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  1. Toddler Ex and I have 50/50 but DS lives with me Sun-Fri. I take him to school, get him picked up, pay for everything. I want to switch schools. Ex wants DS to stay in his current school....(more) 29 min ago (6 replies)
    It's a 30-45 minute RT, 2x a day. The school I want to put him in is STELLAR, and very close to me. But it doesn't offer Spanish immersion, like his current school does. EX will fight me on this... can he win? thanks
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    • I think it could go either way. Spanish immersion is viewed favorably, but excellent schools with repuatations are as well. The time is a big consideration for me. My kid going...(more) 22 min ago
      into high school next year is going to have a much longer commute, and I'm dreading it.
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      • ^all that said, if you're the one he lives with during the school week, and pay for everything, I can't see how this doesn't go your way. 21 min ago
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        • Court goes by child's best interest, not preference of he or she who pays more. That does not buy you more parenting rights. 18 min ago
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          • Well, the kid lives with her during the week, and she wants to move him to an excellent school closer to her home, avoiding the hour-plus commute, so I don't see how it doesn't go...(more) 16 min ago
            her way. Does that suit you better?
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    • Idk. Ask your lawyer. But a new lawyer -- yours sucks. 19 min ago
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  2. Toddler Can Presbyterians send their kids to Episcopal schools? 54 min ago (2 replies)
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    • only if they're not big Pressy jerks....(more) 50 min ago
      of course they can. tons of people send their kids to schools of religions they are not.
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    • There are Muslim and Jewish kids at our catholic school. Nobody cares 49 min ago
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  3. Toddler Is this the season finale of Downton? 56 min ago (4 replies)
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    • No 54 min ago
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    • Yes 47 min ago
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    • the bbc series's go differnently. they show some episodes, and then have a xmas epidsode. when we get them, the xmas episode is the 'finale' 20 min ago
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    • Sadly, yes. Feels like the season just began and now it's over! 15 min ago
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  4. Toddler So now Anna is suddenly in the clear? And how are they ok with Tom taking the grandchild away? 59 min ago (2 replies)
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    • She's only out on bail. And it's Tom's kid, he can do what he wants 54 min ago
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      • np This, exactly. Why should they be able to stop him? 11 min ago
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  5. Toddler Black Mirror is freaking me out. This show! I am worried for our future way more than I was. 1 hr 4 min ago (3 replies)
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  6. Toddler This place reeks of desperation and multiple respondents. Peace OUT, losers. 1 hr 4 min ago (2 replies)
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    • You don't need to formally sign out, you can just log off. 56 min ago
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    • omg. did we just lose our first 90s rapper!?!?!? you bitches! you scared him away. 19 min ago
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  7. Toddler Jihadi John's family is Bedoon. Makes a little more sense. They are a stateless people dwelling in Kuwait, not considered citizens. 1 hr 5 min ago (2 replies)
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    • Blech, they all belong in a fucking zoo. 1 hr 4 min ago
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    • do you mean bedouin? 41 min ago
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  8. Toddler NY'ers...We want to go to Legoland Westchester. Is this area easily driveable up from MD or should we take the bus in? Where's a good hotel to stay in near the LegoLand place? TIA...(more) 1 hr 11 min ago (6 replies)
    :) I know nothing about New York. Sorry! ;)
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    • if the legoland has a hotel you should stay there. when we went to one of the elgolands, staying at the actual hotel was a big part of the experience for the kids 1 hr 7 min ago
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      • I don't think this one does :( I wish we lived closer to a bigger one. 1 hr 7 min ago
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    • I do not think it is a very large/travelworthy place. Not like San Diego... But westchester is suburban. You drive up nj, cross over a bridge and bypass nyc streets. 1 hr 3 min ago
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    • It's not like the legoland parks in Florida and California. 30 min ago
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  9. Toddler Now we see why Rose's FIL doesn't believe in divorce 1 hr 16 min ago (4 replies)
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    • No one blinked an eye at rose being asked to keep this huge secret from her dh 1 hr 13 min ago
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      • And she seemed so unsurprised. And the wife is so accepting 1 hr 8 min ago
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        • Rachel did not catch on! 1 hr 1 min ago
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          • She didn't notice how her husband was acting? Everyone else did. 58 min ago
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  10. Toddler I am in despair. 9 yo DS has insomnia and often can't fall asleep until 11 or later (we wake him, painfully, at 7). He is still awake. Too scared of a dark house to turn off hall...(more) 1 hr 19 min ago (4 replies)
    lights but the lights keep me up (along with knowing he's awake. and - surprise- the insomnia is genetic- I have been tormented by it most of my own life.)
