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  1. Toddler I'm feeling a little adrift and want to do some volunteer work. Has anyone had a particularly gratifying, ongoing volunteer experience. I've done soup kitchen and am looking for...(more) 36 sec ago (0 replies)
    something a little more, almost like an unpaid part time job. I'm interested in women, substance abuse, parenting and fitness
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  2. Toddler Is it really dangerous to shower during a thunderstorm? 36 sec ago (0 replies)
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  3. Toddler How much do you find that anxiety or stress affects you physically? Do you actually notice physical signs or symptoms that you can attribute to anxiety, or is more just the...(more) 44 sec ago (0 replies)
    emotional stress?
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  4. Toddler How can a 10 foot python get in your toilet? 1 min ago (2 replies)
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  5. Toddler Fuck I have to go pick up dcs and bring them to an external work meeting (It's @ government, I'm in nonprofit). Can they play ipad in lobby? 1 min ago (2 replies)
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    • ^7 and 9 fwiw. 1 min ago
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    • yes. bring them upstairs 49 sec ago
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  6. Toddler There was a fat kid in my daughter's second grade class. He was the fattest kid in the class. He was also a leukemia survivor who'd just gone into remission and the medicine he'd...(more) 2 min ago (4 replies)
    been taking accounted for his weight gain. The thought of someone judging his parents for this makes my blood boil.
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    • Who judged? 1 min ago
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    • I feel this way for my sister, she eats so healthy, exercises, takes care of herself but she has always been big since we were kids and PCOS only makes it harder for her :( 45 sec ago
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    • Yup, my acquaintence's dd is very fat and it's due to chemo, meds, etc. from cancer. 38 sec ago
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    • I think 99 percent of people would be able to figure out that the kid wasn't well 7 sec ago
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  7. Toddler Dd (8) has severe myopia. any recos? we saw ken cooper, but nervous to not get second opinion. tia 2 min ago (4 replies)
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    • Anything else ormisolated myopia? CongenitL or new nset? How old a kid? 1 min ago
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      • 8. astigmatism also 58 sec ago
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    • how severe? what's the rx? 49 sec ago
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  8. Toddler A debate between Bernie and trump will alternate between being hysterical and being painful 3 min ago (7 replies)
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    • I hope they both wipe each other off the face of the earth. 2 min ago
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    • Well if Hillary was not scared to debate Bernie this would never happen. 2 min ago
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      • lol. she's hardly scared. that's the complaint of her, too confident. so which is it? you want her hubris or her fear? 1 min ago
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      • she's not scared. she's bored. so am I. that man is a broken record on 3 speeds. Come the fuck on 1 min ago
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      • she's busy running for the presidency. She doesn't have time for his fraternity pranks anymore 1 min ago
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    • She wins, we lose. 2 min ago
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    • maybe she'll benefit by being above that vulgarity. 6 sec ago
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  9. Toddler How close are you to your father? 4 min ago (14 replies)
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    • not at all, he's dead. 3 min ago
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    • have not spoken in 12 years 3 min ago
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      • Ditto! But he's been dead for 20 2 min ago
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        • interesting 2 min ago
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        • So he talked to you for 8 years after his death....wonder why he stopped! np 1 min ago
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    • Reasonably. 3 min ago
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    • Very close! My hero. 2 min ago
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    • very close 2 min ago
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    • Very close. He's that person. The one who always has your back no matter what. And unlike with my mom, our personalities don't compete. 2 min ago
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      • how do you and your mom's personalities compete? 1 min ago
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    • close 2 min ago
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    • he died last year, but we were never close. Openly favoring my brothers my whole life will do that 1 min ago
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    • not close at all 1 min ago
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    • not at all. he got really religious and moved to israel. i dont fit in his world. and honestly, he doesnt fit in mine. 52 sec ago
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  10. Toddler I likes when the Housewives shows were actually about THEIR lives, their families, parents, jobs etc. THese forced social interactions and parties really diminish what originally...(more) 4 min ago (7 replies)
    drew me in.
