what's right for everyone else's situation is wasteful too 3 hr 58 min ago
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      • ita. plus those used off lease vehicles get sold cheaper to people who do not want to buy new. works for many people! 3 hr 57 min ago
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        • OP- hats what I do - I paid 14k for that Camry 6 years ago and runs like a top 3 hr 56 min ago
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          • enterprise rental car also sells cars taht have been gently used as rentals for about a year. the value is great for people who don't want to bring home a brand new car 3 hr 56 min ago
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            • I had a 7 yr 100k warranty from Toyota and it's at 130k right now and I drive it 75 Miles a day to the city 3 hr 54 min ago
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              • with that much driving you might do better to get another old car with another long term warranty! 3 hr 53 min ago
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                • My care run perfectly if they don't I'll trade them in for something else 3 hr 52 min ago
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                  • oh i know, we always keep cars forever but it becomes a risk between selling while it has any value or running it into the ground and walking away 3 hr 50 min ago
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                    • I even get 1k when my old corolla was 14 and not running toward a trade in 3 hr 46 min ago
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                      • wow. we got 500 for my mountaineer at 100k. it really was in horrific shape and needed everything 3 hr 45 min ago
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                        • It was just a alternator issue- had been running ok till then 3 hr 40 min ago
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                    • np-we had the same situation-mechanic said sell it now for $3500 or wait a year or two for nothing, so we sold. I think it was good, i dont want to be at the point where Im...(more) 3 hr 46 min ago
                      worried it will break down and leave me on the side of the road. I think it had about 135k miles
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                      • you got your money's worth with that mileage! time to move on right? 3 hr 45 min ago
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                        • my dd's cried, it was the only car they ever knew-bought it a month after my 10 yo was born 3 hr 38 min ago
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                      • When you trade in they give you more 3 hr 45 min ago
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                        • depends on the car. not necessarily at all. we sold our car privately and got almost double what the dealer wanted to give us for our old minivan 3 hr 44 min ago
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                        • i didn't trade it in. You get more selling it yourself. I sold it on craigslist in one day. 3 hr 41 min ago
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                          • ^plus i bought the next car at auction, not at dealership 3 hr 38 min ago
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                      • Immat 130k'and not a bit worried 3 hr 45 min ago
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                        • well, mine was a Chevy :) You worry w a chevy at 135k. Although I never had any problems w it. 3 hr 40 min ago
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      • It's always a waste if you're rich buy outright and turn it in every 3 years 3 hr 55 min ago
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      • i beleive that thread disintegrated when the OP tried to defend leasing as a sound financial plan. 3 hr 52 min ago
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    • ita, i had a car i bought used w 300ish miles, drove it for 10 yrs. sold it last year, dh managed to get a totaled car at auction (w 1000 mi for 8k) did repairs and we have no car...(more) 3 hr 56 min ago
      payment still
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    • i'm like you. we drive our cars forever and we've never had a car payment. i'm hoping to get my honda to 200k miles. DH just got a new car last year, his car was 17 years old...(more) 3 hr 55 min ago
      and we bought it used.
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      • People are so fucking image obsessed 3 hr 54 min ago
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      • I do too. I'm hoping my new used car will last. I only drive about 80 miles a week. 3 hr 51 min ago
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  17. Toddler If your work includes a lot of reading (academic or similar), where do you do the reading? what do you sit on? redoing home office and trying to decide what I want for my reading...(more) 4 hr ago (11 replies)
    corner or even if I want a reading corner.. desk/table? comfy chair?