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    • I also have a 9 yo with incipient insomnia. I don't know what to do about it. She sneaks books no matter what I do and reads until...whenever. 1 hr 16 min ago
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    • Melatonin 1 hr 12 min ago
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    • have you tried melatonin? 1 hr 7 min ago
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    • friend just told me her son uses atomizer with lavender essential oil with good results 48 min ago
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  11. Toddler How is it fun for the women to go hunting and listen to all that banging 1 hr 25 min ago (5 replies)
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    • What banging? 1 hr 25 min ago
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    • do they ever get to shoot 8r they just have to stand there in the heather looking deciratuve? 1 hr 22 min ago
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      • And cowering and covering their ears 1 hr 17 min ago
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        • between playful exchange of banter 1 hr 15 min ago
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    • they could shoot, but often chose not to. 49 min ago
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  12. Toddler Kylie Jenner is 17. Her boyfriend is 25. 1 hr 31 min ago (26 replies)
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    • when i was 18 my boyfriend was 24, so it does not seem like a very big deal 1 hr 30 min ago
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      • technically illegal in some states including California 1 hr 30 min ago
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        • i think that is just ridiculous 1 hr 29 min ago
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          • what was wrong with your boyfriend that he was even interested in a 17yo?? 1 hr 6 min ago
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      • so because you were disgusting it is fine? 1 hr 22 min ago
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        • look who's wearing their crankypants. sounds like it's time for someone to go to bed. 1 hr 21 min ago
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          • ok, so to bed. 1 hr 21 min ago
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            • what a sad response 1 hr 20 min ago
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              • if you are sad...go to bed. ask you daddy, i mean dh, to help you. 1 hr 19 min ago
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                • you lack basic language skills 1 hr 19 min ago
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                  • Ask daddy to read this to you 1 hr 16 min ago
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                • Stop pretending to be different posters below. Pathetic. 1 hr 18 min ago
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    • I met my dh at 19. He was 27. Did not seem a big deal then 1 hr 30 min ago
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      • That's a big difference. 1 hr 26 min ago
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      • he's a criminal 1 hr 21 min ago
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        • np, sleeping with an adult is not criminal 1 hr 21 min ago
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        • np. this is not a crime anywhere in the US. get a grip. 1 hr 21 min ago
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          • It is a moral crime. He couldn't find a woman his own generation? 1 hr 19 min ago
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            • oh no, he might go to morality jail! 1 hr 19 min ago
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              • Sorry you have low standards. 1 hr 17 min ago
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                • you're bad at trolling. give up. 1 hr 16 min ago
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      • EWWWWWW wee desperate and he was a loser 1 hr 20 min ago
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      • oh...gross 1 hr 20 min ago
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        • np stop multiposting. there are barely any posters here right now, you're being so obvious 1 hr 19 min ago
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    • meh it's all about context, Kylie knows what she is doing 1 hr 26 min ago
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      • Mom pimps her out 1 hr 20 min ago
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  13. Toddler Lady Edith looks pretty with her hair down 1 hr 40 min ago (1 reply)
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    • Mary is pretty with her haircut but it makes her look even sharper 1 hr 39 min ago
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  14. Toddler Do you read your child's diary? it seems like many moms on here don't even hesitate. Did your mom read your diary? How did you feel? 1 hr 41 min ago (10 replies)
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    • no, absolutely not. and my mom didn't either. she thought privacy was very important. 1 hr 36 min ago
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    • NO I do not read their diaries. I have two boys. I gave them journals and promised them (and meant it) that I will not read them. I made them promise each other that they would...(more) 1 hr 36 min ago
      honor this as well. My mother read mine and it was a hideous violation of my privacy. I got in trouble for things that I thought and felt, even though they had no connection to anything I actually *did*. Can you tell I feel strongly about this?
