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  1. Toddler Single guy (i have a 5yo son who i have custody of) and i have no life. No friends, work a ton, not dating, don't even know where to begin. Haven't dated since ds mom. At all. In...(more) 1 min ago (2 replies)
    need of advice.
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    • Tell some young married dfs you are looking 42 sec ago
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      • No friends? Not at work? 19 sec ago
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  2. Toddler Are there any physical symptoms of alcohol induced lever damage? 2 min ago (2 replies)
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    • I don't want to know this, if you don't mind. 1 min ago
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    • itchy skin 15 sec ago
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  3. Television Cmj, am I pg? 3 min ago (0 replies)
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  4. Toddler My dh is ugly. He is a loser. He is a man child. 8 min ago (0 replies)
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  5. Toddler Mom with missing necklace-- read the short story called The Necklace- French author, I think Marnpasset?? It might be cathartic to read 11 min ago (3 replies)
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    • lol, I think i have read it years ago but no memory of it. I keep thinking it will turn up, but i don't think it will really. Cant figure out wtf happened! 4 min ago
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      • Read the story. Just read it. It's short, we can talk about it tomorrow 3 min ago
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        • i'll see if i can find it, ty 2 min ago
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  6. Toddler Cmj, will I make up with an old friend who was like a sister to me ? Been many yrs, I have written a coupleog emails in the past 11 min ago (0 replies)
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  7. Toddler I know it's late, but this still cracks me up......(more) 12 min ago (1 reply)
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  9. Toddler My dh quit wearing his wedding ring about 2 years ago. it bothered me. he said bc he lost weight he doesn't want to lose it. i told him to get it sized, he won't. these are my...(more) 14 min ago (21 replies)
    options...a. get him a new smaller ring, b. have his sized down a tad or c. quit wearing my own ring in protest. give me your opinion!
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    • Geezes.... so when you tell him it upsets you he what, rolls his eyes? 9 min ago
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      • no he says it's too big and he doesn't want to lose it so he likes to keep it by the bed 5 min ago
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        • OK.. but if it bothers you, he should go out and get it resized. It sounds like a story otherwise. 4 min ago
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          • yeah, he has no respect for me or my opinion unless it involves the kids. he does nothing i ask of him unless i get really angry. i just go around him on most matters, but i...(more) 2 min ago
            can't force him to wear this ring
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            • That sounds awful - to be treated like an idiot all the time and to not be heard to or matter. 1 min ago
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            • you have bigger issues in your relationship and you are focusing on this because it's symbolic. drop this and work on your relationship. you clearly loathe the guy. 1 min ago
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              • not really. i don't loathe him but i don't love him. he has no affection for me. i have to initiate sex or any sort of physical affection 2 sec ago
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    • i think there is something else going on. are you worried about his fidelity? my dh lost his ring years ago and i never think about it. 6 min ago
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      • no, i am annoyed he thinks it's not a big deal 4 min ago
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        • it's not though. does he wear other jewelry? does he wear a watch? 3 min ago
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      • Np. I had a df who lost hers right before she divorced and her therapist said it was very common 1 min ago
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    • why do you want him to wear it, its just a symbol a piece of metal 6 min ago
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      • ^and a ring has never stopped someone from cheating 5 min ago
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        • op: this i know. and that some women think it's even more attractive. he has a big job at a bank with a lot of women so that part is annoying 3 min ago
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          • now we're getting to the reason why this bothers you. you think he's flirting with women. 2 min ago
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            • i don't think he is flirting. he is not much of a flirt, but he sends a message to anyone in his office that he is a married man who won't wear a ring 1 min ago
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              • seriously, listen to me. it really doesn't send this message. most people don't care about this. 9 sec ago
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    • I only wear mine sometimes. I hate the feeling of things on me. 5 min ago
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    • put your foot down. Expecting your spose to wear a ring is not asking too much. Explain how much it means to you. 3 min ago
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    • My dh got his sized down when he lost weight. 2 min ago
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      • op: on his own, or did you ask him? thanks 50 sec ago
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  10. Toddler Besides his inability to make a decent living, this is way I think my dh is a loser. Last week we went to a simcha torah event at out temple. First there was a potluck . Before he...(more) 14 min ago (15 replies)
    Left the house , dh got stoned and then at potluck over ate. Eat to the point his stomach hurt. Once the dancing started, all dh could do was sit there like a lump and a dumb expression on his face. Couldn't dance, mingle, nothing. He is a loser.