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    • Bed 3 hr 59 min ago
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    • i do it in bed..i need to be comfortable. get an L-shaped couch 3 hr 59 min ago
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      • OP- that's kind of the problem. I have a big, comfy chair and I get distracted/tired too quickly if sitting in there. 3 hr 57 min ago
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    • Comfy chair, but definitely more efficient if sitting uncomfortably at a desk 3 hr 59 min ago
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    • I love my recliner. It's not pretty to look at, but I love it. Helpful as sometimes I need to change position 3 hr 57 min ago
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    • good god I hate the word comfy. 3 hr 56 min ago
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      • sounds like you need more comfy in your life. comfy comfy comfy :) 3 hr 55 min ago
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        • I am quite comfortable, thanks. 3 hr 52 min ago
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        • And to be preggers and cook with evoo 3 hr 52 min ago
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          • hubby got you preggers with another kiddo? 3 hr 51 min ago
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    • Prof here: I got myself an Aeron for my 50th 3 hr 51 min ago
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  18. Toddler I have the whole day to myself.what should i do? will join dh/dcs tmrw 4 hr 1 min ago (3 replies)
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    • pedicure, shopping, lunch, read a good book, go to a museum alone. so many great possibilities.. 3 hr 59 min ago
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    • Barney's warehouse sale 3 hr 58 min ago
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    • I would stay home, do my puttering, work in the garden. 3 hr 56 min ago
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  19. Toddler Say something; I'm giving up on you. 4 hr 1 min ago (4 replies)
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    • i love when my 4yo sings that in the car. so funny. like she's old before her time 4 hr 1 min ago
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    • My husbands gets uncontrollable laughter when I queef 3 hr 59 min ago
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    • i'm a little hungover 3 hr 38 min ago
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  20. Toddler Can stress cause my finger to twitch? I'm freaking out because I googled finger twitching. It doesn't help that I am under an insane amount of stress. 4 hr 4 min ago (6 replies)
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    • prob just coming from a nerve in your neck. take an anti inflammatory like advil to see if it helps at all 4 hr 3 min ago
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    • What did google say? 4 hr 3 min ago
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      • Parkinson's 4 hr 3 min ago
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        • Oh God. Just stay away from dr. Google. You could be a little dehydrated for goodness sake, maybe a little magnesium/ potassium deficient 4 hr ago
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          • Np: did you steal dr. Google from me? 3 hr 58 min ago
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  21. Toddler Dh is always grabbing and pinching my nipples but when I do it back to him he does not like it 4 hr 5 min ago (16 replies)
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    • fake? 4 hr 4 min ago
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      • No, you never do dumbs stuff and platform around with dh 4 hr 4 min ago
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        • that sounds painful not playful 4 hr 3 min ago
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          • It's both 4 hr 2 min ago
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            • i am very sensitive. also overly ticklish. that wouldn't be fun for me specifically. if you like it then its good 4 hr 2 min ago
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              • I am not sure I lime it but it's how we play, and we can get pretty rough, I like to horse around with him 4 hr 1 min ago
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                • this might seem unrelated but did either or both of you go to business school for graduate work by any chance? 4 hr ago
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                  • No 4 hr ago
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                    • just that i knew a few couples whe met in b school and they played very competitively and rough with their SOs. I had never seen that before. 3 hr 59 min ago
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    • In public? 4 hr 4 min ago
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    • Why don't you kick him in the nuts? 3 hr 59 min ago
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      • I will slap the lightly but I don't want to cause him serious pain 3 hr 57 min ago
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        • but when he goes to block them I try to jam my finger into his butt^ 3 hr 57 min ago
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          • Yes, good idea 3 hr 55 min ago
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      • No, just squeeze them 3 hr 57 min ago
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  22. Toddler My cat of 15 years got eaten my coyotes last night. I'm devastated. He was my first baby and I knew he would die, but I never thought it would be so violent and painful and I woul...(more) 4 hr 7 min ago (87 replies)
    dn't have his body to bury. I'm so upset.