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      • yes, and a similar thing happened to me. I totally agree with you, and yet, it's very tempting to read ds's online chats (especially with his gf) when he is at school. So far, I...(more) 1 hr 32 min ago
        have made myself resist.
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        • or: good for you. I understand the temptation, I am definitely tempted. The important thing is what we actually do, though. I would feel horrible if I went back on my word, and I...(more) 1 hr 30 min ago
          know you would too.
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    • They don't have diaries but all electronics are non-private. 1 hr 35 min ago
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      • so, do you read them? 1 hr 33 min ago
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        • Electronics? I have. It's not a secret. They know and they don't care. My job is to watch out for them. 1 hr 32 min ago
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          • so you don't ever feel like you're invading their privacy. Do you discuss their posts with them? 1 hr 31 min ago
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            • There is no expectation of privacy, so how could I invade something that doesn't exist? Of course I talk with them. We are very close. 1 hr 29 min ago
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    • I don't. My parents did and it was mortifying; horrible. 1 hr 18 min ago
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  15. Toddler So what's the deal with Ariana Grande? Is the lolita sex kitten thing her schtick intentionally or is it an accident? Does she know what she's doing when she goes for that angle?...(more) 1 hr 50 min ago (1 reply)
    Is it planned?I know she is 21 but she looks 14 and that thing appears to some creeps.
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    • appeals not appears^ 1 hr 49 min ago
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  16. Toddler Do you have white or cream trim in your house and what color are your walls? 1 hr 52 min ago (0 replies)
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  17. Toddler At her concert Ariana Grande dressed up in catwoman costume that looked like lingerie. She is really going for the sex kitten persona in a literal sense. 1 hr 57 min ago (2 replies)
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    • Every single show 1 hr 54 min ago
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    • Jesus. I haven't been on here since Christmas. Ariana Grande Mom is still here? 1 hr 54 min ago
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  18. Toddler Has your kid received a "likely letter" from a college they applied to in the fall? trying to ascertain how common these are. 1 hr 59 min ago (12 replies)
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    • That's for sports from the Ivies, right? 1 hr 59 min ago
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    • Sounds like a scam, honestly. Never heard of this. 1 hr 59 min ago
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      • schools send out a number of these to choice students. Penn sends them out, Dartmouth and a bunch of others. Curious if they've gone out already. 1 hr 58 min ago
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        • First or: they would have gone out in November 1 hr 57 min ago
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          • No they go out in feb. There are no likely letters for Ed. Just for the April date 1 hr 55 min ago
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            • Hmm. Dd's friend got a likely letter in November from Dartmouth. He was recruited for track/XC 1 hr 54 min ago
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            • what's the point of a feb letter? all acceptances are mailed in march anyway 1 hr 53 min ago
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        • Posted below. They have gone out 1 hr 56 min ago
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      • honestly you are woefully I'll infirmed 1 hr 20 min ago
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    • Only top colleges give them and only to a top percentage of applicants 1 hr 57 min ago
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      • and mostly athletes at our school. 1 hr 36 min ago
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    • go to college confidential and you will get an idea when each college sends them out. Williams sends them and not just to athletes for example. Cornell definitely sends them (DS...(more) 20 min ago
      got one) but they went out surprisingly late. Each college has a different schedule and a different strategy (some only send to athletes, very early for example).