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    • I und er stand your r3sentment. 11 min ago
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      • Ty. I wish he would disappear 9 min ago
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    • what attracted you to him when you first got together? 8 min ago
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      • He was different. Sweet, loving. 7 min ago
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      • schlong size 4 min ago
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        • Fairly big, but doesn't know how to use or 3 min ago
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    • Weird that he would get stoned before a family event at a synagogue. 5 min ago
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      • I 5 min ago
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      • I think it was the only way he could be ready to go. He hates socializing 4 min ago
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        • Is he Jewish? 3 min ago
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          • Half. Lots of men his age there 2 min ago
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            • Weird then. I'd just go without him. 2 min ago
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  11. Television Cmj. Please help me. Can you tell me anything about my husband? 16 min ago (22 replies)
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    • She hasnt been here in a long time, sadly 15 min ago
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      • Wasn't she just here? 13 min ago
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      • I'm here now! but I'm more than a little sucky 13 min ago
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        • anything on my school application stuff? or stull trying? or big void of nothing lol 13 min ago
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          • I'm working that below....or at least trying 12 min ago
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            • got it, i posted more info 10 min ago
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        • Cmj! You are? Omg! Please tell me, will i get pg?? 13 min ago
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          • ^^ we have missed you so much here! 10 min ago
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            • ^^regardless, please dont go away again 6 min ago
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        • Hi. Can you help me please? 13 min ago
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          • can only try. 11 min ago
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            • Please 11 min ago
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              • it takes a while to get used to this format, but I will definitely try. 10 min ago
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                • Please try. Please help me. 10 min ago
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        • Please try for me. Please. I have really needed to communicate with you. 11 min ago
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    • cmj here. i can tell you that he does not share a lot of information with you...(more) 12 min ago
      kidding
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      • ^not me 10 min ago
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        • If you are really cmj then please help me. I really need your help. 4 min ago
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    • oooh, can i try a silly questions? BC and SH? get anything? 7 min ago
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    • When will I get pregnant? Thank you. 6 min ago
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    • Hey CMJ, if you are here, I lost a necklace that meant a lot to me and was $$. Any idea where or if I will get it back? In my house or somewhere else? TIA! 3 min ago
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  12. Toddler I had a checklist for what I wanted in a husband. Like an actual checklist and when I dated boys I'd try to tick off the boxes. 2 of the more embarassing items on the list were...(more) 16 min ago (0 replies)
    "well endowed, especially girth" and another one was "easy to spell surname that goes well with my first name".
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  13. Toddler Psychic moms/ will my dh always be a loser ? 18 min ago (0 replies)
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  14. Toddler Uti starting maybe, and i need to ttc. What to do? 19 min ago (3 replies)
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    • take antibiotics, use lube, pee after sex, drink lots of water and pee a lot 17 min ago
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    • you need to ttc? and why cant you have sex with a uti? 12 min ago
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  15. Toddler Anyone here? 20 min ago (0 replies)
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  16. Toddler On the sex spectrum I definitely lean more prude. 20 min ago (2 replies)
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    • i love that other op! ybm has taught me so many things. like along with friends with benefits there are "mom with benefits". And just like the autism spectrum there is a sex...(more) 19 min ago
      spectrum. Prudes on one end, sluts on the other. thanks ybm
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    • i'm a big ole slut. just ask dh 19 min ago
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  17. Toddler I need halloween help! My six year wants a costume that will genuinely frighten people. Ideas? Is there a great store bought zombie or vampire costume? 21 min ago (2 replies)
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    • we bought a hideous skeleton costume from party city 4 min ago
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    • Putin 1 min ago
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  18. Toddler You know how some people are sluts and some people are prudes. If dh had an affair with a slut it would be much easier for me to forgive than if he slept with a prude. If he slept...(more) 23 min ago (17 replies)
    with a prude then I know he had to have chased her and worked hard to seduce her which would be a much much much bigger betrayal than just doing it with some slut who threw herself at him.