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    • omg! 4 hr 7 min ago
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    • Aw, sorry. 4 hr 7 min ago
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    • so how do you know thats what happened? 4 hr 6 min ago
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      • This 4 hr 6 min ago
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      • She prob found the bones 4 hr 5 min ago
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        • well then she would have something to bury. 4 hr 3 min ago
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          • Reread 4 hr ago
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            • you reread. op said she didnt have anyhting to bury, and the person above me suggested she only had the bones. 3 hr 57 min ago
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              • You smell like poo 3 hr 56 min ago
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                • get your head out of my ass 3 hr 53 min ago
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                  • You smell like a fart 3 hr 52 min ago
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                    • I'm farting in your general direction. 3 hr 52 min ago
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                      • Your mother was a hamster 3 hr 51 min ago
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                        • you are a smelly pirate hooker. why dont you go back to your home on whore island? 3 hr 50 min ago
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                        • Lol 3 hr 42 min ago
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            • If she found bones she could bury them. 3 hr 56 min ago
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        • How does she know it happened? 4 hr 3 min ago
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          • What? 4 hr ago
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            • How does she know that her cat was eaten by coyotes. Someone made poor speculation. 3 hr 56 min ago
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        • That's your interpretation, I wonder what hers is. 4 hr 1 min ago
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      • He was at the sliding glass doors and dh was about to let him, he was meowing to be let him. He turned around to do something for 10 min, turned back around and he was gone. The...(more) 4 hr 1 min ago
        neighbor down the street called us exactly 15 minutes later because he heard us calling him in to say he thought he saw him in their yard and the coyotes had been violent (they live at the bottom of a gorge). The neighbors wife saw a dead cat in the driveway, neck broken, totally fitting our cat's description. By the time my dh got there cat was gone.
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        • Oy sorry 4 hr ago
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        • Your dh sucks. 4 hr ago
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          • well it was mistake. you know? I mean there had been nights he stayed out for 3 nights in a row and nothing happened. This particular night at 7pm it was a mistake. 3 hr 58 min ago
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            • He was begging to be let it because he smelled the coyotes and your dh wouldn't let him in. 3 hr 57 min ago
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              • Ok and? Np 3 hr 57 min ago
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                • And that's no mistake 3 hr 56 min ago
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              • OP - he was in a gated courtyard. He left. 3 hr 56 min ago
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              • she's just lost her cat. stop being a bitch, this was unnecessary. 3 hr 55 min ago
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        • Does dh feel guilty? 3 hr 59 min ago
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          • we both feel guilty. I was the one who needed his help with this thing. So stupid, just putting a roasting pan up high and dishes away. He said, let me put the cat in, I said,...(more) 3 hr 57 min ago
            just help me real quick. He stays in our gated courtyard all the time, he never leaves. There is a fountain and food there. I don't know why he left this time.
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            • This post has been disliked 3 times. showAt least it's both your faults, then 3 hr 55 min ago
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              • What the hell is wrong with you assholes?? Back off. She feels crappy enough. This place attracts some amazing people and some of the biggest morally bankrupt people I've ever...(more) 3 hr 53 min ago
                dealt with.
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            • How long does it take to open the door?? 3 hr 51 min ago
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              • Seriously, leave her alone. 3 hr 50 min ago
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              • well it's more comlicated then that. He doesn't live in the house. We have to walk him around to the office which is separate from the house. He lived in the office because he was...(more) 3 hr 49 min ago
                peeing all over the house. The was old and didn't like the kids. He peed all over their things.
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                • It was time for him to go. He likely didn't feel pain. He went into shock, he passed out, and he died very quickly without realizing what was happening. 3 hr 47 min ago
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                  • thanks. I keep telling myself this. My dh works from home, which is why the office is like a little casita separate from the house. He spent every day with him there. He is taking...(more) 3 hr 43 min ago
                    this very hard, because he spent every day with him, sitting on the computer.
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                • Ah, so you both wanted him to get eaten. 3 hr 46 min ago
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                  • You people are sick. 3 hr 44 min ago
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                • ^^the office was at the back of the property up some steps around the side (our property is around 2 acres) but he stays near the house all the time on the gated courtyard where...(more) 3 hr 46 min ago
                  we keep food there.