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  19. Toddler Anyone on here have a kid who's received a l 2 hr ago (3 replies)
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    • No. But I have a kid who received a p. 2 hr ago
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      • ^^screwed up my post -- reposted it above. 1 hr 59 min ago
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    • dammit. i got a rock. 1 hr 59 min ago
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  20. Toddler Taylor Swift's got weird hands. 2 hr ago (0 replies)
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  21. Toddler Your favorite cheap food? (street food, fast food, whatever) 2 hr 1 min ago (12 replies)
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    • fish tacos 2 hr 1 min ago
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    • Chipotle or Bojangle's/Cook-Out when I'm in Virginia 2 hr ago
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    • Pizza. 2 hr ago
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    • street tacos 1 hr 59 min ago
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    • case sushi 1 hr 58 min ago
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    • Pollo Rico. 1 hr 57 min ago
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    • tamales 1 hr 57 min ago
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    • if bahn mi counts as street food, then that- but I don't have ready access to it being in westchester. Pizza is my standby fav. Love anything filled, like dosas and dumplings. 1 hr 57 min ago
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      • bahn mi is my favorite food ever in the history of food 1 hr 56 min ago
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        • or: I concur. 1 hr 46 min ago
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    • Chick Fil A. Fried chicken with a side of corporate bigotry. Yum 1 hr 56 min ago
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      • Fucking delicious. 1 hr 51 min ago
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  22. Toddler Hilarious!!!...(more) 2 hr 3 min ago (1 reply)
  23. New York City Has anyone had a neuropsych done for child at Sinai, Child Mind, or Columbia? Feedback appreciated. 2 hr 6 min ago (0 replies)
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  24. Toddler Why does sibbie call Robert donk? 2 hr 7 min ago (3 replies)
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    • Bc she can 2 hr 6 min ago
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    • Why does any kid call their grandparents by some random weird name? 2 hr ago
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    • Because he let her ride on his back. Donkey 2 hr ago
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  25. Toddler 7 yo dd- 2cnd grade- has had the same best friend since kindergarten. all of a sudden over the past few months, friendship over. dd says she plays with 2 other girls- who i know...(more) 2 hr 8 min ago (22 replies)
    are family friends with dd's bff. the kids mom has actually called me and told me her dd says my dd is mean. dd sort of upset. not sure what to do.
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    • Is dd mean? 2 hr 7 min ago
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      • i dont think so. but to be perfectly honest i dont know what going on in school. iknow the class as a whole is not workingwell. 2 hr 6 min ago
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        • maybe her dd feels left out? 1 hr 55 min ago
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    • Dd might be mean. Have you looked into it? 2 hr 6 min ago
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      • i know the class as a whole is having issues.my dd says other kid being mean to her.so they are both blaming the other. 2 hr 5 min ago
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        • Realize that kids don't stay with the same friends forever 2 hr 3 min ago
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    • I'm sorry I don't have advice for you, but gong through similar thing so feel for you. I think the answer is just minimal use all childhood drama, to the extent you can. 2 hr 5 min ago
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      • what?minimilize? 2 hr 4 min ago
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        • Yes. Teach your kids to always be kind, but don't place too much weight in slights of others 2 hr 2 min ago
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          • my heart just breaks for her to be unhappy. 2 hr ago
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            • I know. But I thibk our job is to teach them how not to be unhappy because of what someone else says,, as long as they are being good person the,selves 1 hr 58 min ago
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      • how old is yours? 2 hr 4 min ago
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        • 7 2 hr 2 min ago
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          • But first grade, just had birthday 2 hr 1 min ago
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    • From experience I am going to say that your dd feels threatened by her BFF having some new friends and she is mean to them. You have to tell her that this is how friends evolve...(more) 2 hr 3 min ago
      and you can't try to hold onto a friend by scaring others away. It never workss
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      • i actually dont think this is whats going on,knowing the other kids. 2 hr 1 min ago
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        • Ok. But develipmentally this is typical of the age. In a few yrs they form cliques and it is easier 1 hr 59 min ago
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          • op: we had parent teacher conferences last week and teacher actually said there are cliques going on in classroom,evnethoght they are way too young. said very socially savvy. 1 hr 57 min ago
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            • Now I've heard it all. Pride because your dc got into cliques eat 1 hr 48 min ago
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              • Early. Going out on a limb, you are part of the problem op. 1 hr 47 min ago
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              • what? no, shes not in the clique. and no one is happy there are cliques forming 1 hr 47 min ago
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                • the cliques forming is pretty much inevitable. DD needs to learn to find girls who like her -now, not last week - and hang out with them. The way to miser is to try and get in, or...(more) 1 hr 42 min ago
                  back in, a group that doesn't want you.
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