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    • that seems to work for all parties involved 23 min ago
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      • i have a clear idea of what I would and wouldn't forgive but I don't tell dh these things. He doesn't need a guideline to the types of extramarital sex I'll forgive. 21 min ago
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        • well I mean the "slutty" woman would probably be happy to not have to get serious with your douchey cheating dh, your dh gets to have some "slutty" sex, you get to feel superior 20 min ago
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          • i don't think i'm superior to anyone 18 min ago
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            • not even a slut who threw herself at your dh, which wouldn't bother you as much because she is... less than you? 16 min ago
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              • no, just that i'd be forgiving of dh if he was pursued compared to if he was doing the pursuing 15 min ago
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                • what if she was a slut who barely even tried to throw herself at him? 11 min ago
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                  • there's no barely, you either do or don't, if she does she's a slut 5 min ago
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                    • what if she thinkshes not married? 4 min ago
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                      • he wears a wedding ring. 4 min ago
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    • very non pc but I agree. I have friends, colleagues, neighbors who are on the sex spectrume, from slutty to prude. The closer they are to the prude end the harder it would be for...(more) 22 min ago
      me to forgive dh if he slept with them
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    • What if he's the slut? Why doesn't he have agency in your mind? 21 min ago
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      • Because I believe in gender differences. I don't think men and women are the same, especially when it comes to sex. 20 min ago
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    • If they are sleeping with a married man, they are a per se slut 7 min ago
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    • trouble is A) it is the quiet ones who break out when no one is looking and B) You'd NEVER look at any woman your DH is cheating with as a prude, even if she were. 6 min ago
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      • but if i already know them as a prude and dh slept with them then I'd feel he did the chasing. 5 min ago
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        • that is a very small subset of women then. Women you knew to be prudes prior to them hooking up with your DH. 3 min ago
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  19. Toddler I wanted to name my dd Brittnee. But dh put his foot down and said no weird spellings, no wrong gender names, no weird names. I'm so thankful know. Baby Brain made me so stupid...(more) 25 min ago (2 replies)
    for a moment and I really would have done it if it wasn't for him.
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    • I wanted to name DD Ella, in 2001. Thank God DH said no. 2 min ago
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      • ella isn't too bad 14 sec ago
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  20. Toddler There is a woman who is accounts receivable for a vendor I buy from. So whenever I go to the warehouse to select inventory , I see her and chat. She is very nice. She was pg, lasg...(more) 27 min ago (2 replies)
    Last time I saw her she was about 6 months or so really showing. Went in today, at least two months since last visit. She was not pg, I asked her if she had the baby. Told me she lost the baby. I wanted to cry for her. Told I was sorry and said nothing more. She was cheery enough, we just moved on. What do you say to someone in this position?
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    • just what you did. so sorry to hear that, you feeling ok? 26 min ago
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    • Nothing. Change the subject 26 min ago
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  21. Toddler Many years ago I had a cat who was dx'ed positive for toxo. Do I have it now? (This was years before my pregnancies, so I had no worries about fetal health back then)...(more) 31 min ago (2 replies)
    • likely. but I thought it was new infections which are worrisome to retuses? 27 min ago
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    • this should have been a concern. you dont know if you have it and it causes no symptoms 12 min ago
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  22. Toddler What are first names with slutty reputations 32 min ago (10 replies)
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    • Tiffany, Brittany, Amber 31 min ago
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    • Ashley, Taylor, Crystal 31 min ago
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    • Madison, Ashley. 31 min ago
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    • my neighbor has 2 daughters, Candi and Tiffani 30 min ago
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    • prudence, jane, hatty 28 min ago
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    • Sasha for some reason 27 min ago
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      • the sasha i know is sort of slutty 26 min ago
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    • Wanted to name dd Summer, friend said it was a stripper name. 23 min ago
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      • that's what my friend said for Madison. I still went with it 18 min ago
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    • Sonja, Tammy. 22 min ago
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  23. Toddler I'm done w 32 min ago (1 reply)
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    • ^^ sorry^^ having kids but if I had another dd I'd name her Calixta. 31 min ago
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  24. Toddler I watched a woman throw herself at dh and he had the awarness of a tree stump. Afterwards he said she was just being friendly. She was fluttering her eyes, holding his hand....(more) 33 min ago (4 replies)
    Hand on thigh. Complimenting him. And he insists she wasn't interested in sex.
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    • To him she wasn't. Consider his lack of awareness a good sign 32 min ago
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      • np, this. most women, even the slutty ones, won't directly proposition a married man to avoid the humiliation of a rejection. 31 min ago
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    • i do this with men sometimes and i am not interested in having sex 27 min ago
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    • I did this once and I felt bad about it. I was taking care of a patient and her boyfriend was so funny and charming. I couldnt help but be smitten. I felt bad afterwards. 26 min ago
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  25. Toddler Co worker named her Dd Cantella. Omg....cuntella is all I hear 33 min ago (4 replies)
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    • lol....my cousin's dd is Ainsley. I thought nothing until my mom said all she could think was Anus. lol. 32 min ago
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      • i love that name 26 min ago
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        • it's kind of a mouthful. I'd hate to have to say it every day 21 min ago
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    • all i hear is citranella or possibly citarella or cantana 27 min ago
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