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    • bethenny snapping on everyone is really turning me off. she was such a raging bitch to luann this week 3 min ago
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      • She is lonely, its so obvious. She never had any real freinds except that one from florida 2 min ago
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        • she flipped when luan was saying she was staying with sonja to help her out etc etc....I mean mental flip out 44 sec ago
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      • Bethanny is not a happy person thats why 1 min ago
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    • same, I don't understand why they do that. My favorite parts are by far them in their own environments with family, significant other, shopping... 3 min ago
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    • It was all always fake. Sorry to shake the very foundations of your beliefs. 2 min ago
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  11. Toddler Do you touch men routinely, as in joking around, tap on arm, hug....I never do that, thinking of touch like this, not romantic, fun...(more) 4 min ago (4 replies)
    • Nope 4 min ago
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    • She's gotta do something about those eyebrows 4 min ago
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    • Yes but I am from a touchy people. That's just being friendly. Pat on the arm, back, etc. Nothing sexual. 3 min ago
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    • No, I don't touch people and I don't like it when people touch me. 3 min ago
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  12. Toddler If a man you are dating comes over on a spontaneous invitation Wednesday night, arrives at 8pm and first wants to go for dinner, spends the night and in the morning before getting...(more) 4 min ago (11 replies)
    Ready to leave for work, lies in bed with you joking/talking/teasing each other, he is into you right?
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    • Did we fuck? 4 min ago
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    • come on 4 min ago
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    • hello....of course!! 3 min ago
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    • Id think he might be. 3 min ago
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    • Why are you so insecure? 2 min ago
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      • Just happy again after a sexless marriage... 1 min ago
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    • so if this means "not into you", then what would "into you" look like? 1 min ago
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      • Well, he doesn't give me too many compliments although he can't keep his hands off me and he is not one of those daily testers 40 sec ago
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  13. Toddler What did RHONY John say with respect to the phone being wet? I missed this convo 5 min ago (6 replies)
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    • he is repulsive 4 min ago
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    • He is so so so gross 4 min ago
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    • that was so wierd..the entire table cringed 2 min ago
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      • What was the conversation and what did he say? 1 min ago
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    • it was some dumb sex joke, and it really makes me wonder why I cringe when I say something mildly wrong, this guy is still friends with people after such crap! 2 min ago
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    • omg ramona going on & on about how she dated him...get a life 1 min ago
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  14. Toddler Who are some cool people you follow on IG/FB? i love scary mommy, honest toddler, single dad laughing 5 min ago (7 replies)
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    • Eddie Huang 5 min ago
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      • op-oooh i love fresh off the boat, gonna check him out 4 min ago
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    • honest toddler must be in 1st grade or so now 5 min ago
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      • bunmi ladtam-is the creator she has 3 kids and she is SO funny 4 min ago
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    • Dig this chick 4 min ago
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    • the dance moms kids, the modern family cast 4 min ago
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    • Beth Stern, she fosters kittens. 3 min ago
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  15. Toddler I rewatch The OC. What a great show. 5 min ago (0 replies)
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  16. Toddler There is someone on YBM who shares my wedding anniversary. 17 years this weekend- I hope you guys are still together! 5 min ago (4 replies)
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    • Mine is the 30th. 18 yrs for us! 4 min ago
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    • My parents. 51yrs 4 min ago
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  17. Toddler So ds prek teacher told me that last week staff bathroom was broken, teachers were going downstairs to starbucks to use the bathroom, and director was deducting them for that...(more) 6 min ago (8 replies)
    time. is this legal? this is an EEC with preschool and UPK
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    • wow, that's awful and cannot imagine it is legal 6 min ago
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      • op, she made them punch in and out. nuts 4 min ago
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        • np - I would seriously consider moving my kid. Imagine the kind of atmosphere that director is creating. A good preschool teacher wouldn't stand for that, which means that the...(more) 2 min ago
          only people working there are the dregs who can't find a better job.