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            • You don't know why he left this time? BECAUSE HE IS A FUCKING CAT. Seriously?! You killed your cat by letting him outside knowing there is wildlife in the area. 3 hr 48 min ago
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              • and it OP had left her dog out in the yard and an animal attacked it...it would still be her fault? People leave their dogs outside all damn day & night 3 hr 43 min ago
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    • I am so so sorry honey. 4 hr 6 min ago
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    • yikes. 4 hr 6 min ago
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    • Omg where do you live?! 4 hr 6 min ago
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      • California. He was an indoor outdoor cat for 15 years. He knew to stay around the house...so bizarre that after 15 years this happened. 4 hr ago
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        • Np almost the same exact thi g happened to my mom's cat. She was so sad. I'm really sorry. :( 3 hr 51 min ago
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    • This post has been disliked 3 times. showMaybe you shouldn't have let cat out 4 hr 6 min ago
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    • time to go coyote huntin'. get the gun, elmer 4 hr 5 min ago
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    • This post has been disliked 3 times. showAnd this is why I don't let my cats outside. 4 hr 3 min ago
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      • STFU please 4 hr 3 min ago
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        • Well it is! Jesus. 4 hr 3 min ago
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          • Why say this now? How the hell does that make OP feel better. Someone is clearly in a lot of pain and you just want them to know you are a better cat owner. Fuck off. 3 hr 59 min ago
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            • THIS 3 hr 58 min ago
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            • You break it, you buy it. 3 hr 58 min ago
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              • What? 3 hr 57 min ago
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                • You heard me 3 hr 57 min ago
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                  • No I didn't 3 hr 55 min ago
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                  • That makes no sense as an analogy. Basically you are a shitty person with questionable english skills. 3 hr 55 min ago
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    • how awful. I am sooo sorry 4 hr 3 min ago
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    • I am so sorry for your loss! 4 hr 3 min ago
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    • I am so so sorry... I wish I could give you the biggest hug. That is so heartbreaking. 4 hr ago
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    • Aww. So sorry. We have coyotes too. They've eaten a few chickens but those weren't beloved family pets. 3 hr 52 min ago
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    • Why do you have an outdoor cat when you know there is wildlife in the area? And why didn't your dh respond to your cat immediately when it wanted to be let in? Next cat, please...(more) 3 hr 49 min ago
      make it an indoor cat.
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    • I hope it gives you peace that your beloved pet had a wonderful life for 15yrs. Our cats are indoor/outdoor cats and I struggled with that initially but it is their nature to be...(more) 3 hr 49 min ago
      outside. It is a risk but ultimately I believe they are happier. I am very sorry!!
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      • It isn't their nature. Cats are domesticated. They live happy lives indoors if you provide all the right stimulus. Asshole. 3 hr 46 min ago
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        • tell that to my cats...they didn't get that memo 3 hr 45 min ago
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        • uh, no 2 hr 57 min ago
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  23. Toddler We are going to Kona for spring break. Maui was our first choice but how can I be disappointed? 4 hr 7 min ago (7 replies)
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    • idk. how can you? 4 hr 6 min ago
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    • kona is better anyway 4 hr 6 min ago
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    • Hawaii is a long trip. Better to stay local for a place like you are going. 4 hr 1 min ago
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      • what? we want to go on vacation, why do we have to stay local? 3 hr 57 min ago
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    • Maui is kind of blah, anyway 3 hr 49 min ago
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  24. Toddler What do you think the weather in london in mid-September will be like? 4 hr 9 min ago (6 replies)
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    • Nice. 4 hr 9 min ago
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    • Crappy. And I live here. 4 hr 8 min ago
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      • how warm do you think--60F? 4 hr 8 min ago
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        • I don't know what 60F is in C - but it will probably be around 12C at best. 4 hr 6 min ago
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          • accuweather is telling me 18-20 on average; that's not so bad. 4 hr 5 min ago
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          • Funny. Uk changed to C in the early 1990s when I lived there. Can't get my head around it 4 hr 4 min ago
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  25. Toddler Where do people who aren't religious go for alcoholics meetings? i have a friend who's doing that, and she believes in god, so it's fine with her, but it's apparently ALL about...(more) 4 hr 9 min ago (42 replies)
    god.
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    • Rational recovery? 4 hr 9 min ago
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    • Not God: a higher power, which can be anything you want it to be 4 hr 8 min ago
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      • well i haven't been, but it sounds like it's really about god. and if you're an atheist, there is no higher power. 4 hr 8 min ago
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        • There is. That higher power can be anything you deem it to be, the universe, stars, nature, 4 hr 7 min ago
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      • This. The point of AA is surrendering and saying: I can't do this alone, I need help from something greater than myself, whatever that is, a shrine to trees, God, nature, etc. 4 hr 7 min ago
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        • but what if you don't believe in ANYTHING supernatural? 4 hr 7 min ago
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          • Friendship, community, the power of good people, positive energy, whatever 4 hr 5 min ago
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          • The universe is supernatural? Stars are supernatural? 4 hr 5 min ago
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            • no, i don't think they are actually. they are still govered by the rules of the natural world. 4 hr 5 min ago
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          • Fresh air can be the higher power 4 hr 5 min ago
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            • now that's just silly. 4 hr 4 min ago
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          • im an atheist too. you can believe god is what is ruling you and your ability to not let go. you can think of god as that temptation in life that doesn't let people have control....(more) 4 hr 4 min ago
            give into that
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          • you are sounding dumber by the minute 4 hr 4 min ago
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            • because i don't believe in supernatural phenomena? or i don't see how surrendering to something imaginary would work for me? it's just not part of my world view. 4 hr 2 min ago
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    • your higher power can be the good within people. your god can equal good will 4 hr 8 min ago
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    • atheist here: we just continue to drink 4 hr 8 min ago
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      • lol. you i like. 4 hr 8 min ago
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    • No - it's about whatever you want it to be- spiritual not "god" 4 hr 8 min ago
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      • maybe it's hearing it second hand, or maybe it's bc i'm in the south, but it sounds pretty religious to me. and not "higher power" - just jesus. 4 hr 7 min ago
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        • Not at all- spiritual not religion 4 hr 6 min ago
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          • but what if you aren't at ALL spiritual? i myself am an atheist, and just personally, anything about any kind of higher power just wouldn't make any sense to me. 4 hr 5 min ago
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            • Honey if you're looking for something in a bottle you should trust a higher power maybe 4 hr 4 min ago
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              • i don't have a drinking issue. friend does, she's talking about her experiences, and i'm curious. and i'm sure as hell not going to question her faith as she's going through a...(more) 4 hr 3 min ago
                difficult time
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                • She should try anything and see what fits 4 hr 2 min ago
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                  • i think it IS working for her, so no way am i going to get into a discussion with her about how it might or might not theoretically work for atheists 4 hr 1 min ago
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            • You're very small minded, then. 4 hr 4 min ago
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            • Thank god (or goodness) you don't need support then 4 hr 3 min ago
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              • well, true, for more than just theological concerns 4 hr 2 min ago
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    • Dh couldn't do it. Said AA is like a cult. 4 hr 7 min ago
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      • Is he still a drunken mess? 4 hr 7 min ago
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        • Nope 3 years sober. 4 hr 5 min ago
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          • What did he do instead of AA? 4 hr 4 min ago
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            • Knew he would lose everything if he continued. I had one foot out the door. 4 hr 3 min ago
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              • glad things worked out for you 3 hr 59 min ago
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      • some people need that feeling. others probably feel even worse with those messages 4 hr 4 min ago
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        • Dh said AA made him think about alcohol more than he ever had before. He was not an every day drinker though, he was a binge drinker. 4 hr 2 min ago
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          • sounds like his needs were just really different. 4 hr 1 min ago
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    • AA isn't terribly effective and it's not evidence based. 4 hr 6 min ago
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      • Neither are other rehabs. I went to dfs 25th anniversary and another woman was 31 years- I think they're great 4 hr 5 min ago
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    • Meetings are different in different places. Some really emphasize it, some don't. Find one with a level you can deal with. 3 hr 49 min ago
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