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    • that's ludicrous 5 min ago
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    • Is that the only bathroom in the building? If not it is legal. 5 min ago
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      • yes, the other bathrooms are the little kid ones which adults ar enot allowed to use 5 min ago
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    • not legal imo. 4 min ago
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    • definitely not legal. 4 min ago
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  18. Toddler Remember when people used to sneer "barack hussein obama" with the emphasis on hussein? where are those losers now? 7 min ago (10 replies)
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    • trump rallies 7 min ago
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    • wearing red baseball caps 6 min ago
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    • Um. getting ready to vote for donald trump, der 6 min ago
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    • voting for Trump. 5 min ago
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    • 50% of the country dislikes president Obama. We are everywhere. 4 min ago
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      • and you "dislike" him in that fashion? 3 min ago
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        • I think it was silly that he pretended to be a Christian but I don't particularly care what his middle name is. 3 min ago
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          • he attended a christian church. and didn't have any other religion. but people try to insert ugliness where they can. 2 min ago
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            • He attended a militant black church to get elected in Chicago. 1 min ago
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              • he attended a christian church in chicago, yes 50 sec ago
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  19. Special Needs Any opinions about the Ideal School on the UWS? I have a DS with ADD & LD with slow processing. He has no social/emotional issues but is failing in public school. 8 min ago (0 replies)
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  20. Toddler Neighbors divorced when kids were 5,5, 7. They moved out of family home into two nearby homes and kids could walk back and forth. They did this for a year. They all moved from DC...(more) 8 min ago (10 replies)
    to LA "to be in the sunshine" and lived in one house. For two years. The parents said they "wanted to be friends but not lovers". They said this to their kids. And now I got an email today from the mom that it "didn't work out living together and LA didn't work out" so they want to move back to our neighborhood renting two places and can they stay w/ us while they find those places? Uh, no. No hot messes, thank you. feel for those kids but no.
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    • Wow, that's ballsy of her 7 min ago
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    • crazy people. 6 min ago
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    • aw. guess you are not good friends. 5 min ago
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      • Correct. I never said we were, though. We were friendly neighbors. 4 min ago
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    • I love the crazy 5 min ago
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    • Those poor kids. 5 min ago
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    • My ex and I have places next door and a one place together, our dd loves it 4 min ago
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      • OP here - I am sure it can work well 3 min ago
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      • I was distracted and totally misread this so ignore my response 3 min ago
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      • but you probably wouldn't all relocate and live in the same house with your ex again, as friends 2 min ago
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  21. Toddler Has the worst of the allergy season passed in NYC? 9 min ago (8 replies)
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    • Depends on what youre allergic to. Such a dumb question 9 min ago
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      • it's like when someone asks, "Is there a virus going around?" 8 min ago
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        • Np: ita. I fucking hate that question. 7 min ago
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      • I'm allergic to tree nuts. 7 min ago
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        • it's a long allergy season for you, sister. 7 min ago
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      • I figured she meant b/c of the news stories the past few weeks about how bad "the allergy season" would be this year, just in general 7 min ago
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    • Barely started 8 min ago
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    • i think most of the pollen is passed. 5 min ago
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  22. Toddler I think I must have seasonal allergies (developed very recently). My eyes aren't a problem, but my nose runs constantly. If you know, which is most effective - allegra, zyrtec...(more) 10 min ago (3 replies)
    or claritin for this?
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    • Flonase + Claritin 7 min ago
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    • I like Claritin and hate Zyrtec (it makes me groggy and dehydrated). Some people don't think Claritin works. Try one and see--it's a toss up 7 min ago
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      • I have to take Claritin for a period of time before it is really effective 5 min ago
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  23. Toddler And what are the Obamas going to do for employment post White House? 10 min ago (29 replies)
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    • Golf 9 min ago
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      • yeah maybe he can get a job as a caddy at Congressional....(more) 9 min ago
        KIDDING
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    • Speaking fees of minimum $10,000 an hour 9 min ago
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      • more $$ than that 9 min ago
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      • more like $100K. Mitt Romney gets about $100K per speech (and a speech is less than an hour). my firm researched hiring him for a keynote speech. 7 min ago
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    • Speeches 9 min ago
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    • i heard barack was going to hang around his ranch and take up acrylics. 9 min ago
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      • yup. going to cut some brush. eat some steaks. paint myself. 8 min ago
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        • lol at "cut some brush." Reagan did that, W did it. what is it with presidents wanting to cut brush? 4 min ago
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          • unmanly men who want to appear rugged. 4 min ago
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            • this. soft, coddled people who want to feel tough. 3 min ago
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              • np- they probably only do it for about 5 minutes while cameras are around 57 sec ago
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          • It is more interesting than golf. 3 min ago
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      • np at first thought you mean doing nails and was imagining how nice it would be to sit and have a chat while he put a full set on me 5 min ago
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        • yeah. you could talk about jesus and baseball and stuff. 4 min ago
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          • I am not into baseball and I don't talk to people I don't know about jesus but lots of stuff for sure 3 min ago
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    • give speeches 9 min ago
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    • Michelle will go back to law 8 min ago
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    • lol. make speeches. or nothing. they are fine. 8 min ago
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    • i bet Barack eventually takes a job teaching law at Harvard or something 8 min ago
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      • U of Chicago 7 min ago
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      • I don't think a former 2-term president would do that. 3 min ago
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    • White House Correspondents Dinner was just a warm up act 7 min ago
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    • sit on boards. consult. 2 min ago
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  24. Toddler Why the hell is Bernie doing this. Go the fuck away. I loved you, but you are going to ruin the next 4 years 10 min ago (8 replies)
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    • Whats the latest 10 min ago
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      • this debate nonsense 10 min ago
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        • i dont know what youre talking about? he wants another debate? 2 min ago
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          • He and Trump have agreed tpo debate, sans Hillary 38 sec ago
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    • i hate that douchenozzle now 9 min ago
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    • Every night, Trump thanks god for Bernie Sanders 9 min ago
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    • The next four years are going to be pretty bad regardless of which terrible candidate becomes president. 45 sec ago
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  25. Toddler Recently divorced and seeing a guy 6 yrs younger. Never married no kids, early 30's. Has a stable job (engineer) and just bought his own place. It's pretty obvious I have way more...(more) 10 min ago (39 replies)
    Money than him. But I am a sahm. When we went out the first time, he paid, but then after that I picked it up and then we split it after that. Is it normal to split the bill these days? Feels weird. Tia
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    • Holy shit, how much do you get per month? 10 min ago
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      • A lot. But that's besides the point. 10 min ago
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        • "beside" the point and nicely done. How long were you married and how many kids? 8 min ago
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    • I always split. Then I don't owe anyone anything 10 min ago
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      • Ok just wondering if it's customary 9 min ago
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      • Why would you feel like you owed them anything? 7 min ago
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        • I woldn 7 min ago
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          • I'm sorry 6 min ago
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          • ^I wouldn't. But when its not wokring out, I never have to feeltheir judgment on the money thing. 6 min ago
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    • Do you lose your money when you get remarried 9 min ago
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      • Yes 9 min ago
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        • so you'll never remarry? 8 min ago
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          • I have no idea. This is all pretty new 7 min ago
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    • never understood how one can be single and a sahm. i work full time and cannot afford to be a sahm????? 9 min ago
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      • she married money 8 min ago
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        • Actually I supported him for years.... Till he made money. Quit 2 years ago when our 3rd was born 8 min ago
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          • aren't you going back to work? The support won't last forever. 29 sec ago
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      • What's there not to get? I just got divorced. Dh owes me alimony for a long time bec I quit to support his career and we have young kids. He left me for someone else 8 min ago
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        • Whether he left is immaterial to alimony and child support. Alimony is not the norm these days, hence the surprise on here. 5 min ago
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          • He makes a lot of money. I was the breadwinner for years till he made money and agreed I'd take some time off when our third child was born 4 min ago
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      • husband is rolling in the dough 8 min ago
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      • Rich ex-dh. But she'll be crying in 10 years when support ends and she didn't take the time to reestablish her career 7 min ago
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        • Thanks for your concern. I'm interviewing for jobs now 7 min ago
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          • Then I'm not concerned. You aren't one of those 5 min ago
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            • Thanks for giving me a pass. I guess 5 min ago
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    • you lose the alimony if you remarry, right? 9 min ago
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    • The obvious way to deal with this is to stop going places and just stay home and fuck. 9 min ago
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      • Or go places that are more affordable for him. 8 min ago
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        • that's stupid. They should totally just fuck. 7 min ago
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          • Op- we do absolutely fuck. He's great in bed 6 min ago
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            • so, start cooking at home. just have him over, split wine, eat dinner and screw. 4 min ago
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              • We do that on weekends when ex has the kids. But I have them during the week every day. He has dinner with them one night a week then brings them back home. That's when I usually...(more) 3 min ago
                have dinner/drinks with my "BF" (not sure if he's that just yet) so we go to his place after
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                • If you really want to, take turns paying. But splitting the bill is just horrible. I never do it even with friends. 1 min ago
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                  • Honestly, I don't either. But my friends have money too. So I am wondering if my perspective is warped. The guy certainly isn't poor but def doesn't have the kind of money my...(more) 1 min ago
                    social circle has
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            • Sounds awesome 3 min ago
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    • I won't split a bill, sorry. 8 min ago
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      • You aren't sorry so why say sorry? And I don't get women like you. You want to be equals but men pay for dates 2 min ago
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